I recently went to a fraternity party where my wingman and I talked to these two girls. After reading up on some game theory/red pill theory for a while, I was thinking that I can't just be the same old boring guy that has probably talked to this girl before me. So, after talking the same small talk with her for about five minutes, I got bored and took the beer she was holding out of her hand and started drinking it myself. Needless to say, I wanted to be polarizing and it definitely was because she looked at me with her mouth wide open. She then proceeded to leave two minutes later.

Looking back, I know what I did was probably too aggressive (I didn't even initiate kino before I did this) and it kind of scared her off, but what are some lessons I could learn from this experience that I can internalize moving forward? I would definitely like to become a lot smoother in general, but I also don't want to be like the rest of the pack. Should I have tried making her comfortable with my touch first? What went wrong here?

Thanks in advance for any kind of feedback or criticism.