Recently swallowed the redpill and starting lurking around here a lot. All the stories of girls cheating had me paranoid about my own wife. All I can see is her cheating somehow with her co-workers.

I have access to her phone and she knows that I go through her cell. Recently she deleted some messages from her cell. When I asked her about it, she confessed that she deleted the messages, coz she didnt want me to think that she was chatting with her co-worker all the time.

Earlier I wouldnt have thought much about it, because we both love each other a lot. She respects me and we have great emotional connection and physical sex.

But after the redpill I'm getting paranoid and I think its rubbing on her. How do I stop being paranoid and yet follow the red pill.