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Your problem is talking to a girl you hardly know instead of fucking her. You don’t have to rush with fore play, but 3 hours of talking? Are you her new girlfriend? Stop saying “we didn’t fuck” as if it’s a mutual failure, no. It’s a failure on you. If you didn’t fuck after hours of talking, you send her home, it’s that simple. You make a move on her & keep progressing, otherwise you show that you’ve lost interest & ask her to leave bc you have other plans. Being the worlds best talker will not …
/r/askTRP25/01/20 01:57 PM
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Those cheap body calculations are very inaccurate & Of course the owner of a gym will back up the validity of his equipment 100%. Are you 9.5%? Hell no. You’re at least 3-5% higher than that, at the very least, but that doesn’t matter, you need to bulk up.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 01:52 PM
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LMAO. Why are you giving your ex this magical power that prevents you from speaking to any woman that is associated to her? She wouldn’t even be thinking twice about fucking one of your friends 10 minutes after your breakup, so why do you care? The only time this is a major red flag is if her friend is literally batshit crazy. Otherwise, fuck her you pussy.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 01:50 PM
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Really? Not happen a single time your ENTIRE life bc you didn’t have a girl next to you? That’s bullshit. When you were 5 years old you didn’t think about needing women 24/7, or at 10. It probably wasn’t until years after puberty. Stop Focusing on what you want to do in life & stop caring what others think. If you need the attention & validation of a woman loving you, then you clearly have a low self esteem you need fixed. Work & the gym aren’t going to fix your loneliness bc it sounds to me lik…
/r/askTRP25/01/20 01:48 PM
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I agree. All of his photos look too neat & staged. I think one mistake that men make on Tinder is attempting to imitate what some women will do. If an attractive girl did these type of photos in her computer chair or in front of a white wall, it would look good, but for a guy it makes you look lonely & uninteresting. I’d keep 1 of those photos, but you 100% need more in different locations (outdoors especially) & where you’re with other people. Also lifting should help but don’t show off too obv…
/r/askTRP25/01/20 01:36 PM
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Crazy how this feels like it’s in an alternative universe but it’s what most females are doing today lmfao
/r/askTRP20/01/20 03:08 PM
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Exactly. I’ve tried to combat oneitis in the past thinking that I could get over it in a snap of ones fingers & make it go away, but it will never work. Once you’ve got it, it’s time to cut off the girl & focus on other women, at least for a good number of weeks. Nothing else will work
/r/askTRP20/01/20 12:40 AM
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Exactly. Good times turn strong men into weak men. Weak men turn good times into hard times. Hard times turn weak men into strong men. Strong men turn hard times into good times. We are currently in phase 2.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 12:23 AM
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Stop paying attention to her words, focus on her actions.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 10:55 PM
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What do you mean dampening feeling, like becoming less clingy? If that’s the case then I agree. A woman who wants way too much attention from you probably has nothing better going on in her life or is simply way too in love w you. Either way, this is also bad for a relationship so it’s a lose lose scenario I guess
/r/askTRP17/01/20 07:02 PM
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You probably spend more time at the gym & at home then going out & talking to women. There’s your problem
/r/askTRP14/01/20 04:49 PM
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Of course. The only time I wouldn’t is if you’re forced to talk to her, let’s say she was a coworker or your best friends sister. Otherwise, cut it.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 04:48 PM
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Stop paying attention to what she says. She will say every phrase in the book. She’s simply acting like a child throwing a tantrum, don’t let her do that. It’s the same as a little kid who cries when he doesn’t get candy for dinner.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 04:22 PM
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Then she’s acting childish. You should’ve said. “Okay then, I don’t care.”
/r/askTRP14/01/20 04:21 PM
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Exactly lol. Anyone who has measured with a monitor can attest to this
/r/askTRP14/01/20 04:20 PM
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No it isn’t lmao. Intense cardio burns more than selective muscle exercises. Did I say that weightlifting doesn’t burn calories? No it still burns a lot. But compare an intense 1 hour weight lifting workout to 1 hour of intense cardio, cardio burns more. Either way u can do both. Cardio tears muscles too
/r/askTRP14/01/20 04:20 PM
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Not unless you want to. I wouldn’t breakup over a girl unless you’re not longer attracted to her. If you still like her then set your boundaries first & be serious about it. Don’t tolerate any misbehaviors
/r/askTRP14/01/20 04:28 AM
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She’s clingy & probably has a low self esteem so she imagines that u can secretly do better. Just avoid arguing with her & if she starts acting immature, tell her to stop. If she continues then act busier and soft next her
/r/askTRP14/01/20 04:09 AM
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Just escalate your boundaries with afterwards tell her that you don’t want to rush into a relationship again, but u still enjoy seeing her: At that point it’s up to her to see if she’s willing to wait around and convince u otherwise. If she moves on after a while bc she wants a relationship then it is what it is
/r/askTRP14/01/20 04:08 AM
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It doesn’t really matter unless you want to date, then you shouldn’t give a shit what they say, just don’t ask awkwardly right after you meet them. Wait until you see each other once or twice & then casually bring it up like “Oh, i totally got it off of my mind, whats your birthday again?” ...sometimes they’ll answer right away with the year or their age but u can play it off like “oh I was just curious about the day and month, I wanted to compare it to mine.” & then if they still don’t give awa…
/r/askTRP14/01/20 03:07 AM
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Just gotta own it & not let it get to your head. Act like you don’t give a shit, bc at the end of the day it’s something that was out of your control (unlike body fat % or your clothing that can be changed)
/r/askTRP14/01/20 03:01 AM
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Cardio & diet. Weights are great for muscles but to lose weight/fat, cardio is a lot better. Also start counting how many calories u eat in a day, I can guarantee u eat More than u think & don’t even think about it
/r/askTRP14/01/20 01:24 AM
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I see but just don’t make it come off as try hard. The best shirtless pics are the unintended ones where you’re at the beach with others
/r/askTRP14/01/20 01:19 AM
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You’re expecting a perfectly clear answer that will 100% read her mind, huh? Guess what, those don’t exist. This subreddit or any book will not tell you exactly how she feels about you until you escalate the situation & find out for yourself. You probably fear rejection bc she’s connected to family right? I guess in this case; you have some thinking to do of whether or not it’s worth it
/r/askTRP13/01/20 11:22 PM
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Great improvements Man, it looks better now with some more vibrancy & people. That makes you seem a bit more social. I’d still take away a few of those shirtless pics of yours, it seems like u have a few too many. Limit your shirtless pics to 2-3 for every 25 pics. The shirtless solo shots by a car or alone at the beach just seem a little forced. Also, the photos where you’re looking out into the landscape are cool & deep, but I’d also remove 1 or 2 bc it seems u have a huge abundance of that.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 11:17 PM
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Exactly this. Pay attention how a woman acts in person, not what she says through texts. These are the same women that will say, “I don’t do hookups”, “I just want a nice guy”, “Were not having sex” & “Don’t worry, he’s just a friend I’m seeing”.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 11:09 PM
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Anyone who says “don’t do deadlifts bc they’re pointless & will just get you injured”, I can guarantee have shit deadlift form. The trick with deadlifts is to start with a small a lot of weight & get your form down PERFECTLY for weeks before going heavier than your body weight. Most people want to ego lift so they’ll skip over that part & then complain when they get injured. Deadlifts are amazing for your traps, back, forearms, glutes, quads, & hamstrings. It’s basically a full body workout. Mos…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 11:07 PM
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A meme? Lol what
/r/askTRP13/01/20 11:01 PM
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It’s a shit test but don’t actually invite her & her male friend lol, that’s friend zone city right there.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 11:01 PM
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If it was the other way around & she caught u with an ex girlfriend, she would justify her reasons for slashing your tires or calling you out on social media. Good move.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 10:59 PM
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I see, those are also some good points to add on man. Makes sense
/r/askTRP13/01/20 08:32 PM
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What do u mean? I mean frame in general.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 08:15 PM
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You should decrease it based off of your previous patterns. If you’ve been jerking off everyday, decrease it to twice a week & see how you are in bed. If that doesn’t work, decrease it to once a week. You will tell through experience if that is more than enough when you’re with a woman. I’d say that you will cum too fast if you wait longer than 2 weeks or so, but it depends on your body. As a last resort, go a week or 2 without jerking off & then do it once before meeting up with a girl. This wa…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 06:28 PM
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It’s great that you’re at least being honest with yourself & are aware of your past mistakes, most guys aren’t even willing to look in the mirror & admit to themselves that they are the only ones to blame for their past failures. Goodluck!
/r/askTRP13/01/20 06:24 PM
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My opinion, is that frame represents your values & boundaries as a man. When your frame breaks, you break down as a man. Sure, you can look at men & women as yin & yang, this is why we’re biologically compatible in continuing life. Women Also have their own frame which can be represented through giving out shit tests, acting sexy, being emotional, being feminine, & knowing her role next to a man. The balance here is to let her act as a woman without you giving up your manhood. If a woman gives u…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 06:22 PM
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You set your boundaries straight and tell her that it’s disrespectful. After that you show no emotion & ignore her if she keeps acting childish. Don’t go completely silent but act busier/more distance & only reply with short 1-3 word answers. Do this for a couple of days or hours until she apologizes for her shit behavior or acts normal again. If this continues too often then drop her
/r/askTRP13/01/20 06:09 PM
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Stop masturbating that much. Masturbating everyday is turning your dick off from real women, instead meet with women for sex. Otherwise, you’re definitely too anxious probably which can affect your erections. Check your testosterone levels too
/r/askTRP13/01/20 06:04 PM
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This is why u always pursue in abundance. My advice is to never plan meetups with women one at a time, but have them all spread out close within the week. For example, Monday is Judy, Tuesday is Kelsey, Thursday you see Amy, Sunday Delilah. This way you mentally have options & are not pussy deprived if Judy flakes or if Kelsey is acting weird. A big mistake would be waiting all week to see Judy, then after a few days hitting up Amy about when she’s available to meet while you’re only seeing Judy…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 05:57 PM
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The thing is that, even if you were unhappy with her, your brain knew that u had her as an option. Once you’re moving on, your brain can sense that she isn’t an option anymore, which hurts u even if u don’t give a fuck about her. It’s kind of like being rejected by an ugly girl. You won’t care Bc u aren’t attracted to her, but deep down it may sting your ego a little bit if you don’t have too much red pill experience built yet.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 05:21 PM
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I would meet somewhere in the middle. I would not wait forever but u shouldn’t be hitting her up the next day. Just wait a few & ask for her schedule & that you 2 should meet up. This way, she will have a few days to process you through her mind without completely forgetting about u. At least that’s what I do. The only time that I text a girl the very next day is if she initiates about another meetup first.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 05:18 PM
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Nope. It was a hookup. Maybe she has a boyfriend or just isn’t that attracted to u now that she’s sober. If she has your contact, then she should contact u this week. If a few days pass & she isn’t texting, then shoot your shot about meeting up & if she bullshits that she’s busy or doesn’t reply, then move on. Either way u should have other options so u shouldn’t care what she says
/r/askTRP13/01/20 04:33 PM
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Overthinking. Just gain more experience through more approaches & keep the convos short but sweet.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 04:31 PM
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Start by minimizing porn to absolutely once a week (no hardcore bullshit, just vanilla fetishes). After a while, increase how often you masturbate without porn while decreasing your porn watch time to 0. This can be to pictures of non-nude women or using your imagination. At the same time, masturbate less frequently (without porn) to 2-3 times a week while talking to other REAL women. Honestly, if your pickup game is shit then at least try online apps. Then, after a couple of days, drop your tot…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 04:13 PM
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She probably likes you & wants to build up the sexual tension between u 2. Just ignore it & don’t escalate it.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 04:07 PM
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You definitely don’t have many years of red pill experience if you’re going back to beta behaviors. Mistakes happen, but you can’t get carried away when things get comfortable. Comfort will destroy you, it’s the oxytocin in your brain that is controlling your beta behaviors. It’s not hopeless, but it depends how far deep you swam in the beta pool. Regardless, u can’t do anything but ride out this wave. Act more red pilled, focus on yourself, & mentally prepare for tougher shit tests from her. If…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 04:06 PM
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You set clear boundaries & only reward them when she respects them. I don’t care if she’s calling you 100 times per day, she will eventually get the message that you want your own space & will only return the affection when she respects that. If none of this works, then congratulations, you’ve encountered a crazy woman. You may have to resort to blocking her out completely & filing a restraining order if this escalates.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 03:56 PM
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Don’t shit where you sleep. Avoid flirting, try to change the topic if any of them do, & day that you’re seeing someone if any of them ask so that they can back off. It’s not worth the risk. Just focus on your work & if any of them go to far then just say, “I’d like to keep it professional here as coworkers, Hopefully u can respect that”. & then ignore after that. It’s not worth the hookups when they fuck up your life in a few months.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 03:53 PM
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I wouldn’t say that it’s a 90% chance she’s cheating (a little absurd since it’s it’s 1 private friends party), but there are definitely red flags there. She may be attracted to Jeff, or is wanting to see her options (after losing some attraction to u before for whatever reasons), or she is a lowkey alcoholic that doesn’t admit her addiction issues to you. There are many reasons why she may be going, but it’s her responding super late & doing everything to convince u to not go to a party with he…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 03:50 PM
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You can, just don’t do girly shit like girly selfies or saying that you’re all shopping together. Make them look kinda nonchalant in the background with you
/r/askTRP13/01/20 03:50 AM
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If she has a lot of issues, then it’s not worth it. You don’t need to be with damaged women to feel better.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 03:30 AM
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You have goals set in life. The drive towards some of your goals with motivate other aspects of your life, such as increasing your SMV.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 03:28 AM
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Eventually, a very committed orbiter may get with a woman if she feels broken & needs an emotional void filled in her life. She may give the “blue pulled bullshit dream” a shot. The problem here is that this is not a reality, & eventually the BP-orbiter-best-friend-turned-into-her-lover will turn her off by his neediness & she will eventually dump him or cheat. Sometimes, if a woman is past her prime, she will keep him around for children & drain him of his resources, but this eventually ends wi…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 03:27 AM
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Great response. I used to deal with this years ago & can’t agree more. When the sexual tension is mutual & a very obvious push/pull, then you don’t come off as “needy for sex”.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 03:22 AM
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It’s the oxytocin in your brain that is causing you to develop oneitis. It’s an evolutionary trait and it happens to everyone. The only cure is to remove her from your life completely & let time play out its course. Time is your best friend when it comes to oneitis, but you also have to FILL THE TIME with other meaningful things in your life. Focus on your mission, career, goals, family, friends, or other women & u will get over it quickly. My advice is to not find rebound women that you’re not …
/r/askTRP13/01/20 03:20 AM
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Smash, but set the boundaries straight. If she’s an emotional mess now then don’t lead her on forever or else she will force all of her unresolved pain into you.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 03:15 AM
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Only post on your stories what u find shows you off as a fun & exciting person who is enjoying life. Breakfast posts are boring unless it makes women use their imagination when it comes to thinking about what you’re doing. For example, breakfast works if you’re at a fancy restaurant out of time & they are another girls hands on the table. It makes them think. Anything more personal like that such as you complaining about your life, being boring, & useless selfies with no context whatsoever (unle…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 03:14 AM
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Soft next & focus on other plates. She was clearly not prioritizing u if she says “I’ll let you know” or was hungover. It means that she’s only keeping u around as a last resort Incase her other plans get canceled. She’s trying to string u around so that it fuels her ego & she mentally knows that she’s got u chasing her & not you with her. Not worth waiting around if there is no date & time planned within the next 2-3 days.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 03:11 AM
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Personally, I just send out a simple text such as “Hey this is ___ from the coffee shop” & wait for their response. Usually it will be like “heyyy or what’s up how are you?” & go from there. After that it’s a casual 2-3 texts before asking for her schedule like “What’s your availability for this week?” That’s when they’ll give the hours for work or school or may ask why I care sometimes, so I’ll say “I have a pretty busy schedule to figure out but we should see eachother”. At this point, you eit…
/r/askTRP12/01/20 07:55 PM
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In this case, I wouldn’t bring up that topic again & would be a bit more careful making BP mistakes around her. I know it’s absolutely hard if you have developed onitis, but you can’t see as her being the prize, YOU need to act the prize for her. This might be hard for you since you’re probably comparing yourself to the other guy, but you wouldn’t care if you knew U were better. It’s about increasing your SMV & believing that you’re better that will prevent future mistakes. Try talking to other …
/r/askTRP12/01/20 01:12 PM
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You can work out as many times as you want as long as you’re not overdoing you’re sets in a single day. What I mean is that if you’re a beginner, your body may max out at a total of 3 tough sets for 5 different exercises in 1 day. The solution here is to divide those exercises between your 2 gym times in the day so that you don’t overtrain. So instead of 2 bicep exercises (5 sets each) in 1 session, you would do 1 exercise within 2. You can also do this with your weekly split, that way you’re no…
/r/askTRP12/01/20 12:58 PM
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How did you respond to her when she would say that? Did you pass other shit tests? It seems like you have a tiny bit of some inferiority complex or an insecurity being compared to this guy. You need to improve your self esteem so that it doesn’t bother you & your girl can sense that you don’t care. If I had a girl that kept bringing up an ex, I’d ignore it, improve my dread game, continue to improve my SMV, & soft next her until she gets the message. Otherwise, she clearly has unresolved issues …
/r/askTRP12/01/20 12:50 PM
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This depends on what you perceive to be a dick or selfish move. Obviously, randomly calling someone you don’t know a “cunt” & punching them in the face is being a dick, but is flirting back with a girl who’s got a boyfriend at a party you’re at being a dick? You have to set these boundaries for yourself & your morals, because that’s the gray zone. It depends on the situation or example bc not everything is always black & white. Sometimes, you will come off as a tiny bit of a dick but this should…
/r/askTRP12/01/20 12:47 PM
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Exploit the situation? Women want to be fucked, of all ages. Everyone has hormones. Their age or having a kid does not mean that you can’t get with them.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 12:41 PM
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100% agree. I find it’s best to be somewhere in the middle between what this sub things of instagram (as majority hate it) & what your average influencer will say (that they love it). There’s pros & cons to social media, that’s why I use it with moderation without your life not revolving around it, social media should revolve around your life.... that’s the point.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 12:39 PM
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You’re attracted to them bc you’re attracted to them. When you’re in high school, depending on how big your classes are, you usually will have an easier time getting to know girls without having to approach. As you get older, unless you go away to a university, you won’t see as many women like that unless you go out. So it depends what you do when you go out? Wherever you’re going, I guess the strippers or degenerates are easier to get with for sex. In the end we all have sexual needs that are a…
/r/askTRP12/01/20 12:37 PM
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First of all, you have to accept the fact that some women may give out phone numbers out of kindness, without actually being attracted to you or wanting to meet up. It’s happened to the best of us at least a few times before. Second, when it comes to logistics, it’s about transitioning the texting to meeting up in person. Getting straight to the point of wanting to meet up with a woman for coffee, movie, or something small will not make her think of herself as a slut. This will only backfire if …
/r/askTRP12/01/20 05:56 AM
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You’re right, going too deep into the beta pool means that she knows your weak side & it will be harder to convince her otherwise... however she did agree to be a fwb. What do friends with benefits do? They fuck, which occasionally hanging out. That’s it, no strings attached. If you’re attracted to her, continue spinning this plate & go with it. Otherwise, you drop her if you completely end up losing attraction. At this point, she may shit test you a lot to try & get back together, but only do i…
/r/askTRP12/01/20 05:18 AM
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Being short does not mean that you can’t game or get women, it just means that it will be a bit harder than a guy who’s 5’9, who will have it harder than a guy who’s 6’3. At the end of the day, confidence, taking care of your status/looks, & correctly passing shit tests can get you pretty far in life.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 05:12 AM
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I definitely agree with it, it happened to me with my last oneitis. The best thing is to take a break altogether & focus on yourself for a while bc if you keep thinking of 1 girl, then the motivate & enjoyment of seeing others goes down. At the end of the day we’re using the red pill to better our lives and to be happy, not to have sex with randoms & feel like shit. So that will only work when you feel good again & the oneitis goes away
/r/askTRP12/01/20 05:09 AM
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You just need to be more careful with better vetting, also making sure to reading a woman correctly before jumping too soon to any moves. Also, if you end things on an incredibly sour note with bad sex & alcohol, then women are more likely to regret if it was a shitty experience for them & take advantage of claiming sexual assault. It is what it is, watch yourself first: we live in a fucked up society now with pros and cons to social media
/r/askTRP12/01/20 12:41 AM
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..don’t lose muscle, that’s the dumbest thing I’ve read. Improve your status & frame. You’re intimidating bc you are probably self conscious or don’t know how to smile & approach people.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 12:35 AM
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What?
/r/askTRP11/01/20 07:46 PM
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Plates will lie. Plates will flake. Plates will fuck other men. Plates will move. Plates will change their jobs. Plates will get surgeries. In the end, none of this shit matters. It’s simple. Do you want to fuck her? If yes, is she giving you a time & place to meet up? If no to any of these 2 questions, you move on.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 07:42 PM
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What was her vibe after you claimed to be into her on day 1? I’d say, text less & just plan the meetup. I know that sexually fueled texting is fun, but you can’t overdo it otherwise she won’t care as much to meetup. Don’t go too far down that path, just plan in person.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 07:40 PM
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I give it a couple of years until the red pill grows, MGTOW grows, marriages continue to drop (which heavily benefit women), & then another sexual revolution of some short will balance the shift again. It could be thanks to men moving onto futuristic sex robots & not caring about regular women again or male birth control, but there will be a shift again. It will never completely favor men, but it will be better than it is now
/r/askTRP11/01/20 07:38 PM
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It could be that or they are too busy to see you & are an excuse to not see you again so soon. Either way, you shouldn’t even be responding back that quickly after sex & if you are then just ignore it, sounds like a shit test to me. Just say “okay, feel better” & leave it at that.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 07:35 PM
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You’re looking for validation because you clearly want that person to like you, you don’t want them to think that you’re boring. Your first step is to stop giving a fuck, your second is to stop seeking others’ approval. Then, when a convo slows down you have no problem staying silent & listening to the other person or completely ending the convo when it dies. Be in control.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 07:34 PM
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Then you definitely need to do that ASAP. It may be tougher for her accept the boundaries now (since you should’ve done it sooner).. but do it anyways. Regardless of if she’s got the biggest asian ass in the world, you can’t put her on a pedestal & give her special treatments as a plate. She WILL take advantage of it. You give a plate an inch, they will take a mile.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 06:34 PM
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It sounds like she doesn’t really know her role. You need to establish boundaries or else she will keep trying to push you into this bullshit. Just tell her that it’s a change of plans and that you’re busy now. That’s it, no need to over explain.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 07:04 AM
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Ahh well I’m guessing you must have really been into her then, otherwise I do not recommend ever agreeing to something like that... It’s usually a red flag when a woman says that but I’m guessing you’ve learned from that now. Either way, improve yourself & move on. She already moved on herself
/r/askTRP11/01/20 07:03 AM
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Go where you normally would based on your lifestyle. Try the mall, public stores, libraries, social events, fundraisers, carnivals, there’s endless options that don’t involve parties or bars. I recently got ahold of a plate at a pet store out of all places... If you aren’t doing any of this, then socialize more or try new places.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 05:54 AM
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Don’t hook up with exes, it’s not worth it. Improve yourself & move onto other women. Also, long distance relationships that last many months usually die majority of the time anyways. You said that the relationship turned to shit at month 8 yet kept dating even after she moved? That makes no sense imo
/r/askTRP11/01/20 05:51 AM
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Keyword: girlfriend. If she doesn’t like you & accept you for who you politically support, then just end it bc eventually your morals will start to take separate roads as the relationship unfolds. It’s not worth hiding something like that from a woman bc then she has the control of changing you. If it’s not a dealbreaker to her, then you will both have to meet somewhere in the middle when it comes to coexisting. If she isn’t willing to at least hear your side of politics & doesn’t care about you…
/r/askTRP11/01/20 03:34 AM
3

Good answer. Don’t expect women to be the ones to take initiative, even if they’re staring into your eyes for 30 seconds while biting their lips. It’s your move, brother.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 03:19 AM
2

I I I I I I I, count how many times you’re starting a sentence with I. It’s your ego buddy. You’re trying to validate your sense of worth through things such as being an athlete, IQ, etc. & yet are surprised why you can’t keep a girl. It means that you’re not perfect & you have a lot more beta in you than you think. You probably have “perfection syndrome” combined with the fact that you are a needy man. You think that by perfecting yourself in other aspects in life outside of game should make u …
/r/askTRP11/01/20 03:18 AM
3

It seems you were definitely a bit pushy and putting her on a pedestal. If your kino isn’t moving forward & she’s giving you red flags such as “I’m more into woman than men..., sorry to disappoint”, & in general not giving you attention, You should have got up & simply left to talk to other women. Personally, when that girl asked if “you would take care of her while her friend was gone”, it was more of you just sitting with her & further stroking her ego without any escalation. She was either ke…
/r/askTRP11/01/20 03:12 AM
2

What’s the question again? She’s a fwb, there’s no commitment, so who cares if she’s on a date lol. If she’s trying to make you jealous then ignore her. When she comes back she will either be in a relationship & May drop you or you meetup again and fuck. It’s not that complicated
/r/askTRP11/01/20 03:05 AM
3

It’s dead. Move on. Once they hit you with the “I can’t join you bc of (insert excuse here)”, followed up by her not saying what day works better, That’s warning flag number 1. Her being upfront of not being attracted to you & wanting to be friends is warning flag number 2. She lost attraction & moved onto someone else. Don’t even reply back unless u want to orbit her like a loser
/r/askTRP11/01/20 03:03 AM
6

Just say “yes”
/r/askTRP10/01/20 11:11 PM
1

True. I wouldn’t prioritize it as a number 1 flaw if the date went so/so & you’re not certain how she feels about you; then usually laying low & making her chase you seems like the only option left. Otherwise if u come off as too available then she doesn’t have to work towards earning your attention & time since she will feel like she won u over already with a future date
/r/askTRP10/01/20 09:12 PM
1

Oh yeah you definitely have huge traps man, that’s good then! You probably don’t need neck exercises ever again lol
/r/askTRP10/01/20 09:11 PM
1

Perfectly worded
/r/askTRP10/01/20 06:15 PM
2

Basically. You will not have the same feelings for the person you rebound with as much as u will for the ex.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 06:15 PM
1

Either you’re very picky with who you interact with on those apps or you simply have shitty luck in person in the wrong parts of town.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 06:14 PM
3

You passed the shit tests congrats. You can usually tell it’s some test bc she will continue to reply, otherwise she would’ve ignored lol
/r/askTRP10/01/20 06:12 PM
2

Women will always believe deep down that they can change a man someday. This is why guys change after marriage & women pressure them for marriage. She knows that there are big benefits to her if he settles down & let’s himself go. Real men know this game & will never back down or change who they are for a woman.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:47 PM
2

That’s the most subjective thing I’ve ever read. How is it a waste if I’ve taken measurements & have seen an increase in time over the last 2 years? It works, but I could care if you don’t believe me. I do this for aesthetic bodybuilding purposes only, although some benefits can include protection against car accidents or less headaches. Fighters & football players will do this more for actual sport strength to prevent injury. In the end it’s subjective choice. This argument can be made for any …
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:44 PM
4

First sentence right there, your mistake was not soft nexting right away. Do not let anyone disrespect you or your time, even if it’s a plate. You put your foot down or move on. You don’t do what she wants, you do what u want. Don’t let a plate control you
/r/askTRP10/01/20 04:48 PM
1

Books are just tools, in the end it’s between you & your brain. If someone were to ride a book about skiing, how many of those would you need to read to learn how to become a great skier? You can read thousands but it’s not until you put on those skis yourself & go down hill, where you’ll finally learn how to become a good skier. Even after reading the books, you will still wipe out & fall many times, but that’s life.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 04:47 PM
4

Yeah if you’re on steroids then you don’t need neck exercises. You have more androgen receptors in the upper body region so your neck/traps/shoulder are way bigger than a naturals. Still is cool to hear though, what is your neck measurement? I’m curious actually.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 04:42 PM
4

First, anyone who says “just deadlift bro”, is wrong. Unless you’re deadlifting over 500 lbs & actively press your neck inwards while lifting, neck isolations are the best way to do the exercises. That being said, sometimes building up your traps can mimic having a larger neck as those muscles are directly tied together. Exercises like lateral Delt raises can minimally grow your neck... but again aren’t the best compared to isolating exercises. Start with tiny weights or a neck harness & do not …
/r/askTRP10/01/20 04:30 PM
2

You either conform or leave the country altogether. I’m sure there can be a rare gem you get with out of town, if not, then you can’t do anything about it
/r/askTRP10/01/20 04:25 PM
11

Youve just been brainwashed for many many years so its hard for you to naturally grow out of it than it is for others. If you had grown up 200 or 1000 years ago in a different civilization, would u be calling yourself a fraud? You simply still have a lot of internal BP you that needs to die.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 02:48 PM
2

When you’re skinny, the chances are that you also have small muscles and are weak. It’s that simply really, it gives off that perception.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 11:18 AM
23

A woman wants what a woman wants. Some women want to get knocked up & live with some guy when they’re 18, others wait many years for that. It sounds to me like she is definitely trying to trap you, but you didn’t have to call her out for it. If after all of these months you told her (very straightforward) that you’re not interested in a lot of her propositions someday such as marriage, then don’t be surprised if she starts acting weird or looks for other men. You don’t have to breakup with her i…
/r/askTRP10/01/20 10:56 AM
7

The problem here is planning future dates while you’re on a date. You never tell a woman that you want to see her again, when you’re already with her. You’re supposed to give hints that you’re not planning too far ahead into the future with her & that she has to win you over in the date to possibly earn the next one. From what I can gather here, things go well with you but I wouldn’t discuss waterparks or things of that nature, you make yourself too available. I’d escalate a bit sooner instead o…
/r/askTRP10/01/20 10:50 AM
1

Literally the exact same thing happened to me 2 weeks ago, buddy. Older plate, really sweet, great sex, would constantly send snaps, videos, double-texting me to come over, etc., only lasted about a month before she told me that she’s “busy for the upcoming days, heads up”. It was VERY obvious with what my gut was telling me & it turned out that I was 100% right. An ex came back into her life wanting to work on their relationship again. Thankfully she was being forward about it but I’d imagine n…
/r/askTRP10/01/20 10:30 AM
3

Agreed. Harry must have been Bluepilled deep down & she took advantage of him. Even if you’re in a royal family, you’re not safe from a woman’s tricks
/r/askTRP09/01/20 02:34 AM
1

Yeah that too. Only you know your true SMV compared to these women, u know what to do.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 01:17 AM
2

Of course. Don’t fall into the trap of saying “okay, this relationship will be anything but casual, it will be serious”. Say things such as “I go with the flow of life & enjoy the moment, who knows what the future holds”. Always give the impression that she has to earn your attention & that you’ve got one foot out the door. Continue with the dread game, use kino, & just be super straightforward with what u want. If she stops u and rejects your attempt then soft next her or move on.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 01:15 AM
1

You either improve your SMV or play the numbers game. You may have just encountered a bad streak, otherwise they just aren’t that into you but are giving their Snapchat’s in order to be nice
/r/askTRP08/01/20 11:46 PM
6

Everything up until the 10 minute talk was good. That probably fucked with her head a bit. I’d just go silent to see if she reaches out again.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 11:15 PM
3

A soft next means no contact, no likes, no viewing her Snapchat story, & no attention for 10 days. This is due to her bad behavior. You’re basically showing her that you’re moving on & that she no longer has your attention. If she doesn’t respond by then, then she most likely has already moved on. At that point, you either hard next her (block, delete, ignore forever) or keep her added on the back burner for the 1% chance that she may contact u someday again. Also want to add. I wouldn’t contact…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 11:08 PM
1

Yeah exactly. Soft nexts aren’t a guarantee to work at all if the girl had already lost interest & moved on.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 11:02 PM
4

She clearly sounds hallow already, I wouldn’t be surprised if it goes downhill from here. Simply ignore it. But honestly I wouldn’t even waste my time with that if this continues. She clearly might have some “Princess” attitude going on. Imagine if a guy told a girl “if only you had a bigger ass & were 30 lbs lighter” lmao
/r/askTRP08/01/20 10:54 PM
3

Tbh you should’ve soft nexted as soon as she stopped giving you physical attention & rejected you. Idk why you have been setting up dates since. But you can do that, if she’s unavailable & seems hesitant to give you an alternative, or if she keeps rejecting u after kissing (if u do meetup), then soft next for minimum 10 days. Keep in mind that if she’s been seeing someone else or is already thinking of others that soft nexting might end up being a lot longer. At that point the plate is broken so…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 10:47 PM
2

When they start acting up. I definitely would’ve soft nexted this plate a while ago.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 10:39 PM
2

You treat them the same. The shit tests might be harder but if you’re experienced with other women then it shouldn’t be a problem unless it’s your very first 9 or 10. In that case it will be a good learning curve for you
/r/askTRP08/01/20 10:16 PM
21

No man is “not cut out”. You clearly are just lacking experience. Start of small & as you gain experience you will become more than qualified to spin plates.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 10:14 PM
1

It depends on the woman. Some women will give off red flags right away that they are looking for a boyfriend or to move in with someone, these will not be the ones that last the longest. The ones that last the longest are the women who do not seek commitments at all (basically implying that they’re spinning other plates too) or that are staying with a man IN HOPES that maybe someday he will choose to be exclusive with her. The last part is important bc women need to have some hope that someday y…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 09:57 PM
3

Understand that most women from online dating apps (wouldn’t even call it dating, they’re trashy apps), they’ve got a much bigger ego due to the attention they get from abundance of thirsty dudes. If a woman in real life is a 6/10, then on a dating app she will be treated as an 8/9. This keeps them hooked & coming back for more. They have tons of options on the sides, so they move on faster. The only way to keep woman longer around is if you have a higher SMV or if your sex is simply a lot bette…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 07:24 PM
10

Exactly. The same type of women that are willing to play these games are the same type to get knocked up by some random dude & deny it so that you end up being screwed over as the “dad”. RUN.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:56 PM
3

When it’s all give with no get. It’s that simple.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:54 PM
9

It hurt your ego didn’t it? Stop acting like a beta then. So she chooses her friend? Alright then. Don’t let it bother u. Don’t seem Butt hurt or too angry about it, bc it is a female friend after all. Sometimes women will want their space as well but If you feel like you’ve been making other BP recently, then don’t be surprised if she’s already grown too used to you.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:53 PM
3

Agreed with you. The vibe that’s given off is a little too calm. Women want guys that are also fun & with groups of people every now and then. I’d personally have less black & white photos (unless that’s your entire theme, which it isn’t) & would do less shirtless pics. It definitely seems pretty Try hard
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:02 PM
1

It depends on the girl, I’d say that’s pretty true. Some women want at least a few texts back & forth but it depends on their availability too. If they log into the app once a month & give one word answers then just ask for her number/snap & go to logistic is from there. Otherwise, if the convo goes back & forth a little bit then having a quick convo is fine... but always do logistics within 10 texts
/r/askTRP08/01/20 03:53 PM
4

One step at a time. I feel that everyone who turns to the RP do so after experiencing the sad results of being Blue Pilled in real life. For some men it takes many years, for others it takes 1 horrible event such as being cheated on, dumped, rejected by friend of many years, or divorced to finally open up their eyes.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 03:36 PM
3

I usually go silent & lightly ignore if I feel that my answer won’t be enough to win a shit test or argument. I’ll usually say phrases such as “Don’t worry about it” or “I’m a busy man, learn to accept that”. This depends on context ofc, usually it’s when the girl starts asking too many personal questions. I usually have no problems with saying “No” or disagreeing with something I don’t like in general. I’ve been told I’m pretty blunt so there’s that. Stay true to yourself & act a man.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 03:26 PM
1

That’s a pretty vague question, it would depend on the situation or circumstance?
/r/askTRP08/01/20 03:02 PM
3

Continue doing what you were planning on doing with her anyways. It’s a major shit test, she’s trying to control your frame
/r/askTRP08/01/20 05:43 AM
2

I’d say it always happens a lot sooner than some people realize & it’s usually a gradual decline. The hardest thing is faking to a woman that you’ve got better options than her, even if you’re spinning other plates but believe that she is your best. They can just sense it. You will get better with more experience. I can guarantee that she had other plates or men in her life as well & simply moved on for whatever reason. Don’t be so hard on yourself though bc life is short and I can guarantee tha…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 05:42 AM
16

You give short 1-2 answers to their questions, then bring up logistics. Once they respond to a time/place/date, u go quiet. If they ask later why you’re behaving this way, u say that you’re busy. That’s it. No need for unnecessary fluff texting In between even if she starts throwing a temper tantrum.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 05:21 AM
1

It depends on the mean. If there is a temporary deviation then it will usually regress back towards the mean. However, if it’s getting stale then it needs to be spiced up, otherwise the fault lies within the man. If improvements to the man are not enough for the woman to engage in more sex with him overtime, then it’s his choice to move on.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 05:17 AM
20

You will get better from this, it’s simply a part of life. Anyone who has spun enough HB7+ plates will know that every now & then u may favor one of them a little bit more than the others & will be a little disappointed when that plate breaks. We’re all humans with chemical reactions going out through our bodies. Obviously being ghosted by a 9 is a hit to one’s ego, but you will get over it easily by continue to better yourself & spin other plates. Look back at how u acted towards her, be 100% h…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 05:14 AM
2

Look. She’s not stupid, she knows that she has you on Snapchat & knew exactly what she was posting, it’s a trap don’t fall for it. Do not ever bring this up, who cares. You’re both single & you both have the freedom to do what you want. Either she moved on (while agreeing to your date Incase things don’t work out with that guy), or she was in a relationship all along. Either way, dont say anything. Meet for the date & escalate quickly from there. Don’t even consider a LTR, fuck her a few times f…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:57 AM
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Exactly. It’s the sad truth, I learned this years ago the hard way. Once a girl is exposed to the BP side if you, there’s no going back. She simply wants the validation back.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:54 AM
1

Your metabolism is adjusting, don’t cut too fast. Go for another week, then weigh yourself & if no progress then reduce 150-200 calories. Do that until you don’t see any more progress for another week, then repeat until you’re happy with results
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:50 AM
3

Agreed. This is why plates will always eventually break, some break sooner & some will break later depending on the girl. Eventually, each woman will want what she doesn’t have.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:29 AM
35

You’re doing really well man, I can definitely tell that you’ve taken the RP a long time ago. Solid frame
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:26 AM
2

If a woman is only attracted to you bc you drink, then she’s pretty trashy & immature to begin with. Who gives a fuck what you do, be a man & do whatever the fuck u want. If they got a problem with it, then it’s their loss
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:20 AM
2

You definitely fucked up, hope you enjoyed that lesson haha. Thankfully, it sounds like she’s still into you so it’s not over yet. But don’t be surprised if this plate breaks pretty soon, I give it a month or so. Enjoy
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:18 AM
1

You didn’t owe her anything. If she’s a plate then you don’t owe her dinner. She was probably upset that you guys fucked without cuddling/kissing & all of the other romantic stuff. My guess is that she wants more than to just be fuck buddies & is now thinking twice about you. Either she’s playing hard to get now (which is her loss) or has moved on. Regardless, plates only last for a few weeks. I had one plate that was only good for 2 meetups before she went back to her ex boyfriend for a relatio…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:14 AM
16

Fat women are usually more desperate bc their SMV is lower. They’re attracted to you bc you’re probably 2-3 points higher than them in value. I remember reading somewhere that women that are 2 points below you will be the most obsessed with you bc you’re not too far out of range but still so far ahead that they’d do anything to have you.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:10 AM
2

First. Identify if this is due to strength imbalances or form. If you are dealing with an injury, then you need to recover first. If it’s due to bad form (record yourself or have someone watch you) then correct the form first. Go slowly & make sure to feel the exercise equally on both sides. If it’s strength related, then start isolating each side separately, so instead of doing barbell rows, do dumbbell rows on each side. Instead of doing bicep curls with a bar, do them with dumbbells instead. …
/r/askTRP07/01/20 07:22 PM
1

He’s an orbiter. I used to have a friend just like this, he would constantly talk to women through texting & social media, occasionally grabbing some food or coffee. I used to think that he was pretty successful with women every now & then due to his like-ability, but eventually I realized that he’s just super in the friend zone trying to please everyone.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 06:14 PM
5

Say “right now we’re busy with other things but will think about it for the future, we’re not rushing”. That’s it. Don’t say anything else. If they keep bugging then just ignore them
/r/askTRP07/01/20 06:08 PM
2

Women get more attention from men than men get from women. Men have 15-30x on average more testosterone than women, that’s why you’ll more commonly see single men or men that are dating women less attractive than them. Additionally, testosterone causes you to become naturally more horny & as a result, the demand that men have for having sex with women is higher than women have more men. Women are in control of their sex lives more than men bc they have birth control & abortions as backups. If a …
/r/askTRP07/01/20 06:06 PM
10

She double texted and apologized, that’s good. Now she’s in your frame. Don’t ask if she’s on her period lol. Just say something like “gotchya, I’ll come by Friday at 7. See ya then”. Just cut to the arrangement and that’s that. Don’t talk about anything else
/r/askTRP07/01/20 05:56 PM
1

Exactly. Don’t underestimate daytime-gaming or trying out new places. Humans enjoy comfort & hate change, so it’s easy to stick to a routine that you’re familiar with, even when the results are slowly starting to decline.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 05:49 PM
3

You take every message that’s left on read as a hit to your ego. You said it best yourself, you’re impatient, that’s a problem with plates. When it comes to plates, be patient. Either wait for some of them to hit you up again or ask for their schedule first. Also start waiting a minimum of 45 minutes before responding to each message, that’s what abundance would normally do to u. You also would not care if half your plates are busy on Friday bc u have others.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 10:34 AM
2

Don’t go out with her or eventually you’ll be the new step dad to her kids. A woman her age wants to settle down. If you want to fuck then set your intentions straight & go over to her place.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 10:27 AM
2

Basically. Also is probably curious how quickly OP has other women now.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 10:24 AM
1

I agree with them with them. It depends on her. If she’s the super judgmental type that has never dealt with death in her life & you brought it up awkwardly, then I can see her being a bit speechless or feeling weird. Otherwise, she should understand, just don’t be too emotional for the date and you’ll be fine.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 10:20 AM
2

If the women like you, your setting is not the most important thing on the planet. Sure, it’s better to have your own place, but if you have a chill roommate who’s out pretty frequently then it’s just about timing. It’s all about Risk to Reward. Is the risk of spending thousands of dollars annually worth the extra date nights? If so, what’s the price tag? What if it’s a tiny place? Give it 3 months & u have your answer.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 10:17 AM
1

Just track your emotions & try not to seem too depressed about it around her. Don’t bring this up to her again as it seemed to have messed things up a little. Only time will tell.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 05:48 AM
2

Quit the porn. Quit the porn. Quit the porn.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 05:45 AM
1

Take what was said with a grain of salt from the previous comment. It depends on context. Was the timing the greatest? Not really. Was it the absolute worst thing you could’ve said? No. Is it the end? Probably not. This seems like something u did in the moment & if u feel like u fucked up, then just learn from this. It’s not easy, but it’s not the end of the world man.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 05:44 AM
1

Don’t be too hard on yourself. At the end of the day we’re all human. If this bothers u so much, then next time try talking to a close family members or male friend, someone who u know won’t mind at all. It’s a fucked up world we live in where it has to be this way but it’s our world as men, that’s life. It will get better as u get older.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 05:41 AM
3

When you are young, others will constantly compliment u in order for your self esteem to grow so that you work harder & do better. They want to motivate you so that u become a strong and independent adult. Now you’re older & most people are too busy focused on their own selves. U will not get complimented as much bc now you’re more independent as an adult, therefore you should be mentally tougher. It’s a part of life. Learn to love yourself. If you know your worth then u don’t need to hear silly…
/r/askTRP07/01/20 05:38 AM
6

Save your money. Your real estate friend is correct. The reason u want a nice place now is for the instant gratification. What good is it if you aren’t saving & investing the additional money on the side? Who gives a fuck about what others think. Right now it’s about bettering your life. Focus on owning assets & only spending money on what u absolutely need, all of the materialistic stuff is just debt that will become more worthless as u get older.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 05:33 AM
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Social media is built to became an addictive drug. It’s the reason behind the skyrocketing numbers or suicides & depressions that are trending nowadays. Celebrities & the news media are there to brainwash you to conform into group identity thinking. All the social movements & scare tactics are there to distract you from bigger issues in the world. The foods that we eat, especially in the US are a big reasons behind the increase in obesity, cancers, & other diseases. The healthiest option is to h…
/r/askTRP07/01/20 05:30 AM
7

There’s nothing wrong with going through cycles of spinning plates & cycles of focusing solely on yourself or wanting a relationship. This only becomes a problem if you fall back to your old Blue Pilled self after a break, then it can take some time before getting back into the gaming groove. In the end, do what makes u happy, u don’t have to spin 20 plates at once like some random on the Internet told you to do. It might make them happier but it might not work for u
/r/askTRP07/01/20 03:10 AM
3

You’re overthinking this. If a plate says no to your plans but immediately OFFERS another time & date that is in the near future, take their word for it & go with their availability. However, if they flake or continuously keep prioritizing their free time as opposed to yours then just soft next them so they get the message
/r/askTRP07/01/20 03:07 AM
1

I see where you’re coming from when it comes to enforcing dread & acting confident by setting some rules, it really depends on how deep in your frame she is. The toughest thing is deciding whether or not you say comes off as confident or overprotective/clingy. I honestly cannot make that choice for u, but if you’ve been successful at setting certain boundaries in the past, then just go for it. Start light with “take it easy with the red cups haha smirk” or “remember to drink lots of water”, wher…
/r/askTRP07/01/20 01:36 AM
1

So you’re both in the same school? Do you plan on going to any grad parties by yourself & what would she think if you did? I would not make this a huge deal, but ideally she should be going with her friends unless she absolutely does not know anyone there & she’s trying to make 1 or 2 close friends, then that’s different. I wouldn’t tell her “I don’t want u to go out too often” bc then she’ll probably think “u can’t tell me what to do” & will do it anyways out of spite. Remember, if she wants to…
/r/askTRP07/01/20 01:19 AM
2

The problem here is that these “conversations” are not supposed to be so extensive with someone who’s simply a plate. Keep in mind, that the average plate will only last a few weeks so it’s normal for them to drop after 1-2 months. Some may last up to a year or longer if you’re lucky but that’s normal. Don’t be so hard to yourself, but I advise keeping a journal & paying attention to when a woman’s behavior tends to shift away from you. Is this right after sex? Right after long personal conversa…
/r/askTRP07/01/20 01:10 AM
1

If she goes out, it should be with her close friends that u know & trust. She clearly says that she doesn’t like drinking & wants to “fit in”, so if she’s a smart girl then she should know her limits. Obviously there should be a balance, where sometimes u tag along to the parties as well, bc the people that she parties with should eventually get to know you too. In the end it’s her loss if she over-drinks & doesn’t control herself & makes herself a fool. Accept the risks & end it if she cheats o…
/r/askTRP07/01/20 01:05 AM
1

You need to chill, u definitely sound nervous. You’re overthinking this completely. Think of everything you like doing and simply double it. Do you like getting blowjobs? Now there are 2 mouths to blow u at the same time. You can fuck the other girl while she eats out your girl. You can have them both make out while you play with both of their pussies. Have one girl sit on your face while the other one rides you... There’s endless possibilities, just remember that YOU have the ONLY dick in the r…
/r/askTRP07/01/20 01:01 AM
2

I agree, I regret not taking advantage of college more than I could’ve years ago. It’s all tied down to insecurities, who cares if you’re not a 10/10 chad in college, it’s not that hard to get laid bc all the party girls wanna fuck.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 12:57 AM
2

I recommend making more friends that enjoy going out that are not your best friend. If you’re an athlete & are not afraid of going to bars alone, then u should have no problem chatting up a bro or 2 & going out together on the weekend. Otherwise, try going to the bar at a different hour or simply driving out to a different bar altogether. It may be a further drive & u may feel a bit uncomfortable in the beginning, but who knows, it might be a lot better. If that doesn’t sound good then your othe…
/r/askTRP07/01/20 12:54 AM
1

Call them out on their immature bullshit for trying to flip it back to u, instead of taking responsibility for their own action, & then ignore after that.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 12:50 AM
6

I believe that as long as you’re attracted to them, they should be plates. They shouldn’t be so low tier that you would kill yourself if someone found out that you hooked up with them, but if you only have 1 high tier plate then u will probably develop oneitis. If you have no plates at all then it will be hard for u to act “in abundance” & then when your first good plate comes around u will make 10x more mistakes than if u already had a few average plates.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 12:49 AM
1

Here’s a simple tip that I found out about myself. If your problem is “this one girl..” & your post is longer than 1 paragraph, 99.9% it’s oneitis.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 12:45 AM
5

You will be the center of attention & all eyes will be on u in most social situations, even without you trying at all. Women will come up with excuses to start conversations with u (attractive women) & other guys will try their hardest to get on your good side in hopes of your charm rubbing off on them. When you know, YOU KNOW. It’s very obvious
/r/askTRP07/01/20 12:43 AM
1

There are some freaky virgins out there that are simply afraid of losing their virginity bc they know that the guy will probably dip afterwards & ghost her. It happens. If anything, unexperienced girls are much more likely to send nudes if they’re attracted to the man, simply bc it’s an adrenaline rush that they haven’t felt before. Their hormones are starting to kick in & so it’s easier to send nudes than to fuck. You shouldn’t care at all. Let’s be real, I’m sure there are plenty of dudes who …
/r/askTRP07/01/20 12:41 AM
1

Are we conflating the definition of a Chad now? Lol
/r/askTRP06/01/20 09:29 PM
2

A lot of RP lessons are blind to our eyes bc we’ll act correctly to women who we don’t give af about & will never think about this approach for more attractive women. This reminds me of when I was in highschool & could not understand why a girl in my class was still obsessed with me when I’d ignore her Snapchats & would compliment her friends in front of her. It only starts to make sense when you’re older
/r/askTRP06/01/20 07:29 PM
2

They only work if you’re attractive & can show off an awesome lifestyle. Also, if a lot of other women are liking or commenting on your posts/pics then it’s a good sign that validates your status. If this is a “not so serious” account where you hide your face, name, or private life, then don’t even bother. You’ll probably have way more success in person than online, but I’d go for it anyways if you are not able to meet this woman otherwise. If you know them in person then don’t slide in DM’s, th…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 07:26 PM
1

You start out slowly one step at a time. Going cold turkey will destroy u, u will fail, & then will feel like shit after. Start off small like “I want to go 2 days without masturbation”. Then narrow that goal down to “okay, let’s make it to the next hour, now the next meal, now until the evening”... etc Do this with everything, one tiny step at a time
/r/askTRP06/01/20 07:16 PM
1

You fucked up. Next time think before u accidentally insult a pretty girl when u didn’t have to lol. I’m guessing your joke didn’t come off sarcastic or funny enough, so just accept the L and move on.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 07:13 PM
2

You’re overthinking this. I can tell that you’re trying a bit too hard to be nice & to force this plate to still think about u afterwards, but remember that u need to prioritize yourself first. Just say that you’re busy and can’t stay the next night. That’s it. They will respect u more for thinking about yourself first. If an extra night of not staying is all it takes to break this plate, then she ain’t worth it anyways
/r/askTRP06/01/20 07:11 PM
1

You should definitely divide your meals into smaller portions throughout the day. Aim for 500 calories per meal. That should be about 5-7 meals for u per day, depending on your goals. If that’s still too much, drop it down to 400 and set a timer on your phone reminding you to eat.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 07:03 PM
2

Download MyFitnessPal & start tracking each meal until you hit a daily caloric total. I’ve been using the free version of the app for over a year now & it really does hold u accountable for your calories while saving your most frequent meals. I recommend eating slightly more than you think (trust me, your brain will always trick you into thinking you ate more than you would guess) start with something like 2800 calories, average your weight for a week. If it goes up 0.5 lbs or so after a week, t…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 06:58 PM
2

Mysterious and closed off are the best things a woman can say about u. Keep that up forever & she will continue thinking about u. Once she’s got u figured out & you’re not so mysterious, that’s when it’s over. Your mindset is not wrong.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 06:54 PM
3

Then just use finasteride or dutasteride, otherwise try using a dermastamp with scalp massages & occassional coconut oil. If that doesn’t work then just shave it off and own it man.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 02:03 AM
1

Just keep at it. Don’t think about how u look now but how U will look in 1-2 years. Bulk up, work on your confidence (u seem to have a bunch of insecurities), accept that bald isn’t bad & u can always get a hair translate someday in the future, & I recommend minoxidil for a patchy beard. Use that for a couple of months
/r/askTRP06/01/20 12:21 AM
5

I feel like it’s definitely a mental thing. When one girl let’s you down, the motivation of seeing other women can go down, followed by your RP traits waring off. This is why you have to practice before it becomes 2nd nature & it’s a part of life. A lot of this may be due to coincidences & women are also thinking in cycles. Breakup season is a lot higher in the summer as opposed to settling down before the holidays. Some women may have plans with u for the weekend but cancel when it gets closer …
/r/askTRP05/01/20 11:08 PM
6

You should have a goal every day, don’t think too far ahead like “for the month”, you will just put it off until you’re uncomfortable. Start with something small like saying Hello to strangers you see outside, not just attractive women. Aim to say hello 5 times in 1 day. Join a gym, go to the library, grocery store, anything where you’re exposed to others. After that, start by saying a sentence like “How are you today” & go from there. This is much more realistic bc you will make 10x better prog…
/r/askTRP05/01/20 11:03 PM
1

Don’t EVER tell her how “she was dry the last time”, that will just make her drier. Maybe she’s a virgin, maybe not. Text to meet up, that’s it. Every text after that is pointless. She’s clearly uncertain about u & is testing you to see if you can put her in a good move in person.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 07:20 PM
3

100% agree. I once had a plate that I had added through Instagram & told my buddy about them. They were telling me to not waste my time with her bc she’s only a hoe, blah blah blah Guess who was trying to slide into the plate’s dms for any easy fuck the next day? Lmao Funny enough, she told me about it & I didn’t really care bc she’s a plate. But I agree, unless you also want more competition, just keep shit to yourself. You’ll only be judged
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:58 PM
69

Your cold approach was better than most, don’t stress too much about it. You shouldn’t care what your brother says bc only you had the balls to go up & talk to them. It’s easy to judge when you’re standing back.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:55 PM
1

If you said Saturday & she said that she has a family event but is open for “any other day”, then it’s really your call to pick a day & hour. Say something like “let’s see eachother Friday after 7, bc I’m busy after that day” & see what she says. If she doesn’t commit then forget about her. If she keeps saying “oh something else is coming up”, then she’s not that serious about seeing u.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:51 PM
3

Pay attention to her words not her actions. If she absolutely “needs female companion” bc you guys as friends aren’t good enough, then introduce 1 females friend and leave it at that. She also knows that “where the women are at, more men are at”, so I’m sure she’s going based off that philosophy if she’s been super weird lately. As long as you or your friends don’t turn into orbiters (doing useless favors for her) or get hurt, who cares if she tags along. If none of you are fucking her, then u h…
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:47 PM
1

Prioritize yourself. It doesn’t matter too much on the next date, as long as she goes based off of YOUR hours. If you told her that you’re unavailable that day, don’t bring it up again after she declined yours, just say something like “I’ll let u know”. Either way, schedule & escalate the situation. If she flakes on your date then just next her & she will get the message.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:08 PM
2

Blue Valentine
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:05 PM
6

100%. Focus on you fucking her friends, not her fucking your friends.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 05:24 PM
7

If she just moved to your city “for college”, think about it... she doesn’t want friends, she’s trying to see all of the different men & deciding which she wants to fuck. If she’s “expecting” anything from u & ur boys, then she’s partially using you before moving onto the next group, so don’t fall for that trap... especially if any of you like her, u will get hurt.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 05:13 PM
14

Exactly. Eventually, most of these orbiters grow up & realize that it’s not high school anymore, so they move on. Once she’s down to her last 3, she picks the one with the most money that can help with her longterm security, settles down with him (even if it’s a shit marriage) while continuing to withhold affection for a real RP man. Funny enough, a lot of her former orbiters will probably grow up to become true Chads, where they’re 100x more successful & that’s when she will regret her past. It…
/r/askTRP05/01/20 05:09 PM
4

It’s fine to be “tough & scary”, but they also want some charisma & confidence. You said it best, it’s RP but it backfires if you start acting like a weird psycho & don’t talk to any of them. Just start talking to a few of the people in class, be a little bit more human. Smile & laugh a little bit more & try acting 10% warmer to those around you. If you’re the super quiet type with a straight serial killer face on 24/7, then don’t expect people to approach you, you have to engage with them first…
/r/askTRP05/01/20 05:01 PM
3

First of all brother, before any huge criticism, I just wanted to say that you should be happy to have made the first step of being with a 10/10 woman. Even if it wasn’t perfect, congrats on the upgrade. However, you’ve got a long way to go before realizing that she just wasn’t that into you. Guess what a 4th text would be? Another text ignored. It doesn’t matter if it’s a funny meme or you’ve got a picture of car being towed, she won’t respond. Id say what turned her off was u continuously aski…
/r/askTRP05/01/20 04:55 PM
1

They have bought into the current LGBTQ movement trends that all straight men are bad, therefore they do not seek to use any masculine straight men as role models. You can argue that there are alpha gay men out there & I agree, but the stereotype still holds that most gay men seem to “act gay”, with flamboyant behaviors & leaning towards hobbies that women prefer. Additionally, more gay men will be close friends with women, which further throws gasoline into the fire when they hear their girl fr…
/r/askTRP05/01/20 04:11 PM
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True. I knew a girl that was just like that, would always hang out with them when they were working on their cars, inviting them to the beach or to go shopping, etc. It turns out that she had the most entitled ego out there, constantly in self-pity about how she’s so “desperately single” & “poor” blah blah blah, yet had 100 orbiters around her to take advantage of. These women aren’t worth a LTR because they’re too busy dreaming of a perfect Prince Charming chad swooping them off their feet & fi…
/r/askTRP05/01/20 04:05 PM
1

It takes time & practice, nobody is always perfect, but eventually you will be able to read different women’s body language better. I’d say that you should never try to “prove” anything to a woman. If you’ve answered once to her silly question, it’s her loss if she doesn’t believe you. At this point you look away & start talking to others like nothing happened. You could have written an entire book about how you’re 28, then also pulled out your birth certificate to show her, but that just shows …
/r/askTRP05/01/20 03:22 PM
1

It has to do with colleges nowadays, which is a bit more stressful if you’re not the brightest person around. Adderall helps with that, in addition to many other drugs that I’m sure they also take... We live in an era where depression & suicide rates are at their highest, drugs may temporarily help but the bigger issues have always been social media, lack of real families, 3rd wave feminism causing division, etc.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 03:15 PM
1

You will definitely experience different stages of anger, denial, or sadness before you start to accept that that’s the way life is. You get over this by accepting that every single man was most likely blue-pilled for years before figuring the harsh truth for himself. At least you’re super young. I was also fortunate enough to have learned the RP at 20 (after a horrible BP moment), now I’ve just focused on bettering myself everyday. Are there days where I’m angry at the way that life is? No, not…
/r/askTRP05/01/20 03:12 PM
6

Exactly. You don’t wait until the date is over, at that point he should’ve completely ignored her, went to other women or left the club entirely. That’s disrespectful as fuck
/r/askTRP05/01/20 03:04 PM
5

The moisturizing lotion? Isn’t that for the body only or it doesn’t matter?
/r/askTRP05/01/20 03:00 PM
2

If you’re young looking then women will simply keep testing you about it bc they expect for u to be lying & to say you’re 21 or something, even though you’re older. I don’t think there’s anything else you could’ve said except that saying “I’m old enough to be here”, maybe wasn’t the answer she was looking for. She might have still thought that you snuck in underraged. I would’ve just said my real age the 2nd time & then changed the topic after that.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 02:56 PM
1

Find another gym buddy. Understand that NOBODY is focused on you when you’re at the gym. Everybody is only paying attention to themselves. Otherwise.. calisthenics are fine, but eventually you will need to add exercises that involve heavier weights to increase the muscles more. Also, u will need to balance out your physique by hitting all of your muscles, so it gets more challenging doing bodyweight only
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:35 AM
1

If it’s a minor surgery, have been planning for a long time, & u have the money, then go for it. Just remember that changing the outside will not Completely change the inside. Sure u may have a tiny boost of confidence, but it will regress back to your true self unless that’s changed.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:33 AM
1

I agree that letting a girl know “I’ll call u in a bit” isn’t the worst, but if they don’t have your number yet or you just started speaking (especially after a drunk kiss), u gotta let some time to pass for her to think about u. Whenever I’ve drunk kissed a woman, I would always have slight regrets the following morning, however as the hours would go by, I would think of her. So calling her right after that leaves a bit of a pushy vibe. I’ve made phone call mistakes in the past and have learned…
/r/askTRP05/01/20 04:00 AM
6

Exactly. Idk why OP would add “persistent” or that it’s “hella attractive”. It shows that she is gaining leverage & now out of spite she may start acting differently out of immaturity.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 06:31 PM
2

There’s definitely a few reasons why she could have said that. Maybe she wants to distance herself if you have been acting pretty BP or clingy recently or is starting to have second thoughts about only being a plate. I’ve actually a plate of mine drop like that pretty recently, it turned out that she started talking to an ex who wanted a relationship so she wanted to make that worked compared to just endless sex. In the end, you have to accept that this plate may break soon & u shouldn’t care. I…
/r/askTRP04/01/20 06:18 PM
1

It may have a bit more to do with religion or traditions I feel. The Middle East is definitely more traditional when it comes to men knowing their roles as controlling alpha & women remaining submissive (especially during marriages).
/r/askTRP04/01/20 06:05 PM
3

In the end, nobody is 100% perfect but it ain’t worth ending a good relationship for tits alone. Do you feel like your image or body is perfect to her in every single way? I’m sure there’s 1 thing you could change if u wanted to. Im sure she knows about her boobs. It sounds to me like it isn’t just the tits if u say that u can getter a hotter girlfriend though, it seems like there’s more to it.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 06:02 PM
2

Condoms are not the same as male birth control for a few reasons. You can have unprotected sex with a girl & she could be on birth control without u knowing whereas no condoms for men means an almost guarantee in pregnancy. Also, women can poke holes into condoms if they choose too or understand that there’s a tiny percentage that they won’t work. If men had birth control, then women on birth control would become powerless & women that attempt to trap men into impregnating them (millionaires, at…
/r/askTRP04/01/20 04:02 PM
2

Should’ve asked for Snapchat or requested a video of her saying a certain phrase while looking into the camera. If it’s a professional catfish then just avoid sending any nudes of yourself because they will screenshot them & hold you blackmailed. There’s a very big chance that it’s a catfish so tread carefully
/r/askTRP04/01/20 03:58 PM
2

Have to break it to you bro but it was just a drunk kiss & it’s time to move on. When it comes to women, it’s very obvious when they’re into u & not into u. I would never have called first, that’s a huge mistake that guys make in the beginning. However it’s been 2 days with no reply so there’s a 99% chance that it’s over. Don’t think too much about this, don’t bring this up to others, move on to other women. It’s hard bc you’re looking for answers that validate a reason that she was super into y…
/r/askTRP04/01/20 03:52 PM
9

Agreed. Also her blocking him completely or not responding at all would be the best option, however it seems she wants closure & is still hurt. I wouldn’t overreact because her past is out of your control. If she’s being honest with you then u have nothing to worry about. However, if she continues distancing herself & talks to him more & more frequently, then something is seriously up.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 06:38 AM
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