General First date question

htbf · 2017-11-14T23:31:41+00:00

Depends on the date. Depends on the girl. Depends on so name things.

You really think there are clear cut answers ?

The only clear cut answer is to escalate. Always escalate. If it leads to sex on the first date. If it doesn't, just as good, she's gonna go home wet and will be back for a second date.

SirKolbath · 2017-11-15T00:03:32+00:00

What's the deal with first dates?

They come before the second date.

Should you try and sleep with her after you ask her out on a date?

You should always be trying to sleep with her. You're either fucking her or you are orbiting her.

IMO I feel like there shouldn't be a second date.

One night stands are boring. Plates are more stimulating all the way around.

What happens if you fuck/don't fuck on the first date in simple terms?

It depends on you, it depends on the girl, and it depends on the logistics. I had a Tinder Belle blow me in the parking lot of the fancy restaurant I met her in two hours after we shook hands. Her roommate was home and I had no interest in taking her back to my house.

I had another girl I waited until the 3rd date to have sex with because she was hot and she was funny and I felt that she was worth it. Blow Job Girl was ghosted about two days later because she tried to become high maintenance. The girl I waited for is still a plate.

The only hard-and-fast fast rule is that you should be making the decisions, not a woman.

NazoXIII · 2017-11-15T01:12:35+00:00

Should you try and sleep with her after you ask her out on a date?

Yes. As a matter of fact, think of a date as foreplay's foreplay leading up to sex, because that's basically what it is.

IMO I feel like there shouldn't be a second date.

I agree, however some others may not, I never was a fan of the waiting game, IMHO if it doesn't happen in a date I'd soft next and tighten up my game and pursue other prospects. Although its really a case by case basis, I'll be a bit forgiving in some circumstances, because I don't mind not fucking, especially for legitimate reason, but if we can't fuck, like in the event of LMR its a soft next.

What happens if you fuck/don't fuck on the first date in simple terms?

If you fuck, great, if not, refer to the above.

NewThrowaway115 · 2017-11-15T00:42:11+00:00

I feel if you don't hook up on the first date, she views you as Beta Billy and not Charming Chad. Its okay, even if your game is tight, not every girl is gonna like you. Maybe she has a type/taste.

Title	General First date question
Author	bluedragon239
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	November 14, 2017 11:30 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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