Help for INTJ

mountainbiker178 · 2017-04-02T14:01:45+00:00

I'm INTJ and my LTR is INFJ. In my opinion, your personality type is basically an automatic alpha mask. Because we're entirely logic based and have such a difficult time with emotions (showing and reading), we automatically come off as stoic without even trying. Consequently, most of the strengths of INTJs will make appearing alpha/stoic easy.

HOWEVER, the weaknesses make it very difficult for you to connect with a girl's emotions/feelz. It also makes it challenging to deal with shit/comfort tests, because your default reaction is to problem-solve and think logically, which girls are the farthest from.

Since you're INTJ, I know you'll want to master all of the redpill knowledge/game. Read TRP and all of the manosphere blogs (rationalemale, illimitablemen, chateau heartiste, etc). I love that everything is grounded with science/observation. It's irrefutable.

Radithor · 2017-04-02T14:18:58+00:00

I am an INTJ and my advice; abandon all association with the Carl Jung and Myers Briggs personality test. It operates on the similar principles of the barnum effect much like horoscopes where it encourages snowflake mentality which is highly discouraged on The Red Pill. I agree you can use it to base some of your own personality traits but overall it doesn't seem like a conclusive piece of psychology.

My second piece of advice is to study the sidebar thoroughly. Especially if you see yourself as an intellectual and not an INTJ. You don't need a Crack-pot psychology test to dictate your preffered behaviors. To add on to that read the recommended books in the following link, look for more if you must. My personal recommendation if you wish to be more successful with the dating game, among a throng of other books is 'Book of pook', it's quite helpful. Goodluck.

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harkrank · 2017-04-02T22:57:23+00:00

Putting yourself into a square because of some mumbo-jumbo psychology BS is your mistake. Put your hand between your legs and see what's there? Was it balls and a dick? Then you are a man. Nothing more, nothing less. Not a INTJ or FNJB or BTNT, white, black, asian, lower class, middle class, upper class, weak, strong, popular, unpopular etc.

You are no different from a girl who blames her mistakes on being a "Leo" or "Capricorn".

Own your fate and step out of the fog and into reality.

RedSkeller · 2017-04-02T22:14:08+00:00

Big jumps? Take bigger risks. I'm talking be bold brother. INTJ are classic 'fake it till you make it' because of poker face. Be outcome independent and be genuine, and you'll see success.

redditatt · 2017-04-03T04:18:33+00:00

The answer is in the question. You are INTJ- you know your weaknesses, so you've already won half the battle.

The other half is exercising your weak areas. Romance is weak? Well what is romance? Its dead. well shit. So start with seduction. Richard LaRuina is a good resource for that. Learn how to seduce, to play the game and get a woman excited. It all comes down to your behavior.

XLNC- · 2017-04-03T08:39:18+00:00

I am an intj, and basically very similar to you. I am a former athlete, have been lifting for a few years, I do boxing regularly (actual sparring, not just posing on the bags), I have a six pack, in a corporate job. We are the rarest personality type, and I believe we think the most differently therefore majority of people won't understand our perspective or struggles. I have always been very confident in most aspects of my life, apart from girls. I tend to either be 100% or 0% in the things I do, after discovering TRP I have completely immersed myself in the materials and learnings and have already noticed lots of progress and multiple epiphanies. Our dominant function is Ni, which is basically unconscious learning, so the more we immerse ourselves in a certain problem or subject matter, the more crystalised our view of it becomes. We are generally good at understanding systems and the big picture so try to view game like that. I won't bore on with how our minds works, I'm sure you've read up on it. One of my main problems is I have a very supercilious attitude, and can come off as condescending or arrogant, so I have to work on taming how much of that I let out. Most Intjs tend to be late bloomers, as our Ni function gives us a more and more crystalised view of the world as we age.

blackedoutfast · 2017-04-02T20:22:56+00:00

without getting into all the myers-briggs shit, you are probably very analytical but not very good at subconsciously/instinctively picking up on social cues and the emotional states of others. also you're probably more introverted.

really read the sidebar and suggested external material. the persuasion and influence stuff like cialdini's book will probably be very useful to you

study people like an anthropologist. in social groups, figure out how the hierarchy and how the various members connect to each other. when you meet someone, try to figure out their motivations and what makes them tick.

learn to not just blindly trust your gut.

Pastatuna1234 · 2017-04-02T19:10:00+00:00

This is totally bullshit. I used to be like you and am an infp but why do you want to put yourself into compartments relating to some bs questions you answered online?

adam_varg · 2017-04-02T22:48:05+00:00

Help is easy. Stop apologizing your weaknesses with psychology labels and work on yourself. Snowflaking around wont get you far.

Title	Help for INTJ
Author	redpill-account
Upvotes	5
Comments	18
Date	April 2, 2017 1:42 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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