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[–]pellrid1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think you can basically fap as much as you want, but without the porn. Though I'd advise that you keep a restraint on how many times you actually fap weekly.
Although if, and hopefully when you begin having sex with girls often, you'll most probably stop fapping on your own. It just becomes unnecessary.
[–]abdada0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I like to fap using a woman's hands and her mouth.
[–]Scurvemuch 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Vaginas everywhere think you're missing out
[–]abdada0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
She's really gotta work hard to deserve that bump in status.
2018 will be the year where some new social network only lets you connect with people you slept with and whoever they slept with.
Wonder where you and I will cross swords paths, actually.
[–]Scurvemuch 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
How much did you get around NYC.
[–]abdada0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
3 in 25 years, one solid port style plate who was 6'0", one who moved from Chicago and we mostly hung out casually if I was in town and one shitshow who I still can't define well years later but was fun as hell. All were pretty much Manhattan media types (tall one was actually Tribeca based and still is, married some film producer or something).
[–]Scurvemuch 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
One of the reasons I left New York was I couldn't fuck a local who wasn't within3 degrees of separation from one buddy or another.
[–]abdada0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
New York was like Tinder since the 1960s basically.
[–]analonlybitch1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Use her ass
[–]tjwplans0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Masturbation is a normal human function. While excessive use of porn can be bad for you, masturbating without porn us fine. To be honest, I even assume once a guy has a normal, active, sex life he probably won't even need to masturbate on a regular basis.
And the NoFap/NoPorn is really only for people who have a serious addiction to it. Not your average Joe.
[–]failingtheturingtest0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
All good things in moderation. Porn CAN lead to poor outcomes, but as someone who has had a healthy relationship with porn, my own body, and plenty of other bodies, ED and porn is an overstated connection.
Just don't go crazy.
There was a post during "No Nothing November" about masturbating without imagining someone, without porn, no external stimulus. Just you and your body. If you want to try something different, give that a go. Someone also said "If you can't get off looking at yourself in the mirror, you need to work on that" (or something to that effect).
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