I’ve come into a situation with a plate that I don’t know how to deal with.

There’s this plate that I was talking to for a little while, and after hooking up 5 or 6 times over the course of a month and a half, and her bringing up becoming exclusive multiple times, I was ready to consider upgrading her from being a plate to a relationship. Then, after some health complications with her mom that lead to her having to leave our last meetup, she messaged me about her getting home alright and then promptly ignored any attempts that I’ve made at rescheduling or communication at all. Not to say that it changes the situation at all, but we’re both in high school and I was her first, her pushing for a relationship and then promptly ghosting me doesn’t really sit right and even if it doesn’t change anything, I want some sense of closure.

It’s been a week since those events transpired, how can I address the situation without coming off as a punk bitch.