Alright so gf broke up with me in October, I became red pill aware then and read lots and all over the side bar, still working on it. I went no contact for a week and a half.

Anyways she came back running to me etc. I already know what I did with digging in the trash and and taking her back was wrong, but I decided to try out some red pull principles on her and try to retake frame control. I started hitting the gym since we broke up and she's questioned me over it left and right about the gym.

Anyways so did Thanksgiving with her and we were all going around what we're thankful for. She goes and says she's thankful for me. I say I'm thankful for the gym, cause her mom was like he's gonna say I'm thankful for her. Well she got slightly upset with me about it, we didn't talk too much yesterday which is fine, she came and brought me dinner yesterday, and told me she was still upset with me about what I did. I acted ignorant and joked about it, she tried pull away from me no touching, so I was went with whatever attitude. So she decided to leave, so didn't talk to her till today.

She's been giving me short replies to anything I say, so I decided to dread her with "freedom and independence is important to me" she replies with "what does that mean"? Then shortly after again " what does that mean, you're freaking me out" so should I let her hamster for rest of night? If not what do I say to that reply once she brings it up again? Do you think I should have just recounted what I said at Thanksgiving? Or what.