I escalated really well got all the way back to her apartment and pussed the fuck out; then we preceded to have a "talk" out in the parking lot basically me being a pussy and needing validation told the girl I was fucked up from a previous relationship(copout) then told her we couldnt date anymore and that we could just be friends and that we would need to be with other people to hang out. Please tell me why I need to just next and move on because I keep trying to think of ways to fix it