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This is one of the greatest responses, ever. The only thing I would add is that instead of focusing on what your old buddies are doing, do your own funner, cooler shit. Focus on inward and so people will cross your path organically.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 10:03 AM
1

It's the fight or flight response. It ensures you will do whatever it takes to fight off a perceived threat.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 09:36 AM
2

No worries. Take it at night for best results. IF you start getting diarrhoea then don't take it or take less. That is a sign that you are getting too much zinc.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 04:18 PM
1

Yes. You're hungry, you think about food, you take action to get food. You eat. You're un-motivated, you think about getting motivation. You're motivated. Everything begins with thought. Master that and you can master anything.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 04:17 PM
1

Sleep. Recovery.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:34 AM
1

Listen to them. Don't be a selfish asshole and try to install beliefs and pathways in them to compensate for your own shortcomings if they're not naturally interested in them. 90% of parents raise kids that are "too afraid to do what they love" because they're worried about what their parents might think.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:33 AM
2

Have a cool or funny story ready to go from your journey that day. "OMG, there was this crackhead licking a dog on the train" and it usually spikes her emotions or something because it's an emotional surprise. Gets things rolling and you can build off the momentum.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:30 AM
2

Wash your pillow cases and bedding regularly. Use salicylic acid and benzoyl peroxide in the shower or directly afterwards. Use moisturiser. Wash your hands regularly. Do not touch your face or body with your hands, they're a hive of bacteria. Shower regularly. Do cardio to push sweat and bullshit out of your pores. Eat clean. Cut out dairy. Supplement with zinc.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:27 AM
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You have enough. Practicing will get you where you want to be 100x faster.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:25 AM
1

You'll be better off in more ways than one.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:23 AM
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Sprints are a good anaerobic exercise. I do them once a week. Cardio is a good aerobic exercise, I do 4-8km runs twice a week. Sometimes more or less depending on CNS fatigue. I lift weights 6 days a week. Sprinting benefits are good for building muscle and burning fat. Cardio benefits are good for sleep, mental health, focus and clarity. Both have immense health benefits, if you have time I would recommend doing both.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:20 AM
1

Intimidating is good. Creepy is not. Also, who gives a fuck what anyone thinks? It's all about results and finding happiness in the process. Are you doing what you love? Are you getting good results?
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:12 AM
1

You're so fucking young. You still have 5 more life times to live. It'll come.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:11 AM
2

put it in her butt
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:09 AM
1

Sounds like you need to see a doctor or psychiatrist and sort out your mental health. That is a lot of excuses/negativeity and focusing on that stuff is just pointless. What the mind focuses on, grows. If you look for opportunity, you find it. If you look for girls, you find them. If you think you suck, you suck. Unfortunately you haven't figured out your own mind. Internal game is the most important, work on that and if it's too hard then seek help because the negativity vomit that came out of …
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:06 AM
12

Your 18, realise that 98% of males at that age are beta pussies. If you want to have what most don't, you have to be and act like an anomaly. In fact, it is required.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:01 AM
2

neeeeext
/r/askTRP20/08/19 01:13 PM
1

Meaning?
/r/askTRP20/08/19 07:58 AM
1

Then it's quite obvious that her statement was her qualifying herself to you.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:31 AM
2

Just talk to her and tell her what you want to do. She's not an alien.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:05 AM
2

STD. Set the date.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:04 AM
1

Keep searching, it can be your life mission. You can be the pirate of the seas, except instead of treasure and gold you can search for your mysterious buried face treasure.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:04 AM
17

They're not logical, and you're expecting a logic answer.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:01 AM
1

Depends what you wanna do. I subscribe to building on your strengths, rather than improving weaknesses. I do well in quiet locations rather than loud or noisey ones. I always take girls to empty or unpopular bars or parks. I can fully focus and don't need to worry about anything except the interaction. It works really well for me. Taking those same girls to popular or busy locations is almost always a disaster. I wish it wasn't so, but it's easy to capitalise on my strengths. Focus on what you c…
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:01 AM
6

There's a device on eBay...
/r/askTRP20/08/19 05:58 AM
1

Maybe it's not for you. Do what you love. Stop looking at everyone else and look at yourself. Then align yourself with activities and ideologies that are good because they suit your personality and strengths.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 05:58 AM
2

What was her excuse text? Depending on that will predicate what happens going forward. At first glance, her not arranging another time after cancelling is not a positive.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 05:57 AM
1

Could be a million issues. Go to your doctor. Get some Viagra, always handy to have as a plan B. It also will alleviate performance anxiety concerns, so it's hitting two birds with one stone. How's your diet? Are you cutting weight? When in a caloric deficit libido can be affected. Could be a symptom of a more serious health issue, so see your doc. Get some meds and run a few scans. 99% chance it's nothing so don't stress too much. Control what you can, leave the rest.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 05:55 AM
1

She's trying to filter out the weak mean from the stronger ones. Weak men will be discouraged by a statement like that. P.S: Provide more context next time so we can pinpoint it better. Are you talking to her at the gym? Have you had past convos about it? Then maybe she's trying to re-establish a conversation topic. It's hard for us to help without more details.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 05:53 AM
1

Definitely not oneitis lol. I am fucking other plates, we have a purely sexual interaction and I know fuck all about her or her life and visa versa. We only text to set up a time to meet and never more. The second part of your comment reads true though, thank you.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 04:43 AM
1

While I'm working on the project, it means if we want to meet it will take time to travel and cost some cash. An hour there and back. Plus we usually fuck 5-6 times each meeting, overnight stays. Once a week. No personal talk, only sex on the menu type of interaction.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 03:43 AM
1

Do what you love doing. Happiness is a process, not a state that is suddenly achieved.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 03:38 AM
1

See if they're cool with this: Ask them if you can text them when you're bringing a bird back to your place so they can hide in the bedroom while you bring her through. And again when you exit her from the house. If they say yes = profit GG
/r/askTRP20/08/19 03:37 AM
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I would write down what your values are. This question really comes down to your self-awareness. If you know yourself, what you stand for and what you want out of life then you will have the answer you seek. Dedicate a block of time to writing down what you want in life, what your strengths and weaknesses are, what you want to improve and your goal in writing these things down is that your end goal is happiness for YOU.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 03:33 AM
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Yeah, poor form. She's just a fart in the wind now. Doesn't know what she's missing. It's a big L for her.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 06:34 AM
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Me: Meet me up at 7PM and come and find out for yourself Her: Hahaha gonna work tonight i can't Her: Oohhh sounds you so demanding, i don't want someone who will text me if they just wanted to 😊 Me: No problem. Have a good day/night. Her: Ok, best of luck. You know i am looking for serious long term partner and not a drinking buddy 😊 Enjoy your night No dice but it was worth the roll. Not sure this is really worth the effort to turn around. If she was really into it she would make meeting up eas…
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:19 AM
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Thank you sir. No nonsense reply and straight to the source. I like it.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:39 AM
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For context: Her: “Good morning, how’s your party last night?😄” Me: “It was amazing, you missed out little one. 😉” Her: “Hahaha that's fine, lot of next time for me😊“ Me: “When's your next free night?” Her: “I do got plenty of free time but i dunno if it's worth it wasting it with you😁🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️” So it seems like push-pull. Something that she wants to do via text. I’m not interested in that kind of thing, I want to get her out in person ASAP. So I’m looking for the angle to come at it so to skip…
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:34 AM
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It’s via text. We’ve met before. It’s her being playful. She’s a 7-8. I’m definitely wanting to fuck her because my roster is lacking variety because fucking the same girls is starting to get boring. She’s really playful like this which is why I think in bed she’d be fun.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:29 AM
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Good luck!
/r/askTRP13/08/19 08:12 AM
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It doesn't matter. My general rule of thumb with professionals is this: Doctors with further studies > Younger doctors > Doctors (Older doctors that have further studies demonstrate a willingness to continue to learn and study. They are not going to be working with old or outdated knowledge as much. Younger doctors are working with more recent education and thus know about more advanced medicine when compared to an older doctor with less further studies.)
/r/askTRP12/08/19 05:21 AM
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You'll probably get prescribed a stimulant to suppress appetite, in which case, your work should improve even more. Win win scenario.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 03:29 AM
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Okay. Get some Viagra. Tell all this to your Doctor. He may want to run scans as well, to rule out any problems. This could be anything from a blood pressure issue, enlarged prostate issue, mechanical issue or a symptom of another disease. He will know what to do, but while the Doc figures it out, at least you can get hard and fuck. No loss scenario.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 03:28 AM
1

How much alcohol do you consume on average? And yes, why not? It's a good tool to have in your toolbox.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 02:41 PM
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I think you're missing the point.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 09:15 AM
2

Remember that professional athletes who eat 100% clean, don't drink alcohol, exercise with cardio, lift weights and have fantastic social circles: do suffer from depression. Just because you do the right "healthy" things doesn't mean you are immune to health issues. Even mental health issues. Sometimes the best thing you can do is see a professional. The correct medication at the correct dosage prescribed from a knowledgable Psychiatrist can make a world of difference.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 09:04 AM
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If you're both enjoying yourselves, for hours and hours.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 09:00 AM
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It's a mental health issue. See a Psych.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 09:00 AM
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The last thing you should do is try to have a logical conversation. Think like a woman. She just wants to feel safe and desired. You're perking up her feelings of abandonment and it's making her insecurity. If you really want to execute your plan, you need to make her feel safe and desired. Not with words, but with actions that invoke those emotions.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 08:59 AM
3

Have some self control and discipline. ​ All good things in life are a result of those two things. And you severely lack both.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 08:56 AM
3

You're focusing on changing for this one girl. It should be the other way round.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 08:55 AM
3

What is your caloric intake? How often do you lift? How is your thinking/feeling? Nothing wrong with having some Viagra in the wallet/cupboard. In case of emergency you can break glass. It also gives you that peace of mind of always having a back up plan for your Johnson.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 08:54 AM
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First: Use paragraphs in your sentences. Watch girls actions. If she liked you, she would have made it easy for you to hang out or get in contact. Also this whole interaction screams, 14 year old high school.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 08:51 AM
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Let me make it up to you... *pick her up and then insert your peen into her vag*
/r/askTRP11/08/19 08:49 AM
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You are intellectualising and using logic to understand an emotional creature. Stop that.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:00 PM
1

Ah. Do some shit that interests you. Follow your nose. If that plan fails, do something that makes you uncomfortable but will help you grow as a person.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:49 PM
1

If you've been in a sudden or prolonged caloric deficit, then usually a day or two of caloric surplus puts libidio back on track. Not back to 100% but back up to 75% levels. Man I started a cut about 9 weeks ago and it was a big deficit. I got a harsh experience of how much food affects the brain. I was depressed, irritated, no sex drive, depressed, couldn't sleep and had no energy. Ate a few pizzas over a weekend about 2 weeks later and it levelled me out but I'll always remember that while cut…
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:48 PM
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AWALT. There isn't too much deviation in girls, they all have the same characteristics, fundamental biological impulses and societal compliance. They do vary in appearance and 20% is different in personality. Why the fuck would you bother wasting your time on dissecting a woman by their clothing style? Would an environmental spider expert dissect a spiders web to figure out a spider? No. All spiders from the same species are the same with slight small variations. Women are the same.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:32 PM
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Yeah, usually because I get bored of the routine/lifestyle or have better things to do. My interest will pick up again in a few days usually. It also happens when I'm cutting. Libido and energy levels are low and my body doesn't have enough energy to build muscle, it definitely doesn't wanna chase some puss when on a biological level I'm in a caloric deficit and stupid cave man biology wants me to fucking hunt and gather to survive as a priority.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:28 PM
5

It's actually a good thing. Because on the surface that is considered the norm, when you grab a women and fuck her within a few hours; This is especially awesome with girls who have little or no experience with a man who is this way inclined. It turns them on. They love someone who goes after what they want and are sexually confident. If everybody was chad, do you know how difficult this stuff would be? So, Thank fucking god society is this way. It means we can polarise and execute a unique skil…
/r/askTRP10/08/19 01:50 PM
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Talk about whatever pops in your head. There are NO correct conversation topics. "Look how awesome that wall is! What do you think it's made out of? Oak? My family used to have an old oak tree in the backyard and we would swing on it after school when I was 5. Wasn't childhood fun? What's your most happiest memory as a child? Really? Why is that your happiest memory? you wierdo -tease-, Okay you are officially the biggest dork. It's okay, dorks are fun." This is an example of how to talk about a…
/r/askTRP10/08/19 01:44 PM
2

What's the point in going on a vacation if you're going somewhere boring? May as well stay at home...
/r/askTRP10/08/19 01:39 PM
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You'll find out in general conversation. You can easily deduce a women's financial situation by asking a few acceptable questions. These questions are: What do you do for work? What hobbies do you enjoy? Do you travel? Follow those questions to the end point and you'll have no problem deducing a womens financial situation.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 01:38 PM
3

Be congruent in your actions and thoughts. Men have the advantage of using logic when experiencing emotions. An example of this: We have the ability to feel sad, but show no signs of it because we recognise logically that it's a biological response to external stimuli. Women have a much much harder time with this, as I'm sure you're aware of. A further example: Men have a much better time separating the big 3. Emotions, thoughts, actions. Women appear to experience the big 3 as just 1.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 01:33 PM
4

"but doesnt escelate unless its been like 3 or 4 days" Are you a women or a man?
/r/askTRP29/07/19 10:26 AM
3

People learn the best by teaching others. Therefore AskTRP is a bunch of people learning and growing at different rates. TRP feels less open to criticism, external opinion and individualism. I cringe at a lot of posts on TRP.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 10:25 AM
1

It makes you uncomfortable because they can do something you can't. It's just human nature, and you can't ignore it because it's right in your face. Learn the language, go to another country who speaks your language or find a girl who respects you enough to not make you uncomfortable by talking to other guys. But really this is a huge reflection on who you are and how you view yourself. If you were a confident man with value, who cares if other guys talk to the girls you're with. You are the pri…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 10:23 AM
11

Time heals all. Gym speeds it up.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 10:15 AM
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she already got to you as your making this post ​ this is a classic test. to see if your a strong confident man... just laugh and move on to the next subject, or say shit like "we should invite him over for dinner" of course that's never gonna happen. But it shows that you're confident enough to know your worth and that your not worried about losing her because you have value. And no other man can match your value. So it's her loss. Don't let shit tests like these affect you, brush em off and do…
/r/askTRP25/07/19 04:00 PM
9

One of the methods that developers use is bright colours to grip your attention. ​ Greyscale your phone. Seriously, it makes using your phone a mundane and un-exciting thing. It looks horrible.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 06:10 AM
1

https://www.additudemag.com/adult-test-for-add-adhd/ Print it off and highlight symptoms you may have. If you think it's a probability, It'll help to communicate your symptoms. Bring it to your therapist. No problems and good luck.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 05:21 AM
1

What the hell are you even talking about lmao
/r/askTRP24/07/19 06:50 AM
-1

Your data is incorrect. I can link you studies from the early 80’s showing smoking is definitively bad. I can even link some from the 70’s that had concerns. Link me something that backs up your claim and I’ll give you credit
/r/askTRP24/07/19 06:49 AM
1

How’s your LTR going?
/r/askTRP24/07/19 06:48 AM
1

I love getting financial tips from those who can't spend 2 hundo
/r/askTRP24/07/19 04:57 AM
1

Ill advised for plates. Important for LTR. The rules change.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:42 AM
-1

Nothing to do with that. I do things that are proven in science. Like weightlifting has 10,000 published studies. I trust it and make that time investment. Eating healthy leads to a happier longer life? 1,000’s of studies. Better do that. Nofap has zero studies? Hmmm yup, better sign up for 6 months, seems legit. May as well take up eating caterpillars as my only diet source because there’s about as much science behind that being beneficial, as no-fap.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:41 AM
1

I’m sorry to hear that.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:37 AM
1

Why are you so needy?
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:35 AM
1

Yes, especially when the argument is just “you’re spending too much money on girl”. The only reason anyone would say that is they didn’t have money to spend and it would be a financial burden to them. If money = freedom and options. Why would you ever define women as completely unworthy of spending money with? Lol. So the ideology of those down voters and those calling me out for this, is that it’s okay to spend money on anything. But never spend money with girls. It’s pretty ridiculous. It just…
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:34 AM
1

Depends how much money you make. Obviously those downvoting can’t spare $200 here and there lol. I thought TRP encourages lack of scarcity mindset? Not just with girls but with finance. If you’re against spending that kind of money the only reason is it would be a financial burden to you. Doesn’t mean those with means can’t spend money. Your whole argument revolves around: “spending too much money”. That’s it.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:30 AM
2

You messed up. Guy X obviously fucked her. And you paid for Guy X and her drinks after they left. Your second mistake was that when she texted you the next day you were very serious, and talking way to logical. Volunteering wayyy to much information. Girls want things to be light hearted and casual. The same way she texted you at the start about her dress. Your third mistake is putting this in your post: "not going to waste any more time or resources on someone who isn't really interested when I…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 06:58 PM
3

Yes. This exactly. If people can spend money on other things like paying for your family's dinner, the gym, travelling, or other activities; then I'm totally okay in my mind to spend money with a girl. Not to buy her attention or sex. But for the experience and memory of a great night. I'd rather spend my money doing that then most other things. If it was just about buying sex then I would buy a prostitute. But it's about having fun, going to a cool bar and then fucking like a king in a elegant …
/r/askTRP23/07/19 06:48 PM
3

If she's hot then put some work into the conversation. Over 1-2 days max, maybe 10-20 messages. If she's ugly or average, just move on. It's a numbers game and you don't have time to waste on mediocrity right?
/r/askTRP23/07/19 06:42 PM
1

Yeah I'm always right. To re-cap: I buy myself a little time and value with my story and sharing information. They invest in that value I'm providing, then I slowly take away my story and information but guess what, I'm still the same guy, I'm still giving and showing that high SMV. They start investing more and more because they can't help themselves. I now have all the power dynamic and can do what I want.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 06:36 PM
2

There's a different undertone to the night, right!? There's something majestic about plowing some girl for the 5th time on a balcony looking out into the lights of the city. Even after a night of zero sleep, and multiple fucks, that seedy check-out in the morning is all part of that feeling. It's fun and a dream for logistics.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 06:32 PM
1

I appreciate the advice. However, that amount of money is of no concern to me.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 06:26 PM
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Just laugh after you say shit. Have you been a good little girl and done what I asked you to? With a wry smile and a condescending hilarious facial expression. Treating women like children isn't a literal concept. It's on an emotion level and is all about the tone and delivery.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 06:10 PM
1

Why not? You seem to have a real issue with spending money on hotels and things others enjoy doing. My options are this: Spend about the same amount of money on an uber home. Grab an early train at 6PM and then enjoy the monotonous distance it takes to get home via train. Grab a hotel and fuck within 10 minutes of our location, it's central in location meaning she and I can leave as we please. And there's just a much better feeling of fucking and railing a chicks pussy in a hotel. It's hot. Clea…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 06:05 PM
2

I fucked a prostitute once overseas. Never again, emotionless transactional sex isn't really my thing. I'm more into splashing my cash on things I enjoy. Like drinking, experiences and a warm bed at the end of the night.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:49 PM
1

Use that first sentence and start with that. Emotion is good, it'll help heal everything and make it seem genuine. It's a win-win for both of you. PM me and tell me how it went if ya want.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:47 PM
2

I would pay money just to see that crack flat you live in and your bank account. Literally. PM me anytime. Sounds like you could use the extra cash.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:45 PM
17

Your SMV is rising. The older girls are the first to send the IOI's. As you keep improving yourself and your looks, the girls will get younger and younger in correlation with improvement.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:44 PM
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You're a fucking retard. I have to take the train into the city, they stop running at night. Do you suggest we spend our time in the botanical gardens with no food or drink and then fuck and then sleep outside in sub 0 weather? If I have money and decide that I want to spend it to prevent the above scenario, I think that's fucking okay bro.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:40 PM
1

You can't really. We're all born with different oddities. It's how we work with what we've got that counts. If you put in the effort to look attractive, you can be. Only if you're willing to run that marathon. This guy has no intentions of doing that, and he's probably just fine with it.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:31 PM
-5

Imagine having so little money, that you can't spend just $200 on a fun experience with a chick.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:30 PM
1

Talk to her as soon as you can before it gets weird.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:27 PM
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So this is standard then? Ignoring her calls won’t fix this for the future? This shit. This is playing games. You're in a relationship and acting like a fucking child. Purposefully ignoring calls and coming to ATRP subreddit for answers for your LTR. Just grow a pair because there's no avoiding the fact that you need honest communication. Talk to each other about how you feel and sort it out together. This is how a LTR works. If you can't do that and you just want to treat your LTR like a plate,…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:25 PM
1

Yes. Be sincere and honest. Not for her, but for you. So you can look back and say that you highlighted everything that was an issue together. So she has/had the opportunity to learn from it and improve in the future. Always try to leave women a little better off then when you met them.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:22 PM
1

He will be soon on this subreddit. The guy is a fucking cave goblin.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:20 PM
1

I feel ya. I'd take you out for a beer if I could mate.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:19 PM
1

Lifting would help, definitely. Look at the face and neck, there is barely any muscle anywhere. A walking skeleton with skin. Just increasing this guys protein intake by 30g a day would help. I mean fuck me, this guy looks like he has been sitting down in a well for 2 years straight and just re-emerged. I'd love to see a side by side comparison between a holocaust survivor and this guy. They'd be pretty similar. Malnutrition and lack of exercise really does take its toll. Don't even comment, jus…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:18 PM
-1

Just communicate with each other and stop playing games. If you wanna have a relationship you have to act like an adult, if you can't do that then you may as well break up because that's what it takes to maintain a relationship. They are fucking hard and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise. There's like a 98% likelihood you will break up so you may as well go down trying if you actually care about her. The majority of "game" and red pill tactics are not designed for relationships. Some are …
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:13 PM
1

As I replied above, we attract what we are. It's human nature to look at others struggling and to feel like shit. It's in our DNA to increase survival. It doesn't mean I'm going to give food to amputees in Afghanistan, that shit is never-ending. The line must be drawn somewhere, and it starts with you. Sleep on it though, it should take the sting out of the wound.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:09 PM
1

Ta
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:07 PM
1

We attract what we are. But as a man of TRP, you should be concentrating on your own busy life. Right?
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:07 PM
1

It's a dog eat dog world. That's for sure.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:05 PM
2

Hotel: $100 Drinks/food: $50-100 It makes me only date girls if they're hot and worth it. Also, I never spend any money until I figure them out in the first 20 minutes. I will definitely know that we're gonna fuck, you will too, before you start spending money on a hotel or lots of drinks. Just use your brain BE LOGICAL.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:03 PM
1

Also, always remember you can't help someone unless they want to help themselves. It's not your fight, it's hers. If she's serious about getting better, she will find a way. You have zero role to play in any of it.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:59 PM
2

That's fair. But what we tolerate in others, we tolerate in ourself. You don't want to end up like her right?
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:58 PM
11

You must be retarded. Break up with her. It can be done in 5 seconds. From start to finish. Then go and fuck your fat ass plates.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:56 PM
2

You're missing the point, lol. Everybody on the planet who has ever existed, looks different than every other person. We're all unique. It's just a funny thing to write and a funny thing to read.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:55 PM
1

A women who is into you with give you every chance to contact her. SM, Number whatever it is. I know younger women who have pulled that card on me. They're too young to understand that SM isn't everything because they've been practically brainwashed by society to use it like North Korean style. It's not her fault, but I always expect that shit with younger women. If you get that reaction from her, I'd soft next because her interest level is too low.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:52 PM
6

I usually build comfort and rapport by being honest and sharing my stories and life experiences with a woman for the first hour or two. Then I begin to gradually become more mysterious and vague. This is the exact OPPOSITE of what most guys do. The more time they spend with a girl, the more invested the guy gets and the more needy he gets. Once I know she feels safe enough to fuck me 1-2 hours, then the deal is already done and she's made up her mind. Why blow it by talking too much or ruining t…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:48 PM
2

Sounds like ADHD. Getting bored of things easily, no long term focus, constantly doing new things until they get boring and then moving onto the next thing, escaping from reality etc. etc. All hallmarks of ADHD, particularly the inattentive subtype. Have a look.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:44 PM
2

I look different than every other person. This made me laugh
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:42 PM
9

"Trying to break up with girlfriend" It's not a nuclear warhead software management task. Just do it ya fuckin puss puss.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:41 PM
2

Do you love her? Is she your best friend? Could you see yourself being together for the rest of your life? If you answered no to any of those questions it's time to say goodbye.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:38 PM
4

Be confident. Sober sex feels so much better. Just stay outside of your own head and let things happen naturally. Each time you date/fuck while sober gets a little easier. Similar to when we all started game. Without alcohol, the anxiety gets higher and the sociability is lower. Keep those in mind and expect that going into it. Remember that it gets easier over time and the sex will/is fucking incredible, compared to when drinking.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:36 PM
2

I alternate. There needs to be a certain level of disclosure to establish comfort. It's human social science. People are more likely to divulge more about themselves and feel more comfortable if the other person does it first. But usually it's within the first hour or two. Afterwards, when I know the girl is comfortable sleeping with me, I become more and more vague and mysterious. It's just to establish basic rapport otherwise, it's going to be hella awkward with 50% of girls who want to know w…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:31 PM
1

Make sure you do it too. It may not seem like it now, especially because of your situation but: it might just change your life. At the very least you tried something new that could have a life changing influence on you. Too many people get to 60+ and finally get help, and now they’re a completely different person but they don’t have the time to accomplish what they could of, if they got help in their younger years. You know? You don’t need to tell anybody either. So don’t worry about anybody els…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 12:04 PM
1

You're coming from the assumption that you've done something wrong. I think your thought process is way off with this one. I don't know what your interactions with the law and police are, but in my experience police officers, men or women just want to do their job. They'll leave you alone if you haven't done anything wrong. It has no correlation to women or TRP at all. In fact I highly doubt any female police officer is going to "lose emotion" if you tell her everything. She's just doing a job m…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 06:24 AM
1

It's your body telling you that it NEEDS something. Will you answer it's call? Lol at your peen trying to call the shots.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 03:24 AM
1

Don't try so hard? With women I'm pretty aloof. I could take it or leave it, and when I take it, it's because I'm feeling it. Take a break from TRP and dating for a week. Come back to it fresh, I can tell you've put a lot of time and effort into your post. And what you've described is try hard. Your issue isn't not trying enough. (Which is impressive because 90% of ATRP questions come from those not trying hard enough) So I think a break is best and adopt a more carefree mindset. If you're not i…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 03:23 AM
1

Fucking lol. Take my up vote bro. Straight savage no nonsense logical simple answer. It's rare these days.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 03:16 AM
1

Forgiveness = tolerance. If you start tolerating mediocrity then you'll start becoming mediocre. It's as simple as that.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 03:14 AM
1

It's a mindset thing. Re-structure the way you think about it and you'll be okay. This is just textbook, self limitation.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 03:13 AM
3

Uhhh. Rate the pussy out of ten. Then. Rate your job out of ten. Whichever is higher wins. God speed!
/r/askTRP23/07/19 03:11 AM
66

Personal improvement in alignment with TRP ideology started happening 6 years ago. I found TRP ~2 years ago. It's only now that I feel like I'm really embodying what the TRP is and teaches. The point of me sharing this with you is that this thing isn't a sprint. It's a marathon. And guess what? I still have a million things I need to work on. It's a never-ending process of improving myself. So let me throw this back at you, how long have you being doing this for?
/r/askTRP23/07/19 03:10 AM
1

thank you for your time and contributions sir.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 03:04 AM
5

How to apply dread: Do fun shit when she's not around that leaves her guessing what your doing and who you're with. Do not do this by your words, texts etc. Do this with your actions, otherwise you'll most likely fuck it up. Hobbies? Prioritise education, yourself and your health. After that, find things that interest you. Too many kids are slaughtering their lives away with video games. As a former player for 20+ I can guarantee that 99.99% of gamers wasted their time on that stuff, in terms of…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 03:02 AM
2

One-itis = one girl in life Stop one-itis = multiple girls in life
/r/askTRP23/07/19 02:04 AM
1

What’s the point in doing fun things and improving your life if you feel like shit mentally? Fix your mental health first. Always work on what’s inside to attract what’s outside. Go see the specialist so he can advise on whether a helping hand is needed.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 02:02 AM
6

You are defending her from every negative comment while your original post screams SAVE ME FROM THIS CRAZY FUCKING WOMEN. You sir have been turned into a raging white knight beta by this woman. You’re conditioned. Fight the fight or GTFO this subreddit because you’re being illogical and inconsistent with your goals.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 01:57 AM
2

5 weeks, you sent out 10 applications. You sir, are a workhorse. You are working too hard, you need to slow down more. Try de-stressing by hanging out in bed all day. Remove all challenge from your life. Just play video games and watch TV. Don’t see friends. Don’t talk to family. Don’t workout. This will be great for your mental health, trust me. You deserve this.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 01:54 AM
2

“Women are like police officers” ????????
/r/askTRP23/07/19 01:47 AM
3

if you like reading about anecdotal personal reports with no scientific basis in the literature including the entire ncbi database. Yup, it definitely is REAL. 😂
/r/askTRP23/07/19 01:46 AM
8

Exposure therapy.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 01:43 AM
1

I’m not sure I can’t answer that. It’s one I’ve been pondering a bit lately. I’m leaning toward the do it on your own schedule angle. Like, when it suits you, when your logistics for the week are straightened out and you have some down time and energy to do stuff. Set it up so that it falls within in your free time. Whenever that may be or however that comes about.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 02:49 PM
2

Yup. Simple economics. Supply and demand. Provide value = get customers.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:21 AM
9

To answer your question, if you are high enough SMV or portrayed yourself as high enough SMV she would have been itching to see you again. All you can really do is shoot her a message, say your going to x at x time. she should come. Everything you need to know is in her reply to that and her subsequent action. Which there are 3 outcomes. She says yes and you meet. She says no but suggests another time. She says no. In order of good, medium and bad. That's the chain of command, no escaping it. Ho…
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:19 AM
2

Yup. He's in denial. Also I think OP forgets that we are doing the exact same thing. As a high SMV man with lots of options, why settle or stagnate when there's so many avenues to explore. Especially if she's not as good or at the level that we have to select from. In summary, he's just getting a taste of what real men do to HB9+'s. Lol.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:14 AM
2

I usually preface a hand hold by saying something jovial with a fun undertone like “oh we need to celebrate insert stupid illogical reason, we’ll have lots of fun tonight” For example: she says “Today is the third week I’ve been in the country” Me: “Wow! We need to celebrate, tonight let’s have some fun” Then grab her hand with direct intention and swing it playfully a few times while leading. Give her a smile. It’s all in the tone, delivery and body language in the swing. It never fails and the…
/r/askTRP21/07/19 11:51 PM
5

How good was that grand final?! Stayed up until about 6AM here in NZ. Still can’t believe it went for four off of stokes bat!
/r/askTRP21/07/19 09:05 PM
6

What have you been fucking? O_O
/r/askTRP21/07/19 08:47 PM
18

Get out there and do it. It’s exposure therapy. The best and most proven form of getting rid of social anxiety with women. So put your big boy pants on and suck it up. Go slay some Indian poon. In some ways I envy you and the journey you’re about to embark upon. It’s one of the most fulfilling and empowering quests. You’re going to see so much progress and rewards soon, just make sure you push yourself out of your comfort zone and keep making gains. Side note: Bad luck on the World Cup this year…
/r/askTRP21/07/19 08:45 PM
1

A real man doesn't wait to get what he wants.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 12:55 PM
1

if you're drinking regularly, give it some time without the drink to full appreciate sober lifestyle. You have to give time for your brain to re-wire. People like to play off alcohol as harmless but it really will wreak havoc on your entire body. Try and go out sober for the first time, or game women sober for the first time, you will feel like complete shit and suck ass. Probably stumble over words, get anxious as fuck and feel uncomfortable. Even after a few weeks of drinking and doing activit…
/r/askTRP21/07/19 12:54 PM
1

Fear of succeeding? Most people want to be highly successful, known and desirable. 99.9% of people. "Oh but ATRP2019, I'm saving the ocean from plastic and have a stable income and I just want to save the world and I don't wanna be popular". That guy is full of shit and is rationalising their shitty position in life and the decisions they made.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 12:48 PM
1

You mention nothing about going on dates, initiating plans, setting up dates, escalation with strangers, approaching. In regards to women. Who are you talking to? Dudes and grandmas? If you talk to enough people and you're a well rounded man with high SMV you can fuck pretty easily. I could walk up to 10 girls today and fuck at least a couple if I pleased. Who are you talking to?
/r/askTRP21/07/19 12:41 PM
1

check mate
/r/askTRP21/07/19 12:37 PM
1

It's human nature to get horny and fuck. We have fuck all biological self control. The next day when you're not there, the biological draw had vanished. She wanted to be fucked. You didn't display a high enough SMV during your time together. She's someone else's now. NB: It's impossible to know what happened. Maybe she cheated and can't believe she did it and is hamstring. Maybe she has a sex-addiction and her counsellor told her to delete you? Maybe some beta fuck blocked you so he could isolat…
/r/askTRP21/07/19 12:34 PM
16

will help with sleeping most likely. everyones different tho. In my experience, anything that kills anxiety, kills a certain amount of personality. Anxiousness can give you edge, direct your words and make the pay off of sex SO MUCH BETTER. It 's better to relieve anxiety due to exposure than artificially.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 12:27 PM
11

A mission that is bigger than women. Women are just a hobby for him. He always gets what he wants, even if they resist him. He's a bad boy. He's well cultured, knows 7 languages and is a risk taker. He has experience with women and never doubts himself or his value. His only LTR passed away, and never got into a LTR ever again. He has a great natural physique. He's constantly fucking up other dudes with his aggression. It's his job to be secretive. But you'll observe he is always mysterious. He …
/r/askTRP21/07/19 12:21 PM
1

grab a cosmo cocktail, call up all your girlfriends and have a girls night where you don't need men to have fun!!!! ​ ....... ......then get fucked by chad.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 12:16 PM
1

this is part of your journey dude. TRP teaches you to improve and become a better man. it's all just pieces of a puzzle. Get into the habit of solving your own problems and I guarantee it'll be a lot more rewarding. You're putting yourself in a box btw. "My SMV is too low to pick up good quality women." "I can't fuck ugly girls because I'll feel embarrassed/dissapointed" Pick one of those problems and do something about it. Swallow the goddamn pill and man the fuck up.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 12:13 PM
1

its a mindset change. get women because YOU want to. do what YOU want to do. do what's best for YOU. ​ TLDR: improve YOU Shit mindset: I want lots of plates so OTHER people respect me. be a pushover because you don't want to hurt OTHER peoples feelings. don't challenge a girls bullshit because the OTHER person might reject you. etc etc. TLDR: improve based on OTHER people (society, women, your parents)
/r/askTRP21/07/19 12:08 PM
2

do it with people you don't care if it doesn't work out well. so then you can just next afterwards no problems. ​ I don't like feet but you can do anything if you put your mind to it. maybe just get her heaps horny first though? which is a given right? lol.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 12:02 PM
9

same thing that would happen if men died or disappeared from any part of society. fucking mayhem and disorder.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 12:00 PM
13

James Bond
/r/askTRP21/07/19 11:58 AM
16

bartender
/r/askTRP21/07/19 11:53 AM
1

ASD
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:36 AM
6

You’re not the SMV that you think you are bro. Or you’re not portraying yourself as that to these girls. Otherwise logically there is no other possible answer.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:36 AM
2

you ruined it
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:33 AM
1

Yup this
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:33 AM
1

Do things that make you uncomfortable. Keep doing them until you succeed. Then you’re confident and DGAF attitude comes through because no matter what you were afraid to do, you did and eventually conquered. No matter what.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:31 AM
2

so wholesome :’)
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:29 AM
2

You already know what’s wrong and what you need to do you fuck. You just want attention and people to talk about YOU and YOUR LIFE. How about grow a fucking pair and get off your ass and do some work and improve yourself. Instead of being a whiney emotional bitch which is the obvious reason no woman wants to get near you or your beta ways.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:29 AM
2

Okay. THANK YOU FOR SHARING
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:25 AM
2

You’re over thinking it man. Think about where hot women frequently go. Go to that place. (Excluding toilets and shit like that you weirdos)
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:24 AM
2

ASD
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:23 AM
3

16 as a guess
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:22 AM
0

Just get head but she’s gonna try and fuck you to test your frame. She might even see how high your desire is for her by seeing if she can make you fuck. You do you man. Let us know how it goes eh
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:22 AM
1

I’d say the majority.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:16 AM
5

Agreed. It’s just human nature. We think we do, but we have no fucking self control when it comes to sex. Both men and women. It’s fucking disgusting but we love it.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:15 AM
1

yup. will meet up wit her tmrw
/r/askTRP18/07/19 05:29 PM
3

so a quick update. I bailed from the bar. ​ she gave me her instagram which has real hot photos of her and her number. I plan to see her tomorrow. ​ she's a bit of a cougar but ill be fucking her in about 2 weeks no problems. ​ thanks for all your help. :D
/r/askTRP18/07/19 05:28 PM
1

I tried. There’s 1 hour until she knocks off. There’s no more drinking. Should I wait until close and try my chances or go home now and hit her up another time? Dude I have a date tomorrow at 6pm but meeting with my friend for a drink at 1pm at this pub so I’ll see her again tomorrow. Please advice I’m so drunk lmao
/r/askTRP18/07/19 04:50 PM
2

I did the deed. We exchanged numbers. But now she cut me off. It’s 3AM so no more drinks. Should I just go home and hit her up another time?
/r/askTRP18/07/19 04:49 PM
1

I have a girl at mine waiting for me
/r/askTRP18/07/19 04:06 PM
-1

Fuck man help me
/r/askTRP18/07/19 04:06 PM
0

Bro she’s working. 2 hours to go. She can’t leave her shift. She’s got a man waiting in her bedroom at her house apparently but I’m outside having a smoke and she keeps staring and giving IOIs
/r/askTRP18/07/19 04:06 PM
1

Dude just stick it in already
/r/askTRP17/07/19 12:18 PM
1

What meds?
/r/askTRP17/07/19 12:16 PM
1

What interests do you have? Hobbies? I can't write your script though and you probably don't want to have anyone else write it either.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 03:44 AM
2

Haha. Not surprised. Vulnerability = connection. Pretty cool though. That's a long spin buddy.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 03:43 AM
0

Don’t pick up a bad habit of drinking. Enjoy yourself but do cool shit that interests you. Get cultured. You’ll find women doing those things too. Think mountains, natural wonders, exhibitions, events, beaches, wildlife and have those experiences that will shape you for years to come. Not much comes out of poisoning your system and hanging around others who enjoy fucking themselves up for fun.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 05:37 PM
1

Get medicated. If you can’t do life by yourself with your own free will. You need a helping hand from the Doc.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 05:33 PM
5

I call people boss all the time. Similar as saying “mate or “brother” or “bro or “dude”.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 05:30 PM
5

Share them with ones you don’t care about or aren’t invested in. That way if it backfires, you just pump and dump. On to the next one.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 05:29 PM
2

Get into a relationship with her. Waste 5 years only to realise she’s a piece of shit and you two were never right for each other. Then you move on and become a real man.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 05:26 PM
1

In the gym
/r/askTRP16/07/19 05:24 PM
1

Gary Vaynerchuk on YouTube goes alright.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 05:16 PM
-1

Nice
/r/askTRP16/07/19 05:01 PM
-1

Fuck up virgin cunt
/r/askTRP16/07/19 04:59 PM
2

Thanks for a normal answer.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 02:51 PM
2

Thank you for a normal answer.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 02:51 PM
1

I only posted this because the thought occurred to me that it would be interesting to see what creative answers people use. I've been testing a bunch out. Some more aggressive, some more passive, some humorous. It's a fucking shame that I can't ask a simple question in this sub. Without an explanation you get fucking berated. It's also hilarious that people waste their time to write ridiculous comments like those that have been posted. If you used your time wisely, instead of spending time "help…
/r/askTRP16/07/19 02:50 PM
1

Thank you. And yes, agreed. Sending it off now.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 10:09 AM
2

Ya. One is here at the moment. It’s just general question as it’s a touchy sensitive area that I haven’t really encountered before
/r/askTRP12/07/19 10:08 AM
1

Pretty good read. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 05:11 AM
4

So you fucked two girls and then sent her a video of it. Then you’re all like fuck HER and blaming it all on how much you hate women who give you comfort. Good to see you taking responsibility. On another note you have good story telling and writing skills. I enjoyed reading your post. Good luck on your journey.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 06:01 PM
2

One of the best replies to a post on TRP I’ve read. My thoughts coincide with yours and thank you for the chuckle. Good day to you badass motherfucker.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 01:37 PM
1

User name checks out lel
/r/askTRP30/06/19 12:50 PM
1

The fact that you went to the lengths to stalk my reddit profile and go through my posts definitely says a lot. Keep going with your “lead by example with actions” philosophy thing. 😂 I’m a complete random on the internet calling you out and I can smell the insecurity from here. Also mad props for quitting booze. I can respect it.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 12:34 PM
-1

You’re definitely the god of all men and bearer of fruitful wisdom. Please bless us mere low lights and never unplug your internet connection or how will we all ever learn TRP ever again? 😂😂
/r/askTRP30/06/19 12:19 PM
1

You should track how much time you’re wasting in your day tracking things.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 12:10 PM
6

Fingers crossed you see the light at the end of the tunnel and pull through some day. When you’re ready.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 12:05 PM
2

Just bang prostitutes. Problem solved. Some of us actually appreciate femininity and women.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 12:05 PM
4

I’m only trying to help you. Good luck.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 12:03 PM
1

You’re thinking too much.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 12:02 PM
5

Judging from your posts on reddit you are seriously unwell my friend and need to seek a psychiatric evaluation. The stuff you’ve posted on reddit is psychotic, schizophrenic and/or manic. Please seek help.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 11:59 AM
3

Lol user name checks out.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 11:51 AM
-3

Explanations are actions you brain dead fuck
/r/askTRP30/06/19 11:49 AM
1

No problem. Let me know how it goes.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 06:20 AM
3

If you’re free then just hit her up now. I don’t see why not? The issue would be why aren’t you living a busy and productive life and lifestyle? If you’ve got time to ponder this it suggests that you need to work on your lifestyle more. You want to be busy so that the only time you CAN hang is when you have some free time to fit her in your schedule.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:35 AM
41

You can’t. Look at world class sporting athletes. They’re the best of the bunch and they still get inconsistent. If that’s what happens to the best, what does that mean for us mere mortals?
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:16 AM
-9

Talk with her. Tell her you’re a man and want to lead. Tell her why. She’ll respect you as a man more and probably be more attracted to you for it.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:13 AM
1

2-3 days after the initial. Max 1-2 weeks before she’s at risk of losing interest.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:12 AM
2

Yeah. It’s a lot more of a risk for them to meet up with a guy, then it is for us to meet up with a girl.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:11 AM
2

Dude if they flake when you’re setting up logistics doesn’t that tell you the issue? You’re like an uncooked chicken. Nobody wants that. Let her warm to you more. Then ask her to try your chicken. She’ll happily accept. :)
/r/askTRP29/06/19 11:53 PM
2

Dude think of how men are. If there wasn’t a barrier or steep learning curve, every man in the world would be on tinder slaying pussy like a samurai. The fact that it takes so long to find your groove on tinder is the exact reason why dudes like me are killing it on there. Keep practicing and also my biggest advice for you is to relax and be yourself. If you’re changing your personality or the way you text to get pussy. It’s called lack of abundance, needy behaviour and women are like FBI with t…
/r/askTRP29/06/19 11:44 PM
17

You can’t download a personality bro.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 02:41 PM
3

Do it. Follow your nose. Sniff out the shit you seek. Just steer your nose away from pussy. Pussy will come to you after your monk mode progression level is complete.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 02:41 PM
3

If you think she’s talking to other dudes then fuck her off and start slaying other puss. Say goodbye to the wicked witch of bitchville and hello to juicy cock slinging wild west of bountiful premium puss.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 02:39 PM
1

Try to find someone who’s interested in chasing tail and do not room mate with women. Almost all women are a nightmare and a train wreck for logistics when sharing an apartment.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 01:10 PM
2

Nofap has fuck all scientific backing. The idiots that do it have no brain cells. Cutting out porn has scientific backing. Those who cut out porn are not idiots.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 02:32 AM
1

More protein will fix this bruh
/r/askTRP28/06/19 02:24 AM
3

Don’t become too invested or spend too much time in the app. Every day when you need a mini-break from work or have some down time. Whip it out for 15 minutes. Send a few texts always with the mindset “I’ll never meet up with you anyway”. It allows me to let loose a bit via text. Otherwise I get too logistical and rush meeting up which looks needy and un-abundant. Once a week a girl and I will hit it off with some great banter and good feelings. She will make me laugh and there’s sexual tension.…
/r/askTRP28/06/19 02:15 AM
2

Where do you feel the most confident? Go there.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 02:10 AM
3

It’s family. Let it slide. Nothing is worth hurting the bonds that made you who you are and built you into what you are. Don’t go tearing that shit down. My sister is a feminist and her boyfriend is beta. She has converted him into a feminist supporter. (Lol). I live away from home and only see my family once a year. Anyway, last time I saw my sister we had a big fight about feminism. I started yelling “I love women!!! Femininity is attractive. I love feminine women. But feminist ideology is enc…
/r/askTRP28/06/19 01:58 AM
2

Shit in her eye and then kick her in the shin. Give her the shitty pirate my friend.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 01:41 AM
1

Dude it’s gonna take a year or two to get off that shit. It’s the price you pay for artificial highs. Then once your sober, identify your issues and go pay a psychiatrist to evaluate you. I can guarantee that is the quickest path to the highest quality of life you can get in this time frame.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 07:49 AM
1

Dude it’s all mindset. Amp yourself up and visualise what you want to be. Then execute. Easy.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 07:34 AM
5

Open up a word document. Write everything that sucks down in there. Save it. Open it again in 3 months. You’ll see the real power of biological emotions. We have no control it’s just animalistic. Don’t be hard on yourself and remember it’s not you. It’s your biology.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 07:26 AM
7

wut??? 0_0
/r/askTRP25/06/19 07:44 AM
5

Models by Mark Manson. The first logical explanation I ever read about becoming a better and more attractive man. Rather then the wishy-washy shortcut and fake shit that was out and popular reading in the scene, around that time.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 07:28 AM
2

Thank you, this is really solid advice.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 07:58 AM
2

Thank you for your detailed response. I'm gonna aim for 12-13% and then bulk it back up to about 18% as stated.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 01:17 AM
1

Lol. Yes. Just be less invested than her. And also outcome independent.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 08:10 AM
1

Thank you. Agreed.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 08:01 AM
-1

I'm not unhappy. You have to be a troll to derive that conclusion from my post. I was simply being a smartass to the OP. Lol.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 08:00 AM
1

Not really. I have great sex with a woman, which increases my quality of life. I'm infatuated by her because of hormones, biology and chemicals in the brain. We had similar childhoods. Doesn't mean I want to date her or wife her. In fact we would be horrible together. She and I both plate and have no intentions of being in a relationship with anybody. Increase in quality of your life + infatuation = definitely not a unicorn lol.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 07:59 AM
1

Why don't you want to seem like you're trying to fuck her? That's the whole idea, she gets turned on by your desire for her..
/r/askTRP21/06/19 07:55 AM
1

Flirting and teasing are great for the initial few hours of an interaction. It's good because it's light and fun. Things should naturally progress into deeper and more emotional topics about her life etc. She's now more emotionally invested and you've built a deeper level of trust. General guide: 1-3 hours = flirt, tease joke 3-8 hours = deeper and more emotional topics. Sex is a by-product of this formula and more than enough time to f-close.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:57 AM
2

We see what we want to see. In another 5 years you'll probably look at your father a lot more objectively then you do now. My Dad is a fucking war horse. Works full time, hits the gym, has 2 farms which he owns and works on after 5PM and also studies at an online university doing a degree in business. He's mid 50's. I thought like you the same. However now I realise that it's what he enjoys. He likes to keep busy. It's what he enjoys doing. It has down-sides like he's always moving towards somet…
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:52 AM
2

In my medical research, I've found that patients during episodic mania seem to actually prefer it. Some even choose to neglect medication because of the enjoyment of these episodes. In my personal opinion I would say that what you've described aligns with the current medical data available today. People seem to be more focused, engaged, positive and goal driven. This is however, provided that the negative effects of an episode are managed and controlled such as impulsive spending etc.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:43 AM
3

Don't do the same thing when you're older. Break the cycle. Most people who are like that had a parent do the same thing, usually a lot worse. The stats on domestic violence reflect my statement.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:39 AM
1

What if the women who make your quality of life better infatuate you?
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:38 AM
1

Freeze out. Then soft next.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:37 AM
3

She's probably really tall and wants to avoid that awkward moment when you meet a girl who is a giant and you didn't know it. The facial expression says everything. Just tell her brah.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:36 AM
1

Simplified? yes. In depth? It is a lot like rocket science. Probably more than a rocket. With many different systems involved. Using various fields in health, along with academic knowledge using physics, mathematics and biology.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:33 AM
1

Understood. Thank you.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:07 AM
2

Dude. The OP posted his ex girlfriend's PI. Including her public instagram which you can easily see her location, friends and photos. She was unaware. It was a joke and a stab at him for posting someone else PI. Lol. Get off my dick, I'm enforcing your own agenda days ago.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 04:55 AM
1

Ok. Then when bulking, what body fat % should I bulk to before another cut?
/r/askTRP21/06/19 04:18 AM
5

Sounds like you might have ADHD
/r/askTRP20/06/19 04:58 PM
1

Wait until your 71 and all your friends and the majority of the people you've been friends with or worked with have died. Perspective. Don't be such an attention seeker. Although it's very hard to do at that age.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 10:48 AM
2

How old are you?
/r/askTRP19/06/19 12:57 PM
1

Thank you.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 04:05 AM
4

Pros and cons. Pros: you get laid Cons: your apartment looks like shit. How do you and the plates feel about it? Nothing wrong with fucking on a crack mattress.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 01:47 AM
2

Medication changed my life. People say it’s no magic pill, in my case that simply wasn’t true. I’ve accomplished more in 12 months since being medicated then about 5 years previously. It’s awesome. Don’t be scared of medication or weakness like I was for a decade. You don’t have to tell anyone, nobody else needs to know and it’s about YOU and making YOU better. Don’t be afraid and go to the shrink prepared homie. Questions, how you feel, how bad it is etc.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 01:33 AM
1

Fair enough.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 02:20 PM
24

I feel like the emotion of jealousy is really just our biological way of motivating ourselves to improve.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 01:37 PM
1

Maybe you have ADHD?
/r/askTRP16/06/19 01:35 PM
3

You have no trust in her or the relationship. You don’t ask, you leave the relationship. Without trust, you are nothing.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 09:31 AM
3

Follow the path that adds the most value to your life.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 09:29 AM
7

Everyone has a severe mindset change in what is described as “mid life crisis”. Realising that life is not infinite and you will die very soon. Realising what’s important. Some people work harder. Some people realise they’re unhappy in marriage. Some people realise they’re going to be pretty fucking ugly and washed up soon. Others change careers because their body can’t handle the aches and pains. Being aware of relationships and the dimensions of female and male attraction is just one thing you…
/r/askTRP16/06/19 09:28 AM
9

Do nothing. People’s first instinct when something scary happens is to DO something. And then they make it worse. Seek legal guidance and don’t meet up with her or contact or do anything about it until you do. That’s if you’re seriously concerned. You have to understand that in a court, you going there and secretly recording the conversation could be misconstrued as you conspiring against her because you are guilty. Please don’t do anything more. Before you fuck yourself. The police haven’t got …
/r/askTRP16/06/19 09:25 AM
2

I usually only date high quality women so I wouldn’t know nor have I ever had an experience where I had to run from a women because they had my phone number. 😂👋🏼
/r/askTRP16/06/19 01:03 AM
1

No worries. Now you have some actionable advice. It’s time to break out of your cocoon and fly. How old are you btw?
/r/askTRP16/06/19 01:02 AM
1

You’re intellectualising this thing way too far. I wonder if you’re somewhat on the spectrum. How to find a mission? Think about what you want. Write it down. Go for it. You now have a mission. Need help? Read books that interest you. In fact I’m sure there’s 100 books about how to find a mission. There’s 2 ways.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:44 PM
8

It has little to no scientific basis and is placebo. You just tricked yourself. Maybe you can play more tricks on yourself for other stuff. Could be beneficial in that aspect.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:42 PM
8

What a life you lead. Caring about this shit and investing time and emotions. Go for a walk outside and come up with a few ideas about what you should care about in life, what’s important to you and how you should spend your time on this earth. Why the fuck would you even care enough to write this? Lol.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:37 PM
2

OP could not be any more beta male if he tried. This reeks of insecurity. Lol.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:31 PM
1

Look up the definition of victim mentality. You’re way off.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:27 PM
3

I gave you really solid feedback on your last post regarding your schizophrenia and jail time. You completely ignored what I said and spilled some ridiculous bullshit about history and communism which had nothing to do with anything I said. You’re either really sick and having an episode and need help. Or you’re trolling. I think trolling considering you responded to this comment this time.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:25 PM
1

That’s a serious breach of her privacy you weirdo. I would go there but she’s not that attractive. Now post your person information so we can rate you. You piece of shit. Lol.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:22 PM
3

Looking at your account you’ve been attempting to troll this sub for months. It’s so sad bruh.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:17 PM
1

Rub two out.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:16 PM
2

Poor bait
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:14 PM
3

When you get older you won’t care. If you’re really worried about it you can make it a nickname or change your name. Give it a few years and see how you feel before you do anything drastic. (Example: Indika becomes Indi)
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:12 PM
6

You can’t. It’s impossible to change a stereotype before you interact with someone. You can however not care and be a cool guy with SMV. Every girl wants to be with the top dog alpha and looks or race doesn’t matter.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:09 PM
2

Lol. Sounds like depression bruh.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 04:53 PM
3

Jack off. Get laid. Spend your time living a good life instead of this petty shit.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 04:15 PM
14

Late twenties women realise that their looks are declining. There hormones are compelling them to have babies. They start to seek security and try to cash in on the highest value man they can find. They want to make sure that man will stick around after she has babies and her looks decline even further. Then they nurture their kids and social circle. Haven’t lived long enough to see what happens after the kids leave the nest. But that’s their end game up to where I can say for sure. If anyone ha…
/r/askTRP15/06/19 04:02 PM
3

Not my concern. Only time I give two fucks is if it’s with a woman or someone try’s to walk over me. My response is always more or less the same. “I don’t tolerate that kind of behaviour. I’m not here to play games. Don’t do XXXX” It’s all in the delivery, tone and eye contact. They get the message. And that statement and delivery comes from within. I will not be shaken from my path. I won’t put up with disrespect. I won’t allow anyone to take advantage of me. I’m a fucking rock. Now fuck off so…
/r/askTRP15/06/19 03:58 PM
3

Have a drink or two first. Over time have less of a drink. Until you don’t need to drink anymore and bam. You did it.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 03:53 PM
6

Cool man.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 03:51 PM
2

That is some hardcore disrespect and immaturity. Next her and thank the lord you never had much to do with her and won’t ever again. Never accept that kind of behaviour from anybody in your life. You’re inviting people to walk all over you if you do. Sheesh.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 03:50 PM
5

Your 17. Chill out and live your life. You don’t have to have anything figured out. You just have to have as much fun as you can and take a lot of risks. Think about the serious stuff in 5 years when you have some life experiences under your belt. Your still a little kid being spoon fed and baby sitted by everyone. You’ll be just fine man.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 03:43 PM
2

You shouldn’t be wasting your time with a YouTube channel giving advice on relationships or self improvement advice if your not good at them. That’s a piss poor time investment and will go nowhere. Tough love out of the way, you’ve indentified what your weaknesses are. Not much to do now but grind them until they’re better. It’s gonna suck. But what will suck even more is if you don’t improve them. Good luck and keep fighting the good fight sir.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 03:39 PM
3

I don’t think girls are self centred. EVERYBODY is self centred. Look around you. Also I hate to say it but sorting out your mental health and staying out of jail should be your number one priority for now. Be the person that people want to be around and feel safe around to laugh and have fun. Make yourself a priority and start living an awesome life. There’s nothing cool or awesome about jail and psych wards. Good luck with your journey and sorry to hear about your schizophrenia. That’s a reall…
/r/askTRP15/06/19 03:35 PM
2

Dude just fuck her off already. It’s doing a number on you.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 03:31 PM
6

Practice. Review. Don’t get into the habit of using drugs or alcohol to talk to people. This shit takes years. But every conversation counts and helps.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 03:30 PM
4

Why would you need a burner? Unless your a lying coward. There’s no need for one.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 03:29 PM
11

Delete her from everything. Throw out everything that she gave you or reminds you of her. You acted like a psychopath and you’re resisting personal growth. Bite the bullet and eat shit for a few weeks while you recover from the “heartbreak”. It’ll pay you back dividends in the future.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 03:27 PM
1

Slow because nobody uses it or slow because you have bad photos
/r/askTRP15/06/19 12:45 PM
13

How old are they? Probably drunk girls looking for attention. And as you said, disgusted at it in the morning and unmatch you. Backed up by the fact that it’s on a Friday night that this happened.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 06:21 AM
5

And they’ve multiple???
/r/askTRP15/06/19 04:24 AM
1

I think the culture is different there. Do you have any options for online dating? That way you’re targeting girls that are keen.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 04:23 AM
1

Which country?
/r/askTRP15/06/19 01:14 AM
1

Never lie. It’s a bad habit for any human being to get into. If you want respect, integrity and the trust of your peers. Don’t lie. And about something as insignificant as age? Cmon now dude. It makes me wonder what other things you might be deceiving people with.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 01:13 AM
3

Hard to give advice unless we get context like this guy said
/r/askTRP15/06/19 01:09 AM
9

You say you have no mission or purpose. You also say that “how can I cope without being dealt a great hand in life?” Spoiler alert: very few on this sub or in life have. In fact these people you admire or look up to might not have either. You have a victim mentality and it reeks of insecurity. If you spent half as long on yourself instead of writing this extravagant post that makes everybody talk about “you” then you’d be going in the right direction. None of us are perfect, none of us have perf…
/r/askTRP15/06/19 01:07 AM
6

Might be an attention ploy. Was the rubber fine?
/r/askTRP15/06/19 12:57 AM
16

Go for it. You’ll know for sure then. It could be the age old dillemma of “she’s staring because she keeps catching you staring.” “Your staring because you keep catching her staring.” Tread carefully my friend.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 03:19 PM
4

I don’t have any experience in this sector. Maybe it’s my age. But it was always common place for a man to whack off before having sex if he shot his load too early. It’s simple, enjoyable and is quick. Cleaning the pipes from a biomechanics standpoint. I don’t know if the time investment or enjoyment is their with all these other strange methods. Cost vs benefit analysis. Not to mention half the things suggested made me lose my shit at how ridiculous they are. What I suggested is tried and true…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 03:17 PM
8

That is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. Lol.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 03:09 PM
5

Sometimes we have bad days man. Maybe you were too much in your own head to be silly and have fun. That said, just force yourself to do it. There’s no trick. When you’re drunk you say something silly and then talk you said? Force yourself to do the same when sober. As a word of caution. You need to evaluate your relationship with alcohol if you can’t have a conversation with a woman without being drunk. Don’t want any bros on here going down a bad road. Ya feel?
/r/askTRP14/06/19 03:02 PM
2

Not positive. A girl who is interested but busy, will help facilitate another time and date. (ie: “I cant do anything this week I have exams, but next week I’m free on Tuesday?)
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:58 PM
66

A man with purpose and mental fortitude. He will never be knocked off his path. He has too much integrity and self belief in himself to allow anything to make him falter. He is a warrior, not because he chose to be, but because his DNA demands it. And he will not stop fighting and pushing forwards until he squeezes the last drop out of life.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:56 PM
15

Dude sober game is so much more REAL. It’s like a video game. Sure it’s fun to destroy on easy mode and it feels great. (Alcohol) But switch it on hard mode, you’ll fail and mess up a lot more. But it’s far more rewarding. Just gotta work harder for it. Humans routinely take the path of least resistance so choosing not to drink when you know it assists your game is a good decision and I commend you for doing it.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:53 PM
2

Thanks and DM me it so I don’t miss it. I’ll check in with you in a week to make sure you follow through.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:50 PM
1

You’re absolutely correct. My bad.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:49 PM
5

My business. My body. My education. And my plates. Gotta have them plates boys. 😏
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:44 PM
3

First and foremost. Sex is a byproduct of fun and emotions. Never forget that. Greeting. Small talk. Lighthearted conversation. Lots of jokes. Playful teasing. Light touching. Things start getting more momentum. More emotions. More aggressive touching. Tickling. Now you have eye contact and she’s trying to tell you, hurry up and kiss me I’m ready. You pull your balls up into your chest and plant one on her. You did it. She wants more. You’re feeling confident and relaxed. She is horny. You are i…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:40 PM
2

That does help. I understand now. Here’s what you do: Set up a time and date ASAP. Like tomorrow or tonight. Go workout or go run. Get a haircut. Buy some nice clothes or wear some nice clothes. Smell nice. Put on your favourite pump up music. Positive thinking. “I’m a fucking beast and my objective is for us to have fun. I’m gonna do this because I’m the motherfuckin shit!” Blast that music and amp yourself up. Go there and fucking plant it on her with your big ass masculine balls. She’s waitin…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:26 PM
7

Spike her emotions. Be playful. Be spontaneous. Spin her around. Play with her hair. Change subjects lots. Ask her about the favourite time that she’s ever had in her life. Ask her what her best joke is. Tease her. See what I’m doing here? I’m making her feel things. Reliving happy memories. Making her shy and embarrassed. Joyful and playful. Physical touch and leading. Being masculine. Making her feel like a female. Making her laugh. Maybe later we can explore some sadder topics or some bad mem…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:22 PM
2

Rejected your IOI? Dude just escalate. If you’re together under the context that you described, and your being honest, then all you have to do is kiss her and fuck. It doesn’t get any easier. How far does she live?
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:18 PM
12

You broke into her room. You have absolutely no respect for this human being. You should save yourselves the domestic violence lawsuit and break up now. You’re constantly picking on her. How is that enjoyable for anyone? Do both of you a favour. Break up and fix your issues man. Losing control is a very bad trait. Especially if it’s at a woman. Then when you’re no longer a psychopath, go and have FUN with women. That’s what this sub is supposed to teach. And try not to make them cry and yourself…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:16 PM
4

Go there. This smells like LMR before you’re even there. Just make sure she’s not playing with you, and doesn’t in future. Now fuck Wednesday, get over to her place ASAP before she finds someone else and you get pushed to the side homie.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:10 PM
1

He literally said and eluded to the fact that he has oneitis if you actually read the post. Also if you’re in a relationship and you feel that way after a break up you truly are a piece of shit and insecure as fuck. Why would anyone get in a relationship with zero investment? That’s some autistic shit. Like dude, if you spin plates and are honest, why would anyone chose to be in a relationship if they didn’t like that person. I think you should read people’s posts before giving advice on it
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:08 PM
5

Girls are emotional creature. Guys aren’t. You develop her emotions and build them up. Never fall into the illusion that girls think like guys. They’re not logical like men are. Men speak facts. Women speak emotions. Men with logic lead women with emotions. If things feel like an interview chances are you’re talking to her like she’s a guy. On a logical, fact driven manner.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:05 PM
2

Time is your friend. This will soon pass. You can’t really speed it up. Exersize, no contact, diet and good sleep helps with the emotions. Remember the way you feel when you break up isn’t the real you. It’s some biological primal shit that’s stuck around with humans that is useless but used to serve a purpose. Look at it from that perspective if it helps. Good luck man.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:01 PM
8

Practice makes perfect. Alcohol used to help a lot, but I’ve since given that up.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 01:59 PM
13

Rub one out an hour or two before you meet or have sex. I can’t believe people are recommending all this crazy ass shit and not a useful practical answer. I can’t believe what this sub has become.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 01:51 PM
-1

Use tinder. You’ll have 30 matches and ~20 pussys to put your dick in within a day. If you can’t, you need to work on yourself.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 01:48 PM
2

Unblock her. Hit her up in a month. See if the plate still has momentum. Fingers crossed gravity is on your side because that was a waste of a perfectly good plate.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 01:46 PM
5

You both tried it, it didn’t work. Now move on with both of your lives before you waste it, typing and thinking about this trivial dumb shit. Forget about her. Delete everything with her in it. Block her on everything. Don’t talk to her for at least 6 to 24 months or ideally forever. She is of no use to you now.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 01:44 PM
1

Okay. If you want to know the answer to that question, text her a time and place. Her reaction will tell you everything you need to know.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 01:36 PM
1

Go for it bro. Seriously we all have different experiences and yours might turn out really good. If not, then you have an experience to learn from. :)
/r/askTRP14/06/19 08:28 AM
18

Set up a time and date. If she fucks around, soft next.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 08:27 AM
2

Somewhat. Personally I would let it happen organically. I’ve had a few of these backfire in the exact same situation as you. Others experiences may vary.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:56 AM
3

You know the answer already. Your emotions are trying to intellectualise this so you don’t lose this girl. Hard lesson: after you get over the initial “fuck she’s gone” primal loss feelings. Your life will be better. I challenge you to find a man who after he deals with a breakup, doesn’t feel better once the emotional cloud has lifted. It’s what makes us men with women. This is a step on your journey to an awesome life. Do a complete wipe. Delete her and block her from everything humanly possib…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:55 AM
1

The fit, and coordination with your other clothes and accessories is much more important.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:50 AM
1

Text game should be: Greeting. Name. Objective. Hey xxxx, are you free after work? OR Greeting. Name. Objective. Command. Hey xxx, lets go to xxxx together. Meet at xxx at xxPM? Dress casual. Throw in a funny comment or something that you’ve talked about before. I usually don’t as I find it unnecessary. Aaaaand that’s it. There’s the bible. It’s all you have to do and it works like a charm. Fuck any other bullshit and only text for setting up dates.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:49 AM
4

Some do. They want to be dominated. They want to feel like you desire her so much that you’re willing to push boundaries. It’s important to have good technique. Which means a broad grip, use the tips of your fingers to push into her neck and don’t push the webbing of your hand into her throat. This means you won’t be cutting off her supply of oxygen too much, but it’s still intense. Needless to say, do it safely. Have respect. Don’t let this shit bite you in the ass later via a lawsuit.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:44 AM
6

Next. Never do LD. It should be ingrained in your DNA so this never happens.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:41 AM
4

Make some chit chat, get her number or go out to do X activity. Just don’t overthink it. If you fuck it up, your stuck in a class with them. In other situations it’s no-loss but when your forced to spend time, it can influence other classmates, the vibe, your studies, etc. Let it happen organically and if there’s an opportunity, go balls deep.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:40 AM
2

It’s a mental thing. How’s your mental health? How’s your relationship with your mother growing up? The other avenue to solve it is to have abundance. But if this attention seeking is getting in the way, you’ll have to revert back to paragraph one.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 03:52 AM
2

I’m not American so I’m not sure how much that is. Either way. My observation if the way you interpret events is that you act in fear. And that fear is holding you and everybody else back. It’s not your fault, probably instilled in you from a young age. Take risks. And the bottom line: If there’s something you want in life, you have to fight to get it. Any way you can. You gotta pay your dues. Otherwise things that are “good” wouldn’t be good. If you really want something bad enough, you’ll find…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 03:40 AM
10

Are you the fbi of online dating? Holy shit. Lol.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 03:35 AM
2

One of those days. Makes you a better man. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Find something you really enjoy and do that he next few days. Then come back with a fresh mind. Don’t run the battery until it’s dead. Good luck hombre.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 03:34 AM
1

Don’t you earn enough? What’s the insecurity in your job?
/r/askTRP14/06/19 03:32 AM
3

Actions speak louder than words. It’s chess bro, play your pieces and hopefully win. If not, shake hands like it’s the end of a UFC fight.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 03:31 AM
1

Why would you have to move back? Fuck fear.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 03:30 AM
1

Yep. Accept it and move on. Some people get born short. Some tall. Some with receeding hairlines. Some with grey hairs. Some with birth defects. Etc. Some things in life we have no control over. Unfortunately. On to bigger and better things though, right?
/r/askTRP14/06/19 03:29 AM
1

Be unreactive. Laugh it off. Who cares?
/r/askTRP14/06/19 03:27 AM
2

Just get a place of your own. You’re underestimating how far that one thing will take you.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 03:26 AM
1

Some men just have lower testosterone. What was your libido like before taking your SSRI? It’s the only way you’ll know for sure if it was caused by it. Also, don’t buy bullshit supplements that “boost testosterone”. They’re neglible at best.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:48 AM
1

You’re not responsible for your parents. It’s supposed to be the other way round. You’re going to have serious problems if you don’t go and live your own life. Trust me.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:46 AM
3

Just be in the moment. Don’t put pressure on yourself to make something happen. Just have your objective and look for opportunities if they pop up. Enjoy the festival man. And yes, anything and everything is possible at festival sexually.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:44 AM
1

What the fuck. So you didn’t go to girl #2’s place because you were too tired. Then you decided because of your buddies to hit on girl #3 and invite her to your home? Your actions are all over the place man. It’s so confusing. I’m guessing the girls sensed that too? Which one is it? Do you want to fuck them? Or are you going home with your buddies? Are you too tired? Or are you going invite someone to your place? Are you interested in any of these girls? Or are you just playing with them? Eventu…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:41 AM
1

Say “that and a whole lot more”
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:36 AM
-1

Agreed.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:34 AM
2

It depends on the context. At face value they’re saying that you’re intelligent. Girls say it to me mid laughter when I flirt with them or beat their shit tests in an intellectual way.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:34 AM
1

Outcome indifference needs to be your number one priority.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:32 AM
3

It’s not going to last so enjoy it while it’s there. The pain it will cause if things go sideways is the exact pain you need to be a motherfuckin’ baller ass pimp in the future.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:31 AM
2

Dude your being reactive. Stop. It’s the worst habit you could possibly have. A real man has a path and an objective. Nobody can make him second guess or knock him off his path. This is a desirable man. A reliable man.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:30 AM
1

Then don’t. If it’s not that important to you then why do it?
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:27 AM
7

Take every opportunity to talk to girls. I was great at talking to girls but not so great at escalating and being sexual. This caused me immense social abundance but zero “dating” skills when my teen years ended. Looking back I wish I had of taken my chances and escalated with women as a teen. My wish is that you do exactly that.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:26 AM
2

Not your problem man. If you go around caring about other people’s lives more than yourself it’s going to wear you down at some point. It’s a really terrible mindset to have if you want to achieve lots in life. We care about our bros. But ultimately you have no control over them. It’s their life. And you have yours, now go conquer some shit! In fact the best way to inspire change is to be the change you want to see in others.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:24 AM
5

Social skills. This is an opportunity to practice them. If you’re terrible socially then it’s going to be awkward for a while. Don’t let this stop you. Get out there and have the most cliche and ridiculously bad conversations known to man. One day you’ll look back and laugh. As will everyone else. This is called improvement. And you shall embrace it from now on. M’kay?
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:22 AM
1

I don’t know why. It could be a million reasons. Why is it important to you? Is it a curiosity thing?
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:19 AM
1

Dude you’re 15. You should not be doing testosterone unless absolutely necessary (ie: growth deficiencies). That is a terrible idea and no doctor would ever prescribe a 15 y/o test to get jacked.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:17 AM
2

Smile and walk away if it’s that bad. You never lose control of your temperament with a plate. It shows instability. You can say what you want and be the biggest asshole but if you’re not in control, it will be bad for you, for her and everybody watching.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:14 AM
1

Text her now and say very direct and straightforward: I don’t want to have dinner with you and your friends. I asked you out so we could spend time 1 on 1 together because I like you. Let’s meet at ***** at **PM if you’re interested. If not, no problem. Don’t make chitchat. If she replies neutral, take a deep breath and think about what you’re doing. It seems like that’s what your mistake was that created this whole situation. DM me if you absolutely have to. But with this method, it’s the only …
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:07 AM
3

Text her a place and time, with an activity. She’ll say yes if she’s interested, yes but on another day and help to reschedule if she’s interested, or no if she’s not. Good on you for getting out there man. The first time is always difficult but it gets easier. Keep at it and don’t let people on this sub get you down. There’s a lot of tough love advice here. Proud of you, now get out there and get that kiss, then get that sexual touch and then get that fuck! I’m rooting for you man! :>
/r/askTRP14/06/19 01:58 AM
1

Chemistry, no. It doesn’t mean you can’t fuck them and have a good time together. Aaaaand. If you’re both feeling primal and your game is good you’re going to have “desire, hornyness and sexual emotions” brewing. I classify that less as chemistry though. That’s just attraction at that point.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 10:41 AM
1

It’s matters less how it looks and more how you feel about it. Girls can smell insecurity and will find a way to shit test you about it. If you’re cool with it and don’t look like an idiot you’ll be fine. It matters a lot less than you think. (As long as you look socially acceptable.)
/r/askTRP13/06/19 10:39 AM
-4

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/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:26 PM
-11

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/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:51 PM
5

She’s away. Unless you’re preparing to make contact in person while she’s away. Why do you need logistics? You can’t really keep the pot warm while it’s out of reach. You need to be in person together. If your high SMV then she’ll come back to you when she gets back. They always do.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:47 PM
6

I agree
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:41 PM
7

Don’t tolerate cheating in your relationship. Fuck her and fuck your fears. Your life will be better. Don’t be a fucking pussy and just break it up already before this shit gets worse.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:40 PM
2

Can’t make jokes via text. Can’t display attractive qualities via text. Via text I could say “you look like a walrus” In person I could say “you look like a walrus” Two completely different reactions. Text is for setting up time and places to meet. At most on tinder, mention something playfully with her photo or bio and try to organise a meet up ASAP. Phone number is just a byproduct. Some girls take longer than others but generally 3-6 messages you should be able to organise a date or whatever.…
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:37 PM
2

Yeah man. What you did screamed scarcity. It’s good you’ve learnt from it now you can move on to bigger and better things.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 02:54 AM
1

Exactly. It’s an experience that you learn from and makes the future better.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 02:39 AM
1

Women are not logical thinkers man. Don’t take what they say at face value. Only do that with other men. If you just demonstrate high SMV and ignore this whole thing or lighten up about it when you communicate, I’m sure she’ll forget about it or find another way.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 01:59 AM
7

Dude what you did is pretty creepy. She told you not to come. She told you she wasn’t coming out. She gave you every excuse to go away. The only reason she didn’t just hang up or say fuck off is because she likes the attention and probably has some scarcity herself. A high quality woman would never tolerate what you did. The only exception is if she’s really nice and struggles to say no. I’ve met a few like that. Man cmon. You don’t want to be the guy that drives to a girls house only for her to…
/r/askTRP11/06/19 01:56 AM
2

Having sex with a woman brings her closer to you. It’s the reverse for men.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 01:49 AM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:16 PM
5

Does sperm taste that bad? Haha jokes my dude. Yeah nah I’ve got no answers really. I’ve never experienced what you’ve described. But it sounds good. I hope one day I experience it. I get bored with girls too easily. It’s a curse.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:15 PM
5

Uhh. Sounds like you need more foreplay. Dude just make sure she’s horny. It sounds like a text book, she’s not turned on enough. Some girls take longer than others. Usually before they’re naked, the girls are soaking wet. It took a while for me to figure out how to do that. You’ll learn. Play with her clit for a bit if going inside is hurting her. Let me know how it goes.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:11 PM
2

Hormones. Being horny. Adventure seeking. I’m addicted to high stimulus activities.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:08 PM
1

Get it son
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:07 PM
2

You’re telling yourself that. I have a specific interest in foreign women. They’re more interesting and rare. So it’s good. One thing that is universally accepted all over the world in all forms of game is the principle that I described in my earlier comment. Girls want dominance, assertiveness and to be lead. They don’t need another girlfriend or beta male to chat with on their phone.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:06 PM
1

Probably doing the same thing you are now, at a faster rate. With more ladies chasing you. Haha. Life is good, find a way to enjoy it man. You’re doing all of this for yourself to enjoy. If it’s not your cup of tea, then find something else to do with your time that seems like a more worthwhile investment. :>
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:03 PM
5

This is speculation but it makes sense that when you’re single you have lots of sex. Until you find a partner. Have you ever cheated before? If you cheat while in a relationship I would suggest you’re more inclined to spread your seed, so to speak.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:00 PM
1

Don’t text chit chat. Don’t have text conversations. Just freeze her until your good to meet. Message her a place and time. Follow these steps and you’ll practically fall into her vagina.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:33 PM
2

Dude just jump on tinder. Within 24 hours you’ll have 30+ women willing to meet and if your game is tight, fuck. If your not pulling those matches it’s because you need to build your fort. ;)
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:31 PM
-1

^ Unless you find a unicorn. Most of those got snapped up by betas a long time ago though. The unicorns still available are generally from Asian countries due to them being less “western ferminized”, longer work days and less emphasis and openess with sex.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:30 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:27 PM
3

Build your fort. Build yourself. Trust in yourself. Trust the process. They will come. Oh yes, they will cum.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:20 PM
2

It’s common. This feeling will probably persist for some time. For some people, their whole life. The only advice I can give is to follow your instincts and that discomfort is a precursor to positive action.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:16 PM
38

Nope. Never. I notice their flaws more. I find them less attractive. I lose respect for them. I get bored. I see other women. The cycle repeats. Hell maybe it’s in your DNA to pair bond for life. That’s why you’re experiencing this. Me on the other hand, I feel destined to stake my claim on as many women as possible.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:07 PM
2

I can tell you right now that is categorically untrue. I’ve had 6 or 7 relationships. 3 of them lasting for more than 2 years. I can tell you that my passion ran out much earlier then there’s did. By a long shot.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:03 PM
6

It’s negligible dude. One day of drinking and lifting won’t do shit. I read lots about this topic and alcohol actually produces an acute increase in testosterone. It’s why people get horny and are more likely to fight when drunk. Testosterone production is reduced by a max of about 25% in a worst case scenario during sleep. If you’re really concerned, search ncbi alcohol weightlighting and plow through the case studies. I find them fascinating. I tend to lift better and heavier while drinking. I…
/r/askTRP10/06/19 04:59 PM
1

Dude it’s your family lol
/r/askTRP10/06/19 04:50 PM
1

None really. Just sharing. On second thought. Any suggestions on the text? Or keep it short and simple as usual.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 04:12 PM
1

Do what you wanna do. Girls at that age are in their physical prime and most attractive. I wouldn’t waste that period.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 09:22 AM
5

Uhhhh. What. Just pull your phone out and book it online. Takes like 30 seconds tops. Half their revenue stream is people coming there just to fuck. Lol. They’re used to it.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 09:19 AM
4

I always confirm the night before. Then on my way there I’ll text something such as “I’m on the train now, see you soon.” I usually send this text 10 minutes before I get on the train in case something comes up on their end. Never had any issues with my method. Also if she telling you what to do and dictating your actions. I would be playful and say something like, I’ll confirm what I want, boss girl. Or something of that effect depending on the context.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 01:12 PM
4

Say “fuck it” and keep going.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 09:51 AM
1

Being scared to talk to people isn’t shyness. It’s anxiety. Or social anxiety.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 09:46 AM
3

I would argue yes. There are men who have leveraged their shyness into quiet, stoic and strong personas. There is also situational shyness, some women will buy into that as long as SMV is high.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 08:25 AM
9

You can be shy and charismatic. Or you can be shy and socially strange. There’s many kinds of shy. It depends which you’re talking about.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 08:10 AM
16

Everyone has that realisation at some point. It usually occurs some time in your twenties. Welcome to life 2.0. Live life on your terms with this recent revelation, in mind.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 07:41 AM
2

Google everything. All you need is a PC and huge balls.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 03:48 PM
5

If you desire it, it will cum. Take your time and you’ll figure it out as you go young grasshopper.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 03:17 PM
2

It is such a bizarre story and your delivery method is so honest. (No pun intended)
/r/askTRP05/06/19 03:14 PM
3

I’m not gonna lie. I was laughing at this whole thing the entire time.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 03:10 PM
2

Gonna give you some tough love. You’re gonna hate it. Sounds to me like you’re looking for something to blame. Come back in 3 days after you’ve cooled down and tell me it ain’t true. Lol.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 03:06 PM
16

This
/r/askTRP05/06/19 03:02 PM
1

Seconding this
/r/askTRP05/06/19 02:57 PM
2

This has to be a troll
/r/askTRP05/06/19 02:56 PM
4

Uhhh. If I’m ever not sure, I always just ask. I can’t go down the rabbit hole of “what-ifs” keeping me awake all night. This seems like an abundance issue and you’re overthinking it. Reduce your emotional investment by creating more options for yourself, or ask her. I’d probably do both.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 08:52 AM
-1

Yes. Don’t sensor yourself for anyone. Anger and emotion is attractive, as long as your delivery method isn’t terrible.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 08:44 AM
2

Study and sport did the trick for me.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 08:39 AM
1

Maybe she was high on drugs. Maybe she wasn’t turned on. Maybe you were an experiment because she takes SSRI’s and wanted to know if she still has a sex drive. There’s literally a million reasons. If it’s not what you’re after, work on something more constructive. Or ask her.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 08:37 AM
1

Agreed.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 08:21 AM
2

All went well mate. Great sex and had a great night together. Definitely over thought this one.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 08:20 AM
1

Be yourself.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 05:39 AM
1

I hit the gym and completely forgot about this whole situation. Got out and checked my phone and she replied saying she was visiting her sister in hospital and to let her know what I decide. I hadn’t hit the gym in a few days which is probably why I was overthinking this one. Going to get some of that good good tonight. >:)
/r/askTRP25/05/19 04:54 AM
1

When?
/r/askTRP25/05/19 01:48 AM
2

Eat if your hungry. Don’t overthink it. Let things flow naturally.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 01:31 AM
3

Probably helps. Removes some expectations of what sex should be like. So by theory it might make sex more enjoyable? I don’t know.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 01:30 AM
7

Challenge? Enjoyment? Highs and lows? Don’t enjoy it? Don’t do it. Fuck.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 01:29 AM
2

All books. It all helps. On another note it’s not usually about what you say, it’s how you say it. Situationally it can be slightly beneficial.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 01:14 AM
1

Get out there and practice. Learn by doing. If I stop for a few months I’m always a bit rusty. It’s like an instrument. Just play and you’ll get better. If you stop you won’t be as good as you were when you pick t back up, but you won’t be anywhere near square one. Pay your dues. JFDI
/r/askTRP25/05/19 01:11 AM
1

Add me
/r/askTRP25/05/19 01:07 AM
37

Moved to a new city recently. Knew nobody. Started studying in a low income area as a way to bridge across to higher studies. There are so many plebs but I made friends with a lot of them. One of them I swear has is literally retarded but he’s so smart and helps me with my exams. Sometimes we go to a bar and drink beer after class and the more I get to know him he’s cool. Fucking weird, whipped, beta but he’s fucking cool. Once I got to know people I considered below me, I realised everyone is f…
/r/askTRP25/05/19 01:05 AM
2

DM me.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 03:59 AM
1

You shouldn't be her "entertainment". That mindset is probably the exact reason she WOULD get bored.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 03:37 AM
3

Don't overthink it. Girls get lots of messages like this. She probably didn't know who you were when you texted her. Always be like "Yo, I'm that shephard who was investigating the sheep with you on our class break" or equivalent text. Don't think just do it now, and if she doesn't reply knowing WHO you are. Then you have your answer and you can move on knowing you did your best or pursue a little further to show desire. (Depending on the situation, you know better than us.)
/r/askTRP03/03/19 03:27 AM
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