| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 60 | NoFap and TRP | strongfarts | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 04:51 PM | |
| 5 | In monk mode, getting beta feelings | strongfarts | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 10:52 PM | |
| 4 | Gaming a foreigner | strongfarts | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 11:25 AM | |
| 3 | Do you ask your plates what do they like in sex? | strongfarts | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 07:27 AM | |
| 2 | High SMV but women loose attraction to me | strongfarts | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 08:51 AM | |
| 2 | Is tinder worth it? | strongfarts | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 12:43 PM | |
| 1 | Having a roommate at 31? | strongfarts | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 02:29 AM | |
| 1 | All of a sudden unable to last long. | strongfarts | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 08:00 AM | |
| 1 | Don’t shit where you eat, need tips to keep it like that | strongfarts | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 11:46 PM | |
| 1 | How does your monk mode looks like? | strongfarts | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 01:56 PM | |
| 0 | Texting for logistics | strongfarts | /r/askTRP | 30/04/19 09:47 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | The breakup gambitLike this dude says, you actually have to become the prize to adopt the frame of it | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/22 10:26 PM |
| 2 | The breakup gambitSolid post brother, I don’t agree with the blocking though it gives them the ultimate satisfaction that you are very hurt, then again I don’t use any social media other than Reddit so it easier for me | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/22 10:24 PM |
| 10 | Can someone tell me where I go wrong? And what is the timeline from hitting a girl up on social media to the lay?What you are doing wrong is you are trying to pick up girls in social media. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 05:47 PM |
| 4 | Signs she is dtf?Easy, if she is DTF you will know. Top 4 behavioral signs to look for -Replies to your messages -Agrees to meet with you -Agrees to come over to your place or you to go to hers -Agrees to let you put your dick inside her When a woman is DTF she will make it simple for you and that would be reflected in her behavior, she will not make you wonder or in doubt | /r/seduction | 10/12/20 12:21 PM |
| 1 | New girl, LMR, self conscious about her body and my ED?Happened to me and many other guys I know, it is usually the first time with the new girl. With the guys I spoke we all agreed it is purely mental, the moment you think “ I hope it won’t go soft “ it goes soft, and because it happened in the past you worry it will happen again and your worries causes it again. It vicious and very annoying cycle. What I did for me that worked is I stopped wanking for a while just to be nice and horny, and I tried to be “present” during that act. It is a meditatio… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 01:41 PM |
| 7 | Leaving hickies on body on purpose??Why do you want to “attract” this one particular girl more? What is your objective with her? It seems you are having feelings for her and she is probably not crazy for you. So now you want to dread her so hopefully she can feel the same. Am I close? | /r/askTRP | 11/02/20 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Still thinking about ex a year later?Been there done that, similar age as you two I was 32 she 34, been together 6 years. Broke up for the exact same reason. Resisted any urge to contact her even though I thought I “cared” about her. Once I realized 20-25 year old chicks like to climb my cock I got a new perspective on all this. It’s your feelings messing with you, I don’t think you care about her, you are not thinking straight. Did you really fucked 10 other girls? Was any of them decent looking that you would like to fuck again a… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/20 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Is impressing a woman who knew you before you swallowed the pill even possible?Yeah definitely, but you will need a good gap before seeing her, maybe a year or so. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/20 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Am I a jerk?Life is too short buddy go be with a woman that turns you on, otherwise what’s the point | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 09:32 PM |
| 14 | NoFap + Workout = Horny and angered. Good energy or cloudy judgement?I did a 100 days no fap challenge last year because I watched too much porn and didn’t bother with women. I made a pact with my self next time I would have an orgasm it would be with a woman. Honestly it worked I got motivated, I will never forget that orgasm inside a tight pussy after about 90 days of no dick action. I was working out a lot, taking cold showers, fasting and etc. I was into some more primal mode and made me more raw and masculine, but also a bit tense. Good times | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 11:10 AM |
| 9 | flatline due to nofapTried NoFap too, broke a 90 days streak with sex. Most intense orgasm of my life. You could break a baseball into my cock after that. Point is, flatline goes away. Give it time | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Do you ask your plates what do they like in sex?Brilliant | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 10:44 AM |
| 2 | Do you ask your plates what do they like in sex?LMAO what was in the pictures exactly? | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 10:30 AM |
| 3 | How tf do you cold approach in the nordics?I live in the Nordics too, day game is almost impossible unless hit the perfect conditions. Cold approaching is not impossible thought, you just have to be on the right setting. It can work well when it is indirect. For example in bar where you and your friends might be sharing a table with women, or during summer where people gather in large groups in parks where they drink and enjoy the weather. But yeah most of the times it requires some setting where there is some alcohol or plausible deniab… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 06:29 PM |
| 1 | All of a sudden unable to last long.Ok that’s fucked up dude | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 06:56 PM |
| 1 | All of a sudden unable to last long.Currently seeing only this girl and this premature ejaculation happened only with her. We meet and fuck twice per week. Sometimes I don’t masturbate at all in between meetups and I do like only once perhaps. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 12:24 PM |
| 1 | All of a sudden unable to last long.None haven’t watch it any since April, it annoying because it just recently appeared, last couple of times we fucked | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 10:19 AM |
| 1 | All of a sudden unable to last long.Yeah I know dude it’s just I don’t quite feel satiated with sex when it is a 10 pump deal. Her pussy does feel extremely nice thought far more than the average I experience. Was unfazed by this at the start but now it’s getting into my head i think. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Plate AbandonmentDude I don’t think there is coming back from this one, you let your emotions get the best of you. Best thing is to move on | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 09:47 AM |
| 1 | High SMV but women loose attraction to meNot sure I am thinking the opposite is true. The moment they sense any hint of neediness they get straight up dry. What learned from this is never allow a woman to even suspect of taking you for granted, no matter how good the pussy might feel. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 07:03 PM |
| 1 | High SMV but women loose attraction to meRead models a while ago, perhaps need to check it out again. It seems I might come off as needy, very interesting | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 11:26 AM |
| 2 | High SMV but women loose attraction to meYep as the other guy mentioned I get needy once I start fucking them and obviously it’s a huge turn off. Couldn’t clearly see it in my drunken pussy haze | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 11:25 AM |
| 3 | High SMV but women loose attraction to meYep makes total sense! I think somewhere down the line I get needy once I get a taste of the fresh pussy and keep wanting more. Been in an LTR a while so I haven’t calibrated right to my new state. Thanks dude for your input, extremely valuable | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 11:23 AM |
| 5 | Girl asked me to pick her up from barDecent response, a lesser man might have seen this as an opportunity to escalate driving her home late in the night, which would have been in vein. You kept frame and you were lighthearted, thumbs up from me | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Can having a boring facebook profile ruin your chances with girls?My thought was with social media was that unless you have a top notch account. A lot of followers top notch social life and etc. it is better to ditch it all together and go social media free | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 07:35 PM |
| 2 | The vast majority of my dates end with making out, but then I get ghosted right afterwards. Almost all of them. What can I improve?Well said man! | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here ever went to therapist(psychologist)? Do you think it helped? Would you recommend?Yeah went to one due to some depression issues after some very rough patch in my life. The guy was useless and just prescribed me some SSRI which I never took. What I did instead was quit drinking and partying, eat better, sleep better, workout, meditate daily, cold showers and intermittent fasting. Also got my blood work done and I had a severe deficiency of vitamin D. Needless to say I feel really better now | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 04:39 AM |
| 14 | How come plate from tinder doesn't go find chad?Watch her action don’t listen to her words - classic TRP rule She drives 40 min to meet you and she deleted her Tinder | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 08:32 AM |
| 3 | Eye-Contact: Making Cold Approaches Warmer.Question, what look away first thought? Good post all and all | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/19 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Gaming a foreignerYep best of both worlds | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Gaming a foreignerThis is a nice frame actually, exactly why I would come to this place with such questions | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Gf said you’re never jealous are you?Solid response | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 11:40 AM |
| 5 | Is this an alpha widow?She seems to be the definition of an alpha widow, then again who cares if she uses you to get him jealous. Just dick her good and enjoy the new plate. You are not considering her for anything serious are you? I hope not | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 03:13 PM |
| 9 | Gf “catching up” with old ldr that ghosted herMost adult reply in this thread, however I am afraid OP doesn’t seem to have what it takes to go through it. If this would be one moment when all the Red Pill stuff can actually make a difference in your life, this is it. He will learn eventually | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 07:47 AM |
| 1 | NoFap and TRPYeah exact same story here | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 01:06 PM |
| 3 | NoFap and TRPYep read about this in rational male | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 08:33 AM |
| 3 | NoFap and TRPThis is now getting embarrasing for me, as I am a Peloponnesian... damn I should learn my own peoples history | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 06:57 AM |
| 11 | NoFap and TRPYeah fapping high was pretty good | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 08:06 PM |
| 11 | NoFap and TRPWell porn does put you in a cuckhold mentality, meaning watching other people fuck and wanking it like a creep. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 06:47 PM |
| 13 | NoFap and TRPCurious I am Greek and I never new about this, sounds cool | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 06:44 PM |
| 4 | A girl was clearly mean to me at the office, in front of everyone. Still not sure if I played it right and wtf actually happenedSounds like a shit test dude, from the context I honestly think she was just teasing you. Don’t to take it so seriously, a simple pressure flip or some witty DA should do fine | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Northern Europe/ScandinaviaNo worries my man I hope it makes sense | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Northern Europe/ScandinaviaHey I am 31 and live in a Scandinavian capital, bar game is quite decent here assuming you have the right crowd to go out or wingman who knows what he is doing. The women in the bars are very open about their sexuality and quite straightforward when it comes down to fuck. I haven’t use tinder yet but my friends use it with moderate success. Day game is kinda challenging here in my experience, if you want to meet quality women sober you should try joining some social activity sports or whatever a… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 10:35 AM |
| 2 | First IOIs from >hb8 girls since breakupOne thing I did to help me internalize the side bar was to take a physical notebook and write down the key concepts- take aways, so I can easily read them and refresh them, you should also categorize them that helps as well. Second thing I wrote some RP behavioral guide lines in order to stay in track in any situation. I know it sounds very robotic but it helped me internalize and make it part of my natural behavior. After all there is a lot of material in the sidebar and not very easy to have a… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/19 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Main plate/FWB is so good, I don’t have much drive to acquire others, is this bad?You are welcome that’s why we are here brother | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 07:38 PM |
| 12 | Older chicks at the poolActually a friend showed me a video of guy doing just that, quite amazing and disturbing at the same time | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Main plate/FWB is so good, I don’t have much drive to acquire others, is this bad?You seem to know what are you doing and you sound well put together. However going on with only a single plate/FWB sounds like a risky strategy brother, as some other commentators elaborated in detail | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Reminder: it's just your turnJust because you make her your plate or FWB doesn’t mean can’t sleep with others. That is her nature no reason to be upset or salty, just spin her and bury her in cock. Dude don’t make a problem where there isn’t one. You seem to linger in some blue pill fantasy and got upset because your tinder hook up is looking for more stray cock. Let me guess you thought you experienced something special and now you feel betrayed | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 10:15 AM |
| 4 | First date tomorrowThis comment is one of the reasons I love this community, props for helping the noob like that | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Is tinder worth it?Yeah it’s about 1,5 mil so that’s plenty. A few 6-7s to get back into the game will be perfectly fine for this phase. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Is tinder worth it?Yeah sums it well, I just want a couple of low maintenance plates so I can bust a nut couple of times per week and carry on with my mission. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Is tinder worth it?Yep perfectly aware of that | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Is tinder worth it?Yep will do, I am not really looking for some quality women, just wonna get my dick wet and ideally spin some plates | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Is tinder worth it?Awesome that’s what I wanted to hear | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 02:19 PM |
| 3 | Should i fuck a slut?Dude fuck the slut man! Slay! Otherwise you end up like in this. Dude A: “Hey you see that girl over there? She is from my school and a total slut, slept with everyone there!” Dude B: “Yeah? Was she a good fuck?” Dude A: “Nah man...I didn’t fuck her, I mean she like totally wanted it...but I am not into like sluts....you know....” Dude B: “?” Sounds familiar? Don’t be that guy and slay the damn slut | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 08:29 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with existential crisis?Achieve what you need to achieve in order to sustain lifestyle where you are maximizing your fun. For me that means a prestigious corporate career with a nice apartment and car and cash flow to do what I literally please | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 09:08 PM |
| 5 | Does Social Media make us more feminine and less Stoic?I had the exact same thoughts as you, hence I deleted all my social media. Kept only the messenger app so I can contact some international mates since I live abroad from my home country and I travel quite a bit. Now no more selfie infestations on my phone or meaningless photos of drinks taken at bars and etc. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 07:05 AM |
| 3 | Did I act correctly ( need another perspective)?Plate material at best if you can disconnect emotionally, you did well so keep up the good work | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Need RP perspective - possible oneitisIn my mind LTR=oneitis, otherwise what the point to LTR someone that is not your “oneitis” That is off course done via RP lenses so you don’t end up as a doormat and you are conscious about your frame and actions In the end TRP will always offer the dilemma between a healthy LTR with your oneitis or harem lifestyle with plates. Depending what phase in your life you are choose accordingly | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 05:35 PM |
| 2 | How to improve my sleeping routine?Headspace has a free trial I think, I also use it for my guided meditation sessions | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 05:30 PM |
| 8 | Did I act correctly ( need another perspective)?Jesus, rough story dude, but you dodged a bullet here. I mean if you indeed applied dread that is no reason for her to jump on the first available cock out of spite, especially in your own god damn apartment. The nerve on that fucking bitch man, mad props for staying cool headed, proud of you man. If you are concerned you over applied dread unwilling or not, a not so slutty GF would have confronted you in some other way or form and not just instantly stick a cock in her. Get away from her, this … | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 12:51 PM |
| 1 | How to improve my sleeping routine?I use a mediation app that has some special audio material for helping you fall asleep. Works pretty good | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Need RP perspective - possible oneitisBro nothing to worry about here, I know you said you are worried for oneitis in the past, but know it seems you have grown. The situation is 100% in your control, you can LTR if you choose and she already seems to have the tingles for you, or go no contact for a while and then initiate again for some more casual fun. She will probably be down for that as well. I am telling you the situation is not that dire at all, you basically hold all the cards this time and can do you as please ;) | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 11:22 AM |
| 1 | My Dick Wouldn't Work - What now?This! If she brings up just laugh it off and say you had whiskey dick. It’s only a big deal if you make it to be. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 11:15 AM |
| 1 | What to do post-sex?Absolutely don’t send that good morning shit message, she is not your LTR Just wait for to initiate and answer as usual. Either wise you can initiate text contact but always do it with a purpose for your next meet up. Remember that’s why say texting for logistics only. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 11:01 AM |
| 8 | Imagine going out for the sole purpose of picking up girls.Got stares from people in the train after laughing loud reading this :D | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/19 05:52 AM |
| 5 | My plate might be a sugar baby... how to screen?This was just spot on, applicable to way many people! | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Is there a difference between a perfect alpha male and a perfect red pilled male?Personally I respect TRP alphas more than the natural ones. They weren’t born with a natural gift they had to achieve it and climb their way through the ranks. (Often pain and suffering included) Plus TRP alphas are kinda more cunning and educated in a way as the the had to learn basic male/female psychology. They are also self aware and have a conscious understanding of their achieved nature. I think that is something of great value. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Frienditis - HelpYes OP this is solid advice you got, you need to distract yourself with other women | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 08:51 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid possible date with coworker?How did it go OP? | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid possible date with coworker?Yeah, let me know how it went. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 05:55 AM |
| 12 | How to avoid possible date with coworker?First of all, congrats on not shitting where you eat, takes some decent frame and abundance to follow the rule. I also work in a corporate environment with some females in the office showing me attention, specially when I first joined, so I know the drill. Since it is too late to cancel just show up and be super oblivious to her advances if any, it’s women so I don’t think she would resort into too much overt escalation. Basically try to friend zone her, treat her like an other guy, “open up” to… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 01:25 PM |
| 1 | LTR of 4yrs who had a dozen green flags left me for a guy at her work and I am unsure of how to feel.Daaamn that was ice cold brother! I am sorry to hear that you experienced that. If you don’t mind me asking, in which country do you live? I live in Scandinavia and I heard multiple stories of man being dropped like nothing for the next guy. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Plate I tried to next is going fucking ballistic and mental -- how to handle?Well said brother I am totally with you on this, would just be interesting to see if someone did a full beta/cuck flip on a clingy bitch just like the one you are dealing, how long would it take before she ghosts? Almost like an academic experiment. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Plate I tried to next is going fucking ballistic and mental -- how to handle?This suggestion was mentioned before by someone else in this sub. What if you go full on BETA on her, take TRP and do the exact opposite, like the ultimate beta doormat. Would that actually work and turn her off? Never dared to try it as it sound counter intuitive, but who knows | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 06:10 PM |
| 0 | Girlfriend is not happy with our one sided open relationshipYou need sex to function dude, if I go to long without it, it starts effecting my life. I become more moody, loose my positivity and my general outlook of the world becomes grimmer. I think it has to do something on an subconscious level about not full filling our biological purpose in life which is to spread our genes to as many females as possible. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 10:53 AM |
| 2 | In monk mode, getting beta feelingsThat’s what I would normally do, however we work together and that is out of the question. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/19 12:57 AM |
| 2 | In monk mode, getting beta feelingsSeems like I got some reading to catch up, thanks for taking the effort to dig this stuff out for me | /r/askTRP | 18/03/19 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Don’t shit where you eat, need tips to keep it like thatSeems you have first hand experience with this | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Don’t shit where you eat, need tips to keep it like thatI don’t know brother she asking to hangout after work and all | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 04:07 PM |
| 0 | Attending a 21st on the weekend need advice on how to conduct myself in a redpill mannerDepends on your personality man, I am social and in such parties I try to bond with as many people as I can. Try to figure out the small social groups and join them, have some jokes with the dudes and all, get some shots with them and etc. Don’t go after the women from the get go. In general focusing on having a good time no agenda on hitting girls. Once you are “settled” in the party you can start moving to female targets if that is your end goal :) The idea is to project you are having and fun… | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Anyone subscribed to headspace? What is your opinion?I have, complete beginner of meditation. What I noticed is it made more “present” to sort of speak off | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 01:03 PM |
| 1 | When female coworkers start (shit-)testing you...Read the side bar, there is an article about shit tests, should suffice | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 10:00 PM |
| 3 | Could I have handled this shit test better?Dude what part of don’t shit where you eat you don’t understand? Gaming married women? At work? I thought you were successful... | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Hard Nexting HurtsOn point! | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 09:14 PM |
| 8 | Hard Nexting HurtsOnly dropping my comment, because I have a very similar profile to you, question is why do you take seriously a 19yo? Just fuck her brains out and use her for the cum rag that she is. Who the fuck cares what snaps and social media drama and bullshit a 19y does these days.Why do you even open such messages and crap?? A man of your status should not be looking for sunset romance walking in the beach together with this young dumb blonde. What are you doing catching feelings for her? She is 19, what… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Hard next after revelation from LTRYou are the man! Prime example of manhood! /Salute | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 06:22 PM |
| 61 | Ariana Grande with the anthem for hypergamy and branch swinging?Welcome to the western role models | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Gaming older woman as a 18 yoWomen around 23-24 are attracted into older type of looking chads, like end of 20s start of 30s. If you are into older women you will have a better chance of going all in hit MILFS ;) They will most likely dry your balls | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 04:05 PM |
| 1 | What would you do?When did this sub reddit became go to page for high-school drama? | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 11:58 AM |
| 5 | Got the "We need to talk text" From girlfriendThis! OP You are missing underlying key issues here, far more important than “the talk” you had with her | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 09:48 AM |
| 2 | How long will it take to get over my oneitis?Dude when you feeling a bit blue about this, just imagine her getting pounded hard but all these different cocks she messed around. Oneitis is mostly a fantasy generated by your own mind, this should snap you back to reality and ruin the fantasy. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 09:42 AM |
| 1 | How long will it take to get over my oneitis?I heard about this but never took into account, however a buddy of mine was in a 9 years LTR (high school sweethearts) it’s been 3 years after his break up and he is still not over her ( had other girls in between) Interesting | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 09:40 AM |
| 2 | Scheduled a date, she's hinting on bringing friend alongThis doesn’t seems to be a date man, she is just trying to reel you in back to orbiter status, that’s why she is bringing a friend along. What’s a better way to do it with the safety net of a third person, so she knows you won’t be able to escalate. I experienced something similar once, best it would be to dodge it politely and don’t show up. Ideally end it up with something along the lines of “ I will make it up for you, will hit you up some other time” Then in couple of weeks “hit” her up agai… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Been out of the dating game, had a few dates this week. How the hell do I "bring it home"...In a nut shell you need to create tension during your interaction with your dates. (Google the TRP material about this and you will know what I mean) Don’t be the guy who walks her home and try’s to kiss her in the end of the night outside her house. That’s a boring cliche out of a movie. FYI: Never end a text correspondence with a woman saying “write me when you have time” It frames it as you are desperately waiting to hear from her, where it should be the opposite. She should always be the one… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 06:24 PM |
| 1 | My goal in life is to build a business and have it grow so that in the future i'm able to sell it for a nice profit which would allow me to live a very comfortable life.Which university degree would be the best for this purpose?I'm an 18 and about to graduate HS.I agree with the other commentators, I would go for IT/ Computer Science area to build a fundamental technical understanding. After completing your degree you can work for a few start ups for some years to build experience and familiarization with the industry. IT entrepreneurship tends to have community like organizations where you can meet like minded individuals and if you have the balls, go for your own thing. Alternatively you can pursuit a corporate career in IT. and make also a decent liv… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Having a roommate at 31?Solid point! | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Having a roommate at 31?Well I would like to believe he would have done the same for me, if the roles were reversed | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Having a roommate at 31?I see your point, but we go way back and he is a man of his word. That has been proven through out the years many times. Most likely they won’t even bump into him as much as he will be staying in an extra bedroom I have. But if they do, I would treat it like that. Cheers! | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Having a roommate at 31?Thanks for the input, when you put it like that, it is that simple. I guess I over complicated for no real reason. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Having a roommate at 31?He won’t be staying on the couch, he will be getting his own bedroom. Fair point the one about bitches thinking they are equal, just because they have a vagina. Thanks, its a nice new realization. I had to work my ass off for many years to reach what I did. Cheers | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 10:30 AM |
| 3 | Ex gave me a second chance sees me as just a friendIt sounds to me has no tingles for you my guy, I am sorry to say that, I know it kinda sucks as I assume you developed some feelings for her. I don’t think you can salvage much from here :/ As someone else said here , somewhere along the process you might have done something to cause this or maybe not. Just for the sake of learning and self improvement I would reflect on that, to see what might have wrong from your side. -Too available? -Too eager to please? -Always agreeable? -Weak frame? Other… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Hooked up with my former oneitis and why you should never do it.The same way as anyone does, increase SMV as much as possible by the known methods, build confidence or “inner game” (couldn’t find a better word) by adopting the TRP guidelines/sidebar etc. Put it into practice by engaging with different women until he finds one suitable for LTR, if that is the end goal. I know I am oversimplifying this but thats the idea. The low sperm count question seems to fall more into the NoFap reddit, you should check with them about that | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 09:49 AM |
| 9 | Hooked up with my former oneitis and why you should never do it.You mentioned deep down you want a relationship, I am curious why is that? Is that due to closing 30? If you lack game and abundance, a relationship will not turn well for you. You will end up betafied, due to low confidence and etc. You need to try spinning some plates first in order to build your confidence up before you jump into a relationship. There is a reason why TRP endorses plate spinning Best of luck my dude | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | [Field Report] First date on TRP. Shit tests, having a good time, escalation and rejection. This is my story.Sounds good dude, decent job specially coming back to it after a relationship, takes some balls to make the move for the kiss. I should know I am about your age. My only feedback other than the hand link the guys suggested, is the thing you told her “write me when you want to hang out again” it frames it a bit as you are now waiting for her, where it should be her who is waiting for a chance to hangout with you, remember you are the price my dude I did that mistake in the past also, now I usuall… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/18 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Paradox of showing interest and taking the lead.This is the best answer you will possibly get OP | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Recovering Bluepiller. Need help starting with rough sex.I love your breakdowns and the time you spend carefully analyzing each question in here. I salute you sir! | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 09:30 AM |
| 27 | Best mate wants to date my ex.Sad scarcity mentality from his side, why would anyone date a mates girl when there are thousands of other women? Well two ways to go about it, let him date her so basically he is taking your leftovers but reconsider seriously your friendship with him. I mean you want to hang out with a dude who is so pathetically desperate? The other option, explain to him why this is pathetic by an honest bro to bro manner and you could hope he becomes a better man. How close are you two? | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 02:33 PM |
| 19 | Have you fucks just ruined every romantic film ever made for me?For the opposite effect watch house of cards, you will really relate TRP wise with the main character | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 01:19 PM |
| 1 | I don’t like the idea of certain plates seeing other guys - how do I deal with these feelings?Yeah dude I know sounds reasonable riding it out. I am commenting to this post because I had a very similar experience to you. Was also blessed with good looks but very BP, its an interesting transition to RP I know it too well, some sort of easy mode when it comes to women kinda the thing I felt I was missing all along. I mean kinda did ok as BP...not really slaying and not exactly able to get higher HBs , also oneitis infestations, those ware the worse, that’s what brought me to TRP So I total… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 10:55 PM |
| 2 | I don’t like the idea of certain plates seeing other guys - how do I deal with these feelings?Dude seems like you are developing a really involuntary oneitis, even against your efforts to suppress it (quite extreme the photo number thing you did by the way) It is after all a chemical reaction to our brain right? I mean an evolutionary mating characteristic, biological reflex and all that bullshit...sometimes it happens man, only one thing left to do in that case. Ditch her my dude you will run out of emotional capacity to keep this up with her, before oneitis takes fully over. Even I fee… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 06:03 PM |
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