I've never fucked a virgin and I'm seeing a girl right now who is one. We've gone out twice and she's let me feel her up, suck tits, make out, hand down the back of her pants, hands on her thighs and rubbing her though her pants, (basically tons of kino and firsts for her) but time and time again she won't let me put my hand down the front of her pants. She moves my hand and makes a disapproving sound every time.

I've never faced this much resistance before. I know she's nervous, I'm only the second guy she's even kissed. But how do I get further? I thought about verbally reassuring her during a makeout session (something like "let me make you feel good") but honestly am not sure that's the right move. Do I need to keep doing what I'm doing until one day she lets me finger her? So far I've ignored/not mentioned her push back on my advances, acting as if I don't care.

Uncharted territory here boys, what do.