Finally gaining some confidence, How to improve even further?

jefferson_ · 2017-10-03T23:58:49+00:00

Abundance mentality is probably the most important piece.

When you have a lot of options, one singuluar situation matters that much less. Approaching when you're already fucking 2-3 girls simultaneously becomes much easier.

Seems like you're on a good path, keep it up, rack up abundance, and never give up. Take risks, go off the cuff, be yourself, etc.

Then there's the whole piece about escalating from phone number -> sex. That's pretty important too, there's a lot of material you can read up on about that here on ask and the parent sub.

SappedOfCreativity · 2017-10-04T00:03:22+00:00

You don't need good openers. Think about it: do you remember anything five of your closest friends said to you the first time you met? Chances are that's not the case.

My advice is rinse and repeat. Talk to anybody, anywhere. Even if a girl isn't your type, chat her up anyway without any ulterior motives. Believe it or not, that will be one of the more interesting things that happened to her that day.

I'd even go as far as to go on a date with a girl I'm not interested in. That way, there's no pressure at all if things go south.

A lot of people ask how not to give a fuck. The answer is to adopt an abundance mentality. Seriously, who gives a shit if some girl turns you down? It's her loss, since you're the prize. And there are tonnes of other girls that would be willing to date you (provided you've got some SMV and you lift).

Title	Finally gaining some confidence, How to improve even further?
Author	mrizzle1991
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	October 3, 2017 11:52 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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