To have really great mind blowing sex you have to have an emotional connection. If you're out there being a player having ONSs you're not going to experience this. I'm not even saying this is exclusive to monogamy, you can very well have an emotional connection with your plates. All I am saying is the barrier between mediocre sex and mind blowingly great sex is psychological, not physiological. You have to be emotionally invested in someone to truly have awesome sex.

Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/32dayj/sex_is_not_that_good/cqa5ddg

How does one balance the emotional connection?

I suppose, ideally, the emotional connection

  • should be strong enough that you enjoy the intimacy and the person as much as possible

  • should NOT be TOO strong so that you can still be alpha, logical, sane and be ready to move on.

Although, it seems like attaching to someone kindof means you wouldn't be ready to move on. I'm especially curious about this because I have an addictive personality.