Hey gents,

I am sitting in a predicament and I need your input.

So brief story, I am European and I live and work in an other country than my native.

I do speak the local language pretty well but I have a pretty apparent accent and it’s very obvious I am not native from the way I speak.

I am very social and charismatic in English but in the native language I am half the person I am, I just can’t pull the silver tongue as I normally can.

So the predicament is when I open or game the local women I never know what language to use. When I open in local language I sound simple and I feel dump, when I open in English, then I am just a foreigner and that creates some distance in the vibe.

I have to note also the local language is extremely difficult and not many short term foreigners are able to even speak it at all. I learned for self improvement reasons and for business purposes.

So what’s the best strategy here? There are trade offs in both cases