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word.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 02:15 PM
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If she can't figure out the equation of skinny = increased attraction, she's too dumb to GF. If she does understand the equation, but doesn't do anything about it, she's lazy and not GF material. Sucks because I'm sure she's a sweet girl but if she's not interested in improving herself, your hands are tied.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 05:11 AM
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..I'm not leaving.. This is part of your problem. You've established no boundaries, so she has free reign to treat you however she pleases. Married or not, you MUST convey to a woman that there is a hard limit on the amount of shit you will tolerate, and that you will walk if she continues to be lazy and entitled. You can try all the pseudo-Alpha posturing you want, but hot girls will call your bluff every time. Evolution gave them a sixth sense for true Alpha. True Alpha will kick ANY woman to …
/r/askTRP15/04/17 04:44 PM
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Things got serious fast You lost the game.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 03:59 AM
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I feel like you just said what I said back to me. Nice.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 12:24 AM
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"I do what I waaaaaant." You sound like all those annoying bitches that get hard nexted. EC or not, I think you missed the whole point of the post.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 11:04 PM
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Good post. Most commenters are over-analyzing shit. OP is making 2 simple points: Being mad at women is pointless. Own your shit. Anger is better utilized when you take responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 11:00 PM
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The answer is in the question. You are INTJ- you know your weaknesses, so you've already won half the battle. The other half is exercising your weak areas. Romance is weak? Well what is romance? Its dead. well shit. So start with seduction. Richard LaRuina is a good resource for that. Learn how to seduce, to play the game and get a woman excited. It all comes down to your behavior.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 04:18 AM
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A good face gets you in the door every time. At that point it your game to lose. Bulk up to 170 and practice on 6s for awhile. You'll slay.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 04:08 AM
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What steps? All of them.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 04:02 AM
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Bro, see that lever labeled EJECT? Pull that one.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 04:01 AM
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In this situation you have to give some kind of answer- clamming up makes it seem like you're hiding something (maybe an STD). Just say ridiculous shit; "6,000"... "you're my first.. wait you're not a virgin??!?" ... "9 if you count the siamese twins as two"
/r/askTRP03/04/17 03:58 AM
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Basic shit man. Practice. Workout. Talk to everyone. Homeless dudes, old ladies, your mom, my mom, that hot girl over there, that ugly girl over there. Every day.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 03:50 AM
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Because black guys (I'm white) are confident as fuck in many cases.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 03:47 AM
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It's more about how you pay; just don't make a big deal about it. I almost always pay, but i hand my card to the wait staff before we even sit down. That way when the check comes i just sign and it's done. She'll say"thank you", and i'll say something cockyfunny like "i pay now, you pay later" (smirking).
/r/askTRP03/04/17 03:44 AM
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Kinda obvious isn't it? Move to bigger city. Make it happen. The fuck you doing in podunk nowhere at 21 anyway?
/r/askTRP03/04/17 03:39 AM
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"Know your enemy". Not that women are the enemy per se, but they are often the soldierettes of a paradigm that is against you- one that wants to pacify you and turn you into a beta bux wage slave. Your behaviors are the moves you make on the battlefield of your everyday life. That said, The 48 Laws of Power is a much more relevant book to RP and modern life in general.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 03:34 AM
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You played into her frame. If you're going on a date with an olympic skier, don't go fucking skiing. SHE likes to run, and SHE likes to walk around neighborhoods and look at big houses, and that's what you did together. You did nothing to differentiate yourself from normal shit she does. Better double down on the next date, take her somewhere fun where there's more to do than talk, meet up with a group of your friends later and take her dancing. You gotta take the lead in a big way- girls who ar…
/r/askTRP03/04/17 03:25 AM
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Are you highly attractive but a bit of a dimwit? That's the only way this post makes any sense. So in that case, read a book, be smarter.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 03:08 AM
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This. Read it and you'll have a hundred ways to play the situation. Law #9: Win through your actions, never through argument
/r/askTRP03/04/17 03:03 AM
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Studied business hardcore and picked up programming (emphasis on data science and business applications). Entrepreneurial-based studies (books, coursera) are good even if you're not going into a startup because they teach the basics of supply and demand, delivery, and business processes in general. Broadcasting/journalism can be a good field if you have the tenacity and interpersonal skill to navigate the politics of that world.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 02:47 AM
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What job do you have in the "Communication" field? I was a comm major as well but my career didn't take off until I realized a comm degree is bullshit and that I needed to pick up other skills and real-world business experience.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 03:51 AM
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Nothing to lose. invite her over, go for the win
/r/askTRP02/04/17 03:32 AM
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How about you go and tell her about the 15 chicks you banged? See if she holds you in such high regard then
/r/askTRP29/03/17 02:33 AM
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That sick feeling is called jealousy. stop being a pussy. Your best move would be to befriend this guy and learn his ways.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 04:22 AM
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keep the style, just change the lyrics bro. fuck that was easy. Write songs about RP and then send them to me i'll bump your shit
/r/askTRP24/03/17 04:15 AM
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Did you approach 200 girls the same way or did you mix it up and try different things?
/r/askTRP24/03/17 04:06 AM
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Which option is closer the city and better social scene? Sounds like option 1. Sounds like your job is far away from the city and social life, so is having an apartment there really a benefit? "Hey girl wanna come back to my place it's only an hour away" could be a hard sell
/r/askTRP24/03/17 03:52 AM
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Alphatard
/r/askTRP24/03/17 03:48 AM
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gym date? awkward AF
/r/askTRP24/03/17 03:45 AM
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"Then stop thinking about having sex with me"
/r/askTRP24/03/17 03:43 AM
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Read The 48 Laws of Power and apply accordingly.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 03:40 AM
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Regardless of your choice I'd be concerned that a growing company just let you go. Learn to make yourself indespensible
/r/askTRP24/03/17 03:37 AM
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You're not confident if you fear rejection. Not even a little.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 03:30 AM
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She called you babe. You a babe?
/r/askTRP24/03/17 03:29 AM
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No big deal. There are other much more important red flags to watch out for
/r/askTRP24/03/17 03:25 AM
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48 Laws of Power. You define your standards based on what you want from life
/r/askTRP24/03/17 03:23 AM
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Humblebrag.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 03:16 AM
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Try treating the CEO of the company you work at like a child.. see how that works out
/r/askTRP18/03/17 06:37 AM
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100%. Every approach is a win regardless of the outcome
/r/askTRP18/03/17 06:02 AM
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know when to shut the fuck up maybe?
/r/askTRP18/03/17 05:52 AM
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she doesn't have to be fat. find a 6 with a nice body and an actual personality
/r/askTRP18/03/17 05:43 AM
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Here's the thing dude- and this might sound racist but it's just my honest experience. 95% indian guys in my city are skinny-fat, weird smelling (body odor), and awkward as fuck. Don't be those 3 things, and being indian won't be much of an obstacle. Aziz and Dev are successful because they aren't retarded and can carry a conversation.
/r/askTRP18/03/17 05:38 AM
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you could have been funnier, instead you kind of got defensive.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 06:21 AM
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it's absolutely possible to dread while living together. it's actually crucial in LTRs. like I said- 12 levels of dread. look it up
/r/askTRP30/12/16 10:38 PM
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time and gym. don't let them see you for a few months and when you reappear jacked it will be clear that you've changed
/r/askTRP30/12/16 09:15 PM
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Your response was childish, not stoic. Google the 12 levels of dread and learn. Also, not wanting to "deal with her" in the first place tells me that your relationship sucks, you're both bored, and that you're a bit of an asshole. You're living with her, so you can't just ignore her for no reason.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 09:13 PM
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Behavior. You've seen the results for yourself; change your behavior to get different results. By responding to her tests with RP behavior, you've brought the relationship into your frame. Ultimately, all of TRP comes down to behavior. Out with the bad, in with the good.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 09:06 PM
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he's usually preoccupied playing video games. So this chick isn't attracted to a video game-playing loser? Weird. Must be something wrong with her. I suggest telling your buddy to get off his lazy ass.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 09:01 PM
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Haha agreed, last time I didn't even game, just danced my ass off
/r/askTRP27/12/16 01:47 AM
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I know how IG works. My point is that you shouldn't give a fuck. By asking her if you could follow her, you entered her frame. Your best play is to ignore this chick completely. Be a man, not a follower.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 01:43 AM
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You asked to follow her on IG? Beta as fuck. You also took way too long to ask her anything. Chad is fast. Beta is slow.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 01:30 AM
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I live in a mid sized city and one of the gay bars has hands down the best dance floor in town. Go with a mix of lezzies/gays/straights so that you're running with a group of more "accepted" people.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 01:09 AM
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Build something.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 05:57 AM
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This- stick to positive topics. Never complain and never talk about your insecurities/fears.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 05:55 AM
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My own rule for situations like this; when a girl humbles herself and admits that I have the power to hurt her, I don't.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 05:19 AM
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If the question is "should I break up with a girl my mommy doesn't like because she doesn't believe in Jesus?" My answer is: Da fuck is wrong wit you OP?
/r/askTRP21/12/16 02:45 PM
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threatened to break up with me.. stop being a pussy and demote to plate or Next her. How? By telling her that you are no longer exclusive. Be stoic when she flips shit and then follow up with "that's how it's going to be, we can still hang out, but that's it."
/r/askTRP21/12/16 02:39 PM
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All girls are emotional. Stop giving fucks about hurting her feelz and what your friends are going to think. Your real friends will understand that sometimes shit doesn't work out. Fuck anyone who doesn't understand such a simple concept. Sounds like you're a people-pleaser. Is that what you want to be? Or do you want to be a man who values himself and his own happiness?
/r/askTRP21/12/16 02:32 PM
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Some decent answers, but the reason logistics are key is because hot girls get approximately 4,000 messages per day, and every message that is not about logistics is just giving her more attention/validation. Don't be like every other guy texting her. Get to the point: "some friends and I are going to the show at Venue X tonight, you down?" It's a yes or no, and you won't waste time trying to figure out if she's interested. If she doesn't respond or make an effort after 2 invites, Next.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 02:20 PM
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You have a parental form of Oneitis. Do you think warriors in ancient times always had daddy around to care about them? Fuck no. Did it stop men from becoming men? Also fuck no. The world is full of male role models, so don't put all the responsibility on your dad. He's one man. My own father is a real hard ass, and he's taught me more about what I don't want to be than anything. Take your lessons where you can, stop comparing yourself to others like all the other little millennial fucks do, and…
/r/askTRP21/12/16 07:33 AM
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what the fuck is your question?
/r/askTRP21/12/16 07:11 AM
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You want to raise your SMV so that someone else will approve of you. This is your fundamental problem. A man does what he does because HE finds value in the doing, not because he will receive validation from an external source. He especially does not require the approval of a woman. You change yourself by doing things. You do the gym. You do eat heathy. You do shut the fuck up and stop talking to her so much. You have to create some separation between you and this girl and give yourself space to…
/r/askTRP19/12/16 08:39 AM
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Holiday shopping. Ask for their advice on if XYZ is a good gift for your niece or some shit.. Or make a funny comment about some item on display
/r/askTRP18/12/16 11:47 PM
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You're letting weeks pass, that's too long. Women feel used if you don't contact them after a hookup. She won't fuck you again if she feels used.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 11:36 PM
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Little to no training? Um.. nothing. Everything worth doing requires training.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 11:30 PM
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48 laws of power is what you're looking for. read it.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 11:27 PM
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"yes". Don't dodge it. Own your shit. BUT DO NOT get sucked into the convo over text. She'll prob start tripping out, but tell her this convo is more appropriate for a face to face
/r/askTRP18/12/16 11:24 PM
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You won't get over it because you know that at heart you are still a Beta. You also know that she knows this, and this adds to your anxiety. Any teenage boy who gives away his committment so readily has surrendered his ability to develop into a man. You are scared because you are a boy. And you will remain a boy until you start valuing yourself. Committment to a woman is something you only give to one who has proven herself absolutely worthy of it. But your girl gets it whenever she wants. She m…
/r/askTRP18/12/16 11:20 PM
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I second this^ Personally, I would smash this guy's face in. Publicly if possible. Also, if your girl thinks she has to be the man in the relationship, you are in a bad spot, and I don't suspect it's just because of her knowledge of the rape either. Be honest and really evaluate how Alpha you've been in the relationship.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 10:55 PM
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She's trying to lock you down because you're going to be a fucking doctor bro. She's setting you up to be her Beta Bucks. And you're falling for it. Women are master manipulators. Be not an idiot.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 03:55 AM
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You have an entirely different problem than you think you have. You're not really that interested in this girl anymore, she just "checks the boxes" as you say. But that doesn't really mean anything does it?
/r/askTRP17/12/16 03:50 AM
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Post-wall anxiety. She's 33 and knows she needs to lock down a man asap. She knows she's not going to score a 26 yr old stud for an LTR. She probably digs you but she has to be practical if she wants to avoid becoming a spinster.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 03:45 AM
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Avoidance is not RP. If she's picking a fight with you, she either; Doesn't respect you Thinks you're a pussy Is shit testing to find out if you're a pussy. Either way, you don't avoid it. You look her dead in the face. Look through her. The blank stare is powerful. It communicates that you know exactly what the fuck game she is running and you are not phased by it. It communicates that you know what's up and that she better correct herself or shit will go down.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 03:35 AM
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I think you're right, she was just being nice to her friend's friend. I was escalating at a decent pace but went more aloof as I realized how ditzy she was. Probably lost her interest at that point. Side note TRP has kinda fucked me up for the moment.. I'm in that phase where I don't care how hot a girl is, when she starts saying dumb shit and being AWALT retarded I lose interest almost immediately. thanks for the insight.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 03:10 AM
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I don't "care" I just think it's an interesting situation/behavior. It's easy to not give a fuck and not analyze any situation but I'm trying to learn something.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 09:25 PM
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This is the key. Self improvement for the purpose of receiving validation=masturbation. Remember the 2nd half of the quote in question; "Now self destruction..." Tyler trails off here, but the implication is that self destruction can be more fruitful. That's Red Pill- destroying illusions. Destroying your Beta self. Destroying all the parts of you that need to be destroyed.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 03:49 AM
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So some chick very reluctantly had sex with you. Cool. How was that by the way?
/r/askTRP04/12/16 03:43 AM
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Completely depends on your industry. Need more specifics.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 08:03 PM
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Generally speaking, texting should only be for logistics. You can chit chat when your together IRL. Why? Because chatting it up over text means you're too available. This kills attraction and is one of the many contributing factors to a situation like yours where the girl thinks she calls the shots. It would be well worth your time to read the sidebar. You can't really call yourself "red pilled" until you've done sidebar basics.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 04:42 AM
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Correct. You seem to have good instincts, you just have to act on them.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 01:19 AM
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Why do you feel the need to say anything at all? To make sure she feels good? That's Beta behavior and part of the reason she doesn't respect you.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 01:17 AM
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A man does not ask, he acts.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 12:46 AM
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I had an LTR who was a 4... This is where I stopped reading
/r/askTRP28/11/16 12:43 AM
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Your reply "I'm thankful for the gym", while also funny as fuck, is a perfect example of the attitude you need to maintain AND FOLLOW THROUGH WITH. Do not apologize. This girl dumped you and got you back. She believes she is in control. You're considering bargaining with her when you should be doing the exact opposite. Intensifying dread and wearing the pants. That said, she's plate material, not gf.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 12:37 AM
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don't fucking ask about her day dude you're slipping. back into Beta mode.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 12:33 AM
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Is cocaine a supplement?
/r/askTRP28/11/16 12:29 AM
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Womanese translation: "Weirded me out" = "Made my hamster freak out like it had done an 8 ball of cocaine OMG OMG the guy I LIKE is having FFFFUN with OTHER WWWOMEN but WTF he's supposed to like MEEEEEE and and and but MEEEEE and THAT ONE BITCH OHHH she is not even cute like not even A LITTLE BIT CUTE i am so much PRETTIER OMG i just checked snapchat doesn't even look THAT FUN..." ..etc Use to your advantage.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 12:27 AM
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You're literally doing everything wrong. Every. Thing. Wrong.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 05:42 PM
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/u/Bob_Shea This film has nothing to do with Red Pill, so why are you posting it on RP-related subs?
/r/MGTOW27/11/16 05:27 PM
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Video record her tirades so you can use them in court to achieve full custody. Get this toxic woman out of your life.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 05:24 PM
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For the most part yes it's probably a theme, but it really varies- the best kind of hippie chick doesn't subscribe to any particular "ism". The second best kind will call themselves a feminist, but in reality they don't give a shit because they are far more interested in other topics. I even know one girl who calls herself an uber feminist but her main gripe is that feminist rhetoric has become overtly anti-male. Feminism isn't always a dealbreaker. Remember; actions over words. If some chick wa…
/r/askTRP27/11/16 04:28 PM
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The first time you catch some cutie giving you a double take because she notices you're jacked. game on.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 08:45 AM
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You can alter the thought, you just haven't because you have not taken the necessary steps to alter yourself. How many girls you been with since she blew you off? 0? Hmm.. Want her back all you want, she doesn't want you. Time to grow up and get on with it.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 08:31 AM
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wherever the hippie chicks in your area are.. not the stoner type, more like yoga / weird art / spiritual types. They at least have a sense of the greater things in life and have interesting things to say.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 08:21 AM
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Well stop dressing like a catalog, and avoid the job talk with jokes; Girl: "what do you do?" You: "i work at the hospital" Girl: "Ohh what do you do there?" You: "heal people, obviously. I'm a shaman."
/r/askTRP27/11/16 08:08 AM
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Love isn't dead it's just different than we were taught. The main difference is that the love you're talking about won't just happen. You will have to get off your ass and work on yourself to become the best man you can be. You are not entitled to true love, you can earn it though. You can have a woman who respects you and loves you, but it won't happen to the boy that plays WoW, and it won't happen to the boy who wishes life came easy. It will happen to the man.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 07:58 AM
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well if that's the case then OP needs a more literal unplugging
/r/askTRP27/11/16 12:48 AM
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haha. On a serious note, if you want to go deep and feel some real feels, go to the jungle and do Ayahuasca.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 12:37 AM
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"The universe is inherently playful" -Alan Watts This is all a game. Most people take it far too seriously. I also see many parallels between the Bhuddist idea of "detachment" and what RP teaches about Outcome Independence. Many of the guys who can't develop beyond anger phase give RP somewhat of a bad rep. IMO at its core, RP is about understanding, self-cultivation, self-expression, and the ability to move on when necessary. Very spiritual concepts in my mind.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 05:23 AM
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lol Blow your load in some rando. That should give you material for a few journal entires.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 05:11 AM
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You need to approach this as a different kind of problem. If you have no sexual desire, that's your problem. If you think you're ever going to be happy with a woman who is ok without sex you need to reassess your grip on reality. Fucking science bro.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:59 AM
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You're in tech, so you probably understand some math. work14hrs = urdead work8hrs = umaylive gym += life friends += life notbeingretard += girlss
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:52 AM
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bonus if documents are stamped "Top Secret"
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:44 AM
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Yes you need friends. Yes girls like guys with friends. Social proof. Cultivate your social circle.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:27 AM
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Don't underestimate the blank stare. Like you're looking through them
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:25 AM
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Topic is "disrespect" u have dysresxlyia
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:25 AM
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Won't be your gf for that long if you're that broke. So don't worry about it.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:23 AM
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I would ride the controversy all the way to the House of Fame
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:18 AM
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Go practice on a cute sales associate. Don't try to stop some girl who's trying to get somewhere. Talk to one who is casually browsing through a store. Ask some girl if she'll give you an opinion on 2 shirts you're looking at. Girls love giving their opinions. .
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:09 AM
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Translation: "Don't leave me! I haven't found another branch to swing to yet! I will fall and hurt myself! Eeeeeeeee!"
/r/askTRP26/11/16 03:57 AM
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Because no matter what you reveal, it's all just hamster ammunition.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 10:24 AM
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I wanted to be this girl's boyfriend... Um... do you realize what subreddit you're on? This is the most BP thing I've ever read. Stop being a social retard.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 10:20 AM
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Dude wtf are you talking about. You sound hella desperate for validation. A pic of some skeez twerkin on you won't do shit for your game.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 10:17 AM
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remember, I have enemies.. You're trying soooo hard to sound like a badass. You're talking to a girl on the internet. Opposite of badass.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 07:07 AM
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..friendzoned. Which means to her friends you are 'friend' rather than a potential suitor. Certainly not my experience. Not sure why the friend zone is so difficult for guys to deal with. You can't tell me that an HB9's friends who are HB7 aren't accessible to a guy just because HB9 LJBF'd him.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 10:22 PM
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It's actually not that rare. Sarah doesn't really give a fuck what Jessica said about Chad if Chad is attractive to Sarah. I agree there is some social maneuvering involved, but that's the point. You're not relying on LJBF girl to hook you up, it's really just about creating inroads and increasing number of possible opportunities.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 09:45 PM
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You don't LTR chicks because of some theory you have about them. You LTR them only if and when they demonstrate LTR-worthy characteristics.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 09:36 PM
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askTRP is the more appropriate subreddit for this post. That said; She absolutely refuses the idea of a pre nup. She went as far as crying because "i didn't trust her".. Classic attempt at manipulation. It has NOTHING to do with trust. What you're coming up against are her survival instincts. Women survive by having options and you are denying her the option to divorce rape you. Print the prenup, lay it out on a table, hand her the pen, say "I love you, but this is not happening unless this gets…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 09:22 PM
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Likely an attempt at manipulation. But could also be a simple logistics problem. No one wants to get caught banging by their parents. Did her mom actually come home soon after or was it a ruse?
/r/askTRP20/11/16 09:00 PM
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an eastern girl with MUCH more traditionalist views so I was even thinking possible LTR. Because her views should dictate the course of the relationship? Someone hasn't read the basics. This girl was throwing herself at you from every angle and you failed to escalate. And then Chad approached her, mumbled something, and stuck his tongue in her mouth. She's ignoring you because it's hard to text while riding Chad's cock.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 08:34 PM
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You have so much to tell but you tell very little. This is exactly what you want, so keep doing whatever you're doing. You are a mystery to her and that is a good thing. I don't know what her endgame was but you handled the situation well
/r/askTRP20/11/16 07:21 PM
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and I ask her to tell me whats wrong.. ..she hits me with the "you should find someone who is better than me" You offered to be her emotional tampon and it repulsed her. Stop fucking texting so much. Stop giving all your fucks to this one girl.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 07:14 PM
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Ignore. Keep conversation to strict business if you do have to talk to him. Let him implode on his own and stand clear of the fallout.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 07:00 PM
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Boise ID here.. (love this place). Girls from bigger cities/dense populations simply get a higher volume of attention/validation and their egos become inflated beyond the bitch threshold.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 06:55 PM
1

Be friends with her. BUT actually treat her like a guy friend. Bang her other friends. 9s have hot friends. Fuck them properly and she'll probably hear about it and want to have her turn with you.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 05:00 PM
1

You're off to a great start. Your #1 goal right now should be to get a full time job. The stress of not having enough money to have the basics (a place of your own, cash for fun stuff) can weigh heavy on a man. As men we are hard-wired to acquire resources, so if you are lacking in that department, you are not fulfilling your basic primal needs and your confidence is going to be negatively affected. Monk Mode might be a good option for you. For myself discovering RP made me take an honest look a…
/r/askTRP20/11/16 04:57 PM
1

I've got Oneitis and got betrayed.. you got betrayed because you got Oneitis
/r/askTRP20/11/16 10:20 AM
1

I understand the type of expanded social group you're talking about, but if an ex had the gall to show up at my house (even a shared house) with the dude she cheated with, I'd bounce them right the fuck out.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 10:16 AM
1

dude just go to the bar by yourself, order a water and put a lime in it. Looks like a gin and tonic, nobody asks questions.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 10:10 AM
7

cold hard truth right there.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 09:57 PM
16

she wants to find herself... a new dick. sorry bro. Time to stop lurking and start participating.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 09:55 PM
7

I had a friend in a similar situation. I bought a hard copy of The Rational Male, handed it to him and said "You won't agree with everything in this book, but it helped me in more ways than I can count." He read it in a week and it changed his life.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 06:12 PM
2

Nope. big steps. man steps.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 03:44 AM
1

What do you mean "abuse compliance tests"?
/r/askTRP18/11/16 11:05 PM
1

You're too focused on yourself. Get out of your head and do something for someone else. Help someone out. Or ask someone's advice on something you need help on (people love being asked for advice, it shows that you value their opinion). The opposite of being the crab in the bucket is helping people. Make people around you feel good.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 10:15 PM
1

She's trying to give you a dose of competition anxiety so that you'll do more for her. Do the opposite.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 07:54 PM
1

Swallowing the pill is meant to take you out of your comfort zone. If you're one of those guys who has always waited until you're 100% sure that she's into you before you make a move, it's time to stop being that guy. The need for certainty is based in fear. You want to be a guy who takes risks. SHE wants you to be that guy too. Be that guy.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 07:42 PM
1

touché.. perhaps I'm hanging out with too many doorknobs lol.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:54 PM
2

Interesting for sure.. polarizing people and having enemies is not necessarily a bad thing though. 48 Laws of Power has tons of great examples of how those things can be used
/r/askTRP18/11/16 06:55 AM
1

sure sounds like fun mr. roboto
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 06:51 AM
0

Um.. wut? If you've never had good convo with a woman.. you're the problem.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 04:47 AM
3

Dear OP, Thank you for not being a pussy and taking care of your shit. You are on the path. Sounds like the key for you is HEAVY weights. Heavy is what puts on the size. Your diet doesn't have to be fine-tuned when bulking, just eat meat and healthy fats (cashews, avocado, coconut milk-canned is cheapest) and going fucking rageballs at the gym.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 04:13 AM
2

Decide what you want. pick a girl Tell her you want to meet up Meet, escalate (touch her, tease, joke) Escalate until she stops you or you end up fucking. Eject if she rejects. Be cool about it. Re-escalate at soonest opportunity Fuck off if she rejects you. Next. The benefit of being a man is that you get to be in control. Women want the guy who seizes control. Grab your balls and take what you want from the situation.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 04:05 AM
1

Plan on an Approach to Close ratio of 10:1. Sometimes the girl is cute but she'll just be so retarded you won't want to bang her.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:56 AM
1

If you have an infinite amount of time to talk on the phone, you're too available. Anything beyond 5 minutes could do you a lot more good in person. Chattiness over the phone will get you nowhere.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:53 AM
2

Behind the back military presses have been known dangerous since 1991. Who the fuck was advising you OP?
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:23 AM
1

Milk for babies. Are you a baby?
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:20 AM
1

been fucking regularly a few times a week.. You made yourself too available. You should be far too busy to give her that much attention so readily.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:19 AM
1

Like. Competing with AMOGs is an underrated source of fun and a great way to learn/hone your skills.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:14 AM
1

if it's a "job"... fuck it, fuck her if it's your career path, NOPE.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:11 AM
2

Yep. qualifying herself. She's basically saying "Guys want me, look how fuckable I am." You need to escalate pronto. You could probably just grab her at this point.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:09 AM
1

No food dates. Concerts where you can touch and dance a bit and move about the room. Gotta be dynamic.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:05 AM
1

She's basically saying "Look how valuable I am.. you're so lucky to have me because so many guys want me.." Hopefully we all know how to respond to that.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:03 AM
5

Just to clarify, they're not "victimizing" you, they're demonizing you. You are 100% correct to next this entire group. Wholesale. Feminism used to be well intentioned but the well has been poisoned and bitches with a sophomore understanding of the issues control the dialogue now. I moonlight as a sociopath so I'd probably have one last hurrah with the group where I drink 3 beers and tell them what a bucket of cunts they are.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:00 AM
2

I can't even keep track of this shit when kids start talking about social media. She did this and then she did this and I snapchatted this and she looked at it! Fucking boys. SOCIAL MEDIA IS A TOOL THAT WOMEN USE TO AGGREGATE VALIDATION. IT DOES NOT MEAN A FUCKING THING TO YOU AS A MAN. IRL IS ALL THAT MATTERS. YES TEXT/CALLS FOR LOGISTICS BUT IRL IRL IRL IS WHERE THE PUSSY TINGLES AND FUCKING HAPPEN.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 02:50 AM
1

You bang ex. Ex's BF finds out Ex's BF dumps her Ex has crisis of feelz Ex tells your fiancé what happend what happens next OP? Logic: because bitches be crazy.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 02:26 AM
6

I love eating pussy. Have to be selective though
/r/askTRP18/11/16 02:21 AM
25

What could you possibly gain from this situation? Fucking nothing. She's treating you like a peasant. She's thinking Thanksgiving is a time to give to the needy and less fortunate, so she invites you. Don't insult yourself by attending.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 02:20 AM
1

Yes, listen to /u/Cunt_Robber and save yourself time. But you truly have to be willling to walk away. Not walk away and turn around when she starts begging you to come back, but Christopher Walkin The Fuck Away. ...the way she initiated and kept saying she was coming from a confused place.. This is a perfect example of how women manage their Beta orbiters. Dude, the fact that she "doesn't want to hurt you" is a clear indication that she perceives you as weak. She thinks she can hurt you. What do…
/r/askTRP18/11/16 02:15 AM
1

You didn't escalate. Top 10% girls require that you be Alpha. You are not Alpha to her. Maybe you can salvage but you're probably best just letting it happen naturally, like the next time you're all together in a group. If that does happen you should be gaming other girls in front of her. Deliver dose of Competition anxiety.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 04:04 PM
1

opening up to her emotionally about genuinely liking her... This is the polar opposite of what you should be doing.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 03:58 PM
1

"Friends"... ok maybe. "Best Friends"? NOPE.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 08:50 AM
2

well don't delete the fucking messsages if they could potentially prove your innocence. And btw.. cops don't fucking call people. They arrive on scene.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 08:43 AM
1

You talk a lot about "we" and "people", and not enough about YOU. I want to be open and honest and have people be that way with me.. YOU can only control one of those things. Wanting "people" to be what you want is just setting yourself up for disappointment. You change the world by changing yourself. Don't be a martyr/SJW. RP creates disallusionment, but disallusionment is a part of the hero's journey. The next part is where the hero realizes it really is up to him to save the fucking day. And,…
/r/askTRP17/11/16 08:40 AM
2

I think /u/redhazardlights answered the question well in the first paragraph. The transaction of resources/sex between men and women is more complex because, contrary to many Red Piller's beliefs, women do have more to offer than sex. There is more than one currency in the market.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 08:25 AM
1

I really like her Do you know where the fuck you are? Any idea at all? You don't "like" her in the way that you're saying it. You're putting her on a pedestal and filling your head with bullshit about how awesome she is just because you smashed faces.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 08:16 AM
3

This. She told OP the guy's name and then says OP can't beat him up because he doesn't know his name. Call your girl out OP. Sounds like she's fucking with your head and you're falling for it. You failed by puffing up. Should have just told her to kindly point out the ass grabber if he shows up again.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 08:03 AM
1

I have to admit, I fucking love this. And actually you did her a huge fucking favor. You showed her to herself- and she's terrified of what she sees. Thus you gave her a chance to change who she is. Even revenge can serve higher purposes.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 07:51 AM
1

your focus MUST be on other women, for this girl to want to fuck you OP tattoo this on yourself
/r/askTRP17/11/16 07:29 AM
2

Nailed it. OP you are nothing to this girl except an occasional dose of validation. Get on with your life. You fucked up 13 different ways, no going back.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 07:25 AM
1

Have you learned nothing.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 07:19 AM
1

15 girls in 10 weeks really isn't that many. That's just 15 girls in 70 days. On at least 55 days, you did nothing. Girls are flakey. What are you doing to stand out? Do you make them laugh? Are you memorable to them? Also, what /u/AFPJ said. Take the girl, not just the number.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 07:18 AM
2

Yes, because hot girls get approximately 312 text messages per day, and very few (if any) phone calls from guys. But don't call to chat. Short + witty + logistics.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 07:06 AM
1

keyword: "statistically". TRP is about not becoming a statistic.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 01:36 AM
2

Brother give yourself some credit for approaching as much as you have. That takes brass balls especially after getting shot down. Like other commenters have said, watch RSD Tyler, and keep approaching. You're already doing the hard part. Takes most guys a loooong time to make multiple cold approaches like that.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 04:16 AM
1

The women who were so deeply offended were the ones who don't have grabbable pussies
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 01:33 AM
1

A lot of good conversations are ruined by some idiot who actually knows what he's talking about.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 09:56 PM
1

Huh? He can still be a father even if he's not with the mother.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 09:50 PM
1

That's a detail worth including in the original post. That said, it doesn't change much. They have to make the choice to put their own happiness first. Most of them won't. They fear ridicule and they've been indoctrinated by feminists that staying together for the kids is the equivalent of "manning up". It's a battle and soldiers die. I've lost many good friends to marriage and now they are just boring AF living their lives on autopilot. You have to carry the flag forward without them, and find …
/r/askTRP15/11/16 04:46 PM
0

it's not about pointing it out- it's about knowing what fallacies people are employing and directing the conversation as necessary. Knowing about fallacies can help you recognize shit tests. That in itself makes them worth some study.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 01:54 PM
1

Agreed, but you can fuck with them at a whole other level when you know their fallacies. Reindeer games.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 05:24 AM
1

You're committing the fallacy of Appealing to Authority saying that "average people" are somehow an authority. hehehehehehehe.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 05:19 AM
1

he doesn't know how to break up with a girl? Not being shitty really I'm asking
/r/askTRP15/11/16 12:39 AM
1

No amount of words can help. Best you can do is lead by example. Make your own life awesome and invite him along when you can. He'll either see the light or not. If he's really being pathetic about it you can always go blunt force and just tell him you can't hang out with a dude who hates his life.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 10:39 PM
1

As long as you have realistic expectations and healthy boundaries, there's nothing wrong with GF'ing this girl. But watch yourself when it comes to "opening up" to her. 48 Laws of Power remind us to "Always say less than is necessary". You have to retain that sense of mystery in order to keep her interested. As soon as she "knows you", she's bored and it's over. This is the great challenge of LTR's. It should go without saying, but watch out for Beta backsliding
/r/askTRP14/11/16 09:14 PM
37

USA doesn't have a Trump problem, we have a political system problem. It runs far deeper than one man. (I'm American)
/r/askTRP13/11/16 09:29 PM
2

"..she had me come over, take her to a movie, buy her chipotle.." lol @BetaBux
/r/askTRP13/11/16 04:03 PM
1

Google "The 12 Steps of Dread". A bitchy critical chick is one that doesn't respect you. You need to re-establish frame in a big way. And for fucks sake read the basics. DO NOT tell her you love her first. She's being a bitch and you're thinking of rewarding that behavior?
/r/askTRP13/11/16 03:48 PM
1

You make up for it by forgetting about it and focusing on your strengths. Plenty of babes out there 5'5 and under. Wear insoles and boots if you must. +2 inches
/r/askTRP13/11/16 01:45 AM
1

6'1 155 is skinny as hell bro how can you be comfortable with that? Pile on the heavy weight and get after it. Those 20 lb dumbs are not heavy enough. IMO hardest thing about working out at home is motivation. I would join that studio for 200- maybe they have weights there? But also for the social aspect considering you live in nowhere. Simply have to lift to exhaustion. For example, on chest days go balls out until you can't even do a single push-up. Make it hurt.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 01:38 AM
2

Whatever you say, just don't compliment her looks. I don't compliment at all- it's better just to make observation; "Interesting necklace- what's the story there"? I find questions about ethnicity to be a good conversation starter; "What's your heritage? You look greek" or some shit like that.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 01:15 AM
1

Bet you haven't tried fucking 10 other women
/r/askTRP13/11/16 01:01 AM
3

Whatever a man thinks, so he becomes. If you think it's wired, it's wired. If you say it's easier said than done, you'll never do it. Decisions or excuses. Pick one.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 10:38 PM
1

ah I see.. DON'T be aspie. DO read body language. I was confused on wording.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 10:15 PM
3

Richard LaRuina's "The Natural" might be a better fit for you.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 10:12 PM
1

Sounds like you weren't very exciting. Were you making her laugh during any of this? Also, movie watching is not a good context for escalation, especially if it's early in the relationship. The whole thing just kind of sounds boring.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 10:11 PM
2

She's 31+ yrs old, she contacted you because she's trolling for options. Your move.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 09:11 PM
13

Hot girls (the kind that have 81 unread messages) have plenty of alpha dick being thrown at them daily. You failed to escalate on the first date, and you took her out, which puts you on the Beta provider spectrum. Alpha escalates until she puts on the brakes. I posted on the main sub about a very similar experience I had awhile back. [FR] Lesson Learned = Fuck Her ASAP. "No problem. Only thing is she's gay so she might steal you from me." Not Amused Mastery.. You basically told her "You are high…
/r/askTRP12/11/16 09:06 PM
2

Ya but OP is not talking about work or LTRs. Anyway this is a post for main sub not askTRP.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 08:29 PM
1

What do you mean by reading body language as being aspergie? Being able to read body language is crucial.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 08:27 PM
10

Not true. Seduction is 90% nonverbal. When does a girl ever say "you can touch me now" ? Asking permission verbally kills the vibe. A guy should escalate until a girl puts on the brakes.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 05:56 PM
1

I took stock of my life and realized how average I really was. And that pissed me off. When you truly get fed up with the bullshit in your life, you'll be ready to change.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 05:46 PM
5

You do need to lighten up. Mate guarding is insecure behavior. Also, being as young as she is, if you deny her a social life she's gonna snap.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 06:30 AM
6

Tell her if she's having trouble pooping there is medicine for that
/r/askTRP12/11/16 04:09 AM
2

When you want it bad enough, you'll change. Right now you just seem to be okay with mediocrity. You haven't hit critical mass where some girl royally fucks you over or your hairline starts receding and you realize you don't have time to coast through life on easy mode anymore.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 03:54 AM
2

Re-reading your post I actually think the important thing to say is- don't go mgtow just because you got burned. That means she wins, forever. Understand anger phase but don't let it define your path. Women are the way they are because they are just trying to survive. You have to establish boundaries and understand what needs a male/female relationship can fulfill and those it can't. Boundary establishment is an underrated RP concept- we grow up thinking we'll find THE ONE and that she will be o…
/r/askTRP12/11/16 03:37 AM
1

Regarding oil field career- much harder to Red Pill in a rural area. Move if you have to.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 10:20 PM
1

This right here. logic will get OP nowhere until the emotional storm is over. Then maybe she will be receptive to logic.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 10:16 PM
1

Um.. perhaps she was striking up a conversation?
/r/askTRP11/11/16 10:10 PM
7

yep. Be thankful for the girls that fuck you up. They are often the catalysts men need to snap out of the Beta mindset.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 03:19 PM
2

Let's be honest OP, you didn't come here looking for advice. You're looking for validation that you're little plan will work. It won't, because you're not really changing yourself, you're just changing your story.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 07:13 AM
1

Thank you for TL;DR. OP, TL;DR your life. Stop overthinking shit. Stop making excuses about your city/circumstances.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 07:04 AM
2

Maybe points pop up every time you score a laugh or get an IOI. Maybe everyone has icons floating above their heads that indicate their status, openness, threat level, fuckability (for the ladeez) etc. +10 points every time you can legitimately use the word "promulgate" in a sentence +30 for being told "you're an asshole". Reindeer games. How quickly can you cut through small talk and learn something interesting about a person? All kinds of fun things for a psychopaths pleasure.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 06:59 AM
1

I said "Entrepreneurship programs".. not major in Entrepreneurship. The Uni in my town doesn't even have an Entrep major but they have an Entrep center
/r/askTRP11/11/16 06:17 AM
1

Most good universities have Entrepreneurship programs. So do both.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 02:54 AM
1

Fucking ignore her... bro. What will actually happen: OP will ignore her for a week maybe, then she'll say something nice to him and he'll be back at square one all buttery like "Oooo yeah I can help you with your homework ya ya I'm okay with being friends oh you need a ride to a concert but don't have any extra tickets? aw that's alright I'll give you a lift"
/r/askTRP10/11/16 11:46 PM
33

She didn't move on the next day- she had him lined up a long time ago. You missed the signals. You will be thankful for her in the near future. Continue RP and become a better man.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 11:02 PM
19

"...apparently this means I care about sex more than her." Classic manipulation. If she doesn't want sex, she should understand that you're going to get it elsewhere. If she rejects this idea, she obviously doesn't give a fuck about you. Hard next.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 06:12 PM
1

Maybe she actually has some sense about what makes a relationship work.. We've all been in those relationships where you spend way too much time together, and people get bored, shit falls apart. Sounds like you got needy. Being away from each other is healthy- people need that space to grow.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 05:56 AM
1

"being mad shows you care"- classic bullshit. Perfect example of female manipulation / nuclear shit testing. BE THE FUCKING BOSS. When you laugh at her shit tests, you are passing them. Her picking fights is her trying to gain control.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 04:04 AM
1

You're not getting it. You're obviously butthurt because you haven't swallowed the pill.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 02:29 AM
1

Go ahead, turn it back on her, start an argument. See how far that gets you.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:28 AM
1

You can contact her to arrange a meet up, but if she doesn't respond or at least suggest alternate time/date, it's time to move on. Why can't you make your SMV explode like a supernova? That's the goal of RP
/r/askTRP07/11/16 07:48 PM
1

No, that's just playing the blame game and you will lose even if you're right. It also sounds a little butthurt. My go to is simply "Been busy working on projects- let's get together wednesday night". Dude this is why you must spin plates. Cultivate that abundance mentality so that if one chick goes MIA for 2 weeks it's no biggie.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 06:03 PM
1

what in the fuck are you talking about? It's this type of nonsensical rambling that gives women a bad rep. You come here with a name like SmartLadyOnline and say men think "...smashing a woman's face in is no big deal.." Clearly you've been burned by some douche.. don't take it out on the rest of mankind
/r/askTRP07/11/16 05:47 PM
1

If what you're interested in is learning and bettering yourself, then you're probably better off single. Single life is far more diverse and challenging than being in a cozy LTR. Comfort vs. Growth. How comfortable are you?
/r/askTRP07/11/16 05:41 PM
1

She's not guilty of anything. She just didn't validate you and you're letting it get to you. Get some abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 05:36 PM
1

the idea is to simply be interesting by breaking up the small talk
/r/askTRP07/11/16 05:33 PM
1

Are you really ready to be in an LTR or do you need time to become your own man? What you describe sounds like codependence- you get depressed when your relationship hits a bump. Not good.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 05:27 AM
1

lol sick bastard
/r/askTRP07/11/16 05:22 AM
12

Then don't fucking tell them you're in hs. jesus man. What I'm saying is to stop giving fucks about what other people say and just do you.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 05:14 AM
2

Yeah /u/GentlemanFilth has been White Knight trolling TRP lately. He's a sad boy.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 05:11 AM
1

Bedroom for sexy fuck seduction time, not TV.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 04:54 AM
1

She's flipping you shit because you rejected her, and it hurt her feelz. She will now forever try to hurt your feelz. You shat where you ate and will have to eat the poop until it's gone. gobble gobble.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 04:51 AM
1

Be clever. My personality is highly satirical/amused/ridiculous, so if someone tells me, "you have good hair.." I'll say some shit like "You know they say that hair is like the flag of the ship.." Use small talk as a medium for improv.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 04:42 AM
0

Because convenience is attractive, and game is hard work
/r/askTRP07/11/16 04:31 AM
1

You won't seem angry if you don't say anything. Just shut up and go be a man until she contacts you. If she brings up your lack of contact, treat it like any other shit test and make a joke of it. Amused Mastery
/r/askTRP07/11/16 04:25 AM
17

High school will be over in 2 minutes. Prepare for college and take it to the next level.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 04:15 AM
2

Stop being okay with having an okay body. Red Pill is about becoming your best self. Do your part first and the world will follow.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 04:11 AM
1

Wear insoles and Doc Martin boots= gain 2 inches. And remember there is such a thing as too big- girls like cut muscle, not just size. If you're benching 300+ but don't have a 6-pack, you're doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 02:57 AM
2

Go to Peru for a 2 week Ayahuasca retreat. Among other things, it will accelerate the process of finding something you are passionate about.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 02:42 AM
1

She's going to be the perfect girlfriend because your SMV is 10X higher than hers, and that X factor will only continue to increase. Is this really the type of LTR you want?
/r/askTRP07/11/16 02:31 AM
6

You told yourself off.. of her radar. Like she said, you ruined it.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 02:25 AM
1

If you can afford college and weed simultaneously, you're already better off than 95% of people on Earth. Maybe take a few minutes each day to appreciate that fact. You have nothing but opportunity in front of you, but would rather fry your brain and throw pity parties for yourself. Your daily life choices suck. Make different ones. Lift. Make man friends. Volunteer; do something for someone else. Stop living in your insular bubble of selfishness and go help someone.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 11:49 PM
1

I watch shows I can learn from.. House of Cards for instance is a great study in The 48 Laws of Power. I also enjoy epics like Spartacus, Vikings etc which have a great strategic element and are great motivation for the gym. As for novels, again it's all about selection, for example Paul Cohelo's The Alchemist aligns well with RP concepts.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 11:31 PM
1

More for you is less for them. Simple economics. Read/Listen to 48 Laws of Power.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 06:57 PM
2

HB7+ always has a pool of orbiters. It's a part of hypergamy and the overall female survival strategy. The more branches there are to swing to, the safer the monkey is.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 06:52 PM
1

Really wish Reddit would throw an alert when OP's update their posts.. Would be really interesting to see how things play out in these types of situations.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 04:53 PM
2

If you're surprised at the 3 day turnaround you'd be even more surprised at the truth.. She was collecting orbiters long before the breakup.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 04:50 PM
2

required reading
/r/askTRP06/11/16 04:48 PM
3

idk why but this is one of my all time favorite TRP comments hahahah
/r/askTRP06/11/16 04:13 PM
1

hehehe checkmate
/r/askTRP06/11/16 04:09 PM
5

You don't ask her to flip over and go doggy, you just do it.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 04:06 PM
7

Because women operate on feelz. If she was not in control of the breakup, her feelz got hurt, and it's your fault.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 04:04 PM
1

RP is not about any one thing. I realize the sidebar says it's about sexual strategy, but we all know it goes way beyond that. Did you read the part where OP said he doesn't feel the same sense of attachment as he did before? To me, that's improvement.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 03:45 PM
0

You had plans, but she didn't know that. It's about her perception. Some sidebar advice that has worked for me; Friday and Saturday nights are generally reserved for fresh approaches and game. If a plate/prospect wants to hang, tell her you're going out with friends and she can join later. This also helps to establish social proof.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 03:30 PM
1

Sorry to hear about your anger issues. I don't even know where to start with you.. you have any idea how many women I've had to teach how to trust again? You are the worst kind of White Knight. Thinking you're the savior of women everywhere. Please. TRP is all about abuse and dehumanizing women.. Repeating something doesn't make it true. Google "Enemy Complex", and "Straw Man fallacy". Instead of taking shots at TRP in general why don't you address me specifically? Oh right, because your argumen…
/r/askTRP06/11/16 03:25 PM
6

Asking her what's up is not being direct, it's being clingy. The fact you're blowing her up all weekend tells her you have no social life. Dry pussy. Also, you say she explained how she wasn't ignoring you; this tells me you sent her some needy-sounding text asking why she was ignoring you. Dry pussy. Withdraw your attention. Beware of Oneitis. Abundance Mentality.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 05:26 AM
1

It's never you vs. society, it's you vs. yourself. always.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 05:15 AM
7

Dude we deal with people like you all the time. You've pigeonholed TRP into being about "abuse".. No man here advocates abuse, so don't straw-man our philosophy. You should do better research and see how many men actually use RP concepts to improve the quality of their LTR's. Women want a commanding man, that is a fact. You can call it misogynistic and dehumanizing, but again this is just your childish name calling. I like women. I appreciate them. But our society is pushing men to be like women…
/r/askTRP06/11/16 05:11 AM
1

This is what RP is all about- taking action. OP one shade redder.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 04:53 AM
1

You can pick apart any FR by proposing all possible scenarios, but it doesn't invalidate OP's experience. A real SMV improvement story ends with the guy rejecting the pussy he crushed on so hard... Rejecting a shot at redemption is improvement? Doesn't make much sense. The girl wouldn't have been re-interested if OP was the same dude she met before. The fact that she was interested the second time around points to actual improvement in OP's attractiveness/SMV, which is the whole point.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 03:44 AM
1

...and TOTALLY REDEEM YOURSELF!!!
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 03:31 AM
3

yes we all do, but you don't tell a girl that. That's good you know what you like but I would caution against forgetting about girls.. I once did that for almost a year and it made my game rusty and I was shitty at sex for awhile. Take advantage of the fact that you don't really care about chicks.. That's a mindset that is hard to cultivate for many. But if dgaf and outcome independence come easy for you, use it. The less you need them the more they want you
/r/askTRP30/10/16 02:40 AM
1

she didn't say anything and was totally cool about it. I should say I wasn't impressed with myself.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 02:30 AM
1

You didn't try and fuck this girl, so you are not Alpha to her. She wouldn't need to take any time if you had fucked her proper. This is how it is man. Chicks want a dominating Alpha, and Alpha smashes pussy. Alpha does not engage in long texting conversations or delude himself into thinking he's a baller and that his words can make a girl come.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 10:19 PM
1

Option 3 with one addition: stop being a goddamn woman and letting your feelz control you. Appreciate the NSA pussy and continue improving self and game.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 10:08 PM
2

There is only one way out of the friend zone: Actually treating her like a friend- a guy friend to be exact. Pat her on the back when you hug, call her dude and bro a lot, game other women in front of her, tell her about girls you fucked, get her to help you pick up chicks. She'll either want to fuck you or she can help you fuck other girls.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 10:03 PM
1

hot girls get more texts than you can possibly imagine. I recently caught a glimpse of a hot girls phone while at a bar. She had been on her phone much of the night but still had 32 texts just chillin. Might be better off just going and finding her in real life. If you must text be direct- "let's get together Xday at Xtime, there's a cool Xevent happening"
/r/askTRP29/10/16 09:54 PM
3

Fight Club "We're a generation of men raised by women.. I'm wondering if another woman is really the answer we need.." -Tyler Durden
/r/askTRP29/10/16 09:39 PM
1

There are no unicorns, and there sure as fuck aren't any 18 yr old unicorns.. so get that out of your head.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 09:37 PM
7

A little disappointing that you told her you weren't "mature enough". That's the kind of self-deprecating behavior which has no place in the mind of someone who truly wants to improve themselves.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 09:32 PM
2

You didn't hold frame. They turned off your music that was playing on your boombox? And you just accepted that? Come on dude.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 09:28 PM
-1

We all have ADHD. And Adderall/Vyvanse has the same effect on nearly everyone. We were raised and exist in an environment where the scenery changes every 5 seconds. We are the products of this environment. Understanding this helps to define the problem. It's not a chemical imbalance as pharmaceutical corps would have us think. It's our environment and our adaptation to it. You're right, "chattiness" is feminine. We are a generation of boys raised by women, so again- products of our environment. …
/r/askTRP29/10/16 05:54 PM
15

Way too many fucks given. The kiss was just another shit test that you failed by getting angry. Also, understand that you've been operating in her frame ever since you agreed to be exclusive with her and then allowed her to stick around after she broke it off after A WEEK. You're letting your anger get the best of you. Take it to the gym or take it to her vagina. But never let it come out via your mouth or behavior.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 04:56 PM
2

You basically told her "I'm a loser with little ambition and shitty job prospects." You went on dates and walks and didn't try to fuck her? You are not Alpha to her. Chick tried to Betafy you nearly instantly. Fuuuuuuuck that.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 08:12 PM
1

This is THE most Beta posts I've ever seen on this sub. You're begging like a little bitch and she's telling you she doesn't want you. She's repulsed by you; you are way beyond shit test territory. Have you read any basic RP material or are you just on here seeking attention/validation? Fix your life bro you need to grow up.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 06:48 PM
1

I'm at a tech startup myself so I understand the 24/7 work lifestyle you're talking about. I would say just pick one; either FWB or business associates. Either way just be upfront with her- tell her you don't mix like that and if you do business it will be strict professional. Manage expectations at the very beginning the same way you do when your doing contract work.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 03:02 PM
3

Is there any chance that she could fuck you in business if you don't give her everything she wants, both business and relationship- wise? Seems like a yes. Your history with her is already weird. Don't shit where you eat, and don't be naive thinking it'll be all easy money and blowjobs. Business is already complicated enough, don't overcomplicate it by factoring in a plate.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 05:40 AM
27

3 years and you don't get invited to her work parties? Bro... Unless she works at the CIA, if she's not showing you off, she ain't into it.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 05:22 AM
1

I think we agree actually- I'm basically saying he needs to know how to plate. And the fact that he feels the need to hide the truth from a girl he's not even that interested in shows he's not really understanding RP
/r/askTRP27/10/16 03:03 PM
1

If you're going to argue against the core tenets of RP in favor of your own beliefs, why are you here? Outcome independence has nothing to do with apathy towards learning. Not sure why you would jump to that conclusion.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 03:00 PM
1

Sounds like your describing discipline, not "being hard on yourself". But hey if you like being outcome dependent, cool.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 06:41 AM
2

Cultivate dgaf and Amused Mastery. Alpha doesn't need to be an asshole because zero fucks are given. Be more social, strike up more conversations. Treat girls like humans, not princesses.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 06:39 AM
1

If you're 30, and asking this question on the internet... /cringe
/r/askTRP27/10/16 06:21 AM
1

Just don't call it TRP. And consider staying away from making it a "men's rights" issue. Too many men's rights activists complain like feminists.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 06:14 AM
1

Either swallow the pill or don't. You're in the wrong place if you're locked into serial monogamy, and "feel wrong" seeing other girls because you have some false sense of loyalty to some chick you don't even care about. If you feel the need to "cover your trail" you have no understanding of basic RP.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 06:06 AM
2

always been hard on myself.. TRP is about changing this type of pointless behavior. Does being hard on yourself get you anywhere? Nope. You need sidebar like crops need rain.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 05:38 AM
1

Slightly tangential, but consider the phrase "make friends". Most of your friends are likely circumstantial, meaning you are friends because you just happened to have a class or a sport with that friend. But to really "make" a friend requires intention. I'm 32, and I make friends because after years of trip and error I know how to socialize and inquire about people and I pick out the cool motherfuckers and we hang. 30's are awesome because guys generally have their shit more together. High statu…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 02:38 AM
3

4th wall emotional confessions have a silly way of breaking the immersion.. "Never break the 4th wall" is sidebar-worthy
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 02:30 AM
1

like /u/JourneymanTRP said, fucking them crazy is probably your best bet. I don't really know any "tricks" per se.. All I know is that girls crave a man with high status/high SMV. IMO in regards to keeping them hooked- personality only matters if it's backed by social proof.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 02:03 AM
5

cut the weed dude. it's doing more damage than you know. Your frying your receptors and making it impossible to enjoy life.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 02:18 AM
1

Dealing with my own mother was the hardest part of breaking up with my last LTR. My mom was way more attached to her than I was, because of course my LTR put her best foot forward when around my mother. My mom urged me to make it right with her, to reconcile. But my mom didn't really know her. She was moody, anxious, unstable, and disrespectful. You MUST trust yourself. Put your family members in their place- they don't know shit about who this girl really is.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 01:55 AM
1

Get your brains fucked out by new girls. You won't remember a thing.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:33 AM
1

You are def her Beta bux. Swallow your pride, take YOUR kid and go to your parents. Find a job with more regular hours. Night shift is a killer. Good luck dude
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:32 AM
1

Isolate Beth. Get her away from Claire. If she does dig you and has half a brain she won't tell Claire. Fucking Claire.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:26 AM
1

hmmmhugz. Or at the very least, if she tries to shake, hold her hand with both hands for a moment before releasing
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:23 AM
1

Go out and get rejected. A lot. By really hot girls. It should piss you off enough to want to change your shit up.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:18 AM
1

Studying psych via uni curriculum will give you zero spiritual satisfaction.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:03 AM
1

As mentioned earlier in this thread, psych degree is based on illness/diagnoses. Many people enter the psych degree thinking it will give them an edge in social situations. It doesn't. Study business/entrepreneurship, and consume content on psych and social dynamics in parallel. Understanding business provides you with a context in which to practice your psych learnings. Frankly in terms of applying psych to social dynamics, university curriculum is 10 years behind the curve of what you can find…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:01 AM
1

You're entering the beginning of your prime. And you have RP at your back. That should be enough.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 04:51 AM
1

Dear god man, do not fuck a chick you live with due to mere circumstance. Do you really want her around making it awkward for the other girls you (should be) bringing home?
/r/askTRP25/10/16 04:43 AM
1

I too have the stone face. I focus on amused mastery and plaster a perma-smirk on my face. makes me look like I'm enjoying myself with out being too smiley
/r/askTRP25/10/16 03:48 AM
2

Are you dominating her in bed or are you still Mr. Snuggles?
/r/askTRP25/10/16 02:40 AM
1

Step 1: Stop worrying about looking like an asshole. She's going to brand you with whatever label her hamster chooses in the moment. Step 2: Don't fucking drag it out. Sit her down, tell her you're done. She will cry and attempt to bargain, you'll feel shitty and consider bargaining. Don't bargain. Be stoic, hold frame.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 02:32 AM
2

So we've officially made up now Nah, you haven't. You went toe to toe with her and it was a draw, which is not a win. It was clear at the rock climbing story that this chick is a Narcissist and has zero respect for you. All you are to her is a tool that she can use to make herself feel good. I dumped my last LTR a year ago- she had "anxiety". Yeah, it would be hard for anyone to be calm when they're thinking about themselves 24/7. Dump this chick today.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 02:19 AM
1

I think it's just a matter of format. Most of the primary TRP influencers wrote books. Patrice O'neal doesn't get talked about that much either but Black Phillip is great stuff.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 01:50 AM
2

Use their resistance to practice holding frame. You nailed it with the chick that gave you the hand. Don't be too eager to move beyond their resistance- you can sharpen your skills and learn a ton from it. Consider them your sparring partners.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 01:02 AM
3

From my experience, some factors influencing the flake rate: Your total SMV: are you just a hookup or do you bring more to the table? Their SMV: HB7+'s have dick being thrown at them from all angles. You are one competitor among many, and the moment they find a better Chad they'll branch swing. How well you banged them: you said the girls who stuck are the ones you made cum; makes sense. Connection: Are you really connecting with these girls or just going for the bang at all costs? If your 3-day…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 12:44 AM
1

Are you talking about 30 yr old women or are you a 30 yr old man?
/r/askTRP24/10/16 08:31 PM
1

You're in an LTR, which is not necessarily a bad thing, but IMO would make it harder to fully experience TRP. Specifically, you're not going to experience anger phase if your satisfied in an LTR. I notice you said that you game girls "for sport." I assume this means you are not taking them to pound town.. So all you're really doing is flirting. Like I said, not as easy to incorporate a true RP lifestyle while you're LTR'd. Have you incorporated RP into your current relationship? Congrats on your…
/r/askTRP24/10/16 08:28 PM
5

"You hurt me" = "You didn't validate me"
/r/askTRP24/10/16 05:57 PM
1

I'm not so sure Triad characteristics should be a "goal" per se. I make somewhat of an exception for Machiavellianism, as it is more of a conceptual framework that is useful in strategic thinking. As for narcissism and psychopathy however; these are traits that are best born out of cultivating dgaf. lol remember you don't want to become a narcissist or psychopath. Try some approaches where your only goal is to have a positive interaction. Don't try to close or escalate in any way, just enjoy you…
/r/askTRP23/10/16 09:43 PM
4

I don't think OP was asking how to psychologically abuse someone.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 05:16 PM
3

A healthy dose of DT comes by cultivating dgaf mentality. Notice I said healthy dose. dgaf is foundational. Good on you for doing sidebar diligence- if you are just as committed to approaching/plating, you will see sidebar concepts play out time and time again, which will help you solidify and internalize core concepts. The key is practice. Practice with an experimenter's approach is what bridges the theoretical with the real. Cultivate dgaf / Outcome independence. When you minimize your bias, y…
/r/askTRP23/10/16 05:15 PM
10

Agreed. Call this guy out. I'd probably do it in front of people. Not just "Whats your issue dude?" but something that requires a response like "Bro ever since Jessica dumped your ass you've been a bitch. You cut me down when you see me talking to girls. What the fuck is your problem?." Stare him right in his eyeballs. Yes it will be awkward as fuck for anyone in the group but this guy is consistently ruining your game and needs to be put in his place. You'll be respected for standing up.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 09:56 PM
2

Serial monogamy is not the answer to one-itis. Spin plates.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 09:46 PM
2

I'm almost 32 and don't have too much trouble in my relatively small town of Boise ID. Sure there is always family and social pressure to conform, get married, have kids, and all that, but I've fully swallowed and digested the Red Pill and it's easy to ignore that noise from the plugged in masses. I plate 21 yr olds just fine- girls don't look at a guys age as much as they look at his value. Most importantly, it's your mindset that matters most. The operative cliché being; "As a man thinks, so h…
/r/askTRP22/10/16 06:47 PM
1

uhh wat? Girls love getting phone calls. Clearly you've never actually tried calling to set up a date. Every girl I've called rather than texted has had a positive response to it. You're stuck in your little millennial mindset.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 06:32 PM
1

just tell her to go on ahead. Not a big deal. Beware of becoming self-righteous. Kant's philosophy isn't very useful if it makes you hard to be around.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 01:26 AM
2

Forget Tinder. Being on there in the first place shows that you are at least a little desperate. The girls know this and that is who you are to them- the slightly desperate guy. Contrast that with the impression you can make in a real world approach. You want to be the interesting guy who had the balls to walk up and talk to her.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 01:20 AM
1

Focus on your dgaf. dgaf is your friend. dgaf above all. dgaf and the rest will follow. Only when you dgaf will you have a chance to effectively test the rest your theoretical knowledge. In dgaf we trust.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 01:05 AM
1

I am a very moody person Women are moody. Alpha male is stoic, calm, collected. Figure out the root of your moodiness. Learn how to be amused (Amused Mastery). Sounds like you just take things too seriously. This is all just a game dude and someday we're all going to shit our pants and die.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 12:58 AM
1

Phones can still be used for phone calls
/r/askTRP22/10/16 12:48 AM
2

save the car for real life.. they'll be far more impressed if you don't overtly show it off
/r/askTRP22/10/16 12:47 AM
1

Google "The 12 levels of dread". Or just let her know you no longer want to be exclusive.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 12:46 AM
2

Stoic and decisive, never angry.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 12:37 AM
-4

I'd just ignore it, change the subject completely. Or give her a blank stare that conveys the fact that you are not at all interested in what she's saying. Dread-like.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 12:32 AM
2

Dragonball Z reference.. I just hope you're getting laid
/r/askTRP22/10/16 12:25 AM
-4

Edging aka orgasm-free sex. Blowing your load every time depletes your life force energy. It also flushes your system with oxytocin, which can sap your motivation. Oxytocin also stimulates estrogen production, further contributing to that feeling of "off-ness"
/r/askTRP21/10/16 10:22 PM
1

google "the 12 levels of dread."
/r/askTRP21/10/16 01:39 AM
1

Gotta love that line.. Girls acting like they have a "type" that is unique to them.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 04:57 PM
1

Agreed that does happen.. but in this case it didn't. Also, men have to be able to see through that shit.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 03:42 PM
1

what did you say in response to her?
/r/askTRP20/10/16 03:16 PM
4

Word. Everyone here is trashing Sara but m she did Mark the favor of a lifetime by rejecting him. He could at least have given her a courtesy bang.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 02:45 AM
2

Try some approaches where you're only objective is to have a positive interaction. Meaning; don't ask for a number, don't escalate beyond very light kino, don't try to close in any way. This takes the pressure off and you will be much more present and able to enjoy the experience. As long as you aren't being creepy, you will never have to worry about your rep. Girl wants to shit on you because you have balls? Fuck her with your balls they are brass. She's an entitled bitch whose greatest achieve…
/r/askTRP20/10/16 02:43 AM
7

It's not get rich quick, it's about acting rich regardless of your actual richness. Living Red Pill comes down to behavior/how you act. It is easy. You can start 2 conversations with strangers each day. In a month you're conversational ability will have improved dramatically, thus improving your game. Maybe all you did was chat up old ladies at the bus stop. Point is- you changed behavior, and that behavior changed you. Sometimes we hold on to our issues because they are what define us. You may …
/r/askTRP19/10/16 11:23 PM
7

Honestly, about 3 weeks, but I had a good foundation. I binged the audiobook version of The Rationale Male, binged the sidebar, Richard LaRuina, and started approaching within a week. I saw that it all comes down to behavior. Change the way you do shit, change the way you react to shit, change the way you approach social life. Give less fucks. It's all behavior. The world is your playground. The life game is made for playing. You can spend a lifetime unraveling your issues, or you can dgaf your …
/r/askTRP19/10/16 08:01 PM
3

Or, you could realize you don't have to be in a relationship to interact with a girl and just bang her without playing out your petty sweet revenge fantasy
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 07:10 PM
12

She's really not garbage, she just didn't want to get with the guy when he was a Beta chump, but was good to go after he had become a man. Is this really so "disgusting"? If some fat chick you'd never think of fucking loses 40 pounds and becomes attractive, would you be disgusting for wanting to fuck her?
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 07:07 PM
2

I was her first everything Dude you really expect to be her last everything too? This ain't 1809.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 12:55 AM
1

I laughed way too hard at this. I'm fucked in the head.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 12:53 AM
1

You catapulted yourself completely through the friend zone and into deep Beta orbit. Not even sure if she really wants to be friends but if so, there is only one way out of the friend zone- actually treat her like a (guy) friend. Call her dude a lot, pat her on the back, talk shit to her, talk about the girl you just fucked, etc. She's well connected so let her help you expand your social circle and bang her sorority sisters.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 12:42 AM
3

Yep. Stop talking about it and escalate nonverbally. You can't let her think it through otherwise she'll talk herself out of it. She wants you to take control of the situation so that she can have plausible denialbility
/r/askTRP16/10/16 12:27 AM
2

Don't text the same day/night after a date. wait till next afternoon. What did your text say to her ?
/r/askTRP16/10/16 12:26 AM
11

Turn off your Read Message Receipts bro. basics. And don't play into this shit.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 12:23 AM
1

Logically speaking, if you can't get sex for free once a month, your game is seriously lacking. Because I've had trouble with motivation in the past, I'd be concerned that the hooker bang would decrease my motivation to incorporate game and RP habits.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 12:15 AM
1

... I feel neglected Cringe. Full beta mode.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 11:45 AM
1

Rough sex. Meaning, really testing her limits and seeing what she's up for. Personally I was always way to much of a lover and not enough of a fucker
/r/askTRP15/10/16 11:41 AM
1

Doing what you say you'll do is integrity. Integrity is Alpha. Not doing something you promised is just lazy, and selfish if you did something for yourself instead. If she has any respect for herself, she'll trade you up for a guy whose word means something.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 11:29 AM
2

meaning if they'd rather be alone than be with you, that would be real bad. What you're experiencing is classic hypergamy. Are they leaving you because you won't be exclusive with them or is it because you're going Beta mode on them?
/r/askTRP15/10/16 11:06 AM
1

Remember to warm up! Approach some fatties or chat up some older women to help you chill out. You're putting too much pressure on yourself if you're just going for the hotties straight out of the gate.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 10:41 AM
2

She won't tell him to get lost. High value males are often highly sexual, and many "decent" women will remain involved with men because they are just that- high value. Interesting that you automatically correlate a highly sexual man with a lack of trust. Red Pill is not about deceit- quite the opposite in fact. You've got a lot to learn if you think a person can't be trusted simply because you don't agree with their sexual behavior.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 10:36 AM
1

Get off the weed brotha that shit will burn your neurons and kill motivation.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 06:02 AM
1

what is a party trail?
/r/askTRP15/10/16 01:54 AM
1

You have to help people. local artists- help them set up shows. local bands- work their merch table for free. Get in with the people who do events in your city- help is always needed and you can forge strong bonds quickly by working with people.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 06:54 AM
1

i fully agree, however OP is 21, gf 19. Highly unlikely that he's living RP.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 02:48 PM
1

Well first off, remember you are not special ;-j It's a long distance situation dude, if you're not seeing her in person every week or two, that white-hot attraction is going to cool off no matter what. Its impossible to keep "the spark" alive using a phone. Enjoy it for what it is, stick to 1/3 text ratio and bang your brains out when you eventually do see her
/r/askTRP13/10/16 03:25 AM
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Not during dinner. And not with a group
/r/askTRP13/10/16 12:10 AM
4

Hell yes. Basically, as long as I played sports and got ok grades, I was treated like a king. Not just by parents, but by everyone in my small-ish town. I was always pretty big and strong and looked like I had my shit together, so nobody fucked with me in terms of telling me how to live life. Took me 2 years of getting my ass kicked in college (in football, academics, and with girls) to have that first wave of realization that I had been coasting on natural talent my entire life and that I was h…
/r/askTRP13/10/16 12:06 AM
1

When you're home alone with your own thoughts. People don't want to talk about paedophilia dude. Do I really have to say that?
/r/askTRP12/10/16 11:25 PM
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I live with two girl-friends who are both gorgeous and a blast to hang out with but I would NEVER fuck them while living together. Do not fuck them, and keep a healthy distance so that nobody catches feelings. I made it clear to the girl-friends very early on that I am a non-monogamous dating machine and that there would be other girls coming around. It can be a great situatiuon, and a great way to expand your social circle, but it's all about setting expectations.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 11:19 PM
1

Sounds like a good town to move out of.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 11:13 PM
1

legit.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 11:10 PM
1

Ignore button.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 11:06 PM
1

I like talking about unpopular things Seems like you are more interested in making people uncomfortable at dinner. Not cool.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 11:04 PM
1

Hey this girl lives very far away from me No abundance mentality. Have you actually met this chick in real life?
/r/askTRP12/10/16 11:01 PM
1

Feeling down? Get off the internet and go fuck something.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 10:58 PM
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I've been obsessing over her the past couple days Because you no longer have options, all your eggs are in one basket, and you're back in Beta mode. This is why you're anxious. Swallow the pill or don't.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 10:55 PM
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"So far you're the only one who has brought up sex multiple times this night. Seems like you're the one who's thinking about it." "I am, but I don't really know you that well." Fucking love it. call her out and she readily admits. Well played my good man.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 06:19 PM
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install a site blocker and have a friend set it up so only they and maybe your mom has the password
/r/askTRP11/10/16 05:07 AM
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I've done this with decent success.. I usually wait at least a week/week.5 and then send a text with specific logistics: "lets get together wednesday night, there's a cool band playing at VenueXYZ" The key is logistics and making it a simple yes/no situation.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 03:47 AM
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Be thankful for the bitch that brought you here Amen. good story dude i liked it. dem 9's be volatile as fuck!
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 02:13 AM
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Long distance relationshits do not work I agree, long distance relationshits do not work. Also, long distance relationshits do not work.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 12:38 AM
11

my vote best comment RP2016
/r/askTRP11/10/16 12:35 AM
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thought we would be past the games after having hooked up , she plays games and flakes , what now? TLDR jesus lord she's a fucking escort bro. She gets paid to make you think there is a connection. She's looking for repeat business, not your affection. Get fuckin real man.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 11:42 PM
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Is this girl the only chick in your life? If so, you're on the wrong sub. Red Pill does not get on an airplane every 5-6 weeks just to get pussy. You're witnessing hypergamy in action. If this dude turns out to be Chad Thundercoock with a trust fund, you're done. Hopefully you'll use all those accrued airline miles on something more worthwhile. I roundly expressed my disapproval at the whole situation and confronted my GF's unwillingness to recognize any wrongdoing, or even accepting my incredul…
/r/askTRP10/10/16 11:38 PM
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You know exactly what to do. Change your life, fix yourself up, become better. Follow RP self improvement guidelines. You don't need to change location, you need to change yourself. When you get your swagger back and start spending time with girls who respect and value you, this will all be a distant memory.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 11:18 PM
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It's called game for a reason. It should be fun, even when you fail. Outcome independence means dgaf bro. You're probably coming off as desperate because of your attachment to the end result. Take the pressure off yourself- Do some approaches where your only goal is to have a positive interaction. Create some sexual tension, do some kino, get some IOI's, but don't try to escalate too far or close (Not even a number). ..when a girl is crazy into you but loses all interest after one date. This hap…
/r/askTRP10/10/16 11:03 PM
1

Good point. tip of the cap to ya.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 10:30 PM
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Let him know = set him free. Drag him kicking and screaming out of the Matrix if you have to.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 09:38 PM
1

I've been fairly red pill for a few years, made mistakes here and there but not too bad. ... after being passive for the last few months. Contradictory. Being passive is 0% RP.. Allowing yourself to be that way for months= full Beta. I need to bring back her desire to fuck me a lot, very quickly. Tell her you want an open relationship, and actually follow through with it. You can't wash away those few months (longer?) of Beta behavior without some kind of major change. Alternatively, separate. G…
/r/askTRP10/10/16 09:32 PM
1

Peer resistance is a funny thing. Denial of the Matrix. They change their tune when they see you with a new girl every other night.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 07:47 PM
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a true alpha would have yelled at her... Dead wrong. Anger is childish. Alpha is collected and handles things with firm clarity. You allowed your insecurities to take over and ended up guilt tripping this girl into obeying you. She's fucking her ex so what?? Enjoy the relationship for what it is and spin other plates.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 07:29 PM
1

Being able to step outside of yourself and honestly analyze past mistakes in that way are a good indicator of your progress. Keep up the good work.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 07:16 PM
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don't ever push for a relationship with a girl. No shit. You being a needy Beta is what pushed her away. All that stuff about her "needing to work on herself" is laughable bullshit. Translation: "I need an alpha to fuck me like a savage and then leave me alone for a week."
/r/askTRP10/10/16 05:15 PM
2

lookin fresh dude, take it to the next level with some steps!
/r/askTRP10/10/16 04:32 PM
1

I revel in the opportunities to put the shamers in their place. If some man-hater or White Knight wants to have a battle of wits with me over the fact that I'm approaching, bring it. Employ Amused Mastery and let them talk themselves in circles of contradiction.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 04:29 PM
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You broke it off with her after just 3 months because you weren't the only sheriff in town? Possessive much? You should have continued enjoying the relationship for what it was and and been actively dating other girls simultaneously. Abundance mentality homie. Basic shit.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 04:21 PM
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we could start something. She says "No need" What did you mean "start something?" Perhaps she meant "No need to start anything, I just want to fuck."
/r/askTRP10/10/16 04:10 PM
1

if you're not fucking her but getting to know her better you are quickly killing whatever sexual attraction she might feel for you so much yrs
/r/askTRP08/10/16 08:08 AM
2

Industry fairs are awkward as fuck by nature.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 08:01 AM
2

solid gold.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 07:56 AM
1

One easy little "hack" for me when I don't want to deal with the question "Why aren't you drinking?": Simply order a coke on the rocks and put a lime in it. Everyone thinks it's a rum and coke. Done. You can still go out- just get your kicks through game, not drinking. If your friends have a problem with your choices, AMOG the shit out of them and carry on doing what you want to do.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 12:37 AM
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I would cut out alcohol 100%. That shit fucks everything up, not just health and physical appearance. It made me lazy, I would often underperform sexually, and I wasted money. Also I would do NoFap. Blowing your load on nothing wires your brain the wrong way and makes it difficult to engage with actual sexual experiences. I would have worked harder to expand my social circle and hang out with more driven, highly motivated people. In college you are in close proximity to thousands of motivated pe…
/r/askTRP02/10/16 11:26 PM
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The way to achieve what you're looking for is to be up front very early on in the relationship about how you choose to live your life as a non-exclusive man. This should be perfectly clear to all parties involved. Even when they develop feelings for you, this knowledge allows them to contextualize those feelings in reality and it's much easier to manage expectations. No one gets hurt when both parties have a clear understanding of the situation. Before TRP I had a few girls in my life who were v…
/r/askTRP02/10/16 07:39 PM
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God dammit read the sidebar. Read the rational male. read the basic shit. cultivate abundance mentality. FTOW Fuck Ten Other Women and one day you'll realize you haven't thought about your ex for months.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 06:18 PM
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..a book to make it easier to cope with rejection. There is no book. There is only practice. The fact that you want a book shows that you're afraid of rejection. You need to confront that fear head on. /u/JackGetsIt is spot on. Go for no. You can learn to enjoy rejection. Amused Mastery. Treat every situation like the game it is.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 06:15 PM
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Alcohol, porn, and fapping will annihilate your sex drive. You're naturally attractive but unmotivated= wasting your potential. Life is easy for you right now because all you have to do is do what professors tell you and get your gold stars. I know how everything works now thanks to TRP. Knowledge without practice is mental masturbation. You only think it's easy for you, but you'd probably crumble on a cold approach and you simply don't have enough practice to hold a conversation long enough to …
/r/askTRP02/10/16 06:05 PM
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"Oh, I'll grow on you." Yeah not bad. Check out Rollo Tomassi's post on Amused Mastery to really understand. The situations you describe are all in the context of your work, which makes things tricky, because the work environment itself largely dictates the power dynamics. If you and this girl are both wait staff, it can be hard to establish yourself as high value since you are peers. The general rule for work relations is "don't shit where you eat." ...she immediately ditched the smile. Not exa…
/r/askTRP02/10/16 05:32 PM
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This post + comments should be helpful. It's really about having the confidence to be direct. A somewhat extreme example- Imagine yourself saying to a girl you just met; "You have a phenomenal ass" (with smirk/Amused Mastery) At first she will be taken aback, thinking "what an asshole" but if you own it and follow through with humor, she'll be intrigued. And guess what? You just cut through a whole lot of bullshit. If she doesn't get it, you saved yourself lots of time. Move on.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 03:34 AM
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you think you can just come on here and make a bunch of good and well-articulated points and win? well you're right. I was projecting. I love eating pussy and got mad about it.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 08:34 PM
1

TLDR Jesus the Hamstering Christ. High School kid talking about potential wife da fuq is wrong wit you.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 03:25 PM
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Asking good, interesting questions. Example- In conversation about travel, most people will ask where a person has traveled, what they did, and how they got around, etc.. A better conversationalist will ask about why they went. Attempt to understand people's motivations, and relate to them. A guy a know taught me a line that is genius for relating to people-- when someone finishes explaining something, you simply say "I'm just like you... -"I'm just like you, I like blah blah as well because bla…
/r/askTRP01/10/16 02:46 AM
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you don't have to persist if you are direct. might also help you to read up on polarization.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 02:38 AM
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You sound like an asshole to me. I don't eat pussy And what happens if she doesn't suck dick? Plus your bitch ass got a cramp during sex and you couldn't finish the job.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 01:14 AM
2

Move the fuck on and cultivate abundance mentality, because you have none.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 12:58 AM
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Am I just being too much of a beta ass bitch? If you're asking, the answer is yes. So here goes. I sort of need a little advice. If this kind of post isn't allowed here I'll certainly remove it and piss off. This is called passive communication. You sound like a total pushover. Could it be that people blow you off because you do not command respect? Long distance runner- skinny AF?
/r/askTRP01/10/16 12:57 AM
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3 months is not LTR
/r/askTRP01/10/16 12:41 AM
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If they are basically saying "you should text her more" and pushing you to engage in idle chit chat over text, they are dead wrong. This will be apparent to them as you continue RP and they stay home wanking. btw you made a clever move by implying you would see her again while also gracefully ending the text convo
/r/askTRP01/10/16 12:40 AM
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Art of The Start by Guy Kawasaki, because it confirms much of what I've learned in 2 years in a startup. There are a million models for entrepreneurship. Mine boils down to this; Prioritize. Implement. Repeat. My own mantra: ** Kill ideas liberally. ** Especially be willing to kill your own. Most people treat ideas like children and defend them at all costs. Kill them so that the truly good ideas may live.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 11:44 PM
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Ya stop approaching, that's what I meant. You're like a woman the way you twist words.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 11:21 PM
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I want to crawl through my computer and beat your skinny ass. I've got some spare cash to burn. And you're ready to blow it on some chick who might bang you? She won't. You reek of desperation. Spend that money on an escort. Then come back here and read the basic sidebar shit. change your life.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 04:01 PM
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Why are you denying a scientifically proven cognitive bias? You have selective listening disorder. Repeat: HALO EFFECT IS NOT THE ONLY THING IN PLAY. Hot girls said that it is very rare... It's rare, you're brave, congrats, give yourself a handjob. Your abysmal results still speak for themselves. Why are you defending your methods so staunchly when they aren't working? The definition of insanity- doing the same thing over and over and expecting diff results. But how? We are largely products of o…
/r/askTRP29/09/16 03:57 PM
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Yes, in that moment when women are competing for your attention, she perceives you as alpha, her hamster spins, and a healthy dose of competition anxiety is applied. That all gets washed away when you flip back to beta behaviors. You MUST sustain alpha. 80% Alpha behavior mixed with 20% Beta behavior is still Beta, in the same way that .2% blood alcohol content still makes you drunk.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:06 PM
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I agree with this. Improving self is priority 1. Improved sexual selection is a wonderful side effect of RP, but it should not be the ultimate goal. Rule Zero in the sidebar states that "TRP's mission is to increase men's sexual power and options." but again, this is only one effect which is caused by improving oneself.. The overarching philosophy of RP needs to be updated.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:52 PM
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normal conversation doesn't attract women. they get normal conversation 100% of the time. distinguish yourself. listen to this guy.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:45 PM
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If I look good, the impression will be good as well. Halo effect, read on it. Simply not true. Halo effect is not the only thing in play. Your "abysmal" results speak for themselves. 99% of men are too pussy to approach More like 90%. I repeat: What you are doing is not unique or memorable = BORING. Hot girls don't fuck boring guys. Because women don't want to fuck hot men, right? You confused? Women are not men. More than looks are required to fuck 9's bro. I don't really have a choice, do I? M…
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:43 PM
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To answer your question "what is a woman thinking about these things?": If she sees you flipping between Beta and Alpha, you are labeled Beta. No it is not flattering. It gives them validation that they have a measure of control over you. It's not cute nor does it inspire feelings of love in her. It's no bueno. Fawning over a girl communicates to them that you have limited options and are low SMV. Men show affection through nonverbal behavior, not gushing verbosity.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:31 PM
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Go no contact. She will hit you up no doubt and you'll be balls deep again before you know it. She's clearly got the tingles for you. I know for sure she would stay if a LTR was on the table Smart man. Moving away to pursue a dream is tenuous. I'm curious what's "the dream?"
/r/askTRP28/09/16 03:56 PM
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If she likes you, why would she care about a weak opener? How... how in the fuck can she like you if your first impression is lame? How is it not confident and masculine to be direct? What you're doing is not unique or memorable. She hears those canned lines all the time, and associates that type of communication with losers. You can have 9/10 looks but if you trigger the "loser" pattern in her brain with that type of communication, you're done. I'm not that type of a man. I didn't say be like R…
/r/askTRP28/09/16 03:53 PM
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Not if the change is gradual, REAL, and you keep your mouth shut about it (don't gloat or brag, just improve yourself and carry on like it's your normal.) If you were to start waking up earlier, getting shredded, dressing better, grooming better, getting promotions, being happier and more fulfilled, and having more success in general and someone accused you of "trying too hard"... would you really give a fuck? You're worried about what other people will think. TRP 101: DGAF.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 03:41 PM
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I remember reading something about how a convo with a girl should be about 75% statements and 25% questions. Then again I don't remember it being very clear in sidebar material. The concept of polarization alludes to it.. I actually need to study up on that. I lost the interest of a 2-set that I was just warming up on (they weren't even that attractive) because I was I remember reading something about how a convo with a girl should be about 75% statements and 25% questions. Then again I don't re…
/r/askTRP28/09/16 03:33 PM
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it's raining shit tests! You did ok, but you're engaging too much, and you could be more firm; "I will not be in a LDR." vs the general/vague "LDRs don't work". Hold frame. Or give into her pressure and watch how she magically isn't moving away anymore. should have A&A'd in response to her first message. She's hardcore seeking validation/trying to lock you down.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:01 AM
1

You make an important observation. Intros set the tone. There are second chances but it takes a period of separation (~30+ days in my estimate)
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:31 AM
1

how was the sex bad?
/r/askTRP28/09/16 05:59 AM
1

ugh.. just ugh.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 05:57 AM
1

Honestly and integrity are not Beta. No part of RP advises dishonesty and deception. Quite the opposite in fact.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 05:50 AM
1

hit home for me too. I do well in life but could use more gym. I've lost that enjoyment of the subtler things
/r/askTRP28/09/16 05:44 AM
1

A purposeful life is one that serves both you and others. What could you do for someone tomorrow that would help them? Maybe you have a friend that's moving who could use a hand? Small acts of giving are key to feeling connected. Sharing work bonds people. Read Dan Milmans the four purposes of life.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 05:41 AM
1

Yup. You shook her hand on goodbye. You're weird to her now.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 05:33 AM
1

3/4 statements, 1/4 questions
/r/askTRP28/09/16 05:29 AM
1

You went full Beta bro. Damn.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 05:22 AM
1

Your experiences with women will confirm RP truths and make it easier to swallow. Thus the importance of spinning plates and getting perspective from multiple angles.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 05:16 AM
1

Ask her if she'll spot you while you do kegels.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 04:18 AM
1

To build confidence, simply approach with the goal of making her/them laugh BUT make a deal with yourself that you will walk away with nothing. No number, no names, nothing. Take the pressure off yourself. Have some laughs and then walk away. You'll be surprised when girls chase you down wanting to hang out more. But you have to be willing to let go first. I'm pretty high in SMV/looks but I still do this to build confidence and get practice. Just have some good ol fun with it.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 04:15 AM
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If you actually fuck this girl let me know and I will reimburse your airline miles. She's flying into town on your dime to fuck the Chad she was fucking last time she was there. At best she'll treat you like a hotel and be out with her friends the whole time. I'll be surprised as fuck if she doesn't just bail on you all together.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 04:07 AM
1

never made a move so make a move. she already smells your beta so you better get on it and sustain alpha.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 03:53 AM
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Your openers are weak AF. What's the time?" obviously a "line" and a boring one at that. "I just thought you looked interesting and wanted to get to know you.." Both creepy and boring. Be clever. Be funny. Make specific observations. The other day I was crossing the street with a girl wearing all black (hipster type). I said "how was the funeral?" with a smirk. she laughed. building rapport. Observe Russell Brand. he's a conversational genius. watch stand up comedy. hang out with funny people. I…
/r/askTRP28/09/16 03:40 AM
1

Because of female hypergamy, Alpha / Beta is a black and white game. Why be unnecessarily Beta? Being Beta makes life less enjoyable. Why the fuck bother.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 03:25 AM
1

not saying it's a sidebar strategy. what u mean?
/r/askTRP28/09/16 03:10 AM
1

being a bitch and blaming other people are your problems. Read basic TRP material. read The Rational Male. Change your life. You won't waste time with long sob story posts when you've got 5 plates spinning.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 03:05 AM
1

Tangent- but you can save yourself massive amounts of time on approaching/warming a girl using eye contact. Richard LaRuinas formula for night game talks about it (great YouTube vid)
/r/askTRP28/09/16 02:57 AM
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maybe.. usually they have to see you with another (more attractive) girl. Said girl should also be having a fabulous time in your company and obviously attracted to you. Don't try to engineer this situation though if it happens it happens. best to move on. what beta traits did you show?
/r/askTRP28/09/16 02:52 AM
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she'll perceive you as Beta and tell everyone you're a pussy and the local news will pick up the story and you'll be a social pariah who will never have a chance at fucking ever again. You'll have to move to a new city and reinvent yourself
/r/askTRP28/09/16 02:48 AM
1

SMV is related to self worth/self esteem, so ya you need it. Or are you looking for an excuse to be a slob?
/r/askTRP28/09/16 02:40 AM
1

phrasing questions as commands Yes, said while a little smile, you can and should do this, regardless of SMV (though of course SMV is basic and you should always be working to improve).
/r/askTRP28/09/16 02:28 AM
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Careful here buddy.. During the male orgasm the body gets an Oxytocin dump- Oxytocin stimulates estrogen production and has been associated with pair bonding in mammals. That "clarity" you're feeling might be nice and comfy good feelz, but it can make you do dumb shit. It's no secret- hell it's almost a meme- that guys are highly suggestive and supplicating post-orgasm. "Happy and calm" = complacent and submissve. This Oxytocin flush giving way to estrogen production is why chronic fapping kills…
/r/askTRP28/09/16 02:24 AM
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It's because you have oneitis and are therefore acting pathetic and girls don't want pathetic they want alpha dgaf. Read up on the basic shit and change your life. You've wasted years of your life thinking about one girl.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 02:12 AM
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How to date online: Go online. Delete your online dating profiles Go out and approach. Be a real person. Online dating hinges 100% on physical attractiveness. Your chances are better when you can incorporate personality.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 02:10 AM
0

How to date online: Go online. Delete your online dating profiles Go out and approach. Be a real person. Online dating hinges 100% on physical attractiveness. Your chances are better when you can incorporate personality.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 02:09 AM
1

I flirt with other girls but she just destroys me Holding frame is as simple as a blank stare. Be present, but ignore her when she flips you shit over this. She should never even dent your armor let alone "fucking destroy you". ..she is replaceable but I cannot internalise this logic You can. You're just resisting. Being from a small town can contribute to scarcity mentality. How do I express these things without coming off as beta? You express these things by fucking her like a savage. Are you …
/r/askTRP28/09/16 01:57 AM
1

You are happy? Then enjoy. OP clearly not happy. Knows he's becoming beta-indoctrinated
/r/askTRP28/09/16 01:41 AM
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if you bump into her face to face and she's chatting you up, go Apocalypse: "How about we go to my place and have a shag yeah?" Nothing to lose, laugh and walk away if she gets attitude.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 04:50 AM
1

Chad is a person but also an idea. I lost her to the idea of Chad, Those more Chad than I.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 11:42 PM
1

I think I'm in the same boat.. I'm 31, and can't remember the last time I went even a week without drinking.. Jeez it's probably been 10 years. Is there a quitdrinking sub??? EDIT: lol... apparently its called /stopdrinking.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 04:22 PM
1

Indeed. Focusing on outcome independence but there is def that part of me that part of me. Won't let it happen again.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 04:11 PM
1

how do you do the 'leave them wanting more' the right way? interested to hear an answer to this.. I'm skeptical
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 08:42 PM
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I don't think there is any blame to be distributed, the lesson and the truth it points to is the important thing here.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 08:35 PM
3

Damn that's even more extreme than my case.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 04:08 PM
2

shiat. you're probably right. lol you're welcome Chad.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 04:02 PM
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Seeing her for two weeks, but she hasn't seen you shirtless.. making out at a Cafe... wtf are you doing? I like you because you are different from the rest Translation: take me home immediately I want to smash. Instead you put her on the spot and demanded that she validate you. She then gave you a half baked list of generalized compliments. Big mistake making a girl explain her feelings. She doesn't really know why she likes you, she just does. It's instinct not a mental process.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 04:01 PM
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It's becoming apparent that I overthink shit and might be more of a pansy than I realized. fuk.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 02:54 PM
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I see your point, but I'm not saying she would have been mine. It just would have been a great lay and I blew it.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 02:53 PM
3

someone else banks the rush you created Word. For some reason I've always thought female attraction was person-specific. How wrong I was.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 02:41 PM
1

I understand now that the sexual tension I built up did not belong to me. It was sexual tension in general that she was going to find a release for.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 02:36 PM
2

please. almost bagging a 9 means jack shit. I failed, and am sharing my lesson.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 02:23 PM
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You piss me off with your rightness
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 08:43 AM
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prospect? what is the correct terminology? And is it really all that misleading? My post was pretty simple.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 08:37 AM
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go for the no havent heard that before but I know eactly what you mean. thanks.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 08:34 AM
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i've had women that i've never put my dick into them and they'll never forget me. Yeah I bet your mom is awesome and has a great memory. But I can't quite make sense of this rant. I know the leave her wanting game was a bad call- hence why I refer to it as a mistake. Did you even read the full post?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 08:26 AM
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only works for women who are not that into you at first. game doesn't work when she has a men lined up everyday of the week. both great points. will def keep in mind.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 08:16 AM
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Correct.. kind of fucking sad.. we actually connected on a lot of topics, but it didn't matter because I didn't drive the point home via my dick.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 08:14 AM
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I thought I was building positive sexual tension. And I really did have somewhere to be. No excuses though.. I should have blown off all plans and fucked her proper.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 08:09 AM
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lol. I sort of heart him too, for this lesson. Then again, fuck you Chad. I will punch you in your 9 inch cock.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 08:04 AM
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fuck. me. you are right. From now on I assume all girls have Chad waiting at home.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 08:02 AM
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yup. and I bet he did it right. because Chad somehow fucks perfectly every time.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 07:57 AM
7

I am inspired to create a "situation calculator" for this stuff
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 07:50 AM
1

Not really.. I'm 31, only 4 months RP but game aware 3 yrs-- just figured the better play for my age was to be less Chad and more Chad's dad.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 07:48 AM
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Right. It apparently just doesn't work with a girl whose SMV is off the charts. Of course this all makes sense in hindsight. fuckity fuck.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 07:44 AM
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Probably true (I think alcohol might be fucking up my sex drive, wasn't drinking that night but 3-4 times a week is current norm.) Plate in the sense that she was DTF. yeah yeah i know technical definition of plates is girls I'm actively fucking but we all get it.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 07:41 AM
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Honestly.. I just wanted to go out and hang with the boys and run game. Enjoying the game more than the winning I guess.. Which is pointless ego masturbation, thus the "lesson learned".
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 07:32 AM
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Agreed. it was the 24 hour turnaround that threw me. It's as if she had Chad waiting for her at home. haha maybe she literally did.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 03:28 AM
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Hence the reason I noted this as a mistake, though it is a tactic that has worked extremely well for me in the past.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 03:25 AM
1

Valid point, perhaps an enlightening conversation is all that's needed. But in OP's post it seemed like a fairly blatant cockblock, not a slip of the tongue. I don't consider a blatant cockblock a minor offense- this person doesn't respect OP and is actively attempting to sabotage.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 12:44 AM
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Whatever you're doing home repair wise, there is a youtube video for it. Watch repeatedly until you have a sense of the process. Any Home Depot also has classes on basic home repair/improvements. I think you're right to be concerned.. Not being handy can give her just enough of a whiff of beta to get that Hamster spinning. I was lucky to have a father who is a mechanic/woodworker, and I have heard countless girls mention how much of a turn on it is to have a handy guy around, and just as many gi…
/r/askTRP25/09/16 12:33 AM
2

Conan O'Brien once said something that has stuck with me for these last 7+ years: "I've never been good at setting goals, what I am good at is putting myself in a position where I don't have a choice." Porn problem- Cancel your home internet. Overspending at bars- (my issue) Leave debit at home, take $20 cash. Want to lift/sport - get an expensive gym membership and remember that the days you don't go are wasted money. Join city league volleyball or some other sport where you are accountable to …
/r/askTRP25/09/16 12:14 AM
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That's too bad. Shifting the blame to you to make herself feel better. Good luck buddy just stay busy and in time you'll have the perspective to see that you did indeed dodge a bullet.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 11:53 PM
2

..had a pretty satisfying relationship in sexual matters No you didn't. She wanted you to fuck her like a savage and you probably gave her tender beta lovemaking
/r/askTRP24/09/16 07:46 PM
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Dude you went full beta on her. Pathetic AF. You expect to be the only one who will ever fuck this girl? Is that what you want? Do you even know you are on the TRP sub? Have you read any of the basic RP material? 21yo obsessed with a 17yo LDR. Lame. You've got a lot to learn my friend.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 07:38 PM
2

your bone head friend blurts out something about you seeing another girl. He's not your friend. He's a cockblocking beta cuck, not to be associated with. Alternatively; "What other girl might that be, Jack?" "you know... Jessica.. Jessica right?" "we broke it off, but hey buddy thanks for bringing it up" (death stare) resume convo
/r/askTRP24/09/16 07:31 PM
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Colleague is 23, looks 29, HB5. Her friend is 24, HB7. That explains just about everything. She was peanut butter n jealous. I don't necessarily think this was shitting where you eat. I do agree with other posters that you were a bit too focused on the girl though. Colleague threw you a shit test from left field. I probably would have asked her to explain herself, asking her a few follow up questions and let her talk herself in circles. All the while being amused as fuck then interrupting her an…
/r/askTRP24/09/16 07:19 PM
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You're setting yourself up for disappointment. What are you hoping will happen? Secretly wishing she'll be willing to hook up with you? Beta. Want her to see how great you are now and what she missed out on? Blue Pill. Treat the event like any other. Do you, run game, have fun. Don't make your night at all dependent on this girl.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 09:43 AM
1

How long have you been together?
/r/askTRP24/09/16 09:32 AM
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Jesus man. this is some weak shit. have you read any of the basic TRP material?
/r/askTRP24/09/16 09:19 AM
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I've been there man. I know that bipolar feeling. I made the hard choice and got out, and it was the right thing. I would have suffocated. You seem to have no abundance mentality- there are plenty of girls out there who would make good wives. Also, you seriously need to consider if you want your children to have half of this chick's genes. She comes from divorced parents... cultural differences bother me But, don't be a dick.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 10:43 PM
2

I showed up in some woodland camo sweats & a white muscle shirt. she received a day pass from a psychiatric hospital Match made in heaven LOL
/r/askTRP23/09/16 10:34 PM
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I'm in a perfect LTR... I'm 21. you are not in a perfect LTR. you never will be in a perfect LTR. FFS.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 10:29 PM
1

$60/mo is a killer deal for unlimited. 7 month contract only helps you be disciplined and stick with it.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 10:27 PM
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Man I went through a very similar situation at your age. I'm 31 now. My gf at the time (also 18) and I made the right call to abort. You're giving yourself more grief than necessary by comparing yourself to others who have/are having kids. Stop that. You're 18 and would likely have spent the next 5-10 years scrambling through life trying to take care of your kid and make a living for yourself. Don't delude yourself thinking life would be a fairytale. You should be thanking the gods that the girl…
/r/askTRP23/09/16 10:21 PM
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Texting is for logistics. If you're chatting her up over text but only have the balls to say "hi" in class, you might as well be one of her girlfriends. Have you ever had an actual conversation with her IRL?
/r/askTRP23/09/16 09:55 PM
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You sir, are a douchebag. This chick denies you one time and you fly off the rails, threaten her, make her feel guilty for being tired (and when she has thyroid issues FFS). we had an argument over orange. You have anger issues and a lack of respect for humans. I hope you get your ass kicked someday very soon.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 06:11 PM
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she may have seemed more fickle than usual because you too were being a fickle fuck, flipping between alpha/beta.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 04:23 PM
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And that was the right thing to do huh? The fuck you talking about.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 02:03 AM
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Ghost her. let her see you chatting up other girls. Practice your blank stare and use it if she tries interacting IRL. Only respond if she actively pursues you
/r/askTRP20/09/16 01:59 AM
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you're fine. the balls in holes comment was good. stop thinking go fucking golf and then take her home.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 01:56 AM
1

look up Richard LaRuina's "The Formula for Night Game" on YouTube
/r/askTRP20/09/16 01:51 AM
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Just about everything I can think of. It's not an issue of morality, but rather of maturity and mentality. Ok sitch for plates I guess but OP is talking about LTRing and possibly marrying this girl.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 01:37 AM
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I wasn't confused (stop apologizing btw). If conversation is your problem, try asking more questions.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 01:29 AM
1

How old are you two?
/r/askTRP20/09/16 01:20 AM
1

Actually playing sports might help make you more alpha.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 01:09 AM
1

saying "I know" is arrogance, aim for cockyfunny or employ blank stare.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 01:08 AM
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Watch more comedy. hang out with funny people. go to comedy shows, always be looking for something to laugh at.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 01:02 AM
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Nonverbal escalation is your friend.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 12:58 AM
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You pick the girl, but have the plate do the initial approach. Let them hit it off, then you swoop in, apply charm, and then leave for awhile (go look for other prospects). At that point the plate will have time to proposition the girl. Develop a covert hand signal so that the plate can tell you if it's on or not. If not, swoop back in and break it up, move on. Plate will do most of the work for you, all you have to do is be chill/non-creep.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 12:56 AM
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Social introversion is a state of mind. If you're drained after socializing it's because you're not relaxed. Ask more questions. By asking questions you can do a ton of socializing with just a few sentences. Plus, it takes the focus and pressure off of you, but people are still directing their answers/attention at you. As they say, "if you want to be interesting, be interested."
/r/askTRP20/09/16 12:50 AM
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this will only get you put straight in her beta bucket. better option is to let her deny you, and jump right out of bed and go do something else and be cheerful as fuck about it. let a few mins go by and then tell her you'll walk her to her car. This is a firm but subtle way of telling her "if we're not fucking, you're leaving."
/r/askTRP20/09/16 12:37 AM
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Dude, your girlfriend sounds boring as shit. Not many friends, only hangs out with you, wants to cuddle but not that sexual, watches a lot of TV... YAWN. She's already not taking care of herself if she's allowed her social life to completely disintegrate because of your relationship. Also, "she's not that sexual" = you don't excite her. She'll bang the first true alpha that games her.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 12:28 AM
1

My man you just might need to work on your English.. I get the sense that it's not your first language am I correct?
/r/askTRP20/09/16 12:17 AM
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You are a 26 yr old dating an 18 yr old. That makes you a creep. You are willing to sacrifice your values for the those of a clueless 18 yr old. That makes you an idiot. How long have you been with this girl?
/r/askTRP20/09/16 12:15 AM
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Yeah. What are you afraid of? If you laid proper groundwork when you met her in person it will be fine,. Nothing wrong with being direct.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 06:22 PM
1

This post is a shining gold crusted bejeweled example of all that is Beta.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 11:43 PM
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if you are going to do this, be short and direct. Go find her in the real world, look her in the eyeballs, and tell her you want her. The ONLY explanation you should offer is "I've changed." Don't gush about your feelings and how you made a mistake blah blah blah. Your attitude should be that you are taking her back, not asking for her to come back. if she says she's with someone else, tell her to dump him. control the frame. if she says she needs time to think, give her 3 days. Offering to wait…
/r/askTRP17/09/16 11:10 PM
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when in doubt, reach out. you have nothing to gain by waiting. *"Hey Jackie, it's Jim, the handsome and ridiculously charming guy you met at Exgirl's party, let's get together again sometime next week." * Would do fine. If Jackie brings up your ex, treat it like any other shit test. Might also consider asking your ex to remove the photos.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 12:29 AM
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Not really AAA, just seems like banter.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 11:06 PM
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It seems that if someone is "using it on you", you're either complaining (don't do that), shit testing (why are you doing that?) or doing something that would otherwise signal insecurity within you. Peter_B_Long is right when he says to AAA right back. Make a joke of it.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 10:55 PM
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fuck it is right. And you won't have to use the Viagra forever, just long enough to get you over your anxiety.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 10:12 PM
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"Of course i wanted to fuck you, but i just want more" Possible responses: "The road to Moresville leads through Funkytown. your choice." (cocky/funny) "You mean all I have to do to get with you is make a bunch of bullshit promises? OK!" (calling her out) But yeah dude 20-30% LMR is totally normal.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 09:54 PM
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Yes, it's all in your head. You have to chill out and focus on her, not your dick. This will take practice. In the meantime, get some Cialis. For me, I don't get fully erect unless I'm a bit aggressive. The girls love it, and it really helps with getting into the moment.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 09:42 PM
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She was gone long before she left. If you knew the first thing about TRP you would know exactly what to do. It's over dude. She has lost respect for you, and you've gone full Beta by allowing her to dictate the relationship even though SHE IS FUCKING ANOTHER GUY. The fact that you allow this "back and forth" bullshit shows her that you are a pushover. So it goes.. the right thing to do is the hard thing to do. Cut contact. ONE last text, ONE sentence, NO explanation. Read TRP and learn from your…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 09:30 PM
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never piss off your boss. I disagree. If all you do as an employee is kiss ass and whimper every time you get reprimanded, your boss will perceive you as weak. In a way, bosses are shit testers. OP have you tried standing up for yourself? I'm in the software industry and my peers and I regularly argue with our superiors. Yes they usually win, but there is a shared respect among those who are willing to do battle. I'm starting to get very emotional every time I am reprimanded Too many fucks given…
/r/askTRP06/09/16 04:12 PM
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it's a hypothetical scenario designed to make the point that psychologists are obligated to have their head together. You can't help others until you help yourself.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 03:33 PM
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This may come off as harsh, but if you want to maintain any credibility as a psychologist, you have to end it with a HARD next. If I found out my psychologist was putting up with this level of bullshit and utter disrespect in their own life I would demand every penny of my money back. Good luck man, I hope you get on board with some TRP-style self improvement and start spending time with women who value and respect you.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:31 PM
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Approaching is the core of practice brotha man. Everything else is just theory. Practice approaching by striking up conversations with all kinds of people- not just girls you're interested in. It'll help build your skills
/r/askTRP02/09/16 03:51 PM
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Ah ok that makes more sense. I know what you mean by that type of confidence.. It's as though many girls (especially HB8+) have that sense of entitlement. It's important to break that entitlement early and let her know it's a level playing field. haha "Breaking the Entitlement" is probably a good topic for a post on the main RP sub!
/r/askTRP02/09/16 03:48 PM
1

..breaking their confidence... This should never be a goal. What you are talking about is tapping into the primal sexual energy. No words are required for this. Start with your nonverbal communication instead. You are the hunter, she is the prey. As you escalate, don't be afraid to be more assertive than your usual. If you're kissing her and she's into it, pull her hair just hard enough so that her head tilts back and go for her neck. When it becomes apparent that she is DTF, that's when you bec…
/r/askTRP01/09/16 08:58 PM
1

I've never had a name for this "technique", but you might call it "Articulating the obvious". Something I noticed a long time ago about people who are good at conversational improv (for which being "in the moment" is required) is that they often start with dead simple observations about their surroundings. A girl is wearing Peacock feather earrings? Point it out. "Wow you're wearing peacock feather earrings, what an interesting bird wouldn't you say? I mean seriously, good job evolution you real…
/r/askTRP01/09/16 08:32 PM
1

Have you read The 12 Levels of Dread?
/r/askTRP01/09/16 08:10 PM
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What you're calling insecurity may not be insecurity per se, but rather a competition response, which is the main purpose of dread- to get a response. Is she really acting insecure or is she simply acting like she wants you more?
/r/askTRP01/09/16 08:03 PM
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HB 3-4? Uhhh...
/r/askTRP01/09/16 07:36 PM
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I really only like seeing one girl at a time You are in the wrong subreddit I haven't dated too many women. Clearly.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 06:28 PM
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Right. diversify your portfolio. When you have 4 hussabbees in the mix, it's easier to relax. And at that point you won't have to wank because you're getting the sex you require.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 06:23 PM
1

never commit to what? Approaching?
/r/askTRP31/08/16 01:00 AM
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He gets approached by 5-7s? Meh.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 12:32 AM
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I find that the girl doing the setting up is usually higher on the 10-scale than the one being set up. Don't overthink this one- she's just trying to help her friend out. I don't think it would help you score in the future, but if it were me I would say something to the woman who tried to set up, but that's me- I'm just curious as to the story behind it and how she would reason through it. Could also be an opportunity to help your fellow human. Be blunt and tell the woman who tried to set you up…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 03:53 PM
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she didn't think it was healthy for her to have sex with me without commitment, although she doesn't want a relationship right now she's peanut butter and jealous, and trying to control what you do with your dick. You're handling it well though.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 03:46 PM
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My point here is that if this girl is putting pressure on you to do this, I wouldn't cave in to it. You can bf/gf her but only when you are ready, not by giving in to her pressure. Exactly. If you cave to her pressure, you lose frame in a BIG way.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 06:21 PM
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So many things she does, like me! I can't tell if you're serious here... I hope not.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 06:16 PM
2

You have much to lose and little to gain from hooking up with her.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 09:06 PM
1

It's a simple numbers game man. Of course there are more potential plates in a city with a larger population.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 09:04 PM
1

good thoughts. And fuuuuuck no relations talk. thanks for the stories too
/r/askTRP26/08/16 08:09 PM
1

I need to make more money so I won't have this problem anymore. True. But dude, sex is not the ultimate end goal. TRP exists to build men, and sex is just one wonderful side effect of learning how to think and act like a man. I try not to bother, the odds are against me anyway. Pity party. Knock that shit off. Go read the ThankTRP sub and get inspired.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 07:42 PM
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word. I hear ya.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 07:12 PM
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Excuses. Doesn't mean you can't approach women. (Again, how often are you doing this?) Simply having a positive interaction with a decent looking girl can give a guy a huge boost. And you can still spin. (Are you living with parents?) You can always go back to their place (after a few dates in public) Just tell plates you're moving and your apartment is all tore apart. If they aren't cool with it then move on. Frankly, your mentality is shit. Your Username says it all. Maybe consider changing th…
/r/askTRP26/08/16 07:10 PM
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Ultimately I don't care if they drop, I'm more interested in handling the situation successfully. Letting them drop because I mishandled the situation would be a failure in my book.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 06:58 PM
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Nothing to be gained from addressing the issue before it's an issue. I don't plan on bringing it up, I'm asking for advice on what to do when one or both of them bring it up
/r/askTRP26/08/16 06:52 PM
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"It is what it is" Actually not a bad response. I can almost hear the hamsters spinning.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 06:50 PM
1

I do hunt often. Doing very well for myself in that regard.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 06:49 PM
1

I just want to reverse the salt. Revenge is never a good motive for TRP. It shows that you care too much. You'll end up trying to hard and she'll regain frame and your head will get fucked up all over again.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 06:39 PM
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I've become obsessed with her. Read the basic TRP shit dude. Stop wasting people's time with your sad story about one girl. The problem is she can be toxic sometimes. Yep, and you've allowed her to poison your mind. She wins. Read and don't stop reading, ever: https://www.reddit.com/r/becomeaman/top/
/r/askTRP26/08/16 06:22 PM
1

An attitude of gratitude brings opportunities. (sounds a little dumb, but I have to remind myself of its truth sometimes). Be thankful for what you have, it's not a bad situation. How often do you go out and approach women? How many plates are you spinning? Having plates spinning will help cultivate abundance mentality, which in turn helps improve other areas of your life.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 06:08 PM
1

Are you brand new here? The core of TRP is in giving no fucks about what other people think. Go read.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 06:00 PM
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Use this guy to polish your social skills in adverse situations, and as a way to practice giving no fucks. I work with some real fucktards, which used to get me all bent out of shape, but is now a source of comedy gold at work. I don't tease or bully them or anything like that, but we shit test back and forth, and it's made my wits sharper and been a great source of entertainment. Throw some shit tests at this guy, and have fun with it. Hell you'll probably end up friends.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 05:58 PM
1

So said the sheep. Reality is created by your beliefs about it and the actions you take within it.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 05:31 PM
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should I bring up to her my concern about her partners? Tell me, what would be the fruit of this conversation? How do you think it would go? She can't change the past, so what could she do that would resolve your concerns?
/r/askTRP26/08/16 05:29 PM
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I honestly prefer the convenience of fantasy, porn and masturbation. ...I am a bit shy of sex... and escalation beyond kissing This is not intermediate Red Pill. This is pathetic. Porn and excessive jerking disconnects you from the real world. You're also exhibiting a horrible case of Oneitis that is making you obsess over this chick. If you ever did get the chance to bang her you'd be so nervous and so porn'd out that you'd be lucky to get half a boner. I'm sure she'd love that. Lessons from th…
/r/askTRP26/08/16 05:17 PM
2

Make it seem more like statements than questions. This is hugely important. I never ask a girl questions over text. It comes off as passive/non-alpha.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 04:44 PM
1

Brother I think you just have a bad attitude. Your experience is a direct reflection of your inner state of being. You clearly have anger issues, which is the biggest turn-off of all. go read the ThankTRP sub. Get inspired. Show gratitude for what you have. Do TRP-style self improvement. Suicide is a cop-out. Don't be a quitter.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 04:42 PM
2

Good suggestions, thanks for this.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 03:44 PM
1

Other people, especially alphas. In no way is this a healthy or beneficial mindset.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 03:42 PM
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while still maintaining that slight sexual tension I recommend not fucking some girl you just happen to be living with due to circumstance. Ignore her. It will get her hamster going and you can bang her all you want after she moves out. Also, if she got you "riled up", she's winning.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 04:42 AM
2

Ah good one. thanks dude!
/r/askTRP26/08/16 04:27 AM
2

nihilism much? I use social media, and I have self esteem coming out my ass (thanks TRP). The way I use SM is all about the comedy. zero fucks about likes/followers.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 04:26 AM
1

you just gotta be smart about it. which is exactly why I say what I say.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 04:21 AM
1

I don't think society is declining as a whole, but instead is fracturing. Nations within nations are forming (TRP "nation" if you will) and some of those sub-societies are declining. New divisions are always forming (Red Pill v Blue Pill) and competing. A certain amount of decay is necessary to evolution, I think media just tends to focus on it, and so it seems pervasive when really it all balances out.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 01:25 AM
1

Its legal. Who gives a limp dicked fuck about legality. I reiterate: 15 yr old girls=idiots=increased likelihood of rape claim. Especially if daddy finds out. "Daddy dont be mad the bad boy made me do it!"
/r/askTRP26/08/16 01:17 AM
2

Everything is fine in my relationship minus that she's co-dependant upon me...very introverted and suffers from anxiety. Everything is not fine in your relationship.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 01:09 AM
2

+1 for the Nature date. But yes could be creepy if this is your first time out. Then again she's totally cool with getting drunk with you. On that note make sure you don't drink your dick limp.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 01:07 AM
1

We're not talking about relationships. We're talking about a 17 yr old fucking a 15 yr old.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 01:01 AM
1

Yep, assholio. Go volunteer or something. Or just do something nice for someone. Being a man is balancing your asshole with your heart.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 12:04 AM
3

No, 15 year old girls are idiots worldwide ;-J
/r/askTRP25/08/16 11:57 PM
1

Not worth the risk dude. Game girls your age.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 11:56 PM
3

Baita
/r/askTRP25/08/16 11:49 PM
1

He can be tried as an adult 15 yr. old girls are idiots. Increased likelihood of rape claim. Not worth ruined life.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 11:46 PM
1

Validation is a temporary high for this girl, but more likely she'll be obsessing over why OP doesn't give her every little dose of validation she seeks, and work harder to impress him. The primary form of validation given should be in the form of a good hard fucking. Carrots are for dangling.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 11:44 PM
0

Smash or no? Smash, that is if you're ok with jail and being on the sex offender list.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 11:35 PM
1

truth.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 09:43 PM
1

I've been reading about red pill shit for five years but I'm no farther now than when I started. TRP is not about reading, it's about practicing. Get off the computer and go do shit.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 09:05 PM
2

Has anyone else been betrayed like this and came out better? Absofuckinglutely. Stick with TRP. Make it your new religion. I am eternally grateful for being cheated on, it was just fuel for the fire of reinventing and improving yourself. Also, LDR's simply don't work ;-j
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:57 PM
10

at least I knew enough to keep my mouth shut. One of the most important lessons TRP has to offer
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:11 PM
1

Spot on. She was validation seeking. You helped both yourself and her grow up by not going. Curious- why did you break up?
/r/askTRP25/08/16 07:55 PM
2

I used this one with success recently: "I hate texting, call me when you want to get together. If not, please delete my number." If she responds with "blah blah blah why are you being an asshole?" "no more texts. bye."
/r/askTRP25/08/16 07:52 PM
49

DO NOT - DO NOT - DO NOT talk to the cops. Not a word, even if they arrest you. Mouth shut, lawyer up. Write down your story, get it straight.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 07:47 PM
4

She was seeking validation and you didn't give it to her. I'd say you passed. Don't address it over text. If she brings it up in person again- blank stare, Ryan Gosling style.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 07:39 PM
8

But sadly men today are not allowed to show interest or affection for females unless you are top 10%. Not "allowed"? Who in the fuck is making the rules here? It isn't you, and that's a problem. You decide what the fuck you are "allowed" do. Not sure where you got that top 10% stat but it's a load of shit. Shit that you swallowed. One important difference between Alpha and Creeper: Alpha is having fun (regardless of success), Creeper is not having fun (and cries about rejection). Sounds like you…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 07:31 PM
1

Watch Tony Robbins
/r/askTRP25/08/16 06:53 PM
1

Hmm sounds a little too indirect. You could just say "The place I'm staying is really nice, let's go." Say it as you grab her hand and lead her out of whatever restaurant/bar you're at. Boldness reaps the greatest rewards.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 06:51 PM
1

Stay at a hotel next time you're in town...?
/r/askTRP25/08/16 03:04 PM
2

Sounds like you've got a good foundation, all you probably need are some lessons in how to escalate. Check out Richard LaRuina's book "The Natural". He also has a ton of awesome YouTube vids.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 03:01 PM
1

fire away comrade
/r/askTRP24/08/16 10:44 PM
1

fire away comrade.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 10:43 PM
1

she wants to bang. how is that not obvious?
/r/askTRP24/08/16 10:42 PM
0

There is a girl When was the last time you got laid?
/r/askTRP24/08/16 10:39 PM
3

The fact that you're even considering dropping 5 bills on this tells me that you've got some serious issues with approaching women in real life.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 10:30 PM
1

In short, not really. Sounds like you need a warm-up strategy. Approach a few women but set a rule for yourself that you're walking away without a number or even a name. This will take the pressure off.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 10:26 PM
1

leaving is not an option due to lease/living arangements This is full-on Beta excuse-making. Leaving is always an option and that fact should be clear to both you and her. Spend more time away doing hobbies/lifting/self improvement Yes. The more drastic and noticeable the changes, the better. One change you can make right away is to start getting up hella early. Girls find this extremely attractive and it is a huge demonstration of value. Also, avoid "soft topics" with her- no talking about your…
/r/askTRP24/08/16 10:10 PM
1

Processing difficult emotions by venting only perpetuates them. I think they are better handled through introspection. Meaning, chill the fuck out, frame the problem, meditate on it, and coming up with a plan of action. /r/fuzzyface1980 suggestion is good too- DO things to vent. Venting through talking is exactly what women do, and the same process gets forced on men. Don't do it. Be a man=problem solver.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 09:48 PM
1

Juicing removes all fiber from veggies, which wont fill you up as much. Not bad if you're replacing your afternoon beers with a glass of carrot juice, but don't rely on juicing as the core of any diet.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 09:28 PM
1

All you need to know is that it likely didn't go back for any good reason. It's easy for people to fall back into their comfort zones. She might just be happy because she feels validated by you "chasing" her, but that will only last so long. You have to do something to cleanse her mind of those memories of you going full Beta.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 09:12 PM
2

God, your bed is on the floor and you don't have a couch? I'll be looking for OP on Tinder horror stories. Like he said, fix your place.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 09:01 PM
6

Sometimes it's fun to square up. Not in an aggro manner, but if a guy is being a real douche, I'll plaster a smile on my face and push his buttons until he implodes.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 08:53 PM
1

I think most guys problems with woman could be fixed if they just focused on getting more of them. Very true. I completely agree with cultivating abundance mentality. I would add that the mentality is the means, whereas sex is an end. The means is the more important aspect in my mind.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 08:43 PM
2

my dick has one-itis. that made me lol. Dude just tell her the relationship is open. That will put the Disney princess to bed and get her competitive hamster spinning like mad.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 08:29 PM
1

love is closeness, attraction is distance.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 08:20 PM
1

half shit test/half safety check. How does she know you're not a rapist?
/r/askTRP24/08/16 08:10 PM
1

That's some hard Beta behavior to come back from. Consider disappearing for a month (few months?), maybe taking a trip and working TRP hard. Become a changed man- I mean truly changed, not just more capable of masking your insecure Beta like you describe.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 07:50 PM
1

fascinating. thanks for the explain
/r/askTRP24/08/16 07:43 PM
1

solid gold.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 07:41 PM
-5

If she did all that, but has been faithful since you got together, that says a hell of a lot. She sees you as valuable enough to change her ways. That's a rare thing. Don't go fucking it up because you're insecure. (Again, this is only valid if she has been faithful). She views sex as just something fun, whereas I see it as a bonding experience and something that should only be shared between 2 loving people. You're acting like the woman in the relationship. There is a time for lovemaking, and a…
/r/askTRP24/08/16 07:40 PM
7

Hopefully you're practicing on girls your own age. Remember, you're still jailbait. Wish I would have discovered TRP when I was your age! (I'm 31 now) You're going to be dangerous.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 07:29 PM
2

She is well past the wall, she regularly tells men what to do, and she knows how to get what she wants. Do you really think you have full control over the situation? If she decides she wants to fuck you, and you just want to keep it professional, don't expect things to be 100% hunky-dory. I'm just saying, be prepared. Women beyond the wall are tenacious when there is an opportunity to score with a younger, high-SMV male. It's likely she will withhold business if you withhold sex.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 06:40 PM
2

wow interesting.. how do you interpret that? "it doesn't matter if I love it"
/r/askTRP24/08/16 06:31 PM
3

Word. This is also one of the most difficult aspects of being in an LTR
/r/askTRP24/08/16 06:27 PM
1

First. You're never going to be able to deal with these guys if you are "socially retarded to a degree". Un-retard yourself. Seems like you already know how to spot White Knights. The trick is knowing how to confront them. I like to ask them questions until they talk themselves in a circle, and then drop TRP bombs. Basically you're pointing out to them how their mindset is beneficial to women at the expense of themselves.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 06:21 PM
1

You need a montage
/r/askTRP24/08/16 06:13 PM
1

You need a montage
/r/askTRP24/08/16 06:09 PM
3

You haven't just lost frame, you've lost her respect. Putting up with her temper tantrums is Beta AF. You need to get out and have fun with some guy friends. Ignore her. Have fun without her. Talk to other girls. Get your balls back. When she sees you living your life like a man and that you can do so without her, she'll get straight real quick.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 06:05 PM
1

I think OP is concerned that she will eventually want sex, and withhold her business connections/benefits if OP doesn't give it to her
/r/askTRP24/08/16 05:57 PM
2

Word. I think what you say points at the true difference between PUA and real TRP
/r/askTRP24/08/16 05:37 PM
5

She lied to make herself more valuable to you. In a way, she is trying to please you, not deceive you. Your giving way too many fucks about it. The n-count conversation never does anyone any good.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 05:35 PM
1

"I have some friends staying at my place this week" go back to her place
/r/askTRP24/08/16 05:30 PM
2

I work in the software industry, and I don't think it will ever really take. It's an industry based on rock hard logic, it's full of anti-social types, and is pretty non-social in general. I'm all for diversity in the industry, but software development just doesn't seem to fit the feminine mentality (the good female devs I do know are rather butch). I think women are generally much more skilled at the design-based positions within the software/web industry.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 05:25 PM
7

You're giving way too many fucks. If you only have one option for your Friday night you need to get out more, increase SMV, expand your social circle.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 05:18 PM
2

Pinker is the dude. Though I recommend watching his videos first. The guy is an excellent speaker.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 05:05 PM
2

I always try to connect something in the moment with something in a larger context. Like if a girl is wearing a silk shirt, I'll ask her if she's ever seen how silk is made, talk about the silk road / Marco Polo etc.. maybe ask her to join your Marco Polo league (jokingly of course). Of course, sex is always a good topic. Whenever you have a chance to sexualize the conversation in a non-creepy way, do it.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 05:02 PM
8

Use of eye contact. Next time you're in a bar/club notice Beta eyes darting around the room like nervous chipmunks. Alpha eyes move slower and more deliberate/intentionally, as if you are hunting in the forest. I have a friend who is naturally Alpha AF and whenever he is talking to someone, his eyes are engaged and it's almost as if he's continuously sizing the other person up, looking them over and such. Just remember there is a fine line between penetrating gaze and creepy stare.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 04:49 PM
1

You have no abundance mentality. You should be doing what she's doing. yep.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 04:39 PM
14

From Rule 0 in the sidebar: TRP's mission is to increase men's sexual power and options. For me there is a little too much emphasis is placed on sex as the ultimate end goal, and that the more girls you're fucking the better. Sure sex is a glorious side effect of Red Pill and I thoroughly enjoy a diverse sex life, but I find that I enjoy the other aspects of game just as much.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 04:31 PM
1

I see the confusion as beneficial. I say let the world think TRP is Beta MRA, it only serves to keep us underground. If true TRP goes mainstream too fast, I don't think the fallout would be good for anyone.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 04:08 PM
1

That's good. Thank you
/r/askTRP23/08/16 11:12 PM
1

There are tons of books way better than Bang.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 11:10 PM
2

I'm planning on having a full battery of tests to make sure I don't have any other funk, so I'm going to my regular doctor.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 10:46 PM
1

Good idea. OP girl's attention will shift quick if OP is chatting up 3 girls on the other side of the room.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 10:42 PM
1

Kind of boring don't you think?
/r/askTRP23/08/16 10:33 PM
1

Not if you say it tongue-in-cheek (hence the smirk) You both know it's a pick up line, and that makes it funny. And don't be that guy telling me to read the sidebar. I read it. twice. and I still read it everyday. And I read the recommended books too, so add that to your research. The core of my advice is to SAY SOMETHING INTERESTING. You cherry picked one line and attacked it.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 10:32 PM
1

There is a way out of the friend zone, I mention it in my other comment
/r/askTRP23/08/16 10:13 PM
1

Her: "What do you want then?" You: "Benefits" Alternatively, Richard LaRuina has the master plan for getting out of the friend zone. Basically, actually treat her like a friend. Hit on and get with chicks in front of her, talk to her about the girls you hook up with, hug her but give her the "buddy pat" on the back. Ask for her advice on how to eat another girl's pussy... you get the idea. You could even ask her to wing you. Her hamster will damn near have a heart attack.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 10:12 PM
0

There is ALWAYS something interesting to say. Don't label funny/interesting openings "quirky". They work and you don't have to bore her or yourself with small talk. If "nothing pops into your head" EVER, you really need to sharpen your improv skills. Girl at bus stop: "Taking the bus huh? Yeah me too, ever since I wrecked my Ferarri.." (smirking) Girl crossing street: "Ever notice how all the guys on the crossing signals are white? I find that racist." (again, smirking) Think about what you'll s…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 10:02 PM
1

..his parents would report me. what the hell are you talking about and why would you give a fuck? TRP and being a confident man is not a crime.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 09:31 PM
-1

I think you played it well. However you do seem to have a bit of oneitis. Hindsight is 20/20, but if the girl was really bothered by the bra snap, you could have taken notice and confronted the guy head on. A decent shove to the chest would have been Alpha as fuck.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 11:41 PM
-3

Beta Romance: "baby you look absolutely breath taking, I want you all to myself right now" TRP: "it's hard not to think about fucking you right now." Err on the side of boldness my friend. NEVER be afraid to sexualize the situation. Even if you cross the line, own it. Panties will soak.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 11:30 PM
2

You just described a Beta male: Not getting laid, lots of female friends. Being "popular with women" doesn't mean much unless at least some of those female friends are prospects. Either get him on board with TRP and both of you take full advantage of his existing connections or piggyback your own way to the bone zone by getting him to introduce you to his "friends".
/r/askTRP22/08/16 11:21 PM
3

A girl that flakey already has plenty of dick in her life. She's attempting to keep you in orbit. Don't waste time trying to meet up somewhere. Tell her she's too flakey and if she wants to meet she can just come over to your place.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 11:13 PM
2

Keep reading the TRP. You have read The Rational Male correct? I recommend Richard LaRuina's "The Natural" as well. You need to get in touch with your inner asshole (Alpha). If you're not at least occasionally offending people, you're not doing it right.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 11:05 PM
1

why?
/r/askTRP19/08/16 07:15 PM
1

"I'm 5'5 high and 8" inches long"
/r/askTRP19/08/16 06:31 PM
1

I'm in the same industry and the struggle is real. I do not hang out with our software developers outside of work. They are Betas and an Alpha hanging out with Betas is a Beta. And the fact that 90% of these dudes dress like soup sandwiches won't help you in any way. While still in college, make the effort to make non-CS friends. After graduation, get with a large enough company that has sizeable Business/Marketing/Sales departments. There will be some guys there who are on the level. Run with t…
/r/askTRP19/08/16 06:27 PM
1

I feel you on this one. I don't like gyms (has nothing to do with intimidation) I just feel too caged up, plus I like to jump around and do weird kung-fuey/parkour type shit when I work out, so my backyard is the place. Whatever you do, just make sure it involves weights/bodyweight. Pure cardio won't build much muscle.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 05:15 PM
1

Watch alot of standup comedy, pay special attention to their delivery, and emulate.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 01:43 AM
1

Have you read The Natural by Richard LaRuina? He also has this YouTube video that raised my game to a new level
/r/askTRP19/08/16 01:34 AM
1

I didn't try to go home with her. Got a number and bailed. We're going out next week. Is this not success?
/r/askTRP19/08/16 01:32 AM
0

Your mindset is weak. Degrading women only reveals your need to make them seem like less so you can feel like more.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 01:27 AM
1

More "I AM THE HUNTER" Less "Gee golly pleased to meet ya I think ur swell"
/r/askTRP19/08/16 01:21 AM
1

Nothing wrong with emulation. Consider incorporating the blank stare of Ryan Gosling. Absolute killer dread game.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 01:09 AM
1

I think you missed the point. A Hound is not a Wing. A Hound does not know the game. The point is to get them to do the dirty work and for you to then swoop in and take the girl.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 12:59 AM
0

Hijack the conversation. Her: "Where are you from?" Bartender: "Oh I'm from Alphaville." Her: "That sounds li--" You: (interrupting) "Hey I like that place, I go there all the time, I have a good friend from there, do you know John X? (make up a name) no? Hm well anyway can you get me a beer?" (dismiss him) Also, use your experience as a barometer for progress. When you no longer give fucks about the type of experience you describe, you're on the right track.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 08:17 PM
2

Mistake #1: Spending an hour writing this post, and countless hours overthinking one girl.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 05:38 PM
2

Great answer. Especially the last part- shit testing is an almost subconscious process for many females (IME) I would suggest practicing the power of silence. Hit her with the blank stare. After she lays on the shit, just look at her between the eyes but really you're looking through her. Say nothing and walk away whistling a happy little tune. Will drive her absolutely nuts.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 04:34 PM
2

Pay no mind to the fools saying you can't do this all at once. It is possible to make a wholesale change. Start by printing off your post and pasting it on your bathroom mirror. The only thing I would add is to PRACTICE APPROACHING WOMEN. Approach women, chat them up, and leave without getting a number or anything. This both takes the pressure off the situation and can be good for maintaining motivation. Godspeed comrade.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 11:43 PM
3

Actually approaching women and saying something unexpected.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 09:44 PM
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