So after spinning plates, I found one that I can LTR someone who would benefit me academically, socially, career wise, and encourage further SMV development. I have vetted her fully with zero red flags, including close with family and low n-count. I of course do not want to marry her as I am only 23 and have 5 more years of school left (not to mention the abundant red pill scripture about the topic).

Do I need to make anything clear to her early on in the relationship so that I don't "lead her on"? Briffault's law dictates her to be with me because she is getting amazing sex, a high SMV partner, and having her hamster spun. However, when she graduates from her program this May while I have many years left before finishing school, she might want to stay in the big city we live in away from family just to be with me.

How would I even begin to approach something like this? It feels unfair for me to do this to her, yet it isn't. She is benefitting from being with me, and she can make her own big girl decisions. I guess you could say I still have a lot to learn, but I hope some of you seasoned vets had some insight to share.