TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

the_red_monk Archive

View 2 posts and 252 comments by the_red_monk on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

Free dread... exactly how I read it to.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 09:49 PM
1

Thanks for the advice. Yeah, lawyer up hard. I think he might already have some video evidence but yeah that's a good idea.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 01:14 AM
3

Do some freebies for your portfolio and network/cold-call like a motherfucker.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 05:47 PM
1

Polymath, autodidact. Take your pick.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 06:01 PM
1

Take responsibility for everything that happens in your life even if it's not your fault. Set goals and move towards them. When in doubt take action. Lift. Realize that every moment is one step closer to death.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 08:25 PM
1

Usually just drinks or coffee. Not texting too often. Employ the 2/3 - 1/3 rule and mostly just logistics. Some light teasing here and there. I could maybe post an example when I get more time. Thanks.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 06:27 PM
1

I would think you would first need to know if they're available or not before going this route. But I'm assuming that's what you mean. I'll try the "commanding" approach and see what happens. I've been hesitant to take that approach so far since I assumed it would scare them off. Worth a try.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 05:56 PM
1

I'm also in my early 30s and tend to date in that same age bracket. I don't tend to chat too much and try to arrange a date soon after getting the number. There must be something else I'm not doing.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 05:53 PM
1

That's actually not been my experience. Hotter chicks are usually more entitled.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 03:22 PM
3

"There's the door, if you don't like it you can leave." Careful with this one, it's nearly nuclear, and requires a strong frame. Use sparingly.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 03:12 PM
3

The comments about living in your mother's basement and university and money are indicators that she doesn't see enough ambition to stay attracted to you. In short, you got too comfortable and didn't continue to work on yourself and improve your station. Also, she might be a gold-digging whore and if you can't provide her the life-style she thinks she deserves, then she will find someone else if she hasn't already. Didn't have the patience to read the rest of the post. Clearly you haven't intern…
/r/askTRP11/04/17 03:11 PM
3

Everything in this revolves around the woman. Give you one guess what the problem is.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 03:05 PM
5

Hilarious.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 03:03 PM
1

I already have. I have friends who smoke daily but I don't keep them as close.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 12:58 AM
3

Everyone I know who smoked daily lacked ambition and their lives stalled.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 05:29 PM
1

I'm a sigma and I've re-typed this sentence three times until I realized I was wasting my time trying to explain something you can't really explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 07:21 PM
1

If you're playing to impress you're doing it for the wrong reasons. Play what you like and do it well, that alone will be impressive enough.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 03:49 PM
3

Accept that no matter what you do there will always be consequences. Good or bad, it doesn't matter. Many of those consequences will be unintended. Learn from your past mistakes and move forward. Action is better than dwelling. When in doubt just take action towards a better you. Eventually those things won't be as painful. Some lessons are painful to learn. That's the life of a man.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 03:45 PM
5

Ask her out. Don't text too much. There's no magic window.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 05:11 PM
1

Gym in a swanky or upscale area.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 03:21 PM
3

reddit.com
/r/askTRP23/10/16 03:17 PM
1

Not yet, but honestly that's not what I'm going for right now. Maybe eventually...
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:31 PM
5

Not married but FRs like this are the reason I read MRP. Great post, thanks for taking the time to share it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 04:29 PM
3

Fat is lost in the kitchen. Learn to wield a chef knife and not only will you shed the pounds... being a good cook is a panty-dropper.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 08:04 PM
1

Never done that. Also, I'm not sure I get clear verbal consent before marching forward that much of the time anyways. It's consenting, just not "hey, so for the record you want to have sex right now right?" That would kind of be a mood killer... I just try to avoid the crazy ones.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 06:07 PM
10

Bros before hoes. OP has plenty of other options, no reason to snipe the girl his bro is working on. I had a bro do this to me once. This was during my pre-trp days mind you. That was the last straw in a string of less than stellar bro behavior. Needless to say he and I are no longer bros anymore. If OP's bro friend man's up chances are he'll realize he no longer needs a bro douche for a friend.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 03:05 PM
1

Leave 'em for the rest of us mate. Concentrate on your studies. Seriously though...wtf? Just grow a pair. There's no magical shit we can say or give you that will instantly turn you into a man.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 02:56 PM
2

Or maybe we're putting the effect before the cause...men will get attached when they get mind-blowing sex. The two best lays of my life were with broken women who were both cheating on their bfs/fiancees with me. The fling lasted far longer than it should have in either case. I definitely got attached. This was in my pre-TRP days. I still think about them...
/r/askTRP06/10/16 02:50 PM
46

Nice. Bonus points if you can patch things up for the ex and make it a threesome.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 02:45 PM
3

I've never been married so I can't speak to that. I can tell you that some women are like this and a lot of women aren't. Not masturbating is usually a symptom of shame and tends to come from a conservative upbringing most commonly connected with religion. Women more than men are psychological creatures and have different needs in terms of this for reaching an orgasm. Chances are your wife still feels shame around sex, orgasms and masturbation which prevents her from enjoying sexual things as mu…
/r/askMRP05/10/16 04:41 PM
1

For most of us it takes a few of these until we finally wisen up. It sucks but nothing about being a man was ever easy and that's just how you earn your stripes if you ask me. I'm sure you'll be more cautious next time. If you're lucky you will see the game for what it is and hold on to your trump cards even after she gives up some of that sweet pussy.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 04:28 PM
3

This is allowed to persist because the majority of men are like beggars when it comes to getting laid. Law of supply and demand has artificially driven prices up in the sexual market place. It's a seller's market. Women can demand outlandish things because men are willing to pay it. The man who reject's this has done the absurd and bruised their ego, therefore he must be shunned. That's one way to look at it. Through a different lens it's just one massive shit-test. If you can see through all of…
/r/askTRP05/10/16 04:22 PM
5

This sounds like one of my exes who I later realized fit the bill for BPD. Maybe you're girl isn't that bad but she definitely has some serious abandonment issues it sounds like. No amount of texting or other forms of reassurance is going too fix that. It's like trying to fill a bucket with a hole in it. She's asking for more texting because she thinks you can solve her problem, but you can't. In the long-term she needs to come to terms with her own feelings, take responsibility for them, and do…
/r/askTRP04/10/16 07:42 PM
1

The word you're looking for is "validation." It's the currency basic bitches deal in. Learn it. Love it. Use it. Profit.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 07:37 PM
1

Hey do you have a book or source for this? Thanks for the post. I've heard of this before but this was good reminder.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 07:36 PM
5

Own it. Although no woman will admit it and many will call you an asshole to your face; every woman wants to fuck a player. Just like ex-plate they think eventually they will be able to tame you. She's giving you free advertising. You can use this to your advantage. Deflect, amused mastery, agree and amplify, be shameless about it.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 04:41 PM
1

No man is an island. Believe me I've tried to disprove this several times over. Friends matter.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 03:24 PM
2

Chat up strangers just like you would a woman when you approach.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 03:21 PM
1

What if anything has he done to you or your wife? Not your family, not your problem if you ask me. Of course, if you have skin in the game you just out maneuver him. No need to use excessive force unless provoked. Escalate as necessary. Careful about blowing his shit up reputation wise or you may have to deal with blow-back. Allow him a graceful exit if possible. A man with nothing left to lose is dangerous. If it were me I would become chummy with the Grandfather in Law and the rest of the fami…
/r/askTRP30/09/16 08:13 PM
1

Now looking back, there were numerous instances of IOI. Arm squeezing, continued play fighting, shit tests everywhere, tickling, random messages in the middle of the night on Facebook that I couldn't explain. I distinctly remember her saying once that she "loved when guys got the short stubble beards" like I had. This was painful to read. With entitled rich brats you have to tease them mercilessly and have implacable frame. Else, they will walk all over you. Don't LTR this girl. She sounds like …
/r/askTRP30/09/16 08:03 PM
1

Also, there are a select few girls not on earth.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 08:00 PM
1

Step one: open front door. Step two: walk through it. See that? Out there is the real world. There are literally billions of women there!
/r/askTRP30/09/16 07:59 PM
1

Not true. You can begin physical escalation in public. Subtle touching like on the hand, arm, small of the back, or neck/shoulder are usually pretty good. One of my go to's is to comment on jewelry she's wearing because it gives me an excuse to touch her hand briefly. If she's hesitant when you try to isolate you haven't built enough rapport.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 07:46 PM
1

I also don't think it's relevant how angry this is getting me. I think women are like dogs in that they can smell fear, anger, resentment a mile away. I've definitely shot myself in the foot with this before when I was talking to a woman who started to push my buttons. I was in a phase like you where I was newer to TRP and understandably angry and resentful. I wasn't able to have a natural amused mastery and bat down shit tests. Ok, so maybe in person you aren't that way or your feelings don't g…
/r/askTRP30/09/16 07:41 PM
2

If this is the case then he didn't make his intentions known. You polarize either negatively or positively by making your intentions known. Polite yet distant is a null result. Doesn't indicate in either direction.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 07:23 PM
3

Approach women in person. Fuck tinder and other apps. Unless you are top 10% the deck is stacked against you.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 07:20 PM
1

It's not black and white but it's basically the difference between verbal vs. physical. Don't ask or talk about desiring sex/her, escalate physically. Actions not words.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 07:18 PM
2

Your post seemed normal and then there was this: I get that women are bitches and are filled with dogshit, but I need them to reproduce, so it's not like I can just ignore them altogether Hmm...is it possible that you have a bad attitude and women can practically smell this on you when you approach? I get it. At one point or another we've all been angry and full of piss and vinegar when it comes to women. But at some point they're just silly women and what they say and do is of little consequenc…
/r/askTRP30/09/16 05:36 PM
1

My guess is there might be a lot more going on here than the press got a hold of. Who knows what's really going on...
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/16 05:29 PM
1

I can't imagine that she was giving all negative signals in these cases. She might have verbally said something along these lines but chances are her body language communicated different. The guy just read the situation at face value and missed the subtle cues. Reading body language is part of the game.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 05:05 PM
1

If you can eject without ruining your future chances or reputation then that might be a good option. However, if this project has legs and you can't escape without damage then you have to force him out. If he comes from privilege is he the one with the money? If so, then use him for that and take steps towards taking over or make a graceful exit once you have money yourself and a network. Start your own company later. Ejecting is just one of many options.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 05:01 PM
1

Dude, trying to get back with a girl who dumped you show's little self-respect. She won't be able to have any respect for you either if she's able to dump you and you'll still take her back. The only thing to do is cut contact with her for a while and plate other women.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 04:47 PM
1

For hot girls esp. it doesn't happen that often. They are used to getting special treatment. world shattered
/r/askTRP30/09/16 04:43 PM
1

Fucked me when she had a fiancee. To be fair he did cheat on her too... Or how about the time when she had a long-distance bf and fucked me? Or, how about the time in college when she was helping me escape out the back door while the bf was coming in the front? (That one was pretty close...I stopped seeing her after that)
/r/askTRP30/09/16 04:40 PM
1

My cousin called me a sexist this week, and said I shouldn't approach girls for only sex. Classic case of projection right here . She declined and said that she sees me as a father not a lover. The crazy thing about father's is they had sex. mic drop
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 02:02 AM
2

I feel like this is the result of feminist conditioning. Women have completely bought into it and now believe they have to behave like men. That or these women are just the crazy ones who have always been that way for centuries. Don't stick your dick in crazy. That's a red flag IMO.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 02:00 AM
1

I've paid for ice-cream before. But usually I go dutch unless in an LTR. Then it depends on the circumstances. If they start to take it for granted, I take it away.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 01:57 AM
5

Have some experience. Not much success though. Can't say it's really feasible. I think we as men are biologically predisposed to mate-guarding as a way of assuring progenity. I think it requires a high development of non-attachment or outcome independence to make this work. In short you need to be able to sublimate your baser instincts in favor of higher order thinking. Not an easy task for anyone and something that requires quite a bit of skill, self-discipline, and awareness. Why not just spin…
/r/askTRP27/09/16 01:56 AM
1

I think this works in most cases, however if your depression is a result of trauma then TRP might not be enough, in those cases more specific work is needed that mitigates or heals (if that's even possible...) the trauma. I've been following TRP for a couple years now and have tried unsuccessfully to implement the tenets on my own. The depression always comes back. What I think I've been missing is confronting and dealing with the trauma I've suffered as a result of child abuse. If depression or…
/r/askTRP20/09/16 06:09 PM
1

All those minor details and complicated methodology is a poor facsimile of what the 'natural' does without thinking. It's complicated and obtuse because it's trying to break down into discrete repeatable steps human behavior. Without any foundation in understand how attraction works or the principles from which this methodology is derived you're just doomed to lack any understanding for why it works and not have the ability to react in the moment to changing conditions. The first book that I rea…
/r/askTRP18/09/16 07:41 PM
3

If I've done something wrong or made a mistake then I apologize. If I never apologized for anything and couldn't admit when I was wrong I'm pretty sure that would just make me an asshole. I'm willing to admit my mistakes. I think a true leader can admit when their wrong. It doesn't mean you have to dwell on and start apologizing for everything. But if you legit fucked up, yeah you owe an apology.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 07:27 PM
3

This was eye opening. Thank you. I feel like I got fucked on the relationship score though due to an abusive childhood which kind of sucks. I can see now that my slots have already been filled and by people who were bad for me because I had terrible modeling growing up. I'll have to do some research and see what can be done to shore up the damage, if at all. This post while eye opening and interesting has been kind of depressing. TIL I might already be broken beyond repair.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 12:57 AM
10

She "kept saying, no, stop" repeatedly when he escalated. And he kept pushing forward and eventually had sex with her even though she said no multiple times. That sounds like rape to me. There's a fine line between LMR and Rape and this is it. Even though some women have rape fantasies and will say "no" or "stop" even when they don't mean it you have to take these things at face value. Only if it's discussed beforehand and done in the context of agreed upon terms with a 'safe word' and such is t…
/r/askTRP18/09/16 12:48 AM
2

What this means is your smv is low. That's the simple but not very useful explanation because many factors go into smv. If you live in a western country you have your work cut out for you because your working against stereotype. White women are top of the food chain in terms of SMV and thus can afford to be very choosy. My guess is indian men are seen as beta IT guys or computer geeks. Other factors could be working against you such as height, looks, physique, style, confidence, social status, s…
/r/askTRP18/09/16 12:39 AM
2

Personally I feel like for a lot of new guys monk mode is just another way to procrastinate or avoid the hard work that it takes to actually go out and get rejected. It's the planning and preparedness trap of always being able to be more ready to execute but then never executing. Like paralysis by analysis. It's hard to even know what you're planning to work on if you're going into monk mode without any real world experience. I think monk mode is best utilized if you're in a desperate situation …
/r/askTRP18/09/16 12:29 AM
1

I'm not sure I got all this... but I'm in complete support of applying the scientific method to better understanding RP theory. It would be nice to have some hard data on some of this stuff. I do believe a lot of study has already been done that corroborates TRP. However, more can't hurt. I want this to permeate all field reports and the minds of RP participants. This isn't really practical. The majority of people just aren't going to be interested in this. It's a little naive to say this and I …
/r/askTRP18/09/16 12:21 AM
1

Dude, it's only the crazy ones that are aggressive when they want something. I cold approach because otherwise that would be selecting for the bottom of the barrel. Most women are never going to make the first approach. That's just how the game is played.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 12:07 AM
2

Before you pay way too much for an MBA you need to check out: https://personalmba.com/ What you'll learn in school is outdated and not as effective as learning by doing, not to mention expensive. You have better luck parlaying your engineering knowledge to find a niche market that needs tackling and building a business around that.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 03:28 PM
1

Nope. LTR worthy girls seldom start their careers as plates. She's already ridden the CC. She's damaged goods and can't pair bond effectively. She's poor LTR material at this point. how will I ever find a girl who is okay with me spinning plates but she herself doesn't date others FROM DAY 1. All women are ok with a guy who can fuck multiple women at the same time. It demonstrates pre-selection. What distinguishes LTR material from plate material is whether or not she solicits commitment before …
/r/askTRP16/09/16 03:21 PM
1

^ this
/r/askTRP16/09/16 03:19 PM
1

For me the biggest takeaway was just learning to say "no." For a while after that if anything was asked of me that I didn't want to do or wasn't interested in from friends and family I just said no. Sometimes they were upset, but I had to stand my ground.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 03:19 PM
16

Leave no trace. Always a good policy.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 03:14 PM
3

should I contact or just lose the number? Why not? What have you got to lose? Side note: this is an obvious case of demonstrated value. The lack of subtlety from women never ceases to amaze me. As soon as you have status she magically changes her tune. And if I contact how should I handle it? Tell her you'd like to perform a physical? (jk) Archwinger already provided sage advice on this, so I'll defer to his comment.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 03:13 PM
1

Same day lays for me are usually sluts who have ridden the cock carousel already. They're usually "empowered" womyn who are comfortable "expressing their sexuality." Alcohol tends to help speed things along (bars, clubs, concerts). It seems to help if they're on the rebound and not looking for a bf yet but want to fuck to forget about mr. ex. Also, single moms, divorcees, or strangely taken women are easier lays. I hear if it's a certain time of the month that can be a factor but I don't pay eno…
/r/askTRP15/09/16 12:58 PM
1

It sounds like you believe your father was a sigma and he just happened to be a bad father; therefore all sigmas must be bad fathers. I think he's probably a bad representation and the idea that sigma's are all selfish is wrong. I'm a sigma. I'm not selfish. In fact very much of what drives me are feelings of altruism and service. Sigma's a fiercely independent but only some are selfish. I just happen to see the world from a different perspective than most. I'm seriously introverted. I don't alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 05:46 AM
1

Lone wolf. One character example would be James Bond especially Daniel Craig's.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 05:39 AM
2

This sounds like some sort of PUA escalation ladder. Did you develop this from some PUA material? Anyways. I'm a simple man. I usually skip steps 2-9 and if the woman seems receptive I go right to kissing (assuming I've already gotten us to a secluded location). At that point my hands roam all over and seem to have a mind of their own. On another note. At some point the artist has to lose the "material" and develop their own voice. It might be time for you to do the same. Lose the training wheel…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 02:16 PM
3

This must be a real mind-fuck for a dyed in the wool feminist. "If everyone is equal and it's perfectly acceptable for my boyfriend to get off on being fucked in the ass, why do I feel so turned off by it?"
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 02:01 PM
1

While I can't say I've "beat it" yet, I'd give "The Depression Cure" a read. Depression is a symptom of a confluence of lifestyle factors. It's worth noting that the incidence of depression in Aboriginal societies is nearly 0 and they live lives more difficult and fraught with more death, danger, and peril than we will likely ever encounter. What this tells me is that Depression is not just mental but context dependent and may very well be a function of living in a modern civilization that remov…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 01:51 PM
3

Hey, check out this list from "The Art of Manliness." http://www.artofmanliness.com/2015/09/28/100-skills-every-man-should-know/
/r/askTRP14/09/16 01:43 PM
3

she would have me get her off, but then turn over and go to sleep just leaving me hanging. I read up until here. Since there never was sex in the relationship (usually there's a decline, but it sounds like you had a dead bedroom from the start...). OP, I don't think this is salvageable. Most women who aren't interested in sex with you at least have the decency to not have you get them off and then decline to return the favor. That's next level manipulation and just complete disregard for another…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 01:37 PM
2

but one of them is just being a cunt. There's always one bad apple. If most of the guys are doing the usual ribbing and you're dishing it back then maybe you just haven't put in your time? I don't know, it's still a bit unclear if this is bullying or just ribbing and you're having trouble with it.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 06:17 PM
2

Now if only my babelfish could translate women-speak... Good post. However, the answer is indeed 42. I'm sure you'll see that this means everything you've said is true and the harmony and laws of the universe require the actions you espouse to realize it's universal truness. Indeed, there is no other way since the universal law in summation equal 42 in their entirety. Failure to do so will be met with shit-tests, deadbedrooms, and the worst that the fairer sex has to offer the unfortunate man wh…
/r/askMRP09/09/16 04:00 AM
1

It sounds like you got played for attention. She dates drug dealers? Sounds like crazy to me. Not worth the trouble.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 02:40 AM
2

I lurk on the RPW sub and she made the biggest mistake which was giving up her V-card too readily without getting commitment. I'm sure at the time she thought nothing of it and hasn't a clue how that works. She's just left feeling the effects afterwards. However, there are also plenty of examples of women who have learned to have more realistic standards and do the best they can with what they've got. If she wants to find any guy that will make her happy she's going to need to learn to do the sa…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 02:37 AM
12

Yep. It's how women are wired. In my last LTR I would intentionally pick arguments with her about shit I honestly didn't care about to give her the drama she needed. Like controlled burning is used to prevent massive forest fires I would give her some drama to prevent the bigger blowout that would inevitably develop. Additionally I would always hold frame and after she had worn herself out trying to break my frame she would be like putty in my hands. It was necessary for the health of the relati…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 02:30 AM
1

After reading "Smarter Faster Better" by Charles Duhigg I learned that it's much more effective to track goals and data by hand than use software or tools that take away the leg-work. The reason being that having slick tools actually makes it too easy and you fail to notice patterns and real change doesn't happen. There was a pretty significant study that bore this out. Since then, I track all my goals on graph paper with pencil. Additionally I structure them like SMART goals as posted by anothe…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 02:17 AM
1

I'll admit there have been lots of times where the first time I got naked with a new girl I would get a serious case of nerves and not be able to get or maintain an erection. Usually everything was fine until I had to fiddle with the fucking condom and then my brain would outdo me and I'd start thinking which would fuck my shit up. Luckily in those cases it wasn't a persistent problem and I was able to perform the 2nd or 3rd time. I will say this, I'm pretty sure there is a correlation between m…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 02:08 AM
1

Really glad to see you feel that way. Often guys who aren't ready to "swallow the pill" refuse to listen. Good luck. We're all here for you.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 01:48 AM
3

Is it typical male ribbing or are they obviously malicious? Perhaps they don't respect you because you don't dish it back. In most blue collar jobs I've had there's a fair bit of ribbing and even hazing the new guy. You dish it back and earn their respect by being good at your job and not getting butt-hurt. It's actually a bad sign if you're not getting teased because it means they actually don't like you. Once you've earned your stripes then you're the one ribbing the newer guy with all the oth…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 01:44 AM
1

Guys, we got a live one. He's unplugging. OP, I hope you take all of this to heart. This is the only place you're going to get real actionable advice without all the hand-holding bullshit. The good news is the action plan is all right here in black and white, and has worked for countless others.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 01:40 AM
1

Yes, and I've seen it play out in the lives of men in my group of friends over and over again. I try to reach out, but few are willing to listen, and those who do have already taken the pill in some sense and get it.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 01:28 AM
34

This is the truth right here. A guy I knew in my local community who everyone thought was the nicest guy flipped his shit, raped and attempted to murder/kidnap his ex-gf. The thing is I knew him and he was obsessed about his gf before she broke up with him. Spent all of his time with her. He lived for this girl. Complete beta for her. Of course she breaks up with him, and he just loses it. RP saves men from doing shit like this. You realize there are plenty of women out there, getting all fucked…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 10:57 PM
1

Narcissism is only bad if pathological; i.e Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Everyone has narcissistic traits and narcissism is a natural childhood developmental step. As for the first question, I have no idea. Generally I think if you've set goals and you're making measurable progress towards them or at least persisting in the face of adversity then you can feel good about yourself.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 07:36 PM
7

Spelling and punctuation would be a start...
/r/askTRP05/09/16 07:29 PM
1

Nothing worse than a psychopath who has nothing but ill will, is a skilled manipulator because they lack empathy and knows precisely what they're doing. I'm pretty sure unconscious manipulation that is the result of instinctive drives but who's source is a person that is generally able to empathize and generally has good intentions is far less dangerous. For the woman being able to manipulate a high value man into serving both as seed and protector/provider has an evolutionary benefit. In the id…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 07:20 PM
1

Seduction is a tool that can be used to manipulate by men or women. It just so happens that instinctively women are better at using sex than men due to being the weaker sex. Men have brawn and don't learn the fine art of psycho-social manipulation like women do. Cleopatra is a good case study of a woman who was able to use sex to control a man's army and wield a great amount of power and influence. For her it was a weapon of war and power. I wouldn't go so far as to say I've experienced myself w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 08:22 AM
3

Do you know philisophical dilemma about the fat man on the bridge, the train coming down the tracks, and the 5 people further down the line who will die because the train is going right towards them? While it isn't pretty, sociopathic even, TRP is teaching boys how to be men so that they have the balls to push the fat man off the bridge to save 5 others. The reality is it isn't a pretty world out there but it takes men to actually have the courage to act with everything you listed: hope, compass…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 08:10 AM
2

You're doing better than I was at your age. I didn't lose my v-card until 18 my first semester of college. Had helicopter parents. No way that shit was going to happen while I was still under their roof. Keep fightin' the good fight and do your TRP work. You'll be lightyears ahead of most guys out there by the time you're my age.
/r/askTRP03/09/16 07:49 AM
3

I recently read a study that our current generation is the least religious in history Or you know, it could be the prevalence of scientific reasoning in today's world... While I believe you're probably right about the church being hostile towards masculinity I'm not sure if this can account for the general trend of people being less religious in today's world. While I have no numbers to back it up my guess is it has more to do with the fact that people are much more aware in today's day and age …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/16 09:08 PM
1

While I've never had a coach (can't afford it). A couple sessions with a personal trainer is about it. I have met amature competitive lifters who have coaches so I know they're out there. Finding a good one is like finding a good doctor or anything else, you ask around for names from people who's opinion you trust. You verify it for yourself by educating yourself to the extent you need to. Personally I just rely on books and videos. I should probably video tape myself lifting so I can get a real…
/r/askTRP31/08/16 08:55 PM
1

Same reason women think Johnny Depp is hot. A lot of women are attracted to the mysterious seeming rebel. Tattoos, earings, and the like communicate danger and mystery. That's why this works. But my buddy picks up so easily without trying. Aloofness communicates value. You're friend probably comes off as aloof on first glance. This is cat-nip to most women
/r/askTRP31/08/16 05:45 AM
2

We’ve each had our share of sexual experiences – none of us are really lacking in girls at university. "What got you here, won't get you there." was chatting to Kevin and flirting madly with him. All the while he was giving her drinks from our bottle. They were using you guys for drinks. You were easy marks sounds like. They played the game better than you and won. Take the loss, and do better next time. Collectively we probably approached 10-15 girls per night, and were shot down every single t…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 05:40 AM
1

Why should he divorce his wife? Because it's a double standard and we'd crucify a woman if the roles were reversed? I've go news for you, there is a double standard and this is it. He's playing the game and winning as far as I'm concerned. There's a reason why it works too. Women will gladly share and alpha while no self-respecting male would share his wife. Two different sexual strategies entirely. The institution of marriage is a sham as it is. Who gives a fuck if some women is willing to be m…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 05:18 AM
1

Red Pill is the method but not the way. The master learns forms so that in the moment he can throw it all away and just act with perfect intent. TRP is the tool-kit. You decide what to do with it. Belief has got nothing to do with it.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 05:00 AM
1

Never saw this list before. This is great. 90% of asktrp Qs could be answered by referring to this list.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 04:58 AM
1

That's the only way they can protect their solipsistic ego's. It couldn't possibly be the fact that she let herself go and has a drinking problem. No the guys an asshole and a jerk. Raises the question though, do you let you're SO talk about him like that?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 04:53 AM
2

like to be hurt a little or choked in the bedroom You don't have to go all out with the choking. Just a light squeeze on the neck to let her know you're in control. That said, younger pre-trp me had a hard time wrapping my brain around some of the rougher kinky shit due to my social programming even though I was pretty Dom in the bedroom. I have to say after having tried some pretty heavy shit I've grown more acclimated to it. You might get there too, worth a try if she's asking for it. Just be …
/r/askTRP31/08/16 04:49 AM
1

With the inflation in terms of self-perceived SMV women are getting due to social media and dating apps it means that they're going to slam head first into the wall that much a harder. Pops some popcorn, and get's ready to watch the impending train wreck
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 04:41 AM
1

Art of manliness has a great youtube series on barbell lifts featuring none other than the great Mark Rippetoe. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLLIasrSrFGdSNbeOT8Agw9N301qCHpRU0 In terms of technique a video is worth a thousand words on the subject as far as I'm concerned. Another resource that I've found helpful: "The Supple Leopard" by Kelly Starrett. He's an expert on body mechanics and mobility. Other than that, I think a good lifting coach is probably second to none if you can find/a…
/r/askTRP31/08/16 04:31 AM
1

Upvoted for "The Power of Habit."
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 04:20 AM
2

(probably look older) It's not rocket surgery, this is why OP. The fact that you were trying to shrug her off just made her that much more interested. That's how women work, if you're aloof, you must be higher value. Take it as a complement. I hope you're smashing the HS hoes in the meantime ;-)
/r/askTRP31/08/16 04:15 AM
2

I always assume my plates could be fucking other people. It's stupid not to wrap it up. Yeah, it's not as good, but that's the price I pay for not getting an STD not to mention an unwanted pregnency. All it takes is one time. In the heat of the moment one of my plates just sticks my cock in her with no warning and no rubber. Had a pretty gnarly case of genital warts after that. 0/10 would do again. You're an idiot if you don't use a condom in this day and age unless you're in some kind of exclus…
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:55 AM
1

Being mysterious is not about talking less, although that's part of it. It's about leaving something to the imagination. Also, if you don't give her anything about yourself like telling a a few stories she has nothing to relate too. The key is not saying too much or over embellishing. Don't tell the whole story and leave something to talk about later and let her imagination run with it. Let her show interest by asking questions and drawing the story out of you. Don't just give it away for free.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:51 AM
1

"You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make 'em drink." The only think you can really do is work to become and example of an RP man. If you're Dad is able to see what you've become and is interested in changing you'll know.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:36 AM
1

She already rode the carousel. Likely she was alpha-widowed before she met you. Also, she's post-wall. If a girl hasn't locked down a guy by the time she's in her 30s you can bet your ass she's had more than a couple dicks inside her. It sounds like you put the pussy on a pedestal, LTR'd a post-wall CC riding slut, who already gave her best sex to some chad in her twenties. Even though you could probably fix the sex issue with some work on yourself and strategically applied dread, she's not LTR …
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:30 AM
1

This has been my assessment too and I see it often enough said that if you want any indication of whether or not a girl is RPW material then look at her family, specifically the father. If the Dad is RP then there's a better chance she's RPW. Also, I hope you didn't pay for dinner?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 03:22 AM
1

Like women know the difference? Doesn't matter, "OMG, like, he's so hawt with his shirt off! lol!"
/r/askTRP26/08/16 09:44 PM
1

But...what?...isn't that what All Women...fuck, I give up. This is hopeless. Chad fucked your mom and she had you. This is the cycle of life. This goes all the way back to the great apes of the african sahara, aka your ancestors. Welcome to TRP.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 09:39 PM
1

Run away!
/r/askTRP26/08/16 09:37 PM
1

I apply nearly every day when I leave the house in addition to dressing well. I apply to my neck and wrists. I don't use cologne per-se but a couple different blends of essential oils with things like sandlewood, red cedar, and a few other things. They are made by a friend of mine and the scents are designed to be masculine. I've gotten some compliments from women on them since I started wearing them. It makes a difference. For some girls smelling good is a big point of attraction. Can't hurt IM…
/r/askTRP26/08/16 09:34 PM
1

Calipers are notoriously inaccurate. Even when professionals take the measurements they tend to be all over the place.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 09:22 PM
1

Orlando Bloom = cute, Harrison Ford = handsome, Brad Pitt = hot/sexy.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 09:12 PM
1

Having lived in Arkansas and had a good friend from there I'm going to guess being black is a big hit to your SMV there. Especially with white women even if they claim to not be racist, attraction probably says differently. From what I remember there was still quite a bit of racism there even if it wasn't overt it was implied in how people acted. Having grown up in a progressive city in a northern state things were much different here. Also, the number of hotties that are "saving themselves for …
/r/askTRP26/08/16 09:06 PM
0

"When are you free?" Or: "Are you free [insert days/times]?"
/r/askTRP26/08/16 08:51 PM
2

"The Red Queen" About the evolutionary psychology behind sex and attraction.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 08:49 PM
1

I'm by no means an expert. Here's just my two cents from what I've learned through research and training. I won't have a spotter (plan on going at night after work), is that okay? It's not the safest to bench without a spotter but I do anyways. I'm just careful to leave one or two in the bank and never go to failure. If you want to push yourself further it's usually just a matter of asking someone else to spot you. Do I need to buy a gym bag or is a regular backpack fine? Can you put your shit f…
/r/askTRP26/08/16 08:37 PM
1

It's the same reason many guys love getting blow jobs. If a girl is especially skilled guys rave about her.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 07:26 PM
1

To the beginner it really is just a practice of focusing the mind and in doing so reducing anxiety. This by itself if practiced daily is like having a force multiplier to apply to everything you do. Once you've mastered focus you can apply this new skill to things like contemplating the self, compassion, reality, emotion, or anything really. In eastern mysticism it's used as a tool to reach "enlightenment" which is by its very nature indefinable. As for what you gain it really is like having a s…
/r/askTRP26/08/16 07:22 PM
1

While that would be nice, no amount of "reasoning" with feminists has ever been fruitful for me. If anything it just communicates that you're in their frame. A lot of the "science" that feminism is based on isn't really science at all. You can't argue with an ideology. That's what it is, an ideology, even if it's supported by "science" which is just fog and mirrors if you ask me. I wish it were as simple as quoting studies to counter feminist "facts." But it's not that simple. What it boils down…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 07:07 PM
6

It's crazy to me that you can't reason with "feminists" who are like this. The evidence is there in black and white. Single male overpowers not one but two trained female law enforcement professionals with their own gun! What does this tell us? I used to get into arguments with my ex about shit like this. I've realized now that there's really no use arguing. No amount of reason is going to convince dyed in the wool feminists because the whole thing is based on grade A bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 08:17 PM
5

A couple years ago I realized my Mom was a classic case of NPD. Unfortunately, I have a lot of first hand experience with it. OP, if you read this, I think it's pretty clear your SO has NPD. Unfortunately, I'm not sure there is a lot you can do to "fix" the situation other than get away from it. Narcissists are notoriously resistant to therapy since it tends to only reinforce their own self-importance and they can use it as another source of "supply." If I were you I'd be planning my exit. Take …
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/16 08:12 PM
6

+1 for NPD. Classic symptoms.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/16 05:24 PM
3

Also, "How The Mind Works" by Pinker. And "The Red Queen" by Matt Ridley for how evolutionary psychology applies to sex and attraction.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 05:19 PM
1

I was hoping this might clarify things, but she sounds pretty legit. Not too many red flags although her N-count might be a little high and the drinking is a concern. Women are social creatures so that's not really a red flag to me. Again, this is a grey area. You seem to have embraced TRP so I'm going to go ahead and say you should just use your best judgement. I doubt we have more to offer here than telling you what you already know in terms of theory/principles.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 03:23 AM
1

Bros before hoes. I think he's breaking one of the cardinal rules of the bro code, not hitting on or sleeping with gfs, dates, and exes are off limits without first asking permission and getting it. I had a really close guy friend who swiped the girl I was seeing right out from under me. At my own birthday party no less! Needless to say we are no longer friends. I'd keep this guy at a distance. He's got his priorities backwards.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 03:17 AM
1

This is pretty broad/vague about what you actually hope to achieve. Other than just re-iterating what's available in the main sub, you're going to have to get more specific about what you're going for. Just putting into words more specifically what you want is a step in the right direction.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 03:11 AM
1

This post doesn't scream red flags like some of the others I've read. It's somewhere in the grey area where you have to use your best judgement. Definitely the twitter post is something to at least keep an eye on. I'd be curious to know what the ratio of her guy vs. girl friends is? Does she have a lot of guy friends with few if any girl friends? To me that would be a red flag. Also, you could look at whether or not she's got the qualities that make for a good LTR girl. For example, did she ride…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 03:00 AM
5

Agreed. I consider myself pretty handy, but nothing can replace the 20+ years of experience my Dad has on me in that department. Her comment seems pretty innocuous to me. Definitely a fragile ego here...
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 08:04 PM
1

It's not a myth at all. Yes, game is a component. But it's easier than you might think once you have the other stuff going for you. Also, social skills are something I would describe as part of the TRP self-improvement program. You're going to get a lot of attention from women if you go to a party and own the room.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 02:27 PM
1

To add to this, there's a correlation between sunlight exposure and sleep time. To start waking up earlier make sure you go outside and get 30 minutes of sunlight starting within 30 minutes of waking up. Light lamps work as well. Your biological clock will naturally trend towards getting up earlier. Once you're near your goal wake time, you can reduce sunlight exposure to 15 minutes per day. This helps with depression as well.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 06:15 PM
1

The Tim Ferriss Show. Amazing the kind of talent, top talent, he's able to interview for this show. Gold in so many walks of life, IMO.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 06:10 PM
2

Always leave them better than you found them. Great post.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 05:13 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 08:52 PM
3

Your not going to like this. None of this really matters. You don't matter. The universe doesn't care about your happiness. Most of us could give a fuck less about how you feel. Is anything happening? Are your memories real? The only thing you have is right now. What you choose to do with right now is all that you have. What happened in the past is already gone. What will happen will happen with or without you. You choose what to do next. Your feelings are your reaction to things that have alrea…
/r/askTRP18/08/16 08:50 PM
1

There is in fact a double standard. Men are guardians of commitment and women are guardians of sex. Two different mating strategies. This is the whole premise behind TRP.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 07:43 PM
2

Can't keep all the plates spinning. That's why the spinning plates analogy works so well. Sounds like you handled it fine. She'll probably decide to stop seeing you eventually is my guess.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 07:38 PM
2

Sounds iffy. I would only go after her if I was confident I could keep it on the DL. Shit's risky tho...
/r/askTRP18/08/16 07:35 PM
1

Adding to this list: 4. Fish Oil + Vitamin D + Grass fed cow butter source
/r/askTRP18/08/16 07:31 PM
0

Grasp too strongly and moments like grains of sand will slip through your fingers. Chasing the happiness of the past only serves to distract you from the present. Ask yourself this: how can one sustain something that no longer is? When were you ever not "in the moment?"
/r/askTRP18/08/16 07:21 PM
1

I think you might need to read up on BPD. She very well could be, but you still haven't really described the symptoms for it. Alcohol and "problems" maybe... Having dated a girl with BPD I have some experience with it. Your case sounds like maybe she's just not a healthy person, but I wouldn't go so far to say she's BPD based just on what you've described.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 06:29 PM
1

I even had a bitch pee ion my bed once. Truth.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:00 PM
1

Are you sure she had BPD? What you've described thus far, doesn't quite tip her from the normal bitch behavior into BPD category. That said, getting over oneitis is the same regardless. Lift, improve, approach, GFTOW, etc. Move on and forget about her. And if you suspect she really is BPD then delete her from everything. Phone number, fb, email, etc. Only very bad things can come from the drama she creates if she's BPD. You don't want to be anywhere near that shit.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 04:46 PM
1

Hang out with people with personalities you'd like to emulate. They say we are a combination of the 5 people we hang around the most. Can't help but start developing a personality of your own.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 04:42 PM
17

Nice. You broke through the bitch shield which is a shit-test in and of itself.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 04:37 PM
1

Wow. This kid is a decent writer for 14 and already has discovered TRP. Watch this kid, he will go far.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 04:31 PM
1

Hard to say. It took me about 3 years to work my way up to bartender at a classy joint. We're talking fine dining. But I bounced around a lot with school and travel between things and I waited tables before that. If you hustle and I mean really hustle, and your co-workers like you, you might be able to make barender in 6mo to a year if a position opens up. You'll likely have to work the shit shifts like daytime or the slower nights to start with.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 04:17 PM
3

Become a bartender. Bartenders are the Alpha males of the food-service industry. Source: former busser/wait-assist turned sever/bartender at swanky joints where I'm from. That said, don't shit where you eat. Unless management is particularly lenient, if something goes sideways and word gets back to them, you're out of a job. And now you have a reputation. Everybody knows everybody where I'm from. If you develop a reputation it might be hard finding work anywhere good. It's worth noting I and a c…
/r/askTRP18/08/16 04:00 PM
1

Gurdjieff Wow, haven't heard this name in a while... If sounds like you have a post here I'd like to read if you care to write one.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 05:00 PM
1

I text when it's convenient for me and when makes sense. For example I don't usually plan a date more than a week in advance. If she's interested she'll get back to me, if not, I move on. It's simple. It's your ship. You run it however you want. If a girl wants to get on and go for a ride then she can. If not, your ship is sailing without her.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 04:49 PM
1

You're not responsible for her choices or her guilt about them. Plow that field until it fails to produce then move on to greener pastures. Rinse, repeat.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 04:45 PM
1

Welcome to marriage 2.0. It's pretty much a bad deal any way you slice it.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 04:42 PM
1

Chances are the texts or lack of communication wasn't the real reason she ended her last relationship. That's just the reason she's giving you. Likely, she doesn't really know herself, or is unwilling to say why she broke up with her ex. It would be a mistake to assume this information is something you need to worry about. Watch what she does, not what she says. I'm an introvert and I've dated other introverts. Even more than with extroverts, the worst thing you can do is come off as "needy" by …
/r/askTRP17/08/16 04:39 PM
1

There aren't any left. All the alpha males died out centuries ago. The feminazis are poised to take over the world. Not to worry though. Elon Musk is building an arc to take all the beta males to Mars where men are originally from, hence: "men are from mars, women are from venus." Just try to survive until then.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 04:29 PM
2

Mark Manson has moved more and more towards a moderate stance. If you read up on Mark's history he started out as master PUA and teacher and has been progressively moving towards a more "self-help" centered message that is palatable to both men and Women. His blog is definitely tailored more to the mainstream now. Like any good author Manson had to actually get published and not offend too much of the opposite sex to get his message out. My guess is we're not quite the audience Manson was hoping…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 04:19 PM
5

No, it's just that gay men are wired like a dude with the only caveat that they are attracted to other dudes. As such, they are much more aggressive in approaching men they are attracted to. What this means is you are conventionally attractive and are just blind to the signals women are giving you. IOIs from women are going to be a lot more subtle and not nearly as overt as gay men hitting on you. If you can't read signals you're just going to have to approach women who you are attracted to unti…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 04:10 PM
1

Delete her from FB. If you happen to run into her, be civil, but cut the interaction short. Don't contact her. She's off limits. BTW, this one is grade A crazy. Threatening suicide to manipulate you? Only bad things can come from this. This chick is not worth another second of your attention. Focus your energy into productive things for yourself. Get back on the horse. GFTOW. Take care of yourself.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 04:04 PM
3

While being physically attractive is important I think what attracts a woman boils down more to the psychology of the interaction. Women are like talent scouts and can smell out Alpha characteristics in a man. This is why you often see ugly guys with hot girls. They have "it." That said, a scientific breakdown of the tenets of TRP in terms of SMV would be a welcome addition I feel. I'm sure there are quite a few studies we could draw on and there are ways to test these things. I'd be curious to …
/r/askTRP17/08/16 03:58 PM
1

Your list looks pretty good. Regardless, getting out on your own is your best move.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 03:54 PM
2

Not always. I see this thrown around a lot. While often it's true, I grew up with an abusive narcissistic bitch for a mother. No way she truly loved me more than she loved herself.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 03:53 PM
1

Instant tingles whenever I've taken a girl lifting. A few times when I was away from the gym I even used my gf as resistance to do squats. Want to instantly turn just about any woman on? Put her over your shoulder and do 10x4 squats. Guaranteed her pussy will be soaked when you're done.
/r/askMRP16/08/16 04:05 PM
2

There are a few RP christian women out there although my guess is they are rare. I dated a few in my pre-RP days. There is one in particular who stands out to me now that I think back on it as being the perfect example of a woman who was pretty old-school christian in her beliefs and wanted a marriage as described in the bible. She was probably about as RP Christian as they come. She was devout Catholic for what it's worth. As you might guess we didn't make it very far. I wasn't willing to becom…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 03:48 PM
2

I'm not married, but you might try asking over on /r/askMRP too. They might have better advice.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 05:08 PM
1

Girls are attracted to dominance. If you maintain a dominant frame in the relationship you shouldn't have a problem. Also, there are multiple intelligences. Am I right in guessing that she falls into the book smart category? She might be intelligent in that way, but not in other ways that you are. For example my brother is not book smart, but is the best damn mechanic I've ever seen. You might try teasing her about how she's a nerd/geek/know-it-all from time to time.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 05:01 PM
1

I'd be curious to see what RPW had to say about this. I know as a man I respond more to being called to protect or provide and feel like the "man" in the situation. It sounds like he's scared and avoiding the issue. If I were in his shoes I would probably want to hear something along the lines of how you feel scared and don't want to lose me and ask if there's anything you can do to help me. You might try to pick a time when he's more likely to be receptive and open, maybe after sex? Telling him…
/r/askTRP12/08/16 04:55 PM
1

Check out "The Depression Cure" this book set me on my path out of depression. I would add fish oil to your battery of supplements since depression is related to blood fatty acid levels. Where do you suppose your depression stems from? Mine stems from an abusive childhood.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 05:54 PM
2

This is gold.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 05:49 PM
2

As your walking, lead her physically. Light touches on the elbow or small of the back. If she's receptive lead her to a park bench somewhere and put your arm around her. After a while look her in the eyes like you mean it and slowly go in for the kiss. Escalation is all about kino. Women are sensual creatures and respond to touch. Aditionally, all women want to be lead by a strong man. If you take charge in this way she'll be putty in your hand by the end of the night.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 05:45 PM
1

If she wasn't interested she wouldn't have offered an alternative (i.e. that she's available next week). It sounds like she's legitimately sick. There's no translation here. It's exactly as it would seem. Try not to read into it too much. Reschedule the date.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 05:39 PM
1

What other moment could you possibly be in? Meditate. Check out the app "Headspace." Make a habit of meditating once a day.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 05:36 PM
2

In an LTR this is basically agreeing to be cucked. I'd never go for it. That said, describing relationships as "open" is pretty effective for creating a PC language to describe plating women and mitigate backlash. I've found this pretty effective in my dating life.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 05:34 PM
1

It sounds like you discovered there were some pretty big areas you just weren't compatible. Kids and alone time. You've caught a bit of oneitis here. Getting back together with her would be a mistake. You'd have to be willing to make concessions on things it sounds like you're not willing to. You have plenty of time to spin plates and find a RPW woman later on. The pain will subside. In the meantime work on yourself.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 05:28 PM
1

I see a lot of guys on here who aren't willing to consider a girl if she doesn't give it up early on. I have to say though, if a girl gives it up too easily that's going to be a red flag for me. How many other guys has she given it up for? Also, does she understand how this works? Strong girl game is such that I'm going to expect to meet some resistance on this front. I respect that. In fact, I would probably enjoy the challenge assuming she's a quality enough girl that I'm willing to put in the…
/r/askTRP11/08/16 05:22 PM
2

Thanks. I'm old school and tend to approach in person. But, at some point I might give it a try.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 07:02 AM
3

Simple and to the point. I like it. I don't use tinder, but if I did, this is what I'd do.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 06:49 AM
2

There's a difference between poly and casual sex. You come off like you're just pursuing casual sex. Poly and casual sex are things that will reflect badly on you in mixed company especially around co-workers. Keep that to yourself.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 04:40 AM
1

I still don't see where you got the 73% figure. The Tinder study had the top %78 of women compete for the top %20 of men. That's pretty close to 80/20 if you ask me.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 10:13 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 10:04 PM
1

Reddit is largely a cirlcejerk. Some of us who come here do manage to take something with us of value.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 10:03 PM
3

If I posted this rather than put it in the comments, heads would explode. Fair enough, that makes sense. I do enjoy your posts.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 10:02 PM
1

Sounds like you need to read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 10:00 PM
2

Progress is never linear. Two steps forward, one step back. Take responsibility for where you are. Analyze where you went off track, and work to correct. Create better systems to overcome your tendencies.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 01:05 PM
-4

If everyone is an asshole, then you're the asshole. Same rule applies...I think you're the crazy one. The distribution of crazy to non-crazy is probably about the same as it is in any group of people. Doubtful that it's as high as 90%.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 01:02 PM
1

She wants what all women want.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 01:00 PM
4

This is a general rule. Not meant to be exact. But things in nature tend to follow this approximate statistical ratio. Do you have a source to back up your claim?
/r/askTRP05/08/16 12:56 PM
2

Sure, but the wisdom therein is only available to those with eyes to see.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 11:50 AM
1

Not all pussy is created equal.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 11:46 AM
12

Spot on except the oldest/youngest child bit. I'm a sigma and am the oldest. Also, this would make a great post. Not enough on here about the sigma male.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 11:40 AM
1

If you can't be bothered to read the side-bar or show some initiative it's doubtful any recommendations people will make here will help you.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 06:48 AM
9

The 80/20 principle is pretty much a law of nature. There's no 'reason,' that's just the way it is. If all males improved by 10% there would still be 20% that bang %80 of the women. Pareto's Law So, to answer your question. The standards would adjust along with improvement.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 06:45 AM
2

Talk to strangers wherever you go. Coffee shop, grocery store, work, bar, etc. Just getting comfortable striking up conversation with strangers is half the battle.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 06:42 AM
0

PUA/seduction = outer game TRP = inner game
/r/askTRP05/08/16 05:13 AM
1

If you learn to give those things, love, compassion, etc freely, then you will receive them in abundance. It starts with giving them to yourself.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 12:15 AM
0

Read "Models" by Mark Manson and "The Rules of the Game" by Neil Strauss.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 12:12 AM
1

So, I'm working on creating an archive of manosphere blogs. I've created a dropbox folder I'll continue to upload stuff to ... here Right now it's just therationalmale.com and only in html format. I'll continue to drop stuff in there as I get to it.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 12:30 AM
1

Everybody is running there own race. Realize that while certain things may look clear to you from the outside you really don't have a clue what they've been through to get where they are and what they think. It's easy to be a back seat driver. It's another thing all together to be in the drivers seat.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 11:55 PM
1

Survivalist then?
/r/askTRP02/08/16 10:47 PM
1

I'm curious what were you doing spending 6mo. in the wilderness?
/r/askTRP02/08/16 10:43 PM
1

Sounds like you're getting laid but aren't succeeding with new prospects. Try approaching women in public. Dating apps are a crutch and skew the sexual market place in favor of women.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 10:31 PM
3

You might check out this book on stoicism: The Obstacle is The Way Also, really discipline is merely a collection of habits and routines. For that I recommend: The Power of Habit
/r/askTRP02/08/16 10:27 PM
6

She broke the boundaries you both set in multiple ways and it started with drinking and escalated from there. My advice would be to keep your cool and when she comes home sit her down and tell her in no uncertain terms what your expectations are for her. If she doesn't apologize and agree to them you start making plans for your exit.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 06:18 PM
1

If you don't, somebody else will. Just be prepared for a stage 5 clinger after. Virgins always fall the hardest. Advice? Don't be a dick.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 05:43 PM
1

Create a fitness plan for her, take her to the gym, and show her how it's done.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 05:41 PM
1

During a quite moment when you're both alone somewhere in the middle of the date, just make your move. Look her in the eyes, slowly lean in, put your arm to her chin or the back of her neck and kiss her.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 05:38 PM
1

Yes. Meditation is the force multiplier for living a better life in all ways. I would start with 10 minutes a day and work up to 20. You'll gain far more in time and other benefits by doing so. More than 20 is probably unnecessary unless you're really gung-ho about it. "Headspace" is a good app to start with.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 05:35 PM
2

From what I've read there isn't a scientific consensus. I favor free weights because that is more likely to result in functional (real world) strength. However, you need to make sure you have good form so you don't risk injury. Personally I've always almost exclusively used free weights with good results.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 05:27 PM
1

"Models" by Mark Manson always seems to be underrepresented here.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 05:19 PM
1

I take the herb in capsule form. I haven't used the cream. Side note: that whole podcast is really great. Worth a listen if you have the time.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 05:17 PM
1

No problem. It takes about 6mo. to kick in so be patient, but it works.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 05:11 PM
1

Are you running windows or mac? It sounds like you want to mirror some sites to archive for later. Check this out for mirroring sites from the terminal on linux, should work on a mac as well provided you install the right programs. http://www.guyrutenberg.com/2014/05/02/make-offline-mirror-of-a-site-using-wget/ If you let me know what sites you're hoping to do, I might be able to put something together quick and make some files available for everyone via dropbox or something. We should probably …
/r/askTRP02/08/16 05:04 PM
1

Take Gotu Kola. Source: http://fourhourworkweek.com/2015/07/21/charles-poliquin/
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:59 PM
1

Yep, marriage already over. The glass was just the "excuse."
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:57 PM
2

Stop beating any girls!!! Fuck. That is not the way at all. Where the fuck are you from that this is ok? Where I'm from this is called abuse.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:55 PM
1

No problem, god speed.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:53 PM
1

WTF? you beat them? If you're serious you need to cut that shit out.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:53 PM
2

You're trying to negotiate her desire to please you and be submissive to you, but you've lost some power in the relationship somewhere along the way. Your angry outbursts only serve to weaken your dominance right now. Somewhere you've let yourself slip in some area. Nothing from your post really gives a clue where this might be. If I were you I would STFU for now while I review the fundamentals of TRP and try to suss out where I'm lacking. Then formulate a plan and take action to right the ship.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:47 PM
2

Well, I understand the logistics of texting especially after the number close. I usually do text at that point. But to schedule a date I call or text depending. This works for me, but I'm not everyone.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:37 PM
1

You've let yourself go and stopped leading in your relationship. If your gf no longer wants to have sex with you it's your own doing. Work on yourself now or suffer the same fate with all your future relationships.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:32 PM
3

Calling has become the inferior method of contact. I disagree on the calling bit. I have a tendency to call. Most girls I've dated stated this was attractive and set me apart at the outset. I think either work fine. The interest is created when you met anyways. If she's interested, she always finds a way.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:23 PM
1

She texted you back. That's not blowing you off, however, she didn't offer any alternatives. I would probably text back something along the lines of "Cool, let me know when you're free."
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:21 PM
1

There's a difference between sitting idly and taking action to remedy the situation.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:16 PM
1

She's a drama queen looking for attention by any means necessary. Given your description it sounds like legal action would be more trouble than it is worth. Probably best to let this one go.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:13 PM
1

What?
/r/askTRP01/08/16 07:03 AM
18

Low N-count. Doesn't shit-test too much. Submissive. Non-feminist. Cooks, cleans, and otherwise brings value to your life.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 06:56 AM
2

Start lifting. Helps channel sexual energy among other things.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 06:53 AM
1

She basically showed you that plans with you don't mean shit to her. Don't reward that kind of behavior with a reply. Soft next.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:46 AM
1

How do you not have any better ideas than going to movies? If you lack the imagination to come up with something else I doubt any of our suggestions will help you in the long run. This is a shit post.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:44 AM
5

TRP seems to shun open or poly relationships. This for me has been an angle on legitimizing spinning plates in the eyes of women who date me. It provides PC language to give the hamster something to chew on while you fuck other women.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:42 AM
1

What's your doctor's reason for not lifting? Increased heart rate and thus strain on the heart? I would consult more than one doctor to get a consensus. You might take a look at "Body by Science." I think if you keep the intensity low enough you should be able to build strength without risking your heart. Also check out "The Bullet Proof Diet." Also, given your IQ and your wealth you should have access to expert advice and be able to put it to use. I would hire some consultants and try to get sp…
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:38 AM
1

You're too invested. You want her to be different than she is. The only person you can change is yourself.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:28 AM
2

Channel your emotions into doing things that will improve yourself and your situation. They are wasted on others.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:18 AM
1

AWALT. Everything applies regardless of age.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 02:03 AM
2

Let her go. She's looking for commitment.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 01:48 AM
1

Neo: Why do my eyes hurt? Morpheus: You've never used them before.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 01:38 AM
1

Strike up conversations with people wherever you go. No need to close the deal if any girls show interest. If your LTR catches you talking to other girls it will only serve to make you more attractive since this is pre-selection at work.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 12:42 AM
2

"The Red Queen"
/r/askTRP01/08/16 12:31 AM
1

You have yet to swallow the red pill. This post is your inner beta having a temper tantrum. You care way too much what your friend thinks. He's right though. You are a big wet blanket wherever you go. Save yourself the trouble. When your ready, come find me and I'll chop your head off and put it on a spike in my back yard.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 12:00 AM
1

It used to matter. Then I killed the inner beta and I no longer care. N-count is just a way to differentiate between plate or LTR potential.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 11:49 PM
1

Wait until she starts asking for commitment. Then wait some more. Give your commitment only when you're sure she's earned it and that you are valued.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 11:37 PM
2

There's no right way to do it. What you wrote sounds more like a personal mission. Your purpose is a collection of your life choices and actions and can only become clear over time. You don't choose your purpose, your purpose chooses you.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 11:27 PM
2

Next.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 09:30 PM
0

I swear by an extra-firm shiki futon. Although I have literally opted for the floor when the bed is too soft at girls places...I sleep on my side though.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 06:25 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter