I am a 26 year old male who just last year would thirst for women and be horny 24/7. Never once (well once when I was really drunk) have I had a problem getting an erection and maintaining one.

However, these past few months I noticed I wasn’t striving to pick girls up and date when normally I was trying super hard. Wasn’t masturbating quite as much either. Wasn’t fantasizing about women when I’m bored at work.

Didn’t really bother me too much bc I was still watching porn and masturbating (which could be part of the issue). I hadn’t got laid in this 6 month time period where I noticed this but I’ve had long cold streaks before anyways.

However last weekend, I hook up with a girl I really like and go soft. She leaves. Again the next weekend, I get hard for a while but then go soft. In my head that whole week I was super depressed and confused and couldn’t get hard. Thinking wtf is going on? Is this bc of my loss of libido the past few months?

I am naturally a worrier and always think the worst. I start thinking why am I not super wanting to have sex with her and stay hard? But also I was kind of pushing off from having sex bc of the loss of interest. Or is it my fear of going soft and disappointing? Also I have never questioned my sexuality in my life but now I keep having obsessive thoughts about it and it’s killing me. I know I’m straight, never had a gay thought my whole life but now this happens. If a doctor can help out in the meantime please do. I plan to go to my doctor soon