I know someone recently asked this question though, this goes without saying, each situation is different.

My buddy and I went to a sports bar and sat down (there are bar tables and then there is THE BAR in this layout) at a table. A waitresss came by and took our order. Didn't hardly even look at me. When she turned around I noticed she had a fantastic ass.

This waitress is foreign and speaks very broken English. I started implementing amused mastery and teasing her in Spanish. She really bit the bait hard and her face lit up. She told me 3 times that my accent is sexy (I'm from the south.)

I'm not a wiz at responding to these comments bc I'm not used to women being so direct with me, especially a high smv woman such as herself. I'm aware that I should have jumped on the opportunity then. I was having a good time enjoying my childhood friends company and atm wasn't concerned with the girl in particular.

It helps to mention that I am in a committed ltr, so I'm not hurting for sex. Later on I analyzed the situation in my head and decided I want to fuck the bartender.

Taking into consideration that we were at a table the first time and this bartender has now graduated to THE BAR certainly changed things in the sense of her own self perception. So anyway went there again with my buddy, and the bar was full. Keep in mind that quite some time has passed by now, I've been busy and have not had time to go out.

So I sat at a table and waited for an opening at the bar. It was apparently at the end of the girls shift and I could tell she just wanted to get the fuck out of there. None the less she came up and asked if i wanted anything (to eat or drink.) I said yea and ordered a beer.

I tried to hit her with the exact same shit I did the first time though this time it didn't seem to be effective. This kind of annoyed me. The girl was acting stand offish but I did catch her eye numerous times while she was at a distance. I tried talking to her (lightly) but she wasn't having it.

I don't have oneitis in the sense that I believe she is the only girl for me and that she is a unicorn. I have made up my mind that there is something about her that I want to fuck.

Taking into consideration the constant rain of compliments she recieves as a bartender, what type of strategy could I use to lure her away from the heard or, I'll just cut to the chase- fuck her?