Getting stuck on escalating

IrishGoodbye4 · 2018-07-26T02:34:07+00:00

Are you getting nervous or overthinking it at that point? Could be the culprit.

forbesno1 · 2018-07-26T06:18:35+00:00

Assuming you're keeping it natural and following your male instincts, this a) ideally shouldn't be a problem, because they're so in your frame that they just want to be with you, physically and time wise and your SMV should be high enough; assuming a), b) logistics may not be working out, you may be in public etc. plausible deniability is king, don't only think of it physically, think of it socially, as in, have you given her an excuse to continue; c) most importantly, even if a) and b) are absent, the most important thing is objective indifference. It matters ZERO to you that you're not escalating further, she's just then a fun make out, you should never show that you care about fucking her at that point. This goes in terms of actions in 3 ways: you become a psychopath and don't care about her pleasure and consent to such an extent that you end up sexually assaulting or raping her. Risky, and not advised, for your own sake. The second is that you make it clear to her that you're here to fuck and you want to fuck, pretty much in so many words and actions, and be ready to be rejected and enjoy yourself either way. Third, kiss her on the cheek, wish her a good night and go game other girls or call up another plate. 3rd is highly recommend, but not always possible. If possible, do that. Nothing displays higher value. If you're sufficiently comfortable, go for 2 and get comfortably sexual (taking control of her body in subtle ways, lots of smile and cuteness).

Title	Getting stuck on escalating
Author	stergaron9876
Upvotes	5
Comments	4
Date	July 26, 2018 2:16 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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