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A different perspective: You drifted apart because you are different people, with different needs, wants, desires, and see the world differently. You've said yourself. You're just different. Life is too short to bend who you are to her if it still doesn't make either of you happy. Last item of your plan is basically REWARDING her for her behavior. It'll happen again, and again... Try this. Copy your post in a Word doc and remove EVERY sentence that contains 'her' 'she' 'us' and 'we'... That's yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 05:46 PM
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Subjective Report last week's OYS for reference Subjective scale of 1-7 ( 1 = needs massive improvement, 4 = it's happening, 7 = ownership ) Health Fitness -5- overall, using Google Fit to track general progress. lifting -6- back on track, using Stronglifts app, can't wait to need to buy new plates. Three different people have remarked on visible improvement skill (martial arts) -6- hit this between stronglifts workouts. I enjoy it, wish classes lasted longer. New work shift will allow me to hit…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/16 05:35 PM
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You mention anger and rage often. That's a start, but your thinking is all over the place. It needs structure. Let's apply some EFT and CPT. First Point: Consider that Rage is a survival tool, a skill that helped us evolve, that served us well as a species. Imagine yourself 100,000 years ago, there's no civilization, maybe your tribe and the dangers of the world you face. What would cause you to rage then (e.g. threats against yourself, your family, your supplies?) Think about how rage was usefu…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/16 04:52 PM
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If you have what you need, why is joining a gym a better option right now? Define this better.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/16 03:55 PM
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It's basically just humor. Humor is linking two unrelated items together through an inferred connection(s). You just need to find your style of humor. Two things can help with what you referred to as off the cuff: time is relative. It might seem like a long time to you but to her it's nothing. You might not realize this but you already begin to formulate responses as another person is talking (which is a poor listening habit BTW, but helpful here). Practice: there's so many ways to practice. Shi…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 10:52 PM
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Okay I've read the book. Today was going to be a day. I'm moving the date to Saturday. I have some questions that you might be able to answer, mainly around the 'big monster' I looked around for a handy reference of facts that counter the psychological aspect but haven't found any. I have it on my schedule to go back through the book and list these out as ammo. If you know of (or have already) something like this, it'd be a big help.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/16 10:43 PM
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I've been through two of these scenarios and seen all of them manifest in many lives. One I have one of these as well, friends that took this route too. Consider him on administrative leave until he gets his shit straight. He can be welcomed back ONCE he is consistently doing well. You can be straight with him then too: "Hey, I appreciate your progress and want to see you continue doing well. It's nice to have you back in the family. Be aware though, the minute I feel you are slipping I will cut…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/16 10:42 PM
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It is moral indignation. You believe their money, time, and energy should be put into someone else's offspring and not their own. That's some blue pill shit right there. If they want to reproduce and have the means (regardless of the obstacles) then they have a right to reproduce. The very fucking purpose of all life is to reproduce, to pass on your genes at least. Yes, humans are considerably more complex than other life on this planet which also gives us the option to pass on our intangibles (…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/16 06:52 PM
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You will be in significant danger of getting wrapped up by the authorities when she's pinched.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 06:22 PM
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I use Evernote to collect fucking everything. There are plenty of Android/iOS Journal apps that you can use a stylus with to replicate pen on paper that will link with Evernote. Evernote also has an encryption function in addition to password access and even additional PIN on mobile apps. It sounds like you're keeping that letter you wrote. Maybe so you can remind yourself of that feeling later. Consider doing a brief outline of the letter and deleting the letter. That type of puke is never fun …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 05:27 PM
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Or high quality stylus on a tablet. It's the physical motion of writing, it's the internal recognition of your own handwriting that makes a difference. It's YOUR handwriting so your brain knows you wrote it and can't place a 'buffer' between you and the words like with typed words. There's a separation from the typed word that doesn't exist in handwriting.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 05:23 PM
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First let's get this part out of that way: He is married, so maybe... Have you read anything about how pre-selection works? If a taken woman wants to bang a taken man, she pretty much knows he's not going to be dramatic about it, he's going to be much less risk to her life than a single man. The biggest threat, IMO, to a husband is another married man. She has a better chance with him, than you do with someone you find as equally attractive as she finds him. (even if all your SMVs were equal) I …
/r/askTRP22/07/16 05:15 PM
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(I rambled a bit here) I chose the Kindle Voyage with the nice eInk screen, with the built in light Wifi/Data (it is touch screen) because: sleep better at night with the softer light. The Fire or any other tablet blasting your eyes fucks with your sleep (Twilight is a good Android app to combat this) MUCH longer battery life Wireless syncing of books, etc. There's two versions, one is JUST wifi, spend the extra dough. Tiny fucking thing. I added this cover to protect my investment when in a bag…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/16 03:05 AM
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Whatever it is you're doing that she has dirt on, you need to stop and remove it completely from your life. Scour your place, vehicle, phone, social media, any communications you've used and get it all out. You'll be in a better place regardless of this chick.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 11:15 PM
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It's submissive if your head doesn't return to it's original position. I perceive the nod down as more serious, used with strangers mostly but also between men of action about to do dark things to others. Nod up is also very light hearted and more carefree.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 06:56 PM
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Yes. The nod up (exposing your throat), the nod down (defends your throat). In both instances you are acknowledging the other person and demonstrating your trust in them.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 06:53 PM
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Regarding Vision: Yes and No. I need to sit down and brainstorm out my thoughts and pick up the good pieces, sort of how my dog does with his puke. For starters: I want to be happy, both to be happy. I want reciprocal and random affection and sexual attention, appreciation. If she does understand something, I want to know. If she doesn't agree with something, she can still voice her thoughts but will follow. I want my team back.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 06:30 PM
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Good to hear about the gym decision. Are you enjoying Way of Men? I have everything on Kindle (app on my phone, tablet, browser cloud reader, and a kindle voyage) very handy. Play with the highlight and notes functions (as well as bookmarks) Kindle seems to create a notebook for each book of your highlights and notes so you can just read those if you want.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 06:25 PM
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She said it was to "keep me from being grumpy". I said, I haven't been grumpy and she agreed. Oh man! I totally would've said something like "It's good medicine, keep it coming"
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 12:39 AM
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Curious about your book choice, why that one? Also, don't depend on your buddy for working out. It helps, but still go if he doesn't. Pick the gym that's right for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 12:32 AM
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conflict-averse to the nth degree. Man, the shit we lose out on in life because of this. Makes me angry, angry enough to remember to embrace the conflict and as M. Manson says 'polarize people.' Saying what we want, cut the fat, stop coddling the weak and fragile. TRP isn't a pill, it's a whirlpool. You either swim right into the looking glass, get slowly pulled down, or drown; the whole time circling the void while being smacked in the head with lessons as you go around..and around...
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 12:27 AM
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Summary: I feel like the tortoise in the race, slow and steady, moving forward bit by bit. I work from home a lot. Wife came home early the other day, just so happened to have a female friend that stopped by for lunch, unplanned. Wife doesn't like her one bit. Wife is tense/uncomfortable, leaves to get her nails did. Few hours later get a text, she's going to the bar for a few. "Nope, we drink together..." she follows up with texts about how she's unhappy, needs to feel like an adult and make he…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 12:02 AM
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Stop resting on the bench, get up and pace in front of it.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 10:35 PM
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Join your local ToastMasters (TM), it will do wonders for your professional and personal life. Go at least once a week, more if you can. Get involved, get the materials, work your way through it. You'll meet and network with new people, which will also make a huge difference in life. Note: don't shit where you eat, that includes your TM, at least until you've established yourself as a regular for a month or so. Vasiliy's post has good solid intros
/r/askTRP13/07/16 10:14 PM
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Subjective scale of 1-7 ( 1 = needs massive improvement, 4 = it's happening, 7 = ownership ) Health Fitness lifting -4- I miss half my lifting workouts skill (martial arts) -5- I go to every Krav session I can 3x/wk cardio -1- I want to add something here stretching -2- here and there, I need to schedule this shit meditation -2- does thinking about things while falling asleep count? Diet -5- I eat better than most people I know, working on losing some lbs Sleep -5- it's been improving Vices: Smo…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 05:40 PM
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Something along the lines of "Good job! Let's celebrate"
/r/askTRP08/07/16 03:26 PM
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agreed
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 05:55 PM
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“You are not your job, you're not how much money you have in the bank. You are not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet. You are not your fucking khakis...You are not special. You're not a beautiful and unique snowflake... You're the same decaying organic matter as everything else. We're all part of the same compost heap. We're all singing, all dancing crap of the world." Palahniuk has a lot of RP quotes.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 05:54 PM
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Oh I get it. I've been there and had the same thinking. Everytime it happened though there wasn't much of a "fuck yeah" feeling. Half the time They got in trouble and most if the time it's not worth the effort to try and plate them either. It's really best in the long run to just let it go and if it happens it happens. Besides, if they want to fuck k you, you will KNOW this fairly quickly upon meeting them. If they WANT to make it happen they will make it obvious and not fuck around with lunches…
/r/askTRP02/07/16 08:04 PM
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Rp in Marriage: At least 1.5 years (used http://www.redective.com/ ) to find when I created this alt. (Look at your 'word frequency' for a laugh) Dread Level: Shit level. I've used it like a buffet and didn't follow month by month, nor taken from every level, yet. Recently updated wardrobe. Martial Arts for at least a year solid, lifting for a few months again now. Married for: 3 years (this time) Sex: Not where I want it, better than before. How are you?: I'm great. Recently rediscovered the lo…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 12:25 AM
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Did you read on the nexus about DMT (or anywhere) in any depth before you tried it?
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 08:31 PM
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It seems you need to explain your first sentence a little more.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 08:30 PM
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Protect your hands If you're still using them for surgery and decide to lift and/or take up a martial art then do what you can to protect your hands. Use chalk for lifting (lifter's chalk, liquid chalk) Use it liberally to fill the crevices in your hands to prevent calluses. Use sparring gloves for martial arts. Mind if I paraphrase the other part of your question? You want to know if you're still a man without your money and you're beginning to question the true quality of the women you attract…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:37 PM
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I appreciate the response. Sounds like something I'd like. Adding it to my list.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/16 02:27 AM
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How do you like "Thinking, Fast and Slow"?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/16 12:15 AM
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I think there's a definite market for in home swab tests.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 11:36 PM
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Where do you live?
/r/askTRP27/06/16 03:30 PM
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You need a perspective change. Just because women are hypergamic doesn't mean that you can induce a branch swing. I "lost" the competition Yup, you also chose the competition too. You are seeking to validate your qualities against the guy the woman is with, you want to know you are better than him and are basing that on if she chooses to be with you. And that's where you've made a poor choice. A woman that cheats is low quality and you are actively trying to find a cheating woman and gauging you…
/r/askTRP26/06/16 08:15 PM
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Yesterday...
/r/askTRP25/06/16 10:38 PM
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We don't all do that. RP is amoral, as in it doesn't preach specific morals. Those are for you to decide on what your comfortable with. Sometimes you change over time. I've done what you describe: fucking married/taken women, which resulted in destroyed relationships and closely held secrets. I've cheated. I left destruction. All before reading a word of TRP. Would I do it differently if I could go back. Fuck yeah. What I know now is that there were (and always will be) better options (better gi…
/r/askTRP25/06/16 10:36 PM
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"when they choose someone else" That's them not validating you as the better choice for them. This bothers you because you still rely on external validation. The greatest internal change you can make in your life with the greatest benefit is to be intrinsically motivated and self-validated. Seeking external validation is a habit that you've been taught. You don't need to seek it. Disconnect from the validation game by self-evaluating your actions and words and asking "am I doing/saying this to g…
/r/askTRP25/06/16 10:25 PM
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Care to share what your programming project is? (Edit: for below question, apparently I need to search more, found a better solution at https://www.readability.com/ but still would like an app like below.) Have you ever used Evernote Clearly(browser extension). It basically reformats a webpage to make it more readable. I think there are some grease monkey scripts available that allow finer control over the outcome. I'd read blogs more if there were consistency between formatting with a focus on …
/r/becomeaman24/06/16 09:58 PM
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For clarity of reading you might want to spell out which version of AM you are using: at the beginning of your post you write "AA and AM" which I interpreted as "Agree and Amplify and Amused Mastery" so it was a bit odd when reading through some of it I kept hearing "Amused Mastery" instead of what you meant "Abundance Mentality"
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/16 05:46 PM
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How old are you? What kind of shape are you in? Good job? Good money? Music tastes? How would you generically define yourself? When you think about going out, what places in Phoenix come to mind (Scottsdale, Tempe, West Gate, Chandler, DT Phx). Do you see what I'm getting at? There are a lot of variables to the demographics of this situation. Have you read the newest version of Models by Mark Mason (2016)? ISBN 1463750358 One of us could say "Hey yeah let's go hang" but 99 times out of 100 it's …
/r/askTRP23/06/16 09:10 PM
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Dude it's a mix of everything. If you're waking up with a woody, then you are physically just fine. Therefore it's all in your head man. Performance anxiety is a temporary thing and will go away. You didn't save face by pressure flipping, that's just bullshit and you know it. It's not her fault you whack it too much. Keep on with your plan of stopping the porn and jerking off. Here's a solid, IF this happens the NEXT time, don't give up, make a smooth transition back into some foreplay. If it pe…
/r/askTRP23/06/16 08:57 PM
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You mean hoping for different advice? Not better...
/r/askTRP23/06/16 08:50 PM
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Yes. Not all meditation is about the physical form/posture but it helps. Also do some ab/core work. It'll help more than you think.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 05:11 PM
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STFU with your "never"'s. Pick yourself up, improve, and get back in the game.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 10:50 PM
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You have a victim mentality, not one of ownership. I know your intent was to post about her having the upper hand because she's a female but your presentation tells another story. Being in marketing you might want to take an objective look at what you wrote and see what you were actually selling.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 10:49 PM
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"what kind of tape?" No I get it and love the reference
/r/askTRP17/06/16 06:01 PM
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Love the Foundation series. No film will ever do it justice. Programming: break it down into manageable chunks, map out the major chunks, then map the major chunk you're working on into detail. Work on that. Identify independent parts that you can work on if you get stuck on another. Move it forward a little every day. Consider reading Zen to Done by Leo Barbauta, or his blog Zenhabits. Or go full on and read The Power of Habit. Physical: that first physical step is the hardest for you. So skip …
/r/becomeaman17/06/16 04:03 PM
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It's been 20hrs OP! What did you do!?
/r/askTRP15/06/16 10:09 PM
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How much time do you think you have?
/r/askTRP15/06/16 07:14 PM
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Or you're still so drunk you don't care how stank she is.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 10:14 PM
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I'm impressed you got gilded in here.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 10:10 PM
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Someone understands data collection!
/r/askTRP08/06/16 07:17 PM
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There's strength in consistency Your father didn't invest in you so you could slack when things got tough. He'd want you to be successful. Keep your blades sharp so you can keep cutting through life. Take a day off from everything if you must. Two days off from half your shit but no more. The activity will move you through it. Get enough sleep, food, and time alone to remember the good things about your dad.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 03:24 PM
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Do you think those kids would rather not exist? Seems like the trade off is still in the kids favor.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 03:05 PM
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Freeze is very common. I think of it as the midway between fight or flight. That's why you hear people yelling during emergencies. They're the ones that figured out for themselves whether to fight or flight and are instinctively sharing that info with others...at full volume Same thing happens in combat. We do our best to train the flight out of you then we're left mostly with fighters and freezers. The fighters are the ones smacking you in the helmet telling you to start shooting back.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 03:21 AM
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5 million...half invested for the future. Half remaining goes to current debts and....the rest gets invested for the future. 5 million doesn't last long if you think you're rich. Okay fine get a nice car and some clothes and hookers and blow. Or strippers and shrimp. Edit: whats that saying women have? If you can't handle me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best. Perfect example of not rooting through yesterday's garbage.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 03:13 AM
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don't shit where you eat
/r/askTRP07/06/16 03:10 AM
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Um, in that case you prepare by plating or texting her. You basically just said you were a placeholder for something better than you.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 07:38 PM
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Desist the day!
/r/askTRP06/06/16 07:36 PM
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Too bad you couldn't get a video and watch your interactions afterwards. What was it like? Was it just the guys lead on talking while girls listen. Did you ever just sit there and not say anything when in front of a girl you didn't like? Actually, what was the spiel you used?
/r/askTRP04/06/16 04:48 AM
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Frame is a number of things, a sum greater than its parts. Perception is only a part. You broke cohesive frame and gave her a perception of you that you regret. You can't take that memory away from her but you can make it fade. That doesn't matter though because you can let her go, next. NMMNG, WISNIFG, and read a book on CBT. Don't think of Frame as in a picture frame that holds an image you're trying to portray. Think of Frame more in the framework sense, a structure, a building. You have a fo…
/r/askTRP04/06/16 03:56 AM
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For me, being Stoic means having control over what you let affect you. Whether it be funny or sad, its your choice to laugh or cry. Laugh at the good stuff, and just acknowledge the rest.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 03:43 AM
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Haven't but I'm assuming it'd be great for frame and game.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 03:37 AM
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ha, I needed that ride on the sarcasm train today.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 06:41 PM
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I've confused myself, which last one don't you like?
/r/askTRP02/06/16 02:10 AM
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All of them Today? Besides you? probably more than you one more will be enough a million 22 and a half I'm a virgin I lost count none, I want you to be the first I'm saving myself for marriage enough to know I don't need to answer that question I plead the fifth Is this a competition? and for really persistent ones: That you're STD free and that's all the matters (assuming that you are) "If you want to know how you measure up, the fact that you're my girl right now should enough of a sign. So ke…
/r/askTRP01/06/16 11:57 PM
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Injuries suck, work around them as much as possible and don't let it be an excuse to take a day off.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 08:35 PM
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They took our jobs! In most cases, the instructions are right on the side of the machine. That removes most of the reason to talk to a person. Machines do the balancing for you which leads to underdeveloped potential which can lead to injury later. Try your 1RM on a machine for almost any movement, then try it with free weights. There's plenty written on the subject.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 04:17 PM
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Your second bullet for the gym, no. Avoid the machines, but if you see someone in good shape doing an exercise you're not familiar with or know why people do it, ASK THEM. "Hey, you seem to know what you're doing, that exercise, whats it called and what is it good for?" That should lead to a short conversation. Be prepared to say thanks and move on.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 02:44 PM
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Plate status has its perks too.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 02:35 PM
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Ha, I enjoyed the response. Abby has some wisdom.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 02:33 PM
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Plaid mini skirt too
/r/askTRP01/06/16 02:31 PM
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Post some example text transcripts or screenshots and we'll give you some feedback.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 02:30 PM
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People WANT to spend their money. They pay for the perceived value and/or the thrill of the purchase. You know the product/service better than they do so your perception is different. The saying "a woman doesn't enjoy owning a purse, she enjoys shopping for a purse" is relevant here. Some people might NEED it, some WANT it, some just want to say they BOUGHT it. It's not up to you to decide if the product/service is going to satiate them, that's their choice. People are generally idiots. They're …
/r/askTRP01/06/16 02:28 PM
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How's that working out for you?
/r/askTRP01/06/16 02:11 PM
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There's basically 5 levels. In all levels you should be practicing the movements on others in the class. Levels 1 and 2 are foundational so it'll be mostly light touch. My instructor mixes in no partner, with partner, and with pads to reach higher impacts. Levels 3 and up you (and others in the class) should be wearing protective gear and reaching fight level intensities. Typically levels 1 and 2 can take anywhere from 4 to 8 months to get through. By then end of that you should have an idea of …
/r/askTRP01/06/16 02:09 PM
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Go do it. Most schools will let you attend first class for free. You'll start at the bottom and relearn a lot of stuff. You should be sweating through most of the classes.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 02:02 AM
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Highly.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 02:01 AM
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Would you happen to live in AZ? Don't shit where you eat, especially in the legal land, even as an intern. Yes, sex runs rampant in the law firms but it can bite you in the ass later.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 12:07 AM
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How long has your redpill journey taken so far? It sounds like you're in an optimal position to get the readings and fitness foundations in place. A lot of guys would love a Walden Pond scenario
/r/askTRP27/05/16 07:15 PM
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Good on you for working on self-improvement. Keep in mind without knowing your history we can only assume the worst when you say you live with your parents and are 35. Long drives in isolated areas for a first date with a chubby guy are well into the creepy zone, avoid that. Movies are generally horrible first date ideas. Dates are 'intended' for getting to know each other. If you're in shape enough to handle a hike without looking winded with a heavy coat of sweat AND she's into fitness/health …
/r/askTRP27/05/16 03:27 PM
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Well, you could do her next guy a favor and: "If you want attention you're going about it the wrong way. Blowing up my phone with this drama will not convince me this is a good relationship. If you really do want to salvage anything then you will stop until I contact you again. Expect at least a week as punishment" Obviously tailor if you want. Then next
/r/askTRP26/05/16 02:13 AM
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I love this. We need more of that in here. Real world, positive effect of embodied masculinity. "still trying to figure out if he's supposed to cry or not" Aside from infancy, kids perpetuate this because they aren't taught to stuff it like you showed him in a masterful way. Think back 60,000+ years when a yelp from a thorn might lose dinner for a tribe, it was essential for the hunters to learn discipline. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/16 02:04 AM
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That's great structure right there. Shows the parents a true example. I bet there's been some osmosis of that concept into their family life too.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/16 01:58 AM
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"Happy? Maybe... You'd be happier with my dick in your mouth" Sounds like you're sliding downhill, time to step it up and overtake her nonsense with amplified script flip.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 06:17 PM
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Ignore the first statement but save that last line for that time. Please come back report her reaction.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 06:14 PM
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Good on you for seeking advice on threesomes. Good on you for taking the slow road to that with your LTR as /u/rpswinger said. You do have more options than what you listed. I've read way too many stories about threesomes gone wrong because they were rushed. Most of the time it's the LTR that experiences intense insecurity and jealousy as /u/fnordsnord mentioned. A key idea is the more Alpha you are the more willing to share you a women will be. Although, in a LTR there is a need for some beta (…
/r/askTRP18/05/16 05:35 PM
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There's some good tips in this post by /u/just_another_pua copied and pasted here for your convenience. There's more in the post about logistics, kitchen, etc. Check it out Bedroom Cleanliness is next to godliness. Keep your place clean. I don't mean it has to pass the white glove test at all times, but shit, keep it in order guys. For me, it's always better to go to her house when it's time to get down to business, but we all know that's not always possible. A nice looking pad goes a long way i…
/r/askTRP18/05/16 02:12 AM
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Sounds like you've been walking on eggshells and that sucks given that there are real world tasks that need to be accomplished. My ex was like that. I've had success with "Hey, I know you're capable of being stronger than that" or "tougher than that." Are the bills something that can be split evenly (e.g. you pay two of them that equal five of the ones she pays, or similar. Assuming you're 50/50 splitting them)? You could pay your half, inform her what you did and instruct her to do her part. Co…
/r/askTRP17/05/16 05:39 PM
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There's a saying I tell females "If you want a guy that drives a BMW go hang out at the BMW dealership." Same goes for everyone else, define what you want then go to where it is to start. You want higher quality, you need to go where the higher quality is. Can you describe your ideal girl?
/r/askTRP17/05/16 05:23 PM
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Can you afford a lawyer/mediator to handle those communications for you until things are finalized on paper? With your son as a priority, and the way you described interactions, it might be best to put separation between you and the emotional manipulation tactics.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 05:17 PM
1

Agreed. The Wikipedia page sheds some lights on its origins and reception from way back in 1936. There's a critique in there that points to its darker side. I just learned there's an updated 2011 version, might have to reread it now.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 10:49 PM
1

Reply with "Come over on <day> at <time> with the ingredients for <your favorite dish> and we'll 'talk' while you cook/bake in nothing but an apron" <day> and <time> is a day/time you're usually home doing important home stuff like studying/reading/whittling small wooden lions.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 09:46 PM
1

Imagine that you are a brand new saw. Every time you talk to or have that plate over you are using the saw. Eventually the saw will get dull. Sharpen the saw!
/r/askTRP16/05/16 08:46 PM
4

Reply "You look even prettier with me between your legs ;)" As far as not finishing, just keep initiating with her and she'll be fine
/r/askTRP16/05/16 08:15 PM
5

You are not Jesus. You cannot save people. No matter how "ideal" in society's eyes you become, it will not change others. You are only responsible for yourself.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 08:10 PM
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I was unreasonably sore for days after martial arts no matter how well I stretched, ate, slept, or hydrated. I turned to a Personal Trainer/nutritionist friend and explained the situation. Without pause he said "You need creatine" After some research and recommendations I went with ON Creatine (Optimized Nutrition, it's a micronized form so it dissolves better). Within days the achy soreness lasted less and less. Then I started getting really hungry. The creatine was basically making sure my mus…
/r/askTRP16/05/16 08:06 PM
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Witty banter/shit talking/roasting are usually more prevalent in environments where higher testosterone is a requirement. E.g. combat units, SWAT, contact sports, the club. Being skilled at it AND being able to dish it out (and take it) shows that you DGAF about the target of the wit's response (or outcome) which indicates higher value than the recipient of your razor sharp wit. This translates directly into playful banter with women and improves your frame when used for AM and A&A. Consider "Ho…
/r/askTRP16/05/16 03:24 PM
1

"Yeah we could hang out too"
/r/askTRP14/05/16 04:10 AM
2

"Demand huh? Get over here and earn it."
/r/askTRP14/05/16 04:07 AM
1

Or "if you can get here in the next 15 mins I'll do something with those legs.."
/r/askTRP14/05/16 04:04 AM
1

It would seem so. Is this a good time to drop the mic? I should AskTRP if it is.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/16 03:35 PM
1

Fairly certain this scene was covered in Hitch. beta movie btw
/r/askTRP12/05/16 04:49 AM
1

WTF? That was not the response I expected from him. I expected one of his more predictable 4chanesque type remarks. Hope he's alright.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/16 01:36 AM
1

Ah, I gotcha. I was thinking of it more in terms of measuring whether someone in general is enervating or energizing. I suppose you could tally state changes over time to find a generalization of a persons affect. You're right though, this is highly qualitative, relative, and subjective. If a girl's favorite rock star is standing on the stage four feet away from her, playing her favorite song, there'd be little you could do to energize her in your favor...in that moment. If you're a fan of readi…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/16 10:12 PM
3

I noticed you didn't turn down the hug. why do you think strangers on the internet TRPers and MRPers in TRP and MRP care about you? FTFY In TRP and MRP especially, we have shared attributes, identity, goals, interests, and attitudes. The majority want a better life/version of themselves and are here to learn the ways that Betageddon didn't teach or show. We have fought, are fighting, or will fight the same battles; there is an inherent interest in understanding how others manuevered successful o…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/16 09:50 PM
1

Jet Li Ron Jeremy Stalin Hillary Rodham Clinton Al Pacino Danny Trejo Source: HeightDB.com
/r/askTRP11/05/16 08:08 PM
3

When you say afraid of confrontation Do you mean that you're afraid of being hurt or losing control and/or hurting others too much?
/r/becomeaman11/05/16 07:17 PM
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Enervating vs. Energizing Now that I’m aware of this concept, I’m trying to identify concrete action to take. My current hangup is pushing through the “failing try-hard” feeling I get when I attempt game with my wife and she doesn’t respond. How are you measuring if you're energizing vs enervating with others besides your wife too?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/16 07:14 PM
3

I disagree and think you need a hug.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/16 07:05 PM
2

at some point the follower has to respect the leader No, they first must decide if they want to be a follower, then they follow someone that can lead them. I know leadership I was an infantry company commander No, you know some leadership. You're used to Command Authority; Soldiers performed for you because they were obligated to or their lives quickly went to hell with little repercussion for you if any (Think article 15, UCMJ, etc.). You don't have that type of Power in a marriage, yet. In con…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/16 06:45 PM
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One fucking habit at a time. Read the Power of Habit.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 06:38 AM
1

Maintain: Frame: It's solid right now and has been for awhile. Reading: everyday, even if I don't spend the whole time on one text, I'll jump around to different ones depending on mood. Rereading MMSLP right now. School: Progressing through my degree 4.0, slow and steady (even though it's taken a fuck ton of years) What I'm improving: Fitness: Broke my foot last year dodging one of the horses, used it as an excuse to slack for several months. Back into Krav, feeling great. Improved Diet and Supp…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 10:17 PM
1

You're welcome. It's something I've considered from time to time. I might ask a few attorneys what their thoughts are on the process. If the She-Ra man haters club continues growing and influencing the legal system, it'll be nice for many men to have this option.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 08:17 PM
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Obligatory: the laws lean towards the woman having control. So remove their control by removing the woman (as much as possible) You can MGTOW the whole thing by yourself: It'll be a bit more expensive though. Women donate eggs just like Men do with sperm. You can go through selection criteria to choose the eggs of a woman you deem to be the best fit mate for producing healthy children. You can hire a Surrogate mother (this is the weak link in the chain depending on local laws, do your research).…
/r/askTRP10/05/16 03:59 PM
2

See if there's a subreddit that deals music composition, if there isn't one then start one.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 03:01 AM
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Ha, that made me think of a good place to find those and it just so happens to be a challenging place to practice your game: church on a Sunday.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 11:52 PM
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Have you found any producing subreddits or sites on which you can get productive feedback on your music? apps to use etc? I know very little about composition but here's how I felt with each track: The Rain: Piano was too slow and harsh. I wanted it to go faster I face the wall: Piano felt too slow again. Then it picked up again and I liked it but then it slowed down too much again. Sneaking around: I like how it starts, expecting epic. Don't like the winds(?). Feels like I'm waiting on guitar t…
/r/askTRP09/05/16 11:24 PM
2

I've been looking for some new music for lifting, mind sharing what you've made so far?
/r/askTRP09/05/16 08:42 PM
3

Is your Red Pill Value (RPV) high enough to be asking High RPV EC's out on a date? Seems you are seeking external validation of where you are and where to go next. You're fine, you're going to be fine. Look up the stages of loss/disconnect (there's a post somewhere equating them to taking the red pill). If you read enough AskTRP you'll find answers to questions you have. The search works wonders. If you can't find your answers ask your questions so that others may benefit from the answers.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 06:59 PM
1

Which country? If you speak of your failure in absolutes then you will absolutely fail. Make a list of your wins, no matter how small, from the past week/month/year. Not talking just game, any and all wins. A Gratitude List. Perhaps you are dragging around a little storm cloud that is affecting your game. Remember, there is most definitely someone that has it worse than you right now but is maintaining a positive outlook and will improve their position. You can do the same. 30yo is nothing, you'…
/r/askTRP09/05/16 03:08 PM
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Excellent contribution with lots of truth. Younger guys take note and you will save yourself a world of hurt. The ability to spot these red flags is affected by your frame, specifically the part of your frame that allows you to look at things objectively, as a casual observer (from outside the situation). Always always always practice outside observation of your situation with anyone that you are about ti give more access to your life. I'd like to modify the cooking bullet to "She doesn't know h…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 02:56 PM
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"The written word cannot convey my awesomeness" "I'll tell you when we meet up"
/r/askTRP09/05/16 04:08 AM
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Dude, listen to Vasilly and NEXT the fuck out of that situation. Unless you just like filling your plate up from the "need more problems in my life" buffet.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 04:05 AM
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As far as LTR and non-boring sex goes read up on the MRP materials that cover married sex so you have your toolbox ready to go the next time you find yourself in a LTR. As far as a non-boring LTR goes /u/bsutansalt 's comprehensive stickied post links to his post on goal setting. Once you have clearly defined goals in place you can use those to further refine your concept of a potential LTR that would support those goals and find one that can keep you interested (e.g. a girl that always seeks to…
/r/askTRP09/05/16 03:59 AM
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Soft next: She's not putting energy into meeting up, she has some other priority, no big deal, move on. When its your turn she'll contact you, then you can work your game better.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 03:44 AM
2

You don't, there's no such thing as a "redpill goodbye letter." So you stumbled upon this magic box with a big red pill inside, you're sucking it down the best that you can. You're starting to imagine a better life for yourself on the other side, but you're angry and starting to throw a bitch fit in your life before you even begin to get that big red pill down your throat. Stop being dramatic. Calm down, stfu, you're still young, you have a lot going for you. All you have to do right now is work…
/r/askTRP09/05/16 01:20 AM
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This and your other posts show that you have minimal understanding of TRP. You will benefit tremendously if you go into monk mode while you read the Red Pill Primer (linked in the sidebar as well). While reading the material, make connections between the concepts presented and examples from your own life. Resist the temptation to throw a bitch fit until you've finished the readings.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 09:45 PM
1

You're more likely to get a productive response if you edit your post and format it a bit to make it easier to read.
/r/TRPOffTopic08/05/16 09:27 PM
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Lemons for coffee? I'm going to try that.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 09:15 PM
1

I think some of these replies didn't read your whole post. This is a good start to recover g from the shit test failure. I would have said "I'm not putting the dishes away in an alternating order. You want it done that way, you do it yourself. I don't have time for that" and you can still say that.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 07:42 PM
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It's been a few hours since your lunch with her. Update us OP.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 07:15 PM
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She didn't if she said "we better hang out soon", your next reply would be to give her a day, time, and place with instructions on what to wear like the other post.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 02:58 AM
1

Because this is a LTR: Consider planting a seed the next time the friend's name comes up: "yeah about that, how does she add value to your life?" When she presses for what you mean: "She's openly cheating on her husband, X, Y, and Z. Birds of a feather flock together and all that and you aren't the same birds." (xyz = other negative attributes your LTR has mentioned). If your perceived SMV is high enough you could even (or just) say something along the lines of "I don't condone cheating and have…
/r/askTRP06/05/16 02:20 AM
1

Two suggestions: Daily Meditation/Reflection: in the morning plan your day then sit for five minutes and think about how detached from the outcome you are. At night make a list of what you've accomplished then sit for five minutes and think about letting it go. And check out /r/Stoicism.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 01:47 AM
1

Hmm, it appears my memory is experiencing a fault. Some books have it and some don't. Second paragraph on this page shows that some books have free narration https://www.amazon.com/gp/feature.html?docId=1002872331#faq This link will show you which of your kindle books have an upgrade ($) to audible. https://www.amazon.com/gp/audible/matchmaker?ie=UTF8&ref_=wfv_store_mm_link& Make sure you're logged in when you go to the second link. Amazon can be funny like that, it's hard sometimes to find thos…
/r/askTRP04/05/16 04:09 PM
1

Amazon Kindle Unlimited and Prime has many audio books included in the cost. Additionally, there's a good amount of TRP books available for free reading through Kindle Unlimited as well.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 12:23 AM
2

I've been in your shoes. Here's a few points. It's your job to help them. You were hired to do that, right? You agreed to the job requirements by taking the job. It'd be a shame to lose your job because you didn't help one more client. From a Veteran's stand point: Depending on branch of service and experience, you're most likely used to up front, to the point interactions. It drives us fucking crazy when civilians don't act with awareness, urgency and purpose. Part of our 'reintegration' issues…
/r/askTRP04/05/16 12:15 AM
2

The text for your question is more about an ideal alpha, like Zeus. Yes, we exist, we're everywhere. Being an Alpha is also relative. Think of it as a gradient, like on a sliding scale with Beta at one end and Alpha on the other, but more of a circle so there's different vectors of Alpha. For example, as /u/Guillz said "Alpha is a description of a dominant and aggressive individual..." and apply that to different areas you take interest in. You could be dominant in one situation and not in the o…
/r/askTRP03/05/16 11:49 PM
1

/u/quicklogaccount is right. You're not as golden as you think you are and if others are threatening you to stay away then they aren't as beta as you think they are. You're overdoing it and burning some social bridges. Think about how far you can push a beta. Now think about what it would take for you to tell someone else to cut their shit. Alternatively, revaluate your style, it might just not be meshing as naturally as you'd like. You might come across forced.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 11:22 PM
3

I haven't found the perfect ride yet... You up for the job?
/r/askTRP03/05/16 11:15 PM
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Texting is for logistics.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 11:13 PM
1

I'm saving myself for the apocalypse.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 11:12 PM
2

Read on everything on the sidebar in /r/TheRedPill
/r/askTRP03/05/16 06:13 PM
2

Alright, glad we worked that out.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 06:58 PM
2

That's fine, that's something you'll overcome with practice. The fear comes from you knowing they're going to shit test you. Start smaller, read up and start passing shit tests, and keep playing the game. Read some of the PUA material on opening a set.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 06:20 PM
2

There's a little known book called "Rejection Proof", I've met the author, Jia Jiang, an unassuming chinese guy that one day said 'fuck it' and challenged himself. He has a youtube channel that documents a lot of his experiment. He basically would ask people for ridiculous things that most people would EXPECT someone to say no to. A surprisingly large amount of people would say yes. The book is not manosphere or Red Pill related, but should be. If you don't want to read the book or watch the vid…
/r/askTRP02/05/16 06:07 PM
1

WTF is going on in this thread? OP, /u/play_time_is_over called it what it was, a shit test; and /u/bumbuff has the best answer so far: REVERSE and amplify. Some examples of flipping the script that come mind (if you don't give a shit about her feelings at this point, imagine saying these in good humor with DGAF attitude): Wants to marry a rich man: "Oh that sounds like a great plan! Are we talking about a shotgun wedding?" (or whatever the equivalent is of a forced marriage is in your part of t…
/r/askTRP01/05/16 05:10 AM
2

Exactly, terminology and ability to use key jargon so fluently after just a week of exposure... Someone should study her study habits because it seems to be effective.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 03:44 PM
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A few points: Your rant should've ended with lesson one. She snooped because his SMV increased. There was Dread. IF what she says is true, that he's apologizing, etc, then he broke frame and even in that lame situation he can regain it with cleaner work. Archwinger is right. It's a fake. The writing style is too masculine and seems awfully similar to someone else in that thread that's posting plenty. I'm betting you can copy and paste "her" text into a text analyzer and it'll show you the writin…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 10:14 AM
2

I've been divorced, now married again (then found TRP). You're going to go through a spin cycle when you get home. You will experience doubt, regret, anger, acceptance, etc. Maintain frame through all of this, especially with yourself. You don't need to announce shit, that's dramatic. You can inform people as the need arises. E.g. calling up a single friend to wing-man you and he says "Dude you're married" "Nope not anymore, let's go have fun" Now, when your spin cycle takes you to bars, clubs, …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 10:05 PM
1

I completely understand sowing the oats. My brother and his wife have had several threesomes. Have you considered proposing that to your wife? I don't know how one would successfully do that but doing includes her in the decision to stick your dick in another woman and potentially brings an element of fun for her into it too. I have other married friends that have done so successfully. Everyone is still happily married. I cheated on my first wife and feel horrible about it because I broke a prom…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 04:41 PM
1

Does the backup site actually contain backups of the posts? My understanding is that the format is extremely similar to what we use now, along with being able to reserve our Reddit username it makes sense that a script/bot could farm out TRP subs and migrate existing content there, posted under correct usernames etc.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 03:54 PM
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I would just like to point out the author of that supposed email is most likely FEMALE. I thought the style and words used were curiously not masculine so I ran it through a text analyzer which confirmed my suspicions that it was female. http://imgur.com/DBVt44X I used http://www.hackerfactor.com/GenderGuesser.php to do this. Other tools exist on the net.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 06:05 PM
1

You're right. I have my own experience with a lot of people in AA. It's sad how far someone has to go to hit rock bottom. Problem with support is that a great deal of her 'friends' are drinking friends. Every interaction requires alcohol. I'd say she can reach out to any of these and half would say "fuck him, let's get a beer" and the other half would waffle between "well...how much do you usually drink" and "he would know better than us because he spends the most time with you" I'm hesitant to …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/15 10:16 PM
1

Yup, I've got no problem tossing the $1ks of liquor to demonstrate commitment to this (the liquor is mine, I barely touch it). Problem is her friend/renter that rents the guest house. One of the worst enablers. Always walking out with arm loads of beer "heyyyyy who wants a beer!!" as I sit and think to myself "heeyyyyyy who wants their liver!"
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/15 12:25 AM
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I'm listening to her in my head already with the broken record "I'm not allowed to have any friennnnddds" My response is always: You are, just not shitty ones. This is going to be a character maker of a conversation.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/15 12:24 AM
3

Your posts confuse me.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/15 12:23 AM
2

look up body weight exercises Also resistance bands can be bought for cheap if you want to simulate weights (they're good for travel too). You can be more assertive about the menus in the house or adjust your portions to significantly smaller.
/r/becomeaman02/05/15 12:22 AM
2

What was the answer? There's a hundred 12 step programs, most rehabs push them, there's books like 'Rational Recovery'. What worked for you?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/15 11:24 PM
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This is what I'm going to suggest. I'll even do it with her. I've got no problem going dry.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/15 05:31 PM
2

How did that conversation go down? Did you setup the circumstances? Would love to hear some talking points/quotes from it especially how you framed it.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/15 05:29 PM
1

I did nearly the same. You'll do even better having TRP awareness. Here's what I'd change: Take advantage of Tuition Assistance while you are in the Marines. It's a few thousand dollars per year that you can use to pay for courses. You will need to pay for books/resources separately. Enroll in an Associates with a school that will bring in Military training for credit. Your job will bring in more Science/Technology credit. Expect at least 9-12 college credits from your training. If you enroll in…
/r/askTRP01/05/15 04:01 PM
0

No shit. But it is a step forward.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 05:40 AM
0

If you don't want to up your sex moves then you can just gradually decrease contact with her. From what you've written it doesn't sound like she's done anything bad other than appear unenthusiastic about sex (which is something you can change by changing the sex). If you don't care about being an asshole you can just not contact her, when she contacts you and asks "whhhyyyy haven't you called?" you can just answer "You're boring"
/r/askTRP29/04/15 09:07 PM
5

Wife says, post-coitus: "with all of the problems, you've had with your height... Maybe we should think about getting a sperm donor." ...the fuck? I stopped reading right there. He should think about getting a new sperm collector. Great BP example though.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 08:50 PM
2

Get used to it. That's the way it will be with 99% of the women out there. Unless.... You become Brad Pitt, Bill Gates, or some kind of fucking hero. Which you won't. If she agrees to your suggestions etc then why the fuck are you complaining? "Hey bend over this table I wanna rail you" her "ok" you "I fucking hate you"
/r/askTRP29/04/15 08:44 PM
2

Are you done with your final? "I'm done with my final. Come over"
/r/askTRP29/04/15 08:37 PM
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No. That won't help shit unless you want to come across as insecure and beta.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 08:36 PM
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Seconded. OP needs to learn some moves. I wouldn't be surprised if it was all missionary and basically some flopping around while he breathes irradically into her face/ear with an awkward silence while he comes. Meanwhile she's thinking "I hope my hair isn't too messy" When she should be thinking "OMG...can't....think...need...the...D"
/r/askTRP29/04/15 08:36 PM
1

Chase or be chased. A woman is "chased all the time", usually when someone exhibits interest they'll naturally defend against the advance in whatever way. BUT THEN when someone is like "okay" and starts walking away or demonstrates the equivalence of abundance then the woman's interest is naturally piqued as she wonders "wait, what did I miss? He's just walking away or isn't as interested, I must be missing out on something here" at which point she starts doing the chasing. Note: They naturally …
/r/askTRP29/04/15 08:31 PM
1

just an "okay" I don't agree with saying "no problem" to anyone unless it's my employer and I'm on the clock. Saying 'no problem' decreases the spin rate of the hamster wheel. You want that thing to spin! I also feel it's beta to say to anyone other than a LTR (outside of work). Then just wait, as the other replies suggest, if she's interested she'll reschedule.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 08:17 PM
4

Just text "okay" then go silent. Seriously, how often does a test get rescheduled outside of the normal class hours?
/r/askTRP29/04/15 06:03 PM
1

You're thinking of Bob Ross
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 03:51 PM
2

By showing up for training he demonstrated he doesn't want to be beta.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 03:37 PM
3

That wouldn't be their reaction. That's their normal behavior.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 03:36 PM
1

I like making informed decisions but there's not much to go on so this advice is strictly on the fact that you're 21. Enjoy your life. Don't let someone tie you down. Keep an eye out for signs of her trying to domesticate you. Have you seen the movie Don Jon? If not just watch the first half for a lesson, the second half...it just falls apart as a good movie.
/r/askTRP28/04/15 06:00 PM
1

Ah, I barely considered that but it sounds plausible. Good job on the new rules. I would take it one step further and have her get a restraining order/injunction against harassment or what ever equivalent there is in your area against him. Just to seal the deal. You can deliver it yourself to get the point across.
/r/askTRP28/04/15 02:31 AM
1

Amazing first time. You went full monty. Fucking great. Your dick will slip out less with practice, this combined with your sensitivity not existing is probably because of excessive masturbation. Knock that shit off as much as you can Now that you've had noir film sex you're going to want to rub it out for the memories. Don't...hold off. Go fuck those other girls. Have some fucking fun.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 08:48 PM
3

Friend zone them. Preselection is a great cheerleader.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 08:40 PM
1

Are you the rebound from the divorce or the reason for it?
/r/askTRP27/04/15 08:39 PM
1

Came to say the same. He was dedicated to 1k calories and it shows discipline in his body.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 07:55 PM
1

the meaning of life is to create meaning in life.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 06:38 PM
2

She's doing that because she isn't getting tingles from you. She's deleting them because she knows it'll hurt your relationship. Why haven't you asked her about the texts?
/r/askTRP27/04/15 06:37 PM
2

Your substantive response caused me to take pause and read through your post history. Your strong Christian background and red pill awareness are at odds. If you were to place yourself on the hierarchy of needs, you'd be near the top of the Esteem block, approaching the tip, Self-Actualization. In a cycle of experiential learning you've come full cycle a few times and because of your Christian and Married statuses you've had to skip some active experimentation and concrete experience (mostly as …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/15 05:28 PM
3

That's a beta game right there. In other words you're saying you'd rather expose yourself further to someone that's cheating and risk STDs/pregnancy/shit for a longer time when you can see from experience and what others have said that its time to next her. She either has or is planning to.At the very least its on her mind.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 12:55 PM
1

I'm laughing. This is funny but you have your answer right there. Wait a few days then text to meet up. You could always open up with "I'm not drunk. How do I get to your house?" for humor
/r/askTRP26/04/15 12:08 AM
3

This is one of those moment's where we need a triage chart as /u/TheGreasyPole suggested in another thread. Your post is confusing. Clear up some info so we know what's going on. Are you lifting What's your/wife's SMV? Which of the sidebar books have you read? Which level of dread are you at (either Athol's or BluePillProfessor's)? Also your plan is shit. You basically stated wanted to do all that so you could get a reaction from your wife similar to when you joked with some fat girl. (also don'…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/15 09:32 PM
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(accidentally hit cancel after typing out a reply) I've had similar with success. You have options. Be careful of oneitis. Ask her who this guy is, remind her that what she condones she promotes e.g. allowing the comment to just sit there without deleting it (she can delete it) promotes the idea that guys can suggestively come on to her. Someone pursuing a PhD should probably not allow the impression that comment gives. Further, that you won't put up with situations that suggest you aren't in a …
/r/askTRP25/04/15 07:33 PM
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I went to a small high school for about a year. Probably less girls but an even mix of male/female. I was King. Where are you at on the social status on the male side for the attributes physical/funny/smart? Approach Anxiety is an instinctual thing that comes from way back when if you talked to the wrong girl, an Alpha would charge out of the bushes and beat your ass. That's not going to happen. To practice, start small. When you're buying something somewhere and it's a female teller just say "H…
/r/askTRP25/04/15 05:58 PM
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I didn't see this in any of the other comments, how long have you been LTR? Are you both openly committed? Does her relationship status say 'in a relationship' or similar?
/r/askTRP25/04/15 05:50 PM
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you can create an 'EXs' group, assign her to that group and edit your privacy so you have to specifically select that group for an ex to see the post.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 05:32 PM
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You said i started a LTR with a girl i've met and i thought we clicked. I thought, perhaps i can be faithful and then you banged out other girls. You obviously don't want a committed LTR so don't commit to one, don't let someone think they're in one with you. It'll only create drama. Let your 'ltr' know that you want to enjoy this time and not be monogamous. She'll either be okay with it or not. If not, it doesn't sound like it'll affect you at all.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 03:03 PM
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and his fist tatted on her face?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 02:55 PM
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Hey OP, did she 'like' the comment he made? How did she, if she did, respond to the comment?
/r/askTRP25/04/15 02:50 PM
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Don't forget to read read read the TRP main and related subs.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 02:23 PM
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It's like the marshmallow experiment, but with a grown adult.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/15 02:21 PM
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You keep placing blame on her. The blame is on you because you couldn't be bothered to actually improve. You can't be the leader because you said you were, you need to earn that. This starts with internal change, paradigm shifts. Your thinking needs to change. It's been said over and over in this thread to you "you need to read the material"
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/15 02:18 PM
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You're not listening. If you don't fix yourself you will continue to have these problems with or without her. Read the pre-reqs.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/15 02:15 PM
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Great fucking story man. This read like the happy ending of a movie, perhaps an alternate ending of American Beauty
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 06:26 PM
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Welcome. I too am in a 2nd marriage (found TRP in the second). You sound like you're doing OK but can benefit greatly from marriedRP (as we all can) Best advice is read the prereqs in the sidebar before making any demands of your wife or statements about "how things are going to be". Its best to have a complete picture and plan before taking action. But start lifting right away and get a hobby that takes you outside of the home. Something in the yard is okay, away from the house is better too. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 06:22 PM
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I've read NMMNG and am almost done ready MMSLP ...her SMV is significantly higher than mine due to quite a bit of weight gain on my part over the past 6 years (190-240) ...can't even blame her for not being attracted to me any more. I attempted to initiate sex after about 2.5 weeks without (I also just got back from a business trip). She says no, that she is tired. I just said OK and then started masturbating in front of her. I would've waited until SMV's are equal or yours is better before pull…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 04:26 PM
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There's an edit button/link
/r/askTRP23/04/15 11:02 PM
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Seduction is where you seduce them, if you're red pill then they seduce themselves unto you.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 09:03 PM
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I'm going to check that out. I'm nostalgic about paper.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 06:04 PM
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This reads like a blue pill example who luckily dodged a bullet
/r/askTRP21/04/15 04:58 PM
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Why would you read it? Enjoy this. Its like you're looking a Gift horse in the mouth.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/15 03:58 PM
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It isn't just your career she should follow. She should follow you. If you are having regular (several times a week) sex, has she thought about the repercussions of that no longer happening? And if both of you stay monogamous how that could have a possible adverse affect? Does she understand if she doesn't go with and the relationship crumbles that she'll be losing a lot more than you but what you provide? I had a similar situation a few years ago. My wife made twice as much as me. I decided it'…
/r/askTRP21/04/15 04:39 AM
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If she stays would the increase in income offset the ability for great vacations with each other?
/r/askTRP21/04/15 03:15 AM
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Then it's a no-brainer. Go for it. The TRP risks are: The possibility you will be BB to your wife when she moves to Singapore with you. Pay extra attention to how much work you put into the job versus the marriage. Obviously you're established on the finances and moving up but the risk of branch swinging comes from the bored house wife and physical nature. Get your sex life together HOT and stay in shape. Make no excuses for gym time. If she places more emphasis on her job than the opportunities…
/r/askTRP21/04/15 02:05 AM
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The cure for Oneitis is all in perspective. One man's treasure is another man's trash
/r/askTRP21/04/15 01:39 AM
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Tricked? Were you expecting a LTR, consistent plate, or "for now"?
/r/askTRP21/04/15 01:36 AM
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How long do you expect to be in that position for? Will taking this position be a great deadend or open greater possibilities down the road? Have you compared cost of living? Have you done a comprehensive cost/benefits analysis?
/r/askTRP21/04/15 01:35 AM
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Was there anything rapey about your last encounter to make you paranoid?
/r/askTRP20/04/15 10:33 PM
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There's strength in consistency.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 06:04 PM
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Her social circle doesn't matter, ever for a first close. If it turns long term then it does matter only if they're the type to pressure her to branch swing. Which it sounds like they are. Your friend is right. Don't get hung up on it. Disinterested silence from you will cure what ails you.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 10:19 PM
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Sounds like she had an opportunity to branch swing, got about half way and then figured you were the better catch before letting go of the branch. She tested the waters. Or she did, realized her mistake and is trying to make up for it. If her friend is slutty, and you aren't fucking a few times a week then a next is in order.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 10:15 PM
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Stopping for a walker only works well if you have a unique car. Dispel the creepy by immediately saying "I'm going as far as Xth street, can I drop you along the way?" At a light its as simple as "what's your number?" If they ask "why should I give it to you?" You just smile and say "you know why..." If the light goes green take off and repeat at the next light "last chance..."
/r/askTRP19/04/15 10:09 PM
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You stated a short term goal of doing something nice for yourself. You can still do that by doing something to improve your position long term. If your parents have no problem with you staying at home while going to school then do this. Take 60% and buy a condo, take 30% to fix it up and...here's the flip...rent it out. You'll learn so much about what it takes to maintain a property, make money (hopefully), increase your assets, etc.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 06:31 PM
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You're on the right path. Keep reading. If you feel you're starting to get the hang of it read some more. Pay attention to the books that are cited here often and in related subs.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 03:45 AM
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No shit it doesn't take much effort, it shouldn't. Read the book, it'll take a few hours and you'll gain much insight
/r/askTRP19/04/15 03:39 AM
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That's not a reverse shit test. It's just a shit test or rather a fitness test, testing if you're fit for command. As long as you know that's how she works use it to your advantage. If you're in the mood, tell her not to do something "babe don't move that salt shaker" as soon as she does bend her ass over and fuck her for your pleasure only. Follow up with "you have a weird way of saying you want to get fucked"
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/15 07:19 PM
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You're being a chameleon. Nothing wrong with that except that without awareness of the potential pitfalls of being nice you are risking some future blowouts. I've done the same most of my life and really started experiencing happiness when I consciously worked on being an integrated male. If you put on an act for a woman (or anyone) then you are giving them power over who you are. You essentially devalue yourself in your own eyes. By not being true to your self you reinforce that you have no val…
/r/askTRP18/04/15 07:12 PM
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Before or after marriage?
/r/askTRP18/04/15 06:56 PM
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The Rationalization Hamster is covered in section 1.4 in the MMSLP. It centers around rationalizing how something (an act, thought, etc) is a good thing to do. An example he gives in the book is if you walk past a bread truck and the doors are open and no one is watching. If you are well fed, you would just walk past it and maybe wonder why the doors are open. If you're starving then you'll start to rationalize why it would be okay for you to steal some bread. The book goes onto other examples s…
/r/askTRP17/04/15 09:36 PM
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additionally, if you DON'T get a drink right away you always have an out in case the person you talk to ends up lame.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 09:23 PM
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You can have mine.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 09:21 PM
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I do blame weak males for society's sexual market "failurse". And you are right in doing so. There are exceptions to every rule/generalization but if you look over human history all the great things were thought-of/designed/planned-for/and made by men. One could argue that we, using our greater physical strength, forced the women into their position, and thus had more opportunities to do these things. Or someone could argue that as a species that's what they're genetically designed to do (care f…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 09:20 PM
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/u/fnordsnord is all over this, again. gotdamn he gives good advice. See here OP. You don't have a choice over what she decides to do. Yes AWALT but SABTO too. From the few words you've written about her she sounds outstanding. Life long dream? Cool! Go for it. Encourage the trip. If you don't you'll come across as insecure, distrusting, and needy; all traits that will push her away. You are both young. Give her a blind pass. Fnordsnord had spot on words for it. Or you could encourage it and sta…
/r/askTRP17/04/15 08:56 PM
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Things will be better until she decided she's paid for her crimes in full, then it will be back to normal... Cycle of abuse right there.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 08:47 PM
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I'll jump on this a little. If you go this route have friend consult a lawyer about preparing an anti-divorce-rate defense for when the daughter turns 18 and moves out. That would be a prime time to file immediately so he can cut the trash out of his life. The offensive strategy here would be that regardless of the poor example his wife set it was still important to provide a united family unit for their daughter and now that she's gone he no longer has a need for an unfaithful woman leaching of…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 08:46 PM
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You just presented a dangerous thought process with a slippery slope on each side. Taken to one extreme a woman can blame any of her cheating on her man for not being a sexy leader man with more than enough alpha traits. Imagine a world, similar to ours, where women are held accountable for nothing, including cheating, ever, because it's our fault. Ultimately, AWALT. Any woman is capable of leaving her man for another under the right circumstances. This is a prime example.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 08:43 PM
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Yup, demonstrating the feels for a girl early on essentially shows her you lost frame and she's in control. It takes time to establish a baseline foundation that women will take comfort in (and still be attracted).
/r/askTRP17/04/15 06:50 PM
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perhaps someone could design a bot that can be activated for a thread like remind me.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 06:37 PM
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we're more nimble in bed because we don't have to deal with long limbs getting in the way.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 06:04 PM
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5'7" high five to the face bro!
/r/askTRP17/04/15 06:03 PM
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Hey, regardless if Unicorns exist or not, you won't be able to trap one if you don't practice first. Also keep in mind women have the Clown Factor They can instantaneously go from a five to a seven simply by putting on the right clothes and makeup. Don't believe me? Search for 'porn stars without makeup' there's some before and after makeup pictures. Some women are so exceptionally skilled at clowning up they can go to an 8 or 9 in the right circumstances. So, when I look at a girl I do a "She's…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 05:09 PM
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It sounds like you're upping your approaches to deal with the sex denial and shit tests of your wife instead of handling them. Don't get me wrong, I love a good approach, smile and twinkle in the eye of whatever girl I was flirting with. If I want a little more rush I'll get their number. There's two reasons to do that if you're in a monogamous relationship, 1) to sharpen the saw, and 2) to validate yourself. Taking into account the fitness tests you're getting from your wife, it sounds like you…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 04:53 PM
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It turns to an IV drop because both parties get comfortable. The men relax and turn more beta and the women don't have as much interest in their 'man'. The man will usually keep providing resources and comfort to the woman regardless of how much she puts out. It can turn into a vicious cycle as you mentioned you can't negotiate (or demand) desire. This is covered well in MMSLP and some in NMMNG. The solution is plastered all over TRP (lift, self improvement, enhance your alpha traits, etc). It a…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 04:40 PM
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ah, totally misread that!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 04:14 PM
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But let us say she was thinking about cheating. What should I do? I'm sure my alpha is solid, she wants to be fucked these days and she's complaining she's unsure of me. Do I assure her I love her? Remember, you can't control others, only yourself. With that said, stay your course of self improvement. The thought that she's thinking of cheating, asks how you would react, right before a two week business trip... yeah. I'm not at a level yet where I feel confident I could handle that in stride. I'…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 12:18 AM
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/u/h22keisuke has a good point. My ex wife had super sensitive skin and if I wasn't freshly shaved she'd be bright red from a simple kiss.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 05:39 PM
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agreed. If I shave and put on a hat I get carded for cigarettes and have a much easier time flirting with the college girls. But when the facial hair grows out, it's five different colors.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 05:17 PM
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One of the best descriptions and examples of A&A I've read in awhile.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 09:30 PM
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Maintain frame and ignore her 'divorce' tantrum. Ignore, ignore, ignore. You've said she's thrown these fits in the past, to get your beta reaction. This time is different. Keep working on yourself and give her the ultra silent treatment. Now if she brings papers home, cool, "Time to split the bills. I'll be fine without you. Better go get a job." Short and sweet. Remember women are validated through emotion returns from the people in their life. Move her shit into another room, put a lock on yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 09:26 PM
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I'm thinking she read some TRP material and is trying to use it on you. Don't break frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 08:49 PM
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As of this writing there are three top level comments. I feel like this hasn't been answered directly yet. I'd also like some tools to use. Correct if I'm wrong OP, but it sounds like you're asking if there's anything else to do for when you are mad/disappointed/similar to something she's done and you're in silent/doing-your-own-thing mode and she asks "are you mad" Example: I don't like how much my wife drinks, she doesn't see it as a bad thing. It boils my blood. We've had fights about it. I'm…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 02:36 PM
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MMSLP talks about balancing alpha and beta traits in LTR and Marriages. It sounds like you need a little beta in certain spots but season heavily with alpha. For example, if she mentions she has to take mom to the hospital or wherever ask some questions about when, when finished, what's it about. Then surreptitiously set a reminder on your phone for 15 minutes before and 15 minutes after. Choose one of those to call her and check in. If she doesn't want to talk, ok. Don't get hurt by it, you did…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 01:01 AM
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Good post. Set reminders on your phone to remind you of the breaking free activities from NMMNG. As you read MMSLP you'll see where he breaks down the estrogen effect. I might suggest that the lower estrogen levels could be affecting her happiness (or don't) Where you're at right now disables the 'too late?' question. It no longer matters. I'm not saying start acting like you're splitsville already but continue on the self-improvement path. You've said some things out loud to her about what you'…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 12:54 AM
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It sounds like you had a covert contract (from NMMNG) going where you expected the wife to maintain the family interaction as you were. Ball games are long, 6th inning? I'm ready to go home, I'm sure she was approaching bored too. When she didn't maintain the covert contract you lost frame and pouted. Learn from it. If we're out somewhere and someone is attracting her attention. I do something else in another direction to bring it back. On the occasion that the person is a part of the group we'r…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 12:36 AM
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I was thinking this or one of her friends got it into her head that it's degrading and she shouldn't do it. Of course we all know it isn't degrading to make someone you care about feel good. I kind of wonder if she's taken a women's studies course recently
/r/askTRP15/04/15 12:23 AM
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Unfortunately girls are genetically predisposed towards taller guys but this is easily overcome through being better than them in other areas. As far as a direct answer, I wear boots when going out. The heels usually bring me up an inch or two. In the long run it doesn't matter though. Half my LTR through the years have been 4+ inches over me. Nice thing about it is I can scramble around them better in the bed than some gangly daddy long legs looking mofo.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 12:13 AM
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How often do you lift, do cardio, move around? If you have cold hands my immediate thought is poor blood flow which can usually be remedied through exercise.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 12:10 AM
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From what I've read it's the caffeine that causes a bad taste but a few cups of day won't hurt. If you're one of those energy drink consumers your health will benefit greatly from getting off those too.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 12:07 AM
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haha, good for you. Staying your course just might bring it all back inline. If it doesn't at least you'll be better off to get girls.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/15 07:43 PM
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You might know these things but I'll just rearrange them a little Muscle takes up much less space but weighs more than fat Muscle burns more calories then...fat (obviously) More muscle means more calories burned If you eat more than you burn it gets stored as fat. If you don't work muscle often enough it'll go away. If you're at the strength level you want then do maintenance workouts (same weights, just less pushing for gains) but cut back on your calories. You'll need to do some math to figure…
/r/askTRP14/04/15 06:16 PM
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If that's true she should be on her way then. Don't let it phase you. If she isn't on her way, then break contact.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 06:09 PM
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chill bruh. There is no chill button. jus askin if lifting is the end all be all. You come across as wanting permission to not lift, that somehow you'll magically find the short cut. Lifting is the shortcut. You don't need to spend a lot of time doing it, just do it right. There is more to gain from lifting than just bigger muscles. So if i want to attract those girls can i just stay skinny and work on other things that i think will be better for me? This right here...You wouldn't be asking for …
/r/askTRP14/04/15 06:06 PM
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Sounds just like mine except I didn't have a son. If you had to move out, no choice about it, what support could you get from your friends and family especially in regards to give room for you and your son? Have you spoken with a lawyer (or asked the legal subreddit) what options exist to get her out of the house?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/15 05:52 PM
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the ong sound stretches your vocal chords so they'll resonate slower. I don't know all the mechanics behind it but most vocal coaches would likely have you do that if you wanted to deepend your voice. I usually do that a few times before singing a lower toned song at karaoke.
/r/becomeaman14/04/15 05:43 PM
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Do you shower often enough? Are you smoking or drinking lots of caffeine?
/r/askTRP14/04/15 04:20 PM
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Warning: be careful of oneitis and be prepared to next her at the drop of a hat. Dear Reader, f you're not in a LTR stop reading this post I noticed you said your LTR is moving CLOSER to you, so I assume you're already in a long distance relationship with her. You can't control anyone but you can provide very strong reasons to obey. In this instance its the value of you and the relationship (for her). Female friends are just as likely to put her in a bad situation as male friends are. To answer …
/r/askTRP10/04/15 04:05 PM
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Are you here to argue? If you want gains with minimal work read the Four Hour Body, start with page 28, pay attention to the top part of that page Rapid Muscle Gain He spoon feeds you a workout that takes no more than two to four hours a month
/r/askTRP10/04/15 12:53 AM
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You need to lift or gtfo. Girls saying that is just a way to keep you under control. They are mostly genetically programmed to desire a stronger mate.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 12:18 AM
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In these posts you've read, have you paid attention to the parts where you need to give the impression that you are a busy guy with many social commitments? Even if your calendar is completely open and you're setting up a date still give the impression that the time you are allowing them to have with you is limited and you'll get a stronger response from them. Instead of: "Does tuesday night work? wednesday? thursday night? Do:The only night I have free is thursday night, but not before 7pm, I h…
/r/askTRP09/04/15 11:42 PM
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Yup. Have fun. Source: have friend with jacked body, huge nose, and very high count.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 10:55 PM
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Prioritize When you get into the office don't start working immediately, take about five to ten minutes to review and plan your day. List your MITs, plan breaks, etc. In your shoes I'd take a look at the redundant activities and see what can be automated, what can be delegated, what can be put off. Naps If you're working 12-14 hour days you need to have a break in the middle otherwise you will suffer from diminishing returns. You will be less effective, make more mistakes and work slower without…
/r/askTRP09/04/15 10:13 PM
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I'm surprised it isn't common knowledge that you can deepen your voice. Repeat this, try to lower your voice every two words: King Kong Ping Pong Ding Dong. Warning: Don't do this too much you'll strain and can injure your vocal chords. A minute or two once or twice a day over time will have results.
/r/becomeaman09/04/15 04:57 PM
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TL;DR You need to make time. You wouldn't happen to work for a law firm in Phoenix would you? I happen to know of a work environment exactly as you described. I know enough attorney's to know I made the right choice by not becoming one. anyways... Do you have an assistant that is only your assistant at the firm? Also, what kind of law do you practice? 80-90 hours a week suggests to me a few things. you're either truly overburdened (unlikely) or your time is being mismanaged and you're not being …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/15 06:33 PM
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ITT: We learn it's entirely up to us, we can't change/control others, just provide the evidence that they need to or else. This sucks. When I first met my wife I was 30 lbs heavier. I dropped the weight quickly (2 months) with just a diet change and coming off some meds. Fast forward to getting married, we're both the same size, great sex. Forward to recently, she's put on weight, she acknowledges it, she says she needs to get active. Case in point, this is the heaviest she's ever been in her li…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/15 06:03 PM
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As a general rule you should always EET somewhere else so you can bail if they misrepresent themselves.
/r/askTRP07/04/15 02:09 PM
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I think this is something we should all start doing collectively
/r/askTRP07/04/15 02:06 PM
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Practice Outcome Independence. Look up local Toastmasters near you, go to different groups until you find one that has what you're looking for. Most are generally the same but some are more laid back then others. You want the ones that follow protocol to a T. I have quite a few friends that are attorneys. One owns a large law firm. They go to Toastmasters. Also, sadly enough they don't seem to give a fuck when presenting. While I don't practice law, in my previous career I regularly led groups o…
/r/askTRP07/04/15 01:58 PM
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Posting to second this and add a few guidelines. I forget who, there's a PUA that wrote a book that mentioned you shouldn't invest more than 10 seconds in saying/replying to something. Make them do the bulk of the talking because it invests them in you. It's similar to getting someone to say 'yes' to a small favor. This translates to no more than 8-10 words in a text.
/r/askTRP07/04/15 12:23 AM
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yes this, don't get stuck in Anger. Remember anger is a result of another emotion. Practice realizing the original emotion, observing and acknowledging it (and source) and letting it go. Anger will only help you once you're IN a physical battle.
/r/becomeaman06/04/15 11:17 PM
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This sounds like my first wife (preTRP) There was no peace to be had anywhere. She didn't cheat, but I had to leave because the yelling/fights/name calling/in your face/following you etc were so bad I was afraid I'd snap and kill her. It was tough, she fought like hell once the curtain dropped, agreed to counseling etc, but I knew it wouldn't make a difference, I needed much more space. My advice, get a safe place to go, permanently.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/15 10:23 PM
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I kind of wonder if a a sub for shit or not tests would be helpful. It'd be on your honor but you see the wording of the test and you have limited time to type out your response.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 08:47 PM
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Absolutely do this or wrap in a wad of TP and double flush to make sure it goes the fuck away.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 03:09 PM
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You should check out the sidebar material in /r/marriedredpill starting with MMSLP one of the prerequisites. It'll explain the dynamic quite well. You'll also find most of the terms used in TRP explained well there. In short, Yes, in shape guys get more sex from their wives. Attractive guys get more sex from their wives. Confident, in control, Alpha guys get more sex from their wives. Mean, bitter, beta guys get much less. Fat guys get less. If you're married, not getting enough sex or attention…
/r/askTRP06/04/15 01:56 PM
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Quality over quantity. You're on the right path
/r/askTRP05/04/15 09:47 PM
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If you do it for the girls then its conditional and more subject to fallbacks if things go awry. If you start improving yourself for the girls, find that you like feeling better and improved and begin doing it for yourself then you remove that condition. Some start for the girls, some start for their own well being and happiness.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 07:33 PM
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Then its anxiety. You need to care significantly less about getting her off and be more excited that you're going to delve into fresh pussy. You're mind-fucking yourself into non-fucking. Its good she wants to see you again. Use this to get over this hump. Its just a psychosomatic thing. It won't last forever.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 04:43 PM
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I meant keep approaching employers until you get a job.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 10:35 PM
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"OK" then break contact
/r/askTRP03/04/15 09:15 PM
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"Great, can't wait to meet them!" Too late for that though. I've been in your shoes. If I were you I'd plan trips into the city for a longer period to maximize the payoff of the two hour round trip. Have back up plans, find a friend in the city with a couch you can borrow now and then. Setup up mini dates through OKC/Tinder etc. E.G. Tina for coffee at 5pm, Sarah for dinner at 7pm, Jessica for dancing at 9pm, Rebeccah for Breakfast at 9am and so on. Obviously you're filtering through girls here …
/r/askTRP03/04/15 06:39 PM
1

Oh Nice! It sounds like it went well and you give the impression that it was completely professional. Good to hear that you didn't get any shit tests. I was reminded of "sell me this pen" from Wolf of Wall Street when you mentioned he wanted you to sell him a tablet. Keep approaching other employers. Always be escalating
/r/askTRP03/04/15 06:18 PM
13

We should put together a fund so he can afford to do that.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 05:56 PM
1

Hey OP. How'd the interview go?
/r/askTRP03/04/15 05:23 AM
1

Thank you Kindly
/r/askTRP03/04/15 01:37 AM
1

Link?
/r/askTRP03/04/15 12:18 AM
0

I agree this could be useful. Remember KISS. I think it'd make it even handier if the sidebar reading material were numbered in a priority order so a poster could say "I'm at 7" Question 1 should be a mandatory Yes before posting. Obviously the logistics of qualifying everyone that posts is counter productive, at the very least there can be a warning along the lines of "You must be married/LTR here" On the same note, those of us that divorce go back to being just RP. Perhaps of a review of top l…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/15 05:30 PM
1

Will do. Next time I'll be much more concise and clear on what I'm posting.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/15 03:55 PM
1

You might have lost the opportunity due to delay. Send THE message you suggested in your OP.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 03:47 PM
0

Send the message. What do you have to lose?
/r/askTRP01/04/15 12:43 AM
2

Also stay focused, you're at a job interview. Don't look at the ladies and if he says anything like "check out the ass on that one" Just smile, don't say anything. He might be checking your job focus.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 12:40 AM
1

Quite the contrary. I do appreciate your feedback. It seems you've missed the purpose of this particular post. An After Action Review is different from a Field Report. Where as a Field Report is simply 'this happened' an After Action Review is a more in depth analysis of other actions to do/consider the next time. In the military, after nearly all actions, an After Action Review is conducted. It's meant to be as unbiased as possible, usually involves everyone involved in the action and often inc…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/15 11:17 PM
1

Well If I knew about that upfront I would've suggested those are affecting performance. It's up to you to decide whether you come off those or not. I took an SSRI for the same previously, exercise and life changes made it no longer necessary. Does the Adderall help for the ADHD?
/r/askTRP31/03/15 06:52 PM
2

You seem to be fairly conscientious about what you eat so I wouldn't worry about your cholesterol levels. There are plenty of studies showing that eggs are good for you. You can nuke your eggs, I would poach mine in a bowl with a splash of water and on a lower setting. Eggsperiment to find what works. You can also hardboil a batch for the days when you're in a hurry. You can even make scrambled eggs in the microwave.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 06:30 PM
1

Most of those are about as natural as you can get. Testosterone is derived from Cholesterol. Those foods will allow your body to make more for itself instead of it being added directly to your system. Of course do some research on each for yourself.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 05:13 PM
1

Besides the age old fall back of high potency ginseng you can also try the following to increase your testosterone fermented cod liver oil capsules Vitamin D3 raw almonds an hour before you go out (or four hours before sex) add cholesterol to your diet in the form of 3-4 eggs in the morning instead of the shake. They'll also have that 30-40g of protein you're looking for. edit: Add more Zinc as well
/r/askTRP31/03/15 04:57 PM
2

We are here to trade ideas That's why...
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/15 04:34 PM
2

You're describing performance anxiety which can have roots from various sources. Consider these: Make sure you're eating right, taking the supplements you need (add some ginseng). Exercise right, not too much, not too little Get enough sleep change your perspective on performance. You said if you don't rub one out then you fuck up the approach, work on different approaches, abundance mentality. In the bed don't sweat it so much. Focus on making yourself happy and not her.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 04:33 PM
2

Hand him a bar of soap and say "this brings the milkshakes to the yard"
/r/askTRP31/03/15 03:52 PM
1

lol thanks again for your input. I didn't post for more input but a summary of the other thread as a reference for anyone else that might be experience similar situations. One thing that helps us MRP is the sharing of experience so that we can predecide how to handle our own situations.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/15 03:47 PM
1

Or tell him if he's going to be that way then he should be his fuckee
/r/askTRP31/03/15 03:05 PM
10

DO NOT APOLOGIZE FOR THE DOOR OR YOUR OUTBURST No matter how much regret you feel. No matter how much you want things to be 'normal' again. Just go to the Home Depot, buy a replacement (measure it before you go) and replace it. DO NOT APOLOGIZE. This leads to a cycle of abuse. Someone does something bad, feels regret, crawls back "I'm sorry/I'll never do it again", things go okay for a bit and then it happens again. Not apologizing is an easy way to break that cycle. Just replace the door. Follo…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/15 03:02 PM
2

Under the bridge downtown
/r/askTRP31/03/15 02:53 PM
1

Could you have arranged a threesome?
/r/askTRP30/03/15 09:37 PM
6

You were in her frame. She made the suggestions, she maneuvered everyone to get what she wanted, which was to be alone with you. You happily followed along. She probably liked watching you squirm a little with your discomfort of the situation. However, you handled yourself well. Most of us would probably have gone along too
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/15 09:33 PM
1

Hello Vag Oil
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/15 09:00 PM
1

mmm
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/15 09:00 PM
2

That's not a shit test. She's going to hang out with her dad.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 08:51 PM
1

It's possible you are so good at sarcasm that she can't pick up on it.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 08:51 PM
1

Not more than you'd be willing to spend on a regular basis were she to become a LTR. You can always preface with "next time you're taking me out" or "you take me out first" Let her set the tone.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 08:50 PM
1

Agree and Amplify...with the letters. Rearrange them. Check this out Some of my favorites: Helluva Veg Oil Vulvae Ego Hill Laugh Vile Love Uh Evil Veal Log
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/15 08:47 PM
1

Why don't you just shave your beard?
/r/askTRP30/03/15 08:39 PM
1

Traditional gender roles come from millenia of civilization and eons of evolution. The instinctual imprint of them is not going to change anytime soon.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 07:56 PM
6

Being RP isn't a binary state. There isn't a 1 or 0 that determines whether you are Alpha or Beta. Everyone (EVERYONE) has a mix of Alpha and Beta traits, including women. These traits can fluctuate over time and swing wildly in specific situations. In relationships with heavily beta males, the woman will demonstrate more Alpha tendencies than the male as someone needs to be the leader. If you assigned ten alphas a task to work on together, and complete or die; there would be a lot of posturing …
/r/askTRP30/03/15 07:14 PM
1

Nice. Don't be afraid to go out of your comfort zone and do a meetup out of your comfort zone. You learn a lot about yourself.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 05:13 PM
1

Progress not perfection eh?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/15 05:12 PM
6

I thought you said you were going to write shorter posts?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/15 03:33 PM
2

MeetUp.com people like you put together group meetups for various activities, open to strangers and newcomers. They run the gamut from book writing to kayaking and everything in between. It's an effortless way to meet new people and build a social circle. I'd advise to save the approaches for more physical activity groups
/r/askTRP30/03/15 12:57 AM
1

Does MeetUp have listings for Perth?
/r/askTRP29/03/15 05:01 PM
3

I second this. A great book to start with is the Four Hour Chef by Tim Ferris. He deconstructs the mysteries. He presents the meals in a specific order suggesting you follow the order. There are a few ingredients that are hard to find. I'd skip recipes with hard to find ingredients for efficiency sake. He also has other whole sections on some outdoor skills which are presented well. I would skip his chapter on bug out bags/outdoor gear though.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 04:57 PM
1

You don't have to lift heavy things right away. There's a story about a guy that carried a piglet up a hill everyday of its life. By the time it was full grown he could still carry it up the hill. You start small and work your way up. Even if it takes you longer you're still getting there. For reaction times, what physical or hand/eye training have you tried to improve that?
/r/askTRP29/03/15 04:43 PM
2

I'm with you on this. Integrity is also advocated and as a leadership trait.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 04:32 PM
1

Is integrity morally neutral as well? Yes.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 04:30 PM
1

this incident will never become right in your head and completely disappear from your memory. I second this. OP It will never be okay in your head. No matter what she says when she comes back. You will never be at peace with this moment if you stay with her. Move on and a few years down the road the memory of you being her BF while she had other dicks in her will fade a little. Other dicks! Maybe even someone's dick that's in this sub!
/r/askTRP29/03/15 12:35 AM
1

"No, I've already put this on" or just "No" Also think about what the dept store ladies have to gain from telling you what they did.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/15 02:58 PM
1

Does the state you're in favor alimony?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/15 02:52 PM
0

there you go!
/r/askTRP28/03/15 03:10 AM
7

"Once he's done feeding you, have him drop you off over here" (wherever you might be)
/r/askTRP28/03/15 12:54 AM
5

Not quite, why should he put himself through something he doesn't like? It validates the girl.
/r/askTRP28/03/15 12:50 AM
3

text: I've changed my mind, not going to meet up with you. We're done. You can always get new friends. New girls, etc. You're at a prime age to enjoy yourself.
/r/askTRP28/03/15 12:48 AM
5

Yeah, pump your brakes. You made a mistake by throwing down an ultimatum way too early. So you read some shit, realized you wanted a better life and alluva sudden she needs to snap to? Get over yourself for one. You need to become a better person before expecting others to follow suit. If you follow through with your ultimatum you will suffer, you will be lonely, you will spend most of your nights alone and more. You need to own up to your mistake and read NMMNG this week.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/15 12:44 AM
1

Fine, but I get to refer to a girls backup dancers as Cylons
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/15 12:39 AM
2

Easy guy. Being a minority, and/or short is not a defect. Anything about you is a feature and you should flaunt it as such. I have a big head, it used to bother me when people said something about it until I realized, and informed them, that's it's bigger in order to hold my bigger brain. It's also a few inches thick of bone in order to better deliver head butts. You're a minority? "White girls love exotic guys" You're short? "Not as clumsy in bed and I can fly at a tall girls face easier for th…
/r/askTRP28/03/15 12:37 AM
3

Remember keys to humor are properly inserted silence and making the punch line 2-4 degrees away. Make them think a little, a connection is made and the brain rejoices at figuring something out! e.g.modifying what /u/tombreck2 said: "You're sitting by yourself..." pause (but not long enough for them to say anything in reply) "Are you in timeout?" You can wait for them to laugh but that's more for your validation, give it one second then introduce yourself. Sit down next to them "I'm going to sit …
/r/askTRP28/03/15 12:25 AM
3

Right, don't compliment things they have no control over. "I like your height" See? It just doesn't work.
/r/askTRP28/03/15 12:23 AM
1

Do you have a big dick? Show that muffugger off! Seriously.
/r/askTRP28/03/15 12:19 AM
2

except right there?
/r/askTRP28/03/15 12:15 AM
5

WTF. The levels of Dread are escalations of force. You don't go nuking the population right off the bat. That's a Nice Guy symptom. Have you read any of the books?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/15 11:59 PM
1

I too would like to know this information. My wife has the same stuff basically, but she skips the 7 day period and maybe has it once a year. I am inclined to believe this does affect her hormonally especially without ovulation.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/15 11:09 PM
2

Sure. There's also signing in from your mobile browser, work browser, Reddit is Fun app and the secret browser in the secret basement.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 11:05 PM
1

You've said it once, never say it again. Show with actions. Will do In my opinion she loses your attention not only for the length of the phone call but for twice as long after it is over. I like this rule. It's similar to how long it takes to back into a zone when interrupted during a task. I think the number is 27/8 minutes. She grabs the phone, I would call a friend with her in the room and say, with excitement, my night just freed up! Meet me at the bar/gym/game, plan the whole night. Grab y…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/15 08:18 PM
2

I'd wave back like I normally do.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 07:04 PM
10

How do you remember your login?!
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 07:03 PM
1

With a some space, and some tools you can make one over a weekend with some plans and a few sheets of plywood, etc.. That'll up your ante. And if you don't like it you could always sell it for a few hundred.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 06:59 PM
1

Good luck with the bar. That'll take you up a notch and put you around more people with solid careers. Get out there and find something new to like. Have you tried the little sail boats?
/r/askTRP27/03/15 06:52 PM
2

Thanks for the reply. It would feel really good to say that but it doesn't seem very Alpha. It seems a little vindictive but I'd like to hear what others would say about that because part of my Nice Guy wants to do that.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/15 06:25 PM
1

Thanks. I've been figuring it's that and giving her the excuse that she just doesn't know what she's doing. Now she knows for sure. I'll keep on the SMV increase and the MAP. Still a bit early in the reading and I really want to employ some tactics but know I need to finish the readings for a complete picture. Thanks for the ideas. I've been cognizant to not get on youtube or whatever if I'm butthurt. I have dedicated spaces for different activities so it's obvious if I'm working on something. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/15 06:23 PM
3

If you were my sister I'd tell you to move on from him regardless of how you perceive he treats you when you go out. He sounds like a rebound and as such you carried baggage from your previous LTR that is affecting this current relationship. To focus on making yourself successful so you don't feel the need to lean on a man to make your life good. Once you have a foundation if a good guy comes along that makes that stronger then it'll be good. If you want a husband material type guy do you think …
/r/askTRP27/03/15 05:24 PM
2

It's moving too fast for me!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 11:46 PM
1

Don't give them an out on that challenge!
/r/askTRP26/03/15 11:30 PM
1

I understand Adashi. Yeah, you broke frame. Don't apologize. I've always felt Korean culture to be more RP than American as far as traditional roles go for what it's worth. Moving forward if the Korean culture piece is important to you then hold her to that. I have no idea how agree and amplify would work in this context but it'd be nice to know.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 11:26 PM
5

There is no regaining power because there is no bag. The cat will fuck off wherever it wants to. You can claim new power though. Now, in your case you can still take the RP with a chance the relationship will survive and you'll both be happier than ever. Read sidebar stuff. Even though you're not married, check out the sidebar in /r/marriedredpill it's good for LTRs. Even if you swallow the pill, worst case scenario you'll be happy with yourself and moving on to better girls.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 11:05 PM
3

Battle Star Galactica? Star Gate? That's going to get confusing.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 10:56 PM
1

Thanks! This will come in handy
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 10:46 PM
2

I agree on all points.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 10:11 PM
2

Cera coating a shotgun might get expensive. I'd say go for it. Interesting what you've presented. Both of my wives have done that. Hell the first still does that. I have a few thoughts maybe your gifts suck do you make less than her? does she feel like she owes you for some reason? Did she fuck up in the past?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 10:10 PM
2

yeah he could've responded to the second part instead "damn right you like how fine I am"
/r/askTRP26/03/15 09:22 PM
1

on further thought my confidence has always been high so she might be afraid of what will happen if it gets even higher. Same line though, fear of future effort.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 09:21 PM
3

I've been thinking about that type of statement recently. /u/BrunoOh seems to have nailed why. When I first met my wife I was 30lbs heavier (fatty). I lost that early on. Whenever fitness comes up she says "but I loved you when you were fat" I think it might be a predefense against having to step up their own game. If their SO is shaping up they might ship out so it could be a subconscious effort to head that off.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 09:20 PM
1

dat username tho. Probably a good thing. If you put yourself out there you can accidentally fall into a pussy at least once a month.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 09:14 PM
5

You don't. You go lift and gain some confidence and stop defining yourself by other people's numbers.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 09:12 PM
1

or confident enough?
/r/askTRP26/03/15 09:08 PM
2

"and wear a skirt and let your hair down or leave it up, it's going to get messed up anyways"
/r/askTRP26/03/15 09:08 PM
1

You're going to hear it's because you're asking. Let it flow naturally. Maintain your frame. If they're interested in long term then they'll start steering conversations towards monogamy. You can still maintain frame with a simple 'OK' and let your action speak for you.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 09:06 PM
1

LOL what do YOU look like?
/r/askTRP26/03/15 09:04 PM
9

Can we shorten it to 'Shit Goblin'? I like this. also, you don't tell me what to do, I'm upvoting you.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 09:02 PM
6

Get her a Glock 42 (.380), have the slide ceracoated to her favorite color and get your anniversary date etched on the back. Then take her ass to the range. If you aren't good at shooting then get an instructor. Bonus points if you have a custom colored kydex sheath made for her. I'd opt for an in-the-pants holster and a sleeve for the purse. More points if you have the money to throw on a laser grip/sight. The frame is small enough for most female hands and doesn't have too much of a kick. Easy…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 09:01 PM
1

NMMNG will help with some of what you described.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 08:37 PM
1

ooh, tell me about these apps!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 08:37 PM
1

Depends on the answers you want. You'll get more marriage centric answers in MRP. You'll get a lot more next answers in the asktrp
/r/askTRP26/03/15 08:36 PM
0

I felt like this was a script for a sitcom. I was smiling imagining you narrating your side notes. We need a MRP sitcom. She's just adjusting to the RP you. She's throwing out hamster food trying to get some control. Maintain frame. If you make advances and she isn't responding positively then let it go like it doesn't matter. How far along on the sidebar reading are you?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 07:51 PM
3

have you thought about asking this in /r/marriedredpill ? If you're not married you can stop reading now. Your marriage is done if you continue on this path, you put the nails in the coffin when you joined a motorcycle club. What kind of a 'leader' are you to let other men make decisions about your life. You mentioned being a junior member and not being able to make decisions, etc. You probably explained this to her in a defensive statement when she spoke against you being in the club. If you ca…
/r/askTRP26/03/15 07:41 PM
1

this might help: use this google search: site:reddit.com/r/theredpill shutdown add or take away terms after theredpill and try switching out the subreddits
/r/askTRP26/03/15 06:25 PM
3

There's great advice in this thread and I want to add mine as I had a similar situation recently. First, consider what you define as LTR. Also consider the relationship she has with the 'leader' of the group and why does this leader hate you? Does your girl show hesitancy about going? Read on if you care to have the relationship continue and if your girl shows hesitancy, if not then don't read. You need to care about yourself first. IF you care about your relationship then she needs to know, in …
/r/askTRP26/03/15 05:13 PM
1

But she gets wet to start with? Is she drinking enough water? Has she spoken to a DR about this? Are you trying different positions? Different places? Different times of day? In other words are you making it varied and exciting?
/r/askTRP26/03/15 04:42 PM
2

Great advice in this thread. I'd also somehow slip it into group conversation with your friend and her there (without looking at her) that once your done with a girl you're done and that includes friend's exes. That your tribe is exclusive membership only. Hopefully it'll quelle any desire she might have. Don't use my words exactly. They're too obvious.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 03:40 PM
3

I'm going to have to stay up later now
/r/askTRP26/03/15 03:33 PM
2

"Really? I've always felt like a Chad" "...Chad?" "Chad Thundercock. Gimme my coffee"
/r/askTRP26/03/15 03:28 PM
2

"Catch ya later Buick!"
/r/askTRP26/03/15 03:27 PM
2

MOVE your seat next to her. A table is an obstacle, prevents kino, establishes distance, friendifies the situation, makes people feel safe. Moving ext to her changes all that and brings up her senses.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 03:25 PM
1

Rubbing one out before you go will lower your sexual drive. Sometimes this can be good sometimes you want a super high drive to push your interactions with the other women around.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 03:22 PM
1

"Well there were pillows involved"
/r/askTRP26/03/15 03:18 PM
3

"Ohh...that question brings back memories" (smiling)
/r/askTRP26/03/15 03:17 PM
5

I love how you always beat me to these. Are you east coast?
/r/askTRP26/03/15 03:16 PM
4

Everyone does alone. Few actually live. Be that man.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 03:13 PM
1

I have absolutely no idea why all your replies were down voted. The first one I can understand but I found the rest funny.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 04:51 AM
1

That's cool and different. Now I want some
/r/askTRP26/03/15 04:48 AM
0

Why would your roommates cockblock you? Do they have a death wish? Is there enough entertainment in your room?
/r/askTRP26/03/15 02:02 AM
1

Depends on where YOU are at in improvement and the quality of your marriage. If you're in a yelling shit fest then wait. If your SO is level headed and interested in maintaining the marriage then it couldn't hurt to have someone hold you accountable and be able to use the terminology in the book to describe your behaviors. Also, it'll self-impose dread game in you. She'll know there are things you should be fixing, what they are, and you'll know that she knows so you better not let your guard do…
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:46 AM
3

Leave the ex alone and have more time to enjoy the new plates. She's an ex for a reason.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:44 AM
1

Yeah she'll probably give up after a bit. Just ignore the texts. It'd be interesting to see if they go through the five stages of loss.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:42 AM
5

Ask yourself this: is it easier to sleep with them because he has? Would you have been able to pull them off if he wasn't around? If the answer to either is no then he probably appreciates you being his wingman.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:38 AM
1

After rereading I figure the middle two are aimed at deflating their front. It wakes the wind out of their sails. Pressure flips are fun with the right people, going back and forth. Especially with a good friend that can handle it. You both turn out winners in the group. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:35 AM
1

Nah, you just came off as being an asshole drunk who valued alcohol over an interaction. It was good to experiment though. I was hoping that had a happier ending. Get their attention, a smile, proximity, eye contact, touch, then move them around the scene a bit "hey let's go over here" (take them by the hand). Read body language.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:30 AM
1

try the chuckle first, just a 'huff' with a grin then deliver?
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:26 AM
0

"I'm short so you'll have more room to be fat"
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:24 AM
1

Wait, so when I say the things I usually say like "haha I have as much control over my height as you do the shortness of your dick" or "whatever you need to say to feel good about yourself" or "that was original, what else you got champ?" or "you gotta thing for midgets?" I was doing it wrong?
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:22 AM
0

yup brocode, don't shit where you eat
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:14 AM
0

Good advice.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:13 AM
3

"NOT FUCKING UNDERSTAND" They think like that b/c their BB would never be so callous as to discard such a prize /s
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:12 AM
2

"Do you annoy all your husband's friends like this or am I just your Sir Lancelot/Prince Charming?"
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:10 AM
1

does she float?
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:08 AM
0

I came to say "this" but not the second half.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:08 AM
6

I understand the earning it part. Doesn't sound like you'll get it with this girl. Besides, she needs to earn you. She needs to earn you
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:06 AM
4

Stop fucking the same girls. What kind of coattail riding bullshit is that? It sounds like you're picking up scraps. Go live your own life. As long as your standing around picking crumbs out of his shadow you'll never stand tall enough.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:04 AM
2

I've had the same problem. I do a lot of work around the house. Much of the time she's sitting there fucking smoking and drinking beer while fucking around on facebook or some shit. That changed when I started assigning her tasks, she just needed direction. Sometimes perspective.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 12:01 AM
1

Wait, so my big dick is a threat to the sanctity of her vaginal walls?!
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 03:05 PM
1

Where are you getting your statistics?
/r/askTRP25/03/15 03:52 AM
1

Yes read books. Take notes, make a plan, experiment with different ideas, reap the benefits
/r/askTRP25/03/15 03:44 AM
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Yes
/r/askTRP25/03/15 03:43 AM
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Seconded
/r/askTRP25/03/15 03:43 AM
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Put the bulk of your shit in storage. Move in with her. Think minimalist when taking things to her place. Maintain frame. Get back on your feet. There's no issue here just a fear of AWALT which shouldn't be a fear if you man up.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 03:33 AM
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Dude I saw your similar post in the past and I really want this to work out for you. Blondes are flighty little creatures or they are solid and consistent. They either hop from tree to tree or stay with a guy for long term. Its timing and location. When they're in party mode they'll be at the club or bar and usually accompanied by their flock of lesser girls and some orbiters. You need to bring your A game. Be prepared to battle, find another RP type and attack this objective with the mission th…
/r/askTRP25/03/15 03:30 AM
1

You should listen to /u/FrameWalker I'd add in flip-the-script. beat him to the punch and be better at it.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 12:56 AM
1

It's also a demonstration of your own low self worth and an unconscious need to validate that.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 12:38 AM
1

Learn structure, formatting and search reddit (and bookmark the top result) for reddit_comment_formatting
/r/askTRP25/03/15 12:34 AM
1

I want to feel that pain so that I can process it. OK.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 11:58 PM
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Join the military. Army or Marines, make sure you get somewhere nice to be stationed in your contract.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 10:53 PM
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I'm just going to upvote you.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 10:51 PM
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Hey OP, Looks like you forgot to say that you were looking for a Red Pill version of a pre-Marriage checklist, in other words a checklist of whether she's good to go or not. That might be why you're getting different types of responses. My number one is Trust. Do I trust her and vice versa. If there is doubt it needs to be worked out. some more for now (I might add more later when I have more time) Am I sexually attracted to her Do our goals share the same path? Do you consider her a team mate o…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/15 10:04 PM
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Good job on that. It's nice when a plan works out. Keep living the dream. I still wouldn't mention numbers to girls. There are many reasons but my main reason is that numbers fuck with people. They tend to wonder if you're lying up or down and then if you're being honest about other things.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 09:54 PM
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Read No More Mr Nice Guy also get comfortable with being comfortable that no one likes you at all.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 09:33 PM
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What's your number then?
/r/askTRP24/03/15 09:28 PM
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it's a gateway argument/question
/r/askTRP24/03/15 09:20 PM
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From the other thread that /u/fnordsnord also commented on: probably more than you one more will be enough a million I lost count none, you want to be first I'm a virgin I'm saving myself for marriage What? You mean today? Enough to know I don't need to answer that question 22 and a half I plead the fifth /u/MightyTaint added Never answer. Even if you're proud/unashamed. It's breaking frame and acknowledging facets of your activities/past are open to her judgement. If she presses, tell her you'r…
/r/askTRP24/03/15 08:18 PM
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Breathe. Yes meditation is very helpful. You don't need guided or anything. Just focus on your breath. Five minutes a day is more than enough to start with. You can also practice seeing yourself from third person, try this while meditating. I was actually thinking about this the other day. I used to flair the fuck out like you describe. Over time this reaction has been absent or controllable. If you're in a LTR where you're reacting this way you need to get completely out immediately. If you're …
/r/askTRP24/03/15 08:09 PM
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There was a thread a week or so ago about different ways to answer the question. Shoulda rattled that off. Treat with silence, if it she persists remind her that it's something you don't care about but if she's going to push the issue then she'll be nexted.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 07:58 PM
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I agree. It'll happen but there'll always be remnants of the ultra Feminists SJW. We're the spearhead.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 06:23 PM
1

Why don't you ask on /r/marriedredpill and see what recommendations you'd get there?
/r/askTRP24/03/15 06:17 PM
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You provided the option, she made the choice, BB helped her put your cock in her mouth by being BB. If you don't feel comfortable fucking around with girls that are 'committed' then don't.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 06:15 PM
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If she seems to brighten when you walk in, then that's a sign. If someone says something funny and everyone laughs but she looks at you then that's a sign. If she turns to talk to you more than others, that's a sign. If you have a sign, it's time to escalate.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 06:09 PM
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My first marriage was a virgin. You are right on less likely to cheat/leave and training her in the bed. Great sex. Biggest hang up was me having female friends. She didn't want to hang out with them. I caved on shit. In hind sight I should've forced her to come hang out with them. She would've seen it was all good.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 06:07 PM
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Don't expect her to freak out then. If she does, just walk away. Pick your battles.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 06:02 PM
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Ah, I don't know if one exists specifically for that purpose. But you can: create an alt for TRP, unsubscribe from the default subs, then subscribe to the RP subs. (In the app hit the three vertical dots in top right and select 'Manage Accounts') or get an RSS reader app and add RSS feeds for the different subs and blogs you want to follow. You can add RSS feeds from subreddits (search for 'reddit rss feeds' it's in the reddit wiki)
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 05:52 PM
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You fucked up by going through her phone. Never do that. There's no reason to. That's private shit. She was curious about this dude but nexted him, you never would've known had you never gone through her phone. Also, she didn't seem to think she was doing anything wrong, else she would've come back for her phone without telling you about it on FB because that would alert you to the unsupervised presence of her phone. Suck it up and drive on. Give space, lift, become yourself again.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 05:41 PM
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Don't dig through the trash when you're hungry. You go to the fridge for the fresh food.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 05:25 PM
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Ok.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 04:58 PM
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yes, "Reddit is Fun" on android. It can handle multiple accounts as well.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 04:46 PM
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What would be openly Red Pill look like? I describe it to my wife basically as going back to the manly roots that were lost in the past few generations due to the extreme and sudden absence of men as a result of world wars, vietnam, two working parents, and more single mothers. I told her I have no idea what it's like being a woman and shouldn't advise to that, as such a woman has no idea what it's like being a man and shouldn't tell us how to be, but they had no choice in the absence of fathers…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 04:39 PM
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When I first joined Reddit I never thought to do that. To go through posting history, then I saw people commenting on other's post history. I've done it twice now, once on a hot chick (for more hotness) and once on someone that was very upset about something I posted and tried to incite me (I wanted to see if that was their normal reaction to people, it was).
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 04:35 PM
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/u/BlackHeart89 is on point with this. There's a lot of inconsistency. He hits on her aggressively and unwantedly, but she has his number? he says he doesn't know who she is, but she has his number? he says she'll fuck everyone if you slip up, but he doesn't know who she is? I need to restate/reinforce: Women can turn men down without the help of other men. I'm willing to wager she brings a lot of drama to you. How long have you been together? I'd say NEXT her for your sanity.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 04:25 PM
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This. Spot on, I would like to address the SMV thing though. How fucking hot could she be (while pregnant and bitching) that your SMV is years away from hers? or rather, how far out of shape are you?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/15 04:30 AM
2

I have ten books spinning on my night stand. A few are my favorites. I favorited HTWF when I was about your age but you can a lot more from reading the clif's notes on that short masterpiece than by reading it. There's nothing wrong with setting a book down and reading another, then coming back to the first. Unless it's sidebar 101 in order stuff.
/r/RedPillBooks24/03/15 12:57 AM
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Read up on critical thinking, then read the sidebar content in /r/TheRedPill
/r/askTRP24/03/15 12:50 AM
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Perhaps I didn't understand what you wrote but you are wrong. In general, people want to be led. All it takes is a leader. The right leader shows up in a woman's life and they will allow themselves to be led. You are right about reversion, should the leader leave or cease to exist (cease being a leader) then they will begin leading themselves again. This is important and essential to our survival as a species. If you doubt that people like to be led observe any new group of people without an ass…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 12:47 AM
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I'd suggest asking this in /r/marriedredpill also as you might get something from the married Christian's there too. Your line 'didn't have a condom' is going to bite you in the ass when she pulls one out. On one hand you say you want to stay a virgin but on the other you are playing with fire. Some of the best sex I had was with a 5 born again Christian girl. Then again she'd usually cry afterwards about going to hell. (not joking). From a Christian viewpoint you need to do what you feel you fe…
/r/askTRP24/03/15 12:19 AM
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hmm, I hit reply to the wrong post.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/15 12:02 AM
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"Bro, we're friends right? We support each other right? I don't support you going into a LTR so soon. You need to chill and rediscover who you are first. If you don't know where you stand how the fuck will you know which direction to go?" Also, call him a pussy that helps sometimes.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 12:01 AM
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Maintain your integrity and tell her right away. Everyone deserves honesty. I assume from your wording that she's a redditor? You can frame it as "There aren't many benefits to being married and more risk than anything" and more concepts along those lines. of course you'll end up having a fight after saying something like that so be prepared and predecide how you will react or non-react to the most likely events.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 11:58 PM
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*OP: * Do some research on reversing injuries. Also, are you making an excuse? If all you have to do is be careful, then be careful and continue working out. If it was easy being alpha then everyone would be.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/15 11:54 PM
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Guys, OP is talking about a social circle not plating. Half the comments are spot on, the others miss the mark. To answer: meetup for outdoor activities the gym or local martial arts dojo shooting range volunteer somewhere to burn some time
/r/askTRP23/03/15 11:49 PM
1

Have you read this yet?
/r/askTRP23/03/15 11:45 PM
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The fact that you even tried to hash this out with her is beta. Maintain frame, and your job. Distance yourself from her immediately and dude immediately. Maintain frame.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 11:42 PM
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Haha, she had you pegged! You wanted it so bad you were willing to go completely out of the way. Better be careful, if she's giving super obvious shit tests it sounds like she might be reading some RP material and wants to keep you on your toes.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/15 11:34 PM
1

Never dig through the trash for leftovers if you're hungry.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 11:29 PM
1

ABS everyday Day One: Legs Day Two: Shoulders Day Three: Rest (still abs though) Day Four: Chest Day Five: Back Day Six: Arms Day Seven: Rest (still abs though) This is organized to give each of those muscle groups the proper rest period. Couple this with a Keto diet and no alcohol and you'll drop fat quickly.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 11:26 PM
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You've taken important steps: Awareness Acceptance of your starting point Do yourself a favor and clean your lists. Delete any and everyone from your phone that doesn't add value to your life. Do the same with social media accounts. Even better, delete them, you can start over with those later. Talk to the MMA schools and explain your situation. Tell them you can't do that but you can do five months. Don't pre/dis qualify yourself from that before asking. As for your 'dedicated' grad program you…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 11:18 PM
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Low Partner Count girls are easier to tame and that's why most comments will say to stick with that. I say Never Ask, Never Say when it comes to partner count. The answer will fuck with you no matter what it is. Asking is inadvertently comparing yourself to others. It also asks her to inadvertently think about all the sex she has had. It also suggests that you might be uncomfortable with your own number. All the above is basically beta thoughts. If it's one and she's the best you've ever had wou…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 11:08 PM
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Ha! We have four horses. I just read that article, I don't agree with the untamable part. However, they are the biggest pain in the ass if you ever want to travel. Gotta find someone to feed, water, watch, and take care of the horses. Geezus fucking christ. Every fucking time. Just can't go the fuck away for the weekend. They aren't like dogs where you can leave the toilet seat up, dump a bag of food on the floor and leave the doggie door unlocked for three days. Oh yeah, the horses are on our p…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 11:00 PM
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what the fuck did I just look at? OP I appreciate the effort you took to gather the info but formatting would go a LONG way here. Side note: perhaps OP did this at work hence pastebin and dumped it here to find in the future.
/r/RedPillBooks23/03/15 10:48 PM
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Here's the deal: I have a feeling you're leaving some bits out and decided to cherry pick something. Your family is allowed to say shit like that to you. If you had a proper male social support structure they would tell you the same shit as well. Judging by your reaction to a different comment I'm willing to wager you haven't built that group yet nor have you read enough. Point is, you don't need to defend yourself. It's your fucking life. You don't need anyone's approval to improve. Don't be th…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 10:45 PM
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You might perceive it as such but in reality you are bringing dread game levels 2 and 3 Remove the 'for me' from those thoughts and you'll see that you are doing it 'for you' You work hard for your life, tobe who you are, maintenance is required to stay at a certain level and further work will always be needed to get to the next level. If you level up at a noticeable pace she will need to keep up or be left in the dust.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/15 05:50 PM
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Then it's too early to freak out or tell. I've been through this. Tell her you want to document everything because it's really exciting! Get another pregnancy test, watch her pee on the damn thing, say "You want to keep it for memories in the new baby's box" Put her on the scale, say "You want to track the growth, this is an amazing process! Life is amazing!" She's not allowed to drink alcohol or smoke or any of that shit. Insist on a healthy diet. Pay attention to if she's drinking when you're …
/r/askTRP20/03/15 04:16 PM
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Haha, I meant productive as in for the self not the family unit. The mention of smelling of alcohol throws me off as being a good reaction. still chuckling at how fixing the sink is dread game. When writing the previous post I was thinking along the lines of: the gym (where there's fit girls), the dojo (where there's bad ass girls), etc. A bar would bring the dread game, but that's not the dread game I want to bring, I want to bring the dread game that there are other women on top of their game …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 03:17 PM
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LOL. That should be a good thing depending on far along you are.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 10:43 PM
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A lawyer is much better suited to answer this question. But you can preempt this from happening if you're following general RedPill guidelines on communication and expectations. If you're aloof and barely communicate and control the meetups then you'll be putting enough time between any two dates. She'll also be more used to not hearing from you much. By the time she realizes things are over days and weeks could have gone by there by decreasing her chances of an over reaction.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 10:41 PM
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Heads up - I have decided I am no longer going to watch porn or Fap, So you might want to stretch daily and be prepared because it is all coming your way now" (wink). I like this. This is motivation for both sides in one sentence.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 10:23 PM
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I see the first part of your post as throwing a fit with a dose of passive-aggressiveness. I agree with the attention and time withdrawn. He can respond by doing something productive and/or along the lines of self-improvement. Responding to an upset by drinking sets a bad precedent. Responding by improving the self increases the dread game along with the other positive effects of whatever the activity is.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 10:18 PM
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Geezus. I think you lucked out. Initially you fucked up with "really? is that your final answer?" but you recovered well and she's bringing it back. I had half of this exact scenario the other night, leading up to bed time, she said virtually the same thing "am I not allowed to say no?" my reply? "Not if this turns you on" and then I did some stuff that turns her on, she proceeded to enjoy herself, we both had fun. My advice, it's fixed.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 10:11 PM
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How far 'along' is she?
/r/askTRP19/03/15 05:20 PM
1

Thanks! I forgot about AllQTs. I do like the way EroticBits is initially laid out. I wish they would put more options on their search results page. I do like how easy NightShift is to use (once you register to use it) but it needs more providers. I took a look at a perfect sin, there is a sign up process, there is activity, but I don't think it's more geared towards a swinger lifestyle. Maybe their intention was different. I'll add some of these links to the list.
/r/TRPOffTopic19/03/15 02:45 PM
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I have to admit I thought the same but refrained. I think this copypasta threats are hilarious. KnowYourMeme has different iterations. I wish I could use them at work.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 02:00 AM
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or how about I buy you a new phone and shoes while I'm at it. Your second suggestion validates her excuse.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 01:52 AM
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OK
/r/askTRP19/03/15 01:51 AM
1

to which the proper response to the whole thing would be "ok"
/r/askTRP19/03/15 01:46 AM
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Are you six foot six and built like a tank? Is so then fighting the 5'5" drunk in the bar is not a good idea. However, if you are 5'5" and the 6'6" tank is threatening your life, put lead in his head.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 01:45 AM
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Sounds like you found the price point for your area. Rates will always vary based on area. I would expect that Manhattan rates would be much higher than other parts of the country (or out of the US in your case). For example, in my area quality girls range $200 to $400 but I personally won't go above $300. In respect to the price point in my area, some girls develop enough regulars that they stop advertising or will raise their price for newbies. 30 min appts are realistic, sometimes written as …
/r/TRPOffTopic19/03/15 01:32 AM
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lol nice. a simple "be here at 8 and wear something cute" sidenote: if she shows up not wearing something cute "there better be something cute under those clothes" which imprints the idea to take them off and opens the door for her to say something like "let's go find out"
/r/askTRP18/03/15 11:44 PM
1

not openly TRP but plenty of related material on the Tim Ferriss Show.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 11:31 PM
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Continue your self improvement path: Lifting, reading, and a hobby Get on a financial plan to get you out of debt as fast as possible even if you have to MGTOW for a year or so. Move out (obviously get a job is a prereq)
/r/askTRP18/03/15 11:27 PM
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I wrote an earlier reply about how I head these situations off. I bring them into my domain, my property, throws them a bit off balance and causes them to respect what we've built together. Plus she can see who's more alpha side by side. Also, we have an agreement to not let situations develop that would give the wrong impression. She has 100% followed that.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 11:21 PM
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I can't tell if you've invited his ass over for a BBQ. If you have then she can compare you both side by side and you can see in real time how you measure up (since you're measuring anyways). Otherwise, it shows no fear: "Yeah sure, I'm making ribs Saturday afternoon, tell him to bring beer, coleslaw and whatever he's dating" Her reaction to this bluff call will inform you right away about your next step. also /u/DontBeAMangina is on it
/r/askTRP18/03/15 11:17 PM
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Damn Charlie Brown.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 11:13 PM
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There was a comment on another post the other day where it was a very similar situation. Great girl, one vs one relationship, she throws a fit about something trivial. I do believe the consensus was she wanted what she wanted and if she didn't get it she was going to force the dude to give her an excuse to fuck someone else. I'm willing to bet she'll apologize. Based on what you wrote you handled it quite well. I might have skipped mentioning the Apps
/r/askTRP18/03/15 10:58 PM
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It takes a lot of courage to write what you did. You're going to need that courage. If you make one excuse to the suggestions you are about to get in this entire thread then maybe you deserve to have your son mushroom stamp your forehead. Your 11 yo son is more alpha than you right now. You will change that. It's going to be tough but you will not back down. Go into this with full armor on and never display a sign of weakness. You're the man of the house. Not him. You're going to show him and go…
/r/askTRP18/03/15 10:01 PM
1

Are you at ERAU?
/r/askTRP18/03/15 08:09 PM
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You fucked up at 'how many' Never ask, never tell. Women will tell you what they feel comfortable telling you. Truth is you'll never truly believe the number and you have no reason to. Never ask, never tell. If the number is low it's hard to believe, if it's high you'll wonder how you match up. If you don't know the number then you only wonder what the number is. Yes, you started being BP, did some RP stuff and now you're being beta. Stay strong. When she contacts you maintain frame for the next…
/r/askTRP18/03/15 07:31 PM
1

What's the general consensus on snapchat game?
/r/askTRP18/03/15 07:06 PM
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You present a well worded argument. You are failing frame in respect to your perspective of AWALT. A lot of guys have the same fear but objectively it's self-imposed dread game. A Red Pill woman wrote about this very idea titled AWALT but SWABTO SWABTO - Some Women Are Better Than Others. Yes, the ability to cheat exists. There's nothing anyone can do about it. Just like you can't do jack shit about a woman thinking some other guy is good looking. There will ALWAYS be someone better looking, tal…
/r/askTRP18/03/15 06:36 PM
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I feel like you stole this out of my head but wrote it much better than I could. Thanks for writing this. I'm looking forward to the replies
/r/askTRP18/03/15 05:19 AM
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Patience. You're still growing. Your body will continue to change. When I was 25 my chest 'cracked' open when I started lifting and some other specific exercises. It grew at least four inches. People started referring to me as stocky alluva sudden. My face also filled out. You're a man. Under proper care you will age like a fine wine.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 05:09 AM
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Usually Do not shit where you eat. This sounds a little different. Just be sure to size it all up. Probably yes, STDs, you get her pregnant, her brother/husband comes and slices you up And down the line when she wants to marry you to stay? I'm assuming you live in a nicer area. I've been there. I can imagine which hotels you might interview at. Off topic, is ISIS affecting Baghdad much?
/r/askTRP18/03/15 01:21 AM
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"oy! this one's a wee bit on the heavy side better get the pallet jack!"
/r/askTRP18/03/15 01:08 AM
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I might be confused. I'm understanding this all as her starting a fight, you losing frame, she now has a reason to be unloyal even though you've given permission. But, wouldn't it be better like you said to just hang up and let her cry? let the tears fall down her face? You can preempt these situations by practicing the hollywood hangup which will help you maintain frame. "oh look, that's been twenty minutes. As I said, I do need to study. I'll talk to you later. Bye" CLICK you can always add in…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 01:07 AM
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for fucks sake it's about time!
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 12:50 AM
1

I was just thinking if there was ever a Red Pill convention... hide yo kids hide yo wives they approaching everybody out here
/r/askTRP18/03/15 12:49 AM
1

How does a non-sexual relationship make him a boyfriend?
/r/askTRP18/03/15 12:45 AM
2

Do you think you'll get better finance advice here or in /r/finance?
/r/askTRP18/03/15 12:43 AM
2

It's been four hours OP what happened?!
/r/askTRP18/03/15 12:42 AM
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Sooooo I never dealt with homeless beggars nearly enough until I met my wife. Her office has a bar on the street and the homeless just walk right the fuck up, look at your table and ask you for shit (money, cigarettes). You had it right up to a point, but the part where my wife is more alpha begins with skin color having no bearing (spot on BTW) she ends that with "and if you say one more fucking thing I'm calling the cops" Use your tools. It's just a bum and they're more afraid of the police th…
/r/askTRP18/03/15 12:41 AM
1

Every so often it's important to clean your house from top to bottom. Sometimes things get thrown out, replaced, or put away. Put these friends away. Find an activity that involves other people. MeetUp has a fucking million groups full of people like you that just want to do something with others. Take up fucking kayaking or something. It's social and you can paddle away from people if they suck. Also get a job.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 12:31 AM
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Retired Infantry here. Similar situation. I packed on pounds and then dropped them super fast without working out. Just diet change. Some might call it trendy but it works: Keto diet or Paleo diet. I dropped 30 lbs in about two months with just a change in food. As far as activity, what if you were to find a martial art dojo with a masterful sensei that knows how to work around your limitations. Set up earning belts as a challenge. Bonus: you might meet some badass chicks in the process.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 12:29 AM
1

You're welcome, now return the favor when I'm about to do something dumb
/r/askTRP18/03/15 12:24 AM
4

For arguments sake here's a comparison from the cost of living calculator over at CNN. Cost of Living Screenshot Comparing 200K in Manhattan to Phoenix.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 12:23 AM
1

I would say you're failing that test right now. You're not demonstrating an attitude of abundance. You're putting her on a pedestal and rationalizing it as a test of your Red Pill powers. There ARE more women with less problems. You have on your hands already a grease fire in the kitchen and you're fanning the flames. Give her the silence. You have better things to do with your life than play games.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 12:18 AM
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I know I should get out of there, but fuck that. I want the sex, NEXT You're catering, turning blue right before our very eyes
/r/askTRP17/03/15 11:37 PM
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You came across like you were down-talking self-examination. I see now that you might have meant it as a suggestion. Cheers
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 11:32 PM
1

Thanks for the validation. I forgot one very key point that made me beam on the inside. After her telling her we could discuss it later but not now she said: "You're being very alpha right now" almost like it was a bad word. I grinned a little at her.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 11:28 PM
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Let's put it all on a curve. Where a 5 represents the average of all women. It should start out gradually on the left the 0's and slowly pick up. After five it should start climbing more steeply. When the curve reaches 9 it should be steep as fuck representing the few 9's out there.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 09:37 PM
2

Over in the sidebar is a link for No More Mr Nice Guy. Have you read that? It's all about self-examination. It's also a 'course prerequisite' This is where the self-examination thread comes from.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 09:31 PM
1

I'm working through from the beginning. I'm on NMMNG right now. I created this alt recently for specifically working on Manosphere stuff. I've lurked TRP and related subs for about 8 months now. Anyways, here's where the murky waters of MarriedTRP exist: her job. I haven't had much issue with AMOG in her job as I usually dominate respectfully to position right away. However it drives me crazy when a higher up abuses his position and there's shit I can do about it. I usually give her advice on ho…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 09:25 PM
2

I've noticed in a recent post feedback on a post of mine that I have a similar beta-bitch thought pattern. I've come to this conclusion An alpha-widow is a state, a temporary state, she wasn't born that way and I won't let her live that way. I will be the most alpha guy she can imagine. She's let me know in different ways that I surpass many of her priors in different areas already. I'm proud of that. Why? She dated Captains of sportsing teams, international dudes, pilots, champion wrestlers, be…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 08:40 PM
2

I do much of the same fucking thing. Recently I've forced some focus using the pomodoro technique. I bookmarked and when I need to I open up "http://e.ggtimer.com/20 minutes" It starts a timer automatically. You can adjust time by changing the time after the slash. I tell myself I can fuck off once the timer goes off but before then I will focus 100% on work. If I find my attention drifting, I force myself back. If I drift for too long I start the timer over again. If I hit my goal then I restar…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 08:21 PM
2

I know, I replied to yours but meant the one above yours that's why I wrote 'above above' I'll be clearer in the future.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 07:12 PM
2

TL;DR of the above above post. you can't be a leader because you decided to be one. You earn it. I like the change of nomenclature from 'shit test' to 'fitness test'. Fitness test of leadership ability. Much more appropriate term in relationships generally. I also liked the Pirate analogy because its true. Any old mate can come and mutiny your ship. Along these lines. Your ship is in mutiny and you WILL be a true leader should you get it back into working order. Source: Retired Infantry, not a p…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 05:18 PM
5

Brag on bro and post some Field Reports so those of us stranded in the US can live vicariously through you.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 11:00 PM
1

What if you took a certificate program and/or got some certifications to get into a different line of IT that you might enjoy?
/r/askTRP16/03/15 10:58 PM
2

Fist bump. Is that a verbal agreement or a written contract? Any witnesses? Does it matter who initiates the break up? What are the laws in your state for 'notice' and 'domicile'? Will she be contributing towards the rent?
/r/askTRP16/03/15 08:42 PM
1

Depending on the state you want to teach in you could be 6 months to a few years of further education away from teaching. There's not a lot of money in that at the beginning. However, online courses are making easy for professors to make more by doing 'side jobs' for online courses. Call a few schools and tell them what you want to do. Be objective, start the conversation with "I'm trying to get the full picture and I'm not ready to pull the trigger on this yet" Call your local state university …
/r/askTRP16/03/15 08:39 PM
1

Initial gut reaction is treat her like a plate and only a plate. You've given plenty of reasons already that she can't be trusted. Also, wrap your shit (condom). Oh you're going to spring break with a van of dudes? Be sure to do your kegels so your pussy will be tight for them after I'm done tearing it up. She's riding the CC and pissing in your skull.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 08:29 PM
1

(I talk with people about these things for a living) What's your degree? Describe your dream job. Are you willing to sacrifice now for long term payoff or do you want instant gratification?
/r/askTRP16/03/15 08:25 PM
8

Whoa, easy there. Separate rooms is not damage control if things go sour. It'll become a battle of wills, as in who will move out of the house first. If things go sour, and she turns out to be a vindictive bitch then you'll never be able to bring a different girl home in peace. If you revert to BP in relationships, AND IF things go sour, how the fuck do you think you'll feel when she brings strange cock home to bang loudly in her room? Nothing wrong with moving in together, keep in mind what you…
/r/askTRP16/03/15 08:22 PM
3

Agreed. Also, I'm going to try and use "screechtard" in normal conversation today. Note once you've established yourself as dominant enough times in front of others and you see her trying to bring a fight in front of others a simple question works wonders: "Do you really want to do this? You know how its going to end." finish with a steady disapproving look And they'll instantly remember the times it didn't work in their favor.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 04:36 PM
2

Further, "I am sorry" is a declaration of what you are. It's a conugation of the form 'to be' "I am alpha" "I am male" "I am sorry?..." I apologize is a verb, an action, meaning there is an end to it. At some point in time you will no longer be apologizing so they should soak it up when they can.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 04:26 PM
2

Ruin? That simply sets the standard. Always be objective.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 04:18 PM
0

"What have you done to deserve my smile?" Then smile
/r/askTRP15/03/15 05:58 PM
1

98% most guys don't even know what that means...until they google.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 04:28 PM
1

Geezus. I don't even... know. What the fuck am I supposed to think about this? Did you inquire about her clam?
/r/askTRP14/03/15 04:48 AM
1

I like rabbits. There's ten in my yard. Wild ones but they fucking recognize who's in charge.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 04:44 AM
1

I'm here to second Joe Navarro's book. Definitely worth it. Also read Paul Ekman on the same subject. Also David Lieberman "You can read anyone" Edit: autocorrect thought it was funny.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 04:36 AM
1

Staying accountable here. Still working on it between work and play. I under estimated how much needs to be written to make it worthwhile. Tuesday is my next open day. Expect it later that day and I'll ping your inbox when its up.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/15 04:33 AM
1

Staying accountable here. Still working on it between work and play. I under estimated how much needs to be written to make it worthwhile. Tuesday is my next open day. Expect it later that day and I'll ping your inbox when its up.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/15 04:32 AM
2

This is the one I was referring to. Its simple easy stuff to do. Imagine your room laid out well. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ovn0w/life_hackspro_tipsbro_tips
/r/askTRP14/03/15 04:10 AM
3

Are you living in the room you grew up in? Went through HS in? If so then... You need to man that room up immediately for starters. Take down kid shit, high school shit. There's a thread, I think its in the sidebar in /r/seduction about what your room should look like. Follow that advice. That will be your first step towards your parents respecting you as a man and your desire to bring girls home now and then. They'll see your manly fucking room and respect. Also, you're dad will be inspired.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 04:18 PM
4

Okay, there's some interest it appears. They can be helpful. I'll make a post in /r/TRPOffTopic. It'll probably be about a day before I can post a worthwhile post because there are quite a few points to consider.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/15 11:32 PM
3

Okay, there's some interest it appears. They can be helpful. I'll make a post in /r/TRPOffTopic. It'll probably be about a day before I can post a worthwhile post because there are quite a few points to consider.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/15 11:32 PM
4

Most definitely. A lot of issues came from that She'd never let anything go, start losing a fight she brings it up. etc. She is the sweetest most loyal thing, brought her over from overseas. Completely dedicated. We argued a lot. I felt like shit for being such a selfish prick. My actions caused her to feel shitty and lowered her self worth. I wish I had found MarriedTRP, etc sooner. Through the affairs I decided that even with all her pros and cons if we didn't fuck enough then it wasn't a marr…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/15 11:28 PM
6

From a previous marriage: I wanted good sex, sometimes with someone hot. I wasn't getting enough at home. Wife was hot. Sex was good. Just not enough. PreTRP At bars, through friends Barely, they'll know. It's entirely inconvenient to keep them 100% in the dark. Like shit, not proud. Akin to how horny you are before rubbing one out then after you're not horny anymore. Still shitty. Still try to rationalize why I would be dishonest to a vow I made. Where's my integrity? About one or two. Nothing …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/15 11:05 PM
1

Interesting choice if words and an interesting observation. Poise. I usually poise myself before turning to someone because they're inconveniencing me (unwelcome interruption). Pay attention to their feet, body language, shoulders. Are their shoulders squared off (facing you or away). What are their feet doing? Are they facing towards you or away as if they want to walk away. Is an arm or both arms crossing their body (blocking you). These things by themselves are only indicators but all present…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 10:55 PM
1

Don't fucking do it. I hate shaving, so I end up with a 'beard' I hate it. I joined the Army with peach fuzz and fully intended on leaving it that way until DS made me shave, now I have to shave all the time. Fuck that noise. Enjoy your baby face, it's not as hard to wipe the pussy juice off.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 09:27 PM
1

Came to say: King Kong Ping Pong Ding Dong also it's good as a mantra when entering the club, because you're King Kong, you're going to play Ping Pong and beat em with your Ding Dong.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 09:22 PM
5

F.E.A.R. = False Events Appearing Real and even if rejection happens, it's not how many times you fall but how many times you get up. Sounds like you have plenty going for you, are you afraid that a rejection might shatter this picture?
/r/askTRP12/03/15 09:14 PM
11

Suave - "One more will be enough"
/r/askTRP12/03/15 09:07 PM
4

I have a few friends like you. I'm thinking of one in particular. Genetically blessed and to top it off he competes in 'natural body' competitions, none of the roided stuff. TBH he has the body everyone wants. Tall and fairly good looking. Thing is, it's a crutch for him and he knows it. He can split legs from here to babylon and language isn't a barrier. He can't however LTR and that's what he wants. His problem is that he's so used to just getting what he wants without objection. I introduced …
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 08:31 PM
1

This has me wondering about why I see low level income guys paying out the ass to have a nice ride. it's cheaper than a nice house it creates an illusion of bucks but it also feels nice to have a nice ride. I watched Mercedes' own video on their self driving car and could give a shit if anyone rode with me in it. I wanted that car so I could enjoy myself while getting from point a to b. Read a book, watch a show, listen to music, or get with the girl I allowed in the car.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 07:27 PM
-2

"So?" reply: "So? You're just pretending and don't know what you're missing out on. No one likes a liar." pause...wait for the shock/smile and then "Come over tonight at 8pm and bring a steak"
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 07:20 PM
1

But don't overextend. Next time pull out your fucking phone, open the calendar give two choices, put it in your calendar, send her the cal invite and copy your desktop cal on it too (if it isnt already) set a one hour reminder. Then just before she comes tell her your hungry, have been working and want to grab a bite and invite her along. Also don't shit in your own backyard. Be prepared for it to be a professional meeting.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 06:56 PM
3

COMPLETELY uninterested, to the point of being mean, on the first night of meeting them. shit tests? or are intimidated by you. That's a good thing, take control. It seems I have to lead and do EVERYTHING. oh if every guy had a woman that was willingly led like that, the world would be a happier place. You described what most guys want. Maybe I'm too masculine or scary looking. Is there such a thing? Do you look like Dwayne Johnson and Danny Trejo had a love child? I'm trying to imagine the most…
/r/askTRP12/03/15 05:47 PM
1

Ah that was my next question, 'do you have male buddies' but I think you've answered it. Don't sweat it. When you're 1on1 with buddies there's nothing wrong with a serious tone now and then. Also, you don't have to be the loudest, funnest guy in the room to be Alpha. Remember King's have Jesters too.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 04:32 PM
1

Can you elaborate on how you 'found out about it'?
/r/askTRP12/03/15 04:11 PM
1

I'm posting slightly off topic. If your leftovers suck then your main course when it's fresh sucks. Further, you can take leftovers and make it into a new dish. But yeah, stuffed cabbage...
/r/askTRP12/03/15 01:00 AM
2

Awesome! Accountability time: What have you done since?
/r/becomeaman11/03/15 11:27 PM
1

making your bed and washing the sheets regularly
/r/becomeaman11/03/15 10:08 PM
2

Reviving the dead here. It's essentially important for EVERY man to get this lesson into their heads. Let them go! Never let them back either. You don't pull the leftovers out of the trash when you're hungry do you? Why do that with women? There's plenty out there. Doing this saves you and has a cumulative effect on the body of women teaching them that we will no longer put up with this as men and if they decide to fuck around, then they lose EVERYTHING If every guy reacted by leaving, cheating …
/r/becomeaman11/03/15 09:58 PM
1

First off, don't write a wall of text. Second, don't be so damn wordy about things. There's a great TL;DR in these comments.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 09:09 PM
2

Threw me for a loop there. Initially I thought "hey those are the stages of loss, etc!" then I realized it was a deeper statement. Denial that you aren't the best man you can be Anger that you let yourself get that way Bargaining well I'm really good at this but not that Depression fuck that's a lot of work/long road/scary Acceptance if I don't do something about this, I'll always be same. <pulls boots on>
/r/askTRP11/03/15 08:52 PM
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