Il start with why I'm asking this. A former coworker of mine hit me up last night around 4 am. She saw my snap story. We chit chatted back and forth a bit about college and work and I asked her if she wanted to meet up for coffee since she's home from college. She replied sure with a bunch of exclamation points and then said she'd lmk. Yeah watch what women do not what they say. Also she's a HB 9 easily. My friend thinks that I should keep texting her and asking her when she wants to meet up instead of waiting about a week if she doesn't text me and ask if we're still on.

I'm sure she won't hit me up. She's most likely just saying that. Women are not forward like men. My friend is also the complete BP. I tell him that shows neediness but he views it as shooting your shot and going and getting what one wants.

Am I right or is he?

Also I'm sure she won't hmu. So that means I have to do the initiating but then again that shows neediness bc she already told me she'd lmk. It isn't a big deal bc I have other women I'm just wondering who's right here.