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| 0 | Feeling guilty for LTRing?She’s the same age as me. I’m in medical school while she’s at grad school. I’m not asking advice for dodging a bullet, I’m asking advice on how to be a decent but firm human being in a society of pushovers and blue pilled cucks. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 09:46 PM |
| – | How Do I Stop Just Getting Dates?This guy took a solid 10 minutes of his time to write out a hypothetical scenario for OP's cringeworthy tinder date yet instead of thanking him, OP made other posts wasting his time when he could be meeting girls in person. | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 07:47 PM |
| 1 | 25M Virgin Serious Escalation IssuesDon't compliment her, period. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 07:45 PM |
| 1 | 25M Virgin Serious Escalation IssuesNo, that's fucking weird. She knows you find her cute but giving her that validation, especially with your inexperience, will make it so uncomfortable for her. Don't even think about sex yet until you learn the basics of frame and kino. It will come soon enough | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 07:23 PM |
| 4 | 25M Virgin Serious Escalation IssuesHaven't read the comments other people posted here but wanted to provide my insight. Like you, I had to start from the bottom at age 23. My recommendation to you is that you set very baseline goals for each date. Do tinder or other apps so it is low investment, like you have done. Raise your SMV concurrently with this, but don't kill yourself if you are only able to pull 5's and 6's; They are just training wheels for you. For the first few dates, set the goal to be "Go out on a date". Doesn't ma… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Ask to hang out but she isn't coming alone."If X wants to come, let's reschedule for another time" | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Erectile DysfunctionLike others have said, nofap and testosterone. Viagra has zero potency for me if I take it with food. I couldn't get a boner after taking 100mg with food, but got the boner of my life from 12.5 mg another day. The source of your problems is likely tension and anxiety, I am in the same boat. Google "Pegym hard flaccid" or "pegym pelvic floor balance". I think this is the source of your problems. if your dick can stay hard to porn it is all mental | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 08:58 PM |
| 6 | Is Accepting A Brawling Challenge Breaking Frame?An alpha male avoids the risk of physical altercations because he has everything to lose, whether that be his good looks, perfectly clean legal record, or the respect of his name; Especially true when the local drunk is the one who would be implicated in the altercation | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Go to a party, make three girls highly attracted to me (IOIs left and right), add them all on facebook and not one has accepted in a day?Be even cockier, make out with them, get their number You went from adding them on facebook, to giving them your number, to concluding you'll make out with them and take it from there. Judging from your theory your "Jerk" game is probably cringey as hell and makes other people uncomfortable. You need to read the sidebar | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 03:51 AM |
| 1 | When should you start spending money on a woman?First date through pre-sex "I'll get this round and you get next". Post-sex date dependent on the situation I'll pay for drinks or dinner and they say "You don't have to" and I reply with a stern "I know. I want to". I calibrate heavily though based on how they act, if they are eager to split the bill, or how many times we've fucked | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 03:48 AM |
| 2 | I am struggling to live. Wondering if and when I should take anti depressants?Just from reading your post it seems like you have Depressed Mood Hopelessness Fatigue Suicidal thoughts / ideations Anhedonia Dude you are depressed. You NEED to see a doctor. Whether you want to take SSRI's or not you have a mental disorder (albeit not an insanely serious one) that needs to be either treated | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 06:18 PM |
| 4 | How I kicked my huge chance... (I really need help)I have been reading TRP for nearly one year but still have lots of problems. You've been reading but what are you doing she was bored of my beta interaction. So I surrendered You have no self confidence. If you've only been lifting for two weeks you may as well have never started at all (I am not saying this is bad, you just haven't reaped any benefits yet). You will have a long road ahead of you, I was in your shoes once. Keep up the work in the gym and approaching in person. Truth be told you … | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 06:12 PM |
| 1 | How I kicked my huge chance... (I really need help)Why are you talking like that? Jesus | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 06:07 PM |
| 3 | I am not too embarrassed to go to a doctor about my erectile dysfunction.Also check pelvic floor imbalance. Look up PC/BC muscle tightness on google or PEgym | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/18 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Don't fall into the trap of binary thinking, there is such a thing as a middle ground5 year member with inaction, 6 months of effort starting this year, and I find myself in an LTR with a girl who has ZERO red flags. Thanks for this post | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/18 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Gift from another guyThat last paragraph put a cherry on top of my week | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 02:56 AM |
| 26 | Always Give Her Plausible DenialFavorite line for plausible deniability: "Come back to my place, I have a pickle jar I need help opening" | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 09:38 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with "size" insecurityLike others have said, sex is more emotional feeling than physical to a girl. If you completely dominate her having a 4.5" dick won't matter | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 11:42 PM |
| 6 | How to reject the friendzone"I have enough friends. See you around" | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 11:39 PM |
| 1 | How do I escalate and initiate a kiss.This is what I do. Light touching of arms, knees, non-sexual leg areas whenever I tell a joke or emphasize a point. Keep doing this so she is used to your touch. Next, grab her hands every once in a while. When she is used to your touch, try to play a game with how long you can keep your hand on hers. You can get one second or five seconds at first. Withdraw your hand after you calibrate how much she likes your touch. After the hand game and put it on her shoulder instead. When you find you can … | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 12:16 AM |
| 60 | Game topic: Cold ReadingI fucking love cold reading so much. The funniest part is that it's almost always me spewing bullshit. If it's wrong it's funny because I go above and beyond with my descriptions. If I'm right it gives them the tingles even more. The look on a girl's face when you guess her age, what she does for work, or what kind of drink she orders at starbucks is priceless. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 05:28 PM |
| 7 | I got laid with a girl after being emotionally vulnerable.You did fine. Good on you for not emotionally venting to her in the car. You conveyed the message in as little as possible to her. Apart from that you didn't give a fuck about your friends and left without saying anything. Your priorities came first, as they always should be. I bet all your buddies spent the rest of the night coming up with scenarios as to why you left, adding to your mystery and spinning the HB8's hamster. Congrats on the new plate | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 05:26 PM |
| 1 | My LTR got Physical with meGoodbye. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Proper response to women talking about things I don't care aboutSo by this you mean as she is talking, literally just look away from her, look at a wall or a decoration around your environment as she drones on? If so, this shit works | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 07:10 PM |
| 1 | So I am morbidly obese and unsure about liftingDon't have advice to give you but wanted to say congrats and never give up. 5'8 isn't a bad height and 270lbs is more than manageable. Remember you will look better with every pound you lose, and that you won't suddenly look amazing only after you lose 100 lbs exactly. Make sure to do elliptical to help your joints | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 05:52 AM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread April 04I wouldn't say all are natural RP. It just comes with the fame | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/18 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Am I Acting "Properly" On First Dates?Hey man thanks for the update. Worked on push pull last night with that HB8. Got her in my bed at the end of the date but she was on her period, still hooked up though. Likely see her soon and seal the deal | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Ex Fatties first postThis is an amazing story man. Welcome to the good life, congrats | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/18 04:35 AM |
| 3 | Maintaining Frame saved my lifeQuestion but, why not just walk away? You handled it amazingly but would it have been better to walk or is him entering your frame a "safer" route? He could have become enraged and stabbed you right there | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/18 04:32 AM |
| 11 | How To Be An Attractive Man - 4 Key TipsThis is an excellent post. I had another human being see me naked for the first time a few weeks ago. I wanted to fuck her just to get it over with and lose my virginity. She was fat and narcissistic and I'm about 75% sure she had a yeast infection. I was repulsed, told her I didn't feel good, and ghosted her completely. I am never disrespecting myself like that again for settling for someone that "seems" near my league. Have 2nd dates with a HB7, HB8, and a 1st date with an HB8 this week. After… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/18 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Am I Acting "Properly" On First Dates?Oh yeah? How so? | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Am I Acting "Properly" On First Dates?Thanks man I appreciate it. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Am I Acting "Properly" On First Dates?Thanks man I appreciate it. Headed out of town this weekend so will wait until next week after Easter (plus I am sure radio silence for both of them will drive them wild). As far as everything else goes, the whole hand holding and what not is cool? It feels like I'm in a relationship with them (in the sense of walking around holding hands / interlocking fingers, them resting their body on mine or my shoulder), but then again maybe that's what is supposed to be going down? Doing such definitely p… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 02:26 AM |
| 19 | [FR] Why You Should Always Assume AttractionRead the sidebar brotha. Hb# = girl rating 1-10 SMV = sexual market value | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/18 05:48 AM |
| 2 | [FR] From 0 to a 100 real quick. 28yr old feministYes, yes, yes. Love it man, excellent work. I love making out then acting like nothing happened | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/18 05:24 AM |
| 1 | The SERIOUS Importance of Vitamin D (trust me, read details within)What's the best way to hit all the bases with multivitamins (ADEK Zinc B6 B12 etc)? Many single pill supplements don't have the best bioavailability | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/18 03:31 PM |
| 1 | My first Tinder dateTake the time you need to gradually progress and feel more comfortable at your own pace, but don't make it an excuse for inaction | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/18 07:48 PM |
| 2 | My first Tinder dateCalibrate. If you convey your intentions and succinctness through text, they should be able to tell you aren’t a “texter” | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/18 12:52 AM |
| 3 | My first Tinder datePlan the date right after introducing yourself over text. Where do you live, when are you free, etc. you did fine, just implement it next time | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/18 12:49 AM |
| 21 | My first Tinder dateIn the future, attraction = you got the number. Always assume attraction. If she isn’t into you when you get the number she almost never will be | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/18 12:42 AM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread March 21What's the best way to overcome it? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/18 12:02 AM |
| 60 | My first Tinder dateDon't do movie dates. Text for logistics only. Keep up the work and improve on only a handful of things per date so you can focus on the date itself | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/18 11:59 PM |
| – | When did you become a Man?Through pain their is growth. It is a natural human instinct to withdraw from discomfort. Really good and succinct post. I hate how time keeps going and I realize how my parents weren't the infallible humans society teaches us | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/18 09:07 PM |
| 2 | First steps towards better me, thanks to TRPGreat things lie ahead of you man. Keep killing it | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/18 12:01 AM |
| 3 | I keep messing up my chances with women by being a nice guy. Really need help on how to change?You are recognizing your mistakes rather than missing them. You know where to improve, you just need practice. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 11:51 PM |
| 5 | How do I get back on track?Stop masturbating. The hardest part of swallowing the pill was working to better myself without a goal in sight. Once I saw improvements in my life it made it miles easier to build discipline to keep going | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 01:45 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The Importance of Being DirectIt’s one thing getting pissed on for approaching and failing, but I literally confirmed the date with her lol | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/18 03:10 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The Importance of Being DirectAppreciate the response. I disagree with some of your points but see where they stem from. Time will tell with respect to her attraction on our date after spring break. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/18 12:53 AM |
| 6 | [FR] The Importance of Being Directhttps://youtu.be/TERvoFSUGKk Starts at 2:30. What an amazing scene | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/18 08:50 PM |
| 47 | [FR] The Importance of Being DirectThat is an excellent point. On that note, I went into the interaction with zero expectations. If she wasn’t living in the same city as me I’d doubt anything could’ve happened as they left the beach area today to go back home in another state. At any rate, heavy kino will be applied and if she isn’t receptive on the first date it’ll be a soft next | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/18 07:43 PM |
| 3 | My Red Pill Journey: Depression to ObsessionLove it man. My mom is middle eastern and I feel you 100%. Keep up the good work. You will find that although everyone says stop trying to chase girls and they will come to you, it actually will happen eventually, provided you put the work in on yourself | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/18 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Persistence is the key.Lol that dude isn't "beta" you literally grabbed her head and forced her to give you a kiss | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/18 04:15 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The Red Pill May Not Be As Swallowed As It SeemsWasn't a shit test. She changed her tampon in my bathroom | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/18 02:19 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The Red Pill May Not Be As Swallowed As It SeemsAny tips bro? I feel like I am in the same boat as you once were; I understand the reality of it but it is hard to accept | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 06:30 AM |
| 2 | 7 Science-Backed Ways To Increase TestosteroneAre zinc and vitamin D effectively absorbed through a multivitamin like mens one a day? I heard that although they have good amounts the usable form is reduced and isn't enough | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Completely unable to escalate even with clear IOIs?If she won't go out to get drinks with you then she isn't interested. Sounds like you have a minor case of oneitis with the possibility of it escalating to more serious oneitits. Shoot your shot, if it's no it's no. All the reading in the world won't help you if you aren't able to apply it bro | /r/askTRP | 07/03/18 11:44 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The Red Pill May Not Be As Swallowed As It SeemsI've read that sometimes it's used as an excuse to not fuck you. With this girl and the last girl I hooked up with both times they actually were into me and weren't lying | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 11:20 PM |
| 22 | [FR] The Red Pill May Not Be As Swallowed As It SeemsHonestly I really don't have an excuse other than the fact that I thought doing something like that was taboo haha | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 05:41 PM |
| 2 | What I've Learned: NoFap -> TheRedPillNofap doesn't give you superpowers. It returns your mental status back to baseline / normal you. 43 days to go for my 90 day reboot. Good luck | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/18 03:18 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Successful Tinder Date Following Major Self ImprovementI've done that before in the past. Unfortunately it slipped my mind completely in the moment though. That's why I like focusing on one or max two ways to improve myself per date, otherwise I stress the whole time | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/18 03:26 PM |
| 14 | [FR] Successful Tinder Date Following Major Self ImprovementI felt the same way brotha, even in the moment as I rested my hand on hers. The key is to work your way there. Light arm / hand touching when joking or storytelling Escorting her by small of her back when leaving Escorting her with your arm when changing venues Laying your hand on hers and keeping it there (Physically ask yourself "how long can I keep it there") When we got to the third bar she had her phone in her hand. Without saying anything I took it from her and placed it on the bar and hel… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/18 06:43 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Successful Tinder Date Following Major Self ImprovementGot her number through tinder after persistence. Sent an intro text, then immediately asked if she was free on x day at x time. The rest of our texting was spent doing last minute rescheduling between her work schedule and my school schedule being shifty if you get her number assume she has agreed to a date. Send a hello text, wait for her response, usually something like "oh so you're xxx" then plan the date. Nothing more, nothing less | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/18 06:12 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Successful Tinder Date Following Major Self ImprovementWe split the drinks the whole night. How would you recommend shit testing HER? Not used to that reverse role, care to share some insight? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/18 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Going on first ever dateDo NOT think about having sex, hooking up with her, or anything like that; It will only pressure you further. Instead, look at it this way. I want your goal for the night to be having a fun time and surviving through your first date. Anything extra is bonus points for you. I suggest going to a bar and sitting next to her, making sure your legs/thighs are touching throughout. Touch her a bit as well when making jokes or emphasizing points. If you already committed to a restaurant, try to spin it … | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 03:42 AM |
| 16 | [FR] Porn Ruined My First Ever HookupA general rule of thumb test is this. If you cannot get erect without touching your dick - ie you think sexually and feel your dick getting hard, and then it can stay hard for a while without you needing to stimulate it manually, then you are not where you should be. For what it's worth, I can do this. I greatly appreciate the write up, you are spot on. My interactions with her were not natural at all. More along the lines of having my eyes on the prize and thinking what a subreddit wants me to … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 03:58 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Porn Ruined My First Ever HookupYeah seeing my family next week will be some well needed R&R. Best of luck with the rest of your studies | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 03:50 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Porn Ruined My First Ever HookupHey man thanks for the response! I am in dental school myself and know all about that stuff. After seeing what you and others have posted I can definitely agree it's performance/sexual anxiety. I guess I need to cool it down and just relax like you and many others have suggested. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 03:28 AM |
| 5 | [FR] Porn Ruined My First Ever HookupThis sounds fairly accurate as like I said it was my first ever sexual experience. I will keep the porn out of my life for sure but if experience really was my issue last night then it's definitely understandable | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 02:44 AM |
| 1 | School Acquaintance Flaked, How to ProceedThanks for the response man. That's what I've been rolling with since. She approached me and said hi while our class was out at a bar and was cordial but quickly cut off communications and continued talking with her friends. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 02:42 AM |
| 10 | [FR] Porn Ruined My First Ever HookupI've cut down 5 months ago from 1-3x a day to once every 2 weeks if that. But that is the goal. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 01:22 AM |
| 3 | I decided i took your guys advice and called it off.I know you just discovered this sub, but I promise you, this will be a major turning point in your life. I read your other post and I truly KNOW that you will improve and change your life for the better. Go to the main subreddit and read the sidebar, along with NMMG as you mentioned. I am sure you will succeed. It will be hard, but once you realize the way things are, it will be worth it. Best of luck to you | /r/askTRP | 09/11/17 03:12 AM |
| 5 | [FR] My First Kiss CloseYes, was a huge part in changing my mindset, albeit likely a placebo or just an excuse. I would never bring a girl back home to my family house, 2 parents and 2 younger sisters would be a death sentence. They're super involved in every part of everyones life, whether its my own family or cousins etc | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/17 05:45 PM |
| 6 | [FR] My First Kiss CloseFinally someone who understands | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/17 04:09 PM |
| 3 | [FR] My First Kiss CloseThanks for this that is a great point. Will do! | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/17 03:58 PM |
| 12 | [FR] My First Kiss CloseI have 2 finals next week. I'm not going to sacrifice my long term goals for a short term girl | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/17 03:57 PM |
| – | New York City Dates?I live in Washington Heights haha that's what I'm saying. This one girl is 10 miles away in NJ while the other one is in Queens. Any specific recommendations for me? | /r/seduction | 05/09/17 02:01 PM |
| 1 | How to express Sexual Interest Vs. Friendly InterestSounds good, thanks | /r/askTRP | 16/06/17 05:42 PM |
| 4 | The one skill that will drastically improve your life.NoFap has helped with my discipline. Albeit I am on something like day 5 or 6, I am using it to my advantage. The urges suck but it is whats best. I have been consistently going to the gym and feel energized ever since I stopped. I wanted to fap Sunday but told myself not too because of my date on Tuesday; not fapping would push my sexual energy to escalate in person rather than with a computer. Fast forward to today, friends are back in town, and I am going out. I hope that it motivates me to t… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/17 04:40 PM |
| 1 | How to express Sexual Interest Vs. Friendly InterestBy strange women you mean what exactly? | /r/askTRP | 16/06/17 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Approaching girls at 20? I went to the mall today and failed.It may not be visible now, but you have to the best person you can be. The best person on this earth. You need to eat right, lift hard, and study well. I feel you with school man, I knew no one but now going to grad school I am going to do everything the way it should have been done this time around. You need to realize that at the end of the day, nobody really gives a fuck about you. At least not when you despise yourself. You still seem to be in the "anger" phase which is totally fine. Take so… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/17 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Approaching girls at 20? I went to the mall today and failed.Because you are over analyzing your performance. Eye contact isn't always an IOI. You are only invisible because you tell yourself you are invisible. Lighten up dude. At this stage in your (our) journey, you shouldn't be placing expectations in your interactions. Have ONE goal and one goal only for the day. Go out in public, go and look at people without breaking eye contact first, go and approach a girl and say WORDS to her. You cannot make good progress by putting on your best outfit and going… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/17 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Approaching girls at 20? I went to the mall today and failed.Look at you talking about IOIs as if you are the approach king... I sure as hell ain't. What you need to do is start SMALL. You can go ahead and jump right in and approach a HB10 in front of an entire football stadium of people, but will you? Probably not. Work your way up. Once you see that your actions have almost no meaningful effect on your life (within reason), it will become easier. Read my recent posts, you will relate to them. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/17 04:35 AM |
| 1 | [FR] My First Date Ever As A 22 Year OldAwesome. I'm sure you F-closed your first ever date | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/17 07:02 PM |
| 1 | [FR] My First Date Ever As A 22 Year OldShit man that's true! She mentioned how she has a small bar in her townhouse with a few seats. Just basically say "I want to come in and check out the bar"? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 11:37 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My First Date Ever As A 22 Year OldFor sure. Going from approach>number>date definitely changed my entire game. It's like I "unlocked" the next phase. I know how fucking stupid I probably sound but approaching girls knowing that I CAN go on dates with them "now" that I've unlocked it makes there be a lot less pressure on me | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 09:17 PM |
| 4 | [FR] My First Date Ever As A 22 Year OldThanks man! Believe it or not getting the number was a breeze. I chatted her up easily when I saw her friends get up and leave her alone (was next to her standing up getting a drink). Bantered for 10 minutes or so and just said id like to talk to her more what's her number. Easy peasy. However I didn't have expectations or a goal of picking her up, putting less pressure on me, making everything be smoother | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 08:44 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My First Date Ever As A 22 Year OldThat sounds a lot better in regards for the venue changing. As far as the legs, we were side by side. I was sitting with my legs facing her with my left elbow at the bar for example, but her legs remained forward. Thanks for the helpful response though and standing with my back towards the bar sounds like a much better thing to try out | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 05:45 PM |
| 1 | [FR] My First Date Ever As A 22 Year OldWell put. Thanks for that perspective | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 05:05 PM |
| 10 | [FR] My First Date Ever As A 22 Year OldHalf the population has herpes. Thanks for casting the first stone | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 12:07 PM |
| 32 | [FR] My First Date Ever As A 22 Year OldThanks man. What seems like small and maybe even "victories" not mentioning to other people may be huge ones to me. My biggest fear was escalating from number to date. I had no idea what a date was like. Now that I "survived", I realized it's nothing more than one giant opportunity for escalation. If I didn't escalate with her tonight, someone else will tomorrow | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 11:27 AM |
| 11 | [FR] My First Date Ever As A 22 Year OldWhat I wanted to do was go on a date. That happened, I ran into a long lost buddy of mine and reconnected, and became acquainted with the bar manager of one of my favorite spots. That wouldn't have happened if I stayed home playing Xbox. It couldn't have been more successful for my personal goals | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Bar Kino?That last one is golden. Thanks for the write up man. I'll be likely posting a field report in the main sub! | /r/askTRP | 13/06/17 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Bar Kino?That's a good one. Yeah It really seems like you "just go for it". There's no reason not too when she's getting dressed and putting on makeup FOR YOU and not for her. Is it creepy to just put her arm around her back or touch her leg? It's funny because I can do kino decently (shoulder / arm touching) when I'm out at night talking to girls but I don't think about it because of a few drinks. Fake it til you make it reigns true | /r/askTRP | 13/06/17 04:39 PM |
| – | |FR/Test| Using the word "date" or not when asking a girl out.Nice job man happy to hear about you getting the girl. Some people would confuse this with oneitis but IMO going back and "achieving victory" for your past self is incredible All in all boys, My Theory was correct. Technically you had one date. Like scientific theorems is confirmed nor will it ever be. Go out and gather more evidence to support your claim. You had one good result, the next 7 results could be against your claim | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Small Victories Lead To Big SuccessI was always an ACT person myself | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/17 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Finally "Feeling It" For the First TimeThanks man I appreciate it. Everything you are saying makes perfect sense. Good luck in the future | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/17 01:37 AM |
| 1 | How has Mark Manson's "vulnerability" applied to your dating life?Read Pook's excerpt titled "Perfect is Boring" | /r/seduction | 11/05/17 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Finally "Feeling It" For the First TimeI see. So I should've focused more on the uglies and spread myself evenly so to speak? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/17 08:40 PM |
| – | Be a Hero to Your Past Self, Not a DisgraceMan, as a 17 year old and hell even as a 22 year old I can't relate to what you talk about plates and sex. In a way, I envy your progress at such a young age. I don't have much experience with relationships, but as someone on a similar journey, "Avenging your past self" if such a powerful phrase. I've been trying to be better with not living in the past saying things like "I wish I socialized more in college", or "I wish I approached this (now a current) friend during freshman year instead of se… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/17 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Finally "Feeling It" For the First TimeKind of my thoughts too. I saw them (we were talking outside) inside from the window between the outer and inner bar that is connected. I just assumed that they would come back but at the same time I knew I wouldn't get the number unless I went out of my way to talk to them again; By this point I was probably with them for 30 minutes and I wanted to do something else. I was more excited about talking to these girls than I would be if I focused on getting their number and ejected away | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/17 03:21 PM |
| 6 | Finally "Feeling It" For the First TimeI'm moving to NYC away from my parents so I think it will be very beneficial. I have had helicopter parenting for longer than I can imagine; Even my dad was texting me last night asking when I was getting home. I'm a 22 y/o virgin who hasn't kissed a girl since high school, yet people would look at me and NEVER assume that about me. It's time I get my life straightened out and I am happy I have all summer to do so before I hit the books | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/17 01:32 PM |
| 1 | How important are shoes?It won't break you if they are half decent, but I have noticed girls who I just meet immediately look at my shoes and then back at my face. Many times they say "I love those shoes where did you get them" (Yeezy's for example because I'm a hypebeast). Don't worry too much as long as your grandpa wouldn't wear them | /r/askTRP | 06/05/17 01:13 AM |
| 4 | May 05 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadI finally finished up my long term diet and am down from 250 to 206 as of today. I still am a bit big in the hips but I feel fantastic. Finally able to head to the gym as of now (diet doesn't allow for it). 30% body fat to 22%. Now that I've worked on my body I can focus on my social skills | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/17 12:53 AM |
| 35 | Pornography Addiction and Erectile DysfunctionThanks man. It's hard to not feel pathetic reading that message I just posted but I feel better already. I deleted my entire fap folder and BOTH backups from my other hard drives. Pathetic I have backups of fap folders but fuck it. It's all gone. Years of porn I accumulated piece by piece for the past 6 years is now gone. I think doing this was what I need to proceed with making myself better. I think I'm going to stop touching my dick for a while... | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/16 12:38 AM |
| 107 | Pornography Addiction and Erectile DysfunctionI want to stop masturbating. Over the years I've collected nearly a 350gb encrypted "fap folder" thats stored on an external hard drive because it's 2x the size of my fucking macbook's drive. It's disgusting. I plug it in, get my fap in 5-30 minutes depending on my mood, then go about my day. Sometimes I fap before I go to bed to help me sleep, then wake up in the morning and do it before school. It's fucking terrible. I feel disgusting after I do it too. I started with pictures in high scool wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/16 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Should I Use My Weight As an Excuse to Not ApproachI am a junior in college, practically almost in dental school, have a nice job on the side to where money is not an issue. I love fashion and clothes and my family is supportive (although blue pill) and my friends are great. I don't do drug but have began to drink frequently when out with friends (not 21 though so I can't just go anywhere and get drunk). I also think monk mode isn't the right answer for me. I would say I am definitely anxious about approaching people just because I am scared of … | /r/askTRP | 08/02/16 07:31 AM |
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