Me and a girl have setup a date a week from now on saturday to play mini golf.

I'm gonna state outright that I'm gonna pay for both our tickets because I choose to.

My question is I know most or TRP is against buying food on the first date because it sets up a provider role.

I'm wondering if there are any upsides to not getting food like us being more focused on each other. Or are there any upsides to having food after?

Let me know

P.S. Ya I read the sidebar, I don't do any stupid annoying shit like text her asking how her day was. I also keep texting to logistics