First Date advice?

abdada · 2017-02-02T20:09:01+00:00

Don't go to the movies.

Take her somewhere that shows off YOUR abilities, not how hot Brad Pitt is with makeup and good lighting.

2435734098 · 2017-02-02T20:44:43+00:00

I dunno why everyone here is saying not to go to the movies. It's fine imo, just meet her before the movie and get comfortable with her, escalate verbally and physically (lots of eye contact, teasing, push-pull, kino), then during the movie you can naturally put your hand on her legs, put your arms around her, make out, etc. Completely fine for a first date.

Oh, make sure you sit in an isolated place in the movie theater, having lots of people around you will make it harder to escalate because she may get conscious of it.

reptile420 · 2017-02-02T20:38:48+00:00

Yes don't goto the movies. Very dependent on how big of a city you live in but look up events in the area. Do a little research and find something that YOU will enjoy. So who knows she might end up sucking at least you have a good time.

I don't drink so it's a little harder to close on the first date but shit your 16 it's definitely harder for you unless shes a slut. So my go to's are gokarts, topgolf (or mini golf) or some sort of local event at a park or downtown.

Feel it out. Grab food first and see how much she is into you. If she's cool switch venues and do some kino when she gets out of the car. Put your hands on her shoulders when shes getting out of the car, or if she's really puting out the vibes rub her leg in the car on the way.

I base my activities on time I'll need to close. If I think I need more time I pick a longer event. Shit somtimes I say lets go back to my place immediately after food or just drive there and don't say anything and they always come in. Just be confident but don't get let down. You're fucking 16! I'm 27 and it only gets easier

RedditAdminsSuck_88 · 2017-02-02T20:09:25+00:00

Don't go to a movie. Hard to run game and kino there, as her attention will be focused on the screen, not you. You are 16 so you are limited in places you can go but movies are not ideal for a first date. You need to go somewhere where you can demonstrate your value and that you can have a good time

HookersAndBlow4ME · 2017-02-02T20:34:31+00:00

Fuck her I did

Nodeal_reddit · 2017-02-03T02:27:07+00:00

https://youtu.be/_ZQrIqAc_OA

Ivabighairy1 · 2017-02-03T09:24:12+00:00

Pool or miniature golf give you great opportunities for kino by showing how to hold the poo cue or putter. Plus a little competition never hurts. Make bets and such.

Title	First Date advice?
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Date	February 2, 2017 8:08 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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