Broke up with my gf (7 yo LTR) about eight months ago because of a long dry spell but ended up becoming her orbiter: we would still hang out, make out sometimes, talk a lot, but no sex. She said she loved me every week, and I really thought we were kinda 'sorting the things out' in our lives and were about to get back together, but then she started openly flirting with a friend of mine on Facebook. I confronted both of them (I know, mate guarding is a mess, but I was angry as fuck), they said nothing was happening but the flirtation went on. Went radio silent on her because of that. That was one month ago.

Last night I bumped into her in a bar and we chatted -- briefly, tried to hold frame --, and two hours latter she called me a dozen times and sent a message asking if I thought we could still be friends and talking about some generic shitty problems we had in the past, as if the most recent problem we had never happened (she flirting with a friend of mine and gaslighting me -- I was "seeing things"). I know I'm not going back to the orbiter role, but I want to know if you guys think I should just ignore her messages or answer that I won't be her friend because I don't cultivate friendships with sloots.

What you guys think?