Hello. I am new here and just learning about the redpill. I( 33M) met my girlfriend (29F) 3months ago and everything has been going great, as it should be at this point. Anyways she had told me she was going to India with a friend of hers in April for about 2 weeks. She told me this probably on our first date. I told her where I went when I went to India a few years ago and what it was like. Was a nice thing for us to have something in common. Anyways, a couple days ago I was joking around saying men and women cant be friends without sexual tension and she tells me "by the way, there is someone else coming with me and my friend. Its my friend "DC(male)." Turns out she used to sleep with this guy a few years back , but they have just been friends since. My immediate reaction was "um what? you told me it was just you and your female friend. This whole time you knew DC was coming why did you not tell me" Her answer was that she knew I wouldn't like it that he was coming, and didnt want to cause problems. She said she felt like I would have broken things off if she had told me earlier. The reality is Im more pissed about something being hidden from me. Well needless to say Im not happy. She booked the trip prior to us dating - fine. But we probably discussed what she was going to do on the trip dozens of times since we've been together. She had plenty of oppurtunities to tell me who was going on the trip, but she misled me. Thats the part that I am most uncomfortable with - the lying. I feel foolish - we have discussed the trip many times and not once did she mention this other guy. She says she has no attraction to this guy and that he's basically like her brother. I have not heard his name come up once since we started dating, and have not met him. Oh and not sure it matters - I've seen shit like this happen to friends and other guys that are "nice" guys in the past. Never dealt with anything like this before myself. I am reasonably "alpha" - great job, lift weights, athletic, tall etc. I am in control and set boundaries. Perhaps I made some mistakes with this girl, or she is just devious by nature.

Anyways I'm pretty sure what I'm going to do, but would love to hear your guys advice. Thanks