Hi, could really use some redpill advice.

So to get anyone reading this up to speed. My gf and I broke up 4 months ago from what I would call a great relationship. She was going through some stuff at the time and it got to much for her.

During that time I started seeing a couple other girls very casually.

I went 4 months of nocontact, until about a week ago when she reached out as I to the same city as her. She asked to meet up. We caught up and everything was like it was back to normal, flirting, etc etc. We ended up making out when saying our goodbyes.

She wanted to meet up again on wednesday, we again had a good time, a lot of sexual energy and chemistry between us. She then wanted to have a chat as she didnt know how she felt about us hanging out and said she just wanted to be friends but could see how easy it would be to go back into a relationship or us sleeping together again.

She also mentioned that she had started seeing this guy six weeks after we broke up, but didnt see any long term compatibility and he was moving away. (Probably higher SMV than me?). So that was coming to an end.

I told her that being friends wouldnt be a good idea as we had so much chemistry and it didnt really interest me. I told her I wasnt looking to jump back into a relationship but to keep things fun and see what happens.

She said lets just be friends. I told her to message me if she changes her mind.

Since yesterday shes been lighting up my phone asking me what im doing, etc etc. Is the appropriate response to just tell her to not contact me unless she wants to hang out/changes her mind?

Personally it feels as though she wants me on the backburner. Could use some serious advice, as Im gonna send her a message today.