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If it was only great looks, I would have never got laid, like ever.
/r/askMRP31/10/18 11:04 PM
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Just adding a log to your fire.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/18 07:50 PM
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As you get older, and if you prefer women that are not children to you, there is very little availability of low N-count women. Particularly in the group of very attractive women. The key in mate selection later in life, is that you are the top alpha of what was available to her in the past. It is a relative position, such that it is relative to her past experience, and, your relative SMV is at the top of her experience. Again, it is a high bar with very attractive women. The downside for the ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/18 07:43 PM
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All true. More than you can know.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/18 07:16 PM
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having pursued this strategy for the first two years of my RP journey i can attest it's a real thing You had company.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/18 03:26 PM
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Yes
/r/askMRP31/10/18 03:25 PM
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they're still somewhat stuck in blue pill thinking and so butthurt that love is different than they thought that they discard it altogether. Well said. For some it takes a long time to move past it.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/18 03:23 PM
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Using Red Pill to achieve Blue Pill objectives; works very well, until it doesn't. It is the ultimate yo-yo diet of love.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/18 09:52 PM
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Yes, can make the home residence anywhere really. Set up residence, and a mail forwarding service in a no tax state. You don't really live in any one place. I would follow the weather that I like - 70's daytime highs and 50's at night, near the ocean. I haven't seen most of our great country, and, fact is, I'm running out of time.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/18 09:37 PM
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Not roughing it, call it "glamping" in a Newmar King Aire bus
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/18 09:29 PM
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Believe it or not, considering going from half time in the motorhome to full time and getting rid of the sticks and bricks completely. I like to travel.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/18 05:14 PM
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getting ready to downsize house next year, Downsized from 5000 sq ft to 1500 sq ft house when I retired. Wish I had done it sooner.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/18 03:01 PM
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English is my second language. In all your posts, it never showed.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 07:51 PM
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Spot on here. Litz you're killin it......
/r/askMRP27/10/18 01:24 PM
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If he displays butt hurt; that, I get (and yes, he is). Is this what you're referring? Yes
/r/askMRP26/10/18 06:33 PM
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My wife is noticing too but very, very, very slowly. Then I push the initiation and start the circle of frustration What would you really expect? She has to see the changes, then test the changes, then believe the changes, then test them again and again. When you push it and she turns you down, then you undo her view of the new you, again. She tested and you failed, this time. Keep at it. Fortunately (most) women have a short memory and will adapt to your changes.
/r/askMRP26/10/18 05:07 PM
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Reset, reset, reset. Every. Fucking. Day. Yes. That's one of the reasons it's called "hard mode".
/r/askMRP26/10/18 04:42 PM
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Yes, and, Yes. On the other hand, from an insider's prospective, from my prospective, it was after the pill and before protected sex. Good times.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/18 08:03 PM
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more guys are unplugged benefits me. Agree. Just poking the bear.
/r/askMRP25/10/18 07:56 PM
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Such good stuff, and you just gave it away, for free. Seems altruistic.
/r/askMRP25/10/18 04:59 PM
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I miss sex-drugs-n-rock'nroll of the 60's 70's and 80's. I'm just more inclusive.......
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/18 04:57 PM
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Ha ha ha ha ha ha ........ Heh Heh Heh Heh Heh Heh Heh Ha ha ha ha ha ha ........ Heh Heh Heh Heh Heh Heh Heh
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/18 04:45 PM
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I had child support and alimony. My real spendable income soared, along with my spirits.
/r/askMRP25/10/18 02:35 AM
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Ha ha ha ha ha ha ........ Heh Heh Heh Heh Heh Heh Heh .
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 11:37 PM
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Now you need a plan, a "MAP". Start on the OYS each week if you ever want to get better....
/r/askMRP24/10/18 11:34 PM
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Im angry at myself and her because i let her treat me this way throughout the entire relationship. Angry that my spouse does not support me in sobriety from addiction. Angry that i was not able live my dream of a drug free household. Number one - you are angry. Trying to think straight is a lot harder when you are angry. Do you have any control over yourself? If you do not, please stop wasting our time. If yes, then now is the time to get to the hard work doing the things that you need to do for…
/r/askMRP24/10/18 06:53 PM
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Texas is a 50/50 state. Its all smoke and mirrors. Yes, that's what is at the bottom of the rabbit hole.
/r/askMRP23/10/18 08:42 PM
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Close enough. It was a long time ago that I got my divorce, not far from where you are. Towards the end of it, I quit burning hours over her every accusation. The fact was, unless we went to court, which is rare, it just did not matter. The game is more like "mutually assured destruction" than even a negotiation. In the final analysis, everything she threw my way, was just to cost me legal$, delay it, and try to force me to agree to her terms. Your attorney is getting billable hours, her attorne…
/r/askMRP23/10/18 03:57 AM
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Is she moving her mouth through her lawyer, vying for advantage via negotiation, or are you really in court with her garbage?
/r/askMRP23/10/18 03:33 AM
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I love her and I thought love is what really matters That means she owns you. Since she knows she already owns you, now she's seeing how high you can jump.
/r/askMRP20/10/18 11:05 PM
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looking for a bandaid to cover a gunshot wound more like a cannonball.
/r/askMRP20/10/18 11:03 PM
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Most disasters that arrive here, already have kids....... Goes with the territory.
/r/askMRP20/10/18 11:02 PM
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...maybe if he made 100K she wants to get prego to up the child support
/r/askMRP20/10/18 07:16 PM
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Yep, too hard.......
/r/askMRP18/10/18 12:06 AM
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If your marriage is at risk over the prenup, you are already in trouble. She is in charge already over just $15k. It will get worse. Reclaim your manhood yet again and stall this woman. Thank your lucky stars she showed her stripes before she put you in the cuffs. You don't have to get married anyway, unless you're already pregnant. Run like a bunny.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/18 02:40 AM
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..it means you never have to say you're sorry....<whimsical music and fade>
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/18 02:35 AM
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Mr. Salty McButthurt Chucklefuck LMAO
/r/askMRP15/10/18 12:51 PM
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Good stuff. OP, you would do well to read this every day.
/r/askMRP15/10/18 03:23 AM
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Do plants eat gay people? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 06:56 PM
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.....I dunno......how much weigh were you trying to gain?
/r/askMRP14/10/18 06:39 PM
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I got home from work, she is half tearing up and gives me a hug and says everything’s gonna be alright. Then talks about how holidays will suck this year. She has already moved out mentally. You need to catch up.
/r/askMRP14/10/18 04:30 PM
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I'm thinking he has chosen...... to be a bear, not a bull.
/r/askMRP14/10/18 04:00 PM
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It is for me. Staying with a woman that doesn't want you, really? Stalkers and squatters do that, too. As long as you endure her abuse, why would she want you? Wouldn't she want you less? Why would she value you more than you value yourself? Women (and men) are not attracted to mates that do not value themselves.
/r/askMRP13/10/18 02:42 AM
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IRON RULE: If a woman ever desires a divorce, give it to her ASAP.
/r/askMRP13/10/18 02:08 AM
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As others here have said, a woman will do back flips to avoid being direct, about anything. OP, I suspect she is trying to get you to kill the puppy, but just cannot say it direct like a man, because she isn't one, duh. She is probably wondering why you are hanging on in spite of her attempts to get you to throw in the towel, for her.
/r/askMRP13/10/18 02:00 AM
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"Old age and treachery always beats youth and enthusiasm. "
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/18 04:24 PM
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Privilege of age. Count it my way and give no fucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/18 11:51 AM
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I think he's fucking with you....
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 08:13 PM
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I've made more bad decisions than any of you fuckers.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 08:00 PM
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I read Psychology Today articles on being a better husband. She tells me she likes it when I treat her like an equal. On the other hand, it's harder to penetrate her now that she's all dried up down there.
/r/askMRP07/10/18 03:08 AM
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I'm trying' ta be covert man.
/r/askMRP07/10/18 03:02 AM
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I lay in bed with a tent showing in the sheets where I'm hard. It's like flying the "fuck me now" flag. YMMV :)
/r/askMRP06/10/18 11:49 PM
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He's a 9, and gives milk and plows the fields......
/r/askMRP06/10/18 08:58 PM
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They're hot and DTF and sex would be crazy, but they're skanks, no shit Sherlock. Look man, I love slutty girls as much as anybody. But taking the risk of bringing home a disease to a decent woman that gives it up for you - that's just crazy. She told me she feels like a whore and hates it.... A perfect example here. You want to make her your slut, and she's telling you it's working. If you didn't have your head so far up her "feelz" you might be having some fun. Just a plain old classic shit te…
/r/askMRP06/10/18 03:13 AM
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You make sex with you sound like a extreme sport competition, like an obstacle course with a series of difficult, messy, and maybe painful tasks to check off on your master list of sexual milestones, a serious performance in which any failure to achieve your preplanned goal for that session is simply a failure bringing disappointment, shame, a sense of inadequacy Play that game for a while, and you will end up in the "Oh-Limp-Dicks". The sad part is, you might blame her for it, when it's not her…
/r/askMRP06/10/18 03:03 AM
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I wonder if he ever washes it?
/r/askMRP05/10/18 09:38 PM
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First, you think that you can do better outside the marriage. Maybe you can, maybe you can't - not relevant. But banging women, probably lower quality women than your wife, isn't for 10 years with kids,.... that is hard mode. Getting laid on the side is easy mode. Quit comparing. Second, THE ROOT CAUSES: You give too many fucks, about everything. She's anxious, because you are anxious. Your too much in your own head. You are too much in her frame. You are negotiating desire Other than that, you'…
/r/askMRP05/10/18 08:07 PM
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MRP you make me sick Please puke now and go away. Maybe you can get banned....fucking permanently for all this bleeding fucking heart concern trolling.
/r/askMRP05/10/18 03:36 PM
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I can't imagine outliving any of my kids. Sorry for your loss. Get some real help and get off this sub until you do.
/r/askMRP05/10/18 03:31 PM
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Naked +1, smiling +.5, naked and smiling +2. Looks like spreadsheet-able data sets... :)
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 08:57 PM
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I think you nailed that one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/18 03:30 AM
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In E-n-g-l-i-s-h you are fearful. Your decision is about your fears. You are chosing fear. It is a shitty analogy that we like to use to confuse new people and dumb mother-fuckers, because we like to waste our time helping the helpless. Kind of like the Salvation Army of the fucking manosphere.
/r/askMRP01/10/18 02:40 AM
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Don't look straight in her eyes! She looks too scary to ever get 1000 cocks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/18 02:34 AM
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I am an expert on borrowed time.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 02:31 AM
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I met my first wife in Hell. Finally left her there. Met my second wife in a bar. As soon as I saw her dancing, I wanted her. She came there with another guy. She left with me. Almost thirty years later, I still get hard looking at her.
/r/askMRP01/10/18 02:27 AM
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Like OP, since fear is a choice, may as well chose to make it overwhelming.
/r/askMRP30/09/18 09:35 PM
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I'm afraid of Canadians, especially the one's that smile.....
/r/askMRP30/09/18 08:16 PM
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How about, u/Over60_Stupid_Loner_FireTempered_OldPrick
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/18 08:14 PM
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Over time, very PUA and manosphere blog or group has gone the way of Pook MMSLP etc. No one knows this better than u/weakandsensitive who has explained it very well before. Doubt this will affect MRP, maybe not even TRP permanently. Either way, instead of the end of the manosphere as we know it, it will be just another beginning.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/18 07:01 PM
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You may end up being right. I just don't see that his actions are aligned. My perception is my reality. My reality worries me. Staying open to the possibility that your reality might be correct, gives me some hope. At this point, I am sure that neither of us is any closer to the others view, that divide does not bother me not at all. Best.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/18 08:43 PM
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You are fortunate. (I mean that, not shitty)
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/18 05:41 PM
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:) :) :) ......
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/18 05:16 PM
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There's not much you have to say that I completely disagree with, other than the belief that he gotten so much done in the last two years. It is still my opinion, that he is more driven by his ego, than by his desire to improve the country. Even putting aside that his behavior is embarrassing, he could have accomplished much more if he spent less time defending his ego, and, more time solving problems. Many of the battles he has fought are unnecessary and just a distraction for him and the count…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/18 05:07 PM
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Unfortunately, for him, and for his many supporters, I think he has proven that he can't get out of his own head, can't get out of his own way to accomplish that greatness. I really wish he could.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/18 09:35 PM
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That connects. Red Beret Platoon. Present and ready to take names and kick some ass. :) :))))))
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/18 09:31 PM
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It's harder to get men on board with the red pill if they conflate it with the MRA whining, Agree. Too often MRA's sound SJW's; same low pitiful whine....
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/18 09:27 PM
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I am, and thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/18 09:15 PM
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If you can narrow it down to only twelve.......I never could get there. I can think of 30 to 40 men that made a difference for me. Instead of thinking of a holy 12, how about a bad-ass platoon of unholy whop-ass men. They come and they go, some wounded, some die-off along the way, but we move forward anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/18 09:12 PM
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You are wrong. He is not a moron. He is a very intelligent man that is so infested with his own ego protective thinking that he can't STFU, about anything. You are correct. He cannot be on your side, because "your side" is outside the frame of his own egocentric view. Please down vote me, fuckers.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/18 09:03 PM
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get redpilled on the topic of early 20th Century capitalists I also lack an alternative view, wouldn't know where to start.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/18 08:56 PM
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I wish I still had that particular thread, it was ultmatecad and over60, For what it's worth, here's the link..... https://redd.it/3tgiig
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/18 01:52 AM
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:) A little more circular comment than usual.....
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/18 08:38 PM
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Yes. It's real.... The good news is you live long enough for it to happen naturally.
/r/askMRP15/09/18 08:34 PM
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I baked the cookies, but I substituted white sand for flour. Tastes funny, What do now? Read the recipe.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/18 04:29 PM
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Tips and tricks...
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/18 04:07 PM
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Happens as we age.
/r/askMRP14/09/18 07:49 PM
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Actually it was a Texas Mormon girl and her sister.(long time ago)
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/18 02:29 AM
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Every time I put vinegar on fresh fish, I get hard.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/18 10:44 PM
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Change your view and call it a plus..... Pop quick the first time, then enjoy the second slower one. I dealt with this as a young man. Once I quit caring, girls thought it was fun.
/r/askMRP13/09/18 10:05 PM
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Anytime a woman says anything along the lines of...."you can f--k other women"; she doesn't want you (right now). Never forget her statement is about her, not you. Pay heed to what she is really saying.
/r/askMRP12/09/18 03:41 AM
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No problem. I confused you with someone else.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 03:37 AM
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Would it be more accurate to say that you have already been through this. That you came to the conclusion that the ROI was bad, due to you own actual experiences, not just thinking about it. Because you are almost a Soup Nazi........
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 07:44 PM
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Game and frame. Improve your game, helps your frame. Improve your frame, helps your game. Kids, don't try this at home. You know your game and frame suck. Why would you do that to your poor wife? She might not be able to get rid of the image of you as a retard on the make, assuming you want to keep her. Go out on the battlefields where the unhappy women are ---mostly everywhere. Play the game to win, but take no trophies. Practice before you bring it home.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 07:35 PM
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the gravity of the infraction This is where so many go wrong, myself included. Most of the time, it is much more trivial than first viewed.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 01:23 PM
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A simple model, belies it's complexities. Those are probably the two hardest questions to answer.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/18 07:09 PM
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What do now? Seems to be the most often asked question in ASKMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/18 06:32 PM
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hashtag - me too. All kinds of Trump lines. "Come here, lets' make my dick great again." "Come drain my swamp". "This is going to be the greatest sex ever." She gets so pissed off that she laughs. Then I call her Stormy.
/r/askMRP10/09/18 06:26 PM
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she isn't chaining them An invisible labia lasso. Makes plow horses do amazing tricks.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 06:18 PM
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Ugly lesbian I should read more carefully. Piss on that. Schedule it for right before the divorce. Or to continue after....
/r/askMRP10/09/18 06:12 PM
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Porn, of course. The most reliable info most young men have today. Sad.
/r/askMRP10/09/18 02:09 PM
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Reading your OYS, just made me happy.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/18 11:28 PM
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This is probably not the best answer for most guys, but I'll own it. Tell wife (STBX) to set up her next date for three.
/r/askMRP09/09/18 11:20 PM
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That was fun. Always a good read.
/r/askMRP09/09/18 11:17 PM
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It was suggested I dial it back a bit. I thought about it... And no. Agree.
/r/askMRP09/09/18 06:25 PM
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Finally one asshole with the best answer for OP-pie.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 06:21 PM
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OK dumb-ass, I'm going to spoon feed you this one, you being an old stupid drunk and all...... only because I relate to old and stupid. Although I'd bet money you can't. You didn't get it. It's not about fucking 1 or 10 or 100 women. It's that you say you're not interested, because you can't.
/r/askMRP09/09/18 06:16 PM
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I like it as a descriptive tool, and, using it as a model to determine two things: 1.) where you are in the model and 2.) Where you want to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/18 10:17 PM
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Like all drunks, you think the problem is her. Idiot. Quit drinking. Leave this woman in peace.
/r/askMRP08/09/18 09:49 PM
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Is there anything in your post that says you want to stay with her? Did you say anything other than, "it is so hard."? You're right, living is hard, dying is easy, pick one.
/r/askMRP08/09/18 04:27 PM
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I stood by and watched this happen and didn't know how to unfuck it. Bullshit. You always knew what to do, it's not rocket science. Until you make your needs important, they will not be important to you or anyone else. You have to change.
/r/askMRP06/09/18 08:45 PM
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Also, it is a process. Happens over time, 10 to 15 years of slowly losing hormones. Highly, and individually, variable, like men losing their T.
/r/askMRP06/09/18 07:42 PM
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Point One - There is no doubt you will end this marriage. I am amazed it lasted this long. Point Two - Your biggest concern needs to be what you will do next, after this sexless shit show of a marriage is amicably ended. Without major, lasting changes on your part, I will guarantee that you will be back here complaining about no sex, or worse, again.
/r/askMRP06/09/18 07:35 PM
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Menopause doesn't end sex. It takes two....The wife ends it and he accepts it. The cause isn't menopause.
/r/askMRP06/09/18 02:09 PM
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I met old timers, class of 68 or 82 or even 58... They made the same jokes about the same slutty sorierties we did. Verified.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 12:13 AM
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Funny...might change my user name for laughs.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/18 12:11 AM
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Sadly the numbers in are much greater than the numbers out. It will never shut down.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/18 10:14 PM
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Enjoy your path forward. Check back on the inmates occasionally. Best
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/18 07:33 PM
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I agree, you're all assholes.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/18 07:19 PM
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the closer I got to becoming what the world said was the perfect husband the worse my wife's behaviour got. Classic.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/18 07:18 PM
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Getting older sucks. Not because your looks aren't what they used to be but because you are hit with the realization that your time is finite. Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 02:20 AM
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ONE LAST THING THAT THIS POST IS ALL ABOUT Financial strategy is not all about the money, just as sexual strategy is not about all about sex. The ego investment, entitlement, lack of mission, lack of frame, lack of leadership, lack of mental point of origin, lack of attractiveness, lack of value add, that causes a dead-bedroom, also causes an empty checkbook. The real solution is not a budget. Best
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/18 03:28 PM
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Re read firetemperds original post ...nuance to "firetempretard". Strikes me as funny.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/18 08:20 PM
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Have you read NMMNG on the side bar list? You are a classic nice guy... not a good thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/18 08:18 PM
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Sidebar>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/18 08:17 PM
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whole thing reads like a fucked up train of thought. He seems to be thinking more about controlling her actions, than controlling his actions.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/18 07:24 PM
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Agree, nit picking expenses with a woman is a waste of your high order logic and a waste of time. The linear processes of budgeting are lost words on many women. You're talking, and they're thinking "not my problem". Actions not words, keeps the money straight.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/18 07:12 PM
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Agree. My guess, either, too little money or too much saving. Both can be fixed.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/18 06:58 PM
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Credit cards can have single or joint ownership. Most people do not understand the difference. I have a single ownership CC, in my name. Wife is an authorized user and has a card with her name on it, but she doesn't own it and gets no credit history from it. I can remove her from the card, or close it, at any time without her permission. My wife has a single ownership card also. I am an authorized user and have a CC with my name on it. This CC builds her credit history, but not mine. She can clo…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/18 06:54 PM
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Now it looks more like he's trolling....
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/18 12:52 PM
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Good point. Without that mental point of origin, the questions are of little value.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/18 01:32 PM
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Hire the best, Alpha male lawyer you can find. Agree. Just keep reminding him whose side he's on. Some get so wound up in winning, they head for the wrong goal.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/18 03:51 AM
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Edit: My post on altruism as the core of the Blue Pill. Read it and the many related places the post leads, many times. I come away from it with my simplistic, boiled down version. A question; what do I what, for myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/18 03:44 AM
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RZD this post gave me a headache. I'll try a re-read later. u/SorcererKing any comments?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 07:10 PM
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Yes. At what point does the magic actually kick in? Thursday. Definitely Thursday. Unless you're not autistic.
/r/askMRP29/08/18 07:03 PM
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whaaat? never heard that one. Bogey, has ya been sippin the wild turkey juice?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/18 11:21 PM
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I read your first post. Other than great sex, you do not mention anything great about her. If she is the only woman you can get, I guess you're screwed. But wait, maybe there a few billion other women out there, that might like you enough to add more to your life than she does, and some great sex too. Aren't you glad you bought that house, so you can stop wasting time on this woman.
/r/askMRP25/08/18 05:51 PM
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I like it too.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 01:38 AM
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I never skipped during "shark week". Never understood you guys going without.
/r/askMRP24/08/18 01:37 AM
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I think you know I meant she ignored my outside activities.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 01:35 AM
1

On the other hand, as W&S said, the idea of pouring gasoline on it all, and handing her the matches, is about all that is left. In other news, my first wife never smelled the gas or saw the matches. Saying that, I have more in common with PR than I first thought.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 11:21 PM
2

Now you're showing off... :) Explaining it to normies, wow. You should feel pretty good.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 09:17 PM
1

Assuming a normal distribution..... Throw in one big outlier and it all falls.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 08:42 PM
12

Once the foot healed, Peter set himself on fire twice. First the job that changed his marriage into an LTR. Second the truck. Change just one thing......
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 07:14 PM
5

I'm older and I thought they both were dogs.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 05:50 PM
1

I think we're saying similar. forcing someone else into actually making a choice and being content living with either option. That is what I was trying to say with "give her hamster the spin of a lifetime".
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 12:07 PM
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he's more than free to just fuck Agree. Hall pass was a poor choice of words. He doesn't need shit, much less anyone's permission. Just do it. Don't lie, because I just don't see that he is ever going to convincingly convey that he is willing to burn it down, because of the kids. But he can get what he needs elsewhere.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 03:37 AM
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Then he needs to play the hall pass. She's leading him there. Take the pass and use it. No cheating, but just sex. Give her hamster the spin of a lifetime. The whole time he's saying I'm here for the family. Then she gets her choice, without PR having to lie that he would burn it down, because he won't. She's sure he won't...now. If she spins out of the low sex great, or not.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 02:40 AM
1

I understand where you're coming from. I have the utmost respect for your decision. It is YOUR decision from your mental point of origin and serves you.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 01:53 AM
3

read my edits...... You are not acting, in your own best interest, on her message. Your best interest is her best interest, and your kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 03:08 PM
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Her - We should end it Me - If thats what you want Her - Well I'm never going to want to have sex. ............and on and on..... This exchange, IMO is your situation and I have to admit, I see no hope, makes me sad, and I really am an optimist. You really need to go for full blown burn it down mode. In every instance of this convo, you should have agreed with her. Asked her to solveyour problem and listened. You are not hearing her message. She's talking puppy killing and you are saying that yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 02:33 PM
1

So you want me to tell you what to do? Nope Nada No way. Done
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 03:53 AM
1

Yeah, that's dark. You'll get inspired another day maybe. ..or how an ex goes ballistic and short trims his wiener. Not as dark, but pointed.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 03:48 AM
1

Seriously, I like dark humor...
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 03:42 AM
1

Put as much effort into your advice, as OP put into running his life. I can use a good laugh.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 03:40 AM
2

Obviously, you have what you wanted, you made a mess with your kids and your ex, and even a joint lease. You already are a man that "felt pressured" and (edit) the marriage ended, then knocked up your ex cause you couldn't get any strange, why worry about your public image now? You are not married. You can do whatever you want to. Problem is, based on your past behavior, you will probably make another mess.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 03:31 AM
2

Most times, I think you're better off for the ass kickin'. Why else would you keep coming back?
/r/askMRP21/08/18 10:56 PM
5

Steve, you are recreating your past here. I know you have been through a lot, read a lot and lifted, a lot. But this rain is just soaking in slow on you. But you know that, you posted again, you're taking your lumps here, again, and that's better than quitting.
/r/askMRP21/08/18 10:31 PM
2

More to it than getting cucked.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 07:31 PM
2

I don't understand all the comments on this one. For me, if you read this whole article, it is about investing your life wisely. Invest in yourself first. Your children are supposed to leave you if you succeed. Your wife can stay or go. It's not your choice, it's just your turn.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 05:23 PM
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Nope, I earn more than her You have it backwards. The point is, as a woman 10 years older than you, what value does she bring, such as making a lot of money that she spends on you....
/r/askMRP21/08/18 03:09 PM
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We cant fix stupid around here. Yet we keep trying... :)
/r/askMRP21/08/18 12:35 PM
1

Yes..worthwhile. My second marriage went very well great for more than 20 years. I could say that I forgot the lessons I gained from that therapy; more accurate is I just got too comfortable...lazy and trusted too much.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/18 09:52 PM
1

Don't be afraid to open your dark doors and look inside. Opening that door is hard, looking is harder, then it's not. It was during that period I came to grips with things that happened to me when I was young, and, dealt with the things I did to others later. It's all connected, it's all in the past, and there's no free pass today for prior pain.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/18 05:56 PM
2

Ever met a chubby, homely guy that seemed to have it all? He's not great looking, but people are drawn to him. Some people, even though they like him, refer to him as "ape like". Yet, he gets the great looking girl, has loads of money, and get respect even from strangers. Maybe he has something going on in his head that is different. Yes, your self talk, it is really self air-writing. Everyone can see it, and, it changes the way the world interacts with you. It matters not HOW you change negativ…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/18 01:33 PM
2

lower your standards to the most fugly chick available This delineates between men that do it for the sex, or for validation. If it's for sex, the HB level doesn't matter much (other than for LTR). If it's for validation, her HB level is never enough. There are some fun times out there with women that "used to be a cheerleader".
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/18 06:49 PM
2

Ditto
/r/askMRP16/08/18 12:28 PM
3

i am a big fan of post-divorce MERP porn so keep it coming Ditto
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/18 01:37 PM
3

If they are young enough, the possibility of raising a second family is not something some men are interested in.(me)
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/18 01:36 PM
4

If you can ignore the anger on the side, the main course is really good.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/18 01:35 PM
10

I like this post.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/18 03:26 AM
8

Ha, I think poor Harry may have scooped much lower than he knows.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/18 03:18 AM
2

But, I think women are more likely to successfully marry up a notch or two.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/18 03:15 AM
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Another point of view, from my personal experience. My mom loved to complain about my father's treatment of her. He was a good man, and, alpha to the core. She could not say how his strong treatment of her made her gush to her church lady friends. But she could complain about it. She complained with a smile, and, her friends envied her. Her church lady friends showed their envy as they always gave dad their complete up-close attention and seemed to always be lightly touching him. It was always i…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/18 03:13 AM
2

Some people don't want to be saved This is the recurrent fallacy of ASKMRP. You can only help people who want to be helped. Nope, many WANT to be helped, but just don't do anything about it. To parrot W&S here, until they DO SOMETHING on OYS, they are just wannabes, not doers.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/18 03:03 AM
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childlike inferiors and simultaneously being the downfall of some society Powerful and inferior child. Hard to have it both ways. Probably works best to pick one or the other. Either, women are powerful and have caused the decline of society and men are victims, or, women are childlike inferiors..... and in that case, men are to blame. How about, most men are weak victims that accept women's bad behavior?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 03:31 PM
1

Fear and Anger. Fraternal Twins.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/18 06:38 PM
3

How often do I write.... I visualize a guy with a rubber mallet, hitting a man with a steel plate in his head, trying to get his attention.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/18 02:33 PM
1

would eject the 8-track from the player powershifting from 2nd to 3rd Many a road trip with an 8 track. Good times.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/18 01:21 PM
1

The Camaro still is an old Chevy suspension. Whenever you go full throttle, the nose points up in the air, and the rear sways side to side, even with posi-track. The "fun" driving, is hitting it hard and staying in one lane.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/18 01:56 AM
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redpill ship wife will always be u/bogeyd6 Yeah, and $20 is $20.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/18 01:50 AM
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Good luck dealing with this. I'm pulling for you. Ditto
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/18 01:24 PM
1

overtaken by fear If you were fearless, this all goes away. We all have fears about something. At least you know that you don't know, and that you need to fix it. Puts you ahead of 80% of the chumps in the world.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/18 02:19 AM
1

This last one was a ONS with someone way under my SMV which generally I never would have considered and felt real shameful. I repressed it. Within a few days, racing thoughts, insecurity, paranoia, suspicion. That's the second time you mentioned this ONS. Seems to be the turn that got you down. Been there, banging a low SMV for fun. It's like riding a kid's bike, lots of fun as long as no one sees you. When I rolled with a pig, I knew it was just for fun, just for my pleasure. There's really not…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 06:32 PM
3

And my $3600.00 1968 Camaro SS
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 04:01 PM
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women are empaths - and that subject deserves a post of its own. But the basic concept is simply that when a man sacrifices his own happiness for the sake of his wife, she empathically experiences his unhappiness alongside of him and it makes the relationship miserable. When the man pursues his own happiness, even at the expense of his wife's interests, she empathically experiences his happiness alongside him, and it makes the relationship enjoyable for both of them Probably the most interesting…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 03:56 PM
3

Guess I just get wicked.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 03:49 PM
2

It makes no sense, Circular thinking confuses me too.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 02:41 AM
2

EDIT: 20Kmembersyeawhoohoo There goes the neighborhood.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 02:39 AM
2

Wasted effort. Wasted fucking. Please explain how a warm HOLE is ever going to fill up the HOLE in you. That kind of makes you the pussy eh?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 02:11 AM
1

Wasted effort. Wasted fucking.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 02:10 AM
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Your guilt is killing you. Find a way to get redemption from your mistakes. Religion, witch doctor, therapist, does not matter if you get relief from the hell you brought on yourself and now are projecting on her. Best. DO NOT CONFESS TO YOUR WIFE TO GET RELIEF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you take that to your grave.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 12:41 AM
2

You are in a dark place, and your mind created it. What are you afraid of? Why is it so strong that you cannot keep from sharing it? Are you projecting something on your wife?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/18 09:18 PM
1

Sounds good. Unfortunately, many women have trouble consistently communicating overtly. I would only advise that you watch her actions carefully, just in case she falls back into the preferred feminine method of covert communication.
/r/askMRP07/08/18 09:02 PM
3

That's not me, try as she had to convince me it could be. If that's what she wants, she will eventually get it. Human nature, not male or female. Unfortunately, your options have changed, a lot. You now have a woman that has made it plain that she wants other dick. IMO this will not end well, no matter what you do. Based on my personal experience, this LTR is not ever going to be what you want. Kill the puppy sooner rather than later. I will qualify that my first wife had similar rumblings early…
/r/askMRP07/08/18 12:44 PM
1

Always amazing.
/r/askMRP07/08/18 03:27 AM
3

Would it be weak if I wrote a letter to her family detailing what happened? Yes. They are not going to make your decision for you. You have to decide what you are going to do, no one else. Once you decide, THEN you can explain it to others if you think you want to, think you need to.
/r/askMRP07/08/18 02:13 AM
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Damn Red, don't tell him, he might accidentally listen. This could cost me you thousands....
/r/askMRP06/08/18 11:14 PM
2

how can any self-respecting man put resources and a financial and emotional safety net under a woman who wants to be a slut for everyone Agree, I don't know how they do it. But they do it willingly and with a smile. My short term participation was the single guy added for the wife. These "pleasant" "nice" guys were pimping out their wives so she can get her jolly's on his dime. Think of it, Joe the pimp walks up to you and says, "Take this ho I'm supporting and do her". It was too crazy for me t…
/r/askMRP06/08/18 06:41 PM
2

I have some short term experience as a single-ish man. Every word u/Persaeus said is true. You will fuck yourself. Everything goes out of your control, unless you are the bull. On the other hand, if you are ready to blow up your marriage and move on, you can let her lead you to an amicable split, go ahead.
/r/askMRP06/08/18 02:44 PM
3

I am certain that you can't help me.
/r/askMRP06/08/18 03:27 AM
1

...and I like Homer. :)
/r/askMRP06/08/18 03:06 AM
4

The BIL was doing the dog trick of marking his territory: 1. Slapping wife's ass, and 2. Making the comment that he did, implying that he was alpha, and a challenge. Yes, nothing new. The wife shut it down like a champ, so our hero can nod approval to her, move on like a man unbothered by other men finding his wife attractive. Cool and confident of his position as her man, not guarding his woman like a barking little dog.
/r/askMRP06/08/18 03:05 AM
3

I use Rogaine. No prescription, No limp hair, No limp dick. Woman doctor, maybe she hates men.
/r/askMRP05/08/18 04:59 PM
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Yep. Little girls f-e-e-l they can get mouthy when they're with their Silverback for protection. In other news, every day that goes by, I swear my wife acts more like a 15 year old tomboy. No matter how old, they're all just little girls.
/r/askMRP05/08/18 04:46 PM
4

Homer Simpson ponders the question. " do I cut off my dick or my head?" Hmmmmm.
/r/askMRP05/08/18 03:03 PM
1

Whipping the BIL's ass is not mate guarding. No, but it sure could be a stupid move. If I was the BIL, beneath my calm exterior, I hand him his ass. His mate guarding is just setting me up for his wife for another day....YMMV
/r/askMRP05/08/18 03:01 PM
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Even worse, paying attention to a faggot that his wife already busted his balls. Proves he doesn't have it together, proves weakness not strength. When I smack another man's wife's ass, and she makes it plain she ain't playing, it's over. Having her dad-bod come over and lecture me, proves he's a faggot that's worried about it. Basically says, she might be up for it another time, since he's such a chump.
/r/askMRP05/08/18 04:23 AM
5

Drawing lines in the sand, only proves powerlessness, proves he's concerned about it.
/r/askMRP05/08/18 04:21 AM
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Your wife handled herself well. Leave it at that. Anything you say to BIL is wasted effort. The right person, your wife, handled the situation well. Reward good behavior.
/r/askMRP05/08/18 01:43 AM
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Did she cheat? You will never know. It doesn't matter what she says, you cannot know if it is the truth. If you confront her, you prove to her that you were, and still are, a low value man. If she did cheat, you give her a reminder of her justification of cheating on you. If you want to stay with her, put the past where it belongs, in the past. The past is not an actionable space, where only the present is truly actionable. Build on the positive changes you have made in the last year. Let her fo…
/r/askMRP03/08/18 03:49 AM
1

You need some really good psychiatric help. Your inability to sort out her problems from your problems is taking both of you downward. She is in the hospital, and you are worried about dying alone. You can't decide to stay, or leave. You talk about leaving her, then say you could not stand to see her with anyone else. Your misplaced self concern in the midst of her crisis is classic codependent with a touch of masochist. You are playing red pill rambo, badly. You are rationalizing away just abou…
/r/askMRP03/08/18 03:36 AM
1

Yes now, no waiting....
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/18 12:29 AM
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There are guys in here who still retain a piece of this mindset Once you get that smelly stuff in your house, you clean and clean and clean. Still, on some days, you can smell a whiff of it. Sometimes someone will track it back in your house, and you start cleaning all over again. Never ends.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/18 12:21 PM
1

Watch carefully for the internal recognition that "I know him", and, watch for a rage reaction to others behavior. You cannot know well what is not within you.
/r/askMRP01/08/18 08:40 PM
1

..and it works with Blue Pill guys, like a charm.
/r/askMRP01/08/18 01:35 AM
2

It's not really a thought process, just a process, like a shit test. Bait and switch, Selling bags of shit and calling it chocolate. Problem is, they believe their own bullshit.
/r/askMRP31/07/18 06:39 PM
3

Then you can change your username to Over50_Stupid_Loner....
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/18 06:36 PM
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You chose wisely, pilgrim. (nod)
/r/askMRP31/07/18 06:33 PM
2

But he only gets a "plus one" for it, and only because we noticed. :)
/r/askMRP31/07/18 06:28 PM
2

That was a great post.
/r/askMRP31/07/18 01:58 PM
1

eat paint
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/18 01:53 PM
2

Neither do we. It's on you here. Your post is a waste of time, yours.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 10:27 PM
3

Little boy got all kinds of presents for Christmas. He got everything he wanted and more. When it was all over, he was sad. Found no joy in all his new things. OK little boy, what do now?
/r/askMRP30/07/18 10:24 PM
1

You have a lot of work to do.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 06:50 PM
1

What are you willing to put up with from other people, today and for the rest of your life? Is there anything that anyone can do to make to stop sucking up to them? Do you like being used, a doormat?
/r/askMRP30/07/18 05:09 PM
9

This sub is the newsletter. Like you, the timing sucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/18 03:26 PM
1

You know her better than us. Take One step at a time. Work your plan.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/18 10:06 PM
1

Now there's a vision!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/18 02:04 AM
1

I took over our finances in spring of last year, so I think she’s not seeing the big picture of our finances over the next several years. Did she understand it back then, when she ran the money? I need to show her the big picture by preparing a budget. So a good budget/spreadsheet will provide her with the information she needs to understand that which she did not understand before? You are giving her a lot of credit here. Some would say making excuses for her. When you have your budget meeting,…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/18 01:55 AM
1

It should be obvious that we don't have the money to do the renovations and pay for our kids' college. You are telling me that when it comes to money she is an idiot monkey. You cannot train an idiot monkey, you just restrain it.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/18 11:56 PM
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Your inner game is lagging, and you know it. Once again, your question has nothing to do with her, it is all about you. The grass is greener everywhere. So what?
/r/askMRP25/07/18 11:50 PM
2

You are advising OP to declare his powerlessness. I endorse this view.
/r/askMRP25/07/18 11:47 PM
1

I remember 32.....fondly. Sounds good.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/18 08:32 PM
1

Funny, when I said.... I used to spend too much time providing triage and life support. I was thinking of you and your advice to me, about giving advice. In other news... to use another sub for that, maybe it would be to be invitation only? I really don't know the logistics of that or if it's worth it. I do know that sometimes the level of a pretty well thought out post is brought down by noobs and bloops.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/18 05:50 PM
1

More fun than the mostly noob posts that scribble the same old stories, ending with, what do now? How many left the sub because, like u/Bogeyd6 said, there's not much new here when you've been here a while? I used to spend too much time providing triage and life support. Yes, some stuff that makes us think beyond where we are. Get some blood in the water.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/18 05:21 PM
1

Bogey you have an active mind. Fun stuff. Manipulation - is part of life really. If I refuse to do something, like drive a car, it changes others. We are always changing others by the actions/choices we make, actions being much more powerful. I think it is not the manipulation, but the "word" that goes off the rails here. Strong frame is a version of manipulation. Choose a different word and post some stuff. I like it. When you win.... Refine. This is kind of where I was thinking. I am refining …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/18 12:46 PM
3

Welcome back. (to work)
/r/askMRP25/07/18 02:07 AM
2

80%of askmrp=never At least 20% of mrp=never Getting it is everything. How long cannot matter. Bogeyd6 since most here at MRP is regurgitation I'm looking for a next level. Ideas?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/18 08:09 PM
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15 months... Who cares how long it takes?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/18 12:30 AM
2

lunch pails for hand Not really. As a young guy a professional musician. Played 3 instruments for money and 4 more just for fun. All my contemporaries started into drugs, I made other choices.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/18 12:35 AM
3

I'm pretty sure my Mom just wanted some alone time shopping when she lost me. With Dad, I was certain of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/18 12:29 AM
1

It is all about who owns your balls. Not much more to it really.
/r/askMRP21/07/18 12:28 AM
2

Then, I need to change my inner dialogue, from "I struggle with", to "I have features, not bugs"
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/18 10:27 PM
3

sweet taste, feels great.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/18 06:44 PM
3

We know it's not the norm. I still have my days when I struggle with even a simple shit test. Suddenly my finger is on the nuke button for a day. My unseemly desire to completely crush someone for perceived slights runs deep and is often runs counter to achieving my goals. I think I understand u/Ex_addict_bro dilemma because I live with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/18 06:43 PM
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You didn't get charged with first degree manslaughter if your kid died in a car accident and didn't have on a seatbelt. If I disappeared as a kid, it would have been assumed I ran away. Medical doctors did TV commercials promoting Camel cigarettes. The term, second hand smoke did not yet exist. Drinking and driving was still a sport. Times might have been a little different......
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/18 06:31 PM
3

To your credit, you're a quick study.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/18 06:22 PM
3

Rian, we both ran free as kids. Different times now.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/18 01:56 AM
23

View from an old guy: Should not have left that child alone. The biggest danger to your children, is other people, among other things. You seem to think it was OK, but IMO it was not. All the rationale in the world will not make the world a safe place for 3 year olds to live without protection. You fell into these assholes frame. They were pushing your buttons and you could have easily deflected their well meaning and potentially correct criticisms and moved on. Instead you found yourself consid…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/18 01:48 AM
4

It's a naval navel sighting strategy.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 11:21 PM
5

It was more fun giving out girls numbers to my friends, then hearing how they managed to mess up getting an easy one.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 09:11 PM
4

This thread got a little scary. Cover everything around you guys.
/r/askMRP14/07/18 01:55 AM
2

I have watched this play out with old couples that are around me. When you get old, shit happens and you have to adapt. The number one issue, is being sure you take care of your wife, since she no longer can do it. Number two, is take care of your self, so you can take care of her. Your wife might be able and willing, to be OK with a hall-pass. If not, you have to keep secrets forever, for her sake, for her peace of mind, not yours. If I was down for the final count, I would expect the same.
/r/askMRP13/07/18 03:19 AM
1

The asshat deleted. You're right again.
/r/askMRP13/07/18 02:44 AM
2

Or, did his brother...gang bang...
/r/askMRP12/07/18 11:19 AM
1

Makes me as crazy as OP......you have a point.
/r/askMRP12/07/18 11:08 AM
3

There were others...
/r/askMRP12/07/18 11:07 AM
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I always liked people that could make lemonade out of some bitter lemons. That is a hard path you have trod. On the other hand, be cautious of unrealistic, or, over optimistic thinking when you say things like: Always lift you brothers up never put them down. It's amazing what a man can turn into with the right words of encouragement. You did not have those benefits. You learned from hardship. Help others embrace the hardships, rather than.... ...never had anything but good things to say even wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/18 02:38 AM
5

No doubt.
/r/askMRP12/07/18 01:24 AM
9

since December? bullshit She is about to be outed. She wanted to be able to deny something, and it's a lot worse than she has told you so far. It's time for you to decide where you stand: You can walk away and make the best of it from here. You and your kids will survive. She would no longer be your problem. You could stay for the kids and fuck everything in the neighborhood to pass the time until they are 18. I know a guy well that did that. You can "work it out with her". You will forever be a…
/r/askMRP12/07/18 01:18 AM
3

It really takes time to change the way you think and react, that effect changes in your actions. Do the time, it gets better.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/18 01:28 PM
1

You have it backwards. You're engaging in male solipsism. Yes, on the mark here OP.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/18 01:27 PM
2

I remember when AskMRP was a new thing. Created because retards were bombing the main sub with aerial poop daily. We were still a small sub of about 6,000 and the need for a triage platform was recognized. It wasn't a perfect solution, but it did clean up the main sub and gave the mods a place to bounce the low quality posts to. Of course, when I started under my original user name, there was no AskMRP and I was posting on the main sub in full retard mode. Never thought that anyone was brutal to…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/18 01:46 AM
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Your post takes me down memory lane some. My dad and mom passed away some 20 years ago, I'm the old man now. They (mom & dad) were just like you described. I can remember my father sometimes joking with mom saying, "well, you can be replaced". He said it such a way that we all thought it was funny. He was always strong. He was always humorous. They were both from a different time. Mom's last words were his name. Dad said nothing as he died.
/r/askMRP05/07/18 01:34 AM
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Yes, very accurate. As a teenager, I took care of my grandma as she died of dementia, no one else could/would do it. IMO BPP dad is doing the best he can in that situation, his blue pill past is not relevant.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 01:11 AM
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Good report. Understanding that the problem is you, not her, is one huge difficult step. Don't forget you had the advantage of a surprise attack here. This woman will regroup and shit test you like she has never done before. Expect the worst and enjoy it. From here forward, her shittiest behavior is her way of saying fuck me hard.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/18 01:00 AM
2

I've heard it, but only on TRP.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:24 AM
1

At least a dumpster fire puts out heat. His dumpster's gone cold too.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/18 01:57 AM
3

Red thought Andy had hope. Andy, had a plan. Well said. The whole (long) movie in two short lines.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/18 12:17 PM
1

That one I remember. All the original guys comments, good read.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 01:48 AM
2

that hopium I was living on that stuff before I got here. Makes a man fat and stupid.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/18 01:47 AM
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Getting what you want, fantastic. The principal of least interest, and, the stay plan is the go plan, are life long. I got lazy and stupid and it brought me here, too. I changed, and she responded, too.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/18 01:46 AM
2

Agree. Finding that I have to deal with my emotions too. Logic can be like a brace on a broken part. It works, but not just right, not consistent or congruent with the rest of me. Not overthinking, but broken. Walking, but limping. The cure is inside out.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/18 01:38 AM
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Will you guys chastise me when I redecorate it to? Depends on the color scheme...... Yep, we take what you say and do the best we can with it. You know the score. It's the way it works. Take what you can use, etc. Cool your jets. If it was a shit test, you failed.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/18 01:28 AM
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Quit that bullshit. She is and forever will be the mother of your children. You cannot escape that fact. Putting your head under the covers to get away from the boogie (wo)man does not work, and shows your children nothing they should have to remember about you. Men go on and on, about how their exe's make their children hate them. You are no better here and unfortunately, you may reap the same thing you are sowing here. OK, you can't live with her anymore, but your children do not have the same…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/18 12:11 AM
1

what scares me sometimes Please, explain your concern if you will.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/18 12:02 AM
1

Most of us have parallel paths.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/18 06:58 PM
2

I was lucky, everyone warned me that my Dr. was an asshole. He was and it was good.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/18 03:42 PM
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No matter how it happens, or who initiates it, divorces are difficult. You will go through highs and lows as you work through to the end of the legal issues, and after that, hopefully work through your internal issues. You know your work on yourself is not done. There is a initial euphoria that I had when I filed for divorce (years ago). It will pass, and you will be once again faced with the man in the mirror. I was lucky, that I "bought a friend" with a psychiatrist to help me sort some things…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/18 04:34 AM
2

I often made the comment to women I was with: "when the sex is gone, I am gone." Then I broke that rule, for "reasons". My wife and I have stayed together anyway, and things are good. Not because of hormones, she has none. I have to admit, your brother knows you and is on your team. Do you see that he is saying that you are your own problem, that you are "the" problem? The sooner you let go of: what you think she should do your anger at all the past bullshit, making her do anything The sooner yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/18 04:10 AM
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Not sure if your post belongs here, but you have a good point. As I see age 70 on the distant horizon, I remember, in exact detail, the three times my late father said he was proud of me. He was so matter of fact about it each time, but I have never forgotten.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/18 03:55 AM
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Thanks. Five minutes of reading well spent. Provides a foundation that would be hard for me to know, or find.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 07:34 PM
1

If you gave her the keys to the treasury, take em back. Sooner is better.
/r/askMRP28/06/18 02:21 AM
1

You get over the pain, but then there are the scars on my face that get deeper as I age. There's no silver bullet.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 08:41 PM
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Turn out she doesn’t like the way I dress, the music I listen to, the way I handle my stress, that I get to loud when I am happy or too quiet when I am tired. kill the puppy
/r/askMRP25/06/18 01:08 PM
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I threw in the 70 inch TV over the fireplace in the last house. The dumbass was so happy he made a full price offer.
/r/askMRP23/06/18 02:08 AM
2

I did use the chain saw. Basic barbarian joy.
/r/askMRP23/06/18 02:05 AM
1

Odd, I would say the same things about you.....multi decade..
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/18 06:00 PM
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Was that unexpected. /s
/r/askMRP22/06/18 04:42 PM
3

In the your old beta world, it made sense what you did, and, it made no sense what she did. Now it makes sense what you do, and, who cares what she thinks.
/r/askMRP22/06/18 03:40 AM
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I make my own list. If she writes down what she wants, I look at it and start my own list of what I will do. Then I throw away her list unceremoniously in her view. No one decides what I will do with my time. I decide and prioritize it.
/r/askMRP22/06/18 03:24 AM
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Give her half of everything...use a chain saw.
/r/askMRP22/06/18 03:18 AM
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OP got plenty of good advice here today, the rest is up to him. Cool your jets.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 02:22 AM
1

Noted....
/r/askMRP21/06/18 12:10 AM
1

Chuck Norris....Texas Ranger with a Walker
/r/askMRP20/06/18 07:46 PM
1

Are you one of those generous guys that offers cab fare too?
/r/askMRP20/06/18 07:44 PM
6

"It's gonna be the best story ever..."
/r/askMRP20/06/18 07:40 PM
2

1 year repeated 30 times add...each year repeated more slowly due to age.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/18 07:37 PM
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they are economically disadvantaged is all Economically disadvantaged = dependent on male intervention or, short version. dependapotimus
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/18 07:33 PM
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Corrected..... :)
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/18 07:30 PM
2

Aren't they all about 85% predators when given the opportunity?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/18 06:07 PM
2

I like the MAGA hat idea.
/r/askMRP20/06/18 02:17 PM
6

Rewarding an alpha for being an alpha, pointless. Become more like him, keep and enjoy the scotch for yourself. aka Mental point of origin....
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/18 02:12 PM
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The next level after that, no comment to a fucktard OP.
/r/askMRP20/06/18 02:06 PM
2

A regular Rockefeller, I am. :)
/r/askMRP20/06/18 01:49 PM
1

Smoking messes with your arteries and their ability to deliver oxygen. But the big crapper is you lose the ability to remove CO2. WHen your dick tries to work you need 3 major, basic things. Veins in your dick to work right, oxygen in your blood and CO2 removed from your blood. That's assuming that you have no other physical or mental or emotional problems. 1 Quit smoking fucktard. 2 Use some meditation, relaxation techniques to deal with your divorce and getting cheated on. 3 Get you another (i…
/r/askMRP20/06/18 03:46 AM
2

I'll be waiting. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 03:37 AM
1

Here's the post exchange............ Over_60_stupid_loner RP S.O.B.[F,S] 4 points 2 years ago* You said; if you were married you would follow my lifestyle - please re-read my post. This is not about getting the best out of life - it is about getting by without that which I hold dear - a loving relationship. [–][deleted] 1 point 2 years ago This is not about getting the best out of life - it is about getting by without that which I hold dear - a loving relationship. I feel like this should be in …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 02:27 AM
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Do I want to be in a relationship where we both love respect and want one another ? Absolutely. I remember your reaction when Over60_ said the same thing. Men are the romantics, for better or worse..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 12:52 AM
1

Navy googles. goggles.
/r/askMRP20/06/18 12:28 AM
2

I just try to help where I can. I'm a giver, you know.
/r/askMRP19/06/18 11:06 PM
1

Now Rian, don't be an ass. Tell him about the other 80% of your military career that was crap.
/r/askMRP19/06/18 10:39 PM
2

Or maybe it is and I'm overthinking it. I'm just going to keep improving myself and trying to master my own insecurities. And remember that any feeling of being trapped is a fucking illusion. Great answers to your own questions.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 10:32 PM
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Getting you to change your political view, is about the simplest version of taking control of your frame there is. Women seem to think that they "need" to change every man around them. It is about control, not politics. Give in and you will be her bitch. Agree with her and watch her dry up, while she smiles at you. Hell, I didn't like Trump long before most of you were born. Send me her number and I'll jam some sense in her. ;)
/r/askMRP19/06/18 10:28 PM
2

Little to no chance of ever opening his eyes to the realities.... The problem is that most of them will find no happiness in the short time they have left on this earth. Having only 10 or more years left of life is an immutable reality. With so many years of believing the BP dream, the BP lie, finding RP can be an even quicker trip to ending it all. No matter how alpha a man is, much like AB, the realization of the true nature of the intergender dance, is, for some men, better left unseen. You c…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 03:04 PM
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As a man the age you discuss, RP aware is a bitter sweet knowledge. So many men my age do suicide out, some die pulling on the harness, most just zone out and wait out the grim reaper. AB was one version, then the Las Vegas shooter was another version of ending the Blue Pill pain.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 01:04 PM
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Only women admit their cheats. She asks you because she knows, not because she wants to know. Boys tell stories, real men own it to the grave. No other option.
/r/askMRP19/06/18 03:16 AM
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Can verify that Southern Mormon girls are strangely DTF, but with a prude wrapper. Some kind of needy thing. Nothing madder/sadder than not providing them D when they want it. Seriously.
/r/askMRP19/06/18 03:13 AM
2

Like wrestling, no real rules, and a great show if you watch closely. Free for all is the norm.
/r/askMRP19/06/18 03:10 AM
1

Just spent some time in northern Minnesota. Was amazed how fat everyone is there. The South is bad with lard ass men, but in MN the women were so fat they waddled around. I was surprised . Add to your list that the food manufacturers and the government collude to fatten the pigs here.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/18 12:04 AM
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Debt is being used to enslave all racial groups in the U.S. Working poor is the new vision of sharecropper. Men so plugged in, financially indebted, and operating under social obligations that will continue to increase male suicides.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 11:28 PM
1

Unnecessary, symbolic, altruistic gift. NO
/r/askTRP16/06/18 03:51 AM
1

Well, I stopped at the bathroom. I could not imagine living with someone that could tolerate a dirty bathroom. Add to that the idea of ever having children. Little monsters that leave boogers, poop and piss everywhere, ugh! If you get married, I guess you will be signing on for a lifetime of keeping your house clean enough to stay healthy. Maybe she can go to work and make lots of money instead. Then you can be the house husband. Bet your balls fall off before hers do.
/r/askMRP16/06/18 03:48 AM
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Great message! Even with a sperg proof story.
/r/askMRP15/06/18 09:28 PM
1

That's SOP, when you pays attention. ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/18 02:46 AM
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Funny.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/18 01:10 AM
2

"Yes dear.....we have to retrain to do be my sub. You will be good at it based on your prior experience." end of convo, then broken record.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/18 01:08 AM
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I feel some responsibility for the level of crazy because I complied with it for so long Serial killers must feel the same way about stopping......they've done it so long, they owe it to their future victims. Seriously, you have the absolute right to change anything about yourself. You have no right to change others, they have to change themselves. Whether your wife choses to change, in response to your changes, is her choice. You need to practice your marital fire drill, just in case.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/18 04:20 PM
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Take the 1000ft rope and put it in the closet. No need to give her anything. My advice, work on being attractive as you can be and go out there and game women. I think you are right. The 1000ft rope splits your attention. Makes saving the marriage the goal...wrong goal.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 01:34 PM
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US... do our own research, it's your stuff.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 11:43 PM
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I forgot all about that post. Good times....
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 02:59 AM
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No way! Hanging our early stage retardation out for public view gives the noobs hope.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 02:52 AM
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She is the master of overt communication. Are you referring to Mrs. Bogeyd6?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 02:46 AM
1

Math is math ..and $20 is $20. ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 02:44 AM
1

Thanks, I misunderstood.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 01:39 AM
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The farther you fall, the longer it takes to dig out of the hole. My whole life, I made lemonade out of everything. I had almost 20 great years with current SO. I fell far and hard. I took me a long time to just to assess and believe the situation for what it was. Without the brothers here, I would be just another angry fat old fart, instead of a happy thin old fart. Yes, 3 months per year, then add a cushion.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/18 02:05 PM
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Let's tell him she's a prize and see how far he goes..... nope, never mind. I still can't subject a man to extreme torture.....they have to do it to themselves to be really entertaining.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 03:53 AM
1

Spanking still works....
/r/askMRP11/06/18 03:24 AM
1

....fade to uncontrolled laughter......
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/18 03:21 AM
1

He's eating the steak, that's really a shit sandwich.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 03:19 AM
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Thanks for the bridge, young friend.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/18 03:11 AM
1

....and they crave the sugar that makes them crazy. Can't possibly have a good discussion with them.
/r/askMRP10/06/18 07:39 PM
1

Big difference: I'm talking with intent Vs. You actually delivered the written invitation.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/18 07:36 PM
1

The women whose smell attracted me most, the smell greatly improved when they got sweaty. Current wife is on that list. Yes, for those women, hot sweaty sex is best.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 07:26 PM
3

I only knew one guy ever named Chaz. I "accidentally" tackled him in touch football. Did you know that guys named Chaz cry a lot.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/18 07:22 PM
1

...but in the event you think you can do better, be my guest..
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/18 07:19 PM
1

I got 75 days to refocus on myself and know what I am going back into. I appreciate all the advice that this place has provided Make good use of that time. Many here have handed you the keys to your kingdom, pay attention now.
/r/askMRP10/06/18 07:10 PM
1

You are one lucky SOB. Too bad you missed your own graduation party. But wait, there's still time to change your tune and dance a jig to your own good fortune.
/r/askMRP10/06/18 07:02 PM
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I believe all the excess sugar in their diet causes autist and sperg thinking.
/r/askMRP10/06/18 06:58 PM
1

Why haha? it's not a joke. Read some more.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/18 06:54 PM
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I also liked you hashing it out with sepean. I miss the days of regular users arguing. It was so conductive for the development of frame. Especially when newer dudes would start challenging approved guys Yup, for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/18 06:47 PM
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His lack of boundaries is the problem and is going to keep causing him trouble...until he fixes it. As u/weakandsensitive says, he (probably) deserved to get cheated on. He has two houses to clean. Dump her and fix himself.
/r/askMRP10/06/18 04:36 AM
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How would he ever know? He's to busy crying about the personal foul during the game to know that he won.
/r/askMRP10/06/18 04:26 AM
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Try to end up with 2 things out of this: Your house and Your self respect Try to get rid of 2 things here: Your victim mentality and......something else?.....OK you decide.
/r/askMRP10/06/18 02:29 AM
1

Leading is not stressful for you, unlike many others. Setting people up for success is a great beginning on defining what leading is all about for you. Genuine self interest, shared.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/18 11:45 PM
1

first time I read War Brides. Fuck that hurt #metoo
/r/askMRP09/06/18 05:48 PM
3

Women really love to hate the alpha types they love to fuck. You can learn much here if you open your eyes to reality. Sounds kind of like the Red Pill metaphor, no?
/r/askMRP09/06/18 05:43 PM
3

Six months! Don't be such an eager beaver.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 05:39 PM
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Women carrying the baggage of a 2x divorcee is very real. Yes. I've seen this many times. It may not stop them, but it slows them down, a lot. Complete loss of credibility for a 2X'er. Throws the first divorce back in question. A big "L" for loser on the forehead for everyone to see. The chances of getting a third guy is near zero, unless he is loser.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 05:36 PM
1

Yes and yes. They want a man. They say they want a pussy. If you refuse to become more manly, you deserve to be cheated on. Seriously. Don't delete posts. Mods will do it if needed. We all learn from each other.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 05:22 PM
1

Women are Red Pill Ninjas. That is not good for most men.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 05:14 PM
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I can name that song without any notes. Then how bout we name that tune? I like "Six Weeks to Sexless". More ideas?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 05:13 PM
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--------The Partnership Agreement.----------- A. I will provide you with a home, children, and all the things that are considered "the good life". B. In return you will care for the children, care for our home, feed me and fuck me as requested. C. At the dissolution of this partnership, I will give you half of everything we acquired, provide continued spousal support, and provide full support for our children until they become adults. If wife fails at providing B, I am stuck with providing A whi…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 05:07 PM
1

You are not that special. She is not that special. When you come to more understanding of this, you will know you have asked and answered all your own questions here. Sadly, you are not listening to, or, accepting what you said.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 04:52 PM
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worth a reprint of that book just to take out the suggestion of telling your wife. Agree completely.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 04:41 PM
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Had an accident that is normally fatal in my 20's. Awoke from the coma in spite of the funeral arrangements. Got a second chance to live long enough to raise my kids to adults. I will never forget, the world owes me nothing, I owe the world.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 03:40 AM
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You are not hers, it is just her turn. Then you're like a slot machine. Jackpots for her. Seriously, every time you try to monetize a relationship, it turns into pimping and whoring. Hard work for both of them. Still comes down to value though. Most hoes don't do laundry, cleaning, or raise your kids. Your problem is fairly valuing her contribution vs yours. Keeping a balance sheet probably won't make you happier; as you just mentioned. But not knowing is worse.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/18 03:32 AM
1

You did have a great week! My suggestion was that you leapfrog into leadership and bypass the apprenticeship you thought you needed/wanted. Old fart prophecy unfolding.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/18 02:34 AM
1

later on, and this is a big one . . . run the school part of childhood. i actually think a hawt dude with solid frame/game is uniquely positioned to manage the femcentric school system. sports, and extracurriculars. coach, or if you don't know shit about xyz sport (like me) volunteer to manage the team (the coach will love you . . . ) Yes and hell yes......from personal experience. You can overcome most of the femtard BS that the schools do to screw up your kids
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/18 09:46 PM
2

women will readily insult a man as an incel or even worse aspie and it is considered socially acceptable. Amazing
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/18 01:19 PM
2

what the real goal is behind protecting peoples dignity control
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/18 01:18 PM
3

Yes. Spreadsheets are the double secret RP shortcut to make em hot.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/18 01:14 PM
2

Something is broken somewhere in the self motivation loop, but I can't put my finger on it. Mission. You Have To Find and Define your... Mission. You are coming to the close on your divorce. Not mission accomplished, but you have come to realize it is just another task accomplished. You can float like you are, many men do, or you can use this downtime to get your ideas in order, get that which you really want on your list, decide what you value, decide how far you will go to get it. Combine all …
/r/askMRP05/06/18 04:12 AM
1

Fighting an uphill battle, is the definition of delusional. Takes time to figure out which way is "up". But, "Up" was always there, always was the same direction, just didn't see it. Once I saw it, then fortune does favor the bold. Yes, I would also change many things. Yes, I have changed many things.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/18 03:23 AM
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Three years later I live my live at dread level 10. The mistakes, the rookie moves, the years of beta all played to a single point of proving her wrong. After 3 years, I stand in the same river.....
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/18 02:42 AM
2

It was both men and women in the group. 80% of them, men and women, are life long victims. They make the point for the other 20%. AA is much more effective than the al anon groups. The bottom line is a strong man, strong woman, a Mack truck, or a sledgehammer can't move an alcoholic one inch. They have to do it. The point al anon tries to make is just that. How do you make that point to someone that enjoys complaining about how he/she done him wrong... just like the victim puke here, most don't …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/18 07:12 PM
1

Al anon is a bunch of whining bitch victims. For me, it was a great lesson of where not to be.... Reinforces the idea of taking charge or die.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/18 04:52 PM
2

I'm 38 but I swear this is what 68 must feel like Nope, I feel much better than you.... First wife was a booze cruise. The sooner YOU quit, the better. You can't save her, she has to save herself.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/18 04:50 PM
1

She cops an attitude about how I'm always an inconsiderate asshole and this is why our relationship isn't going to last She is right. Neeeeeext.
/r/askMRP01/06/18 09:08 PM
2

Then there was vamp-zilla or something like that.....
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/18 06:34 PM
2

Yes, I also disagree with you...... The gall of a subreddit to look down on TRP and try and adopt its principles and act as though they're "no longer kids." Stocked full of plowhorse v2s... We are older. TRP is very important to the MRP sub. If you think we look down on TRP you are missing the point. Married/older is just different than younger/single.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 04:33 PM
1

she called me asked for $2K this will never end. The real goal is to break you. You cannot stop it, only forever resist until you feel nothing when resisting. Been there.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/18 02:08 PM
2

the golden picture frame I remember that poor guy. Then he got excited because she displayed his picture, .....in a golden frame...above all others..... He thought he had solved all his problems. Poor bastard. :(
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/18 02:06 PM
2

wisdom of psychopaths, living in the moment, fear is for retards sticking one's dick in crazy, learn from my time with Charlie and the dog walker seeing society today, without the lens of yesterday to blind you I like these best. I think you could roll on these and run out of time.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 01:47 AM
1

Wait 30 days, if your dick doesn't fall off, then PM the Soup Nazi, he knows things.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/18 02:42 PM
2

If someone says..."your ex said something shitty about you".. Just say, ...."yeah she just can't get over me...." Lemonade is still made out of lemons.
/r/askMRP25/05/18 11:30 PM
1

Is there a difference between a lie and not mentioning the truth? Hmmmm
/r/askMRP24/05/18 02:25 PM
1

but at the end of the day their is no replacement for displacement That's even cute-er. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/18 02:23 PM
2

Basically she said she's into you....if. Ignore the "if". It is not LMR, it is a shit test. You failed.
/r/askMRP23/05/18 08:39 PM
2

No matter girl. They're just numbers to me since I have so little experience myself.....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 08:30 PM
3

Loans to family are gifts. Unfortunately they carry obligation that they may never be able to repay. This can cause unnecessary resentment. My gift is not a loan, always a gift. "If the day ever comes that you can repay it, then pay it back on to someone that needs it."
/r/askMRP23/05/18 01:57 PM
3

The time comes when you stop pulling and controlling it. You lose all attachment to what others choices are. That is when you like the freedom that the rope has play in it, and, is 1000 feet or more.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/18 03:24 AM
2

I'm asking, go ahead and lie to me...... :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:52 AM
1

You have won the unicorn lottery! Marry her up right now!
/r/askMRP22/05/18 11:40 PM
1

I ended up leaving her and dating a new girl who was more exciting but I didn’t trust Not your brightest move.... So now I’m trying to make things work with my ex again. Still going downhill here..... Now she might be as loyal to you, as you were to her. Why would you expect better?
/r/askMRP22/05/18 11:33 PM
2

Your shoulder needs a hairycut.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 10:02 PM
2

Watching movies I enjoy making comments about beta guys - there is a lot to work with. I'll say something like "what a pussy that guy is" "he's a dork", "how does he ever get a girl", "what a suck up", "guys really don't talk like that"...etc. My wife's comments are amazing. Just like yours she spells out what attracts "other" women (this really means her). Wife can be straightforward, but like most women, she's most comfortable speaking in code. Movies give her an opportunity to tell me stuff, …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 08:39 PM
2

I would have done a couple things differently and never found this place Echo chamberrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
/r/askMRP22/05/18 08:32 PM
1

Sorry about the rough delivery. getting the helpers to effectively help can be a challenge though. Managing that herd of cats, is a very high value endeavor. It will be interesting to see if your RP lens changes your interactions with your "helpers", and, increases the value of your leadership this time around. In many ways, you aren't the same person now.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 08:28 PM
2

No, it would be a shame not to ask. Listen carefully. I have kids and their spouses, grandkids and their spouses, in laws, and out laws and all forms of relations. In all I count 29 blood-line relations and another 32 non-blood line relations; all that I count as family. UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES DO I EVER OFFER FINANCIAL HELP. Offering money to people just because they are having a hard time, is just plain stupid. I would not deprive them of the opportunity to figure things out for themselves; tha…
/r/askMRP22/05/18 08:14 PM
2

It's a "no" for sure if you don't ask. I have borrowed against time itself for family when they really needed me. Besides, you need to know who really has your back when the chips are down.
/r/askMRP22/05/18 07:35 PM
2

Oooooh Kaaaaay
/r/askMRP22/05/18 07:34 PM
2

Don't do that. It's our job.
/r/askMRP22/05/18 07:04 PM
7

Attorney. This is despite the 6+ family members in my town for support Now you need them. Ask them.
/r/askMRP22/05/18 07:03 PM
5

Almost a 100% with you here..... ... love is something I give her. I choose to give it when I see fit, and I choose to not give it when I see no need. It's not something I take or deny her of. Simply something I give. My love is a gift. She appreciates this gift, as it comes with undivided attention and the "fun drty". When I choose not to give this gift, she is met mainly with indifference. Sometimes even contempt and hatred. Everything there hit home for me. The "contempt and hatred" part, the…
/r/askMRP22/05/18 05:41 PM
2

Indians always cutting the wires and all.
/r/askMRP21/05/18 04:28 PM
1

she knows i will burn down rome when it comes to my children. First you figure it out, then she does. Women, amazing but simple creatures. Seems so simple now, right?
/r/askMRP21/05/18 02:44 PM
2

I only accepted written and mailed letters.
/r/askMRP21/05/18 02:36 PM
1

that would be a great book title! or a new zen cult.
/r/askMRP21/05/18 02:23 PM
1

K
/r/askMRP20/05/18 06:38 PM
1

Yet the frog gives the bitch a free ride every time......
/r/askMRP20/05/18 06:33 PM
5

buy your ex-wife a strap-on She would hurt him.
/r/askMRP20/05/18 05:49 PM
4

OP you need to calm yourself down better. You get your nose out of joint from your wife's comments and start DEERING to your wife. Then you come here and get our nose out of joint over the good advice you get here. There's a pattern, and, at least you are consistent. As long as you get riled up by your wife and this sub, you are not in charge of yourself. You can be and it shows that you want to, now dig in harder until you make it.
/r/askMRP20/05/18 05:44 PM
7

im not going to put any pussy above my daughter or my son. Now, there is a mission statement OP. Try to apply it with an even hand. Easier said than done.... Part of the problem, mentioned by others here, your wife is one of your children. What's not mentioned is your mother. More on that. This is complicated by the nature of children to obfuscate the truth. Much like your childish wife, it's their nature. Be careful of believing stories carried by your child to your mother. You would then have …
/r/askMRP20/05/18 05:29 PM
6

I got divorced five years ago when I discovered my ex wife was having an affair This is the whole story here man. She was trash before; she is just older trash now. By virtue of age, she plays her games smarter than before DO NOT BE ALONE WITH HER - EVER. On the other hand, if you have no self respect, play with her. You lost before, playing again is beyond risky. All of your descriptions about how the ex still looks good, is indicative that you are looking, you are tempted. Mentioning it to you…
/r/askMRP20/05/18 04:22 PM
1

Yup.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/18 05:24 PM
3

What a shame you missed the point. Too bad. We all wasted our time.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/18 09:09 PM
1

Human nature is the constant; what is considered to be the range of women's socially acceptable choices is what's different. Yes, Well Said.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/18 08:07 PM
2

Steve, obviously your life has improved some. There seem to be small steps of ongoing incremental improvement with each post. In the meantime, two things for you: 1.) Be very careful not to get too taken by the idea that you are a unicorn. We both know that is crap. I hope you realize that you are not finished and continue to work on yourself. 2.) Avoid letting your relationships get too serious, while you continue your work. Best
/r/askMRP17/05/18 06:57 PM
1

girls just can't stand rejection I do not reject. I make her work for it...
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/18 10:08 PM
1

Just an add...... access is key. Example: Everything is joint, she clears out all the accounts and rides off with Chad on his Harley. Good luck paying the bills for a while. Good luck paying your lawyer's fee. Yeah, baby needs new shoes...... Example: You are ready to walk. You have your money in separate ownership accounts. Now you have the "fuck you fund" needed to file on her, get another place and get set up. Again, access is important, regardless of how a court will eventually split your as…
/r/askMRP16/05/18 05:45 PM
3

I prefer the ONS. Anyone else relate? Yes. IMO it is much less complicated and time consuming. Eat cake, let someone else wash the plates. If it is about sex, do that and do it well. If it is about validation, you will probably fail. BUT FIRST make a decision about what you really want, before you start sticking your dick in every available glory hole.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/18 05:36 PM
2

Yes, Lazy trolls take all the fun out it.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 05:06 PM
2

I think there's a very big difference between a.) having emotions and expressing them, and b.) having emotions and needing her to fix them. Add....3. Having emotions, accepting them as they are, without judgement, and without indulging oneself by expressing them to others. Then one can be alone, provide self validation, and outcome independence becomes a natural result.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/18 07:30 PM
4

Nice post. Well worth the time to read it.
/r/askMRP15/05/18 03:34 AM
1

Tie a rope to it, ride 'em hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 12:01 AM
1

You're not doing it right.
/r/askMRP15/05/18 12:00 AM
1

Therefore........... a woman in a harness can fake empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 08:12 PM
4

Pimping ain't easy. Finally, a man that understands....
/r/askMRP14/05/18 08:01 PM
1

yippee ki-ay!
/r/askMRP11/05/18 10:18 PM
4

With Elmer Fudd weading you to world womination what could go wong...
/r/askMRP11/05/18 05:52 PM
7

Damn you guys here are all baby crazy. Has it ever occurred that there comes a time that you don't want to have more kids? You've raised the kids and now you spend your time and energy on yourself and your kids can fend for themselves as they raise the grandkids. Menopause means no mo prego, and that's great by me. The down side, it is used as an excuse to limit, or control, or retire from being a sexual woman. u/screechhater is a great example of how to win. If you aren't obsessed with making i…
/r/askMRP11/05/18 05:34 PM
2

It is true. For an rawdogging oldster like me, it puts a finger on the scale for the stay plan.
/r/askMRP11/05/18 05:22 PM
1

Access is glue; Nope, that is a hostage situation.
/r/askMRP11/05/18 05:16 PM
1

I'm feeling very uncomfortable. Cuck CLuck
/r/askMRP11/05/18 02:11 AM
1

If the only way you are ever going to be happy, is if she becomes 26, why not leave now, why wait. She can't ever reach that bar, ever. Delaying would be indecisive, male hamster, beta, shitlord bullshit. You would be wasting your time and hers. As of now, you are wasting my time too.
/r/askMRP10/05/18 02:01 AM
2

million dollar question Only if you are worth 2 mil. Could cost more, or less.......
/r/askMRP10/05/18 01:53 AM
1

Stop the chicken porn.
/r/askMRP10/05/18 12:59 AM
5

He's right! I'm mostly certain maybe.
/r/askMRP10/05/18 12:56 AM
2

Always negotiate from strength. Get angry and demand....
/r/askMRP09/05/18 03:57 PM
7

Subscribe to Good Housekeeping. Always leave it out near the bed. (seriously, who cares what she thinks...)
/r/askMRP09/05/18 01:27 PM
2

Yes, and to this day I don't know why they are like that... AMGALT
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 09:29 PM
1

Withdraw attention from HER, not your kids. Dah. Get to work on the side-bar, you know less than nothing so far...
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/18 05:51 PM
8

Mormon girl in high school was the first ever to cry because I would not do her. And they attract crazy friends too.....
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/18 05:40 PM
1

I doubled, tripled, quadrupled down on commitment and have rewarded her shittiest behavior with more time and commitment Cure this before you fuck up another perfectly good woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/18 05:35 PM
1

u/jcrpta said it well: Hear me through: Men bond by saying nasty things to each other they don't really mean. Piss off OP /s
/r/askMRP07/05/18 01:27 AM
2

I think a bell in Heaven chimes Nope, it is a Celestial Chorus.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/18 05:53 PM
6

I think it is. Why would I not believe?
/r/askMRP06/05/18 05:47 PM
2

Looking at what he posted just on this thread, I suspect either a woman or a concern troll......
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/18 05:46 PM
8

I got a chuckle on; “Men wear jeans from the last good year of their lives,” You got a lot out of this last year. You made the decisions a man needs to make, for himself. +1
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/18 05:40 PM
2

Once you make the 'stay plan same as go plan' clear in your head, the rest is just process. ..therefore, the advice to "Next Her" is irrelevant in many cases.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/18 05:27 PM
1

Reading through this post, and the excellent links, I have learned a lot. I always thought I had game. I never had a problem approaching and have had some success. In some ways I thought I was a natural. After reading your post, not so much. This is a valuable contribution, thanks. +1
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/18 01:28 PM
3

You have covered a lot of ground here. I think you covered it well. Your examples were helpful to me. Yes, it is long, but you did not waste my time. I always like a post that makes me think, and this one does. One of the few posts I have saved. I am certain that I do not know enough to comment with anything that would improve your post. I do know that I need to re-read TWOTSM. You got more, usable, insights out of it than I did. Have a upvote.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/18 01:20 PM
3

Properly framed questions, get better answers.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/18 01:12 PM
8

The mental energy devoted to this decision can be hugely draining The constant decision was hard on me. First I set Deadlines for Stay/Go. If she fits in MY plan AT THAT TIME, I set a new deadline. The problem was, when the deadlines came and I spent too much energy on making a decision. Then repeat. I no longer set deadlines. I have come to trust that there will be no doubt when the time comes. When it comes to that point, I have the Go Plan ready, but put away from ongoing thought process. I s…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/18 04:17 AM
1

Yes, municipal water systems will shrivel your balls. I haven't had tap water in over 20 years.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 01:54 AM
2

Stay plan = go plan Yes. That makes it easier.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/18 11:01 PM
8

Many of us have to spend a lot of mental energy making the decision to stay or go. In my view, it is the hardest decision we have to make. No one can walk in another man's shoes enough to make that decision accurately for him. Yet, on this sub, we are constantly asked our opinion over and over again. It is far easier to tell them to NEXT and be wrong most of the time than to carefully consider it and be wrong less often.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/18 03:12 PM
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Yes, the lag is real. I will add from my experience: the longer things have been bad, the longer it will take. Age matters, as we get older, change takes longer Health matters, health issues for a spouse slows everything down. Agree with some other points you make: There is little or no consistent improvement at first Once the improvement starts, it gains in both intensity and consistency. I remember a similar post by u/UEMcGill and his point that he was FOUR YEARS into RP. The rabbit hole does …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/18 03:01 PM
1

they're the weird ones I get along with. How is that working for you? Does that get you what you want from the girls, other than getting along?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 02:41 PM
1

Agree.
/r/askMRP03/05/18 05:45 PM
1

Well said.
/r/askMRP03/05/18 03:58 PM
1

Despite negotiating the family through it, and assisting docs and nurses, and in some cases pointing the family in the right medical decision. I was still treated with venom. Watching it happen was surreal Murphy's Law - no good deed shall go unpunished. I always liked Murph.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/18 03:52 PM
4

Agree to 1-4. I would add: 5) Lack of eye contact 6) Lack of facial expression 7) Sloppily/badly dressed. Not about $ or brands, but about fit and style. Jeans and t-shirt, can be either a home-run or a zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 03:16 PM
3

Yes, I guess it's how I think of it that makes it different. There is no risk in a pleasant conversation that I had no expectations from. So, yes, in a way, I am never fishing for just one fish, but I am always trolling for whatever wants to jump in my boat. I almost always throw them back.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/18 03:06 PM
1

You will probably only gain it back as fast as you gave it up. Be mindful of that.
/r/askMRP03/05/18 01:23 PM
2

Young hot women seldom IOI me Serious question. Have you seen men that were maybe older, not a muscular as you, not as good looking as you, probably not as rich, smart, etc; and yet they would get the IOI's that you are not getting? What is the difference? Today I'm leaving the home improvement store. An HB8+ that I lightly chatted up at checkout follows me out to my truck, and has to engage me in a conversation about how she loves my truck. She was obviously disappointed when she leaned in and …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/18 04:16 AM
1

The idea of a 50 something man having a second family with a 30 something women is not exactly a new idea in history. I'll add that there's another part of that situation: Having a women 20-30 years younger than me sounds good enough. Having children at my age, makes me puke up a little.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/18 04:00 AM
4

I have had beards in the past, and women loved them. I did not like them as much as they did. I like a clean shaven face better. So be it for me. What I do with the hair on the top of my head, my face, or my hairy ass, is only up to me. OP do not negotiate your appearance; you will only lose your self respect and lose others respect for you.
/r/askMRP03/05/18 03:55 AM
1

...you don't have to dodge bullets......
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/18 02:02 PM
6

Note: you did not needlessly lie. You changed. Your thoughts and actions and words matched.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/18 01:17 PM
2

If you really looked "horrendous" you would have already done something. You would not hesitate. You would not drivel on about using your parents, and your kids as an excuse not to act. Your problem is not your nose or your teeth, it's you. You are a victim. Even worse, you continue to be a victim when you have the means at your disposal to change it, if it is really that bad.
/r/askMRP01/05/18 07:44 PM
1

Distrust, agree. This was a first for me. I did not even consider marriage counseling at the time, considering the state of the marriage. Interestingly, I did cash basis with a highly recommended psychiatrist. It was worth the extra cost over a psychologist. I set it up as a "buy a friend" deal. Any diagnostic was incidental to dealing with MY issues. I don't think I would have made it to the other side without it. Did not realize that when I started with him.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/18 01:50 PM
0

You are a man of great wisdom.
/r/askMRP01/05/18 01:30 AM
3

His wife being broken isn't the failure, it is tolerating a broken wife for so long. The problem every single man on MRP has, is determining when/if it is time to kill the puppy. There are financial and child care limitations that also have to be considered. Whether it takes a man one day, one year, or ten years or never, the timing is only his decision. u/ReddJive has made his decision, and has a timetable that suits him. He is his own judge.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/18 01:26 AM
9

Reject sex if you don't want it. Period. Rejecting sex for the purpose of changing someone else's behavior is a covert contract. Covert contracts are doomed to fail. You make yourself miserable and you make others miserable. Lose/lose. What don't you understand? Further details in the comments to you from u/Cam_Winston21 and u/BostonBrakeJob
/r/askMRP01/05/18 01:11 AM
1

my question through all of this puke is how do you know when to fix it or when to just say fuck it This is probably the hardest question we deal with. It is different for everyone. Some men "settle". Others move on fast and start over....and everywhere in between, For me as long as wife is improving, I'll keep playing house. I am always ready to bail if it stops improving. You have to decide what you need in order to stay, and, what will make you leave. NO ONE CAN DECIDE THIS BUT YOU. That being…
/r/askMRP30/04/18 07:00 PM
1

The link to u/niceguys (oops) r/niceguys is priceless! Needs to be on the side bar next NMMNG.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/18 05:41 PM
2

OP, I am going to suggest you try therapy. More specific, co-dependency issues. I will second this. I spent over 2 years with a psychiatrist before, during and after my divorce. Badly scrambled brains I had. It got me off the edge of despair.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/18 12:19 AM
1

Karma has smote me more than once, but I still disrespectfully piss on bloops.
/r/askMRP29/04/18 02:29 AM
8

Found MRP after I was already married. I was in the u/deadbedrooms pity party. Then found MRP. Doubt I would have gotten married if I had found MRP before. That being said, now being married is no longer a ball and chain. I can move on any time if I want to. But I always could have, just did not think so before.
/r/askMRP28/04/18 04:49 PM
1

a big cognitive behavior thing Is that not the basis of Rollo's current series of posts? BUT, this process is messy and long, and internal. When you add oversharing, it could clog up the whole sub with TMI. It is not an easy thing to give advice on helping a man form his internal dialog, his internal story, then getting the behavior congruent. We do this, but only to a point. Once it goes too far, then I know I tune out, and have on Steve. The question becomes, when it is too far. I know W&S is …
/r/askMRP28/04/18 04:29 PM
1

You’re getting some criticism here that I don’t quite understand but either way No shit. There is a line between tough and shitty.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/18 01:38 PM
4

You might think in terms of triggers. You know how it feels when you go over the top. Use that as a trigger to change your behavior. Think of it as verbal Judo; your reaction to a move. Just like Judo, you train yourself over time. Works. You get out of it what you put into it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/18 01:36 PM
6

So much here that could draw me back to memories of my first marriage. The behavior is shitty, but there is more. I'm no plumber, but I can tell when the shit stinks and when the shitter just doesn't work right. Borderline Personality Disorder, you know that covers a lot of ground. (IMO)BPD's get most of their crazy from their family. They rate the BPD's on a scale. My ex was at the top. My guess is that yours comes pretty close. I do not think you can prepare a BPD woman for divorce. I tried to…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/18 04:42 AM
1

You seem to be getting more downside than upside from your anger at times. The problem with anger is that it is often a mask for grief and sadness. Grieving your losses isn't a bad thing if you let yourself get past it by accepting the grief, pain and sadness that you brought into your life. Many men, like myself and possibly you, skipped over the sadness to the more active anger. (in my case rage) Make no mistake, anger is a higher, more active, and more positive response than grief/sadness. Th…
/r/askMRP28/04/18 04:27 AM
2

I’m too spiritual to be an atheist but I can’t see believing in God Maybe your definition of God needs some reconciliation, as you are still non-atheist. The thousands of years long theological evolution of Christianity has created problems for many otherwise very spiritual men.
/r/RPChristians27/04/18 06:38 PM
2

In very short order, you provided a great outline of your life - so far. It does help me to understand you better. For me, I have not lost my faith, but I no longer participate in organized religion. Are you saying you no longer believe in God, or similar?
/r/RPChristians27/04/18 06:12 PM
1

Learned helplessness
/r/askMRP26/04/18 01:58 PM
1

OK you've made some good points here: Agree, his victim mindset is ongoing. No doubt he keeps trying to justify his mindset, even blaming the sub's tough approach... Have to admit I'm reading very little of what he posts now. I just no longer as willing to invest the time since others are answering him......... I'm saying one thing and doing another here.
/r/askMRP26/04/18 01:57 PM
2

Yes, good reason to get up close and personal faster.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/18 01:59 AM
5

I'm probably by myself here, but I think Steve is worth the effort and a slow learner. He did shed the extra weight of a wife. I think he's trying to deal with his parents too. Going through a divorce was hard for me. I was fucking crazy. He keeps posting and he's getting something out of it. We learn from him either way. He is a net zero of plus and minus. IMO no need to ban, he's harmless to the sub at this point. To be reviewed over time.....
/r/askMRP26/04/18 01:53 AM
1

Continues to evolve for me.
/r/askMRP25/04/18 12:38 PM
2

It's a little spooky. I remember u/ReddJive first posts.....
/r/askMRP25/04/18 03:40 AM
4

The "old guys standing at the bar the whole night" had their nuts removed long ago and their wife stores them in her purse. They tell each other macho bullshit stories of "back in the day". They do serve a purpose. Their shitty attitude and lard asses, make you look good. The bar is a good place, usually, to scout the rest of the floor for more interesting damsels ....... like the young wife of one these old guys parked at the bar.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/18 07:56 PM
3

Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and to remove all doubt. That's working for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/18 07:49 PM
1

Treasury notes?
/r/askMRP24/04/18 03:48 AM
1

I think you have to pay them to take it back. You're a man, getting divorced. Freedom isn't free. Pay up and smile.
/r/askMRP24/04/18 03:47 AM
2

I can add a little here. When I was college age I played bass in a rock band. Played mostly country club parties. The women would do all kinds of stuff. Yes, in front of husbands. The husbands did not mind as they saw us a low value, "just boy musicians". The wives loved it. I wore a cup for one gig. It just added to the challenge. Ended up with my pants on my ankles more than once that night. The husbands yawned.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 05:22 PM
2

Anyway the reason why Married Red Pill is a collosal failure is because they seek your dominate and only understand the conscious world. Seriously, I think you have a potentially good point here. MERP's don't do much to address the Subconscious and Unconscious level. But, IGK about home decorating changing the world.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 04:49 PM
1

Every time I see a news story about the Prince and the royal Tart, I get irritated.
/r/askMRP23/04/18 04:37 PM
9

You could break the prose lines you wrote and it would be poetry.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/18 04:13 PM
5

Get rid of her. Distance yourself from your family. Use that space to fix you. Nothing here was done to you, you did it all to yourself as an adult. Now be an adult and take care yourself by working on your needs, not everyone else's needs. READ NNMNG 5 TIMES - SLOWLY. Pray she does not get pregnant "accidentally". One more thing.... Good Luck, I think you are going to need it.
/r/askMRP22/04/18 12:54 PM
2

Merp ex-husband laughs in her face. Or non-MERP hubby, pleading with her to come to her senses and she acts like she's doing him a favor to come back. Repeat....
/r/askMRP22/04/18 12:32 PM
2

Look again. The whole post is a joke Sepean. Really.
/r/askMRP21/04/18 08:53 PM
1

Not your fault she can't keep up with her stuff. I swear these women, not only do they deny sex for no good reason, they lose their shit, over nuttin'. If it weren't for their puss' we would have exterminated them eons ago. Looking back, that's some high level shit I just wrote. Might save it for later.
/r/askMRP21/04/18 08:35 PM
5

This is attractive at the truck stop. (after dark)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/18 05:20 PM
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This ^ is good. Easy to adopt and gives you total control. One point, do not make it a "joint" ownership account. It is your account and she is an "authorized user" as u/abdada stated above. You can make changes, and even completely remove her at any time without her sign-off. Budgeting is a great idea, but seldom works. Giving a set amount for spending does work much better, and, is much easier to implement. I feel like an ATM machine and me spitting out unlimited money feels more like me being…
/r/askMRP21/04/18 05:13 PM
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I've been over there an read some. The women's comments are straightforward and revealing, mostly. Nothing will stop them, once they decide, and rationalize, that they "need" strange dick. The men do it too though. Like so many things, just another avenue of study for me. Keeps it real.
/r/askMRP21/04/18 04:08 PM
2

Where the fuck are my gloves Ha! Missed that first time.... you CAD.
/r/askMRP21/04/18 03:39 PM
2

Yeah, now I remember, "That'll Show Her", is the ultimate masculine frame. A Golden Frame, above all others. Have to take on another truck loan, so we can live happily ever after. Thanks man, at least you read the side bar. I just didn't have time. +1 broman
/r/askMRP21/04/18 03:35 PM
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drill baby drill. Good point - but the funding is scant at best. I think non-profit is code for poor. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/18 03:50 AM
1

Data guy, you might find this interesting: Non-profit board I'm on wanted to do a survey to get information from the community we serve. Two best questions that came from that board meeting: (1.) What questions will provide us with information we COULD act on. (2.) What survey results WOULD we actually implement (my favorite one). AKA don't ask the question if we can't, or won't, do something about it. Changed the survey that was proposed with 10 questions and growing, to 4 questions.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/18 03:33 AM
1

I think my biggest personal strength is being able to connect dots. Yes, you just did for me. Maybe similar: My engineer son does international business consulting. His specialty is supply chain management. Your roles sound similar, or parallel to what he does working with companies to model/improve their operations. One of his specialties is forecast modeling. FYI-for future reference -Once he left working for A company, and started consulting, his income went 5X. Downside is constant internati…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/18 01:54 AM
2

Think I'll STFU and work on holding frame, after I get the truck running again. Who knew she would make it so hard?
/r/askMRP21/04/18 12:36 AM
1

even though i may have been a bit controlling in the past only thing I found in your post that explains most of it. I've reached the point i need to ask because it's really affecting my head now. Even you know where the problem is.
/r/askMRP21/04/18 12:24 AM
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You seem to be creating a new paradigm here. I don't really know what you do, other than (I think) you are a data and statistical wiz. So my ideas may not be relevant. Is the director you're meeting with an innovative type? You already have a sense of what you would like to do. Can you make a path there with the director's help? One that could be advantageous to the director, and, to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/18 12:18 AM
1

At some point outcome independence bleeds into “go ahead and make my day” bitch Yes! The next step... I can even see old Clint E. saying it; calm, cool, without even a hint of anger.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/18 10:18 PM
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I feel literally physically sick to my stomach all day this never happens to me but today, why is this and what's this pain? That would be grief. You know, like mourning the loss of..... The whole marriage, dowry and everything cost me no more that $4000. I visited her 4 times in three years each time staying for a month So, 4 months of sex. Cheaper than a hooker. I'd call it paid in full and move on.
/r/askMRP20/04/18 10:05 PM
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Scrubbed all the floors. Got a hard no. Held frame, got drunk and wrecked my truck. Gave lots of comfort and apologized. Still said no. This is hard mode, right? What do now?
/r/askMRP20/04/18 01:50 PM
1

I think that bus just filled up.......
/r/askMRP20/04/18 01:11 PM
2

Good job confusing the enemy here. I'm confused.
/r/askMRP20/04/18 01:10 PM
1

Keep up the good work. Keep your expectations realistic, and, Try to control your enthusiam. It is a long road back.
/r/askMRP20/04/18 01:08 PM
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You're such a beasty man. That is F a b u l o u s! (limp hand wave)
/r/askMRP20/04/18 01:04 PM
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For us more mature guys, when I want sex, I scrub floors and wash dishes in this . Don't forget to swing your ass, losely tie it and let it fall open.
/r/askMRP20/04/18 01:32 AM
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OP might consider this. He is young, no children, and the disrepect is long in the tooth here. Why fight an uphill battle with a bitchy partner if you don't have to. He needs to fix his frame, and she would be a good sparing partner while he preps for a better life with his new solid frame, and exit sooner rather than later.
/r/askMRP19/04/18 06:06 PM
3

I guess I just don't get it.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/18 05:37 PM
2

Do you see that you are blaming her for the negativity that you have? Do you see that this only justifies your anger. Do you see that as long as you hold that anger you will be "squashing any nastiness with a sledgehammer" and that this might not be the best plan? Do you see?
/r/askMRP19/04/18 01:52 PM
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Packed in u/weakandsensitive short comment to you, is the key you need. Your response only highlights your lack of understanding of all he said. "I don't let anyone else push me about" is not frame and it is not leading, it is reactive as stated above. Your anger is your weakness not strength. Take this from someone that knows the two faced wild card of rage and weakness, Your anger pushes the boundaries of rage. Your rage feels strong, it is not. It is your fight or flight response that shows y…
/r/askMRP19/04/18 01:03 PM
1

I don't think it matters how it turns out. The key, for me, is to be willing to take charge of whatever happens.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/18 11:43 PM
2

Zombie is the code word(for me), for the recognition of how easily this techno society can collapse. About 100 years ago, society was not "elevated" by technology so much. Things were done by hand and with "simple machines" mostly. Now tech has "elevated" everything. Like everyone is walking on technology based stilts. Makes the fall much farther and much harder. As we continue to make technological gains, we "elevate" our society even higher. Icarius wings, digital version. People get a gut fee…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/18 06:57 PM
1

If femenism went away tomorrow, wouldn't change anything. Tah Dah! There would be a struggle for certain. "Something always gets in the way". It is the way it is. Bitching about feminism is bitching about hardship. There will be hardship in a real world.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/18 06:42 PM
1

I was thinking maybe she needed to consult the atty and Chad. Get things lined up for a swing.
/r/askMRP18/04/18 12:59 PM
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they brag about things that are what they are good at, but society continues to show how little value is on it, and how women are taking over in the things we used to be good at (provisioning). This hits at the heart of many a noob post, me included until 3 years ago. The belief that being a great provider means anything. Women want the free ride, but not necessarily the guy that provides it. I really, really thought that it mattered. Even though I had iron control of the money, I shared everyth…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/18 03:55 AM
2

I think it is a serial killer word.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 08:47 PM
2

The most important thing about the past, is letting be there, in the past. You do that well. All the other turds that complain about mommy and daddy "is the reason I..." and "my wife is a bitch" and everything else and blames the rest of the world. Eternal victims. What is it you say about "helplessness"?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 08:45 PM
2

Ah, the good old days. Seems a waste of memory lane without a cold brew to share with ya mate.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 08:27 PM
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We argue about things but mainly money. I dont think im Beta, i could afford to lose a few pounds but im not a slob or anything Bingo - (1) Not in charge of the money --(2) I don't think I'm Beta --(3) Could afford to lose a few pounds OP you are on the slippery slope already. You are here because things happen for a reason. Welcome. You have found a place that you need.
/r/askMRP17/04/18 08:20 PM
5

I could count on my old man: "Son, if you don't show up, I'm gonna kick your ass."
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 08:15 PM
1

So, I presented her with the paperwork and told her what was happening. Her immediate reaction was to not see me. She left for 20mins and then I went to work This makes no sense. Please explain exactly what happened here.
/r/askMRP17/04/18 02:45 PM
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Nice explanation. There may be other paths, but the territory to be covered, and the destination, are the same.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 08:26 PM
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And that, I will grant you, is a very good start. Because you are doing the work, everyone here has chimed in for you. The point I'm making is the next step of your progress, that so many here have also been through. Your story reads that you are curing your Oneitis by seeking validation elsewhere. Trying to tell you that you are replacing it, not curing it. Same problem, different target/source.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 07:41 PM
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Thanks. Good catch. Sniff test failed.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/18 05:11 PM
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First understand that Oneitis, also is a direct statement of the belief in a man's lower value, to their wife or to "another". Second, end Oneitis by changing your beliefs. NOT by replacing the source of that validation. The same validation that continues the Oneitis loop, is an ongoing defacto statement of lower value. A statement of lower value that ends immediately with the end of Oneitis. In spite of your gains in the gym, the problem is your programming.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 04:59 PM
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She is defining you. She is defining the relationship. You have to start defining yourself (OI) and defining what you want in a relationship. Once you define yourself and what you want in the relationship, you can start building your frame that is not affected by her emotional state(s). What she believes (at this moment) will become irrelevant to you because you know who you are. All of the above is much easier said than done. It takes time and work. You are still too invested in what she thinks…
/r/askMRP16/04/18 02:39 PM
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Tips and tricks day is every other Tuesday.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 01:17 PM
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TBA
/r/askMRP16/04/18 12:55 PM
1

OK, got it.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 03:41 AM
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Great pics. I question the use of so much juice to get there, i.e. PED, HGC, TRT, and HGH. Not for me, but you do you. The results are really great though. Hope the squeeze is worth the risks of all that juice.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/18 03:35 AM
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I agree 100% with everything you say here . But OP's problem is "what do now?"...... Now that he owns all this mess, how to start an upward path again.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 01:53 AM
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Is there any going back from this? Yes! You can stop a divorce at any point in the process. I feel like I have two choices: You have lots of choices other than these two. Some choices may not be knowable to you right now. But either way, going on the offense gives you the advantage.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 01:39 AM
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I have not served her yet as I intend to confront her first and listen to her side. Logistically, don't wait til she's already left town....
/r/askMRP15/04/18 11:38 PM
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Then go on the offensive. 100% agree here. Certainly easier now than later. This could still be resolved if it suits you, but only if you act decisively.
/r/askMRP15/04/18 11:37 PM
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I have to ask.....is masculinity in THIS much trouble? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 10:14 PM
3

They amaze me with what they know, instinctively...
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 05:54 PM
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I've done some fasting. Mostly 20hr fast/4Hr feed day. It works for me and it is easy to do. It's not for everyone, I guess, but if you haven't tried it, you can't know.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 02:20 PM
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Make her sad more. She'll get over it.
/r/askMRP15/04/18 02:04 PM
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When a man comes to me asking for help with his investments and the cash flow statements show he is spending too much and will go broke, tells me I should confine my advice to the investments, since he is comfortable with his decisions to spend himself into oblivion. I then fire the client. You're fired.
/r/askMRP15/04/18 02:00 PM
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First OP I have been through a divorce. It is always difficult. You have to rebuild yourself. In order to do that, most of us need to: (1) recognize our deficits and (2) work to correct them and (3) seek out help from others (4) accept help from others Looks like you are working hard on (2) and (3), you suck at (1) and (4). Getting good at (1) will just take time and effort. Improving at (4) will take a change in attitude, that is totally under your control NOW.
/r/askMRP15/04/18 04:20 AM
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Surprise! That's what 3 and 4 thought.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 11:01 PM
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Hi, I'm Ape #2 and I enjoyed the hell out of beating Ape 3 and 4's ass. They pulled me out too soon, I wanted to beat #5's ass too.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 10:37 PM
1

Right. SOP
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/18 10:31 PM
1

Wait for the second billing that occurs after your insurance has paid. This should reflect the correct amount. This would happen long before they would call you. First billing from hospitals seldom have all the insurance proceeds included since the insurance company takes a while to pay. One way to make it easier, for you, is to use your insurance company's online account to see the status of the claim. You can see the submitted amount and the amount they will pay. The real issue of cost, to you…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/18 07:01 PM
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If that can't/doesn't happen - I'd love the opportunity to execute in this space. Then you really do want the job. Why not skip a step on the ladder you have in your mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/18 05:36 PM
1

The hospital wants to charge $450 for the visit. Everything I looked at was estimating $200 Sometimes they send an "initial" bill that is inflated, hoping you will fire off a check. Then when you call, they say that was an initial bill and another is coming. Don't pay, make them call you for their money. Different conversation.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/18 05:33 PM
1

Best answer, for me. Erase, erase, erase old; write New programming.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/18 04:23 PM
1

In .0001 I don't don't think that I could create a space to consider/reconsider my actions better. Suggestions?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/18 03:41 PM
2

Urban Dictionary: Tickle Trunk https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Tickle%20Trunk The mental storage space of imagery recalled upon for the purposes of female masturbation. The female equivalent of the male "spank bank". I was confused.......until..... Mr. Dressup - Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mr._Dressup This included the Tickle Trunk (where costumes used in make-believe skits were stored) and a long counter where Casey and Finnegan often appeared. Google saves the day. …
/r/askMRP13/04/18 03:34 PM
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hugs
/r/askMRP13/04/18 12:38 PM
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Agree. My tips and tricks bag is empty today. Especially since he doesn't have time for the sidebar.
/r/askMRP13/04/18 02:44 AM
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I missed Mr. Wannabe by a mile here.
/r/askMRP13/04/18 02:32 AM
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one aspect that should be touched on is speed. Our firmware loads emotional / instinctual responses several orders of magnitude faster than anything rational Not just speed as you mentioned, but absolutely automatic. Another confirmation that we spend more time unlearning things, in order to learn new life scripts to achieve better outcomes.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/18 04:22 AM
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I have never seen anyone at MRP suggest anything like what you have said. I don't understand this statement. IMO less BMI is better. I know game can overcome some, but only so much. BMI creep up is the enemy of masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 11:14 PM
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You seem to be learning fast here OP. Think about this..... Do you think this type of behavior on your part, i.e. the covert contract, could dry your girl up over time? Do you think that she would become less willing as you become more angry? Finally, do you see that it is all something that you can change, or put another way, it is all your fault. Best
/r/askMRP11/04/18 01:43 PM
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Ouch! Can't unsee that. You can have all of those. I'm out.
/r/askMRP11/04/18 01:34 PM
2

I'll get my flashlight.
/r/askMRP10/04/18 01:16 PM
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I have seen the enemy, and he is us.... Easier said than done of course. Yes, do it your way.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 01:11 PM
1

Lots of sour cream running out.
/r/askMRP10/04/18 01:07 PM
1

Naked tacos.
/r/askMRP10/04/18 01:06 PM
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Tacos.
/r/askMRP10/04/18 01:05 PM
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My wife is my second marriage. For the first 18 years she was my friend, my lover, my partner. There was never a day that I did not look forward to coming home from work. I looked forward to our time together on the weekends and our travels. I think I understand what u/weakandsensitive is talking about, mostly in the past tense. Then I lost her attraction and spent time in a downhill slide of increasing beta behavior that almost doomed me, and the relationship. The friendship, the sex, the partn…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/18 04:22 AM
2

Bloop troll.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/18 05:27 PM
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I've heard that special girls never get divorced, but I've yet to see substantial proof of it. I have also heard of unicorns, but still haven't seen one. I'll bet u/Rian_Stone has seen Bigfoot, but I'm sure he's not telling.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/18 05:17 PM
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Guess I was one of the retards. No matter, it's the results that count.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/18 02:46 PM
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You might find this helpful from a previous post: Iron Rules Avoid joint assets, joint liabilities and joint agreements, such as leases, and, business ownership or debt. Any asset that is joint, is a gift to her as she the the ability to take it all, legally. Any debt that is joint, is a gift her, because if she refuses to pay, you will be legally obligated to pay it. Co-signing is MUCH Worse than a Joint Liability. Co-signing on any debt offers you 100% exposure to the debt, and, unlike a joint…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/18 03:55 AM
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I started here under another user name, at that time Jack's posts were extemporaneous for me. You will find that reading his entire post history is a good use of your time.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/18 03:43 AM
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there are no field reports or personal anecdotes. You have not read all of his stuff carefully. True, there were no field reports. Woven in his lengthy dissertations were glimpses of his life and what brought him to MRP, why he posted, and why he left.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/18 09:53 PM
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I don't speak Jive :)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/18 04:25 PM
2

I spent some time in juvy. (got out) at 17. Got out and coach made me team captain, went to state that year. Might have won if they left me in juvy.
/r/askMRP06/04/18 04:15 PM
2

Yes. Agree. Take the time you need to honor your values and yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/18 02:58 PM
1

Good points.
/r/askMRP06/04/18 01:46 PM
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He's going through a divorce and trying to put his life back together. Fuck it, I was a mess when I went through my divorce. If there is a chance he can save himself from all that all over again, I'll play. If he gets even part of it, he and everyone around him will be better off. Yeah, I'm in.
/r/askMRP06/04/18 01:41 PM
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I like u/reddjive idea. OP is the lesson. There have been others like Vamp. If he gets it, that's great. If he doesn't we still gain.
/r/askMRP06/04/18 01:35 PM
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a ban isn't helpful, and he is trying... IDK. In this case I trust the judgement of our hard working and long suffering mods.
/r/askMRP06/04/18 01:12 PM
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Thanks for that link. Is Steve a woman troll? Persistent too. Maybe mods need to require a picture.
/r/askMRP06/04/18 12:44 PM
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Regardless of what happens with us, I love her and want her to be happy. That is a very generous and loving statement. Taken to it's most extreme conclusion, it would doom you to frustration and unhappiness for the rest of your life. I think you are making other choices here. If you can't be happy, how could you possibly make her happy. Oh, I forgot, you have not been able to make her happy. That's because you really cannot be responsible for anyone's happiness, other than yourself, can you?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/18 12:46 AM
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pick a direction and get moving - one way or the other That is the most RP thing you have said in a while. BTW is just makes good sense for you and those around you. You can now drive a car, too!
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/18 12:32 AM
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316, would you present divorce papers if needed? If you did, do you think you would feel relieved by it?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/18 07:40 PM
2

Thanks for the link. I had forgotten about UEM's post about OP. I need to correct my original comment here. Can't believe I forgot that. Probably Oldtimers. CORRECTION DONE
/r/askMRP05/04/18 07:20 PM
2

Ole Saint FT, says no soup toys for you.
/r/askMRP05/04/18 06:41 PM
1

Yes. Well said, helpful to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/18 06:40 PM
1

thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/18 04:23 PM
2

a victim puke safe space There's another group I've heard of that is against hate speech that he might like. But they can be kind of a snarky bunch themselves.
/r/askMRP05/04/18 04:15 PM
3

Probably why I shouldn't play poker anymore.
/r/askMRP05/04/18 02:47 PM
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Some men learn lessons others are the lesson Well said. I think I've spent a fair amount of time being the lesson. Guess that's why we even try.
/r/askMRP05/04/18 01:47 AM
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You started off pretty good. I kept reading..... But the expression of that fear is the first step to dealing with procrastination and that act and the process that follows is so liberating. Here we agree. I'd love to see a thread where people could express their fears in a non judgemental atmosphere, because I think it would help a lot of men here. What would be the point? What would lost men gain from this? Here, have a cookie. I'd share some of my first hand experiences but some asshats peopl…
/r/askMRP05/04/18 01:40 AM
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Steve this is the first post you have made where I really want to tell you to piss off. Piss off. EDIT: This is NOT the first post where I told you to piss off. Over a year ago, you wanted everyone to play nice and consider feelz. Piss off AGAIN. Learning how to admit weakness is a strength and the 47 people dumping on you, are trying to help you save yourself. Dumbass. Think about it and come back another day.
/r/askMRP04/04/18 09:18 PM
1

No matter what, there is an element of lost freedom when you share a house/apt. There is give and take that is not necessary if you have your own place. If a man's frame has ANY holes, they will leak. Most men here have some holes in their frame. I am 99% agreement.
/r/askMRP04/04/18 01:23 PM
1

I picture Gary Busey on stage lecturing me You nailed that! +
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/18 04:03 AM
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It will be shit for my kids. Having a father at home with a shitty attitude, because he knows he has a shitty wife, is a shitty life for your kids. Shitty marriage=shitty kids. How could it be otherwise? Just a big fucking excuse.
/r/askMRP04/04/18 03:59 AM
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You have two great opportunities: Move in with your current girlfriend Move back in with your ex. In the spirit of joint custody, do both. Then you would be literally and figuratively double fucked. But, if you were so bold as to over come the guilt you feel for leaving a shitty wife, you could become single fucked. If you add to that, getting a full grip on yourself and doing the real work on you, you could become completely un-fucked. I don't give any fucks what you do. ;)
/r/askMRP04/04/18 03:52 AM
1

Happy 50th birthday Rollo! One thing I can tell you that is factual, i.e. not navel gazy, the last almost 20 years since my 50'th were the happiest and most productive of my entire life. As I expected less, I got more. But your advantage is you are one heck of lot smarter than me. So navel gazy away Rollo. Best
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/18 03:37 AM
1

Also agree .... FR time for you.
/r/askMRP03/04/18 12:38 AM
1

Rollo talks about "sexual retirement". It is real. Just do not allow it. Not a problem you ever had.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/18 10:32 PM
1

i believe the term the kids use these days is a "partner in crime". with that clarification out of the way, i would like your thoughts on whether this is a "bluepill end" or even just a "nonsense end" to which i am using redpill tools. You are wanting her to be different. She might jet ski, but she will not get up and shake her shit in front of the world, if ever she would IDK. It is a stupid quest to not only try to change another person, but to be unhappy if they don't. You become not independ…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/18 10:28 PM
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the number one factor in my relationship on how much effort she puts into it is how much she believes i have no problem walking out the door. second is how much value I add That was simply, and, well said. I'll add that the path getting there is so much more than just adopting the concepts. It is also about deleting old concepts.
/r/askMRP02/04/18 03:36 AM
3

Take full ownership of yourself. End any ownership of her.
/r/askMRP01/04/18 08:45 PM
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get educated on the paths, save a fuck you fund, and develop a plan that can be executed at a moments notice. Yes. Without this exercise, there's not a go plan.
/r/askMRP01/04/18 08:40 PM
2

No doubt, it will come easy for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/18 01:25 AM
2

Bingo
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/18 02:49 PM
1

And they get better looking after you've had more to drink. That cow at 10 PM can look like a queen at 2 AM. The next morning is a bitch.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 01:35 PM
0

Regrets are a waste of time. Next.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 01:15 PM
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Closed groups are only closed if you let them stay that way. If they interest you, MAKE an opening. Before I go there, consider this. Have you ever been out with a group of people you know well, and someone came up to your group of comrades, had an engaging smile and said something strange or funny? In that situation of your closed group, some of your group are just waiting for something to break the boredom of sitting with all these known quantity friends. It is an opportunity. With that in min…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/18 03:55 AM
2

I just have this feeling of dread and despair. I know ive had a lot worse times in my life like watching my first child pass away in my arms. I would just like the communities opinion on how they would handle this. Sorry for the wall of text. I just want to handle shit the right way beforeit happens. Thanks for listening, boys. OP read the above carefully. You sound like a man that just hit the mat so hard, he thinks he cannot get up. Beaten. And it isn't all about this GNO and you know it. You …
/r/askMRP31/03/18 01:18 AM
1

Listen carefully here Kosmo. Making lots of money is not, ever, never, going to get you a free pass to be a manlet. Your income and your manhood are not the same, not even on the same plane of existence.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/18 12:13 AM
3

for that plug to be nowhere near the receptacle You're a true wordsmith!
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 02:18 PM
1

It had to be true.... :)
/r/askTRP30/03/18 02:16 PM
2

Seems that 3 years is common.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 01:50 PM
5

Similar here. In the course of a conversation, she said (and I think she meant to threaten) why don't we just divorce. I calmly and thoughtfully said, maybe you are right. The difference was I not only meant it, I was at peace with it. Over the next few days after that, there was a complete internal release, a strange joy, as I had let go of my attachment to the marriage. The anger and rage emotions that had been so much a part of my life, drifted away. Once I let go, she latched on. Like you sa…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 01:49 PM
2

"Could be worse" is appropriate here. Because your situation, IMO, could not be better. At 45 , you are a prize. Yes, spin it 180. play it like a fiddle and slay it.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 04:28 AM
2

You've got a lot to unpack there. Take your time man. Feeling like a target on your back, is not a good place. Turn your view, they have the target on their back. Enjoy yourself. My age, take Pi, double it, mutilply by 20, divide by 2, add 4, gives you my years. :)
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 03:55 AM
4

but I dont need it and can burn it down and be just fine Completely agree. It's a long trip to get to that point. Took me 3 years to get there. Just my curiosity, how long for you?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 02:57 AM
3

I no longer have access to the soccer mom world, as that time in my life raising my children is past. But I go out in the world, and all a man has to do is look around, and he will see women, young and old, longing for a man that excites them. I am around older women mostly, but they are so much more desperate. They are willing to touch and make passes at me in front of the woman they know is my wife. Occasionally, there is attention from the subset of younger women that are genuinely attracted …
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 08:29 PM
5

There is no contextual societal reason that many men have trouble getting laid. The ability to attract, game and enjoy a woman is an unremarkable skillset. I suspect this old man has been turning down more pussy than darkens your door of late. To echo u/Rian_Stone; your answer is not around you, look inward. In your defense OP, even Roosh failed this test, IMO.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 07:58 PM
1

Please explain. I think u/DanG3 has a valid point. Why am I wrong?
/r/askMRP29/03/18 03:47 AM
3

Probably the best and succinct description(s) I have seen for using RP to achieve BP goals. I have lived parts of it. Well said.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/18 03:05 AM
1

Can't hurt.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/18 03:30 AM
2

Maybe she posted a tit pic and I missed it.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/18 01:03 AM
1

Wrong sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/18 12:46 AM
1

I just imagined that which I like best. I lack that scientific bent that you have. Enquiring minds like yours need to know.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/18 09:26 PM
5

I have been through this march to death with 5 close family members in the last 15 years. It is never easy. How you treat your MIL will send advance signals to your wife on what she can expect from you someday. Since cancer runs in the family, your wife will make the connection to whatever you do for MIL "could" apply to her in similar situation. Be careful to have an even handed approach here. You must also balance and take care of your wife's needs. You have to help her, a working woman, to ba…
/r/askMRP26/03/18 04:32 AM
1

Look again. Not what I was commenting about.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 08:22 PM
9

Your life could be different than this. That's the point here. Maybe MGTOW aligns closer to this version of the future.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 02:21 AM
1

This is how a fifteen twelve year old trolls this sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/18 10:09 PM
1

Under good management the best plow horse gets the best..... Read some of u/Rian_Stone posts you might understand better the concept when he says 'be the best plow horse'. More than a simple metaphor.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 08:50 PM
1

I removed some lint from by belly button today. What do now? /s
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 08:40 PM
9

80/20 rule sucks. It's more like 90/10 IMO. Which means of the top 20%, half of them are still missing the whole picture.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 07:26 PM
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In those situations, I have come to know that I enjoy taking the shot so much more than they will ever understand it. Bet he never thinks about it again, cause he really can't. Like telling a joke that only you "get it". Enjoy.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 03:00 PM
45

The usual first post starts off with, "I've got a great job...." Followed by, finding out that it doesn't matter.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 02:43 PM
1

Great minds think alike. So rare that I admire another man's tool habits.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/18 02:18 PM
1

Yes, but never on the hood. Might scratch the paint. I always have padded fender covers to put down for that. I've been lucky to have women that found a dirty, sweaty man using his tools to be sexy. Current woman included.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/18 02:16 PM
1

I only would save my StrapOn SnapOn tool chest. So many great memories.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/18 04:04 AM
1

Cheat you ass off. Seriously if that's what you want, do it. Quit messing around, quit asking opinions and put your ass on the line. Otherwise, get back to cowering with the huddled masses.
/r/askMRP24/03/18 02:31 AM
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I read the whole thing. Now award me some points. Lots of points. Colors optional.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/18 02:24 AM
1

And the tool box too.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/18 02:06 AM
1

My mission is building my future for my kids and retirement, and this is how she supports that. Those other things would be fun, but not worth the possible detrimental effects they'd cause Lots of wisdom here.
/r/askMRP23/03/18 07:30 PM
1

Shiny coats and long tails are sooooo common. But that horn is special.
/r/askMRP23/03/18 07:27 PM
1

I do not "need" a contract. It was already in place pre-RP. There are many things she offers of value, guess you just have to take my word for it, since I have no desire to type out a list. If she finds greater value, a better deal, then she can GTF out. I will pack her bag, and help her move. It's not complicated INC, and I have much better things to do than even think about it. IDGAF. I am not attached to the outcome.
/r/askMRP23/03/18 03:09 PM
1

She's mad at you for giving a shit. Once again, it's not complicated (INC).
/r/askMRP23/03/18 02:26 PM
1

I think W&S has. But he trades on that. Likeable does work, even when you wear a lot of purple. But that would be true in most walks of life.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 08:38 PM
1

Not a mass audience, just a different audience. If he helps guys out of slavery, it's not bad.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 07:19 PM
5

For me, I'd rather MRP be hard core than try to appeal to the masses with feel-good shit like TFA. Here we differ. I love hard core shit. But there are a lot of people that will never put up with my crap. TFA reaches people that I, and most of the EC's, would only piss off. He serves a definable, useable, and worthwhile purpose. I would never shit on his work.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 05:26 PM
3

Decide what you want, then your boundaries are easy. Believe you have value that "she" doesn't assign, and the drama goes away. Keep reading, it will probably get clearer. Your story is a great lesson. Keep it for the future.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 02:44 PM
1

(Edited to remove redundancy:) Yes agree.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 01:24 AM
1

Sean Connery in The Rock; https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SQY6IYVAfw8
/r/askMRP20/03/18 01:05 AM
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First, 10/10 satisfaction is not a goal for me. She adds value. Without her adding to my life, what is the point? I add value to her life, otherwise why would she stay? It really isn't complicated.
/r/askMRP20/03/18 12:54 AM
1

How do you select an appropriate partner to have children with? I would say that for most of MERPs, this is just a fantasy. It is past the point of no return when they get here. Allmost every noob comes here with kids and no clue. Too late to make an informed choice.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/18 12:48 AM
1

Zoom in on her neck and face in the pictures. Looking at the neck, I'd say she is still very heavy, and that's after losing a lot of weight. Some unattractive one's get that puckered expression, think they look special, or sexy. For her, "knows how to treat a woman" means "ride me hard".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/18 09:14 PM
1

Agree with points 1 & 2. As for point 3: Most of the inherited wealth gets pissed away. I've seen it up close with my boomer friends. It is amazing to see them waste the opportunity of their lifetime. Kind of like the Lotto winner syndrome.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/18 06:39 PM
1

STD rates, that's true anywhere that boomers congregate. But "slightly grayer and saggier" is way too nice. 90% of the guys over 60 here haven't seen their dick in years. Many of the women trade heavy on being "sexually retired" to their spouse, while being a feisty flirting horny little woman to me. Worst of all, raw dog with these grannies is, as you mentioned, a high risk activity. The little joke is, ----insert---Retirement Village: where the women can't get pregnant, and the men look like t…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/18 06:33 PM
1

Thanks for thinking of me. I am actually living in very similar to that. I'm trying to restrain myself as long as the missus continues to be dedicated to providing the level of hedonism I need desire. Including, but certainly not limited to, lifestyle friendly nudist camp this summer. Happy camper.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/18 04:18 PM
2

You are wise beyond your years..... fixed
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/18 02:12 PM
2

having the power and ability to influence your world. best 9 words of your post. +
/r/askMRP19/03/18 01:57 PM
1

I still like my reply to that post....... This whole thread reminds me of a discussion with the wife. The best solution after STFU is fog and AA. Hold your boundaries and leave if it gets too shitty. Therefore, I am leaving this conversation to those that want to play. Bottom Line: We are not on the same team. (still)
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/18 01:55 PM
2

It's not dread, Biggie is a dumbass. She is a dumbass. There's no cure for stupid. Put two stupid people together and someone gets hurt. Hopefully they didn't have any stupid kids.
/r/askMRP19/03/18 04:54 AM
2

My old game was buying and holding them for rental. I already owned a business, I just considered them my "sideline" business. Back then I could buy fixable houses for 15 to 25k. My rehab cost were 5 to 15k. Average house was total cost of 25 to 30k. The neighborhoods were mixed ethnic working class. I got an annualized 20% return on cost, for an average of $500 month per house, initially. Rents always go up.... I would look for low cost opportunities (2-3k) to enhance a property by making some …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/18 04:47 AM
3

You're doing good, making so much progress that she noticed in a shit test way. You passed. Keep going and don't look back.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/18 12:32 AM
2

Your "red pill-ism" is getting strong little fucker. until I fix myself I would just end up in the same situation. I do it cuz it benefits me.
/r/askMRP19/03/18 12:28 AM
1

Statistically speaking, you're going to die. Are you going to kill yourself now? Since I am so much older, I must think about this. OK done. nada.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/18 12:14 AM
2

Sex hasn't happened in over two years and any initiation or attempt at intimacy on my part is met with a lengthy discussion about her child hood issues and how her feelings for me have changed. The childhood issues are a straw man."her feelings for me have changed" that is her real issue. I am finally in a place where I can see the mistakes I've made and how the blame lies with me and my inaction to start living my life... She seems to already be coming along some. From what you wrote, she likes…
/r/askMRP19/03/18 12:09 AM
3

....#metoo
/r/askMRP18/03/18 09:10 PM
6

People respect those who show that they are ready to use physical violence if the circumstances merits it - even if they do not use it. This OP. Physical confrontations are a dicey game. In a group you know, that's one situation. You'll know if he's a bad ass. In those situations, push back hard. Even after the first punch is thrown, I can still walk away rather than go in for destroy. Most guys wimp out fast. Just try not to jump up and down and make king monkey sounds when they back down. In a…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 08:49 PM
2

If I had to do it again I would flip houses. What price range houses would you do, if you were to start today?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/18 08:23 PM
1

Man on Fire, Denzel Washington
/r/askMRP18/03/18 07:27 PM
2

I have more common sense than graduate degrees. Pays the same.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/18 07:23 PM
1

Leave for (at least) 3 days. Get away from all this. Sober up. Stop drinking and thinking, that's a waste of time. Once your head clears, report back here. You're wasting your time and ours right now.
/r/askMRP17/03/18 02:25 PM
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You learned what I learned so slowly. The problem was me. You might be more attractive if you fix your mental models. Your mental state IS the problem. She can do whatever. AKA: I have seen the enemy and it is us.
/r/askMRP17/03/18 02:19 PM
1

Similar here. Seems once you confront it scorched earth style, and mean it, it stops.
/r/askMRP17/03/18 01:45 PM
1

The hardest part is trying to act like it's no big deal as I get her suitcases down from attic storage.
/r/askMRP17/03/18 04:45 AM
2

what is the point of marrying american women then this is a double meaning.... 1.) what is the point of marrying. would be the first meaning. As you described, there is no point. 2)...what is the point of marrying an "American woman" That is what my original comment was about.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 04:13 PM
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what is the point of marrying american women understand that American women only 1/2 of the problem. American men are the other half of the problem. For men the problem is unilaterally solvable in most cases.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 01:37 PM
1

Feel like I wasted some prime years That is past. Best thing you can do about the past, is leave it in the past. Now that you have that straight, what are you going to do now, complain some more, or, do more? Complaining, you have already done, and you know how to do it. Doing, means quit complaining and make changes. Your choice.
/r/askMRP16/03/18 02:09 AM
2

you have no idea how far guys will go to avoid addressing their own bullshit What I have learned, here, about female solipsism, is rampant with the noobs.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/18 04:22 PM
2

illuminati lizard people Nope, it's the zombies...... and the Twinkie shortage.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/18 02:43 PM
2

robe and wizard hat. Post pictures
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/18 03:18 AM
1

Too much rumination and not enough fornication. This sub is supposed to fuck, and not fuck around. you're a fucker.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/18 03:16 AM
1

surrender. Yes.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 11:11 PM
1

Why are you deliberately trying to divide the Red Pill community? ...giving him too much credit, it's still just noise, unless you listen.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 04:54 PM
1

WTF When the psych inmates call the doc's deluded...... just noise to me.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 04:52 PM
4

In almost every instance, they change from non-smiling, sexless, introverted, even depressive facial expressions, to a confident, sexy, smiling positive demeanor. Over half of the change is mental to physical change. One exception, the girl with crappy teeth, looked better when she didn't smile. More than anything, I think the pictures prove that you can be more attractive because of attitude. Of course youth and a great paint job always help.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/18 04:44 PM
3

You aren't wrong. She is going down a wrong path. Don't go with her.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/18 09:02 PM
1

Or, still operating in her frame stating that I want it to work, Only if you want it more than her... but I am wanting to eat the snatch of the woman giving me her number at the store today Is that relevant? Wouldn't you want it anyway... yet a finger cannot be put on the problem You might not know even if you find it. You might have to "accept" that you found it. Example: I'm losing money in my business. I keep looking for the answer. Maybe my best friend/employee is stealing. But I keep lookin…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/18 04:46 AM
1

Yes, there is no doubt that it would change the relationship. The WILYFAG only works if you are invested in staying with the LTR. If her investment is greater than yours, then she has few options for this type of manipulation.
/r/askMRP11/03/18 05:10 AM
1

fraught with danger If you fear losing the woman, yes. Depends on your point of view about keeping the woman being more important than the 3 way.
/r/askMRP10/03/18 03:12 PM
3

troll radar name it "troll-dar"
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/18 03:09 PM
2

Where are you going?...she says to me. I'm turning around to take you home.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/18 04:58 AM
1

Bingo! We have a winner!
/r/askMRP09/03/18 03:04 AM
4

I am assuming this is not satire or a joke, because I'm not getting it. We have had many shitty women described here, she doesn't bother me much at all. But, OP, you are probably one of the most clueless I've seen in a while Here is my advice just for you: STFU then be quiet. Then STFU, then STFU, and STFU some more. (I'm yelling this part) While you are doing your new job of STFU you will have lots of time to read the Side Bar. Read slowly and carefully. Start at the beginning and don't stop un…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/18 08:14 PM
4

All that said, leave her home and fuck someone who wants to fuck you. I think you did help him..... I think this sub can help him just as you did. His results just may not be in the center of the bell curve here.
/r/askMRP08/03/18 07:53 PM
2

I picture myself and all women with deer antlers. The women only have studs, more pointed and satanic the more attractive they are Damn, I do something very similar. Only, I'm a 12 point buck and the the females have no horns. I can relate to these from first hand experience growing up. The head up and chest out, and aggressive mindset is near automatic.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 09:44 PM
1

I can't help it, but every time I read this, I imagine you using it as a jab... Came to my mind too.....
/r/askMRP07/03/18 09:34 PM
6

Yes, seems accurate, but definitely graphic and succinct.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/18 02:47 AM
2

First, you still believe that you can have a logical discussion with a woman. This seldom works. Second, having a logical discussion with a drunk woman. Well, that's a double. Sounds like you've been planning your divorce. Now you need to get your mindset straight, whether you stay or go.
/r/askMRP05/03/18 05:40 AM
5

rename borderline as "emotionally unstable personality disorder" Wish that sign had been hanging on my ex when I met her. At least I would have a warning. Borderlines are on a scale. Some mild one's are just screw ups. The bad ones leave marks that are slow to heal, and always leave a scar.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/18 02:38 AM
1

hard maintaining the course and figuring things out You have a lot going on. It would serve you well to slow your roll and take more time than usual for every decision. You know you're struggling and it shows. Do not do anything that would get you any form of long term anything. If pressed into any decision you aren't 100% on, just say it will have to wait until later. Wouldn't it be better to be seen as "indecisive" rather than get yourself jammed up on a bad decision? Just slow it all down whi…
/r/askMRP05/03/18 02:29 AM
1

Yes. The quip, Change my view, change my world, ....should be change THE world.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 03:58 PM
1

You are very thoughtful. Back in the day, I would have appreciated having you for a friend for many years to come.
/r/askMRP04/03/18 03:19 PM
14

Yes, there is increasing evidence that feminism's results are contrary to the best interests of women, and society in general. But that IS what women do. As society continues to teach men to concede their power to feminist ideas, the majority will continue to be enslaved I think. Only those men that can win that battle in their own mind (as OP so succinctly said) will have the power they were born to have.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 12:46 AM
3

I bought my first home almost 50 years ago. At the time, I couldn't do much without help, if at all. My father was always handy and would give advice. Guess he got tired of it, because he gave me a Home Repair manual from Time-Life for Christmas. It was probably the best gift he ever gave me. When I had time, I would read through it just to get familiar. As they came up, I took on small easy projects first. Then harder and harder, etc. Today, when I have something I want to do, like ad extra ins…
/r/askMRP03/03/18 05:25 PM
2

Now, Im here. Any further communication with this guy and its game over. I believe she understands that now. Your next move is to enforce the boundary you set. The way you set it up, your only next move is to serve her divorce papers if she crosses your line. OR ---- you can decide that you won't enforce your boundary. You might as well just tell her to do whatever she wants, because you WON'T serve her if she starts playing games with other guys. Either way, the message is yours, you own it. or…
/r/askMRP03/03/18 04:14 PM
1

We've had disagreements in the last year over baby-related issues, like how to get our son to sleep though nights (which he now does). I held frame, we compromised - but it was emotionally painful. I reckon my dread levels are low - I work from home, and my two sports mainly done by men. These items alone could account for 90% of your problem. Any man that admits his dread level is low, it is probably lower than he thinks. Quit spending your time puking and get back to work.
/r/askMRP02/03/18 11:15 PM
12

This is the first time since I've swallowed the pill that sex has been used as a weapon against me. No, it probably isn't the first time. You just started noticing. That's good.
/r/askMRP02/03/18 11:10 PM
1

I used to ride a horse when I was a kid. That mare had a mean streak. Had to give her some extra rein and everything when fine. Pull the reins in and she'd try react badly. Just give her some extra rein.
/r/askMRP02/03/18 11:07 PM
2

you missed the /s part...fixed
/r/askMRP02/03/18 02:20 PM
11

Sadly for the BB that takes her home, her used up twat may be the best thing he ever had. The guy in the pic has that look of a satisfied "at last". Not only is there a huge supply of horny incells for her to tap, these guys think they found heaven on earth, "at last". Probably the most amazing part of her "transformation" from slut to saint, is the complete rewrite of her history. Her timeline cleans up with so little effort on her part, as others mentioned here. Her new BB gets to watch that s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/18 05:13 AM
1

No doubt, we're all givers here./s Which isn't much of a self compliment.
/r/askMRP02/03/18 04:53 AM
3

Yes, this. OP's story is the BP to RP lesson....in progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/18 03:20 PM
2

Legally I know you're right. But....I don't like it. Actually similar was basis for my alimony agreement. Yeah, (my) sour grapes.
/r/askMRP01/03/18 12:47 AM
1

Aren't you the wrong gender for this sub? I'll answer anyway: He has a start up that he started before the wedding. If that becomes a big winner, you want to "share" in the gains during the marriage. No way. It is separate property. I you want someone to agree with you, try red pill women.....maybe.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 11:43 PM
3

OP, you are very fortunate. As I've read through all the comments to your post, you have gotten some of the best advice that MERPS have to offer here. My only add is based on the stay/go plan. Either way, you understand that your actions are the same. By delaying the "go plan", you get the benefit of getting time to work on yourself, while you see her reactions to it. She has a lot to lose but she still isn't attracted to you. Maybe you have to some work to do to be more attractive before you go…
/r/askMRP28/02/18 10:30 PM
2

camping works well too. Yes, my old goto. Camping get's it real clear fast....
/r/askMRP28/02/18 10:18 PM
1

When I was before my divorce, the deal here was to tell poor fuckers like me then not to kill the puppy. Agree In the process of not-killing the puppy, I've grown as a man. This prepared me for what came next. Agree OP is obviously not in position to pull this. Yes, not yet for him.
/r/askMRP27/02/18 01:42 AM
1

Or, Ring of Fire. What was Johnny Cash singing about?
/r/askMRP25/02/18 03:37 PM
5

This thread is full of retarded men who are choosing to "suffer in silence" Thanks for your insight. I'm headed to see a therapist now. How could we all be so misguided? Hopefully I can find one that has fresh leeches.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/18 03:36 PM
1

unplanned pregnancy, which I followed up with a ring because that seemed like the right thing to do. Lots of us did that. Mine ended in divorce after the kids were grown. Would not do again. The operative words you used were "seemed like the right thing to do". Now you can find out what you really want, and build the mental frame to do it.....over time.
/r/askMRP25/02/18 05:36 AM
2

Damn, that stuff will give you a burning rim job that lasts.
/r/askMRP25/02/18 05:26 AM
1

..and the Colt 45's are special to the boomers. Represents a time long ago when drinking' and driving' was a weekend sport, not a crime.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/18 03:03 AM
1

You're taking pictures?
/r/askMRP25/02/18 02:57 AM
1

CAD wrote some of his best stuff while on the can.
/r/askMRP25/02/18 02:55 AM
1

Never saw em, seems those days was using large can Colt 45 to chase MD20/20. Obviously, in my 20's I was a man of refined tastes.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/18 02:53 AM
1

That's one visual that is hard to unsee.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/18 02:46 AM
1

That is amazing.... No more broken bottles! On the other hand, one less weapon handy in a fight. Not that I'd be looking for a fight when I'm plastered.....
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/18 02:43 AM
2

But now I see her keeping an eye on that one and keeping an eye on me to make sure I’m not looking at her whenever we’re in the same room together Be sure to look at her every single time. Don't lear, just look. Then go over and talk to her. Find a reason to bring your wife into your conversation with this girl. Be that guy...
/r/askMRP25/02/18 02:22 AM
3

You still think that you are going to: talk to her about what you want talk her into wanting to have sex with you, talk her into being respectful, Logical discussion will never get you where you want to go. Stop doing the same thing and getting same. Time to STFU and try the methods in the side bar.
/r/askMRP24/02/18 06:33 PM
2

The longer I'm here, the more I agree
/r/askMRP24/02/18 04:56 PM
3

Just don't talk to your wife that way.
/r/askMRP24/02/18 04:55 PM
2

Ever notice all the cherry trees in Washington DC.... hmmmm
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/18 03:04 PM
4

I heard he was killed by military industrial complex, working in concert with the CIA and the FBI. Maybe my sources are not so reliable as yours....
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/18 02:29 PM
2

It was already deleted by the time I got your comment. But first you need to work on getting to the point that you aren't so worried about her getting annoyed. Second, the easiest way to deal with things , at first, as you build your ability to worry less or build your "frame", is to STFU. Try not to act like a jerk, just close your mouth and let her talk herself to death.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/18 02:26 PM
2

The lower 48, we just don't know...
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/18 02:13 PM
3

picking up a two-four and some "a" Mickey at the beer store fixed it!
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/18 05:18 AM
2

I want to hear "kerfuffle".........
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/18 05:04 AM
1

We've seen a lot of pukes here. Some of them have been real works art of victimization. Most are longer and much sadder. OP offers no personal information, doesn't even use his own words mostly. Talks about his feels without really getting into the specifics and giving it a good puke. I rate this victim puke a "3". Sad, since OP only gets one victim-puke, he could have gotten more mileage out of it
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/18 04:58 AM
1

She is very red pill. You need to catch up.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/18 02:06 AM
1

when I actually go there mentally I struggle to reconcile. First, you aren't wrong if you would rather stay. Just recognize the trade offs. Decide what you really want. Do that. Real simple, real hard.
/r/askMRP23/02/18 11:01 PM
1

Picked out a nice condo with garage and storage. Wrote out my plan for 1 day move.
/r/askMRP23/02/18 09:59 PM
2

The National Organization of Chad's Enlightened Man Utilization Posse, better known as NOC EM UP .....has endorsed and is donating heavily to John Gottman
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/18 06:56 PM
1

well things have changed; and she comes to me now for those cuddles. i hand em' out like candy at a parade. sex is on tap; and that occasional night when she ain't feeling it i will cuddle her instead Parallel path here.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/18 06:37 PM
1

The battle raged for months. Back and forth the battle lines went...... The real and final main event was a non-event of 3 minutes.
/r/askMRP23/02/18 05:26 PM
1

Yes. The surge of joy and relief I had when I finally "Surrendered" to the idea of divorce.
/r/askMRP23/02/18 05:15 PM
3

No more duty strap on for you!
/r/askMRP23/02/18 05:03 AM
1

Yeah, it is a fine line. Most of us here have crossed it and it seldom goes well over time when we do.
/r/askMRP23/02/18 05:02 AM
1

flip that really registered....actually looking forward to divorce Like just sitting there, catching myself with a little grin, and calm,...and I am not a calm guy, I started sleeping better at night. Looking forward to it and amazed at the sensation, Better than a two girl HJ BJ kind of sensation.....
/r/askMRP23/02/18 04:59 AM
2

making others happy can be a trap. You might review your thinking here. You could end up the beta that everyone loves to use. Inherent in this idea, is a covert contract, that if I do X and Y, I will get the love and respect I want. Re-read NMMNG
/r/askMRP23/02/18 04:45 AM
1

i told self if i left, kids wud suffer. I remember when you wrote this comment: Nothing makes me laugh (or cry) like some retarded moralist blooper saying "just divorce, you are being selfish" Ok right, so my son gets medicated for typical elementary school boy behavior, my daughter has no man to look up to except for the future parade of losers their mother brings around. And I am lucky to see them here and there while footing the bill for the sinking ship. Ok, sure, good plan. At that time I a…
/r/askMRP23/02/18 04:26 AM
1

I think I am hanging onto the idea of a no-matter-what nuclear family "for the kids". I did this in marriage #1. Don't recommend it for you, for your kids, or for her. Misery for everyone. You have read the whole shitty story as Over60_stupid_loner. You could be that guy. Do you really want that.... for you, your kids? Back to NMMNG to sort out your self sacrifice gene. Possibly hanging onto the idea that I can "fix" her negative feedback loop. Then resenting her.... Trying to fix someone else i…
/r/askMRP22/02/18 11:36 PM
2

Need some real talk here I went through something similar. I called them "rolling main events". Rian called me out, said I was sprinkling alpha on it. Turns out, he was right. The fact was, I just could not let go of Marriage 1.0, the blue pill-disney dream. CAD called me out that I could not let go of the beta desire to have her admit she had wronged me and make it up to me. For 2 years of hard work on me, I still had work to do. I reworked the side bar with double intensity and finally knew en…
/r/askMRP22/02/18 11:16 PM
1

They think I changed because of a concussion I got a couple years ago Probably just needed a reason they could understand. Most people have no agency, you having agency is hard to understand. Better to blame your accident than to indirectly admit their shortcomings. "I love you and just want you to be happy, whatever that takes". They know, but have to be mostly covert in their approval of you. It is easy to assume that you do not need their approval, and not give it to you. It is a compliment. …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/18 08:05 PM
1

Sorry about your dad. Give yourself lots of space to grieve. I lost both my parents at nearly the same time, almost 20 years ago. It gets better, but, for me, the occasional sense of loss, never completely goes away, and it's OK. As a thoroughly blue pill conditioned man from childhood (church and all that), I still haven’t internalized some things. I can see the strings on the puppet but there is still some cognitive dissonance there. It’s causing me to slip frame a bit; feeling stressed out. T…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/18 04:18 PM
1

ditto, and that (killing the Blue Pill dream) was the hard part for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/18 02:23 PM
1

yeah. It really is different for everyone.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/18 02:22 PM
1

All of the guys that responded in my first posts as Over60..... what they said ring in my ears....to this day.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/18 02:21 PM
9

You certainly attract a lot of pissed off, crazy women. Wonder why?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 04:57 AM
5

How do you..... keep going.....knowing reality? Take a breath, let it out. Do that, over and over again. That's baseline. Take a step, then another. Do that over and over again. Figure out where you want to go, and what you want. Do it. Quit whining and spewing your victim crap on others.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 04:49 AM
1

Might need enough rope for more than one hanging on behind you.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/18 12:21 AM
1

no matter how close she is you're going to wear yourself out trying to steer the bitch there's a great nautical analogy
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/18 12:01 AM
1

Good Point. There is a lot of difference between 1000 feet of steel cable and kite string. Have to make it your own.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/18 11:58 PM
1

..and still we gain by galvanizing our own thinking...
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/18 11:54 PM
0

We are the greatest beneficiary of our posts. But I won't shorten a post to the detriment of those coming after me so it's not long winded. That makes pure and simple good sense, but this...... "over posting" "over sharing" "over explaining" ....Is a disservice to me and the OP.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/18 07:35 PM
1

"A tether to past value"... not what I had in mind when I first used the term a couple of years ago (as Over60_stupid_loner). More of a way to pull her forward, OUT of the past. As a reference point, yes. To recognize that there is always a distance (1000 ft) and that is a good thing. Like so many things, even the RP analogy, just another mental picture to create a usable analogy.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/18 06:29 PM
1

I could do the same, a couple times I have, but me posting it won't necessarily help them and only further my own ego. So I have a rule. If I can't say in quickly....I don't say it at all. Odds are the git won't understand any way. Yes, those three strong points, well said, in a row. For me, there is no doubt that "over posting" "over sharing" "over explaining" don't help them much, and, there is a lot of ego involved and invested in it. Say it quick or pass it. I really like that... Odds are it…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/18 06:15 PM
3

A better solution would be to get everyone out of bed an hour early on Saturday and clean the house as a team, with you leading. As a kid in the 50's, this was the way it was done. Mom ran it cause dad worked on Saturdays. We all pitched in and mopped, vac'ed, dusted, scrubbed. By mid morning Saturday, the house was spotless, and us kids were 100% invested in, and proud of the out come. Then we were told to get out of the house and don't come home until supper time.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/18 06:01 PM
1

Yes, it's just there.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/18 05:49 PM
1

one of most powerful comments i got in my DL12 post was The Medium is the Message from Rian That is powerful. I think that u/weakandsensitive also makes the point that there is great power in the "Medium is the Message" from our actions too. The mindset, not the words is what is believable to others, including your women. This is critical for congruence and effective leadership.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/18 04:44 PM
1

rope is not going to be pulled all the way in. Not with her, not with a plate and not with the next "path".
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/18 04:38 PM
10

I like your post. Here are some additional thoughts...... She has to choose to stay attached to the rope. It is not your choice, it is only hers. She cannot know where you are going, for certain, even if you tell her. It requires faith on her part to continue to hold on. If you expect her to "close the gap" on your 1000 foot rope, you are trying to defy the laws of physics. May have tried.... If you actually lead, you will always be alone up there, and everyone else is looking at your rear. If A…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/18 03:16 PM
2

Until I understood that this is /s I was going to tell you to either sober up, or, side bar. You did hit a clean shot on most of the RP rambos autistic stinking thinking.
/r/askMRP21/02/18 05:17 AM
1

Did you see Finally Told Her before it got deleted? Nope. That reference would have been helpful...
/r/askMRP21/02/18 05:12 AM
1

Frame and game trump reality. Now you amaze yourself that it is effortless. They create drama where there is none in order to enjoy their feelz...... You are the current provider. Enjoy
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/18 03:43 PM
3

I now believe in your whiteness Agree. Now I know his pics are fake news.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/18 03:26 PM
1

Yes but Bill rebranded IBM DOS to MSDOS and kept it alive. If you go back to his history, not his legend, you will find some dumb luck that made the difference. Really smart, really hard working, and really lucky. The first versions of Windows were so buggy that crashes were expected daily. Wild Bill kept putting out new versions built over the original buggy problems. He was lucky...I lived through it as it unfolded.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 04:56 AM
4

10% is what gives you results 90% of the time...... The edge is narrow. 20% is way too generous. If it was that easy everyone would be as rich as I am. Dumb luck. Just that simple. Bill Gates was just plain lucky, lot's of things go that way. Many of the great successful types, had an element of luck. People like to try to puff and fluff the real fact.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 08:52 PM
5

Just ask her, they'll always tell you the truth.
/r/askMRP19/02/18 07:32 PM
16

Hit yourself over the head with the side bar, repeatedly
/r/askMRP19/02/18 02:20 PM
3

It is about changing your perception of yourself. She is just the foil.
/r/askMRP19/02/18 02:08 PM
5

IMO 10% runs the 90% of life, the rest is truly dumb luck
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 02:06 PM
3

Must see this draaaah-ma here..... what do!
/r/askMRP19/02/18 02:03 PM
5

I have a little different view on this one. I read her first paragraph as her rationalizing the fact that he left her. She says he was increasingly abusive, she told him to leave...... but but but he didn't come back. And he had no interest in coming back. Hmmm Then she tops it off with he punched her in the face, but this was after he no longer wanted to be with her. In eight years, he punched her once. Nope, most abusive assholes start punching early and often. Makes no sense. Then he is in th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/18 05:03 AM
1

We spent our lives being "un-taught" RP. It is about reclaiming, not teaching, it.
/r/askMRP18/02/18 10:29 PM
1

I think she is more interested in his money.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 08:18 PM
1

Smirk and eye contact, and, your disagreement with her is clear. Anything more and you will probably enter her frame. Or, as said before, don't enter her pig pen for a 2 out of 3 roll in the mud.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 08:16 PM
1

I think getting a PI is just you on hamster drive. Otherwise you’d be able to make a clear decision Only agree to a point. We all own a hamster, sometimes you just have to feed it. Once feed, hamster can take a nap.... I think OP needs it to shore up his frame for now. Taking action in this case is much better than any form of waiting. Since waiting is not an option, and OP's frame is not iron yet, feed the hamster and move forward.
/r/askMRP18/02/18 06:28 PM
3

I wouldn't even want to be in the same room Just the picture got me too close ...
/r/askMRP18/02/18 06:23 PM
1

You should act like a cunt ass woman here...... Go and strip out the bank accounts and move out taking everything you can. As long as you are legally attached to her, you get more potential liability. Timing is critical. Lawyer up, File and move....Yesterday.
/r/askMRP18/02/18 03:33 AM
4

Years ago, I used to go drinking with a guy that every time, by the end of the night, he's saying, "I love you bro. You're the best." First, I know you aren't him, he died last year. But you sure sound like him. Reincarnation? Drink much?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/18 03:28 AM
1

...subtext is more important than the superficial details of the interaction... Other people's judgment hurts his feelings. If after over 2 years he is still struggling with it.... Very perceptive. I did miss all that.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/18 06:54 PM
4

I don’t feel resentment or anger towards my gf, but I don’t feel desire either. I haven’t even bothered initiating sex in about a week, and when I’ve kissed her, I could sense she’s not into it, and I become disgusted and disengage. Lucky you, some men here are married for many years before accepting that shitty outlook on themselves, their life and their wife. MARK MY WORDS, YOU MARRY THIS GIRL AND YOU ARE DOING YOU AND HER A MAJOR DISSERVICE. But, you do you.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/18 05:49 PM
2

I read this differently. I know from the past that his wife is a tough, high volume shit test factory. His finances are on lock from what I know. I think his point was, that he didn't let her get to him, so much so that he slept like a baby. It made his tough wife very wet, and they both benefited the next day from his handling of her.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/18 05:26 PM
1

J-10 had a post/comment about keeping score. Seems appropriate here. I used to keep score. Rationalized it that I was comp-ing for bad memory. No, it was shitty score keeping and it was not working for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/18 02:28 PM
3

Yes, they (BP) continue to try to define this group. Their lack of success in shaming us is an epic fail. Some of our posts are elevated as noteworthy, by their hamster-ing over them. Talk about ineffective.... If we are going to be a cult, we need to get our act together. Give a fearless leader all authority, start charging dues, banish any that question, and everyone must drink the koolaide. You first...
/r/askMRP14/02/18 02:00 PM
3

Get through V-Day. Get back on the side bar. Any more shit from this PLATE and drop her.
/r/askMRP14/02/18 05:41 AM
1

I don't know which is sadder. Your skanky wife, or you the skanky husband. Stop the bleeding on your life and then work on your problems that would allow you to end up in this mess.
/r/askMRP14/02/18 05:38 AM
1

I don't know where you live, but in many places real estate deposits are a farce. The fact is, if you have a claim on the house, as in a disputed deposit, it is very difficult for the builder to sell and close on a house. Ask for it back because you are getting divorced. If they are not forthcoming, imply litigation. See what happens. Either way, get out of the new house purchase. see a divorce attorney.....today.
/r/askMRP14/02/18 05:34 AM
3

First, this reads like cuckold porn. But, if you aren't a troll..... End this mess of a marriage. NOW Second, figure out how you are going to learn to respect YOURSELF. There are some helpful hints in the side bar.
/r/askMRP14/02/18 04:54 AM
3

+1
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/18 02:41 AM
1

I proved it..... Once I let her put my balls in her purse, it took a lot of effort to find them in there.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/18 10:33 PM
2

distance meantno expectation of sex, which removed any stress from that part of my life. And magically, neuroses largely disappear, anxiety goes away, anger drifts away, etc. As I said at the time: "Maybe I'm not neurotic at all - maybe I'm just sick of constantly trying to get validation and affection from someone who doesn't want to give it." I'm going to let the relationship do what it does;I'm just going to focus on what I feel like doing. My mantra for this is:don't think about what she's t…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/18 08:19 PM
10

Complete dismissal = no attention. Do you stop to address the concerns of every dog that barks at you? That's my method, but add an eyeball to eyeball smirk first. Don't let a gnat ruin your day.......
/r/askMRP13/02/18 08:01 PM
3

That's good. You found parts of the book helpful and use them, and you found some of it did not work for you. That is what we do here. What we do not do is issue basic bibles of "how to" and expect you to mindlessly follow.
/r/askMRP13/02/18 07:55 PM
1

Again you proved there is some ass-hole in you. Respect.
/r/askMRP13/02/18 07:45 PM
3

/u/weakandsensitive talks about learning to cultivate passion for the things you do Yes, great point.....and that requires some effort. You don't just blue pill "fall in love" with your mission(s) and live happily ever after, you choose them and you develop them. You make choices and you take action. Let the fems, go with the flow, and follow their feels.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/18 04:45 PM
1

Yes. Agree. First you have to get her attention to get her alone..... I would rather imply BB than wear a pink fedora.
/r/askMRP12/02/18 01:26 AM
2

1974 made a super-8MM film. I can never run for office.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/18 08:34 PM
2

old trick mostly old.....
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/18 08:29 PM
3

I'll send the 48 page contract for my endorsement of your uncompensated original work. No need to read it, just sign and return.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/18 06:25 PM
3

All anger is anger at yourself. And I’ve asked the question you have as well. And the answer is “it doesn’t matter” I endorse this message.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/18 04:24 PM
4

Yes. That's why our comments are about helping ourselves. We often teach best what we need to learn.
/r/askMRP11/02/18 03:22 PM
3

Now now, you boys, stop that.
/r/askMRP11/02/18 04:52 AM
4

when you can start to decide where you will Start to go from here - and which parts of your old life get to come along. Well said. You packed a lot in there. Best.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/18 04:48 AM
2

I am sorry to hear that. As much as you can, keep us posted. Maybe we can help some along the way.
/r/askMRP11/02/18 12:50 AM
2

high on hopium Amazing drug. Cheap and you find it everywhere. More deadly than Oxy-c.
/r/askMRP11/02/18 12:36 AM
5

Stop thinking about her and what she’s thinking and why she’s doing whatever the fuck she’s doing. It’s about you now, man. R316, I am impressed.
/r/askMRP11/02/18 12:33 AM
2

Exit Strategy Fuckarounditis If he picks the right a crappy attorney, the bill could be astronomical....
/r/askMRP11/02/18 12:31 AM
2

Yes, my rabbit hole. We have much in common. Thank you.
/r/askMRP11/02/18 12:23 AM
2

Upgrade him if he has skirts on the trailer and a nice pickup truck.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 01:52 AM
2

It takes a real red blooded American to be full blown pissed of at his government all the time. That's why we think Canadian's are such happy guys. I think the climate keeps them cool.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 01:45 AM
1

I'll check in with you when I finish reading it. Should only take a day or two of serious reading.....
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 01:40 AM
1

My wife too, sometimes. Helps her back pain.
/r/askMRP09/02/18 01:32 AM
1

We can have u/resolutions316 refine the plan.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 07:42 PM
1

Prescription Prednisone Amazing you lost any weight. This stuff makes everyone ravenous.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/18 07:39 PM
1

I found my inner ass-hole. Same dry dick. Same idea. Same club.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 07:34 PM
2

Let me get this straight. You are overseas now. You are married, but only one child is yours, and you want your child to be sole beneficiary of your pending inheritance. You cheated on her wife. She cheated on you. You both hid your affairs and were caught by the other. You are certain that you are NOW playing by the "don't cheat" rules, but you don't think that she is playing by the rules. You are willing to give her a pass on her cheating, because you were a shitty husband and that makes her d…
/r/askMRP08/02/18 07:27 PM
2

reformed smart guy who likes to stay on point Welcome to the club... ;)
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 06:59 PM
1

Verify whatever you need to. Four kids, I can't take lightly. Any attempt to have a convo with her to get at the truth is a waste of time. All that you learn must be on your own. You aren't looking to make a court case here, just get what you need to make that final ongoing decision to keep or dump her, IF, you can verify. Do not show your hand, EVER. You know that you need to keep an eye on her based on the past. STFU and do that. It's really a matter of deciding when/if your turn is over.
/r/askMRP08/02/18 03:23 PM
1

It is The Key to get out of beta hell.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/18 02:55 PM
2

Changes everything in the dynamic. But the only thing that changed was my mind. Change my view, change my world.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/18 02:38 PM
2

Exactly . His struggles seem to resonate with many here.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/18 01:38 PM
1

Nice breakdown.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/18 05:14 AM
3

Looking at all the carefully crafted comments to you, from so many good men here, you are one lucky guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/18 05:08 AM
7

From my experience: There will come a day when the round robin, ground hog day you are on, changes just enough that you finally move into field goal range. There was more pain than triumph for me, at first. You sprinkle alpha on it. It gets better. 3 or so days later it gets worse. You feel like shit because you THINK you are doing everything you can, but the fact is you are too invested in her frame, to be able to get forward movement that lasts. Like a football team that uses a trick play, mak…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/18 04:53 AM
3

That's the (same) nail I keep hammering.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/18 11:24 PM
3

Yes. Like watching Groundhog Day, with occasional breaks in the plot.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/18 11:19 PM
9

He still thinks that if "she, she, she" will fuck him proper, that all his problems get better. She owns his future. His world belongs to her. Super Oneitis that just keeps replaying. Still using RP to get the BP dream.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/18 10:25 PM
1

?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/18 10:14 PM
5

There's no doubt in my mind that you have clearly described the problem. I'm looking forward to part Two.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/18 08:44 PM
1

I over did it. Not same.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/18 04:06 PM
7

Truth time. Back in the day I was a big fan of the Cowboys. Season tickets, went to the playoff games, and Super Bowls too. Then one day I said, this is a bottomless pit of money and time, only to make other people rich. I quit. Full stop. Seldom watch any football anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/18 04:41 AM
6

.....months, years, later.... OP returns to MRP complaining that his little princess not only hasn't had anything but duty sex with him in years, she been cheating. Oh, what a surprise! But but but he doesn't deserve this, he's married and has a good job and is a good father and does his share of the house work. That bitch, he never saw it coming.
/r/askMRP05/02/18 04:33 AM
3

not this time. His balls were fully inflated.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/18 03:25 AM
-1

meds ?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/18 03:24 AM
2

You can. Go ahead and do it. Why are you fucking around asking us? Just do something even if you don't get any validation from us, or anyone else. Or, is asking dumbass questions, easier than actually doing something? Or better yet, you can say we were mean to your little faggot ass and you won't do anything. So far, that is your path already.
/r/askMRP05/02/18 03:21 AM
3

You do you, but I disagree.
/r/askMRP05/02/18 03:15 AM
1

How old do you think he really is?
/r/askMRP04/02/18 06:47 PM
7

MRP and RP are the answers you seek to get..... I don't remember you from MRP. Regardless, MRP and TRP sidebar lessons are even more important now. Get your mental and physical frame in order and avoid just doing it all over again.
/r/askMRP04/02/18 06:44 PM
3

You will learn everything you need to know about LTR's from spinning plates. Men seem to end up in LTR's all the time, way in advance of their expectation. STR's will only get you there faster. The real concern I have, is that you have implied that your endgame is marriage and you imply you are beginning your 20's. You have a lot to learn before you are ready for any STR that would be prelude to an LTR. Easier to learn with women that you are not legally, economically, or off-spring tied to.
/r/askMRP04/02/18 06:35 PM
3

Just wasted 30 minutes of my few remaining years to learn more about more about JP. Sissy boys get a clue. Or you will probably get banned. Well deserved IMO.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:54 PM
2

Yes. Im feeling you.
/r/askMRP03/02/18 11:52 PM
5

Thanks anyways. I will take your word for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/18 04:47 AM
2

You're not the first.....
/r/askMRP03/02/18 04:43 AM
2

WTF? Seriously, I missed the point(s) punchline(s).
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/18 02:34 AM
1

Not a genius, just an excellent driver.....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/18 01:58 AM
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I was 15 and messing around with a Mexican girl from school. We're fully clothed, she got on top of me and dry humped me until I came. Next time I saw her, she was 16 and pregnant, and happy about it. Always thought I dodged a bullet, that time.....
/r/askMRP03/02/18 01:56 AM
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She owns the housework, gives you her money, now that you keep your hands off the housework, you're getting laid, Life must be good. Keep up the good work and never let off the gas...
/r/askMRP02/02/18 08:59 PM
3

Couldn't be rentals, $, just lots and lots of free test drives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/18 08:51 PM
1

How does she do on taking care of your money?
/r/askMRP02/02/18 08:36 PM
1

Some women, my current wife included, find men doing household chores, a complete turn off. Secondly, if you do wash some dishes, etc, she is offended that you took her duties. It is her job. The ONLY time she appreciates my help with her duties, is when it is something she physically cannot do, or if she is too ill to do it. Go with the flow here....
/r/askMRP02/02/18 08:33 PM
1

My question is, am I off base here or is it a matter of seeing what I want to see? You've had a gut feel that you knew this before, but wold not believe yourself before. You finally start to see some things, for what they are, and again, the first thing you do is question yourself. That is how stupid humans get trapped into all kinds of things. If you can't believe yourself, you will never believe an ass-hole like me.
/r/askMRP02/02/18 08:25 PM
2

Looking back, many in my generation of boomers had serial marriages. Some of the girls I knew from high school, once they started "Marrying up" serial marriages, they kept on doing it, and, many of them ended up cat ladies. The guys started serial "marrying down", younger and hotter, AKA trophy wives. On average the guys came out better.
/r/askMRP02/02/18 08:12 PM
1

if you dislike Trump, I think I have to lose some respect for you K. also unapologetic He was a fucktard Democrat before you were born
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/18 03:02 PM
5

Best move I ever learned was “move- and get the fuck out the way”. Yes. High art form, learned in low places.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/18 04:43 AM
1

There's also a lot in the broader RP sphere that, frankly, I so deeply disagree with that it often clouds my judgement (a good example would be GLO's support for David Duke on Twitter, RT's more conspiratorial.... Every single poster on TRP MRP brings with them some baggage that you may not like, not want to associate with, and think is wrong for you. Some part of everything I write here, is dead wrong for somebody. Case in point, I always thought that Trump was a thin skinned, validation seekin…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/18 03:18 AM
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Tracking her cycle is basic spreadsheet work. It satisfies the male need to be logical. Logic with a woman won't get you laid regular. Guaranteed.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/18 02:04 AM
1

11months ago, do you remember this post? https://redd.it/5y3g0d Read my comment to you then. It is the same now. When I think how to solve your stuff, I keep thinking.... WE"RE GOING TO NEED A BIGGER BOAT. Seriously, start over with MNMNG. Somewhere in there is what you need. Here's something that might give you some clues to figure it out that I posted recently: [–]FireTemperedred beret 4 points 19 days ago I will add my path when it comes to anger. Probably was longer than most, but each stage…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/18 01:44 AM
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deeply embedded issues take time to resolve Yes. Very much yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/18 12:33 AM
2

So how do I kill the problem once and for all? Only you can find this answer. It is not on this sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/18 12:32 AM
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Man - I know I'm supposed to take this rhetorically, but the more I think about it, the more I feel like - yeah, I really think that. I know it's wrong, and feel it anyway. It's part of your blue pill dream. In effect she controls your happiness. Not because she wants to, but because you make it her problem. It is not her problem, it is yours.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/18 12:31 AM
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Funny and real. Could be a reality show.
/r/askMRP01/02/18 01:07 PM
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You know I've followed you for a very long time here. My being so much older than you, I had some very resistant mental models that I had to fix and some that I continue to work on. Listen carefully... You say over and over, that you want to talk to her about whatever, and that you want validation from her, and that you get pissed and more pissed, then you have sex and it gets better. Add in your comments about work and kids, and I have an observation. My observation is based on my personal path…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/18 04:36 AM
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His wife gets harpy and bitchy. Nothing is good enough for her. This works because the man listens to her, takes her seriously and completely fails these shit tests. But when you look at her, she isn't anything special. She doesn't take care of herself, so she isn't really attractive. Their sex life sucks. She doesn't contribute a lot to the family. She does not find him attractive. Might have something to do with his frame and shit test failures. Seeing a pattern yet? And yet she shit tests and…
/r/askMRP01/02/18 03:53 AM
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I see that you are a giver too.. OP, I travel a lot now. Be glad to keep an eye on her and her friends. You can trust an older man like me. I'm harmless. Just need names dates and hotel. Pictures if you have them. :)
/r/askMRP01/02/18 03:38 AM
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Why on Earth does a mother of two think she has a right to dance on tables whilst drunk with sorority girls? ...because her fearless leader did not tell her, "Fuck No!" If you subscribe, in principle, to "the oldest teenager" idea, this all belongs to him to tell her no, and, guarantee her that she will be a divorced mother of two, going back to work, and this whole idea of a vacation will no longer exist. Without his support, financial and childcare, she could not possibly do this spring break …
/r/askMRP01/02/18 03:30 AM
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You realize the multiple u-turns of behavior and frame you had here, don't you? Like u/Rian_Stone just said, Congruence. You are confusing your women and every one else.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/18 01:50 AM
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Yes, it is worse. The money is lost, but I keep my dick either way.
/r/askMRP01/02/18 01:42 AM
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But remember, it did end in divorce anyway. I won that battle, but I lost the first war. Hard for me to ignore the idea that OP may already be on the slide down the path to divorce here anyway. EDIT: I am coming to the conclusion, based on my past and many of the stories here.... IRON RULE: When a woman fucks up the finances, it is another version of cheating. Like u/weakandsensitive says: the guys deserve to be cheated on, and, IMO they deserve the financial fucking too.
/r/askMRP31/01/18 08:29 PM
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Maybe give her one more chance before he dumps her. There are kids....
/r/askMRP31/01/18 08:25 PM
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First = mis-step was SAHM. She was in a sorority, so she went to college. Should have put her ass to work. Second = allowing the spending to get out of control. Yes it's on you. Third = Heavy debt, more of the same.... You are on the edge here of falling into the beta abyss. Give her permission to do this trip, and your life will never be the same. I will fucking guarantee it. But you knew that, that is why you found this sub and posted your short story. The fact that your question is "what do?"…
/r/askMRP31/01/18 08:22 PM
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Only you could possibly assess that situation with any accuracy, the rest of us just have to autistically piece it together from your written account. We give our simplistic opinions and solutions based on our experiences. Based on MY experience, of how I would have delivered the message you did, there would have probably been an escalation. We can attribute that to your delivery maybe being smoother, less aggressive and less antisocial than me. Or you can attribute it to you being in a higher c…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/18 04:28 AM
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Take this to the infomercial sub..... -1
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/18 02:27 AM
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Realize you are against the odds but stand up anyway betting on confidence and balls to get you through (Confrontation: I'm serious, no nonsense attitude, alpha projection, drop it or this is going to get real). Realize you are against the odds and rather than risk a huge fight where you are going to potentially risk serious injury or a night in the hospital/jail thereby being avoidant of confrontation (No confrontation: usher out your wife, leave the bros to do bro things like stealing a beer).…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/18 05:58 PM
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He held it together nicely enough to calmly but sternly address the situation with an air of "Look, we're all under the influence here...you don't want to do this...let's back off." and they did Not the way I read it (or misread it). Tone is everything. The way you put it, it makes sense.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/18 01:44 AM
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There is nothing more unpredictable than a drunk, unless it is two drunks. I think you got lucky. Unless you have the skills to take on two guys in a bar, you took risks that you did not have to. Bar fights get bloody fast and the injuries can be very serious. Been there and done that, because I was stupider than you. Either you hit hard with kill shots, or you walk away. Your half-way confrontation could have really gone sideways on you. Sorry OP, (IMO) you put yourself and your bride in harms …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/18 10:56 PM
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I saw him leave....
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/18 02:37 PM
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check.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/18 03:56 PM
2

Order your f-dolls online.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/18 02:06 AM
2

Don't be numb here. You dread her, she will lose weight and she will probably be happier that you helped her, covertly.
/r/askMRP27/01/18 02:03 AM
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Just one more thing...Columbo would say. I will probably go to my grave wondering if I could have done something differently. If I could have changed things for the better for my kids. It is the reason for posts like this. It just never goes away.
/r/askMRP27/01/18 01:49 AM
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Women gone. Good. Guess my flair is a warning for the noobs
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/18 11:48 PM
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I have a feeling "weaponized" might be a word to describe what happened to (some? one? few?) of yours? Only one of them. After trying to connect for so many decades, I finally gave up my unilateral attempts a couple of years ago. Sadly, some children take on the characteristics of a mentally unhealthy parent. Still have not heard from that (adult) child, and expect I never will. The additional burden is that he has not had, and is not having a happy life. Successful in many ways, but not happy a…
/r/askMRP26/01/18 11:00 PM
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meh
/r/askMRP26/01/18 02:17 PM
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So many things here that should could have been a simple direct look, and a smirky smile. If you really want to get into the conversation, nod your head. Talk less, she'll talk enough for both of you. It not only works, it's easier for you. How can you say something wrong, when you only smile, smirk or nod?
/r/askMRP26/01/18 02:17 AM
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hysterical bonding Is attraction Agree, with one caveat. IMO most hapless guys think they "got there" and the woman loses attraction again. The downside issue of hysterical bonding, is more about him losing the opportunity to keep the attraction going by going back to his chump ways. Yes, the woman will probably lose some intensity over time, but losing ALL attraction again is on him.
/r/askMRP26/01/18 02:08 AM
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The side bar starts with NMMNG for a reason. Your post is a good example. Puking your problems is easier than working on them. At least you are self aware enough to know you need to get started again.
/r/askMRP25/01/18 05:21 AM
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my inability to play by PC rules is hampering my upward mobility.... :)
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/18 12:05 AM
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My last bike was a Suzuki GSXR 750 I loved pushing it to the max. The tickets I got were very expensive. Even if you pay the tickets, there is a limit. Finally had to go to court and "discuss" it with the judge. He obviously did not ride and failed to see any merit in me keeping my motorcycle license. Considering my (bike) driving record, he may have saved my life. Still I let the bike sit in the garage for over a year before I sold it to a friend. The SOB wrecked that beauty. Yes, old farts tal…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/18 05:10 AM
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What hill is that? be it the big 40?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/18 02:05 AM
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Ouch! old farts lives matter. #old farts=special Using the same (lack of) logic as the women, Ageism is the same as rape..... You molested me with your age shaming. Boo hoo!
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/18 12:37 AM
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We will just be old farts one day waxing nostalgic about a thing some retards did to get laid ;) For some reason, I find this an interesting take on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/18 12:04 AM
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Understood as only someone that has the same tendency can.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/18 11:08 PM
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Agree that this is one of those great self help books. I read it when I was a teenager, not long after it first became popular.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/18 07:51 PM
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Lots of good things in this post. The discussion it creates is excellent. Simply, I like it, Thanks. +1
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/18 07:43 PM
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Yep, some of them want to burn the ships to get a rat.....
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/18 07:42 PM
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Agree, I have grandkids that would implode, quickly.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/18 07:37 PM
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I probably broke some law. Public apology being drafted now..... If you were female, I lose my job, maybe go to jail, have to wear a pink pussy hat.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/18 07:35 PM
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That's old school like me. Now you guys would hack the car's computer....
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/18 05:23 PM
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Women always want most what they cannot have. They want to believe they can have him and go all out for this AF. The BB begs and pleads and tries to prove his value to get attraction. Like the "5 languages of love" book mentioned in other posts, is a fools errand. The AF just is and doesn't treat her special. Not just AF vs BB but classic hypergamy. The Dear Abby columns are a wealth of insight.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/18 04:37 PM
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I have so much rage for the old me When you wax the car and it looks so new and shiny, do you spend time dwelling on your hatred of how it looked before? Do you despise yourself for not doing it before? This would devalue your accomplishments. The memory of the former condition provides a barometer to measure forward progress, not rage. Your rage takes the positive you accomplished and turns it into a negative. Why do all the work and then get so little from it. Seriously....Change your view, ch…
/r/askMRP23/01/18 05:49 AM
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Yes! My mental thought is "do it now". Read, write it, fix it, file it, move it, kick it, hug it, crash it, or trash it.......DO IT NOW. Winners act first and ask permission later.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/18 04:06 AM
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My points are swapping notes to you on my view. Take what you want, if anything. In one thing we absolutely agree, you are your own judge.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/18 03:24 AM
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I’m 40, I’ve been reading self help for 25 years. Started with Tony Robbins of course, Zig Ziglar, Jim Rohn... OP, You're not gonna like this........ and I really don't want to humble brag..... but: Since age 15 you have been reading, etc, self help gurus. So very early you started this path of learning from those that teach. Has all this learning gotten you the results you desire? Based on your posts, I think not. I read the self help guys too. Zig Ziglar, and Brian Tracy were a big deal back i…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/18 06:02 AM
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Comment from alt of trolling OP
/r/askTRP21/01/18 05:35 AM
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Troll post
/r/askTRP21/01/18 05:35 AM
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Mostly agree.... but we both know that the OP's in these posts almost always leave out their own cringeworthy bullshit behavior.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/18 11:20 PM
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Your wife is a filthy fucking whore and you should leave her ...is a whore and you should fuck her hard. Leaving her is your decision.... IMO.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/18 11:06 PM
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One man's ho, is another man's ho ho ho! Some men spend years trying to create their own ho. Other men start with a ho, and mess it up. Unless you really believe in the "quality woman" idea, it is just a matter of managing yo ho.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/18 11:00 PM
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how would you ever know if it is desire driving her or if it is just fear of losing her provider? It could always be desire for just sex. Desire for you is another issue. If you aren't sure, it isn't. Does it matter? it would be nice to fuck some girl who just wants to fuck me for the man I am and know it’s not because I pay the mortgage and am a good dad. Since you pay the mortgage and are the dad, this would never be your wife. Get real. The only way that could happen is to fuck someone else. …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/18 08:40 PM
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Procrastinators die a slow death of inaction. Move forward, do something, even if it fails. By making the move first, you find out what does not work before the other guy. That is the 1% that's needed to move ahead. If in doubt, do something, NOW. It's only a test anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/18 02:32 PM
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I don't think she is photoshopped, that is a triple chin. The photos are all on a downward angle, head tilted. Even her best shot, the enlarged photo, her mid-section is a big as her chest. She is fat. There are only 5 pictures, and her hair looks like shit in 2 of them. One of them she looks like 50+, probably hung over from her wine while she reads a book. You really think she reads?? I know how to treat this lady..... nada, not even a conversation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/18 08:54 PM
4

I likes tatters.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/18 03:06 AM
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perfect 5/7's ...probably why I missed them.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/18 02:22 AM
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Read that book, but missed the porn. Were there pictures?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/18 01:40 AM
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I'm in rage at the entire no-win construction around me: wife, society, church, all of it. I'll process it, as you said. That makes you a victim. A pissed off man, but still a victim. The solution is to "game" the systems. Good luck gaming anything when your a pissed off victim pukie.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/18 01:15 AM
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Your biggest mistake is listening to her stupid fucking hamster and make it all better instead of worrying about you and your needs. Yes, made to a sharp point. Succinct.
/r/askMRP18/01/18 01:09 AM
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Sometimes I forget how cringeworthy I was at my first visits here. It is challenging trying to keep an even hand, while honoring my place here, without wasting effort on noobs. Yes, we try.
/r/askMRP18/01/18 12:57 AM
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You are going down a path that only works for the short term, if at all. This is similar to "chore play".. It is not about attraction, it is about making bargains, or unilateral bargaining, or covert contracts, or negotiating desire. You are doing what the marriage counselors promote, and even they know it seldom works for long. Put away this book, and get back to WISNIFG. That is where you live. Do the work or go away.
/r/askMRP17/01/18 06:40 AM
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Read it again. You are missing the point. You are asking the wrong question. With some effort you might be able to differentiate it.
/r/askMRP17/01/18 06:28 AM
1

back to the drop kick?
/r/askMRP17/01/18 06:23 AM
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If you tell her to leave, most women just don't have the agency to do it. They hang around, wasting time, engaging you in bullshit talking and try to get you to argue (you lose). Don't mess around with getting her to act, you act. "well. good point, we aren't getting anywhere here...." Grab your keys, your wallet(that should contain everything you need to go around the world), leave the house without hesitation, without argument. Be the most clam(calm) collected version of yourself you can be. L…
/r/askMRP17/01/18 06:22 AM
2

Swimming hard toward the open ocean won't get you closer to shore. Good line! - is it yours?
/r/askMRP17/01/18 06:14 AM
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Because I don't see it changing in the future, I see it getting even worse most likely. Most trolls just blow their fucking brains out.
/r/seduction17/01/18 06:11 AM
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Worthwhile post. You illuminated some dark corners of Hypergamy for me. I found the parts where you tied together some (my) loose ends on personal responsibility particularly helpful.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 06:02 AM
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Here's some grapes. You know what to do with them.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 05:11 AM
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Some guys don't hide, they take pics.
/r/askMRP17/01/18 04:41 AM
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next best thing is give her a set amount, and then covers all the details and needs, and she can lose the rest on daily latès and makeup. What's wrong with that. Same idea, different method. u/Bogeyd6 uses it too. My situation, at that time long ago, was a crazy BPD woman that was determined to spend it ALL without regard to anyone's needs other than hers.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/18 05:04 PM
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Aren't you lucky, your wife is openly sexual with you...... There are guys around that haven't got laid in months. Fix yourself and stop trying to fuck it up. Good luck.
/r/askMRP16/01/18 03:12 PM
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We all are at some point..... Change it, if you can.
/r/askMRP16/01/18 03:09 PM
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I am also studying traditional marriage counseling as I proceed through my Life and Relationship Coaching Certification coursework. I think we agree that the old methods don't work. I also think you are having trouble rationalizing the dissonance of what you are being taught, to what you think really works, and to what you have seen work in the RP. If you are able to truly become an RP advocate of men in relationship counseling, go for it, the world needs that skill. Unfortunately, based on your…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/18 03:32 AM
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Read your post twice. All your wife said is she likes oral and PIV. If you could do that at the same time that would be great. IMO you are Chicken Little. One drop of moisture and you think the sky is falling. Kill your hamster before you mess up what you have so far.
/r/askMRP16/01/18 03:23 AM
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I want my wife to demonstrate her loyalty You are fucking delusional.
/r/askMRP16/01/18 02:32 AM
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How can you let someone treat you like that? Maybe he likes it. Maybe he can't do any better than a cheating-ass hoe. Maybe he wants an open marriage...... /s /s
/r/askMRP16/01/18 02:32 AM
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Kick to the curb. Kill puppy... But "Next" is not an option for you yet. You can't even handle a "Next" one yet. Don't even think about getting your Next hoe-mobile, until you learn how to drive one.
/r/askMRP16/01/18 02:29 AM
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if you say "no", you'll feel guilty. good one, smart guy.....
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/18 11:02 PM
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Ya mean, like stoic about too many BJ's, and how little anal Annie clamps down too hard? I dunno, sounds like really hard... to do.
/r/askMRP15/01/18 03:30 AM
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Damn you're good. You shall be anointed "TROLL HUNTER"....
/r/TheRedPill14/01/18 11:33 PM
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oh, much mo better...
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/18 11:28 PM
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Reported
/r/seduction14/01/18 07:53 PM
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Step four five: rinse / repeat Step four: go to gym, or, mow the yard.....
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/18 07:42 PM
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I do not offer anything about MRP to wife, nor do I offer free information about what I am thinking. If she should be so bold, as to enter my personal space on Reddit, what she finds is her problem. If she is embarrassed by my conversations here, so be it. Not my problem, it is her problem that she brought on herself. I do not read others diaries either. What is the worst thing that could happen? She could be so upset that she wants a divorce, OK, I'm gone.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/18 07:40 PM
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Step three: Move back and forth, wipe dick on curtains. Edit: old joke time..... how do you get your girl to scream during sex? wipe your dick on her curtains
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/18 07:32 PM
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It is good you are making progress, but you cannot "master" anything in 6 months. It gets better for you as you work through it. Stay with it. Try using the OYS thread to post your progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/18 04:38 AM
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Why embellish the simple facts. That is the post. Agree, can't dread when you're pissed off at... anything. For me, dread was suddenly real at stage 6. Anger is not a stage, but stages of coming to grips with my own bullshit. Removing the victim pukies and the rationalizing.
/r/askMRP13/01/18 11:02 PM
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I will add my path when it comes to anger. Probably was longer than most, but each stage, each battle was major for me: Stage one - She's the cause, anger at her. ( I was just a victim of her poor behavior) Stage two - "we" are the cause, anger at both, her and self ( Ok maybe I was partly to blame...) Stage three - I am the cause, anger at self. Stage Four - Release anger at her, continuing anger at self Stage five - Release anger at her, and, at current self, anger at cringeworthy past behavio…
/r/askMRP13/01/18 09:58 PM
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In process of a divorce many years ago, the STBEX at that time asked me to: Help her move fix her car buy her new wardrobe buy her new furniture contribute to her retirement many other things..... It was amazing to me at the time. Still is when I think about it. When she asked, she often thought she was getting somewhere with it, because I could not speak, I was literally speechless. The answer was always NO. What part of the word NO do you not understand. NADA NOPE, no fucking way. Edit: I did …
/r/askMRP13/01/18 05:48 PM
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Create a new present behavior pattern that can be expected. Work at consistency and be sure to give comfort as needed. Consistency is not completely a desirable thing, unless you are confusing the heck out of people. Be thoughtful and it gets better.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/18 02:52 PM
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Yes. Getting used to feeling my age for the first time in my life. Better than the alternative.
/r/askMRP10/01/18 03:49 AM
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...and Happy New Year! smart guy. +1
/r/askMRP10/01/18 12:31 AM
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I am a very introspective person and get lost in thought a lot. My wife and I seem to do this song and dance now where she is very unsure of my changes still, not to mention knowing I called a lawyer months ago etc. On the flip side I used to have diarrhea of the mouth when it came to feels in the past. All she would have to do is say "whats wrong?" and I would go off on a feels trip. > I don't do that anymore but I still get the constant "whats wrong?" to which my response is always nothing. I …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/18 12:27 AM
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My girlfriend moved in with ME Man, this is so close to the arrangement I had with my girlfriend, that is now my wife. It is really amazing. Looking back, I gave it all away man. One little piece at a time, from being the man in charge (like you describe here) to beta bucks chump. Thanks for the reminder of: 1 -Where we started and how good it was 2- how I slowly gave it all away 3- Confirmation that it is all my fault. Dry my tear, move forward. Edit: and a warning to you that is can go wrong f…
/r/askMRP08/01/18 08:35 PM
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Happens......
/r/askMRP08/01/18 05:14 AM
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Amen! I love to hear you testify.
/r/askMRP08/01/18 03:42 AM
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I read carefully, I looked at the pics. I went limp. Must be sumpin wong with me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/18 12:38 AM
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Yes.
/r/RPChristians06/01/18 05:48 PM
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What most people fail to recognize about long term market performance, is that THEIR long term is their lifetime, not 100's of years like an endowment, insurance company, investment bank, or pension fund. Your decision to manage your risk is smart. Make no mistake, Wall Street types will line up to belittle and shame you for your decision (similar to be BP standard op's). The disconnect between managing risk and investing is so distorted today that most investors fail to "trust their gut" and ta…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 03:43 PM
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With over 40 years of investment advisory experience I can guarantee you a few things. These are not up for discussion, but I offer them without reservation. DJIA over 30K - not a clue, not even a guess, it is unknowable. Timing of next peak and fall of the market cycle - unknowable. The trigger for all the market meltdowns that I have lived through, starting with the 1973 Oil Embargo, the cause was never foreseen, and was foreseeable only in hind sight (therefore it was not foreseeable). If his…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 02:57 AM
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I feel I'm owed. Entitled. As such, I’m in a constant state of scarcity When you come in contact with a woman that acts like this, one that feels entitled, like the world owes her something, do you find her attractive? Do you crave the opportunity to spend time with her and possibly have sex with her? Or do you think, "you entitled bitch, it will be a cold day in hell before you get anything from me....." So....Don't be an angry entitled bitch. Be attractive, don't be unattractive. Just passing …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/18 04:41 AM
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non-fan, ditto
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/18 02:58 AM
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How do you propose that we generate shame? One direct stare and smirk at a time on the micro level. The macro space is a bit crowded and easy to mess up, end up looking like the bigger jerk.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 02:50 AM
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OK, a beer and some conversation. beer optional.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/18 02:45 AM
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Junk bonds.....Take a look at a closed end fund PFN. Junk bonds with 20%+ leverage, borrowed money to increase the yield. Others like it in the closed end fund world. May as well get (well) paid for risk.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/18 12:27 AM
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When granny cashes in her blue chip high dividend stocks and buys CD's, "before she loses it all".
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/18 12:10 AM
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Living the man-dream.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/18 12:07 AM
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I like every point here professor. I find myself often engaging women in debate of the "me-too" fiasco. Also, I'm using humor to make the point that I have to protect myself from being accused and used by women with ulterior motives. I remember in the late 60's, the feminist movement encouraged women to tell men not to open a door for them (along with bra burning), they can do it for themselves. This was supposed to show their strength and independence. They loved it when they used it on men, bu…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 08:22 PM
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I remember the guy that mowed the yard. Sad. No cup holder.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/18 07:55 PM
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Yes, regardless of how you do it, recognizing that there is a market cycle that always repeats up and down over time. Another interesting method is the 200 day moving average market trend following.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/18 05:16 PM
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Don't waste time with losers. Thanks for the worthwhile reminder. Agree that having daughter interact with others is important. Don't know if daycare is the best method IMO. All the owners of daycare that I ever knew were below average people. Look for other venues. The key is to encourage the SAHM to move this forward through social gatherings, even the underrated playdates. Net worth. I will add one small piece here. Adding assets is good, (permanently) reducing debt is better, doing both is b…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/18 04:24 PM
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Until the paternity test is complete - NOTHING NEW HAPPENS. In the mean time, back off a little and start getting your frame back. You have some serious thinking to do....... Assuming you are the dad, what do you want to do? You must make a one time only, lifetime decision. If you just go with the flow, you will never be the dedicated father you could be. MAKE A FIRM DECISION, what ever it is. If you decide that you do not want to be a dad, for God's sake, don't. Let her find another man that wi…
/r/askMRP02/01/18 05:20 AM
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That is why you will read STFU over and over again here. Men do, women talk. Men that talk too much, become girlfriends to their wives. Stop it. As far as getting what you deserve, life has a strange way of giving us what we deserve based on our actions. Change your actions. Secondly, you cannot get what you did not seek.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/18 05:08 AM
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Stay on the path in the side bar. Use what is known to work.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/18 04:58 AM
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Imagine all the old SOB's like me that would carry a truck bus load of people to Washington to protest. Would make MLK's group on the Mall look small and tame. Other than the zombie apocalypse, just another good reason to keep good weapons, ..... and Twinkies, always on hand.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/18 04:57 AM
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I only have 2 points: I think you nailed when you said: "My marriage has three parts. You're a good friend, and a good helper. I also need my wife to be my lover." What you did not say, if she cannot do that, time to make changes. Next step is exactly what u/WeakandSensitive told you....
/r/askMRP02/01/18 01:01 AM
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"Indian" name is,"Talks while Talking". I like that. Will use it soon.
/r/askMRP01/01/18 03:23 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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