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3

Just comes down to money and status. Doesn't mean he's alpha.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:01 AM
5

Booksmart don't mean street smart. I mean look at beta elon.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 05:32 AM
1

Given long enough? 100%
/r/askTRP06/10/20 12:59 AM
1

Op would be amazed about what onkyfans is then
/r/askTRP28/09/20 10:45 PM
1

Get her some skittles as a parting gift.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 06:35 AM
1

Just use the Smith machine.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 06:05 AM
5

Yeah just avoid the confrontation, no idea what kind of weapons etc he has on him. Especially a knife, that's the last thing you'd wanna deal with. I'd rather get shot, than get stabbed up.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 05:59 AM
14

You forgot to put ex-gf
/r/askTRP22/06/19 05:47 AM
2

Should reminded her of the anal loophole.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 02:46 PM
19

Clearly you didn't read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 09:25 AM
1

Hows his personality? Is he the center of the group? Guy in my shop in the military was a bigger guy, but he was funny and had zfg attitude and got laid no problem with good looking girls.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 09:44 AM
2

It's impossible to get a tinder account unbanned. You're better off just using Google voice and getting a phone number from there and making a new account.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 09:36 AM
2

I'm at 1 plate right now out of sheer laziness. Way I'm avoiding oneitis is just nit picking anything I don't like about her in my head and just not gonna commit because I don't like that one or few things about her. Fuck what she wants, she's not ur gf she doesn't get the option to voice what she wants you to do. Go do what you want to do, got a good opportunity take it.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 05:55 AM
7

She wanted you to move her furniture.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 07:15 PM
3

Use to street racing would give me a pretty good rush between the competition and having to look out for any cops.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 02:09 AM
-1

Go for a threesome so the fatty doesn't feel left out.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:54 AM
1

Rogaine. It'll take a year of applying 2x a day, but you'll be able to get a full beard that way.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 11:32 PM
1

Theres a disabled guy I see at the gym from time to time in a wheel chair. Doesn't stop him from doing upper body machines.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 11:52 AM
2

You already answered your own question. Why the fuck you coming here hoping to get the approval of other people so that you can feel you did the right thing.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 10:27 PM
1

Are you in the an LDR if you're talking over the phone?
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:33 PM
9

What you see in SMV of Shane and what she sees of SMV in Shane are completely different. Women don't look for the same thing men do when it comes to the opposite sex. Thats why you can see fat fucks pulling hot girls.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:08 PM
3

Just think of your gf is out there getting dicked down right now. Do it like a training exercise and if it ever ends up happening then by that point you've already gotten use to it and won't bother you. Onto the next chick.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 02:23 PM
3

I usually let them get some cuddle time after sex then send them on their way. Then ill send a message saying I had a good time and get reply of me too etc that I'll take a screen shot of just incase rape accusations. Usually from there on out I'll just be minimal contact unless I want to set up another meet up. Just be like hey let's hang out this night and see if she goes with it or not.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 08:46 AM
7

Its sink or swim. Grab your parents and take them with you.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 05:24 PM
1

Endorsed contributors, guys who know their shit.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 05:20 PM
20

How you gonna handle a girl calling you an ugly fuck irl if you can't handle some random fucks on the Internet talking shit. Plus there's the dumbasses that come in here and don't apply themselves, read the sidebar etc and ask obvious questions. Or just trying to get their oneitis. It overall gets annoying seeing the same shit over and over. Idk how the EC's aren't going insane lol.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 05:09 PM
1

You don't get it
/r/askTRP15/03/19 07:46 AM
1

RPW aren't any different from any of the other women. They just want into any and all male spaces for attention.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:57 AM
1

I "love" all the women I wanna fuck.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:48 AM
6

What is this horseshit. Serious answers? How about a serious question?
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:22 AM
1

No wonder ur not seeing any results. U don't know wtf ur doing. 2-4 grams a day? 1 gram per 1lb of body weight.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 07:25 AM
1

Women are time whores, they steal ur time and attention. Can't let them get it for free.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 01:18 AM
1

How can you think someone that sits down to pee is better than you?
/r/askTRP17/02/19 12:31 AM
2

Got anything to back up that pair bonding issue for men? Sounds like some bullshit to me.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 12:23 AM
1

Girls "cheat" by fucking other guys. Guys "cheat" by loving another girl. The way I see it is it's not cheating, you didn't love the sidechick, just using her for what you didn't get at home. You need to get out of that mentality you did something wrong. We're guys, we want to fuck every hot chick that moves. One girl will never be enough for us.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 02:30 PM
4

I'll say something I don't see anyone else saying. Sally was just jealous as fuck and was using this as a way to get at you. You say you walked around talked with people. Did you say anything at all to her? Other spot I saw was how she seemed butthurt when you joked about having makeup remover. Just my 2 cents.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 01:50 PM
1

All I saw her say was blah blah blah fucking blah
/r/askTRP09/02/19 01:25 PM
3

Pearl necklace.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 08:47 AM
0

Time for you to be fucking some side girls
/r/askTRP01/02/19 11:57 AM
1

Well if you don't care about the standards of girls and just want to get your dick wet Just go to a club before closing. Ask every girl if they wanna smash until you find one. Just comes down to a numbers game at that point.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 05:08 AM
2

You know you did it right when two years later she's still trying to throw feelers out to see if you'll reply.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 11:51 PM
7

This, just started using it a few weeks ago after looking around.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 10:43 AM
1

This might be a mindfuck, but women can have more than one sexual partner at a time.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 03:46 AM
2

Go to the "nice guys" sub and you'll see most posts these women put up are guys just being incel awkward fucks that have no idea how dynamics work. They get upset when they get denied by the girls and go on and call them slugs and whores etc. Then there's the normal nice guys who I'd consider just beta guys who don't understand how things work that are actually nice and it doesn't help them any when trying to just get laid.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 02:55 AM
1

Yeah ill fuck girls with tattoos or piercings, but don't expect me to ltr one. It's clear signs of them being compulsive and making bad life choices in other dangerous areas ex drugs.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:02 AM
4

Why stay an hour? Should just asked for check and said this ain't working out
/r/askTRP07/01/19 06:07 PM
2

We aren't fucking mind readers
/r/askTRP06/01/19 12:50 PM
27

Dont dip your pen in company ink
/r/seduction23/12/18 07:46 AM
15

It's better to act faster and escalate and get rejected than waiting around and wasting time getting labeled "nice" .
/r/seduction11/12/18 09:37 PM
4

It's a she.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 01:11 AM
1

Learn kickboxing, feel like you'd have the advantage with reach over most people with your height. Saw you said mate, so dunno if you're in a place that let's you conceal carry, but when you're of age you can also do that.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 09:42 AM
1

What you driving?
/r/askTRP02/11/18 09:29 AM
1

What you driving?
/r/askTRP02/11/18 09:28 AM
1

That's a little overboard, if you're worried about drunk girls and false rape accusations, just get a hidden cam in your room. Record the encounter and make sure to get here to beg for your Dick, etc to show willingness. Also send a snap or text like "I had a good time" after she leaves and screenshot it afterwards for proof too just incase. If it does come down to her trying to pull some bullshit I'd rather get convicted of recording instead of rape.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 09:25 AM
1

That's a little overboard, if you're worried about drunk girls and false rape accusations, just get a hidden cam in your room. Record the encounter and make sure to get here to beg for your Dick, etc to show willingness. Also send a snap or text like "I had a good time" after she leaves and screenshot it afterwards for proof too just incase. If it does come down to her trying to pull some bullshit I'd rather get convicted of recording instead of rape.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 09:24 AM
2

Text her whenever you want, if she wants to complain tell her you're busy and don't have time to stare at your phone all day. Depends on how it fell out. If it was amicable I'd keep them around as friends. If they wanted to be Bitches I'd just ghost them.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 06:31 AM
1

Well she just seems like a straight up crazy bitch, why the fuck would you try to put yourself back in that situation.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 08:02 AM
1

Well she just seems like a straight up crazy bitch, why the fuck would you try to put yourself back in that situation.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 08:01 AM
9

Think about it this way, if you married her and ended up having kids, she probably wouldn't work another day after the kid was born.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:26 AM
2

Hopefully she gets off the bc, don't need another feminine woman turning into a man.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 10:49 AM
3

Sounds like a BPD girl trying to get you.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 02:50 AM
1

It's not, but you gotta know when to do it. Reinforce good behavior with compliments, and bad behavior with removal of attention.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 02:42 AM
1

I'd wait a little while, invite her out for something else. If she shoots that down too then just move on. Girls really into you won't give a fuck what you guys are doing, she'll just be glad to be there with you.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 02:37 AM
6

Mgtow is on the second ban wave attempt list
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 02:34 PM
6

See op, this user here is projecting his own gay thoughts onto you.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 01:23 PM
1

3 months to get something set up? You're gonna have to move a lot faster than that to stay out of the friendzone.
/r/seduction08/09/18 10:07 AM
–

Hurry up and put a ring on that finger.
/r/seduction08/09/18 09:02 AM
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Ahh yes showing your vulnerable emotions to people, that totally won't make them shrivel away at how pathetic you are. Women specifically don't wanna see their man being a baby and crying and whining around them. Their pussy will dry up faster than the sahara.
/r/seduction07/09/18 11:14 PM
1

A gun
/r/askTRP21/08/18 04:54 PM
1

There's a reason I carry a gun, knife, and oc spray.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 08:35 AM
3

There's people out there who have it way worse than you. You'll be fine.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 08:17 AM
3

Too bad stupidity isn't painful
/r/askTRP09/08/18 03:09 AM
1

It's only going to be creepy if you're a sperg and don't understand basic social dynamics, and can't take a hint if the girl isn't interested.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 01:07 AM
1

A man's search for meaning. Read it.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 09:34 AM
2

Sexual chemistry? Did you even fuck?
/r/askTRP27/07/18 08:16 AM
1

dont forget 99% lean ground turkey. oatmeal and some frozen fruit with whey. sweet potatoes, vegetables.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 10:31 PM
3

She doesn't like it because she doesn't really like you. My ex gf didn't like giving bj, and had starfish sex cause I didn't run the relationship right and was lazy. Fast forward to plate that was infatuated with me, would let me deep throat face fuck her, text me asking to come over with minimal effort on my part. Even asked me why I never ass fucked her (not my thing). Just helped me solidify more rp truths along my journey. You can read it, but really helps to get out there and experience it …
/r/askTRP19/07/18 02:46 AM
5

You come here looking for advice. People give you good advice, and then you argue with every last one of them about how ur gf is special blah blah. Seriously just fuck off then, ur shits fucked and you're going to fuck it up even more.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:48 PM
1

They got divorced when I was 8 or so. Ended up living with mom for most the time. Spent 3 years with my dad cause mom went to jail for some business related crap. Dad was still an alcoholic, and stepmom ran the house, was a psychologist for juvie kids. Got put on adhd crap for couple years. They then kicked me back out to my mom's cause they didn't wanna deal with me. Barely passed high-school. Then went on to military. Cant complain though. If I was still in Russia I would have been dead long a…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:32 PM
1

Dude your situation is no different than any other chumpy "this girl" post.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 06:45 AM
1

Why wait? Infiltrate both parties and get them to break up. Then she's all yours.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 06:12 AM
3

Are you dead? No? Then move along.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 12:42 AM
1

Things the recruiters don't tell you is all the extra bs you have to do that's not part of the job description. When I got to my boat, I was shortly sent to the cook's division to be a dishwasher because it was our turn to send someone. Then there's all the ridiculous amounts of time we have to do 30-45 all hands cleaning crap, usually only takes 15 min tops. After almost 4 years there, right before I got out got thrown to another division to work on the hvac systems for 3 months. Even after all…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 05:54 AM
1

Pg 220 in TheBookofPook "Are you gay? Why won't you go out with me (or anyone)? If you happened to be handsome or really cute, girls will try to go out with you. If you say no (haha!), she will think to herself, "All these girls want to go out with him and he won't go out with any of them. What is wrong with him? IS HE GAY!?" Girls wondering if you're gay can be the ultimate compliment. Think. They are already thinking of you in a sexual context. They want you to go out with them. When you don't…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 11:26 PM
2

I think this was brought up in book of pook, usually dressing nicely is associated with being gay. Sad that our society has come to that lol.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 05:20 AM
1

Go read the sidebar
/r/askTRP10/07/18 02:41 PM
1

Yeah but still no one's going to have amazing success, sure you can reflect on where you fucked up. Then there's the times you have a perfect approach and the girl is just having a shit day and doesn't even wanna bother with you. Can't overthink it.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 04:46 AM
18

Finish her!
/r/askTRP01/07/18 06:53 PM
29

Waterboarding begs to differ
/r/askTRP28/06/18 05:51 PM
0

Get 5 more plates lined up and you won't care if this one doesn't go through
/r/askTRP28/06/18 02:35 PM
2

Be anything but boring.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 03:44 PM
7

Sounds like you got a case of the oneitis. You're not in a committed relationship with her, so why the fuck do you care.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 03:41 AM
9

Don't talk to the police period. https://youtu.be/d-7o9xYp7eE
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 10:30 AM
1

While youre at it pee on the girl too
/r/askTRP22/06/18 08:17 PM
22

Get a paternity test. So you really know it's yours.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 08:00 PM
1

Wow if he was ever as dedicated to the gym as he is to this topic in his post history, he might get somewhere.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 01:27 AM
1

Never settle for anything, that's still just losing.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 10:04 PM
1

Dude you're not entitled to jack shit anywhere. Stop acting like a woman and thinking you get the best for doing no work.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:51 PM
1

All you're posting is some sad pity shit and complaining. All the information you need is on the sidebar of the main page. Go read it and practice it. Or just die as pitiful virgin loser that complains about how things are hard.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:37 PM
4

You'll spend half the game crying rape and getting the enemy characters arrested.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 11:30 AM
1

There's always gonna be someone who has higher smv than you, that a girl will give it up faster. Who cares, be the best you that you can be. Just go on the date, escalate and if it doesn't work out then whatever onto the next one. Stop trying to compare yourself to some imaginable chad she fucked on a first date, and think you have to do the same thing.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 01:26 AM
2

Count your calories with an app. Eat the right foods, I resorted to eating 4lb tubs of peanut butter to get the calories I needed.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 12:10 PM
1

If they ask you, just tell them she's not your type.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 12:00 PM
2

Sounds like oneitis. Better get some new plates, then you wouldn't give a fuck.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 04:29 AM
28

If you plan on going back to your parents place its fairly easy. When shes gonna be at work one day, just grab all ur shit and pack it and take it home. When she gets home, just tell her it's not working and you guys are through, and just leave. Don't stick around and try to listen to what she has to say, just go. Then block her ass everywhere.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 03:19 AM
2

Either she doesn't feel you're worthy enough for her to compete for, and or she thinks she's entitled for only your attention.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:21 PM
1

Just paddle board into the atlantic
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 04:32 PM
–

10 numbers doesn't mean 10 lays.
/r/seduction11/01/18 06:03 AM
1

Just snap her that your coming over right before you go there. Wait for confirmation, if good then go if not then whatever.
/r/askTRP25/11/17 01:10 AM
4

Gold is weak, I prefer titanium.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 12:35 PM
1

Do it for science
/r/askTRP10/10/17 11:52 PM
2

Make it a game to fail as much as possible, just have fun, don't think of them as some girl you're trying to bed.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 03:33 AM
1

No condoms no sex
/r/askTRP09/10/17 11:59 PM
3

What about becoming a blue haired feminist and growing out all her body hair?
/r/askTRP09/10/17 01:37 AM
3

Do the same pose and send it back to her and say you do it better.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 01:34 AM
5

Don't be a coward. If you're not fucking, you're nothing more than her girlfriend.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 10:36 PM
10

Well at least you're smart enough to know to move on, most don't. Grats on coming here, you can learn quite a bit from reading the sidebar. Who cares what she says to people, just tell her it's not working out and move on. Ignore all her texts and calls etc. If anyone asks you about it just tell them it didn't work out and change subject.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 09:50 PM
2

It's just a boss fight to get to the treasure, you're going to have to fuck your boss.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 12:05 PM
6

Throwing out ultimatums like that comes from a position of weakness. You show even more weakness that you didn't even go through with it when she tried to flip the script on you. All this talk of breaking up is going to be in the back of her mind, and she's probably already looking for her next bf or someone to fuck, I'd say your time in this relationship is limited.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 03:13 AM
1

Reminds me of when I was going to go cheat on my ex gf with another girl, to get some personal revenge. I got to said girls place, and was in her bed, but got second thoughts about it. So I didn't even fuck her, even though she was begging for it, and just went to sleep. She texts me later on saying how she always gets what she wants and was surprised. Still managed to fuck her a few times in the future anyways.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 01:59 AM
5

Clearly not interested enough or something better came along. Honestly this far out she probably forgot all about you. I wouldn't bother with it.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 01:28 AM
1

I figure you're afraid of the outcome, and your friends seeing what's going to happen. Even if you do get to isolate her, seeing how it's a small circle the girl will tell the other girl what happened. Words gonna get out either way, just do it before you're too late.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 01:10 AM
3

By breaking up with her and never speaking to her again
/r/askTRP03/10/17 06:35 PM
2

Church
/r/askTRP03/10/17 01:29 AM
4

This. I moved to a new town alone and didn't know anyone, had too much free time and clung to the first girl I found cause I was lonely. Proceeded to be with her almost day in and day out. You know what happens next
/r/askTRP02/10/17 11:58 PM
1

clearly you don't have any women in your life if you care this much about this one.. You wouldn't give a fuck what happens if you had 3 other girls lined up to fuck at any time.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 06:28 PM
5

Plates my dude... plates, and if you don't know what I mean you better hit the sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 12:30 PM
7

isnt that cute
/r/askTRP26/09/17 02:01 AM
0

I hate kids, yet one of my plates is a single mom. I don't care as long as she isn't bringing him with her when she comes over.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 02:33 PM
3

sidebar ---> Edit: and lift
/r/askTRP21/09/17 01:04 AM
2

Most people besides other CCW carriers and Police officers, wont notice you printing, cause they are oblivious.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 06:53 PM
2

Wow just read your post history. I really hope this isn't the same 30 yr old that you LTRD, cause you fucking up all over the place. She's damaged goods, dump this bitch.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 02:01 PM
2

stop posting here every day with the same shit
/r/askTRP16/09/17 08:20 PM
0

Plates are pretty much girls waiting for the commitment. She's gonna break eventually, once she realizes you're not going to give it up.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 04:46 PM
0

is there a question here?
/r/askTRP16/09/17 03:22 PM
6

Probably just another fad, women do things in groups so it's probably been passing from group to group
/r/askTRP13/09/17 08:49 PM
1

Give her a bag of skittles
/r/askTRP13/09/17 03:58 AM
2

Better call a damn taxi then
/r/askTRP13/09/17 03:43 AM
1

Should told her her string was hanging out
/r/askTRP13/09/17 12:26 AM
8

Did you mean bread?
/r/askTRP12/09/17 04:12 AM
5

I feel like she came back, hoping you would get her phone number. Since you didn't bother, I figure you failed, unless you didn't find her attractive.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 04:00 AM
1

yeah you definitely acted like a little bitch about it. Just act unphased, an throw some shit back at her with a smirk.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 01:35 AM
2

Personally wouldn't be in a relationship with a girl that has GNO, too late for you to change that. Just ride it out till it ends. Also how old is she?
/r/askTRP11/09/17 01:31 AM
4

First off you shouldn't be arguing with her, all women love that shit and the drama included with it. She's acting like a bitch, and being rude as fuck because she knows she can get away with it. You haven't set boundaries for her, so she just gets away with calling you names and disrespecting you. You need to start putting your foot down and squashing that shit when she does it. IDC if shes fucking pmsing, she can talk to me like an adult, and not throw my shit around.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 01:23 AM
1

nice humblebrag. But really, you got some new money, if you want it to become old money. Invest it, and live frugaly. Don't tell people you have money, they'll treat you differently, and you'll never know which girls are in it for the money. Theres a post somewhere around here, where some guy was a millionaire, and he had a gf, he never told her about it. He dumped her after she was trying to push for stuff, only to find out a year or so later that he was a millionaire and was kicking herself in…
/r/askTRP11/09/17 12:01 AM
1

You should quit posting on here until you read the fucking sidebar kid.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 11:55 PM
2

You gave her an ultimatum which shows a weak power play on your part. She came over multiple times and just teases your and doesn't have sex, she's knows your her orbiter and she control you. You should have ghosted her ass the first time she came over and didn't put out after the ultimatum.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 03:06 PM
1

Who fucking cares where. People kiss in public all the time.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 04:18 PM
1

It's no ones fault except her own to decide to go sleep with a bunch of dudes and become an escort. It's not like you held a gun to her head and told her to fuck them. Everyone's choices come down to themselves. Sure some seem better than other at times, but what they choose is still on them.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 04:38 PM
3

If you're not fucking her then you're just one of her girlfriends.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 03:23 PM
1

The real question is why you're still with your "girlfriend". you should have heard the Jody jokes by now, and your "gf" isn't going to be special. In addition you're not even in a real relationship. https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/20/letting-go-of-invisible-friend/
/r/askTRP08/09/17 02:08 PM
1

Chill the fuck out with those emojis you woman.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 06:31 AM
3

Should have done push/pull a couple times, if she was still giving you LMR then you should have told her you had things to do.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 06:24 AM
1

One of my plates would sometimes drop the L bomb on me after I would fuck her and she would be leaving. I just ignored it act like I didn't hear it, and kept doing what I was doing.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 11:27 PM
0

You should have did it when she brought up the conversation. Obviously you can't if you've been trying to weasel out of it for a month. A simple "I don't believe in long distance relationships, we should move on"
/r/askTRP06/09/17 11:05 PM
1

Do something you like doing. Not just because you're gonna get paid a lot to do it.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 10:54 PM
1

If you don't tell her anything, nothings gonna change.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 10:34 AM
1

This kid won't learn, he posts the same things over and over.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 10:29 AM
6

Say it's Monday you get some notes, study them that night. Tuesday rolls around get more notes study Mondays notes and then Tuesdays notes that night. Rinse repeat until you take your test.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 10:27 AM
1

Did you ever think she's doing that just for you to put a ring on her finger? You're going to have to vette her longer than 3 months.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 02:24 AM
4

You come here looking for advice, and when you get it you don't want to accept it. Your answer could have easily been answered by reading the sidebar. We're not here to tell you what you want to hear, we're here to tell you the truth, if you don't like that then move along.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 02:03 AM
1

You're missing the point that girls want to tie down an alpha get him in a relationship and have his kids etc. If said girl keeps failing to get alphas and she hits the wall shes gonna settle for a beta. So girl 3 wouldn't really apply for beta bux to you.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 05:53 AM
1

Obviously you don't know how to stay out of the dumpster.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 05:44 AM
1

Damn beat me to it
/r/askTRP04/09/17 12:21 AM
2

Paying a suitable and vetted nanny would be cheaper than having a wife.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 12:51 AM
2

Damn man, I had found a post a few days back about a guy who played the game with his pregnant ex gf. He played the perfect father figure role, went to all the doctors appointments, moved in together put her on the lease, went to the court hearings for custody. He spent at least a year and a half playing the perfect role, just so that he could show he was a good father, and make her look like a psycho, she even tried to cry rape on him, and called the cops on him one time, but he was easily able…
/r/askTRP02/09/17 04:21 AM
1

People will be buying robotic sex dolls before TRP ever becomes mainstream. We can hope that this might change the way women act, but I highly doubt it.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 03:50 AM
1

If you're trying to stay away from a dead bedroom situation, be a man with value that she can't afford to lose. Don't go for the MMF threesomes, that's just being fucking lazy.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 03:05 PM
1

why haven't you blocked her on social media
/r/askTRP30/08/17 03:36 AM
2

Bang and day bang
/r/askTRP25/08/17 01:16 AM
4

Men are expected to be honorable and faithful in society, so it's frowned upon to cheat by most people. Women branch swing because they are afraid of being alone. They string along a guy, until they found the next guy. Also they get their typical pussy pass. As referring to you id say she's probably looking for her next branch, and just came back to you for the time being. You shouldn't have gotten back together in a relationship, should have just proposed for FWB. Also I'd suggest getting out o…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 01:21 AM
2

You're hamstering yourself with "Me and her parents became good friends" Stop trying to be her friend when you just want to fuck her. Go search on TRP for kino and escalation try them out. If it doesn't work out just ghost her and move on.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 01:07 AM
1

Texas or california?
/r/askTRP21/08/17 05:39 PM
2

Yes. Women talk, men do. Try some kino, gauge her reaction if good keep going, until you get a definite no from her.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 01:59 PM
2

You shouldn't have to worry about it unless you end up coming off as creepy. Just make sure you escalate properly. Good luck getting out of orbit.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 01:55 PM
3

Do what you want. Just be aware of the consequences. Some jobs don't like tattoos so you could be closing doors with having a full sleeve etc.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 04:06 AM
-2

You're always busy with your mission. You don't got time to be looking at women.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 07:23 AM
1

Dude there's really nothing you can do to stop them from ruining their lives. It's gonna be a learning curve for the blue pill men. If there's a friend or family member that hits rock bottom, sure you could try to bring up trp, but outside of that it's pointless. Stop worrying about everyone else and just work on yourself. You getting in an argument with some blue pill white Knight schmuck is the same thing as arguing with a woman. Don't do it.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 12:51 AM
3

I don't like the taste of tuna that much either. I usually just mayo, relish, and jalapeños to help kill the taste.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 04:01 AM
5

Your loss. Then soft next her until she decides she wants to chill or not.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 10:36 PM
2

Did you use any kino prior to going for the kiss?
/r/askTRP18/08/17 04:19 PM
3

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1h5xjm/vasectomy_400_speechless_look_on_her_face/ enjoy the read
/r/askTRP08/08/17 03:48 AM
1

Yup, girlsdoporn, bcc with the thought of getting lots of money for sex, and exploited college girls flashed into my head when he told me lol. I mean if you dont have the looks or game, there's always the money.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 02:01 AM
14

I'll second this. My ex gf from highschool, whom was probably close to living on the streets found a guy who took her into his home and she became his gf. We still talked and sure enough I went home for Christmas and she was eager to be able to jump back on my dick, even with what he's done for her.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 12:17 AM
1

Getting 15 numbers doesn't guarantee 15 dates. So just start texting them all and setting up dates, and see who flakes.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 07:18 PM
3

Her lying to you before saying she was a virgin. Then after you're engaged she finally drops to you that she is not.. Why would accept that. Definitely sounds like a ticket for her to get out of there. Cut it off with her.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 07:11 PM
1

even at that age, having good game will play a role in it too.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 05:05 AM
3

Majority of it depends in how well off the family is that relates to how popular the kids are. That and usually the popular kids are also doing some sort of sport too.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 02:14 AM
2

You should have established from the beginning that your gf doesn't go to bars all the time, especially without you. Sure she can have some occasional girls nights out, but I wouldn't let her be partying all the time. Now at this point you can't really change it, without coming off as insecure or controlling. If it's bugging you too much, you might as well drop her and move on.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 06:28 PM
1

Why are you getting in a relationship with some girl after only 2 months?
/r/askTRP07/07/17 03:24 PM
12

They love presents, tell them it's an early bday gift.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 05:31 PM
3

Ex Navy here. I get what you mean about social / work situations with women that you work with. Dont shit where you eat still applies to the situation. It's gonna be hard to ghost her or ignore her if you work closely with her, or that's she's going to be in many social situations with the group. Just be normal, dont give her any extra attention like you did before. My bad if this was half assed, trying to do this on break from work.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 07:15 PM
29

Why are you being stupid and giving him your address. It's not a matter of who is more alpha or beta, it's a matter of who can fight better. You telling him your address is just opening you to getting your ass beat by him and however many dudes he wants to bring along.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 10:19 PM
1

How can you use pretty and overweight in the same sentence?
/r/askTRP21/06/17 06:25 PM
1

Save any messages that she sent you that can be used against her, if she actually tries to accuse you of anything.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 06:23 PM
1

Physical value at all time high? Yet you're thin? Sounds like some bullshit, go lift some iron and put on some muscle.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 11:48 AM
1

Lol, got a new match. Lets try this bad boy out.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 11:32 AM
1

Next time don't tell a girl you're going to kiss her, just do it. Make sure it's not out of the blue though.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 11:25 AM
3

You can't honestly say you have the abundance mentality down if you're worried about the outcome of trying to plate this girl. Just go out for some drinks and invite her along. If it happens, it happens if you fuck it up, whatever there's plenty more like her.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 05:41 AM
17

No need to bring it up. If she brings it up, act like it's no big deal, and you had fun without her regardless.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 06:12 AM
2

Most likely a feminist. That already speaks a lot for itself. Good only for pump and dump.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 04:32 PM
20

Lol, carding her like backroom casting couch. Good job man.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 01:42 PM
3

Always be aware of your surroundings, don't walk while looking at phone or listening to music etc.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 03:14 AM
2

Wtf is this stupid shit.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 04:58 PM
5

Tell her to come over to your place and fuck her again. If she doesn't reply or gives some bs excuse with no alternate time you know what to expect.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 04:01 AM
1

You're probably going to have to go out once at least with her, to help rebuild some sort of connection you use to have. Just make sure to escalate and see if she's still interested, if so then head back to your place.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 03:54 AM
1

Did you not get the response you were looking for from the first time you posted this?
/r/askTRP06/06/17 06:48 PM
2

Ever try finding girls not at charity events or at expensive places? You could always keep whay you do and your money a secret, be frugal around them and see how they play out. Make them think you don't have money etc.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 05:04 AM
3

The 12 Levels of Dread: "The Rules" for any Long Term Relationship https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2l7pqe/the_12_levels_of_dread_the_rules_for_any_long/
/r/askTRP05/06/17 01:00 AM
1

Well then why don't you stand out and not be like everyone and ask her for her number.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 09:47 PM
1

Quite interesting
/r/askTRP04/06/17 01:18 AM
2

Fuck her in the car
/r/askTRP03/06/17 08:06 PM
21

Because most men have no standards and are desperate to get their dick wet. Women know this, and the lazy ones are too lazy to improve themselves because they know they can get laid even being fat.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 06:10 AM
1

Only reply if she brings up coming over. Then proceed to escalate, if she doesn't want to then just tell her you need to return some tapes and it's time for her to head home.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 06:05 AM
18

Stop texting with that cringy ass emoji shit.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 08:14 PM
2

How long you been dating? If less than a year, you shouldn't even be in a relationship.
/r/askTRP28/05/17 06:57 PM
7

This
/r/askTRP28/05/17 06:55 PM
1

She's like a drug to you, only way you'll get past it is by quitting. Stop being a damn baby, and man the fuck up already.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 02:33 AM
1

Dude she's like a drug to you, only way you're gonna get past this is by cutting her out of your life.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 02:16 AM
1

You block on everything and stop talking to her, that's where you go.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 01:44 AM
5

You're living in a damn fairy tale. Women don't want a clingy ass man. Instead of just skimming the sidebar you really need to read it and process it. Go read some of the horror stories that people have posted, you'll get a rude awakening of the real world.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 01:36 AM
1

Let me hear your idea of something real
/r/askTRP27/05/17 01:26 AM
4

Oh and also, it's not your job to make her happy, it's her job to make you happy. How long have you even been trying to read TRP? Probably not at all cause this is some of the very basics covered. I'd recommend you start reading up.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 01:21 AM
7

Seriously dude you're a mess. A relationship isn't going to happen, just accept it. You're both going different places, you wasted too much time, she only sees you as a friend. A long distance relationship isn't a real thing.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 01:18 AM
9

You're better off ignoring her and moving on. If you haven't already fucked her within the first few weeks you've known each other then move along. Don't be a baby and say you can't do it, because you can. There's guy out here who have been married or in an LTR much longer and have been able to move on. Also don't be going to the gym to try to get in shape for a girl, go to the gym so you can get in shape for yourself and boost in confidence.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 01:13 AM
2

Theres a post or something I read around here. Be anything but boring. I'll try to find it.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 11:12 PM
3

I don't think it would work. Sure, she wouldn't have to take anything from you, but the law is in favor of the women, you wouldn't get shit.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 11:10 PM
1

Turn off your phone and pull out battery. Could get a new ip from your phone provider that way. I've done that before to get past bans elsewhere.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 03:53 PM
1

Just make a new fb only for tinder. Should bypass it since it's the only thing they link to your account.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 03:17 PM
2

Sadly there's probably gonna be more white knights at ur school than people who know what really happened. Just be stoic.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 05:02 AM
1

If you captain save a hoe her. She's gonna go back to him for anyway and just use you as a provider.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 12:43 AM
6

She's just trying to say she got raped as a defense to keep the heat off her because she acted slutty and regrets it. Keep your mouth shut and tell your friend to do the same. Get a lawyer already and discuss what happened, so that if she does go to the police you're already ready for the outcome.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 08:34 PM
4

Way too late, probably already categorized you as an orbiter.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 06:06 PM
3

How long have you been friends
/r/askTRP20/05/17 06:03 PM
4

She just misses your attention and validation. She gave you the answer when you asked her out. Just continue to ghost.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 05:51 AM
1

why do you guys even bother replying to this troll?
/r/askTRP19/05/17 05:32 AM
2

If you're that worried, then just use a fake name, another phone, and never take them where you live.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 02:47 PM
1

Just flake then.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 06:14 AM
1

Does she know you're coming out already? If not just say you can't make it, then offer time that would work.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:55 AM
1

If you still want to try to game her, just tell her that something has come up and you can't come out. Then reschedule for another time for 1 on 1.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:52 AM
6

Clean that ugly ass shit up, no one wants to read a wall of text. Make a tl Dr.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 06:23 AM
1

Trade school, mechanics like motorcycle or car. Electricians or welding etc. Just look up trade school in your area and see how long they take. If you wanna stay in college do a stem field if you're looking for money.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 05:34 AM
3

Blue Valentine
/r/askTRP13/05/17 04:59 PM
1

Yup, tried to ask her a question to lead into another meet up. No response. To the backburner she goes until she's single again.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 05:55 AM
3

Start eating lots, get an app to count calories, and track your weight each day. See if you gained weight based on the first week, if not then bump up your calories and protien until you start seeing some weight gains.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 12:22 AM
1

Stop eating sugar.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 11:51 PM
1

New car smell causes cancer lol.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 07:59 PM
2

I saw this and the vice post about girls being into murderers and figured it would show up on trp, sure enough they both did.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 07:18 PM
1

There's no such thing as high quality pussy, it's all the same. Just a matter of how much bullshit you have to get past to get the pussy. Just own your shit and the cards you've been dealt with, and that'll get you way farther than this.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 02:00 PM
1

Lol so you're gonna spend 60k to get pussy. Why are you even asking our opinions when you've already made up your mind. Go do it, and be dissapointed when it alone won't get you laid.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 01:44 PM
7

Exactly, pretty nice to throat fuck a girl with no gag reflex.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 03:18 AM
1

No its based on each other in the pecking order. They are all looking for relationships, and the one farther up the ladder will be respected more cause of it.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 09:17 PM
2

Get up and move out, that's how.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 06:15 AM
1

Married Engaged LTR Single Edit: book of pook source
/r/askTRP09/05/17 02:57 AM
1

Yeah I know her "I didn't see your text" was bs. Girls live on their phones. It takes two to orbit, and I've never orbitered a girl in my life. I don't believe in being friends with women unless I'm fucking them.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 08:20 PM
3

Not being an orbiter, literally my 3rd text was to get her out to the car show. Not gonna just hang out and not escalate like tard.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 04:25 AM
2

Yup it's all about eating, get that protien and lots of calories. Tuna, chicken, beef, mass gainer shakes, etc. I use to think I couldn't gain weight, that flew out the window when I started eating 3000 calories a day.
/r/askTRP06/05/17 01:07 PM
11

Just find something you don't like about her and keep reminding yourself about it. Like for example, her 20+ n count, obviously not girlfriend material. Just keep pounding it into your head and keep searching for other plates. Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP06/05/17 06:11 AM
1

She might be cute if she took off those shit glasses. Really can't tell in that picture. I see no wrong in bullshitting her for an easy lay, just don't give her any real information about you.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 01:46 PM
2

Nah eggs aren't valuable. You're saying it like she's the prize, and she's not. You need to go watch the Patrice O'Neal episode vs Dr. Z.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 12:52 PM
1

I think you just being social was good enough. Yet maybe the flirting wasn't necessarily a good thing to do, since you already stated you had a good relationship. So you kind of dreaded her for no reason, she gets upset, and decides to get back at you. Now you overtly told her things will be over if she does it again. I wouldn't say this is entirely bad, but if your frame is solid she won't pry again. But if you start slipping she may try to do it again, and test to see if you will actually drop…
/r/askTRP02/05/17 09:27 AM
2

Use a condom kid
/r/askTRP26/04/17 05:58 AM
1

You can still go out there and game women, gotta keep the skills sharp and make sure you have options. You just don't have to fuck them.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 08:23 PM
3

Soon as you help one of them, the rest will catch onto the scent of blood and try to get you to help them too. Got a new female supervisor at my part time job. She's always asking me to help pick up shit at end of night to get out of there quicker, even though it's not part of my job. I tell her no, and she just says, well you've helped these people before, or the other guys help out. I just say yeah well I'm not those guys. So now I just tell everyone no.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 08:12 PM
1

If it's not you, it's gonna be someone else. Just smash till you get sick of it.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 04:57 AM
1

Steal a dead person's identity.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 04:53 AM
1

You need to change venues more often with her, so it feels like she has known you longer than just the one location. You could meet her at the bar, chat for a bit, then move to dance floor, then go out for fresh air, then if things going well change to another venue. Spend some time there then try to escalate and move to your place. Think of it like speed dating, changing each venue is like a mini date where she gets more comfortable with you each time.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 01:58 PM
2

Join the military, you'll get some discipline and be able to learn a skill that can transition to civilian sector, if you choose to leave. Just make sure you pick a job that will be able to transition like electronics or mechanics.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 05:25 AM
24

You don't. Lets think of this from her point of view. You gave her lots of time and attention, and in return you probably got minimal effort and sex from her. Now you want to give up all that time and attention in return for just sex, she isn't going to go along with it, because she was winning before and wont be now. Just block her and move on.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 05:21 AM
9

This is why you don't try to plate ex-gf's cause they'll keep trying to use you. Cut contact with her and move on and find new girls to plate, it'll be easier upkeep than trying to make this work.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 05:18 AM
1

Do you have an android or a computer? If so just find the Pdf for books and read them like that. That's how I do it, but it's just preference if you want an actual book or ebook. I wouldn't bother wasting money on a kindle since I have a phone that can run Amazon Kindle.
/r/askTRP23/04/17 04:19 PM
3

Maybe it's time to get some new "friends"
/r/askTRP21/04/17 10:00 AM
18

Dude just block and her move on, who cares what happens to her now, shes not your responsibility anymore. Let her family deal with her shit.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 03:29 AM
3

Tell her you have a gf
/r/askTRP20/04/17 05:05 PM
2

Nah your hobbies are fine. There's plenty of women that do all of those things, maybe besides collect knives. You just need to get yourself to some events of hobbies you like, and then start gaming women there. Might be easier for you to have something in common to get a foot in the door.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 07:18 PM
3

Uh go see a therapist?
/r/askTRP19/04/17 07:05 PM
2

Not having some woman spending all the money on stupid shit.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 04:13 PM
3

You could be a 10/10 but if you're boring as fuck ofcourse no woman is going to be interested. What do you do for hobbies?
/r/askTRP19/04/17 03:38 PM
1

What's wrong with having a surrogate child, and since you have the wealth for it. Just get a nanny to take care of the child for the months you are gone.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 12:53 AM
1

Are you a virgin? If so just go buy an escort. You'll figure out sex isn't anything special.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 12:47 AM
1

Guess I was wording it wrong on the search. Found some stuff, mostly guys being cucked. Also just some on threesomes with a plate and a random from bars. I guess I could probe for her friend, if that doesn't pan out maybe work for finding a random.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 06:57 AM
3

Plus their ovulation cycle plays a role too in how they dress.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 05:22 AM
3

Yup it's just a bitch shield. You just keep talking to her, just ignore the rude shit she says. Keep talking and trying to move the conversation forward. If she doesn't want to talk to you, you're in a public place, she has the freedom to walk away, you don't have to.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 08:32 PM
1

Don't forget if it's too loud, you can tell them lets go outside and catch some fresh air etc.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 10:01 AM
1

Don't date feminists. Fuck them, but don't date them.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 09:33 PM
1

Yup vidya games
/r/askTRP10/04/17 11:54 AM
1

Literally 0 girls will approach you in that hour, because they're women, and they're supposed to get approached.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 02:22 AM
1

If you didn't escalate in any of your dates she probably thinks of you as an orbiter.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 08:19 PM
1

I don't mind, as long as it's not short to where it's not like sand paper.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 05:29 AM
1

Yeah it might suck at first, but then you have to remember there's plenty of other girls out there to try to work on. I got rejected from a girl at work couple days ago (part time job doesn't matter) ended up texting her saying I was gonna go out and play some pool, no response at all from her, and I just went on and did my thing. Not the end of the world.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 03:45 AM
-1

I'd give some of them a second chance, if it happens again then ghost for sure.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 03:40 AM
11

You're looking at two different generations, and the standards for dating, marriage, and divorce have greatly changed between grandparents and you.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 10:44 PM
1

Abudance mentality, get it. Who cares if you fuck up, theres plenty of other girls out there to get, use it as a learning experience. Just do you, and if it doesn't work out, reflect and then work the new game on the next chick.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 05:45 AM
2

True, I can attest to her being the one to bring me to trp. Learning what I've learned now, and even bring able to test some of the principles around her. Guess I can be thankful I'm here sooner than later because of her.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 08:03 PM
0

Because we having a coping mechanism that helps us forget how bad things really were in the past, most likely she has forgotten. If she wants to keep making the same mistakes over again, let her.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 01:38 PM
7

If she still loves him, she's willing to still jump on his dick. With my last gf, when we broke up for the first time, she ended up rebounding back to him a few days later, and told me one drunk night. My BP ass shouldn't have taken her back after that. Wasted a year of my life.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 01:02 PM
2

You think the date went really well but you couldn't get her back to your place? Doubt she would have told Brad Pitt she needed to nap. Time to next.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 03:03 PM
2

Her dad probably hates her cause she can't give him grand kids.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 01:40 AM
4

Just because you're fit and you lift doesn't mean you can fight multiple people at once. Avoid all conflict, they say some shit just keep walking, who fucking cares, you don't know when someone will jump in behind you and knock your ass out and then you get killed.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 05:55 PM
1

Is she your main plate? If so just drop her down the ladder and upgrade the second one. Or just drop her completely.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 08:16 AM
6

Did you escalate anyway? Use any kino?
/r/askTRP16/03/17 11:41 PM
1

Why's it matter? If you're gauging you life based on sexual partners, you're gonna be pretty dissapointed when you realize it's easy to get women to bed. At least at that point you'll then choose something better to gauge your success with.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 12:32 AM
3

Nope, move along to the next one. You came off as inexperienced and kind of needy. Telling her you've never kissed before and you want to kiss. Fake it till you make it man.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 02:54 PM
3

Couldn't help to see that most these guys couldn't handle it, and went back to being blue.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 04:57 AM
3

Gonna say her kissing him was just part if the trickle truth. Most likely she fucked him when you were gone, soon as she said that you should have just ghosted.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 03:28 AM
4

https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/20/letting-go-of-invisible-friend/
/r/askTRP24/02/17 06:31 PM
7

To piggy back, having backups helps you with the Idgaf mentality, even if they all crash and burn who cares.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 02:26 AM
1

I interview with Samsung for semiconductors and fucked it up. But it's just something to learn from I suppose.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 02:25 AM
1

Only thing I can think of is maybe cause it was cut short, she needed an excuse to as why. But anyways I'd lawyer up and get your "friend" to maybe be a witness to prove nothing happened. In case she tries to push it farther.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 03:44 AM
1

It's like a fight of flight reaction. Even though your mind you might not be embarrassed, your body is ready to go just incase. Hence you can experience both effects at the same time.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 03:39 AM
1

I cook mine on the stove in coconut cooking oil. Usually don't reheat, just end up eating the extras cold. Still juicy and good anyways.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 02:07 AM
3

Sidebar---->
/r/askTRP19/02/17 02:16 AM
4

Don't give her a free compliment of "gorgeous" you're putting her on the pedestal that way.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 05:40 PM
1

I know it's hard. That urge for pussy we all got it. If you don't got time then don't even bother just work on yourself till you got some free time to pursue.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 05:37 PM
1

Don't shit where you eat. Personally I'd let it go, just find other women. I work in retail while going to school, and ended up banging this chick who worked there. Thinking she would be quiet about it, was new to trp at the time, sure enough people found out. Granted I got lucky and managers didn't say anything about it.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 04:47 PM
1

Do you go to the gym? If not start going regularly and she may follow.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 09:17 PM
2

Venue changing helps with building rapport they feel like they've known you longer, so they become more comfortable with you. Imagine it like a 2nd date with her, just in the same night.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 07:20 PM
1

Her saying she doesn't sleep with men on first dates is just a typical shit test. If you were Brad Pitt, she'd be in your bed on the first night.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 03:33 PM
2

Get out of there man. Never move for a woman, and don't live with them, unless you like having your balls in a vice constantly. Always trust your gut instinct, yeah she fucking tricked you into moving in with other guys, she probably wants to fuck. You'll be out working and they'll be working on fucking her when you're gone. Dump her ass
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:07 AM
2

Tell her you're a guru in bed.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 02:39 AM
4

She's hoping that something else will be her lol.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 02:29 AM
9

Fighting should be a last resort. Always be a bigger man and walk away, you don't know their skills or even if they have a weapon or other people around sneak up on you. I have a conceal carry. That's one of the things I've learned from carrying, just cause I have a gun, doesn't mean I have to use it. It's only for last resort when all other options fail and my life is in danger.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:54 AM
1

You're not even in a real relationship anymore. You're doing LDR, seeing her only summer time. You're just better breaking it off, and gaming women at your college.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 02:23 PM
0

Anything that comes out their mouth can be a lie. Believe her actions not her words.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 02:18 PM
1

Well how long have you been in LTR? How long have you been lurking here? Most likely if you haven't started the relationship with strong frame, you're going to be fighting an uphill battle and will take quite a bit of time to try to pull her into your frame.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 07:10 AM
-1

Punch them in the dick to bring them down to your level.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 07:03 AM
4

My ex gf said the same thing, at the time I never worked out. She said she was usually into the jock types, but I was a special case lol.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 09:56 PM
5

If you want to learn body language read a book on it. I read "what every body is saying" by Joe Navarro. It was helpful, but it's like another language and takes constant practice. He use to be an fbi investigator. He breaks it down to body parts, and gives examples of some of his interrogations etc.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 04:42 AM
3

He's an eggplant chef.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 07:38 PM
1

Doesn't matter if she drops this orbiter, she will keep getting new ones to replace them, and they'll all eventually propose their feelings. So it'll die and endless battle for you to have her drop them. Just accept their role thay they are her emotional tampons and use them to your advantage.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 10:50 PM
1

There's posts like these here all the time. Some people aren't ready to be unplugged until they get divorce raped or feel the hypergamy first hand. Just lead with your actions and keep improving yourself. Your friends will see the difference.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 03:51 AM
1

People will crucify you if you say you don't like drinking. But on the other hand you can get the praise by just saying you're a recovering alcoholic.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 03:51 PM
3

My ex gf said the same thing to me when I said we couldn't be friends anymore. Came back with suicide, so I said fine we can be friends. Couple days later I ghosted her, for two weeks. Sure enough she was alive still, and came by my apartment two weeks later again with a goodbye letter. She cried and yelled at me, and I just sat there, she walked off and drove off. Then came back, I was still sitting there, she's like whyd you let me go, I was thinking of crashing my car blah blah. I ended up fu…
/r/askTRP28/01/17 03:29 PM
9

I had wanted an open relationship at the time, due to the distance and thought that it would be better for both of us. I think this guy was an orbiter of hers for a while. One night they were hanging out and I had just called her up and was like why don't you just fuck him. She seemed hesitant about it and yet I pushed her to do it. I thought, Oh I wont get jealous. Well sure enough she's like talk to you afterwards. Calls me after the deed, and I was surprised she went through with it. Sure eno…
/r/askTRP26/01/17 04:53 AM
4

Surprised you didn't kill yourself in that thing being 19. How was the insurance?
/r/askTRP26/01/17 12:36 AM
62

I'd say when I was 19. I had just joined the Navy, and was in training. I was on this game app, and eventually ended up talking to this girl. She was 18 and in Texas, I was in Chicago. We started LDR dating and then when I got leave, I went to Dallas and got a hotel and stayed with her for a week. I took her virginity and continued dating her LDR for 3 more years. Eventually just cucked myself and told her to fuck some guy there, out of curiosity if she would do it. Sure enough she fucked the gu…
/r/askTRP25/01/17 04:37 PM
1

Lifting has definitely boosted my confidence quite a lot. I'm always looking at my reflection and checking myself out. Now just to get out there and practice some day game and approach. Rip.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 11:38 PM
3

Cause they don't know any better. They get told that sex is a precious item and that you have to work a lot to get it. That you have to cater to her and shower her in all her needs to get it. They think the longer they talk that they think theyre getting closer to a relationship and just waiting for the right time to move in.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 07:28 PM
1

The red pill will give you the information to change your life. But it's up to you to actually use it to change your life.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 08:33 PM
1

Guys will drool over her wherever she goes, just let them drool. If she shows up, she chose to spend time with you. You escalate with kino, it's a must. Then hen move locations or even back to your place if she responds positively to it.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 06:01 PM
1

Just tell her you're going to get a drink at x place y time. Go there for your own enjoyment, if she shows up then cool and escalate it. If not there's your answer.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 05:27 PM
7

Do not reply. Simple as that, just move on.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 04:41 AM
6

This guy gets it. You're honestly just better off starting off fresh. There's no way you're going to be able to transform the relationship to the way you want it. It'll be too much work and not worth the reward. Oh and total loss of frame? You probably never had any frame to beginning in the relationship.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 05:42 PM
1

If you're looking for a wife, just go to the Phillipines and pick one up. They'll treat you like a God.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 04:14 PM
2

Ask open ended questions. You literally don't have to do much to drive the conversation, especially with women who love talking. Find something she has a passion for and have her tell you about it. Say it's snowboarding or something, then ask about her experiences, and then move on to how to snowboard etc. You can just keep branching out from there.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 06:38 AM
1

You say she directed the conversation to sex. Well if she did that then clearly she had sex in her mind. You should have tried for some kino and escalation. When she said she doesn't have sex on the first second etc night, shit test that I've seen on here countlessly and goes back to her thinking about sex and that you could have passed and had sex that night.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 06:21 PM
1

Or when she leaves you when you hit rock bottom. The real winner is the guy cause he doesn't need that shit in his life.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 06:14 PM
1

Don't try to pick up girls when they are going somewhere. It gives them an excuse that they are busy and can blow you off easily. You want to meet them when they are at a certain location like a store or restaurant.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 04:06 PM
2

Find a friend to take your gaming console from you, and tell him to not give it back for any reason. Start trying to find hobbies outside if videogames to fill your time. Once you get into a habit of doing other things for a while slowly try to integrate videgames as a reward for your hard work.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 01:52 AM
2

A friend of mine is using phillpino cupid. Granted it cost money to search on. He's white and from America, and he tells me they all msg him. He has like 150 messages in his inbox. Granted they are mostly looking for a good husband, and to get out of there. Also be wary of the money scam traps. I don't know about your background, but my friend is having success on there.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 10:59 PM
2

Take all her shit, and teach her a lesson.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 07:36 PM
1

149 lbs 15% body fat. I'm 176 now with 14% body fat. But whatever.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 07:06 PM
2

Women will always cost you something, time, energy or money, which can also be equated back to time. Say your work pays you 30$ hr. We'll you just spent 15 min helping her, that's about 8$ you spent on her just to fuck her. It's up to you to decide if the time was worth it.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 05:22 PM
0

I use to think I couldn't gain weight, Im 5'7 and was 150 lbs too. Went and got some protien and high protien foods, tuna, chicken, eggs, and got a calorie tracker. Ive been eating 2700-3000 calories since October and gained 25lbs in muscle with just going to the gym 3x a week. You're not going to gain that mas without eating. Oh and eating straight peanut butter is helpful too. It's amazing to see how people notice you put on muscle so quickly too. I still don't even feel that buff, but people …
/r/askTRP16/01/17 05:10 PM
2

She's just trying to get you to devote all you attention to her. With the way she was blowing up, you should have just agreed to break up with her and stop taking to her.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 03:26 AM
3

Most likely it's a shit test from her to see if you'll give up all your options to just be with her. The more you ignore the question the more she will try to prove herself to get you alone. Use her to your liking in this situation, don't give up your options.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 10:46 AM
1

Question outside of op. Do you question a girl about a friend she's going to hang out with to find about him? Or do you just ignore it? Is it blue pill to ask her about him, does it seem insecure?
/r/askTRP15/01/17 08:19 AM
7

I'm an amateur here, but I don't think you can propose the captain and firstmate principal when being in a blue pill marriage for that long. I think your best bet would have been just working on your own SMV at first and being quiet about what you're doing. Ofcourse she's going to act negatively to this when you've been under her leash for 14 years and come out saying that you're going to take control. You don't have frame to be able to propose that.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 01:35 AM
1

Personally I'd stay away from being friends with girls unless they have something they can provide me with, a skill or trade etc. Even then I don't talk to them, so I don't provide them with free validation. I'm willing to trade skills for skills at times and that's about it.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 12:35 AM
0

That's what I was getting at. I understand helping someone that actually needs help or elderly. But my thoughts on helping any high smv woman, with or without interest in her feels blue pill like.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 10:38 PM
1

What about ass?
/r/askTRP12/01/17 02:04 AM
3

Good, maybe this will help you realize you don't need women to be happy. Stop freaking the fuck out.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 08:54 PM
1

You're not going to be able to help them until they get divorce raped or something else happens in their relationship. They'll think you're crazy for speaking about it. Ever since I found the red pill I've tried telling multiple people about it, they don't really care about it or think it's completely bullshit.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 05:36 AM
1

I'd say it's like another form if validation. It's like a Facebook like in my opinion. When they see how many people see them see their story it makes them feel good. As for replying, I'd probably avoid it if it was a plate, it would be like texting outside of logistics.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 08:43 AM
1

48 laws are helpful. But I don't find it as necessary to read as some of the other red pill books. I've been reading book of pook, it's pretty entertaining and I've had enjoyment reading it and learning.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 01:02 AM
10

I was reading book of pook. One thing that was written was that you could be run over by a bus and no one would notice and care. I mean sure someone might see and be like "that sucks" , but they'll just move on with their life. Anything you do, doesn't matter to anyone that sees you, they'll forget about you as soon as they practically look away.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 08:32 PM
6

Yes women want the top 20% but most woman can't get a hold of the top 20% because their smv isn't high enough to even be considered. So they have to shoot for someone closer to theirs. So you still have a chance to find someone decent even if you're not even the top.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 04:58 AM
1

Well about 4 weeks ago, I fucked up and did a beta move where I complained about sex life, so she probably gave me duty sex when I engaged for about two weeks. Then she started her period so I layed off, but she's been off for a week and the couple times we've hung out I try to engage and get shut down. I'll try to go in for some neck or ear play which I know gets her going, but she will shrug and hide it from me. So I usually stop and cut off any cuddling, and or shortly have an excuse for her …
/r/askTRP06/12/16 04:57 AM
1

Thanks for the advice, I'll start doing that, and continue my progress through the side bar.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 02:03 PM
1

Ive only been red pill aware for about a month in a half, so I know I still have a long way to go. I mean I asked about her day cause I wanted to know how it was. Should I just be waiting for her to engage all the texts and conversations?
/r/askTRP28/11/16 01:49 AM
1

You're right, she's plate material not gf material and I know this. Trying to take frame control from her is so much work. You're also right I need to be dreading her more, I've been hanging out with her way too much the last week and need to cut down on it. Now I think of it her bringing up comments about Christmas and future makes me think that she doesn't think there's a chance of us breaking up, so opposite of the dread feels.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 01:05 AM
1

Well what should I be saying then? I mean she is my gf, not like I can treat her like a plate the whole time.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 01:00 AM
1

Your plates shouldn't know about each other, otherwise you risk them breaking. Plus your sex life is your business and they shouldn't be questioning you about it.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 12:54 AM
2

Just being able to see the progress in the mirror, and compliments from people that notice too keeps me going.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 04:57 AM
2

Only thing I can think of is just lie to them, or just avoid answering the question if you don't want to lie.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 04:52 AM
-2

Well, after a couple hours of letting her hamster I decided to reply. "Just that my little free time I have is important to me." and she said "okay, and?" I just said "and that's it" then asked about her day, and actually got good conversation out if her so far.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 01:38 AM
1

Yeah she's acting as if we never broke up and that everything is back and good and that she can run things like she use to. I don't let her do nearly as many things as she use to freely, I use them as rewards if she pleases me etc. I know this will take time for a frame shift, and she notices me as a beta still, but I'm trying to work on it. I'm not keeping my hopes up for this relationship. Well when she asked about gym, I just say "I like it" . Or when she's like "why are you trying to gain we…
/r/askTRP27/11/16 12:28 AM
1

If girls are going somewhere not a static location they'll just dump the I have to go somewhere bit on you. If you actually want a chance you're best going somewhere where they are shopping or eating etc where they can't run away easily.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 06:05 AM
1

"so I can forget it later“ or " because I need to make sure you're not a sex offender“
/r/askTRP26/11/16 02:28 AM
6

When you're close, just pull out and go down on her. Then change positions and go back in, then rinse repeat for however long.
/r/askTRP25/11/16 06:06 PM
2

Text her a time and your place for her to come over, if she doesn't then whatever stop talking to her. Got to class, sit next to her and act as if she's not there and doesn't exist.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 12:10 AM
2

Join the military, that'll help if you got 4 years.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 12:06 AM
1

Well since you're already establishing something over text and they seem fond of you, it should be easier in person from there. Just remember you're the prize and they should be proving to you. Remember they don't matter, so don't be so in you head, just say what you want, if they're interested anything you say will be interesting to them. Don't be afraid if they stop talking to you cause there's plenty more.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 02:55 PM
6

Soon as I became red pill aware I tried sharing with some of my friends. Sad part is none of them really understood it or thought it was crazy. I even tried sharing with old sociology teacher that might give it further reading, nope he didn't agree with it and said that he was happy that he was married. People won't be ready until they're hit with the hard cold experiences of hypergamy.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 06:40 PM
3

https://therationalmale.com/2016/08/15/the-red-pill-monthly-frame/ Just listen to this when you have time. Women want to be dominated. I don't know if you've read enough of the sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 05:58 PM
1

Abundance mentality. She's probably got her other plates she's dealing with, don't get strung up on one just move on. If she messages you to come over to fuck, then maybe you can spin her again. Just next her.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 09:13 AM
1

You pretty much summed it up with the post. I figure she's using me as a friend to make it easier on herself. Now that I can recall, after the first time I told her we couldn't be in each other's lives she had been sobbing to me how her two good friends from school aren't around to talk to, and her best friend doesn't even talk to her anymore. So she needs me as a friend to talk to more than anything right now.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 02:15 PM
1

I see your point in saying that I could still use her as a plate, but honestly it wasn't great sex or even worth pursuing, outside of the fact of how extremly tight she was. The relationship was a fuckup on my part from the beginning. I had actually moved out here for school on my own and settled becasue I was desperate. For the sex that we did have from the beginning of the relationship was maybe max 5 times a month. She would complain of how she has low libido, this girl is in her prime ages (…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 02:01 PM
1

Sorry for late reply, been at work. I was the dumpee. Like I said she wanted to be slutty and told me that when we initially broke up. Next day she gave proposal for friendship, but I had already been reading the red pill. I went and talked to her the next night and told her we can't be friends. And on point 20 min later came to me at my apartment and ran to my arms. I fucked up and accepted it and took her card of how she said she was gonna swallow pills. Anyways like a week later came to last …
/r/askTRP25/10/16 03:35 AM
2

That's what I figured is that she still needs something out of me. With my new knowledge I know now there is no going back, and if she ever came back to me I would deny her. Thanks for the bit of wisdom.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 08:03 PM
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