I’m writing this just after a night out.

Ever since I’ve adopted TRP principles I’ve become a lot more attractive. I’ve always been blessed with genetics in that I've got an attractive face and build. But trp has made me more attractive in the way I portray myself to women.

What I’m struggling with is generating a fun vibe. When I’m out I’ll get girls opening me or a bunch of looks from girls. I’ll go approach with something situational but the conversation kinda fizzles out. I’m not sure why?

I know how to have fun at the bar. I’m usually dancing and laughing with friends. I’m a very sarcastic dude. That’s what makes me laugh and have fun. It’s just naturally how I am. And I find that when I use my sarcasm to open women, it doesn’t go well.

For example, tonight the DJ was playing some doo wop shit from the 1950s and I walked up to a girl with a big smile and was like “hey do you want to grind?” Obviously I’m not looking to grind to a song from the 1950s. But she didn’t get the joke, scoffed at me , and walked on. I need to figure out a way to have fun and be less polarizing.

Another opener I used was on this girl who was eyeing me up but looked incredibly bored, “hey you look like you’re having a fantastic time” she smiled and didn’t say anything. I got her name and introduced myself. But she want giving me much else so I moved on.

How do you guys keep up energetic fun vibes? What do you guys talk about?