Getting excluded from group?

throwaway4target-yay · 2018-03-02T19:07:57+00:00

You're probably fucked. It might be best to cut your losses and just move on. Honestly they would probably respect you more if right after you were excluded you cut ties with them.

What's your goal with this? Learning dance? If you're at a decent university there should be alternate venues which will enable you to get what you are looking for. If you are just searching out a social outlet to make friends and meet girls, again, there are plenty of other ways to facilitate that. Join literally any club, ect.

blackedoutfast · 2018-03-02T21:27:11+00:00

the other guys are trying to fuck the girls, they don't want you around being lame or trying to cockblock them.

asapzombie · 2018-03-02T18:34:40+00:00

They don’t want you around. Sorry.

dr_warlock · 2018-03-03T00:37:14+00:00

Never try to be with someone that doesn't want you around. That's forcing it and never works. At best you'll be 'tolerated'. Have some self-respect. Take the hint and never call them again. This isn't some business venture where money is on the line. It doesn't matter. Move on. Act like you never noticed. Never argue about it. Don't give them dirty looks. Nada.

chazthundergut · 2018-03-02T22:31:59+00:00

Also stop for a moment and reflect upon your behavior and how you interact with your peers.

You're probably being needy/ annoying/ overaggressive/ or something else.

People won't call you out on stuff like that most of time. But they will exclude you from group activities.

I'd take a look at yourself, and also see what kind of a friend you've been to the other guys. Do you talk to them? Are you friendly?

nardwannabe · 2018-03-02T18:33:18+00:00

Doesn't sound like you offer any value. Unless they are jealous because you take all the poon from them (which I doubt), they don't invite you because you don't have anything to offer of value to them. Increase your SMV.

adamantiumvibranium · 2018-03-04T07:32:07+00:00

This is probably the only time having a dgaf attitude actually works. If people don't want you around kick them to the curb. Make up your own plans and this game to do eventually instead of you coming to them they will be coming to you asking to hang out.

TheLoneProspector · 2018-03-02T19:24:53+00:00

This is probably the gayest thread I've read on this sub

Title	Getting excluded from group?
Author	salsamasterer
Upvotes	3
Comments	16
Date	March 2, 2018 6:25 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/81ge4j/getting_excluded_from_group/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/getting-excluded-from-group.124952 https://theredarchive.com/post/124952

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