Hey guys, long time lurker to the RedPill, since 2014. First post ever. I'm not going to go into my story as I'm sure most of us can relate to it and its very long. As some background, social recluse for 5 years from age 19 to age 24. Found redpill at age 24. Over 5000 hours of league, a specific website calculated my play time to over 230 days of league. So I'm a bit new to reality lmao.

Anyways the point of this post is that I just came back from my first tinder date, I was wondering if you guys can provide some insight. Matched with a 26yr old probably HB3-4, slight chubby Mexican type. When we first matched, conservation flowed very easily, she constantly made smile face emotions after each sentence. Getting the number was easy, after about 6-8 message exchanges. After getting the number, I set up the logistics to the day after to meet at a nearby restaurant around 6pm and kept the text conversation very minimal.

About 3 hours before the date, she texted to confirm the location and I knew I was in. I greeted her with a hug and the first introduction awkwardness began. However luckily, we went to the same school in the past, so we had a lot to talk about. I know Redpill advocates to not pay for her meal, but fuck it, I'm an amateur, I'm on training wheels, I paid for it anyways.

During the meal, I managed to keep the conversation flowing somewhat, but she was the one to do most of the talking and asking questions. No kino possible, as she was sitting across from me. Luckily, she had a bit of a geeky side in the past that I could relate to. But, she was able to read me like a book, she asked if I played things like league of legends...lol. Wrecked. I could tell she was a bit nervous as well, but overall we had a decent normal conversation on FORD (Family, occupation, recreation, dreams).

After finishing our meal, I suggested that we drive to the park down the street across from my house. She agreed. Now the action started. It was night time and we started walking around the huge park. Talking about her past dates, tv shows, our disinterests in clubbing/party scene, and anime childhood shows. I realized I was initiating no kino so I didn't want to be seen as the boring guy. It was really cold she had a sweater on and I only had a t-shirt, I saw the opportunity to use that as an excuse to put my arm around her to warm up wink. She laughed and seemed welcome to the advance. We talked a bit more, things were kind of slowing down. I was like fuck, I need to do something. I thought of the legend Pook and the Book of Pook. What would go through a Don Juan's mind Pook says, "Oh La La" or "perfect is boring." I'm a 26 year old virgin, my last sexual contact, a kiss, was back when I was 4-5 years old! I said in my mind "Fuck it! Oh La La." "Tinder is for hookups, I got nothing to lose!"

I then told her I'm going to do something crazy right now. With my right arm around her, I turned to her, and with my left hand I guided her face to a kiss. Wow. My first kiss since I was 4-5years old... thanks Pook. Is that all I thought? Lol wasn't bad though.

We walked a bit more, I'm on NoFap, haven't fapped for 27 days, so I'm horny as fuck. So I kissed her again. I said, "Let's do that again." She said, " Well I won't be opposed to it..." In total, we kissed about 4-5 times. After that I invited her to my house to watch some movies. But she declined, saying that she has to meet a friend. WTF. This threw me off so much, but I didn't push it. After one lap around the park, she was already in the direction of walking back to her car with her in my arms. We only spent 1hour and half on the date. Before we got into our cars we both said we had a good time and should meet again, but it felt kind of awkward...I might be socially autistic due to my lost recluse years.... I gave her a kiss (she turned for it) and we hugged, but nothing like full tongue action, just like a regular kiss.

My question to my fellow redpillers is....was that statement she had to see a friend an excuse to escape the date? I'm confused as fuck, so much mixed messages. If I was Brad Pitt, the date would last way longer than an hour and a half...

If you ever see this, thanks Pook. "Go on, get out the door, life awaits...."