I've been "dating" this girl for about 2 months now. She has been more like a plate/fwb, but I'm her first so she thinks we are dating dating (I made it clear to her I'm not very serious right now, and also not to tell her friends about us).

Anyways, I usually go to her place and escalate to sex and occasionally go out on some dates. But since the beginning she keeps bothering me to "lets talk" "i wanna get to know you" bla bla bla. I let her talk about herself all the time, but I'm not a very shary-share person.

I guess she's good, at least, STR material and so we could have a relationship. Pre-TRP me would probably just start sharing everything about myself. But I wanna know how to handle this?

What should I talk to her about; my day to day stuff? She always brings it up during escalation "no, lets talk instead". I usually just keep going tell her we'll talk after.

Right now she has the tingles for me. Would opening my mouth kill the vibe?

PS i've never been in an STR/LTR, so i have no idea how this works. Seems, its like a continuous fight between comfort and attraction. Where's that balance in terms of talking?