I’m posting this in a pretty raged state right now but I’ve got to get this off my chest Advice is welcome.

I’m 25 and Idk Wtf has gone wrong. I’ve followed the red pill for a solid 4 years now. I became a lifting junkie, broke out of my shell. I had a good amount of success on my own in college and started following RP towards the end of it. I kept pulling and genuinely felt like i made positive changes. I interact and can read women decently. I’d spin plates and eventually had a pretty great gf for about 7 months.

Last year lifting fell off. I lost a ton of motivation after a nasty shoulder injury. I’m still not 100% but I’m still relatively fit as I’ve been lifting for 8 years. Since I broke up with my ex about 7 months ago I’ve hit a major lull.

Women flake on me left and right. I had a plate for a month that I couldn’t deal with anymore so I let her go. Just this week alone I’ve been flaked on 3 times. Depression keeps creeping in but I fight it. My anxiety is under control however so it’s not like I’m acting needy towards anyone. I’m career focused, spend time training my puppy, volunteer and try to go out and be social a few times a week.

I just don’t understand what I’m doing wrong all of a sudden and it’s frustrating the fuck out of me. I feel like I’m hitting a low even though everything outside of this problem has been great. My career is moving a long just fine, I have a nice apartment in a good area just outside of the city. I don’t do as much night life as a lot of my friends have moved or turned into lazy ass druggies. So I guess improving my social circle could help?

End rant. If you’ve got something for me to think about I’d like to hear it. Tired of wasting nights getting flaked on.