Bar Kino?

DadOnDabs · 2017-06-13T17:36:21+00:00

I have guide written in this but I'll give you the highlights.

1) when you first meet hold your arms out and say good to see you (let her hug you). Tightness of the hug will tell you right away how much work you have to do

2) use playful taps and touches on her upper body to start some basic kino. Use these on talking points. Example: you tease her about something and playfully push her shoulder.

3) when you change locations go for the hand hold. Literally just grab her hand. I promise she won't give a fuck.

4) the Kiss. FUCK A KISS CLOSE. It's too much pressure. Kiss in the middle of the date. This gives you a better chance for a f-close. This is all opportunity based. If you see the opportunity then take it. You can make the opportunity yourself but that requires a little bit of practice.

(My favorite go-to for the kiss) While walking you will most likely come across an elevated surface (steps, bench, whatever). Move close so she is forced to hop up on it and walk across. Say, "I don't like it when you're up there" she will ask why. Then pull her down and say, "I don't look up to kiss" then kiss her.

redpilldick · 2017-06-13T16:29:42+00:00

Hug when you first meet. In the middle of conversation say "Your hands are so small!" then compare your sizes by putting yours up to hers. While talking, touch her on the shoulder or thigh occasionally (not too much though).

1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v · 2017-06-13T16:46:00+00:00

Start the date with a full body hug. Seriously, it sets the tone going forwards.

Touch her as much as you can. If you are an analytical kinda guy, every 15 minutes you need to get closer to her or touching her more. Get up and move your stool closer to her if you have to. If she asks...you say "I want to be closer to you..."

When you sit, find a booth, and sit next to her. Touch her leg with yours and touch her foot with yours.

I like the "Whisper Technique". So later, after you got her worked up a bit, you start to whisper in her ear. This allows you to get really close to her, touching her upper body as you are going in.

Then, you move in as if you were going to kiss her, but instead, you move to the side and whisper some more to her.

I've also been known to move behind her on the stool, put my hands on her shoulders, , and start to play with her hair...whisper to her, and start to rub her shoulders a bit... this usually will get her to moan a bit...

And by this point, if you have done all these things, and she is still smiling and touching you back... then take her home and just fuck her already!

DubbleFUPAwitCheez · 2017-06-13T19:00:51+00:00

If she's on a date with you she already likes you, at least a little, keep that in mind if you feel hesitant on something physical and push through. Remember, too bold is always better than not bold enough. You're less likely to lose a girl pushing for sex the first night than if you don't escalate at all.

WhorehouseVet · 2017-06-13T19:20:13+00:00

I do pretty much what u/dadondabs do on my first date. At the venue, try to sit at the bar, or at least sit side by side. Tease her, and laugh whilst I touch her on her shoulder, lower back, hand, or thigh. After some time, if the chemistry is right, I grab her hand, start with 1-2 sec, then gradually hold her hand longer. The key is don't look at your hand when you do it, maintain eye contact and keep talking or let her do the talking. Usually a woman will leave her hand on her thigh with her palm facing the ceiling, so you can use hand holding to kino her thigh as well. Slowly I will try to get my fingers to interlock with hers, and squeeze down to make my points across, and if she reciprocate, you know it's on.

DiggerClam · 2017-06-14T01:31:07+00:00

The rest of the guides here are excellent use them.

What I'm going to add is, although you know how important Kino is, seeing it's your first date, your brain WILL CONTINUOUSLY say to yourself:

"not yet, redpilldick; this isn't the perfect time yet, wait a little bit longer".

^{^{^}} fuck this guy, hard. He's full of shit.

Go get her bro.

Pitchfork51 · 2017-06-15T02:50:32+00:00

Honestly it's just practice and learning what's appropriate and when you can push it a bit.

Title	Bar Kino?
Author	redpilldick
Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	June 13, 2017 4:17 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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