So a long time ago, I made a post about dropping out and telling my father about it and you guys helped out tremendously and I thank you for that.

It's been a year now since that talk and I have a different dilemma and it's more so a family dynamic and something he did while I was in school that I didn't know about until I came home that summer. So my father bought some property trying to start some real estate in bumfuck iowa where we reside in. He borrowed shit loads of money to buy it and more to fix it and eventually made some money off of it and bought 2 more properties asking for more money since he paid off a couple of big loans. Not the one he has on the apartment still. I always wanted to move away from this shitty ass state and chase my goals and dreams and this situation where I'm drowning in debt working to help him pay off these bullshit loans I didn't even want in the first place is killing me inside and wanting to move away more and more. I had this talk with him and he said to just sell everything and I go. I feel real fucking bad for wanting to leave and go do my own thing when he started this "business" to get a better life n home. Questions are Am I selfish to want to leave? What would you guys do? And Should I Stay to help him out pay off everything then go my own way? 23M currently. Hard job prospects since no degree. And checks milking my pockets to pay these off.

Thanks for any input you guys have it truly means alot to me.

Tl;Dr Pops bought properties while iwas away in college. Loans up to eyeballs paid off a few but still has one on big apartment we own. Me wanting to leave to chase goals. Am I selfish? What Should I do? Should I continue to stay and help out pops pay everything off?