Been hanging with this HB 8.5-9 for 7 weeks now. Still haven't had sex.

On week 4 for she finally uttered the words "fuck me". We were both drunk, I couldn't get it up. No sex. No biggie. I’m banging other chicks anyway.

The IOIs…rings and texts me multiple times a day. She always initiates contact. Says she misses me all the time. Goes out to buy clothes and can't wait to model them for me. She asks when I’m off work so she can book time off with me (in 2018!!).

A week later, she stays over. I couldn't get past fingering. LMR. I turned the lights on, music off and blanked her. She then said we will have sex when it occurs naturally and sees a potential FWB in future. Absolute bullshit. Told her I need sex or this doesn't work for me. She said "Oh, I should have just fucked you". I escalated again. More LMR. Fuck this, I’m off to sleep.

Gave her another chance as she told me I came on too strong the other night. Told my bros the story and they think I did too. The IOIs are still very good. So, 2nd night I acted v cool, got a hand job but still no sex. The next morning, I was completely cold with her. Didn't tell her why. She said she thinks I’m losing interest in her and that I prefer the other chicks I’m banging then she left. She’s always very paranoid about the other girls I’m seeing. Always asking about them. Maybe this is why she hasn’t fucked me? Doesn’t want to be another notch?

That morning I started a soft-next, but she hasn't initiated contact with me. I mean it has only been 2 days I guess. But why? Either she isn’t that interested (her IOIs say otherwise previously multiple calls/text a day) or she thinks I’ve moved on so why bother. Should I wait until she contacts me before contacting her?

Why haven't I hard next her? I have other chicks to bang anyway. She’s the craziest woman I’ve ever met, which is making this a fun chase. She regularly tells me how hot she is and how I'm so lucky to hang out with her. Stupid shit tests, I usually just reply with "aww that's cute".