Experiences with exes

KirthWGersen · 2019-08-05T07:48:38+00:00

I do it often. It is fantastic. As long as they know your aim is not to go back to the same kind of relationship and you have moved on it is not a problem. I show them great comfort, affection and love. And if they are your ex, you already know how they are sexually, so they are guaranteed an orgasm with you, which they might not get with some random new guy. I am always totally honest with them and do not lead them on.

I have exes who come back time after time for a night or two of love, comfort and sex. It enhances the lives of both of us at that moment. They know they can use me for sex and affection when they need to; and I have no illusions about what is going on.

However, if you are cut up and still emotional about her, can't live without her, and need her love, stay away. Once she has got you back she will feel validated, her attraction for you will plummet and she will happily walk away leaving you devastated.

It is all about your mindset.

[deleted] · 2019-08-05T07:10:17+00:00

I tried this with my ex and it didn't work, I am not attracted to her anymore lol.

My ex is a fucking mess now.

CharlesChadworth · 2019-08-05T06:56:43+00:00

Ex is an ex for a reason. They are of no use to you anymore. Block and move on with life. Find another girl you like etc.

Title	Experiences with exes
Author	Rodent9
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	August 5, 2019 6:45 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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