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Then eh... here's a thought, hand her a pink slip and play the field.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 06:41 PM
2

*all three Can't forget Positive Masculinity.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:27 AM
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He had some severe oneitus for Robin (beta), his Play Book's ultimate end goal was for getting with Robin (the beta trap of using Game just for one girl) and despite sleeping around he would drop any chick he was with for her (oneitus despite following GFTOW) When they got married he followed her around as she was going from country to country for her career like some beta house husband (Robin was always his mission and now he's taking a backseat to hers), and robin ultimately divorces him becau…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 05:38 PM
1

Loyalty? Haha, if you want that go adopt a dog, you'll have better luck finding that trait there.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:35 PM
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Definitely strengthened my resolve. Loved that girl, and against TRPs teachings wanted to marry her someday, now I'm reading the sidebar, lifting and listening to Patrice with a "Bitches ain't shit" mindset. I won't lie, it was a much needed kick in the balls.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 01:31 AM
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Don't think to much about it, man. Take it from me, I've come across a video of my Ex-LTR getting fucked on Social Media taken when we were together, video proof of me getting cheated on for the whole world to see, and lemme tell you, could've been worse. At least she had the decency of breaking up with you first. Hoes are always gonna be hoes, use that to your advantage. There's a life lesson in all this, stop LTRing hoes.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 10:18 PM
2

No... just no. I wouldn't have met in person under any circumstance. You've been broken up for what, 4 months? In that time I'm sure she's ridden a literal mile of cocks, Why are you even humoring her?
/r/askTRP12/03/18 08:32 PM
2

How much time do you have on your hands to even be considering that? Fuck that noise, find something else productive to do, first of all, she's an ex, she's irrelevant in every sense, and not worth the time sink, feeling sorry for her or not.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 09:48 PM
47

"I'm sorry that you made me act like a total bitch". Always deflection of fault, it's never her fault.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:52 PM
2

Corey Wayne is legit, His book the How to be a 3% man has been mentioned here a few times as well.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 06:01 AM
2

That's the age of consent, pretty much everywhere.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 05:59 PM
2

Don't focus too much on what she says, especially over text. Set something up, in person, and then escalate the way you normally would. You could also run fuckboi game (play along with her "getting to know her" nonsense, all the while scheming to get her in bed)
/r/askTRP08/01/18 05:56 PM
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I really want to call you stupid, but its been done here oh so many times already... Dude, the fact that "your" girl has more red flags than a Compton block, coupled with the you thinking the necessary course of action was to treat her better means that you shouldn't post here again until you've read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 08:18 AM
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It's over, and that's okay. In situations like this, Something Patrice said on the Black Phillip show comes to mind. Think of your commitment as a Dojo, you're the black belt sensei, and she's one of your students. She realized that the shit you're teaching isn't for her, so she withdrew herself from your tutelage, this is gonna happen, that's why its beneficial to have multiple girls attending classes, from a pure numbers perspective, one of the crop will hold out long enough to at least get a …
/r/askTRP02/01/18 05:14 AM
1

This is the most /r/thathappened shit I've ever seen on here. First, formatting. Second, what even was your intent for basically insulting her unprovoked, also, why was your jacket well enough in her reach to throw it. Shit ain't adding up.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 11:47 PM
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Pick another thing in her pics to playfully poke fun at then offer to invite her over/out to insult her in person.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 11:36 PM
1

Which is fucking weird, the left I can understand tho, can't monopolize pussy side-by-side with call girls.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 11:29 PM
3

Stop dating broke women?
/r/askTRP01/01/18 07:44 PM
3

Jesus, you really are young.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 06:35 PM
7

That's something you don't have the capability to control. Unless she's with you 24/7 in direct line of sight, she could be taking a dick. Unless you catch her or find credible evidence, you shouldn't care. I was you 5 years ago, you have to learn to not give a fuck about your girl unless she's right in front of you (what did you think "Out of sight, out of mind" meant?). You'll be much saner.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 06:27 PM
5

Right on the money. If she asks, you forgot to respond.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 06:16 PM
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Hold the fuck up there bro. That's new information. So this instance is already her second chance. Don't even bother.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 10:32 PM
6

In a way, you're both kind of right. You're right in waiting a week, he's right in asking her out again (Although, let this be the final time you ask). So combine the two, wait a week and then ask her out again, if she's still being flaky, she's a soft next until she re-initiates, by which point she's a dead prospect.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 09:00 PM
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Find a creative way to check her ID. OR, yknow... find some confirmed of age pussy, this one chick isn't worth getting put on a list you can't get off of, bruv.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 08:53 PM
3

It, like others have said is a mix of a double standard, laziness, and solipsism. They want you to be accepting of their poor life choices, whilst disqualifying you for things you have no ability to control. It also doesn't even have to just be limited to being a fat ass, it could be anything that implies poor life choices. For example, Women want men to date single mothers, not because a single mother is considered some kind of virtuous thing to be sought after (although, in today's society it …
/r/askTRP31/12/17 08:26 PM
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Not every, just... most. Like 75, maybe 90% tops.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 06:59 AM
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Absolutely not. I mean, sure you could, every now and again, just to give her some comfort, but not doing that wouldn't have her heading for the hills. You must've had some really shitty friends if they would leave you hanging because of your ex, either they were never friends to begin with, or not very good ones. Either way, count your blessings.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 03:22 AM
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I would honestly study other successful rappers, but try not to emulate them (much). If you do your own prod, Study beat crafting, hell, Music theory if you have to, there's a wealth of knowledge out there. I would also look into a DAW and try your best to get the basics down, FL Studio and Ableton Live are good ones. I would also go around the music production subreddits like, /r/wearethemusicmaker and /r/musicproduction, they're a good resource to really learning the ins and outs of prod. Abov…
/r/askTRP30/12/17 03:13 AM
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So lemme get this right, do you have the right to be mad about some shit you brought on yourself? I... I'm sure you do, but it takes a lack of self awareness on a level that I thought women were only capable of. s'like me asking if I have a right to be pissed off that someone punched me in the face after I kicked them in the dick. In the grand scheme of things though, who cares whether or not she was fucking someone else before you two became exclusive, it would only be an issue if she were stil…
/r/askTRP30/12/17 03:00 AM
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I'm thinking there's more to this than what you're saying. I dated a girl for 5 years, never asked her how she was doing, regardless of how often she protested, and in the grand scheme of things, I dumped her, for boring me and not meeting my needs. So, let's really kick real shit, you said you talk about a rap career, now, are we talking actual mainstream, or even well known underground, or are you a soundcloud rapper struggling for clicks and slumming on her couch, because THAT ougta get you d…
/r/askTRP30/12/17 02:52 AM
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I was more implying two people being present to fuck one person, not quite incest, they're not fucking each other (technically), by that logic an eiffel tower would constitute gay sex. Also, Mother and Daughter sharing a guy, while not too common, happens. I've seen that shit make local news, and I'm not too willing to accept it as an american thing (I hope you aren't a limey, pawning incest off as an american thing when the royal family tree is actually a venn diagram, you've a lot of nerve), I…
/r/askTRP30/12/17 01:33 AM
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Play the game. He's actually doing you a favor, the more he builds you up as this bad boy alpha, that only wants her for sex, the easier it will be for you to get it, and the kicker, she'll trickle out how it "just happened" to him. After all, It's not your relationship to care about.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 08:55 PM
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Which is exactly why I advised you to take what you want and then walk when you want to. But if all you want to walk away with is a little detergent and some pussy, that's cool too.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 06:49 PM
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She's close enough to make her daughter meet you. Did she make her son meet you? No. Then the groundwork for a threesome or at least talking her into letting you fuck her daughter is laid. Why else would she make her daughter meet the guy she's supposed to just be lowkey fucking.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 05:08 PM
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Stop looking a gift whorse in the mouth (unless you're checking if she swallowed). Play along, see if you can wing a threesome with mom and daughter, she more or less laid the groundwork by doing this: -for some reason she had her daughter meet me (first night, wtf? I told her it was a little weird) reap the benefits you want, and get the fuck out of there if it gets to be too much for you. Simple.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 04:18 PM
1

I'm failing to see how this relates to the initial question but I'll bite. Use Facebook, sure, but if your intent is to connect with old friends, do that. But, phones exist.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 07:29 AM
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Yeah, yeah I do have a social media account, I've a Facebook and Twitter that I use for the most part to promote side projects. I also bullshit around when I feel like it. But Instagram isn't JUST social media, its social media on steroids.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 05:00 AM
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So... You want to find a decent LTR on a LITERAL Validation station. ...the fuck is wrong with you? No, no you can not. You're dumb for even asking that. Even if she's a "traiditoinal" girl that isn't going all lele pons every single dat, she's still on what's basically tinder for betas getting drunk off of those likes and reposts, that's a life that's hard for any woman to turn away for on
/r/askTRP29/12/17 02:17 AM
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All about how you feel about it. Who gives a fuck what anyone else thinks about your hobbies. If I were to say, bro drawing cartoons is gay, your response should be "that's your opinion". I play video games and record commentary, I like sewing and mending shit, I troubleshoot computers for people, i like to cook, and i mean going in the kitchen like Gordon Ramsey, and at some point I'd like to start a garden because I find that shit relaxing. bottom line, I do whatever the fuck It is that I feel…
/r/askTRP29/12/17 02:11 AM
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If I were me, I wouldn't give a fuck. If however I had the misfortune of being that guy, I would dump her because clearly there's much to be done, Improvement wise for myself. The guy does sound very very beta. Talking about breaches in trust over long distance is pussified. Being in a long distance relationship at all is questionable imho, that should've opened the gates to some side pussy, but clearly this guy LOVES his girl too much for that, 12 years be damned.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 01:35 AM
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Yeah, sure, she sounds like a cunt be he sounds like a bitch. Look at the examples given, the girl is going to music festivals and living her life while he's trying to police and regulate who she can and can't talk to from the other side of the planet. The fuck is that about. If he were doing the same he wouldn't give a shit, therein lies the problem. So in the sense, I somewhat agree with all the comments saying he's insecure. He absolutely is.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 01:30 AM
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I wouldn't care, that's my personality to a fault it seems, as I've had people get pissed at how nonchalant I typically am about everything. She wants to have guys sleep over, cool, she just demoted herself to a fuck buddy, I literally couldn't care less. No reason to get all upset.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 01:25 AM
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Its relationshits, why should it shock you. I'm half convinced that there's a canned responses flowchart floating around there, something like Is OP a man? If Yes, "He's Controlling". Nothing they or 2x says should be taken serious.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 01:20 AM
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Upvoted for the fucking Don Juan bible. Rarely is it mentioned but its old school wisdom. There s also the book of Jophil and the second book of look, The Mill.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 12:36 AM
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Of course she told the truth, don't be naive.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 09:48 PM
1

Learn 2 Uber...
/r/askTRP17/12/17 07:55 PM
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I would head for the hills. Fucking her is playing with fire, and for her to be saying shit like that after a month, Jesus.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 07:52 PM
1

That's unfortunate. I'm sure from an outsiders prospective, the guys around you are "alpha" until you start dating them. Then you'll realize that they're either real alpha players who you will "avoid" (read: get pump and dumped by), or betas that will no doubt repulse you on a biological level. Either way, I do hope you stick around and post often, your journey is gonna be a funny one to follow. I would also advise you to hit up /r/redpillwomen, because let's face it, you likely don't have the s…
/r/askTRP17/12/17 07:27 PM
1

They already do. Lemme tell you from experience. Prior to me basically going down to family court and annoying the fuck out of the judge, I was paying half of my monthly income, per WEEK. And the only reason it was lowered to a reasonable number was because I went down there and begged. And I STILL had to pay back the arrears in fucking full despite the change, they refused to recalculate what I actually owed at the new rate. The courts don't give a flying fuck about fairness. They just want you…
/r/askTRP17/12/17 07:25 PM
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Nah, let her stay. Shit, let her have a seat at the (kids) table. We need more misguided women to sit down and stomach this medicine. She'll be in redpillwomen soon enough professing the error of her ways as she sees the wall approaching.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 02:07 PM
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I am not riding the CC Well let me be the first to say, maybe you should. In normal circumstances I wouldn't advise a woman to ride the CC, but in your case it might clear up that naive notion of finding the increasingly impossible. I'm looking for a "unicorn" guy I guess. Alpha Bucks. Literally doesn't exist. And even if he did, Alpha Bucks would only be providing what he wants you to have, not what you want. And the kicker, he would still be fucking on the side. So much for a stable, committed…
/r/askTRP17/12/17 01:56 PM
1

Then by all means, feel free to study the redpill in order to avoid redpill men. Hope you someday post a FR on the main sub, will be a very funny chronicle to follow.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 01:43 PM
5

Not happening. Any law maker can easily default to the "Think of the children" bullshit rhetoric.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 12:04 PM
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So, you're basically on a provider hunt, in not so many words. Welp, atleast you're honest. Unfortunately for you, what you're looking for is a relic of the past. So, it's as I already said. Female MGTOW. Since the game has changed, and you're having difficulty obtaining what you want, you refuse to play the game. It's no different from MGTOW refusing to be a part of the SMP because women aren't as traditional as they were a half century ago, and that it's increasingly difficult to a faithful wo…
/r/askTRP17/12/17 02:27 AM
3

It may not be inherently, but its definitely one associated with RP teachings, especially in today's society where masculinity is deemed toxic almost by default. In fact, men come here in droves to learn what exactly it means to become a masculine man after years of being bluepill, because this is one of the last bastions for learning it.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 02:05 AM
3

That... Doesn't make any sense. How would one use the redpill to avoid redpill men, and then still magically happen upon a man with redpill traits. That's literally straw manning a unicorn and then rejecting said unicorn.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 01:51 AM
3

So like, Female MGTOW? Because that's what that sounds like.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 12:24 AM
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both of them have hyper sexually dismorphic faces and are super tall... Statham is actual 5'7, maybe 5'8, so I'm not sure where you're getting super tall, his fiance, Rosie Huntington-Whiteley is taller than he is and she's 5'9.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 07:54 PM
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10 dogs? The actual fuck is wrong with her? Hey man, if you still want to fuck her crazy ass, Invite her to your place, and have her bring a lint roller.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 05:06 PM
1

Ask him if its cool if you can be eskimo bros.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 10:26 PM
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Well, you're here, so you on some level know what must be done. Really think about it. To piggyback onto returnofthemackX's post, think of it like an infection, its gonna slowly work it's way through your body so long as you're attached. Its gonna eat away at you until you're just as depressed as she is, and then SHE leaves you. Is that what you want for yourself? Because right now, you're her rock in the storm, but shit WILL be different if you really get sucked into her little vortex of misery…
/r/askTRP12/12/17 10:24 PM
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By walking right the fuck away. Look, I get it, you "care" for this girl. But what she's going through isn't your cross to bear. Sure, you can stick around, but know it may never get better. It's alot better for your sanity to find a more well adjusted woman (or several). I've been there. Girl was my unicorn, but she was a fucking downer, and you know what, the more and more I got roped into her frame, I started adopting the same traits, anxiety, stress, the whole 9, it was almost like we were t…
/r/askTRP12/12/17 10:15 PM
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I wholly disagree. Women think, no, they KNOW they're THE shit. They've been told they're the shit from the moment the lumps of fat on their chests started swelling up. They can bat their eyelashes and have their nails done, bills paid, and be wined and dined like a princess, by a different guy every night. Then you come along, and you're not about to play that game, you don't over value her simply because she has several warm wet holes to jizz in. You treat her exactly for what she's worth as a…
/r/askTRP12/12/17 08:05 PM
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You treat her like one of your boys, because buddy you are her friend. From experience, words like cute, and adorable mean exactly what they sound like. Women find puppy's cute, women find babies cute, and if you fall in that category, I've got news for you... you should dread being called cute, it's womenese for unfuckable. It also goes both ways though. Call a girl cute and it'll fuck with her self esteem, sure it's flattering, but no girl over 15 wants to be cute, they all want to be hot, esp…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 08:10 AM
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Well shit, if that's what you of all people think, maybe I need to re-read the sidebar. The guy buying drinks for pussy wants to critique game. Let that sink in for a bit folks. I think I'll stay the course thanks, I do alright, not being a little beta, but by all means, you do you.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 07:48 AM
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I'm not here to convince you of anything, you can't convince me of anything, let's just agree to disagree. But I don't pay for drinks, never have and I don't plan on starting now. If you want to pay for drinks just for a chance at a sniff at it, cool, your prerogative. Just know while you're struggling to # close her even after buying a drink, she could've been fucked in the bathroom by a guy who wouldn't let her have the stem of his maraschino cherry. And I'd rather be the latter guy. At the en…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 07:05 AM
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They can get hard dick and bubblegum. Two things I don't mind parting with.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 05:11 AM
1

Depending on the point in his career, he can he either. He's currently toeing the beta line by parroting SJW shit, but it makes sense, his daughter is in her 20s now.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 12:51 AM
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Ever consider how much ass have you missed out on because the girls thought you were a bum or a wierdo when you did backflips to avoid paying $4 for her drink? Not at all, because one, I'm honest in my willingness (or lack thereof) to pay, second, I'm outcome independent. They are looking for reasons to disqualify you. Your giving them one that, honestly makes you look like your trying to hide unemployment. Good, let them. They aren't the only party in town, there's an entire club of other women…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 12:32 AM
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If drinks are only $4, why can't she buy her own? She sounds like a bum.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 10:57 PM
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Side Note: I see her more regularly than a plate, but we are not in a relationship. So lemme get this straight, she's talking to you about the same boring shit girls usually talk about with their orbiters, and/or boyfriends, and you're fucking her... Not a relationship you say? Yeah, okay. You wanna know one surefire way to dead that? The next time she's talking about shit you don't care about, pull out your phone or go someplace else in the room. Display that disinterest. (You don't even have t…
/r/askTRP11/12/17 05:34 PM
9

In the greater context, the line is "Chase a check, never chase a bitch". No one should really have to spell it out for you. But if you're dense, let's put it this way, It's always more beneficial to pursue money, than it is to pursue women. Doesn't even have to be money in particular, it could be anything beneficial to you, I.e. Your Mission.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 05:23 PM
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Which isn't up to them, really. Women want boyfriends like you or I want a million dollars to fall from the sky. In the end its something that they don't really have any control over, hence why I say its something that men like OP (betas) allow.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 04:53 PM
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Because its something men like OP allow. A simple "No girlfriend of mine goes camping with a bunch of other guys", followed by her being demoted to plate would've cleared that right up
/r/askTRP11/12/17 01:29 PM
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I was JUST in the middle of typing that. The fuck is your Invite OP? your girl is going coed camping around a bunch of literal dicks, and she didn't even invite you. Do you need the red flag shoved up your ass, perhaps?
/r/askTRP10/12/17 11:01 PM
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You're using TRP teachings to attain BP goals. It never fucking works, cut it out. That mindset is a hindrance. While you may be making progress on your body, your ability to internalize TRP is lacking. Rollo has an entire article dedicated to shattering the illusions of getting back with an ex, you should read it. He succinctly sums it up rooting through the trash you've already taken out hoping to find something of value, which just works.
/r/askTRP10/12/17 09:15 PM
2

Not even that, in my bluest of days I held the same opinion. I was always of the mindset that while women indeed got older, they mentally stopped at I would say... 16 maybe? For fucks sake, I know women in their 40s who are every bit as catty and vapid now as their younger contemporaries, which is unfortunate for them.
/r/askTRP10/12/17 05:34 PM
11

Easy, because traps ain't gay /s
/r/askTRP10/12/17 05:19 PM
2

Learn to see more than one girl at a time, aka spin plates. It's difficult, no, nigh impossible to develop oneitis when there isn't just one. Also, learn some formatting, christ.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 12:07 AM
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I think you're being too hard on yourself, you handled it well. Now I'm thinking of coming over to her flat and teasingly ask if I'm her boyfriend or not and try to lead that to sex. If your goal is getting less or no sex at all, then by all means. However if you want more sex, don't. Even teasingly asking if you're her boyfriend is beta as fuck, it's something that should never roll off your tongue. If you want to be her boyfriend you make it happen, but never, I repeat never ask her. Its the e…
/r/askTRP08/12/17 06:29 PM
4

You know who else makes kissing noises to get somethings attention? People with Dogs & Cats. You her little teacup yorkie, Petert66? Next time she does it, you ignore her. If she tells you to stop ignoring her, you ignore that too.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 06:22 PM
1

Blue pill in and of itself is about as far from alpha as you can get. An Alpha Provider is in the realm of possibility, however its rare for both of those traits to exist in one man. Hence the dichotomy.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 12:51 AM
2

While I wouldn't bank on the court giving you split custody, I wish you the beat of luck. I would still lawyer up now or at the very least seek a consultation. By the time the kid is born, if there even is one, it'll be too late. She can easily spin up some shit from now until then, rather be ready than not.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 12:48 AM
2

If she is pregnant, with my kid, I’ll fight for custody and support the child. Her income means she may pay me child support correct? Good fucking luck with that. If she makes more than you do it's gonna take all 35k just to find a lawyer good enough to convince the courts that you're more suitable. Even more for one that can swing her paying child support. she’s 39, works law enforcement That last bit is concerning, she knows the system well enough to fuck your life right up. Dude, lawyer up NO…
/r/askTRP08/12/17 12:35 AM
3

Put it this way, were the shoe on the other foot, even the nicest girl wouldn't hesitate to break yours.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 12:24 AM
1

Of course not, she calls him daddy! ...because she's his daughter, since he's grandpa.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 12:45 PM
5

Let's take a look from a different perceptive, where you see a glass half empty, I see one half full. You having the balls to kino at all puts you a full head over the guys who are too beta to even touch her so... I would however try to improve your kino, but for the most part, shits as awkward as you make it, if you can do it without making it some ceremonious thing, she likely wont mind.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:38 AM
2

So, ya want to be a Psychopath? Because that's what that entails. I mean, if that's what you really want, you could try banging your head against concrete until you either die of brain damage or develop dark triad traits. Lemme know how that turns out. No but seriously, feeling emotions is totally natural, nothing wrong with it, however the shit you do in that emotional state is what makes the difference. I like to think of myself as a pretty tough emotionless dude, in public. I've had people ca…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:21 AM
1

I know this is low quality bait, but I'll bite. You must be an IMAX or AMC employee, because the last time I saw that much projection, I was watching superheroes slug each other. What did you even hope to accomplish with that post? You offer criticism, but no advice, you're an empty barrel chattering right now, I suggest you really take the time to understand the why involved that lead to OP asking this question, before you invite yourself back into the conversation. Or shit, at the very least, …
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:10 AM
2

The concise DiCarlo escalation scale, as told by seddit (So take with a helping of salt) Don't get me wrong, it's tried and tested, but its filtered through PUA/Seduction lenses, which take TRP tactics and pepper in an unhealthy dosage of beta supplication, so as with everything else, take what you find useful and discard everything else.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 05:50 AM
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Then OP can feel free to ask and literally anyone can point him to a kino/escalation guide. Its pretty sold advice even for a newbie, the problem is how seriously some spergs may take it. No, you don't just Donald Trump them within the first minutes of meeting them, just organically up your kino when its appropriate.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 01:08 AM
1

Its not really even about material things, I like to live fairly minimalist/well below my means as well. But having a good grasp on your finances make a world of difference. Let's give some real world examples, with money you can have access to some of the best gyms in your area, as opposed to sucking up to planet fitness because you can only spare the $10 a month. You have access to some of the best nutrition (even though preparing your own food is already pretty cheap), making it easier to get…
/r/askTRP04/12/17 06:00 PM
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Being divorced in her 20s nets her a low maintenance plate at best. Fuck, being married in your 20s is a red flag. She's working a time table, next up is baby rabies, I think I'll pass.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 05:32 PM
2

With it being in mexico, which is 90% catholic, neither is anal.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 04:27 PM
2

Don't get me wrong, there's no doubt in my mind that his friend is beta. But it's still his friend, and friendship, regardless of how beta said friend is, is always worth more than pussy IMO. If OP doesn't feel that way and he'd like to pursue this girl, now isn't exactly a good time to do so. What, will he cut off his friend to try to fuck his girl? How well do you think that will go over? That's some pedestrianizing, oneitis bullshit.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 04:10 PM
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You don't, you make your actions sexual rather than your words. Afterward, it really doesn't matter what you say.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 04:05 PM
5

This is a powder keg full of drama waiting to explode and you're standing over it fumbling with a match. Stop it. I get that you want to fuck this girl, and I get how little you respect their relationship, shit I wouldn't either if they do the on off thing, but regardless its still your friend's relationship. So think with your head, well... the one on your shoulders that is. If you're friend is as good as you say, you nut up and apologize. "Look man, I'm sorry, that's just how I talk to girls, …
/r/askTRP04/12/17 03:43 PM
3

I haven't, too much bullshit to drudge through. Let me give some cliffnotes. From some of the most recent shit I've had to deal with in regards to my 5yr ex-LTR. I've seen shit that would make MGTOW take up arms, as said before, me and my ex-LTR have a kid, a kid that that I cannot see, full stop. Why? because she painted me as a child abuser to family court towards the end of the relationship. She had no proof, didn't need to show any either, purely her word against mine was all it took, and it…
/r/askTRP04/12/17 02:53 PM
5

Whether you do or don't, as I said before, its High School, regardless of who/what you do, it won't matter, unless of course you live in a very very small town. Personally, you get more mileage out of owning it, but, and I cannot stress it enough, it's still high school.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 08:34 AM
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Ah, then you are fucked. She's gonna talk, everyone's gonna know, the principal's gonna give a speech about SuperbDuke's sex life over the PA system, alert the both of your parents as well as the local congregation... Now that I've played out the worst case scenario for you, let's take a trip back to the real world. She may or may not talk, who cares. If she's an uggo, and you're embarrassed, you play the "doesn't matter, had sex" card, and put forth your best IDGAF attitude. Its high school, no…
/r/askTRP04/12/17 08:03 AM
5

To start: Be wise with your money. At 18 I don't really expect you to have any serious expenses or debt, so the best time to learn to budget is now, simplest way is the 50/30/20 rule, 50% of your weekly/monthly income goes to necessities, 30% is disposable, and 20% to savings. You'd be shocked to learn that people 10 to 20 years your senior are only just now realizing the value in it, so take this as your head start. IMHO, there is nothing more important than being wise with your finances, it pa…
/r/askTRP04/12/17 07:41 AM
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Can you keep your mouth shut? (Aside from asking here, obviously). If so, you should be good. But you do realize, women talk, women don't like to be kept a secret, unless of course she's keeping you a secret as well. She can open her mouth out of spite for the above, and you won't be able to do fuck all to stop her, however, if her audience isn't mutual company, don't stress it too much.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 06:45 AM
1

So she has options, okay and? The way I see it, if I'm dating a chick, she has nowhere to go but down, meaning everything after me is a downgrade, she has no choice but to settle for an off-brand knock off because I am, I have been, and I always will be the prize. Now whether that's the right way to go about things, I don't really know or care, but it certainly makes it easier to remain detached.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 06:40 AM
5

Susan has told me if she ever caught me with another woman she would fuck my best friend She sounds nice, 10/10 LTR material, amirite? she says she's ready for a serious relationship Like fuck she is, see the above. Downside: she's a slut. (Or used to be acording to her) Every woman is for the right guy, also, once a slut always a slut, and a slut is never worth more than plating. I say keep fucking them both, you have no exclusivity to either so who cares if they find out, shit if they do, you'…
/r/askTRP04/12/17 06:31 AM
2

I don't do them, nor do I believe in them. Quite frankly at this point I'm burned out, I've been a serial monogamous my entire life, just got out of a 5 year LTR (with a kid), and in the weeks and days leading up to me dumping her a few months back I've seen every AWALT trait. It was fucking sobering, and I already considered myself pretty red (being in an LTR notwithstanding). It really is TRP on hard mode, even being unplugged and knowing the nature of women. Having someone go from "I love you…
/r/askTRP04/12/17 06:14 AM
7

You don't, she's after your attention, not your dick. Withdraw attention and pursue other tinder chicks, She'll either get the message or not.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 08:41 PM
12

If sex is what you want, fuck her, and tell no one. If not then unmatch, the hell is this let her down politely, you're playing games here, go with the simplest solution.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 10:13 PM
3

Dude, just ask her out on a date, it literally doesn't get simpler than that. She either accepts or doesn't, which isn't the worst thing in the world. If you tell her flat out that your intent is to date then she has no reason to bring her friend along.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 08:15 PM
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No doubt, all in saying is, nobody will actively pursue them, them going out to slut it up is already implied in the act, make no mistake, which is why I said if she cheats, she cheats.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 08:26 PM
1

I probably play at lot more games than I should, hell, for that past couple of days I've been enraptured in Horizon Zero Dawn, but I can say for a fact it hasn't had a negate effect. But everyone is different. If you don't think it's interfering with anything, fucking go for it.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 04:49 PM
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I guess I'm from the second camp that doesn't really give a fuck, and I would advise you do the same. Because lets face it, if she cheats, you'll never know, but the if isn't really important. When it ever comes to light, you just drop her, simple. But I wouldn't hold too much stock in a couple of post-wall women getting any attention during a night out let alone cheating.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 04:40 PM
13

Exactly! Women like to say that to beta-tize you. Say you'll end up sad, lonely, etc, but that's the projection. A man can live the rest of his days as a hermit and be happy, a woman, not so much. The fate of an old maid is terrifying to them, so they think men must feel the same way, that's hardly the case.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 07:21 PM
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I agree with her but for different reasons. Yes, abundance makes it hard to connect, but that's not a bad thing. If you have many options, it helps keep you less invested, and each individual option makes it nearly impossible to succumb to oneitis, because how can you obsess over one when there are many women vying for your time? as well as various other benefits. You having options, and pickiness are not bad traits like she tried to portray, although, I do see how they would seem less than idea…
/r/askTRP28/11/17 06:37 PM
2

You never respond I'm doing great. It's better to just not say anything. You say "I'm doing great" and she'll be relieved, not because you're okay, but because she can wipe away any guilt she felt at the end of the relationship. She's not asking if he's okay for anything other than self interest, this is why you block and let her hamster spin, she never gets the satisfaction of closure.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 05:07 PM
1

I don't think you're putting it on a pedestal, sounds like you have yourself on a pedestal and see everything as an investment in a better you, Keep that mindset.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 12:14 AM
1

Do you go out every weekend for the sole purpose of getting pussy and does it ruin your week if you don't? Do you get mad at women who won't fuck you, instead of pursuing the ones who will? Do you spend more time in the pursuit of pussy than doing literally anything else you'd rather be doing? If you answer yes to any of these then well... Otherwise, its not on a pedestal. You're even on the right track in thinking that being here in the first place kind of shows that you don't or don't want to …
/r/askTRP27/11/17 11:04 PM
1

But I always have this question in my head if spending so much time on game worth it? Yes. The 8 months you've spent will pay figurative dividends if you keep at it. I wouldn't worry too much about becoming a PUA because... let's face it, there's a reason why seddit often gets shit on here, It places pussy on a pedestal, they're not doing what they do from a genuine place, they're not approaching women because they want to, they do it because they feel they have to to get that pat on the back, a…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 07:35 PM
1

Yes, it's beneficial to everyone if utilized properly. The % of people that can actually spin plates are everyone willing to put in the time, so as low as 1% and as high as 100%. Why haven't you been able to spin plates? Is it something you can't or wont do? I've seen fat ugly fuckers with HB8/Dimes, so I'm not sure I see much of a correlation between below average looks and plates. I forget who said it, but I'm leaning towards Rollo, but the saying goes, "Looks, Status, Game. Having all 3 is gr…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 06:51 PM
1

Got two other holes bruv
/r/askTRP27/11/17 05:35 AM
5

How you can't identify even the most basic play for attention and validation is completely beyond me. I'm sure there are posts on the main sub that cover this in detail but the cliffnotes, anything a woman posts on social media is for attention, its not even subtle. Back when I used Facebook, I couldn't scroll through my timeline without seeing a "just got my nails/hair done" posts, complete with a selfie/image, with the comment section filled to the brim with thirsty betas. Its an untapped well…
/r/askTRP26/11/17 05:54 PM
1

Just giving her a little taste of what she will never get again. A type of bittersweet ending. I'm gonna tell you something you should already kind of know, once its over, you'll be the furthest thing from her mind. She won't be thinking of you at all in the hours following a break up, and that's just the reality, she'll be off looking for the next dick or twelve. So in the end, your efforts are wasted. I don't understand why she can't just say shit instead of hinting at me. Welcome to Womenolog…
/r/askTRP25/11/17 01:03 AM
1

I think I just sent the picture to try and make her feel guilty, and expose the hypocrisy And how many times have you successfully done that to a woman? Because I think that would qualify you to drop a quality red pill example/theory post on the main sub, haha. Joking aside, I don't think a man among us can make a woman feel guilty over her own hypocrisy, she'll always spin her actions into a positive, this is why the double standard exists. I told her that I was going to do it, because I'm not …
/r/askTRP25/11/17 12:46 AM
1

You could've handled it better by withdrawing attention and letting her throw her little tantrum without an audience. She suckered you into her frame, and you took it hook line and sinker, especially here I sent a picture of a rule she sent to me which was something like "If you are mad at the other person don't just break up" which was soft as all living shit, even worse considering its beta shit that you claim she sent you, regurgitated back at her. Then she goes onto say how she doesn't want …
/r/askTRP25/11/17 12:32 AM
2

You respond as you have, by ignoring it. She's the one with the problem, why invite her bullshit into her life, if she's unhappy about something that has very little to do with you, that's on her. If she ever decides to talk to you without forcing you to ask, then you can listen, not telling you have to be her psychiatrist though, but you never be the one to ask. I've had great success with whiny women by pulling them in close and letting them vent on my shoulder, you can optionally stroke their…
/r/askTRP24/11/17 11:04 PM
1

Okay, now with more context I'm getting the feeling that, her parent's are her alpha, and they fed her that "Strong, Independent women" BS to boot. Its really not worth it now, her parent's will always be more alpha than you can be, and they'll always be in her ear telling her to act against her nature, so she'll have none of your gaming. I'd like to give condolences but... shouldn't that have been apparent long before you committed? Anyway, as other's have said, next.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 10:47 PM
3

Wow, sounds dysfunctional, I'm not even sure if its worth saving to be honest. If her response to dread is wanting to break up, then you're not that important to her. Sure it's the nuclear option, but it works more often than it doesn't, and in this case it isn't, so either you're not doing something right, or she just doesn't care. But wait just a second, why are you using the nuclear option to force her into submission? That's not what its used for. If you want her to submit, you must first be…
/r/askTRP24/11/17 10:04 PM
2

If there's no event make one, but chances are, there has to be something of interest going on in your local area, you just aren't looking hard enough, if at all. Also drop the "you can join" as well as the "if not", you never phrase it as a suggestion, or a question. "I'm gonna take a walk through the park to unwind and have a little fun, come on", as said earlier, if there's truly no event going on, make one. Grab a coffee, sit on a bench and people watch, have a picnic, its entirely up to you,…
/r/askTRP24/11/17 09:51 PM
1

Anywhere really, I can see the gym not going well because, quite frankly a lot of women are lazy, the very few that do devote the time to go there are merely there for the attention, or in pursuit of garnering attention at a later date. If you have anything interesting going on, invite her. "This band I like is playing at X on Y, let's/we should go", simple
/r/askTRP24/11/17 09:33 PM
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True, but in the same song, Adam's verses make him seem very aware of women's nature, if even on a cursory level. He's aware that his turn is over, that she's burned down any bridge she's had with him, that love as he knew it doesn't exist, and that there will never be a Disney fairy tale. Sure it's basic stuff, but it definitely shows awareness. However, coming from a guy singing garbage like "She will be loved", it's really hard to tell.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 09:09 PM
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I don't know, some of their songs have red pill truths in them, payphones, particularly the version with Wiz Khalifa actually helped me finally swallow the pill.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 07:40 PM
2

Dude, keep guns out of the equation, keep violence as a whole out of the equation. Its baser shit. You don't need to resort to it. My advice, hang with positive people and find two good bros that you can confide in and you'll realize you don't need to be a hot head. Also, Jesus, do they really not do any kind of mental health background checks for guns? How badly has the system failed..
/r/askTRP24/11/17 07:27 PM
1

What's the old boxing adage? "Everybody has a plan until they get punched in the face"? There's always gonna be somebody bigger, badder and crazier than you, and I'm not too confident how you're gonna be when they've got you in their sights, especially with you beating women. No offense. Usually anyone that hits women gets mousy when it comes to fighting men.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 07:20 PM
1

Because she sees that what she did has physical ramifications, which works in an archaic society, but not ours. The reality of the matter is, she's a 1 in a million level of stupid. One call to the cops would have you fucked for life, which I can honestly see happening. Are you gonna keep rolling the dice and waiting for your card to be pulled or are you capable of cutting this shit out at the root. She's afraid of you because she thinks you're crazy (and the jury is still out on that one), what…
/r/askTRP24/11/17 06:52 PM
2

So you beat her for cheating? That's Omega male level shit. Even beta's have less scarcity than you do it seems. Let me read the situation in an armchair manner, You've made her a unicorn because she was the only girl that would even look your way over the course of two years (which is your fault, if you were gaming, and working on you, you wouldn't have these problems) and you're mad at yourself that she can't live up to your expectations, and that's what makes you violent. The problem isn't he…
/r/askTRP24/11/17 06:49 PM
1

Right? Give it a day or so and 2X or just about any blue pill sub will be using this as ammo to paint us all as women beaters...
/r/askTRP24/11/17 06:39 PM
2

Sexual strategy is Ammoral Beating on women isn't sexual strategy. Lets talk about whether or not beating your woman is a good sexual strategy to keep her sucking your dick, on a leash, and respectful Let me save you the trouble, it isn't, that's not even up for debate. Also, you know you need help but you think that shouldn't be the focus here? The fuck is wrong with you. The very core of TRP is getting your shit together, we don't do this for the pursuit of pussy, pussy is the byproduct. If yo…
/r/askTRP24/11/17 06:38 PM
2

What the fuck man, in the world we live in, with all this free range pussy, you choose to beat on the girl that cheats on you? I don't know how much further my disbelief can be suspended. You just jeopardized your freedom, for pussy, pussy easily given away at that. Fucking a...
/r/askTRP24/11/17 06:33 PM
5

This... fucking has to be a troll post. On the off chance that it isn't, go get some help, please.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 06:23 PM
6

Tl;dr: Yes, you lost frame, stop being reactive. Let me explain something to you friendo, the only reason anyone has to explain anything to anyone is if the other person is genuinely unaware. Women are never unaware, I know we typically see them as the most responsible child in the room, but even children know how to manipulate (don't think so? Go to any shopping area and watch children basically game their parent to get them shit), She knows exactly what she was doing, therefore calling her out…
/r/askTRP24/11/17 05:04 PM
8

You know how girls have food orbiters, and "Help me open this jar or move some furniture" orbiters? Well, you now have a nudes plate, it's all a matter of perspective.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 05:58 AM
2

It isn't, anyone that tells you that wanting to fuck is a negative trait can beat feet. If it were, 101% of us wouldn't be here. Does it give you a certain reputation? sure, especially if you're doing it right.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 08:30 PM
1

Does the phrase "Doesn't matter, had sex" not mean anything to you? Unless you wanted a relationship with this girl, you've gotten what you wanted. What is this a humble brag? haha
/r/askTRP22/11/17 08:25 PM
1

I would've just told her I was busy, damn anything else she has to say. We don't negotiate with terrorists. All of that tit for tat "But you had time to xyz" bullshit is a sign of disrespect imho, she's comfortable enough to challenge shit you say, d(r)ead that.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 08:20 PM
3

Well... not unless you're a fan of Yo Gotti.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 08:18 PM
1

You can, but it's all a matter of if you find it worth it or not. She's a post wall, single mother with 16 years of baggage, this may be the hardest lay you've ever worked for, for what ultimately amounts to another man's literal leftovers. I'd put a 3 date cap on it, if you can't smash by then, the milk has spoiled.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 06:36 PM
11

I second Vasily's statement. You aren't ready for an LTR if shit like this bothers you, not saying you shouldn't be upset about flaking but you're response shouldn't have been to explain yourself, you should've dropped her off and ghosted her for at least a few days. Your silence is far more potent than your explanation, and yes, you did look needy as fuck by explaining to her.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 05:16 AM
2

The line between fame and infamy are thin, you should want to be hated, beats the fuck out of no one knowing who you are. Use it to your advantage. If you want friends, don't look to your small community, branch out, meet like minded people through your hobbies and meetups.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 05:12 AM
1

She's the trifecta of "women to run from", A Post Wall, Alpha Widow, single mother. Don't even bother. Find a chick your own age (18 - 25 range), with no kid and no dead husband baggage.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 12:48 AM
1

A word of advice. Don't add chicks you want to pursue on Social Media. If asked if you have instasnapbook+ you lie to her even under threat of torture. Being friends with a women you want to fuck on FB works to your detriment, in their mind, having you as a friend online is worth 10 of you IRL, you become a number she can look to for validation and a trinket she can boast about to her equally vapid friends. Just don't do it.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 12:41 AM
3

Don't say anything, simple. She wants that sweet sweet attention, to know that after alls said and done you're still willing to talk to her, starve her ass and watch the hamster spin.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 08:37 PM
4

Plates and FWBs don't count though, you're not committed to either, they're just for fun, which is why they can't technically cheat. If a plate or FWB is fucking someone on the side, you high five her, strap up and enjoy your turn on her. So to answer your question, yes, it is a level of detachment.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 07:22 PM
5

HB11 So, you're off to a good start, she's already on a pedestal... She will be with bf (he has money, i am currently broke) The part in bold should be of a higher priority for you than some pussy, fix it. I am more goodlooking even if shorter But do ya lift breh? Because if he's taller than you, and richer than you, and he's in better shape, your looks will amount for fuck all. I have to get HB11 in my life, ASAP. So this is what cringe reads like, TIL. My advice, stop obsessing, game her or do…
/r/askTRP21/11/17 06:49 PM
1

Still comes off as trying too hard, and it puts way too much wiggle room in her hands, what's you're next move if she says she doesn't want you over? This is why for the most part we advocate doing something (even if its like 5/10 minutes of grabbing coffee near her) then making an excuse to go over to her place, plausible deniability, yeah? Find something interesting near her, invite her to it, with it being in such a close proximity to her she really has no excuse to ghost, have fun and then m…
/r/askTRP21/11/17 06:38 PM
2

They absolutely do, thing is, a rich, fit, in shape alpha has more pussy than he knows what to do with, so why should he care if one cheats.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 05:20 PM
5

The hell kind of immature game are you running? Cut the shit and lead like a man, if you feel she's losing interest its wholly due to you playing around and not leading. You want to fuck her, drop the playful lol shit because it doesn't read well in text (or in general), save playful banter for in person, hit her up and tell her "I'm gonna be doing X on Yday, come thru", if she flakes she flakes, but you shouldn't keep that from inviting her out at most once more, this is why you should have shi…
/r/askTRP21/11/17 12:38 AM
3

When it's convenient...
/r/askTRP20/11/17 01:12 AM
2

Pull him to the side the next time you see him and tell him its over, because it is and then go your separate ways, it doesn't get simpler than that. I would also get the idea of "we can break up now and get married someday" completely out of your mind, because someone will move on, this isn't Friends, the two of you aren't Ross and Rachel and I doubt there's an "If were both not married at 40" blood pact.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 01:11 AM
1

It should be fixed now.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 10:29 PM
2

No you didn't do the right thing, you did Omega shit bruv. The icing on the cake, you got mad at her for the way YOU let her treat you. Here's the thing about the friend zone, it's a self imposed prison, it's like an adult daycare, no one is keeping you there and you're free to leave whenever the fuck you feel like it, and you chose to stay thinking of the prospect of pussy, that's entirely on you. I get that anger though, you feel like you wasted 4 years of your life, don't you? You're upset ri…
/r/askTRP18/11/17 09:25 PM
12

I'm of the impression that by her changing the date she was trying to flake you out, it didn't work so she then had to find any excuse to get out of the date. Steel your game and keep at it with other girls, bruv, don't sweat or overthink this one.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 08:47 PM
9

You are more or less fucked, nothing you can do except prepare for the inevitable, Child Support (or whatever the equivalent is in Europe). Any and all attempts to talk her into an abortion not only dig a deeper hole for you, but can be used against you in family court should you opt to go that route. If you want no ties to the kid, then go ghost, but expect a non-negotiable portion of your salary to be garnished. There's a link in the side bar that can go over this better than I can, Got a stra…
/r/askTRP18/11/17 08:23 PM
6

Bad idea, personally, i'm leery about lengthy phone calls with an LTR let alone plates, simply because I've better shit to do and anything longer than a few minutes literally devolves into one or both parties listening to the other breath, fuck that noise... But to answer your question, you don't, spin other plates and fuck her if she's ever back in town, but don't under any circumstances try to LDR a plate.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 09:31 AM
7

You don't. You're so far in her frame right now that you look like the guy holding his girl's purse in a mall. You broke up with her and she reigned you back in, she said you're still together and she said you two are exclusive, and you agreed, the entire relationship from then on operates entirely in her frame. Only power you have now is walking away really, because getting back with an ex almost always a losing proposition.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 01:45 AM
2

"its time for me to ghost baby" ... Jesus fuck, why would you tell her outright? You NEVER tell a girl what you're gonna do, you just do it, your actions will always speak louder than words. You fucked yourself right there, you basically told her you were hard nexting her. I would honestly be shocked if you could turn that around, and honestly it would be less effort to chase new prospects than to undo a fuck up.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 01:02 AM
3

Get some trim on the side until she comes around. If she's not fucking she shouldn't have any expectation of you not fucking, this is why we don't LTR girls we haven't fucked, would you buy/lease a car without test driving? (Yes, that is applicable to LTRs as well, not just marriages)
/r/askTRP17/11/17 04:07 PM
0

Fuck what she thinks, she's an ex, her opinion of you should hold about as much weight as a stranger you just met in the street, maybe even less. How can she even text you from a blocked number? (read: why is she not blocked on any mediums?) Edit: Nvm, she didn't text you directly, in this case, I would tell the friend who showed you the text to cut that shit out, that's shit stirring for unnecessary drama.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 03:57 PM
1

When I say no I feel guilty and No more Mr nice guy
/r/askTRP17/11/17 04:36 AM
4

I can't plate both Why the hell not? what are some basic guidelines/rules you would go by to determine the best choice out of the two Who has the better body, better face, etc., not exactly rocket science, its whatever you want really, these are plates not LTR prospects, who gives a shit if the losing one finds you shallow for not picking her. I would still try to swing both.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 01:21 AM
1

They don't care about your philosophy even if you're attractive. They'll feign interest, and give shallow meaningless responses, keep these kinds of talks with guys. Don't think in terms of introvert and extrovert, that's an easy copout for people who are just socially retarded for lack of a better term, if you put yourself out there and flex your conversational muscles, even you could talk up anyone with the efficacy of a party guy. Just be fun, have fun hobbies, a life you genuinely enjoy, lea…
/r/askTRP17/11/17 01:11 AM
1

You become/remain interesting by being consistently inconsistent, always keep her guessing, always. It, for the most part is pretty binary, you're either interesting or you're boring, so as long as you aren't boring, you're in. You know what breeds boredom? Comfort, routine, etc. Always have something to do, don't let her get too comfortable and the chips will fall where they need to, and try to keep everything lighthearted and fun, don't try to have these deep, philosophical convos with women, …
/r/askTRP16/11/17 03:51 PM
1

Ghost and copy everything. If at all the fuck possible, go into the facebook settings and have them send you a back up of the entire profile in the form of a .zip. (Don't use facebook, but last I checked that was a legacy setting), and back up those messages to a safe (preferably remotely accessible) location. If shit goes south you want to have a credible paper trail ready to be sent to the proper authorities.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 05:18 AM
1

Never underestimate the beta male's propensity for violence in the pursuit of pussy, every day someone get's their shit kicked in because some dick head wanted to impress a damsel, something had to inspire Helen of Troy and Lady McBeth. They might not show up to fight OP on their own volition, but rest assured, if the plate tells them to, they will, because in their mind, they've got everything to gain.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 05:14 AM
12

Its a bit different, Chris Brown bounced back because, as said before it was a different time, coupled with the fact that he has the air of bad boy crazy alpha around him, and that he was a young attractive, wealthy musician, which basically put him well into the top percentile of men. Louie on the other hand is 50 something year old, out of shape, balding man, who were it not for comedy would be labeled creepy on his best day. Its simply a matter of attraction, Chris could do what Louie did and…
/r/askTRP16/11/17 02:23 AM
2

Literally nobody cares, at all. The only time people will ever try to use your height against you is if they see it bothers you, so stop letting it. As for handling shit tests, ignore them, doesn't matter how you do it, you can look them square in the eyes and pause with a smirk and act as if you're not bothered by that, which you shouldn't be. You could even be funny with it, the next time a chick rags on your height, I want you to look her in the eyes, shoot her a smile and tell her "We're all…
/r/askTRP16/11/17 02:00 AM
3

No use thinking too much about guys she's fucked in the past, what happened before you two hooked up should be irrelevant. Do you really care who sat in the chair you're sitting in before you did? Doubt it. The one thing I take issue with here is you saying It was a one time thing and I don’t think it’s ever going to happen again because they barely know each other. They knew each other well enough to fuck before, thinking it can't happen again because "They barely know each other" is stupid. I …
/r/askTRP16/11/17 01:51 AM
2

No, treating her like she isn't there is as beta as it gets, it basically broadcasts you're butthurt. Be cordial, and outcome independent, whatever you're meeting with your friends for, focus on that, this isn't rocket science. Why do you even feel the need to have a rebuttal? You fucked up, own it, I wouldn't bring it up, nor would I ever attempt to game her, she's a dead prospect.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 03:49 AM
1

Your friend is already doomed, I wouldn't say anything, it won't end well either way. Consider the following, your friend is willing to marry a chick he met online... in ANY circumstance that's beta if not omega levels of desperate, I don't know how you can see that and think "Y'know, maybe this guy would take well to being unplugged". What he's about to go through with is his decision, it's what he wants, let him have it. The best thing you can do is be there when shit goes south if he's as goo…
/r/askTRP15/11/17 03:38 AM
5

What I gather from that was, at one point she may have been down, but over the course of 3 months she had mentally placed you wherever it is that women place guys they have zero desire to fuck, not saying you were beta because you weren't exactly providing anything and you hung out at your discretion, so kudos for that much at least, however once you were out of the races for someone she would fuck no amount of game would or could change that, so in her mind she saw an "orbiter" making a move an…
/r/askTRP15/11/17 03:23 AM
2

If you're approaching like that I say you're on the right path, but how you're approaching is what may be the issue. If you're doing it out of desperation then anyone you approach will smell it on you irrespective of gender. The old adage of a woman being able to smell your intent isn't far from the truth, I mean, even your buddy can see it. Don't think of any dry spill, don't approach women simply to fuck, don't get me wrong, that will work too but not where you are now, approach because you ge…
/r/askTRP15/11/17 02:05 AM
2

So she wasn't your girlfriend and she fucks off (pun not intended but...) for two months and you want her back? No, no you don't, you only think you do. I messaged her last night and said i missed her and that we should meet up soon. You just did yourself a favor, albeit indirectly, she's gonna run for the fucking hills now Got no response Of course not, she's been with Tom, Dick and Harry by now, what use are you to her, the carousel is a hellova drug. Continue to fuck other girls and live your…
/r/askTRP15/11/17 01:45 AM
1

For every "I love you" text add an extra stroke to your long game, and I'm not talking golf.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 01:32 AM
4

I know you don't think its oneitis, but brother let me tell you, after 3 dates I don't think i would even remotely consider an LTR or be looking at anyone that way, but you know your mind better than anyone else. My advice, plate her if you want, feel her out, fuck her brains out and then subsequently back in, repeatedly over the course of at least 3 months, then and only then should you be considering her as anything more than someone to kick it with, preferably one of many.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 01:27 AM
2

Should you try and sleep with her after you ask her out on a date? Yes. As a matter of fact, think of a date as foreplay's foreplay leading up to sex, because that's basically what it is. IMO I feel like there shouldn't be a second date. I agree, however some others may not, I never was a fan of the waiting game, IMHO if it doesn't happen in a date I'd soft next and tighten up my game and pursue other prospects. Although its really a case by case basis, I'll be a bit forgiving in some circumstan…
/r/askTRP15/11/17 01:12 AM
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3 dates haven't even had sex LTR potential I could sock you with a rolled up newspaper right now. No... Just no. I'm gonna need you to read up on oneitis and plate theory for your own sake. I wouldn't even proceed until you've at very least become aware of the basics.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 12:30 AM
2

I wish it were more normal to be honest. I hate the mentality where guys your age feel they NEED a girlfriend. At your age, your top priority should be yourself.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 08:38 PM
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Soft next. I've been there, Its always a reactionary attempt to get you back into their frame, its a power move, either she'll come around and recant or she wont, but who really cares you have better shit to do, no?
/r/askTRP14/11/17 08:33 PM
1

In the defense of the book, we have to remember that it was written in 80 some odd years ago, when traits like that weren't then considered pushover behavior, times and people have changed. WISNIFG and NMMNG could easily offset any pushover behavior the book teaches too.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 08:29 PM
2

Yeah, you missed your window bruv. In the future dial back conversation, and keep it mostly for logistics and setting up shit. All isn't lost though, if she's got you on snap you can still salvage her later down the line if you fill your stories with interesting shit and/or hotter girls. Good luck.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 08:17 PM
1

Why the fuck are you not using condoms in a place where abortion is illegal? Especially in the case of a plate with obvious issues. You do realize you had every opportunity to realistically get fucked over, right? I agree with the general tone here, fucking run, but before then, I would make sure, like with 110% certainty that she hasn't been knocked up, because the last thing you want here is to think you're getting off scott free only for her to get vindictive. You can never anticipate crazy.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 04:47 PM
1

Yeah, sure. That way if anything goes south, they'll know exactly where you work. /s
/r/askTRP18/10/17 02:20 AM
2

I know OPs post is kind of dreary, but a moment of silence for the guy who knocked up OPs ex, couldn't have been seeing her for a few months and he's already lost the game.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 10:56 PM
15

Brother, if I were you I'd be thankful that all I lost was a 5 month relationship. What you're feeling right now will heal in due time. But you'll never move forward thinking about it and doing nothing with it. There's gotta be something else in the last ten months that was more of a use for your time.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 08:08 PM
4

"Go fuck ten other women", hell talking to 10 other women would suffice. If you can go out and make connections with other women, and slip them the D (optional), you'll realizes oneitis girl isn't special.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 01:34 PM
2

Its not rocket science, unless of course that's what you're into. Off of the top of your head, what are 3 -5 things you do, preferably well, and don't find boring, that should give you a baseline.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 01:21 PM
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She made your decision for you, enjoy all the strange you'll be having while she focuses on euro-cha-I mean her studies. As for talking about it, don't. Talk about what? Nothing, just move on. If after her trip she wants to chat you up, you plate her to your benefit, but only if you're certain there's no oneitis on your part.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 01:30 AM
3

You don't have to tell anyone anything. Silence is golden, or you can just tell them you won't get into telling them anything. I've been there, and from experience, being direct about keeping your privacy just that goes over much better than beating around the Bush or giving vague answers. Best case scenario, they'll respect your privacy and drop it, if not then well why the hell are you bothering to put up with anyone that doesn't respect your wishes?
/r/askTRP13/11/16 09:04 PM
3

Well, with a pad up his ass it'll definitely make it easier for her to peg him. Something something, small victories.
/r/MGTOW03/05/16 09:06 PM
1

Agree and amplify is somewhat applicable. However, a part of me is saying that it's none of her business and you should pretend she never asked.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 07:51 PM
2

Well, if you're gonna pay to lay on a bench and feel sorry for yourself you might as well do it while lifting.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 06:31 PM
2

Kanye is for all intents and purpose an idiot. A cautionary tale of what not to aspire to be. His fame is on a steep decline and he's spent the entirety of his career being a somewhat successful beta. He rode the validation machine courtesy of all of the yes men he's surround himself with, and clearly it took a toll on his mental health. Now he's throwing tantrum, starting beefs where there weren't any, and being stupid with his money, the antithesis of a TRP man. Kanye is already heading toward…
/r/askTRP26/02/16 07:10 PM
3

Looks like they used their typical shame into submission tactics, can't say I'm at all surprised. I'm a bit relieved that It didn't take long to find responses that were somewhat rationally dissecting this, some even pointed out that she literally waited for him having no other place to go before pitching shit to leave him homeless, which is some spot on Machiavellian shit.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 07:35 PM
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She's catshit crazy. And of course, due to the nature of relationshits any and all posts that even called that into question have gotten downvoted. Also, you should've used a reddit archive to link to that, don't need their ilk seeing that that post is linked to anything TRP related or they'll feel inclined to brew a shit storm.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 06:27 PM
4

It's hard to have a monopoly on pussy when Game breeds an abundance mentality. Their power is threatened by it, plain and simple.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 03:13 AM
7

What I find funny is he, as a fucking lawyer.... Should've not only known better, but knew that she being a lawyer knew she wouldn't see any serious time. Moron, and I feel no sympathy for him.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 06:51 PM
17

Because it is. She's using all the buzz words and showing signs of retroactively removing consent. If I were OP I'd proceed with caution.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 05:21 PM
2

Reading thru the comments, Amused Mastery and Soft dread are your go to. Also, doesn't seem to be much to worry about if she's still fucking you not short after.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 10:17 PM
1

Those the only two instances or can you remember any more?
/r/askTRP10/01/16 09:53 PM
1

He can't. He's young, dumb and placated by a little snatch. In the summer she'll have finally chosen, and it will go the way you and I both know it will, and he'll be back here asking if there was anything he couldve done differently, and we'll refer him back to this thread filled with comments how he should've dumped the slag.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 08:20 PM
2

It's definitely very sobering, gives you an idea of the delusions that go on in the minds of women.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 10:19 PM
2

Both of them sound cringeworthy, the hell are you doing entertain that caliber of female, OP?
/r/askTRP07/01/16 01:39 AM
1

Its a sad state of affairs when I've seen shit like this before. But your relationship with your mother is pretty damn toxic (and don't worry... that's becoming common, so nothing to feel too bummed out about), not saying in some of the scenarios you aren't at fault, but regardless of that, toxic relationship, and that's straight talk. Your only options are to suck it up and take it, continue getting your A's and C's and try for an Away College or If college isn't your thing, get your own flat. …
/r/askTRP07/01/16 01:16 AM
2

I'm her first Irrelevant, hell, her actions seem to say very different. and he goes to school seven hours drive away so I don't think that would happen There are these wonderful things called breaks, weekends, etc, he didn't just NOT fuck her and leave her an alpha widow, you'd be naive to rule it out. The only alternative would be that he's the Omega of all males and his validation defies logic and somehow soaks her panties right off, which only happens in BP Romcoms. but I'm down to fuck other…
/r/askTRP07/01/16 01:03 AM
1

The romanticizing of strange foreign cock? With the way their minds work, that's the first logical conclusion I've drawn.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 10:47 PM
5

She owns him but he's not committed to her and can and has already walked away from her leaving you to pick up the pieces? Sounds like something a BB would say about an AF.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 10:39 PM
1

Your line was a bit weak. She didn't respond afterwards did she? I would've spun it into her owing me one and that she'd have a chance to replay me over a bite to eat sometime/later on. Bit of a playful ice breaker and opens you up to getting something going with her with minimal investment. If she declines? k then. Edit: And for the love of it all, Smilies and Emoji's aren't even to be used Ironically.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 10:32 PM
5

You're very welcome, and whatever you don't don't take this personally, You're still young and if you keep up swimming, schooling, and learning the tenets of TRP you'll have girls like her by the droves. Don't sweat this one L and also read and Internalize what /u/WhyDoIEvenBother22 said.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 08:20 PM
14

Compare "She loves him and her feelings aren't changing" To "She says she loves me too and doesn't think her feelings for me will change either." We've got a definitive She'll never not love him and a maybe she'll never not love you too.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 08:11 PM
17

This. She told you she loves another guy and her feelings aren't changing? Anything less than a soft next is being too nice. She being in love with him and you being special to her is women speak for you only being her second best.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 07:46 PM
8

How can he plate what he can't even bed? What's in it for him? She's got him out to dry, completely in her frame, and that frame is Anti-Slut defense of steroids. To continue with her would be to disrespect yourself and your time.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 06:40 AM
16

Next her. That's Women speak for "I got railed left and right by alpha's who never in my wildest dreams would've settled for a slut like me, and I'm so glad I could find someone the opposite of who I'm attracted to that is willing to commit to me without me having to take my clothes off!" Next, Next, Next. And as for your little "Talk to her to try and change her mind" bit. Why? Realize this, if you bring it up, if you try to talk yourself into some pussy after she's already established that she…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 05:15 AM
12

She's shopping around, bro, I'd suggest you do the same. 6 months into an LTR and shes giving her number out at bars? If that doesn't make you laugh a little..
/r/askTRP05/01/16 07:50 PM
3

Haha, don't even get me started on that. I've heard, Anal, Oral, Handjob, Orgies (I shit you not), and essentially anything that was PiV didn't count, women will go to great lengths to conceal that n count. Women will trickle truth tell us that they were the recipient of a Snuff Bukkake gangbang yet they're not a slut.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 01:08 AM
7

If the shoe were on the other foot, She wouldn't tell you the truth, and from the looks of things she isn't. I'd tell her to stow it, it's none of her concern. But a few caveats, the ex boyfriends (plural) who she never slept with because she's religious. I laughed a little, she's full of it, what are the odds that she had multiple boyfriends and they didn't fuck at any point in that relationship because she was religious? You're fucking her now aren't you? and you aren't married to her or even …
/r/askTRP04/01/16 07:16 PM
1

Similar yet not the same. MGTOW from what I understand, is the part of the Manisphere that has picked up their ball and taken it home, It's the refusal to play the game of modern women, in favor of living your life the way you want to. TRP to me shares the same sentiment about living your life the way you want to, but is also akin to finding a cheat sheet or something that not only lets you counter the bullshit of modern females, but use their own bullshit in your favor. I'd go as far as calling…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 06:59 PM
19

Wait... hold up. Girlfriend of 3 Years and You've been living together for 3 Years!? I feel for you brother. I'm gonna be brutally honest with you, it is VERY likely that you utterly repulse her, the way I see it, if you've been together for 3 years, and living together the entire time, she probably sees you as so far under her thumb she can't be bothered to respect you, and your 6 months of TRP is completely lost on her. Her NEVER inviting you to any of her events and flaking on yours is a clea…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 01:34 AM
6

I'm gonna just go out on a limb here and say, That all depends on you, man. Different things are acceptable to different people, all depending on their own ideology. Maybe you aren't bothered by her having enough sausage in her to qualify her as a hot dog packaging plant. Maybe you are. Maybe you aren't bothered by her smoking and drinking, maybe you are. It all depends on you. Now as a general rule though, If she claims to have been in a string of bad relationships before, yet she's never portr…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 12:50 AM
2

I don't see the sense in it. Never was much for alt accounts, nor do I care about some beta looking through my post history for ways to discredit what I'm saying, because honestly, if you have time to do that instead of, I dunno, actually shoot what I say down with some kind logic, I think that time could be better spent looking for ways to unfuck yourself.. Quite frankly, I would implore anyone, if you truly dislike the subs I'm posting in, which is my prerogative, they should do the rest of re…
/r/askTRP01/01/16 10:01 PM
10

your girl has three dicks in her. Minimum.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 12:43 AM
6

I agree with this 100%, but OP does seem to have a decent amount of respect for himself and his time. He chose working over replying to the skank, knows the behavior is unacceptable and isn't gonna stand for it, he's on a good course so far. However... and I see this too often on this sub, the ever present "It's only a first offense, should I be mad?", The answer should always be Yes. If you're bothered by her action, that's your gut nerve pinching the shit out of your scrot. One time is all it …
/r/askTRP31/12/15 11:40 PM
1

You think he would know any Red flags only knowing her for a month? I have my doubts, anyone here for more than a few hours knows that a woman can take her bullshit with her to the grave and it could take, months to years, or being slapped with divorce papers before you start putting the pieces together. And at the rate they're moving they'll be married by spring (And he still wouldn't know much about her). OP, I second Tower's notion here, you may want to put some pressure on those brakes. At 6…
/r/askTRP19/12/15 02:16 AM
1

Personally, I've been so wrapped up in my own work that I couldn't bring myself to care about the holidays. My LTR is content enough with just spending the holidays and bring in the new years with me, and I feel that's that way it should be.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 08:50 PM
1

Ah, sorry Bro, it was way in the AM when I typed that. Anyway, don't over think if your game sucks or not, if they aren't chasing, no big deal. Part of text game is maintaining the same IDGAF (Even if you do, because face it, we aren't rational and logical 100% of the time.) attitude and abundance mentality you would have during your normal Daygame/Clubgame, etc. Just be interesting, if you ended on a good note, and you have the number, assume you've partially got the green light, but look at it…
/r/askTRP13/12/15 08:13 PM
2

It's just ridiculous to use texting for anything other than setting up dares. I'd go as far as saying, that's it's only purpose unless of course: a) You're talking to your LTR/Main Platr and even then, it... Still should be for setting up dates, or misc things. b) people you aren't trying to fuck (read: friends). You could be Adonis incarnate and it wouldn't mean much via text, it's meant to set things up, not supplicate things like in person game, kino, etc. But if you must text, I'd try to kee…
/r/askTRP13/12/15 08:41 AM
4

Me: ;) Strike: 1 Next Day Me: Youre lame And you must be 5, Strike: 2 All the meaningless and incessant You text her first mess, cut that out. You're chasing her, let her chase you. Also the bit about adding value to texts... No, just no. You phrased it nicely, center your texts towards meet ups, don't try to use text to build attraction, it comes off as cringy.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 07:57 AM
5

You make a valid point and I agree that much, but my response was in context to the post. The guy changes his ways (read: becomes a beta), because a post wall woman tells him all his relationships were a failure because he wasn't a beta, and that he needs to become a beta if he wants chaddy's leftover, Which is horrible horrible advice. Now if she's right on the money about getting your automobile situated, on a level that's more than self interest (I. E. a purely objective helping hand), great.…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 09:37 PM
4

I sort of see where you're coming from but, I don't know how often this can be said... Consenting to sex is not the same as consenting to a pregnancy. They're vastly different things. It's BP as fuck to think that way. Yeah, there are risks with sex, diseases not withstanding, being on the hook for 18 years for something you couldn't consent to is fucked up from all sides you can look at. The laws aren't changing, because why would they, they'd rather have you by the nads than to have to pay for…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 08:35 PM
1

Did you have to take advice from a fish to catch one?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 08:19 PM
1

Yes, you are hanging around the wrong people. If you're hearing that from guys, they're beta. If you're hearing it from women, they're lying. Quite frankly, unless you're in a serious and committed relationship, who does it hurt? Better question, if you aren't in a serious or committed relationship, why should you care what anyone else thinks of your nightly escapades. I probably would continue hooking up and keep it to myself, from this point on.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 08:25 PM
2

He's a human pincushion, and by you being the only one nice to him, he's taking your kindness as a sign of weakness. That's a bitch-like quality, treat him as such. Nothing wrong with being cordial and professional to people, doesn't mean you have to treat them any different than anyone else though, if he wants to be that one person to turn your kindness around and act like a grade A "Fuck boy", don't even offer him your basic kindness, but always be professional.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 04:57 PM
2

Which is the answer I came here to see but didn't until I came across this one... Which is sad. I don't even know why people are taking OPs question so seriously, it's either bad trolling or some white Knight looking to cross swords, no point in that kind of upward battle. The answer is right in their face and they're trying to look at it from a feminized and politically correct lens. I want so badly to present the Master Key vs Shitty lock analogy but even that might go way over their head.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 04:45 PM
3

Forget her, soft next until she comes around. in the future I'd make her squirm a bit of she hits you up, let a day or two pass and respond only If you feel like it. And don't forget to play the field, not saying GFTOW but it's always an option.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 11:25 PM
1

Then well, happy trails, I'm all for you putting her schedule first (wait, no I'm not, not unless its opposite day), but if you know she has nothing better to occupy her time and she still isn't beating down your door, Next her and find someone that will.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 10:46 PM
1

Given the context it can be a playful tug pulling you into her frame, with the whole "what am I going to do with you" thing, I imagine a someone trying to garner obedience, like you're being a bit of a handful and they want to reign you in to whatever they deem, manageable or acceptable. By you flipping it, it asserts that you're in control and she'll do what you say do, not the other way around. You do this stern enough to show you aren't budging, yet playful enough that you don't come off butt…
/r/askTRP16/10/15 08:42 PM
-1

Go with your first instinct man, flip the hell out of it. Her "I don't know what I'm going to do with you." You "I've got a few ideas, A little bj, some anal, maybe some choking, the sky's the limit" with the best shit eating grin you can manage, without breaking eye contact.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 08:35 PM
10

She's betafying the shit out of you, man. She can't be bothered to come over to your place but she wants to talk to you about her mind numbing day to day bullshit? What's even worse is it didn't seem to click in your head how unacceptable that is, makes my stomach turn. Put it this way, if I were you, the moment she said she couldn't make it, I'd be wrapping up that phone call and start looking for someone who would. The time you spend listening to her drone on and on about the typical "Do you k…
/r/askTRP16/10/15 08:28 PM
1

Go if only to pick up your shit, this is a weird question, what's holding you back? If she's fucking the ex you can still pick up your board and go surfing so long as you don't give a fuck. So why give a shit?
/r/askTRP15/10/15 02:16 AM
2

Next the fuck out of her and make an appointment at your local clinic, like... Yesterday. Yikes.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 02:09 AM
1

All I can say was, you missed an ass load of red flags, and you paid the price for it. I'm not about to go into a long winded speech about how shitty your relationship seemed from a spectators perspective, all I can say is, Forget about her, stop thinking about her, she's nothing, less than worthless, she was good for one thing, she was a learning experience. Take the way you feel right now and channel it positively, lift, eat better, go out and do what makes you happy, stay away from her social…
/r/askTRP30/09/15 12:37 AM
2

Not in the situation you've put yourself in. What good is dread when you've actually cheated on her. You've already had your "Guy who cried faithful" event, you can't feign infidelity when she knows you're capable of it, if you even try she'll probably just dump you again, plain and simple. You have very little power here, she's not gonna fuck you until she feels she can trust you, which from personal experience may never come, women can be that vindictive. You're fighting an uphill battle for v…
/r/askTRP29/09/15 03:25 PM
2

...and when they can't they settle for betas. You put yourself in this AF/BB situation, Bro. You're so far in her frame, she's already picking out dresses for YOU to wear. You're now her rebound beta bitch. See yourself out of this relationship, she's knows you're walking on eggshells to make up for cheating on her and she's gonna milk this until you won't stand for it. And what's even worse, you can't confront the hamster, because you're the one who fucked up last time.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 03:04 PM
1

Therein lies the balance, act selfless, empathic, appear to be every bit the Saint, all the while you have your own agenda, it... really is manipulation at its finest. But I get the feeling people would rather be used in that way than outright chewed on by a psychopath.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 02:54 PM
4

Dark Triad is an extreme of a spectrum so it would make sense that it would have an opposite. Theoretically, a "Light" triad personality type would be about Humility/Alturism, selflessness and interested in the betterment of others, at the cost of having very little interest in their own lives. Think, Dogged Nice guy, minus the beta, they aren't nice for the sake of getting laid, they're nice simply because they are, and wouldn't be looking for that kindness to be reciprocated.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 08:25 AM
2

Oh dear god, she's trying to beta you up and get a provider while she preps a branch swing... Dude, she got way too comfortable with you and now she shopping around, proceed with caution, this might not be salvagable
/r/askTRP28/09/15 04:53 PM
2

You don't do it through text next time, that's for damn sure. You meet up and escalate whenever possible. Trying to garner desire though text is stupid.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 04:43 PM
3

If it bothers you, soft next her. Plain and simple. She wants to act like a middle-schooler head over heels for the first Beta to show her kindness, that's on her. Bringing it up would only come off as insecure. To put it in perspective, you laid pipe and all she can think about is Him, do I have to say anything else.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 03:52 PM
2

The 2/1 rule in replying works well enough, you gave her too much conversation. I get that you meant well and tried to set up something with her, but with the rate she's moving for her age, she's gotta be dizzy... She's riding the CC hard, no doubt, you have to approach someone like that differently, don't express too much interest, subtly express that you'd like to pursue something sexual with her, and stop being needy in your texts.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 03:07 PM
5

Lets not forget she has another kid on the way but is a drinking party girl in every instance, if that doesn't say a lot about her... I'm not sure what will. She's not a plate, she shouldn't even be a blip on the radar, she's a poor decision away from ruining someone's life, OP don't let it be yours.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 02:50 PM
3

First, I want you to remove a few assumptions from your brain. I have a strong feeling she's still a virgin. I would honestly never put this past any females, back In my beta days, I was burned when I found out that LTRs have sucked off or done anal with every guy they've dated while they made me wait. Case in point, Virginity means different things to different people, its just better to assume she's done SOMETHING in her 19 years, a woman will never be honest with you about this. & this I woul…
/r/askTRP28/09/15 01:49 PM
15

Pftt, Continue the dread. She met a gaggle of betas through Xbox Live, and she's probably enjoying all the validation that comes with being a "GamerGrrl". She probably hasn't even met the kid in real life, I'd honestly be amused and find it adorably stupid of her to even say something like she has a crush on him, what is she, 12 years old? She is right about one thing though, you probably aren't challenging her enough, I'd start doing that, but I wouldn't throw any compliments her way unless of …
/r/askTRP28/09/15 01:23 PM
0

Plus the implication that whatever he's doing, in her eyes, he still isn't "amazing" yet. That's some condescending shit right there. It reeks of her talking down to him.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:48 PM
6

Yknow, it hard to really gauge her intent without knowing how you were when you were dating her. The first sentence makes you out to be a man she desires, the last one makes it seem like she's trying to lock down a provider, but its hard to say really, maybe she's trying to get back into the Girlfriend-zone. I'd play it safe and respond with something short and simple, and wouldn't put waaaay too much thought into it, a simple "k, see you then." might suffice.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:21 PM
6

That's a nuclear option, my friend. I hope you're prepared for the fallout, because she's probably gonna go batshit crazy and use every single means to get back at you, including mutual friends, etc. Plus its really butthurt, I get that she cheated on you and she's using you, but damn, the object of it all is to be a better man, and be better than this. If she cheated on you and you're still pissed, stop fucking her and go no contact, sheesh.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:11 PM
1

Dude, don't sweat it. Take a few deep breaths, grab a beer or spirit of your choice, and think about it, whenever you feel yourself caving for commitment, think about how stupid it would be to go through with it, go lift or blow a load and THEN think about it with a clear head.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:51 AM
1

In the title alone you just noted a few Red Flags that are absolute deal breakers. No! Fwb that if you want a piece but anything more is more effort that it's worth.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:12 AM
2

I'm fwb's with a crazy chick from my classes and shits starting to hit the fan. Shitting where we eat I see, but it doesn't end there. Very early on we both agreed on not looking for a relationship and on being purely platonic friends who get each others rocks off every now and then. Women are 9 parts empty chatter and 1 part "actually mean what the hell they say.", and that isn't to say the former can't take up the whole. Women can be territorial as all hell and you seem to figure that out by t…
/r/askTRP27/09/15 06:41 PM
3

To add to this, don't seem butt hurt when you leave, find a reason to excuse yourself and break off.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 06:25 PM
1

Of course she would, you didn't screw up the date, she did. Glad you're thinking of drinking responsibly at your place for the next date. Don't forget to close this time.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 06:03 PM
1

I just want to say, you didn't do anything wrong, except well.. Dealing with a girl who can't hold her liquor. Other than that, I'd say everything up until she got drunk was great. In the future, don't go drinking with women... Seriously. I've seen some shit in my day, women getting shit faced, getting taken back to your flat, then they either puke up the place or get psycho and get the urge to break shit... Don't be the guy getting in that kind of situation.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 04:45 PM
2

Yes, yes you did. Stealthcreeper is spot on In how you should've handled it, you kept the ball in her court, which can seem needy. You put too much emphasis on her and her schedule instead of taking the reigns and setting up in a way that she couldn't really flake off. I would next her, complete radio silence until she initiates and you feel you really want to pursue something with her. But as it stands, you were pretty needy man, don't even sweat it, let her cool down.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 04:37 PM
-1

I'm not a legal advisor by any means, but I would think a woman leaving the bar with you to go to your personal place of dwelling is implying consent, but even still there's always a way to spin this to make a victim out of em. I don't care what the laws of California (I'm under the assumption it's California, so I apologize if the abbreviation meant Canada or something.) are but I'd record audio, and do whatever necessary to protect myself should things go south. She can't cry rape if you have …
/r/askTRP27/09/15 04:10 PM
2

To be fair. Nowadays, at any point even a sober woman can withdraw consent and yell rape. It's not just stone drunk women anymore.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 03:59 PM
-1

Depends on what you want out of it, You could flip the script and put her on the spot and show her how it feels with a simple, "How much do you weigh?" you can also phrase it playfully and transactional "I'll tell you if you tell me how much you weigh." both get the point across fine and make her qualify herself for your answer. Worse case scenario, you offend her (but who the hell cares?), she was offended by you asking a personal question and that's the point.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 03:56 PM
1

If that's the case then they're trying to pull you into their frame. (Which is fuck all retarded, you don't try to come into someone else's circle and shake shit up, that could end terribly) I take one look at the one guy trying to white Knight in front of your female friends and It's painfully obvious he percieves you as alpha (or at least more than himself, because you've got your pre-selection on simply walking in to the venue with an attractive enough female.), He tried to out alpha you, and…
/r/askTRP27/09/15 03:09 PM
13

Ugh, classic case of overcompesating poser trying to build himself up by putting others down. In an extreme case, I'd say align yourself with better people/dont go to shitty venues. But if you find yourself around these kinds of guys, I'd say don't fight then, every man of discipline (especially in martial arts.) knows to de-escalate the situation before it gets to that point. I would though, point out the next time you go out and this happens, calmly point out how hard he's trying to put you do…
/r/askTRP27/09/15 02:52 PM
1

I'd say, be cordial, like you said don't invest too much, if anything at all as you may never see these people again, but at the same time, don't be the asshole trying way too hard to be the life of the party. Also, treat it like a game, build rapport with who you want, but don't be all needy about it. Stay in your own frame, and enjoy yourself, it's a fuckin party, dude.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 02:15 PM
10

When I try to talk about this subject she goes crazy and distant and does not reply and she gets angry saying "I did not sleep with anyone I do not want to fuck with anyone. I am talking with friends" That's a textbook case of suspiciously specific denial, and not to play devils advocate but we were all "friends" with our LTRs at one point were we not? She might be talking to quite a few guys that want to fuck her and she's deluded herself into thinking its just friendly conversation til she get…
/r/askTRP25/09/15 03:37 PM
3

Now, here lies the problem, Women are extremely territorial. (...and hypergamous, narcissistic, solipsistic, the list goes on...) They want to have their cake and eat it, the hilarious thing about it though is women are always doing it regardless of how they hamster it. "Well if you can do it, why can't I?" "well sweetheart, because you already are, you've got a legion of orbiters and more attention than you know what to do with, you could walk outside after an argument and land on a dick. You'v…
/r/askTRP25/09/15 01:47 PM
1

|Staring I'm sorry what... Why should you care, like at all. We've all been guilty of staring at one point or another, would you like Malcolm Mateguard to come and gouge your eyes out the next time you do? The fact that she's pointing it out to you in such an attention slut fashion is to get a rise out of you, clear shit test. That's poor form, and a trend with the modern woman, she wants to be fought over, don't buy into the bullshit. As for dancing, you need to sack up, don't try to defend her…
/r/askTRP25/09/15 12:57 PM
12

Move on, immediately. No contact, nothing but radio static, as far as you're concerned, you have nothing left to communicate, bud. Closure only exists in Hollywood movies. And you go on about how you believe she hasn't done anything physical with the guy? Boyo is that a crock. She absolutely has probably fucked him and only a simp would believe otherwise. "And be her "safety net" somebody she can talk to, and I can bang her." That is THE... most beta thing I've ever heard. You want the Alpha fuc…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 10:56 PM
2

And notice how it only became rape after she realized he'd never marry her. The hamster just can't bring itself to leave empty handed it seems.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 12:16 PM
2

I know, I actually read through the thread on relationships, the OP is playing every beta card in the book. I'm just glad majority of the comments are on his side, that's a small victory to the usual way /r/relationships condones behavior like this.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 12:34 AM
3

Patrice had a good grasp of RP but He also some pretty dumb ideals, he claimed he'd let other guys fuck his girlfriend simply to build up a tolerance to seeing shit like that, but to be honest... He had plates, so it might just be a case of him not giving a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 11:21 PM
1

But what are the odds of /r/relationships making up stories with RP/BP undertones simply to stir the pot? /s Sorry, I'll show myself out.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 10:38 PM
12

I want to believe its reddit fiction, but its so perfectly believable but it reeks of BP Cuck fantasy... And his responses, priceless... The fact that he states that he "called her out" via email, which to any uplugged man, is probably the most beta thing that could be done, and whined about how devastated her fucking his friend made him feel, brings it into cringe-worthy territory... He shows a tiny bit of promise, a glimmer of hope that he see's the real issue at hand, he called her out on her…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 07:59 PM
13

I'm sorry but... did he basically volunteer to get cuck'd and then... suck it up? I'm dumbfounded people like him exist... Please tell me there's some kind of update where Him and his SO are at least separated.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 07:34 PM
1

Me Personally? no, but he was certainly considering it. So she's gotta have some qualities he likes about her, if she's thus far been good enough for him to want to up her plate status
/r/askTRP27/01/15 06:50 PM
15

Now, I'll explain it to you the way the men in my life drilled it into my head. "If a women will lie about the small things, that's your cue to cut and run" (paraphrasing) And then look at the way she reacted to you getting the truth out of her, she did it in a true AWALT fashion, tossed accountability and agency right out of her hands, as if she had no dealings with what came out of her mouth and it was your fault for not being an idiot and falling for whatever she was pulling. That right there…
/r/askTRP27/01/15 12:56 PM
1

You can control your frame by saying/doing what you mean and standing by it, even if what you say or do is dead wrong. She's 18? Then she's at the age where she's wet behind the ears, probably doesn't even know what she wants out of life, You have all the opportunity in the world to mold her into who YOU want her to be, especially if you're willing to LTR her, and potentially raise kids with her. If you're game is decent, which I gauge it is, if shes as in love with you as you say she is, she'll…
/r/askTRP26/01/15 08:12 PM
7

She would ask me not to use condoms, claiming they hurt her or that she was somehow allegic. This is a red flag if I ever saw one, but wait! there's more... I am almost certian it is mine, if she is in fact pregnant. Said no expectant father ever, initially She knew we had an open relationship, and I told her she was free to go after other cock, but I dont think she was interested. Then you haven't quite swallowed the whole of TRP, YOU basically gave her a loaded gun, and for all you know, she u…
/r/askTRP26/01/15 07:58 PM
2

It's pretty simple, Women don't know what they want or like, their main impulse is tingles and feels. They like him for some reason, they don't know why on a more than subconscious level so they default to him being good looking. I've heard girls musing over less than average looking men with money, doesn't surprise me one bit. Kim Dot Com was banging models at one point and he's the male equivalent of a land whale, but his bank account probably makes him look like some kind of God to hypergamy …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 09:29 PM
0

Not going on a tirade about the looks or lack thereof of another dude but, everytime I see him peddling a film, I'm immediately reminded of Bill Nye for some reason. That aside, you hit the nail on the head, Money + Fame = giny tingles. He could look like Flava Flav and there would still be hamsters spinning about looks not mattering as long as there's a pay out.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 07:26 PM
2

It's not even so much reinventing yourself, sure that helps but you reinvent yourself for you, not pussy. Plus you have to be mindful that every woman is hitting that wall, sooner or later. If you can keep your SMV higher than hers (Which it has to be... Unless you're a BB, I'm which case you have bigger issues), and retain the option to walk, it doesn't even matter what strategy you use.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 02:54 PM
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