Ive read most of the sidebar and a good amount of the rational male. Few questions I had:

--Ive read some answers here on asktrp where a girl flakes on the guy and the guy calls her out on it. It worked in some cases because the guy was conveying he wont put up with her shit and that he values his time so if she doesnt respect it, shes out. At the same time, shouldn't the guy be rather indifferent about whether the girl is present or not? If he does call her out on it, he's showing that he's letting her affect him and that her presence actually matters--how do you straddle between these two lines? After all, If you dont call her out you make it seem as if your own time is dispensable.

--i see the general theme on RP is to never marry. I do see the merits of this and the inherent flaws of marriage.. But what if you want kids? Isnt it alpha to want kids as a means of carrying on your lineage?

--The rational male says to keep a woman interested even for the long term, you should never be completely open and transparent. Being overt instead of covert kills desire. How do you do this while still conveying standard info about yourself? Just say enough to answer their questions but leave the rest up to their imagination? Any good examples of this would be really appreciated.