I just have a simple question how do you increase your exposure or get notice? I'm not afraid to go and talk to a girl I like I hit the gym and so on. I'm just on a stage in my life that several of my friends are getting married and I'm no longer interested in going to party. What are the best places to get more plates? Bases on your experience, do you prefer gym, any type of academy or just a random approach at any place?

(English is not my main language)