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lmao
/r/askTRP08/03/20 06:18 PM
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Agreed brother.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 05:33 PM
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I can't access the main sub on my phone for some reason otherwise I would've made a post on there about this.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 05:32 PM
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She's obviously joking. Jesus Christ you guys take this shit so seriously lol. Do you honestly think she's going to stop you the next time you meet up to fuck? Get out of your head dude. Text her back and play it off. "Well I'm revoking your right to feel my arms" insert whatever she likes doing to you. /Thread
/r/askTRP27/01/20 11:25 PM
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What the fuck kind of message was that. Horrible.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 07:48 PM
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The vacations happened before we were together. The only other one she’s been on I was there. Trust me he’s gay. Although I don’t doubt that girls do that shit. Yeah the pictures thing really rubbed me weirdly. I don’t know what to think of it. Agreed about the outfit. Guess I have some thinking to do. Thanks for your comment.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 10:56 PM
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Can’t say you’re wrong. I went with my gut when I made it LTR. Thanks for your comment, going to see what materializes.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 10:14 PM
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That’s what I was thinking. Just been under a lot of stress from work. Thank you.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 10:13 PM
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Appreciate your comment. Good luck with everything.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:22 AM
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I agree with this.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:21 AM
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I never mentioned hard nexting anyone.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 09:05 AM
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Yeah it's very weird. I'm chocking it up to our evolutionary psychology, to be honest. I think it's just natural to want as much as you can get in this regard. Wishing you the best of luck with your situation. Think intricately about what you want, but if you truly think getting married will improve your life, that's your call to make!
/r/askTRP17/09/19 02:08 AM
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Really interesting thought! At the moment, I honestly do think she's worth it. That could change, but I think your comment actually made me realize some shit. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 02:06 AM
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Yeah, I feel you. Good luck bro.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 02:06 AM
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why the fuck would you give up a great girl who does everything mentioned above for a whatif? How fucking dumb and stupid can you be? So you can sleep with many women instead of one and add to a body count so you and your friends will think you’re cooler? I'm not sure how you got this from my post. I think it's been made clear that I have no conscious intention of rocking the boat any time soon. At the same time, I can't help what thoughts and feelings strike my mind each day, I'm only human. I'…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 02:05 AM
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Roughly 2.5 months of vetting, LTR is 6 months on top of that now. Using my experience with shitty girls in the past, I tried a new method with her and she passed my standards pretty handedly. She cooked for me, did my laundry, would take me out on her dime, and was pretty affectionate and considerate overall. Perhaps I am distrustful, I'm not exactly sure if it's me or her.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 01:01 AM
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It's fucked bro.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 02:57 AM
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That link describes the straight percentage of income taxed and does not talk about changes to any deductions such as SALT, standard, tuition, dependents, etc. Taxes aren't that simple.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 07:47 AM
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So you're admitting you're clueless about the subject yet making sweeping assertions about said subject? Interesting. Blissful ignorance works both ways folks.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 05:24 AM
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Source? Do you realize how complex taxes are? Deductions, write offs, etc. all contribute to the final number every year.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 04:54 AM
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I vote Democrat, although my political beliefs are moderate. My family did not receive a tax cut with the GOP legislation. Don't believe everything you hear.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 04:04 AM
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Not a good idea unless you share similar beliefs. When that’s the case you can connect with them, if not, it just brews resentment for each other. I’ve been there, done that.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 01:04 AM
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Read Psychocybernetics instead. Written by a plastic surgeon and one of the most defining self help/psychology books of the 20th century.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 06:36 PM
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IMO, together, hell yeah, without me, fuck off. I've hooked up with girls in the club before as they were complaining about their boyfriends. AWALT.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 12:51 AM
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Lmaooo
/r/askTRP16/02/19 10:46 PM
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First one is No More Mister Nice Guy, not sure about the second. Hope it helps.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 10:40 PM
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Lots of museums throughout the 5 boroughs are free. I'd start there. Coffee is good too, like others suggested.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 02:56 AM
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What part of New York? NYC, LI, upstate?
/r/askTRP16/02/19 02:44 AM
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My gym situation isn’t the greatest but essentially I mixed two programs from a couple of friends that incorporate lots of compound lifts with benches, barbells, and dumbbells. I barely use machines, really only for back/abs/legs when I don’t have the necessary equipment. The gyms on my campus aren’t the greatest and I don’t have a consistent place to work out due to some weird circumstances. It really comes down to consistency at the end of the day. Another thing is just to eat a fuck ton of fo…
/r/askTRP13/02/19 07:51 PM
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After gaining definition/mm I've definitely gotten more comments on my appearance. Especially when in bed during sex/cuddling girls will always comment on my arms. Before I started lifting I was a skinny twig fuck, and didn't get half the attention I get now.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 05:01 PM
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🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/askTRP13/02/19 04:56 PM
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My last LTR would blow me senseless whenever she couldn't have sex. Dread game buddy.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 07:00 PM
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What do you mean your room isn't good? If you have a bed/couch and privacy that's all you need. Put on some music and do your thing man.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 06:59 PM
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Start developing your hobbies now. Photography, music, cooking, hiking, bicycling, coding, whatever. Oh, and don't ever stop weight lifting, seriously. Also, get your fucking degree and get a career. Don't be that 24 year old loser working at Old Navy.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 06:57 PM
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Same here. I was deeply into it for a while then lost some interest. The knowledge I learned is still incredibly useful though. I'm an INTJ btw.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 06:30 AM
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Once you start making real money, absolutely. Work your ass off and get yourself a career, not just a job. Good luck.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 10:43 PM
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I extremely disliked his performance during those hearings. He acted like a fucking imbecile. I'm a moderate anyways, but I don't want people like that apart of the highest court in the land, sorry. Edit: I do agree with you about the feminist thing. That shit is fucking stupid.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 02:16 AM
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Kavanaugh is a piece of shit for other reasons, anyway.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 04:42 PM
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I'm on the thinner side but been at the gym for over a month now and finally starting to make some noticeable gains. However, I think she's more alluding to my intelligence, considering the context of our first hook up and this particular conversation.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 04:32 PM
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We have a date tomorrow, already hooked up once and it went great. So no.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 12:08 AM
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I know a couple of people who started engineering school at 22, graduated at around 26 and one of them is working for Boeing right now. The sky is the limit and age is just a number!
/r/askTRP01/02/19 11:31 PM
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This question is retarded...
/r/askTRP01/02/19 10:23 PM
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This dude said make a spreadsheet... Solid advice otherwise though.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 06:39 AM
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Out of 40 guys? Probably close with 12ish, and truly genuine/best friends with only maybe 3-4.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 12:22 AM
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Soft next man. Next time, don't fuck up like that.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 01:42 AM
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Try and steer the conversation in a direction where you have a lot of experience/knowledge/etc. That way you'll be way more confident in your participation of said topic. Be careful though, you don't want to start talking about shit no one else has any idea about because then you'll just come off as weird. It's a balancing act of working with something you can contribute towards and also finding common ground with others in the conversation so you can connect over that. Also, read How to Win Fri…
/r/askTRP31/01/19 01:42 AM
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You said it, man. That's def the goal. I'm actually in the middle of my attempt to transition most of my gaming to IRL/social circle stuff exclusively. Sick of the superficial texting shit.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 01:34 AM
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Oh absolutely, I have problems with that myself because of the fact that I overthink shit too. I vastly prefer IRL game though, this texting shit is mad dumb sometimes lol. But like I said in my other comment it's almost necessary to have at least some text game nowadays, at least in my age group.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 01:32 AM
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Can't argue with this. I try my best to keep it to logistics but I'm finding more and more nowadays you need at least some text game to seal the deal, especially in 2019. I'm a younger millennial (early 20s) so I guess it's just the nature of the beast.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 01:29 AM
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Yeah agreed. I actually prefer the more complicated shit tests because I have more to work with lol. But yeah, you're completely right in your second paragraph. Thanks for commenting.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 01:26 AM
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Solid advice, thanks man.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 01:26 AM
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Hell no. Don't do that.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 08:16 PM
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Many on here will argue TRP is incompatible with "romantic feelings". I'm not sure what I've come up with yet, to be honest, in regards to this concept. TRP is a toolbox, improve your life within your control, and keep moving forward. As much as TRP has helped me (and JFC has it) I wouldn't take this shit too literally. If you like a woman, make sure you vet them properly and avoid red flags at all costs. Once you feel 100% confident and have verified their worthiness, consider the FWB -> LTR tr…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 04:38 AM
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Yeah. It was awesome. I recommend best friends, summertime outside. Enjoy it bro.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 06:19 PM
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You should lift for a million reasons besides a girl. Echoing the other comments, focus on yourself and after a while girls will be so easy you'll wonder how you got them any other way.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 01:24 AM
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Lmaooo
/r/askTRP19/01/19 01:21 AM
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Listen bro, the possibility of plating her is still very likely. Play your cards right, trust your gut, and move on. It's really not a big deal.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 01:19 AM
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I'm a big EDM guy. To get excited: Bass/prog house, dubstep, drum and bass, possibly hardstyle although not my forte. To chill out: Trance, deep/tech house, ambient/acoustic electronic. Hip hop is awesome too, although prefer the older stuff (Biggie, Big Pun, Big L, Mobb Deep, Nas, etc).
/r/askTRP19/01/19 12:53 AM
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Yeah, LES in Manhattan comes to mind.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 05:51 PM
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My school is mainly a commuter school, fortunately for me I dormed. In my fraternity, we have a decent amount of commuters. It was REALLY tough on them during pledging due to the emphasis on time spent but they powered through and now they have a great social network. I'd recommend trying to find the Greek life that does exist and explore your options.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 04:02 PM
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Lol, reading is for knowledge, not changing your personality. You need to step out of your comfort zone in reality and power through it.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 03:54 PM
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Tbf my proglide lasts for months. You just have to take care of it and make sure you dry it after using it.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 06:09 PM
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I remember many times with one of my exes where I'd be chilling playing Xbox with my boys and she'd just go down on me and start doing her thing until she got me horny enough to throw the controller and start fucking her lol.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 12:20 AM
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Lmfao I was literally just thinking the same thing.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:33 AM
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Why would you go raw. Literally dumb as fuck. That's mostly my thoughts, I don't see any reason why not to plate/keep fucking as long as you protect yourself in the future (you said it yourself you don't know what's she up to with other guys).
/r/askTRP11/01/19 12:59 AM
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Textbook example of breaking at least 3 or 4 TRP guidelines all in one situation. You played yourself. Move on and next time don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 12:56 AM
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I mean, it's just a lifestyle choice. Not sure why you'd be on TRP though with that attitude. If you want to be a meat beating loser no one's stopping you, but most on these forums certainly won't encourage you.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 05:27 AM
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Cut her the fuck off. I broke it off with my psychotic LTR with similar problems 7 months ago and I feel your pain. Life goes on and time heals. Eventually, you'll be fine man. As always, seek improvement everyday no matter how hard it is. Get the fuck out of bed and live your life to the fullest.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 05:24 AM
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Prenup or go home, son.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 05:22 AM
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Fuck no. I deliberately avoid those types when vetting for LTRs. Plate, yeah why not.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 11:11 PM
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In some circles there's also Omega, Gramma, and Sigma. Sigma is an interesting alternative to full blown Alpha and the most that I relate to tbh.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 03:28 PM
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FANTASTIC book. Can't recommend it enough. I also like 12 Rules for Life and How to Win Friends and Influence People.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 08:10 PM
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Do you transition slowly into it? I've read of people shocking their heart by going directly into an ice cold shower.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 08:10 PM
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What did you wind up doing?
/r/askTRP03/01/19 07:39 AM
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Any tips? I've always had issues gaining efficiently. I'd like to put on a good 20-30 lbs. I've heard the "just eat" advice before, looking for something more nuanced if you're willing to advise.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 07:36 AM
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Too right. Crazy shit man, I've dealt with psychos before. Not fun. Good luck OP.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 02:58 AM
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Word man, my ex was psychotic, and almost certainly had BPD in addition to being abused as a child which I only found out about months into the relationship. Her behavior and personality has left lasting scars and it's been over 6 months. OP get the fuck out fast.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 12:20 AM
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I doubt there's anything truly objective for this. Do you have investments set up? They should be doing a lot of heavy lifting for you so that you don't feel as guilty taking such a vacation once in a while.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 04:41 AM
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Yeah cool, that's my mindset already. Thank you.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 04:17 AM
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Lol no. Just us
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:56 PM
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Word man, thank you. Not gonna worry too much about it and keep doing what I'm doing.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 03:53 PM
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Yep. Makes sense. Thanks for slapping me with reality.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 03:53 PM
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Nah def not. My friend told me in confidence. Gonna ride this one out and see how it goes.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 03:34 PM
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Lmao facts
/r/askTRP27/10/18 01:25 PM
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Nope, but she's decent FWB material. Solid advice nevertheless thank you.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 04:54 AM
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Yeah you right. Gonna keep that in mind going forward.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 03:35 AM
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Yeah that's what I was thinking. The thing is I'm pretty far from the stereotype. I mean I have a good time don't get me wrong and ofc I'm gonna peruse the venue/meet new people since it's my fraternity's event but idrk. This other kid was giving her alot of attention while I was getting more attention from virtually everyone else (guys and girls) so maybe that's how she got that vibe. Still weird though.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 02:52 AM
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Word. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 02:48 AM
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Was hoping one of you could help me figure that one out. A bit puzzled by what she meant, probably was with a negative connotation though.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 02:48 AM
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Don't wanna waste my time essentially
/r/askTRP27/10/18 02:42 AM
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I've experimented with both. The one where you lead and just tell them a time and place is really great when it works, but sometimes it doesn't. I started talked to a girl that I've known for a long time but more in a sexual way and tried it with her twice and she had work both times. I know she's interested cuz she preceded to literally send me her entire work and school schedule for the entire week after. Play it by ear, but I'd say prefer to lean on the leading option as opposed to asking.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 03:42 PM
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I'm done with day-dates for coffee and such. They're cool for getting to know someone but they're a waste of time for someone like me trying to just spin plates. Keep it to the evenings so you have a more effective opportunity to either escalate or close. Also, drinking alcohol is way more acceptable at night, if that's your thing.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 07:11 PM
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I'm weak
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:29 PM
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That would've been a clear as a day shit test to me, but I can't reach into my crystal ball and see what that hypothetical outcome would be. I'd suggest not overthinking it, it's just some random on tinder. Maybe better luck next time.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 03:37 AM
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She was shit testing you and you probably failed.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 03:30 AM
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Top shit post
/r/askTRP21/09/18 05:45 AM
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Damn that was cringey to read.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 10:03 PM
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If you're in university, join a fraternity.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 08:49 PM
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It's a great book.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 08:45 PM
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Not saying that some people aren't lazy. All groups of people have their share of lazy fucks. Calling out an entire generation for being lazy is the easy way out.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 06:12 PM
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The only thing more annoying than people posting stupid questions is people posting stupid comments painting an entire group of millions of people with one broad stroke of a brush. Yeah man, you're so hardworking. Good for you.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 05:21 PM
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Didn't you post this like last week? Get over it dude.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 03:20 PM
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You're already putting her on a pedestal and you haven't even met her yet. Sidebar.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 02:45 AM
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I mean yeah you could but at the end of the day she has to solve the problem for herself. I would vacate myself from the situation ASAP. I know you don’t want to hear it but it is absolutely the advice you should take.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 04:01 AM
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Jumping ship would admit defeat. Lift and grow some balls. Start calling shots for chill seshes and going out plans, ask your friends to go to the gym, etc. Get hobbies and outshine them. Read and improve yourself. Have you read the side bar?
/r/askTRP15/09/18 10:50 PM
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I felt the same way but dude don't do it. My ex was assaulted as a child and it affected our relationship all the time. In the end, we resented each other and it turned into this whole dramatic mess. Steer clear man, I'm fucking tell you.
/r/askTRP15/09/18 08:26 PM
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Girl 1 seemed chill about it and we decided to get coffee this week but girl 2 was mad sus tbh. I guess it depends person-to-person.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:06 AM
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Been there, done that, not worth it. Next and move on man.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 10:11 PM
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I've had 3 internships in STEM, just guess which one I fucking hated.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 05:32 AM
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Dress well, shave that fucking afro off, smell good, and have good posture.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 01:52 AM
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Leftist is a broad term. I still believe in and benefit from the free-market, but I still think companies should be regulated as to not gain way too much power and influence. It's really not that hard of a concept.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 01:47 AM
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I get it, man. Being anything left of Trump cronies on this sub = OMGCOMMUNISTFUCKYOUREBELSCUM. For a sub that tries to encourage honest discussion, it's actually kind of funny.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 01:40 AM
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Lmao what the fuck did I just read?
/r/askTRP05/09/18 06:30 AM
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Dude just genuinely say "thank you, I appreciate it". It's not rocket science lol
/r/askTRP05/09/18 04:19 AM
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I mean, the gym isn't work or school. If you go to a big/fast-paced gym I don't see the issue. Maybe gyms in very small towns where everyone knows each other.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 04:18 AM
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I'm horrible with motivation, too. Try replacing motivation with discipline, and make a conscious effort to override those feelings of complacency and stagnation. It's much more effective but also much less forgiving and feel-goody. That's just the way it is, brotha.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 04:16 AM
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The second time she rejected you you should've stopped everything and went to the bathroom. Then came out and said, "something came up I gotta run, to be continued" with a shit eating grin.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 05:19 AM
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Can confirm this works.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 04:56 AM
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The answer to your title without even reading is yes, give up, because no woman is worth typing all this shit out for. Focus on yourself and read the sidebar over and over until you can recite it. Good luck homie.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:18 AM
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Holy fuck dude. Maybe a TLDR next time? No one has time to read a novel about your oneitis.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 12:59 AM
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"sounds good" simple yet not that passive aggressive. When next weekend gets closer, make up an excuse why you can't hang out since you probably won't be able to have sex. Build up tension for a few weeks then ultimately have great rewarding sex.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 01:25 AM
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Seems to me you caught oneitis and it caused her to lose attraction to you. Sorry about that man, soft next is best option probably.
/r/askTRP01/09/18 05:28 PM
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Are you having sex?
/r/askTRP01/09/18 05:12 PM
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Fair enough, however, I still wouldn't do it. It's just straight up asking for unnecessary drama for a little bit of sex that you can get anywhere else.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 03:04 AM
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Yes, she was. My advice: cut her off. Messing around with another man's woman is fucked up.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 04:31 PM
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Lol no. It’s about becoming a better man.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 06:14 PM
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Dude you met the girl once in vacation, she’s not in love with you.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:08 AM
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Completely agree. I value my long-term network of males over short-term gratification from females any fucking day of the week.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 11:33 PM
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Most of my friends, family, coworkers, and the vast majority of you on here will disagree but: I personally wouldn't mind paying more taxes for a good single-payer healthcare system. Let the shit-flinging begin.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 11:46 PM
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/r/gainit's sidebar is pretty good too.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 11:40 PM
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Legitimate mental disorders are difficult to transform via sheer will-power, but, that doesn't mean you can't always be moving in the right direction. If you want a healthier mindset, then put in the time and effort to claw your way there step-by-step. Read books, consult with trusted friends and family, get out of your comfort zone. There's no right answer to this question.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 11:39 PM
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In addition to what /u/ShotgunTRP said, also focus on your inner strength and confidence. Reading and meditating are really useful for this. In conjunction with physical improvement, you'll be able to become really stoic and shit tests from either females OR males will literally bounce off of you like a hand ball. Better yet, once your defense is tight, you'll be able to shoot back with no fucks given. Someone makes fun of you for your height? Fuck you, you tall fuck, fight me. Someone makes fun…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 11:33 PM
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Thank you. I get it too, although I'd probably describe it more as intuition than a feeling. I didn't make the post because I'm immune to this, I made it because I've made similar mistakes in distrusting my intuition and logic, and want to prevent more from doing the same.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 02:55 PM
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Emotion is important, particularly considering passion and enjoyment for what you're doing with your life. However, it must always be secondary to logic and reason, especially logical conclusions which you know will benefit you in the end. Don't succumb to impatience or impulse decisions, wait for the right moment, and strike like a fucking tiger.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 02:54 PM
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Love that movie, and yeah, that's basically the type of mindset I was trying to express. That character probably said it better than I could have to be honest.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 02:52 PM
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Soft next. If she ever hits you up again that's prob your last chance so don't be a bitch.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 12:51 PM
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Dude just shoot your shot. It doesn't really matter what you do as long as you're confident.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 12:44 PM
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Thanks. Don't take the examples I stated to heart, they're there more to paint a picture than anything else. You do you bro, good luck.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 02:42 AM
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Would one of the mods mind flairing this as RP Theory? Can't get to a desktop at the moment. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 01:35 AM
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This is fucking gold.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 08:41 PM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:05 AM
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Yeah... abundance mentality and all.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 02:54 AM
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Great advice. Don't overcomplicate OP.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 01:47 AM
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Whenever I'm in an LTR I stop caring about the things that make me strong and valued. Appearance, facial hair, exercise, hobbies, you name it.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 01:04 AM
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Intuition mostly. Maybe some light social media scanning if things are getting more substantial. Regardless, as long as they're clean and attractive I have no problem with just sex.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 11:17 PM
1

Connecting with people over shared interests, or even just things each person could find interesting/passionate is incredibly important in regards to social success. And without social success, you will never reach your full potential. It's incredibly important being able to build up a network of friends/coworkers/family, whatever, who respect you and like you.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 02:23 AM
3

I'm sorry but I just wanted to say thank you. I literally spit out my water into laughter reading the last sentence. ...carry on gentlemen.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 02:20 AM
55

Dude. What the fuck are you doing? Next and hit self-improvement mode ASAP.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 02:16 AM
2

Yup. A lot of people I see on here also have direct references to TRP in their username, so it's actually pretty common.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 01:44 AM
1

Photography. It's quite an expensive hobby but addicting and gratifying once you get into it.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 12:46 AM
2

Completely agree. Well said!
/r/askTRP05/11/17 11:32 PM
6

Because it's fantasy.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 09:35 PM
1

All the best RAs I've known fucked chicks on the reg and also threw sick dorm parties. Make the best of your situation, you have a value to you. Utilize it.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 12:59 AM
1

The simplest and most effective answer. /thread
/r/askTRP02/11/17 12:56 AM
1

Fuck her wherever possible, the sky is the limit since you don't gaf. However, short date and a confident invite back to your place is the traditional success story.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 12:55 AM
2

AWALT. If she's into you enough and your game is on point you can definitely fuck/plate her in the near future. I've had girls say the same shit to me, let me take them out, and I'm fucking them a few hours later. Mindset dude, go in knowing you'll get what you want and they'll follow your lead. Good luck.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 01:13 AM
1

How are you supposed to manipulate others and get what you want if you blabber your mouth away with all of your actual thoughts? Keep your mouth shut until it counts. Even then, you may need to have a filter in order to get someone in your good graces for your own benefit. Still think and believe however the fuck you want.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 04:35 PM
2

I'd suggest Meditations by Marcus Aurelius as a good starting point. /r/stoicism is a great resource as well.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 05:12 PM
1

You can start some minor day trading with the Robinhood app. Really enjoying it so far, especially with friends.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 08:28 PM
1

You have nothing to lose by seizing another opportunity, just make sure to do so confidently. Otherwise soft next bro, there's plenty more out there. If this one doesn't want to bite it's her loss.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 07:47 AM
1

Next time I'd try asking her out in person.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 02:58 AM
52

Thirded. Really entertaining post as well OP, well done.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 02:51 AM
10

M: 'Hi. How are you?' H: 'M good. How are you?' M: 'Good too. Listen what are you upto this weekend ?' H: 'I dont know. Maybe working' M: 'The whole weekend?' H: 'Yeah maybe not sure yet' M: 'So when are you free ?' H: she look curious ... and in smiling tone went 'mmmm ... Why are you asking ?' M: 'There is this movie i really wanna see?' H: 'ahh ..I am so sorry. I have a boyfriend' M: trying to hold the frame ...'Its alright. Tell him I am your gay friend' That was painful to read. You fell in…
/r/askTRP04/10/17 11:40 PM
4

This is straight /r/The_Donald levels of commentary.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 11:35 PM
7

Unicorn?
/r/askTRP04/10/17 02:38 PM
2

Clingyness and jealousy are very unattractive in the eyes of the girl. It means to them that you have no other option, so in their head they dont have to try. The second they don't have to try, they get bored and the chase ends, which is a lot of the fun and attraction for them. Texting works best for logistics. Save the conversations, playful flirting, and escalation for when you can look her in the eye and use kino. Not to say you can't have those flirty convos here and there, especially on Sn…
/r/askTRP04/10/17 05:19 AM
3

I don't even need to see the conversation to know you should soft next. If she verbally communicated to you how beta you were acting, you've already lost. I'm not going to say it isn't remotely salvageable, but it would require way too much effort and maneuvering to prove you actually aren't a bitch. What sealed the deal in my view, was trying to be playful when you should've replied with plans for sex or plans that would lead to sex.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 04:59 AM
2

As someone who just made this mistake: do NOT lose frame or abundance. As soon as you exhibit these BP tendencies, that girls pussy will dry up quick. It happened to me, and I'm slowly recovering while still having her as a plate; however, I've definitely almost fucked up things by focusing too much on her. Do what I did, take a few steps back, calculate your options, and resume proper frame and game others as much as possible. After this, you'll find that the girl your fucking actually puts in …
/r/askTRP04/10/17 04:34 AM
1

I can relate, and so can probably a lot of guys on here. I think an important part is to give yourself time to recover and get back to independent equilibrium. You are misguided in the sense that you associated personal progress and moving forward with the prospect of a new girl who could fill the void from your LTR. Big mistake, this is not true progress. I made a similar mistake not too long ago of jumping right back into the game with girls directly after a 1yr+ LTR and it set me back persona…
/r/askTRP04/10/17 12:44 AM
1

How did you so easily feel a connection to words on a screen from a girl you've never even met? I think you have some other issues to work on before you start trying to get girls. Sidebar, dude.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 12:36 AM
2

Seems to me you were catching oneitis on a girl you were talking to on tinder for 2 days. Relax man, there are plenty more out there. Focus on yourself and always keep improving and this will all become a lot easier.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 12:18 AM
2

Yeah dude you're doing just fine. Like I said just keep up the momentum! You've already started to experience a bit of the beauty of abundance, your answers lies there. As always, keep up your SMV, focus on yourself/career/physical appearance and this shit will be a piece of cake.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 12:15 AM
2

Abundance mentality is probably the most important piece. When you have a lot of options, one singuluar situation matters that much less. Approaching when you're already fucking 2-3 girls simultaneously becomes much easier. Seems like you're on a good path, keep it up, rack up abundance, and never give up. Take risks, go off the cuff, be yourself, etc. Then there's the whole piece about escalating from phone number -> sex. That's pretty important too, there's a lot of material you can read up on…
/r/askTRP03/10/17 11:58 PM
1

Man, this was cringey as hell. Good luck to you.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 11:48 PM
1

I DID EVERYTHING POSSIBLE. I DID EVERYFUCKING THING POSSIBLE TO MANKIND. Hmm. 0 RESULTS. FUCKING 0. You obviously haven't done enough. Get back to work and stop bitching. WHAT MORE DO I HAVE TO FUCKING DO? Grow some balls, for one. Go and approach hot girls, lift harder at the gym, eat a fuck ton of food, get good sleep, meditate, get a good wardrobe, read some books, find a worthwhile hobby... The list goes on and on. No one here should have to spell it out for you.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 11:44 PM
1

Lol wut. Have you ever even read the sidebar buddy? Your outlook is fucking horrible. You need a bitch slap and a kick in the ass. This is YOUR life to live, go and take it by the balls and stop complaining like a little girl.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 11:40 PM
2

Virgins are a little different. Keep in mind she'll probably become attached if you do wind up taking it from her. Depends how much you like her, but from a vanilla TRP perspective, I'd escalate once or twice more, if not soft next.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 11:34 PM
5

Ignore as if it doesn't matter or change anything. Hold frame.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 11:00 PM
1

Truly great. Rereading it now for the 2nd time, and it's very well written.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 02:55 PM
1

You went hoes before bros. Priorities...
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 07:58 PM
1

As much as I don't want to hear it, I have to be honest and say this is best form of advice I should follow. I do get it. Now just going to work on how to put this all into action. Having some intense internal thoughts to confront either him or her and clear the air, especially to him to make it known that I won't tolerate shit like this. As I alluded to above, nexting my friend isn't really an option, but I will take into account what you said about the Machiavellian mindset. Thank you.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 06:17 PM
4

Another great resource on this is the book Psycho-Cybernetics.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 05:26 PM
1

Solid and real advice. I think I just need some time to mull this over. Thank you again dude, I appreciate it.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:28 PM
1

It hurts to be honest. This kid is like my brother. You can read my other comments and see a bit more about this but recognizing that he's an asshole doesn't feel good. Honestly, I'm contemplating confronting him, as my other close friend recommended in order to stand up for myself. I'm definitely willing to do this but I'm not sure of the long term benefits. And yeah, I've been lifting a few times a week. Thanks for your comment.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:12 PM
2

To be honest, I got a little carried away with this chick. Oneitis was present to a degree, despite keeping contact with other chicks regularly. In my defense, my emotions completely blindsided me on this one and was open to pursing more than just a plate while still keeping my cool if that makes sense. I suppose my decision is clear now though, thanks for your insight.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:09 PM
1

I can definitely recognize the silver lining you're alluding to but there's a bit of negativity here still. I'm involved with a lot of shit with my friend here. We run 2 organizations on campus, including our fraternity, have the same social circle, and have spent a shit ton of time together just as boys so stopping my social life and other spheres we share is a daunting endeavor. I suppose my luck is shit and just need to move on. Thanks for your input regardless.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:08 PM
1

It's a pretty fucked situation. I feel betrayed by both my best friend and this fucking bitch. Of course, AWALT but going down like this stings. My other close friend told me to confront him and girl and stand up for myself, but I'm not sure it's even worth it and anything I say would probably hurt me in the long run. It also sucks because I've colinearly built up my college career with this kid, professionally, socially, academically, etc, we are involved in a lot of shit together to that effec…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:04 PM
1

I'm here for a bit if you'd like to pm. Good luck op.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 05:15 AM
3

I disagree fundamentally. Rightist economics can also be authoritarian in the sense that power and wealth are controlled by a small elite who dictate policy and direction of society. Not disagreeing that leftist economics can exhibit this too, but let's not play ourselves here. Authoritarianism is authoritarianism, no matter if the government holds the power or the businessmen.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 08:31 PM
0

Exactly my thoughts.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 07:21 PM
11

I'm going to go against the grain here and say anything is possible. I subscribe to a center-left view on most issues, centrist on others, and center-right on a few. For example, I am for strong gun rights and believe modern-Feminism is a mental sickness but I still think we should invest money into transportation, science, healthcare, and education. I'm also deeply anti-religious, so that affects some things as well. I never force my views on others though, and I am completely open to all views…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 07:17 PM
1

Leftist economics != Authoritarian. Authoritarianism is a political ideology, not an economic one.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 07:10 PM
1

Great comment, thanks for your insight.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 07:09 PM
5

If you're just fucking her who cares? No one is putting a gun to your head forcing you to inhale. In addition, I'm fully aware that drug use makes you a weaker man and I've been addicted in my life so I know all of that but try not to judge people who use drugs, especially pot, because marijuana really isn't THAT bad. I'd say go with the flow and have fun, I don't see her pot smoking as a big deal when all you're doing is casually fucking her.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 01:52 PM
1

You need to hard next my friend. Also, take a couple days to reread the sidebar.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 06:35 PM
1

I only ever go to nightclubs if I'm seeing an artist I really like and bought tickets previously for or for a really special occasion I was invited to. Otherwise, I stick to bars, day trips, friends houses, parties, dinners, etc.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 05:43 PM
4

Been hanging with this HB 8.5-9 for 7 weeks now. Still haven't had sex. Dude
/r/askTRP23/09/17 05:39 PM
1

Good tip, will keep in mind, thank you.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 05:03 PM
1

Yeah I think I needed to hear that. Good info, thank you.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 05:02 PM
1

Yes I'm aware but do the positives outweigh the negatives? I'm looking for a bit more insight.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 04:39 PM
1

Genuinely seeking advice. I like doing what I'm doing but there are obviously downsides and therefore seek input. How is this different from any other question asked here?
/r/askTRP23/09/17 04:27 PM
2

One of the best books I've read.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 08:52 PM
1

Facts, thanks for your comment!
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 01:28 PM
2

Views on actually wanting an LTR? I feel like I'm in the right place for one. What's the RP attitude in regards to this? Specifically upgrading a plate to main to LTR?
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 09:49 PM
1

I'd say only in unique cases with a LTR or wife. Otherwise, that's what your guy friends and family are for dude.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 09:26 PM
6

1) Credibility & Experience 2) Hard Work, Motivation, Dedication 3) Visual Appeal & Charisma 4) Foregoing of Morals, "Do What It Takes" Attitude
/r/askTRP20/09/17 08:09 PM
1

As a STEM major, it's not easy, but I make it work. You need to have insane time management skills and discipline, but once you develop those and flesh them out you shouldn't have too much to worry about. Note that this is a grind, and will be for the duration of the degree and beyond. What that said, I still make time for the gym, hanging out with friends/going out, girls and sex, etc. I will say that my sleep schedule is fucking shit, but hey you can't win them all.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 04:38 PM
2

The two are not mutually exclusive. You can help people and society while still being a productive, successful man in your own right.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 11:34 PM
3

Jesus Christ. NO. There's a difference between being confident and living life by your terms and being a cocky, shitty, egotistical asshole. Sidebar man.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 09:03 PM
1

I made very similar mistakes myself in this vein, but you texted her back way too early. Next time give it 4 days-week. Preferably ask her out again in person if anything with already solid plans, never let it be open ended or asking her if she wants to. I would ghost until she ever answers back positively, if not soft-next.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 09:36 PM
2

Absolutely possible. Anyone can, but especially INTPs. The knowledge and analytical skills most have alone are a great starting point.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 09:46 PM
3

Get over it and move on. Improving your ego != Improving your life. Very much the opposite, actually.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 08:51 PM
2

Glad I could you help you out dude. Now go out there and get some shit done. You seem like you at least have a coherent head on your shoulders, now action is needed. Good luck.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 08:35 PM
5

Heh, I definitely relate to the first half of this comment. Here are some more thoughts I have for you: You need to fix your financial situation. This should become you're absolute most important priority. With money comes access. With money comes power. With money, society becomes your bitch and not the other way around. Figure this shit out and stop fussing over this one ugly bitch you can't fuck. Just being real with you. If that means you have to slave away for the next 4-5 years while going…
/r/askTRP14/09/17 06:41 AM
3

Interesting thought. Anyone want to expand on this, or just their thoughts?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 06:14 AM
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You and me both. Your post struck a chord with me, as I'm going through a very similar situation. Took this girl on a date I've been causally hanging with in my social circle for a few weeks and fucked that night. Well.. after I fucked her friend the week before 4 times. Woops (not really). One of the best nights of my life with this girl, hot blonde, smart, cool, down to earth, main chick material shit I'm telling you. Proceeded to catch the sickness almost immediately, not sure if it's because…
/r/askTRP14/09/17 06:05 AM
2

I did the same shit recently, got rejected thrice for hangout plans and text way too much. Caught myself too late as you seem to be as well. I believe soft next is the answer for both of us. The others in this thread are entirely correct. Time for an adjustment in frame. Ay it's just one girl, I see fucking up once in a while as just being human. Knock em dead next time bro, use this as a learning experience, as I will be.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 05:52 AM
1

Focus on yourself and you will succeed. For your sake, I hope you're lifting aggressively, dressing well, and doing well in school. Now that's not to say you can't pursue this girl, absolutely do that, but as a secondary to everything listed above. Next time you see her ask her out mini golfing or something. It's not that hard. If she says no, on to the next; better for you since your time will be better allocated in other places. If she says yes, then that's cool too!
/r/askTRP14/09/17 04:22 AM
2

In general, definitely the best advice. Save the meat for when you can use kino, body language, eye contact, etc. You have to gauge every situation a little differently though and see what works. I usually stick to this advice and have had very good results, but sometimes getting into a little flirty or comical text convo isn't the worst thing in the world. Just don't be having full fledged or substantial conversations over text.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 06:16 AM
2

Not bad. Like you said, it isn't your problem. Wait for her text, if not soft next. That simple.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 06:10 AM
2

The sooner you rip that band aid off the better. I know a bunch of guys including myself who lost theirs to a less than desirable girl or situation, but after you get over that hump it gets so much easier.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 06:08 AM
1

Sometimes people have good days and bad days, we're all human after all. My question for you is why the fuck you haven't taken advantage of the situation when she was already flirting with you? You should've got plans in motion right then and there. Gotta get em while they're hot, son.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 06:04 AM
1

Trust me, I'm shit with names too, but it makes a huge difference. Interacting with both genders becomes much more genuine when you make a small effort to remember a name. Try it sometime, you'll notice a difference. I know you asked about strangers, but I think once you start flirting/fucking a girl you can definitely start using hottie, cutie, etc. But just meeting someone? Calling them that shit will just come off creepy, IMO.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 05:59 AM
6

If a girl really wants to, she'll make the time to text you or effort in another way. Did you have sex yet? If not, you're probably already in hot water by this point. Also, big mistake by triple texting her IMHO. I think at least having the impression that you're busier than her and your time is much more valuable is part of why these girls start to put in that effort you're looking for. Right now, you're doing all the work, and it should never be that way for a RP dude. I know you're probably …
/r/askTRP12/09/17 05:55 AM
3

Maybe asking them what their name is and using that? I usually only have those types of causal names with my guy friends.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 05:50 AM
1

I definitely am trying to avoid feeling things, for better or worse. It's how I've always coped, and it seems to work most of the time. Maybe there's a bigger issue at play here (probably stemming from childhood). Regardless, your advice is solid. Thanks for your insight. I will keep it in mind.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 03:44 AM
1

Facts, thanks man.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 11:34 PM
1

Haha, pretty accurate tbh. Hard to not fall into that trap after digesting alot of TRP. I guess some of us take it too far sometimes!
/r/askTRP11/09/17 10:52 PM
1

Hey man, thanks for your comment. It's good you bring this up as this is where it gets murky. Unfortunately, we're in the same friend group in our dorm building and as a result see each other pretty often. Definitely going to make an effort to see her less, focus on other people and things, and especially myself. Your point is a very valid one, after all.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 10:51 PM
1

Noted. Thanks for the tip.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 10:46 PM
1

Interesting thought. Mind elaborating a bit, perhaps with an example? Are you suggesting if I start paying attention to solely how she acts I will be turned off? Just a bit confused. Thanks.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 10:41 PM
3

I will work on my feelings and frame. An interesting relevation I had reading your post is that my emotions are pretty wrangled up at the moment, especially following my recent LTR. To answer the question you presented, I guess I have to be honest with myself that to me she seems to be main chick material. I will keep my distance and make her want it more than I do. Thanks for your advice brother, it really helped.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 10:15 PM
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