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Fwb suddenly acting cold

throwayxxxxxx · 2019-03-26T19:18:18+00:00

Was out with my fwb shes talking about something and our food is ready i tell her to grab it and she just started acting weird. I asked her whats wrong she...

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March 26, 2019

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Title	Fwb suddenly acting cold
Author	throwayxxxxxx
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	March 26, 2019 7:18 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/b5txs6/fwb_suddenly_acting_cold/
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[–]ShotgunTRP0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]CainPrice0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]throwayxxxxxx0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]CainPrice2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

When a girl you're fucking is acting distant and cold, you're being shit-tested. Figuring out what her issues are and solving them and keeping her happy is her husband's job. Not yours.

When you keep pestering her, asking her what's wrong, and trying to get her to open up to you, that's being needy. It's being fearful that your supply of sex is going to dry up and signals to her that you're not the kind of awesome guy who has a pretty easy time finding casual sex. As a result, your instinct when she acts distant or cold is to chase her and try to keep her happy.

It's annoying, needy, unattractive behavior. Women get very aggravated when their casual partners turn out to be over-invested, judgmental, jealous, etc. - things that show that they don't know the casual game. You're being the first one - too invested. You're not her husband. You're not even her boyfriend. Whatever personal crap is going on in her life isn't your business. Your job, as her casual sex partner, is to be there for causal sex. To be fun and sexy. Not to hassle her about her problems and try to get her to open up to you because you're afraid of losing her.

If a woman you're fucking is acting distant and cold, ask her what's wrong once. And just once. That's polite. Then, when she tells you nothing is wrong, shut the hell up and quit bothering her about it. Act like everything is normal. Banter. Flirt. Touch. Be fun. Be sexy. Fuck her. Be her -escape- from whatever is bothering her. Not her therapist. She's your casual sex partner. You should be meeting her for sex, not for conversation about your lives.

[–]throwayxxxxxx0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Peshquabz 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link