Orbiting Ex GF

Platos_slow_brother · 2016-10-24T19:49:36+00:00

You are the beta bux who she will use for boyfriend privileges---rides, emotioanl support, etc.---while she chases hot times with hotter guys.

There is no "why" she does this to explore or explain beyond she wants what she wants. And she wants this, it appears.

Your only choice is to go no contact or play the role of chump she wants out of you. Never take her back. Never give her status above a ONS.

zenRP · 2016-10-24T22:26:32+00:00

She still wants your emotional validation. Don't give it to her. Hard next, no contact. She will run back because she thinks your a good little beta, but don't buy into her "I love you, I'm sorry" bullshit. Trust me it's all just going to repeat if you do. Have some respect for yourself. Focus on you. Get other bitches.

fnordsnord · 2016-10-25T14:15:36+00:00

were you the dumper, or the dumpee? And don't tell me it was mutual. It's always SOMEBODY'S idea.

Tiway22 · 2016-10-25T10:53:55+00:00

Lemme tell ya something bro.

This happened with my first gf. I dumped her after 3 years. She did go full slut after, and we became friends after 1 year of no contact (on my end).

I ended up banging her a few more times, then she got married to some beta bitch she had known for 2 months.

Take that for what you want, that's just my experience. If you know you can handle hearing about her new guys, sure, you can be friends. If you think it will be drama or hold you back from pursuing new pussy (which it will, and it will) then you might be better off never talking to her again.

RPShitlord · 2016-10-25T11:53:53+00:00

You're insane for even considering it.

She can slutty with you AND others.

Tell her hookups are part of the deal.

If not, cut contact. Don't be the chump who's just friends with the bitch that dumped him to slut around.

If she wants to come back later as a plate only, that's OK.

She doesn't fear losing you. If she did, she wouldn't be dumping you. You actually believed her words over her actions. She only wants what you can provide.

nightmancommeth · 2016-10-25T14:41:31+00:00

Don't even think about it. Be nice to her but dont go out of your way to chill or anything like that.

Title	Orbiting Ex GF
Author	TheBlackAlistar
Upvotes	3
Comments	14
Date	October 24, 2016 7:36 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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