Help in interpreting this situation

RedSkeller · 2016-08-23T01:31:41+00:00

Aside from everything mentioned I can't help but be concerned about the twitter post - it reeks of trickle truth. Only a complete aloof mother fucker would ignore it, and that's how you'll have to play it for now. I'd watch her closely for the next couple of weeks following the incident. I don't think fighting or getting in the guy's face was the right move either, she can handle herself but she is comfortable texting other guys out? I think there's something there and would dread her.

FrameWalker · 2016-08-22T22:45:10+00:00

She didn't slap him? Thats sexual assault

the_red_monk · 2016-08-23T03:00:31+00:00

This post doesn't scream red flags like some of the others I've read. It's somewhere in the grey area where you have to use your best judgement. Definitely the twitter post is something to at least keep an eye on.

I'd be curious to know what the ratio of her guy vs. girl friends is? Does she have a lot of guy friends with few if any girl friends? To me that would be a red flag.

Also, you could look at whether or not she's got the qualities that make for a good LTR girl. For example, did she ride the cock carousel? What is her relationship with her father like? Is she feminine and submissive, or feminist? Has she ever cheated on anyone or does she think cheating is ok under select circumstances?

If I were you I'd surreptitiously quiz her on the above if you haven't already to get a clearer picture of her character. Too many red flags and you might want to reconsider the status of your relationship.

redditatt · 2016-08-22T23:41:44+00:00

I think you played it well. However you do seem to have a bit of oneitis.

Hindsight is 20/20, but if the girl was really bothered by the bra snap, you could have taken notice and confronted the guy head on. A decent shove to the chest would have been Alpha as fuck.

Title	Help in interpreting this situation
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Date	August 22, 2016 9:46 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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