This might contradict some earlier posts of mine but I’ve been doing a lot of thinking and observing lately and I’m noticing some things that don’t sit well with me in regards to my LTR.

A specific thing was we were drunk last night and she was scrolling through her camera roll showing me vacation pics and I guess by accident she showed me some suggestive pictures she had taken of herself in the mirror of her outfit from last week. This was the same day she went to a bar with a very close gay friend of hers (I’ve met him, cool kid). She brushed it off by saying “oh I didn’t think these were good enough to send you and btw I don’t want you to think I’d ever wear something like that without you out, actually well I did wear it but not like that like it is in these pics” (she was wearing very tight short shorts up her ass essentially with a cut top). She always brags to me how she dresses so conservatively because I’m the only one for her, etc. Goes out of her way to send me pictures of her outfits before she goes out, which I kind of respected tbh not that I’m controlling in that way. So this surprised me.

Idk this instance combined with a few other things: she’s bisexual and always comments how pretty other girls are in front of me, she’s very social and constantly is texting this gay best friend as well as a straight male classmate of hers and apparently he was in her apartment last week as well as countless female friends, before we were official she slept over one of my friends apartments and tried to hide it from me, her family is from another state a few hours away and she visits “back home” 1-2 times a month (which I don’t have a problem with at all) but I know she goes out there too with all her HS friends and tons of guys.

Honestly, I don’t think she’s cheating, I’d have known by now considering how many people I know and trust in our social circle but these behaviors as well as some other minor occurrences are swirling through my head and making me think a bit.

She treats me incredibly well (cleans up my place, laundry, dishes, cooks for me, buys me shit, begged me to meet her family, my family loves her), she is very affectionate and tells me almost daily how much she is obsessed with me, and we are very close. I think my mind might be making something more than what it is but I’ve been having dreams of her cheating (not sure if this is on her or on me for being insecure).

My question is, are these worth a discussion with her? Or should I just continue to observe until it either improves or worsens and move from there? I think breaking this off right now would be based on really presumptuous. Thanks.

Context: SMV is high, high paying career, dress well, hobbies, lots of friends, etc. We’ve been together for 6 months, been fucking for almost 9.