Game opener question: is this too much validation or not?

AloofusMaximus · 2019-08-31T12:36:38+00:00

I'm not a daygame guy, so take what I say with a grain of salt. I literally never compliment women on their actual appearance, unless it's something they have control over.

I'd never say "you're so beautiful" or something along those lines. I've even had women fish for compliments on dates before with something like "I sent you pics looking cute as hell and you told me to wear whatever you want".

Now you CAN be direct without going that route. "I really like that perfume, you smell amazing".

It's a subtle difference.

FereallyRed · 2019-08-31T17:04:04+00:00

UGH.

Think like a comic...peel away all the nonessential shit until only the pure necessity of a joke is left.

Why do you need a qualifier? Hi, my name is Fereally.

Don't compliment innate beauty, she's been called a princess her whole life, and her beauty is not something she's done nor earned. So it's meaningless. You find her pretty, yeah, so what? So do all the 400 chumps who have used the same line on her.

Compliment what she's chosen if you must, but women realize that if you approach them on the street then you're interested. " Those earrings are beautiful. They compliment your face shape.." See how that's different than flat out telling her she has a pretty face? She chose that jewelry. You're complimenting her choice.

Don't say sexy or hot unless you're in a sexy hot environment. Again, she knows this because you're talking with her and are about to ask her out. Telling a random she's sexy in the grocery store is incongruous and can set off alarm bells/creeper vibes.

In person go for the date. " Hey, I'm going to this cool little bar tomorrow. Join me."

The number is your second trick if she makes an excuse.

Numbers are not "closes". They're not a win. Women will often give you their number just to end the interaction with you gracefully, then block your ass when they're out of your presence.

nobody_thinks · 2019-08-31T18:50:40+00:00

no. will not work in current year 2019. Unless shes fat as fuck.

better game would be (using your template)

(walks up confidently, deadly eye contact)

nobody : excuse me, I normally don't do this but ...

street thot : yes ...?

nobody : I'm lost and I need directions

street thot : wha? ....

nobody : I hate asking for directions. especially women

street thot : omg teehee

nobody : but you've got that nerdy thing going so I thought you'd be the girl

street thot : nerdy?

nobody : yeah. And coffee.

street thot : coffee?

nobody : yeah I'm looking for coffee

street thot : I don't know I'm so confused

nobody : that's alright what's your name

street thot : street thot

nobody : street thot I'm nobody. You know this area well?

(vibe a bit more, try to get her to come with you for coffee).

proplfax · 2019-09-01T13:09:26+00:00

look i just pulled an hb8 nurse telling her "youre sexy as hell" while grabbing her elbow. everyone here is full of shit. but when i say it, i deliver it like im about to fuck her. tonality wise and eyes are very dominant, there is no neediness in it. i'm not smiling, i'm not laughing, i'm not begging, i'm expressing sexual intent to fuck her brains out. i mean business.

being direct has a lot to do with tonality and supplication. just imagine how 99% of chumps tell girls they're pretty. it's absolutely needy. they're smiling, kind of awkwardly laughing, asking for permission in their tone.

this isn't something i've pulled out of thin air. direct or not has been discussed since 2000. one of the best daygamers on youtube right now (dunno his name, the evolution daily guy) goes direct all the time. he very clearly explains that it won't work on all women, and it's better not to do it at night, but that it will plenty when done right. also qualifying is something else he pushes to do in the first 1 to 5 minutes, but what you posted isn't qualification.

Title	Game opener question: is this too much validation or not?
Author	krunchtimer
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	August 31, 2019 11:26 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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