So I'm about to enter an LTR with a girl I've been FWB with, and I'm having a lot of doubts because it's my first time and the story of our relationship is quite peculiar.

So she's an exchange student for a year in my university. We met one day after class and chemistry worked its magic.

I got her contact and kissed her on the first date. Then we hanged out again and I touched and kissed her again, then we fucked at my dorm room 2 months after our first meeting, thus losing my virginity.

The problem with this chick is that she had a boyfriend back home (I didn't know about this until after our first kiss the next day).

So last week we had the talk and she said that her current LTR is not going anywhere, and that it's coming to an end sooner or later. She confessed that she loves me and that she enjoys my company and the stuff we're doing together, which I reciprocated.

A week later she had the talk with her boyfriend, telling him that she met me, their relationship is not going anywhere and stuff and broke up with him. He told her he felt the same thing and stayed with her for 3 years cuz he felt it was more like a duty.

I came to her apartment on the same day and provided her with some emotional support and made her in the mood again to suck my cock (she's on her period).

The girl has some pros and cons I'd like to mention and I'd appreciate it if you guys gave me some advice.

Pros:

  • She's considering moving in Europe to study and be with me
  • She has some intellectual depth
  • She is talented (plays the piano for 14 years)
  • She cooks well
  • Very submissive
  • Almost no shittests and a lot of comfort tests
  • Constantly qualifying herself
  • She's cute and exotic (an 8)
  • Very polite (never raises her voice or some shit)
  • Shy and reserved in social places
  • She helps me with my mission (I'm a YouTuber and she was my camerawoman couple of times)
  • We have a lot of things to do (traveling, cooking traditional meals, vlogging...etc etc)

And some other stuff I don't think are that important.

Cons:

Well, there is only one con that's irking me and you might have actually guessed it: if she cheated on her ex with me, she will cheat on me once a Chad steps in.

What supports this is that she once told me she was on her way home and met a guy on the bus who thought he was from the same country as hers (Japan). She approached him (daygame?) and told her he's from Hong Kong but still talked to him and PROBABLY (she didn't mention it) got his contact (but I'm assuming the worst)

The other thing is that she has some guy friends from Japan who usually hit her up if they're stopping by the city. This weekend, a friend of hers was stopping by and asked her if she could hang out with her and she took him skating then dining (she shared everything on Instagram story). The next day she traveled with him to a nearby city, and today she got out with him again on some drinks.

I don't think she has that "I have a boyfriend" attitude to her and once a more attractive guy with a tight game comes in, he'll do his tricks and fuck her on my back.

I'm really anxious, guys. I've got oneties for this girl (obviously) and I realize that the cons are pretty serious, but her behaviour and demeanour always get me.

Is this normal in an LTR? Do you think I should go for it? Or should I just fuck her until she goes back home and that's it?

I seriously need help with this. I made her break up with her boyfriend and now I don't think that she's worth it.... I fucked up. I know.